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Christany
10-07-2010, 09:54 PM
Nope, I say it like it is.
Then don't get upset anymore when others tell you like it is. Respect goes both ways.
lopaw
10-07-2010, 09:59 PM
why? i didn't find some of those responses surprising considering the relatively short period of time. a large majority of women were still mothers and housewives in the 60's. Title IX, Roe v Wade and the proposed Equal Rights Amendment didn't come around until the 70's. my point is that before that time most women did to some degree choose men on the basis of whether or not he could provide for a family.
But that was then, and this is now.
I'd expect that the dancers posting here are in their 20's or 30's, so many of them would have grown up well past those early years of "women's lib". They would never have known the days of Donna Reed and Leave it to Beaver, so they would't base their impressions of women's roles on those types of (ahem) role models. Growing up in the 1980's & 90's would present a whole different standard of women's options for them that weren't generally available in the 50's, 60's or 1970's.
Christany
10-07-2010, 10:04 PM
But that was then, and this is now.
I'd expect that the dancers posting here are in their 20's or 30's, so many of them would have grown up well past those early years of "women's lib". They would never have known the days of Donna Reed and Leave it to Beaver, so they would't base their impressions of women's roles on those types of (ahem) role models. Growing up in the 1980's & 90's would present a whole different standard of women's options for them that weren't generally available in the 50's, 60's or 1970's.
Hehe, good point. I think the most exposure I had to Donna Reed was from Nick at Nite. The whole vacuuming in high heels thing was more of a novelty thing to me.
Kellydancer
10-07-2010, 10:04 PM
then don't get upset anymore when others tell you like it is. Respect goes both ways.
Read what i wrote.
Yes she'll be an old hag and so will I and so will you. The only difference is I accept it. I rely on more than my looks.
Christany
10-07-2010, 10:18 PM
Read what i wrote.
Yes she'll be an old hag and so will I and so will you. The only difference is I accept it. I rely on more than my looks.
Actually, I did. I don't intend on being a "hag." I intend on being a refined older woman who reflects fondly on the history of my life, and appreciates the life I still have left to live. Please take a moment to read the definition of "hag."
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/hag
hag
1 /hæg/ Show Spelled[hag] Show IPA
–noun
1.
an ugly old woman, esp. a vicious or malicious one.
2.
a witch or sorceress.
3.
a hagfish.
If you choose to be "vicious" or "malicious" then that is up to you. You can also make the choice to be the opposite. But don't expect others to exercise sensitivities to your job situation and some of the other issues you've expressed, if you can't exercise the same in return. I think you know that there are plenty of people here that have tried to be delicate and conscious of that, myself included. Don't you think you can also exercise the same?
laurcon
10-07-2010, 10:26 PM
First off, regardless of whatever standards you may have for yourself, just by breathing you'll attract 90% of the men (and the other 10% are gay), not just the "successful" ones. Just sayin'.
...
There's a lot of "pretend hot" on the pink side. Then you post a pic and pretty much everyone knows they're fighting for second place. You know it, I know it, and everyone who's seen a picture of you knows it. Let's not pretend otherwise. The fact that you're still dancing and haven't already hooked up with your SD/wealthier-than-Croesus husband is the only surprising thing.
CP
I'm not fighting for anything, this certainly is not a competition. She obviously looks great, no one's putting her down, but I know for a fact there are straight men out there that would not be interested in her because of the large implants and lips. I think they're perfection, but guys in certain parts of the country can be really really into girls who are totally natural. We can easily not pretend you (and a very large % of others) don't think she's the hottest chick on SW, but honestly my type is just a little different. Look at all the posts in the "Perfect Bod" thread, they're not ALL Zinaida look alikes. I just hate when people make it a competition instead of just enjoying what everyone has to offer.
Also, maybe she is with a great SD and wants to continue to make her own money camming? When I gave up work to be completely supported by a man I was unhappy, I prefer to be completely supported by him and have my own place and work a little for my own money too.
mortalman
10-07-2010, 10:43 PM
Yikes...this is pretty harsh.
I mean, Zin is beautiful, but she is by no means hot according to every straight man's sense of the word. I know many, many men who don't go for that look (and Zin--I am NOT insulting you).
So True dude, I hardly know any guys that go for tall, shapely blonds with enormous boobs ::)
Your bullshit "You know it, I know it, everyone knows it" attitude pissed me off.
