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_Avery_
10-08-2010, 04:46 PM
but obviously top earners in stripclubs usually follow a certain 'trend' as far as looks and most of the pinks that I've seen don't have them. .
So, they're anorexic with rotten teeth who grab cocks?? LOL
At least the top earner in my club is... :-\
/threadjack again! :P
Kellydancer
10-08-2010, 04:51 PM
So, they're anorexic with rotten teeth who grab cocks?? LOL
At least the top earner in my club is... :-\
/threadjack again! :P
This is funny. I once worked at a club with several dancers like that. Throw in too old (one was in her 70's and looked it) and way too overweight (quite a few were definitely bigger than the bouncers) and this describes one club I danced at. It was almost comical.
_Avery_
10-08-2010, 04:59 PM
This is funny. I once worked at a club with several dancers like that. Throw in too old (one was in her 70's and looked it) and way too overweight (quite a few were definitely bigger than the bouncers) and this describes one club I danced at. It was almost comical.
There's a 47 year old at our club, who actually does okay! LOL
I give her credit though, because she goes around to EVERY.SINGLE.GUY!
The looks of top earners I think vary from club to club, region to region.
Obviously, a club like Spearmint Rhino in Vegas, the majority of the girls are blonde with big boobs....
Out here, implants are rare. There's one girl at our club who does have them, and does well.
I think I could be a top earner if there was like a Suicide Girl SC. :P
Okay, this is all off topic....sorry... back to the discussion.
Athenathefabulous
10-08-2010, 04:59 PM
ok im a little confused. whats all this complaint about unattractive girls posting in the pink picture section? because i just looked and most of the more recent pictures seem to be of Avery, Zinaida, and Malaya... all of whom are very pretty....
Kellydancer
10-08-2010, 05:17 PM
There's a 47 year old at our club, who actually does okay! LOL
I give her credit though, because she goes around to EVERY.SINGLE.GUY!
The looks of top earners I think vary from club to club, region to region.
Obviously, a club like Spearmint Rhino in Vegas, the majority of the girls are blonde with big boobs....
Out here, implants are rare. There's one girl at our club who does have them, and does well.
I think I could be a top earner if there was like a Suicide Girl SC. :P
Okay, this is all off topic....sorry... back to the discussion.
I once worked with a 45 year old who still had a hot body and she could still bank. It does depend on the region, even just a few miles makes a difference. For instance many of the clubs in downtown Chicago were all 10's while in the suburbs they might be 7-8's and in outer regions (like NW Indiana or Wisconsin) they could be 3's. It's so funny when it varied.
Chili Palmer
10-08-2010, 05:33 PM
http://www.motifake.com/image/demotivational-poster/1010/homeless-bill-hobo-bill-rich-women-demotivational-poster-1286510959.jpg (http://www.motifake.com/homeless-bill-hobo-bill-rich-women-demotivational-poster-118531.html)
Chili Palmer
10-08-2010, 05:38 PM
Dudes:
Send me (via PM) your ideas for #1 and #2 seeds...I've already put together about 40% of the brackets. I can't believe I'm actually doing this.
CP
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 05:39 PM
You know .. I think I've seen this guy before.. :O:O lol
charlie61
10-08-2010, 05:40 PM
Dudes:
Send me (via PM) your ideas for #1 and #2 seeds...I've already put together about 40% of the brackets. I can't believe I'm actually doing this.
CP
Yeah, it's super daring. What. A. Rebel. /:O
_Avery_
10-08-2010, 05:40 PM
ok im a little confused. whats all this complaint about unattractive girls posting in the pink picture section? because i just looked and most of the more recent pictures seem to be of Avery, Zinaida, and Malaya... all of whom are very pretty....
Thank you.
LOL, I really didn't even know we were all in competition. /:O
I just thought we posted pics because:
A) We were feeling vain.
B) Needed a little ego boost.
C) BORED!
D) All of the above..lol
princessjas
10-08-2010, 05:43 PM
PS, Hey jas, I got you as a #6 seed right now. :D
Oh, wow, I'm about 20th hottest? Color me flattered.......
I could be polite and pretend I don't hope your tiny little dick falls off....or is painfully ripped off by some freak stripper related accident.....but well, you aren't one of those rare men I feel submissive too. So, I sincerely hope that if I make another comeback tour, I run into you! Although I'm sure I'd enjoy that encounter much more than you.
It'd even be worth the jail time. :P
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 05:45 PM
Thank you.
LOL, I really didn't even know we were all in competition. /:O
I just thought we posted pics because:
A) We were feeling vain.
B) Needed a little ego boost.
C) BORED!
D) All of the above..lol
D, For me.
I also never thought we were in competition at all.
I will have to stop posting pics.. that's weird. LOL
and
Thank you Athena!
charlie61
10-08-2010, 05:48 PM
Oh, wow, I'm about 20th hottest? Color me flattered.......
I could be polite and pretend I don't hope your tiny little dick falls off....or is painfully ripped off by some freak stripper related accident.....but well, you aren't one of those rare men I feel submissive too. So, I sincerely hope that if I make another comeback tour, I run into you! Although I'm sure I'd enjoy that encounter much more than you.
It'd even be worth the jail time. :P
I'm not going to thank this post because I'm being a good li'l mod. But it seems worth reading twice.
Athenathefabulous
10-08-2010, 05:51 PM
Yea, I didn't either. The only time I have a desire to compete against other women is for money at work.
And I think that the blues, especially you cp, should take that into consideration. Considering some have already expressed distaste, maybe you should ask people if they want to participate in a competition before you start one. Drama drama drama = fail.
And picking apart peoples photographs and talents on the web cango both ways just so you know.
Chili Palmer
10-08-2010, 05:54 PM
is painfully ripped off by some freak stripper related accident.....but well, you aren't one of those rare men I feel submissive too.
Maybe not, but I do know who here is your "daddy."
And to charlie, Kayla and the others, thanks for proving my point that the cool fun strippers have, for the most part, left SW for greener pastures. Btw, Kayla, if there's one thing that is an absolute proven entity on this site is that when you say you're not going to do something, you end up doing it five minutes later anyways. There's an 11 page thread dedicated to that empty threat.
CP
charlie61
10-08-2010, 05:56 PM
^ If you want to meet the "cool strippers" maybe you should stop putting people down? It's incredible that I can feel your negative energy alllllllllllll the way through the computer. I'm not generally 'cool' to people who are 'uncool.'
PS: Go back to high school. That's where people are still regularly encouraging petty drama.
Athenathefabulous
10-08-2010, 06:07 PM
most of us are cool fun strippers when you aren't a douchebag.
I mean you boast about knowing so many pinkie in person but I know many in person too. Most are cool and fun. Maybe they aren't giving out extras though like you claimed x/(x+1) pinkies you met did in the other thread. In that case I'm cool being lame.
But yea. I don't think all of the people on here find us to be lame as bitchy. Just those who ask for it. There are many blues on here who I think i would have a great time with over a few beers.
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 06:12 PM
CP
Seriously, Do you have a life outside of sw? Clearly you don't. Sorry I do what I feel here...sw is just online ENTERTAINMENT for me. I could CARELESS what you or anyone else thinks about me.
I am not here to impress "Chili Palmer". Sorry.
princessjas
10-08-2010, 06:14 PM
Maybe not, but I do know who here is your "daddy."
Is this a threat or just an attempt to look cool and in-the-know?
Classy!! Real classy!!
And to charlie, Kayla and the others, thanks for proving my point that the cool fun strippers have, for the most part, left SW for greener pastures. Btw, Kayla, if there's one thing that is an absolute proven entity on this site is that when you say you're not going to do something, you end up doing it five minutes later anyways. There's an 11 page thread dedicated to that empty threat.