Not to mention your infuriating "Everyone else is in second place" crap. Seriously? I mean, Seriously????
I know seriously, I mean come on.
We all know the order is
1. Zinaida
2. JD
3. Everyone else fighting for third place
;)
laurcon
10-07-2010, 10:53 PM
So True dude, I hardly know any guys that go for tall, shapely blonds with enormous boobs ::)
I know seriously, I mean come on.
We all know the order is
1. Zinaida
2. JD
3. Everyone else fighting for third place
;)
Once again there's no fight. Let them be the hottest, who cares really? My point in life isn't to be the hottest chick ever, just to do what I can with what I have and enjoy life. Fighting over something so inane would be really sad.
And like I said, I know tons and tons of guys completely go for Zin. But I also do know guys that literally will not date a woman with implants, esp not modest implants. Like super nature health geek type guys like my step-dad and ex. She prob wouldn't want those guys anyway, that's what's so nice about the world. Everyone can find happiness in different ways.
mortalman
10-07-2010, 10:59 PM
Hell, I make a good income and am considered pretty successful, but in no way could I keep up with your financial wants and perceived needs, as much as I would like the opportunity to try.
CP
Maybe, if enough of us here on the blue side banded together, we could establish some sort of timeshare arrangement. Just a thought ;D
mortalman
10-07-2010, 11:11 PM
Once again there's no fight. Let them be the hottest, who cares really? My point in life isn't to be the hottest chick ever, just to do what I can with what I have and enjoy life. Fighting over something so inane would be really sad.
I agree, fighting over it is pretty sad. I also thought getting super upset and pissed about his comment was a little over the top as well, but that's just me.
Chili Palmer
10-07-2010, 11:34 PM
Maybe, if enough of us here on the blue side banded together, we could establish some sort of timeshare arrangement. Just a thought ;D
Genius! (Still not sure if we can afford her, unless stressed/youknowme kicks in some cabbage.)
---
You know, I think we've squeezed about as much entertainment out of this thread as we can. I'm considering putting together a "March Madness" 64-team bracket seeding for the strippers here, since they seem to love that kind of comparative competition so much. I can already envision who the 4 #1 seeds are... }:D
CP
GrlWithTheMost
10-08-2010, 12:13 AM
I have to say that the guys have posted very interesting comments and I agree. I am done with that thread because people are saying I attacked her because one day she'll lose her looks and not be as 'hot". It happens and it happens to everyone. I'm not as thin as I was (not heavy, just not bone thin) but I still look good. I doubt I'd ever post my photo though because a few of the catty ones would make comments about my looks.
I have to say though that if I had posted my photo and someone said I wasn't as cute as I thought I'd be hurt. It's bad enough the delusional ones who think the economy isn't in bad shape and that people are unemployed because they aren't smart.
And Kelly, darling, just because you claim to be cute and able to dance and make money, doesnt mean you are. Please beam yourself back to earth..
I guess since you're just sooo smart with your big degree you should be making all the money right????
Having a degree doesnt mean shit, jesus christ, dont u fckin get it?!?!
GrlWithTheMost
10-08-2010, 12:14 AM
Gotcha. The whole "Emperor's New Clothes" and all that. Sorry, charlie, if I offended you, but one of the main reasons I no longer post in Pink is precisely because I cannot/will not kiss every ass that is accompanied by a little pink ribbon. I'll leave that to the legions of purples who live to fawn and bow down obsequiously up there on a more regular basis.
I do find it more than a little ironic that an SW moderator actually is encouraging what would only be (accurately) described as a troll post were it on Pink. On Blue, treat it just like you should: another over-the-top comment from a stupid custy "who has no idea...(fill in your own blank here)". But we both know on which side of the truth/lie scale my comment is actually leaning.
CP
I sorta agree with this. Ive been here for a long time n dont post bc the ass kissing is nauseating to me :D
4everresolutions
10-08-2010, 12:17 AM
You know, I think we've squeezed about as much entertainment out of this thread as we can. I'm considering putting together a "March Madness" 64-team bracket seeding for the strippers here, since they seem to love that kind of comparative competition so much. I can already envision who the 4 #1 seeds are... }:D
CP
I think the pinks despise the comparisons so much because we face it on a nightly basis, and this is supposed to be a safe haven from the catty world of the strip club.
Being said, it doesn't bother me at all that you think Zinadia or JD or whoever is hottest. I suppose I AM used to being compared with other girls in the club. Sometimes I win hottest award, sometimes I don't....
And some dancers are much more sensitive to losing a competition that than others.
I did find your post funny though. Wasn't there at some point a 'hottest SW girl' topic on here from years back?
Jessie_tinydancer
10-08-2010, 12:43 AM
LOL at the hotness debate... everyone knows I am the hottest girl here hahahaha jk
As for the original discussion...
It really shocks me when girls think that a guy should pay for everything. I mean really?? Everything? Im not saying its wrong if he does. More power to him, but its really not necessary. Im not even saying it has to be 50/50. With my husband and I we don't keep track of who pays for what. Im not even really sure which of us made more this year. We both are probably within $10-20k of each other and always have had similar incomes. I buy what I want and he buys what he wants and sometimes we buy things together. We have our own accounts. We do not need each other to survive financially and thats how I like it. I see so many people stuck together because they need each other for the house or car or whatever.
I also find it kinda funny that these girls expect some CEO making $x amount of money. And I do not mean this to offend (even though I am sure it will). What makes these women such an appealing partner to this established gentleman?
Whats more appealing?
Hot, intelligent, possibly educated ex sex worker
vs
Hot, intelligent, educated, successful doctor, lawyer, CEO etc etc who doesnt demand that the man pay for everything and who views love and mutual emotional support as most important.
One thing I learned from dancing is a lot of married men are unhappy. Their wives treat them like shit, an ATM, a baby maker, and give them no emotional support whatsoever. They make endless demands and the men grow to resent their wives. I never ever want to become that woman and the way I manage this is by being as independent as possible and giving my husband everything I would want in return, weather it be love, money, gifts, laughter, sex, support. A relationship is a partnership and those who see it otherwise will not last the distance or will end up very unhappy.
_Avery_
10-08-2010, 12:50 AM
LOL at the hotness debate... everyone knows I am the hottest girl here hahahaha jk
.
Amen to that!! ;D
I agree too, because not only are you obviously physically beautiful, but you rock! :P
/ass kissing. :P
Athenathefabulous
10-08-2010, 01:01 AM
When i date a girl, i am more of a top and i am more of a provider. I like to treat them to dinner, and buy them drinks, etc etc.
that being said, i aint no suga momma. I would like the girl to function on her own... i dont actually want to have to support her... i just want to pay for her stuff when i feel like doing it to be nice.
I guess from my end, i feel like it should be appreciated more so than expected.
If i ever ended up married and was with a woman who wanted a kid (and she carried it etc etc) then i would support her.
but unless that situation arose, it would not be 100% support on my side.
and if i asked a girl to move in with me, i wouldnt expect her to contribute rent. doesnt mean i would pay for all her food, clothes, jewelry and spending habits though.
Now if i was in a functioning hetero relationship? blahhhgh.
Jessie_tinydancer
10-08-2010, 01:05 AM
Amen to that!! ;D
I agree too, because not only are you obviously physically beautiful, but you rock! :P
/ass kissing. :P
For someone who doesnt like people touching my butthole.... I love ass kissing. :D I posted pics for you to masturbate to Avery. bahahahaha I really hope my sense of humour translates through the computer. end threadjack.
4everresolutions
10-08-2010, 01:17 AM
When i date a girl, i am more of a top and i am more of a provider. I like to treat them to dinner, and buy them drinks, etc etc.
Hey sexy lady,
wat chu doin' later? ;)
I'll make it worth your wild.....
Rawr!
(Offtopic jk, but I couldn't resist.)
dlabtot
10-08-2010, 01:19 AM
I don't mind taking care of her as long as she doesn't mind taking care of me. You give what you can and take what you must. Isn't much of the point of being with someone, that you can rely on each other?
princessjas
10-08-2010, 04:35 AM
I sorta agree with this. Ive been here for a long time n dont post bc the ass kissing is nauseating to me :D
QFTT!! I post pics every now and then so people don't start thinking I'm a troll or something, but largely avoid it because of this. Hell, I love a little attention, but posting pics is just nuts here, you start getting all these insane PM's and shit. I've never liked girls who were constant post-whores (although we all have our moments and I've got nothing against that, but a few in the past were just ridiculous).