CP
Relating to this.....I said I would not participate and pic whore last draft and well, guess what? I didn't post a single pic while that fiasco was going on. Honestly, I was disgusted by the ones that said they weren't going to participate then totally pic whored the board up. I'm all for fun and had no issues with the girls that participated without bad-mouthing it first, but don't lie to gain female acceptance, then PM every guy on the board naked pics of yourself. It's pathetic.
^ If you want to meet the "cool strippers" maybe you should stop putting people down? It's incredible that I can feel your negative energy alllllllllllll the way through the computer. I'm not generally 'cool' to people who are 'uncool.'
PS: Go back to high school. That's where people are still regularly encouraging petty drama.
Couldn't say this better! I cannot stand anyone who acts so damn immature. All would be right in the world if I could set them all on fire!
BTW - That reminds me.....Where the hell is Viola hiding? I <3 her!! ;D
charlie61
10-08-2010, 06:16 PM
Looks like I need to get my uncool ass back to the pink side. Remind me to never dabble again.
MarvelGirl
10-08-2010, 06:16 PM
There's a lot of "pretend hot" on the pink side.
CP
I know that I'm about to sound like a bitch, and I'm ok with that, but I'm glad that somebody finally said this. Maybe I've just seen one too many girls bragging about being the hottest girl in their club and then posting a picture that looks more like an overweight housewife than a stripper. I agree with whoever said that it's like telling the rejects on American Idol that they can sing when they actually suck and are just embarassing themselves.
I'll never insult anybody's looks on this website but I feel sorry for girls who post questions asking "Am I hot enough to be a stripper?" and the answer should be "NO!" but instead they're told "YES! Men like all sizes!" "YES! You'll lose that extra 40 pounds when you start dancing!"
Those women would be laughed at if they went to most of the clubs I've worked at. In fact, I've seen people bitch on here about being humiliated at some of those same clubs and when they post pics, it's pretty obvious why. I've even seen girls show up to audition while I'm getting ready. They might be hot shit in bumfucknowhereville, Arkansas but they look like doughy, clueless newbs when they come to Vegas. I'm not saying that to be cruel, I really feel sorry for these girls but maybe if someone was honest with them before they got to the club, they wouldn't have to go through that ordeal. I also want to point out that I'm not super hot. I'm on the low end of most Vegas night shifts. I didn't make the night shift at SR although they told me I would if I had my boobs done. I'm a size 4, my bust and hips are the same size and my waist is 12 inches smaller. So, when I see a size 16 bitching about how mean the SR was too her, my response is duh. Sorry, but duh. You don't look like a stripper so don't get all butthurt when a stripclub with thousands of girls to choose from doesn't hire you.
I'm rambling and I don't remember what my original point was. I'm just glad someone pointed out the "pretend hot" thing and that it wasn't me, lol.
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 06:17 PM
And to charlie, Kayla and the others, thanks for proving my point that the cool fun strippers have, for the most part, left SW for greener pastures.
Who the hell are you supposed to be?
Btw, Kayla, if there's one thing that is an absolute proven entity on this site is that when you say you're not going to do something, you end up doing it five minutes later anyways.There's an 11 page thread dedicated to that empty threat.
I have also been known to start shit just for the hell of it. Obviously you take this site a little too seriously. So PLEASE I am dying to know...what the fuck do you do everyday? You must be really bored! What threat did I make to YOU? You have some serious mental issues. Fuck off dude.
Just for the record, I know I am FUCKING hot/Stunning/Beautiful...whatever!.. I JUST don't need some random mfers on some online site to tell me otherwise. I think I am speaking for the other pinks when I say this but who gives a fuck about what you think CP. I never posted pics for compliments/Praise and I sure as hell don't need anyone's validation... PERIOD.
rlams2000
10-08-2010, 06:22 PM
Need more popcorn.
charlie61
10-08-2010, 06:23 PM
I know that I'm about to sound like a bitch, and I'm ok with that, but I'm glad that somebody finally said this. Maybe I've just seen one too many girls bragging about being the hottest girl in their club and then posting a picture that looks more like an overweight housewife than a stripper. I agree with whoever said that it's like telling the rejects on American Idol that they can sing when they actually suck and are just embarassing themselves.