I've also never been able to understand everyone encouraging every freaking body to dance!! Yep, I get that there are a lot of unnatractive girls hired these days, but do we really need to encourage that? It was kinda nice back in the day when there were only a handful of us on shift every night and the managers turned down 9 out of 10 that auditioned. Standards.....We need em back!!
Also, Chili, please stay far the fuck away from my photos. As I've said here numerous times, I know I'm past my dancin age. Don't need a heads up on that one. ;)
ETA - Some of the girls are right too. As I've often said, even though I've got DD's I tend to attract guys that like small boobs and no ass. It makes me paranoid as hell, but they DO exist! Many of my old reg's avoid most girls with the Barbie look like the plague....and I'm not saying this to stroke my own ego, like I said I'm curvy with big fake boobs. ;D
mr_punk
10-08-2010, 05:25 AM
But that was then, and this is now. I'd expect that the dancers posting here are in their 20's or 30's, so many of them would have grown up well past those early years of "women's lib". They would never have known the days of Donna Reed and Leave it to Beaver, so they would't base their impressions of women's roles on those types of (ahem) role models. Growing up in the 1980's & 90's would present a whole different standard of women's options for them that weren't generally available in the 50's, 60's or 1970's.true, but their mothers, grandmothers and aunt grew up in those days. the very people who instill values in children. societal mores don't appear in a vacuum or make 180 turns in 40 years. they trickle down. is it any wonder why some women still feel this way. i'm just saying.
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 05:39 AM
I must admit I was more than a bit taken aback by all of the men-must-pay-for-everything responses on the ladies side. Eek.
I had to check my calendar and confirm that it was indeed 2010, not 1910.
Yes though I am financially stable and VERY independent. I would expect my man/husband to pay for everything. I think a man should be a man and not a bitch. There is a difference between a lazy housewife that has nothing to show for herself and a sexy independent wife that COULD take care of you if something were to go wrong. I don't believe in 50/50 when it comes to marriage, Sorry. The only thing that should be 50/50 is decision making. Anything money related should be the responsibility of the man. I think it has a lot to do with where I grew up: Lagos, Nigeria. Thank goodness our culture follows us wherever we go because I couldn't do things the American way.
I have seen situations where the woman takes care of the man and he pretty much bums around the house and becomes a couch potato. Now that is fucking disgusting. I would be very irritated if I lived with a man/or he lived with me and didn't take care of the bills or should I say, Made me pay for them.
I recently visited a couple in Atlanta. He was the breadwinner and she was the HOT independent housewife However she controlled all the money HE made. She would give him an allowance out of HIS check (gas, food..etc)and pay the bills herself with HIS money. She also kept track of the expenses and took care of the household how a woman should (Cooking, Cleaning, Ironing, Fucking) while running her own successful boutique. They've been married for 12years. I am not saying I want to control my husband's money but he should PROVIDE for the family ALWAYS.
DevonSantos
10-08-2010, 05:54 AM
Until men can start busting out babies nothing will ever be 50/50! It is a mans job to provide for his woman: BOTTOMLINE! I do not believe in splitting rent with a man cause if I needed a roomate I would have just looked online for one instead of dating one! I don't mind paying some small bills such as my cell phone, beauty expenses like hair and nails, and my student loans but all those other ''major'' bills such as mortagage/rent, utilities, insurances and all that other stuff, that would be a mans job to do. If I had to bust my ass while married, I wouldn't have never gotten married in the first place. A man doesn't have to be rich to date me but he better have a second job to level out his income from the first job to be able to provide for me.
DevonSantos
10-08-2010, 05:55 AM
Alot of men these days act like females! They cry too much! I mean, whats the big deal on men paying all the bills anyway? Its like ''what else is a man going to do with the money''? I know, ''nothing''! Nothing should be more important than making your woman happy and if paying all the bills makes her happy then pay them! If not, then move on to a less maintained woman and stop trying to hit on women that clearly OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!
hockeybobby
10-08-2010, 07:06 AM
I'm considering putting together a "March Madness" 64-team bracket seeding for the strippers here, since they seem to love that kind of comparative competition so much. I can already envision who the 4 #1 seeds are... }:D
CP
You know what? I think that's a great idea.
You could have a thread for nominations with a time limit, then, a poll for each match-up. Blues and Pinks would be able to participate and have fun with it. We need stuff like that in February/March to shake off the winter nasties.
charlie61
10-08-2010, 07:19 AM
Gotcha. The whole "Emperor's New Clothes" and all that. Sorry, charlie, if I offended you, but one of the main reasons I no longer post in Pink is precisely because I cannot/will not kiss every ass that is accompanied by a little pink ribbon. I'll leave that to the legions of purples who live to fawn and bow down obsequiously up there on a more regular basis.
I do find it more than a little ironic that an SW moderator actually is encouraging what would only be (accurately) described as a troll post were it on Pink. On Blue, treat it just like you should: another over-the-top comment from a stupid custy "who has no idea...(fill in your own blank here)". But we both know on which side of the truth/lie scale my comment is actually leaning.
CP
I never said that you should kiss anyones' asses, or lie about your feelings. But, what you said was insulting and immature, not to mention totally unnecessary. I also didn't mean to imply that Zin's appearance isn't attractive to many people--of course it is. My point was just that she may be perfect from where you stand, but a large amount of people really do not go for that look.
And you really don't need to bust out the "I thought you were a mod/perfect" card--I'm a human being too. Yes, believe it or not, it really is possible to piss me off! ::)
I was just surprised to hear the comment from someone who appears to be an established member on the site. Coming from a troll, I wouldn't have been surprised.
Anyway...the consensus (via other members' silence) is apparently that I overreacted. So I will back down and shut up. :)
/threadjack
Hockeyfan_4
10-08-2010, 08:34 AM
To the OP:
If you want a real relationship I think that there needs to be shared responsability. However if it's a just a sex arrangment that's something completly different. I took the OP being about a real relationship. IMHO being with someone who you LOVE and RESPECT is taking care of eachother and if that means one person works and provides the cash and one does the "domestic work" so be it, If they share the responsabilities of both so be it. I just have a problem with the mantality of "What's Mine is Mine and what's Yours is Mine. In my relationship its what's ours is ours. Any think short of that is doomed for failure. For example if the "bread winner" is hurt/sick and all of a sudden can't work than what? If the answer is that you drop the other person than it realy is not a real relationship. I hope I am not getting to off topic but to me My S.O. is my partner in life to go through it's fun times and sucky times together.
Sorry for starting to ramble just trying to make my point
baldric
10-08-2010, 09:02 AM
I'm also seeing from some of the pinks for this type of arrangement the same objectifying mindset that is complained about when men exhibit it... just my 3.14159...
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 09:52 AM
Until men can start busting out babies nothing will ever be 50/50! It is a mans job to provide for his woman: BOTTOMLINE! I do not believe in splitting rent with a man cause if I needed a roomate I would have just looked online for one instead of dating one! I don't mind paying some small bills such as my cell phone, beauty expenses like hair and nails, and my student loans but all those other ''major'' bills such as mortagage/rent, utilities, insurances and all that other stuff, that would be a mans job to do. If I had to bust my ass while married, I wouldn't have never gotten married in the first place. A man doesn't have to be rich to date me but he better have a second job to level out his income from the first job to be able to provide for me.
This!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yoda57us
10-08-2010, 09:54 AM
A woman can have a strong sense of independence and have her own career and still have a man who is successful enough to and willing to take care of her. What is wrong wih a man wanting to provide for a woman?
I don't recall saying there was anything wrong with it. Did you read the first sentence of my post?
In my life I have wanted to provide the best of everything that I could for every woman that I have ever been with. What I have learned is what works best for me. The simple fact is that I tend to be attracted to strong independent women who want a relationship but also want to be their own person. Admittedly this may have a lot to do with the fact that both myself and the ladies I get involved with are a bit older and have been through the relationship wringer a few times...
There is a fine line between being gentlemanly and chivalrous vs. being controlling and resentful. A very fine line. I think I know where it is though and I'm not getting any complaints from any woman I've been with...other than the one, my ex wife, who wanted me to do all of the heavy lifting in the relationship and walked out when I got tired of doing it...
yoda57us
10-08-2010, 10:06 AM
Am I overreacting here? Or was anyone else offended by his comments?
You are entitled to whatever reaction you have when you read here Charlie...