I'll never insult anybody's looks on this website but I feel sorry for girls who post questions asking "Am I hot enough to be a stripper?" and the answer should be "NO!" but instead they're told "YES! Men like all sizes!" "YES! You'll lose that extra 40 pounds when you start dancing!"
Those women would be laughed at if they went to most of the clubs I've worked at. In fact, I've seen people bitch on here about being humiliated at some of those same clubs and when they post pics, it's pretty obvious why. I've even seen girls show up to audition while I'm getting ready. They might be hot shit in bumfucknowhereville, Arkansas but they look like doughy, clueless newbs when they come to Vegas. I'm not saying that to be cruel, I really feel sorry for these girls but maybe if someone was honest with them before they got to the club, they wouldn't have to go through that ordeal. I also want to point out that I'm not super hot. I'm on the low end of most Vegas night shifts. I didn't make the night shift at SR although they told me I would if I had my boobs done. I'm a size 4, my bust and hips are the same size and my waist is 12 inches smaller. So, when I see a size 16 bitching about how mean the SR was too her, my response is duh. Sorry, but duh. You don't look like a stripper so don't get all butthurt when a stripclub with thousands of girls to choose from doesn't hire you.
I'm rambling and I don't remember what my original point was. I'm just glad someone pointed out the "pretend hot" thing and that it wasn't me, lol.
Anyone with eyes (I'm not insulting you, MarvelGirl) knows that there is some "pretend hot" on this site--that was never contested. The point is that it's cruel to say these things. Silence is one thing, but outright insulting is another.
Here is the difference:
Customer 1: Walks into the strip club, sees that there is one girl who is extremely hot. He spends all of his money on her, can't stop complimenting her, etc. He goes home.
Customer 2: Walks into the strip club, sees that there is one girl who is extremely hot. He spends all of his money on her, can't stop complimenting her, etc. As he is leaving, he announces to the rest of the dancers in the club that they will always only be second best, that they aren't really hot, etc. He goes home.
KaylaM
10-08-2010, 06:26 PM
Anyone with eyes (I'm not insulting you, MarvelGirl) knows that there is some "pretend hot" on this site--that was never contested. The point is that it's cruel to say these things. Silence is one thing, but outright insulting is another.
Here is the difference:
Customer 1: Walks into the strip club, sees that there is one girl who is extremely hot. He spends all of his money on her, can't stop complimenting her, etc. He goes home.
Customer 2: Walks into the strip club, sees that there is one girl who is extremely hot. He spends all of his money on her, can't stop complimenting her, etc. As he is leaving, he announces to the rest of the dancers in the club that they will always only be second best, that they aren't really hot, etc. He goes home.
Seriously. Silence is king!
rlams2000
10-08-2010, 06:55 PM
Back to the OP, I think financial responsibilities should be shared, especially if children are involved.
hockeybobby
10-08-2010, 06:59 PM
Ladies...Gentlemen...like Jack says...why can't we all just get along? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPMmC0UAnj0)
:D
Back to the OP, I think financial responsibilities should be shared, especially if children are involved. I agree and am glad you are bringing back on topic as it has strayed. Folks, please remember that this is Blue not Pink.
FBR
Vyanka
10-08-2010, 08:44 PM
A CONFIDENT person would not give two shits about comments like the one CP said(esp on the internet). I mean, who gives a shit really. I didn't find it offensive either.
Going back to the original topic, a lot of you need to chill out. I don't think there is a right or wrong, if you're doing whatever the flying fuck makes you happy. Kuddos. As long as both parties agree to it, it works...more power to you.