My 2 cents? I don't read enough in pink to have much accumulated knowledge of most pinkie's posting histories. I also didn't read the thread that seems to have inspired this one. The picture post thread however is pretty much a universal "wow, you are so hot" thread and, though there is nothing wrong with that it's obviously not realistic to think that everyone agrees with who is hot and who is not. In pink no one will say that. In blue some of us will...
Hockeyfan_4
10-08-2010, 10:13 AM
KaylaM, DemonSantos
I have to ask did you read the OP? Your opinon is as vallid as anyones BUT... Avery asked if we (blues) feel it's fair. You need to post this on the pink side. Please do not misunderstand me, in my opinon this is the wrong thread for this part of the debate. Again I am not trying to offend ether of you personally. Just my 2 cents
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 11:22 AM
KaylaM, DemonSantos
I have to ask did you read the OP? Your opinon is as vallid as anyones BUT... Avery asked if we (blues) feel it's fair. You need to post this on the pink side. Please do not misunderstand me, in my opinon this is the wrong thread for this part of the debate. Again I am not trying to offend ether of you personally. Just my 2 cents
Excuse me, Are you a mod? We can post wherever the hell we want. I know who I was responding to.. it wasn't the op's question. It was another member's comment. And you are?
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 11:23 AM
You were better off saying.. "Don't post here ladies" I guess that's why you're not the one making decisions here.
Kellydancer
10-08-2010, 11:53 AM
And Kelly, darling, just because you claim to be cute and able to dance and make money, doesnt mean you are. Please beam yourself back to earth..
I guess since you're just sooo smart with your big degree you should be making all the money right????
Having a degree doesnt mean shit, jesus christ, dont u fckin get it?!?!
Excuse me? That's right I am smart because I have smarts and looks. Unlike you and when you get old all you will have had will be gone. I have mentioned before but I am not dancing at clubs. In fact I am pretty much retired now. You are aware that the economy is close to a depression right? Apparently not, but you will if you leave the dancing world. I never said a degree was all that. In fact if you've read my comments I state a degree isn't everything. However smarts means a lot and one day you'll realize it.
Kellydancer
10-08-2010, 12:00 PM
Amen to that!! ;D
I agree too, because not only are you obviously physically beautiful, but you rock! :P
/ass kissing. :P
Both you and her are cool. I think she's very impressive with her going to school to be a vet.
Hockeyfan_4
10-08-2010, 12:02 PM
When you post something like this
Alot of men these days act like females! They cry too much! I mean, whats the big deal on men paying all the bills anyway? Its like ''what else is a man going to do with the money''? I know, ''nothing''! Nothing should be more important than making your woman happy and if paying all the bills makes her happy then pay them! If not, then move on to a less maintained woman and stop trying to hit on women that clearly OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!
This!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
in the mancave of stripperweb don't get an attude if someone politely says
I have to ask did you read the OP? Your opinon is as vallid as anyones BUT... Avery asked if we (blues) feel it's fair. You need to post this on the pink side. Please do not misunderstand me, in my opinon this is the wrong thread for this part of the debate. Again I am not trying to offend ether of you personally. Just my 2 cents
To answer YOUR question I am Man with Balls that knows which head to use in different circumstances. But that's a little off topic and besides the whole point of this thread. If I wanted to read about how a small minority of pinks think that men are basically good only for money I would be over on the pink side reading those threads and not taking part in this one.
P.S.
To everyone I am usually not this crude or rude so please excuse me.
kaiarose
10-08-2010, 12:08 PM
I must apologize on behalf of all the pinkies who decided to come down to BLUE and bring all their dramatic bullshit down here. You girls want to be drama queens and talk shit about men then take it back up to LADIES only. And no I'm not a mod but this shit is whack.
kaiarose
10-08-2010, 12:09 PM
Excuse me? That's right I am smart because I have smarts and looks. Unlike you and when you get old all you will have had will be gone. I have mentioned before but I am not dancing at clubs. In fact I am pretty much retired now. You are aware that the economy is close to a depression right? Apparently not, but you will if you leave the dancing world. I never said a degree was all that. In fact if you've read my comments I state a degree isn't everything. However smarts means a lot and one day you'll realize it.
Kelly, stop responding to them! You're only fueling their fire. This thread was suppose to be for the Blues and it's turned into the same goddamn thread from upstairs!! Bullshit.
Kellydancer
10-08-2010, 12:11 PM
Kelly, stop responding to them! You're only fueling their fire. This thread was suppose to be for the Blues and it's turned into the same goddamn thread from upstairs!! Bullshit.
You're right. I originally wrote out a nastier response but I deleted it. I need to quit responding. I promise as of now to ignore them because they are enjoying this.
brotherhood
10-08-2010, 12:20 PM
I like having someone to spoil. The best relationships i've had though are when the woman works.It's make her appreciate more, what i have to go
through to make a dollar and it gives her a purpose in life other than just me.I like paying for everything because it makes me feel more manly, but
you can't beat getting a gift from her and knowing she paid with it with money she earned herself.
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 02:37 PM
OMG.... I thought this was just an online discussion? Why does everything have to turn into a brawl on sw? Some of you are really pathetic. Damn ... GET A LIFE OR would you like me to buy you one?
Obviously some of you are mad about what I said in pink.. I. dO. nOT. cARE.
Back to work for me! :wave: I will be watching this thread. Very fucking interesting.
dlabtot
10-08-2010, 03:18 PM
. GET A LIFE OR would you like me to buy you one?
Yes, please. This time I would like to be born rich instead of good-looking.
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 03:20 PM
Yes, please. This time I would like to be born rich instead of good-looking.
:rotfl:
Chili Palmer
10-08-2010, 04:16 PM
I think the pinks despise the comparisons so much because we face it on a nightly basis, and this is supposed to be a safe haven from the catty world of the strip club.
Being said, it doesn't bother me at all that you think Zinadia or JD or whoever is hottest. I suppose I AM used to being compared with other girls in the club. Sometimes I win hottest award, sometimes I don't....
And some dancers are much more sensitive to losing a competition that than others.
I did find your post funny though. Wasn't there at some point a 'hottest SW girl' topic on here from years back?
Believe me, I understand the dancers would like the Pink side to be their haven from whatever ails them, and especially customers. It's why I never post on Pink, I acknowledge their desire for space from a-holes like, well, me.
I was actually the one who started and ran (as the "commissioner") The SW Hotness Draft. It wasn't so much as who specifically was the hottest, but which of the eight teams had the hottest group of dancers. What started off as a lark, ended up being, quite frankly, the most successful thread in this site's history (between page views, #of replies, and other related threads), and was probably THE high water mark for Pink-Blue relations (if I may pat myself on the back there). Not only were there multiple threads discussing the Draft, but the dancers without any impetus from us started their own "pic whore" thread in an effort to be selected. All in all, for about a week or so, it was a pretty amusing time.
Shortly thereafter certain "troubles" came up, and this site has never been the same. So many of the "cool" fun dancers who could take a joke and give as well as they get are now gone <jab, jab, jab>.
The 64 seeds would be an interesting problem in logistics. I'm gonna have to think a bit on how to do it without getting myself banned. :blindfold
CP
PS, Hey jas, I got you as a #6 seed right now. :D
Zinaida
10-08-2010, 04:31 PM
Kellydancer you keep repeating how "smart" you are... I have yet to see it. I've always found that people who have to keep saying "I'm smart" over and over again usually are anything but. Overcompensating.
As far as who's hot and who's not.... I have noticed that the majority of pic-posting pinks are not 'stereotypically HAWT.' I'm not saying they're ugly or that no one would find them attractive, but obviously top earners in stripclubs usually follow a certain 'trend' as far as looks and most of the pinks that I've seen don't have them. May I also point out that there seem to be a lot of pinks that haven't danced in years or that have never danced period?
I'm probably gonna get flamed for that.
Casual Observer
10-08-2010, 04:31 PM
PS, Hey jas, I got you as a #6 seed right now.
She was in my hypothetical early lineup; never underestimate the veteran players. ;)
Casual Observer
10-08-2010, 04:37 PM
I'm probably gonna get flamed for that.
Not by any of the Blues, you won't.
Down here in the basement, there's a keen appreciation for direct and unvarnished opinion, if not objectivity.
charlie61
10-08-2010, 04:38 PM
As far as who's hot and who's not.... I have noticed that the majority of pic-posting pinks are not 'stereotypically HAWT.' I'm not saying they're ugly or that no one would find them attractive, but obviously top earners in stripclubs usually follow a certain 'trend' as far as looks and most of the pinks that I've seen don't have them. May I also point out that there seem to be a lot of pinks that haven't danced in years or that have never danced period?
This is a fair assessment.