All these debates back and forth sound childish to me.
KaylaM
10-09-2010, 01:32 AM
A CONFIDENT person would not give two shits about comments like the one CP said(esp on the internet). I mean, who gives a shit really. I didn't find it offensive either.
Going back to the original topic, a lot of you need to chill out. I don't think there is a right or wrong, if you're doing whatever the flying fuck makes you happy. Kuddos. As long as both parties agree to it, it works...more power to you.
All these debates back and forth sound childish to me.
Exactly!
mr_punk
10-09-2010, 06:40 AM
I just have a problem with the mantality of "What's Mine is Mine and what's Yours is Mine. In my relationship its what's ours is ours. Any think short of that is doomed for failure. For example if the "bread winner" is hurt/sick and all of a sudden can't work than what? If the answer is that you drop the other person than it realy is not a real relationship.well, i don't think anyone is talking about going that far. however, i do think that many women like keeping their options open. if the best option is deciding whether to stay at home, work, etc safe in the knowledge that someone else is mostly or entirely accountable and responsible for providing. conversely, the worst option of the last resort is having to provide for both parties.
If I had to bust my ass while married, I wouldn't have never gotten married in the first place. A man doesn't have to be rich to date me but he better have a second job to level out his income from the first job to be able to provide for me.
I mean, whats the big deal on men paying all the bills anyway? Its like ''what else is a man going to do with the money''? I know, ''nothing''! Nothing should be more important than making your woman happy and if paying all the bills makes her happy then pay them! If not, then move on to a less maintained woman and stop trying to hit on women that clearly OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!but hey, look on the bright side. i hear being driven to an early grave like an overworked plough horse by a money hungry shrew is a quick and painless death.
yoda57us
10-09-2010, 09:42 AM
Alot of men these days act like females! They cry too much! I mean, whats the big deal on men paying all the bills anyway? Its like ''what else is a man going to do with the money''? I know, ''nothing''!
Well, OK, if you say so...I guess supporting my mother and putting my daughter through college don't count for much in your value system but the two of them are very appreciative. If that makes me a female or a cry baby I guess I can live with that...
Nothing should be more important than making your woman happy and if paying all the bills makes her happy then pay them! If not, then move on to a less maintained woman and stop trying to hit on women that clearly OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!
I guess my question would be this: If money is the only thing that makes the woman in question happy then why in the name of God would I get involved with her in the first place? I guess the answer is that I wouldn't.
By the way. What exactly does being in or out of anyone's "league" have to do with the original topic of this thread? The answer is...I know! nothing!
yoda57us
10-09-2010, 10:14 AM
I think the pinks despise the comparisons so much because we face it on a nightly basis, and this is supposed to be a safe haven from the catty world of the strip club.
Honestly I think most of us get that. What puzzles me is why on earth, if one doesn't want to be judged, would one post a picture on the internet for others to see and comment on? In my humble opinion that is inviting catty behavior...
That doesn't mean of course that I don't view and enjoy the picture post section but it really does cause me to scratch my head sometimes...
Kellydancer
10-09-2010, 11:15 AM
Honestly I think most of us get that. What puzzles me is why on earth, if one doesn't want to be judged, would one post a picture on the internet for others to see and comment on? In my humble opinion that is inviting catty behavior...
That doesn't mean of course that I don't view and enjoy the picture post section but it really does cause me to scratch my head sometimes...
I too question some of the things people post. For instance I get people posting photos of recently implanted breasts (to show off the work), but why people would post photos of their vaginas is beyond me. I guess whatever floats one's boat, but I doubt I'd ever post a photo of me. For one thing I'd hate it getting back to me posting it and another posting attacking my looks. Second I love the anonymity of the web. If non dancing colleagues knew I was once a fulltime stripper and did a few videos it might affect my non dancing career. This is why I've never mentioned my dancing name (which I used to model and do videos) and won't. I've seen online horror stories (not here) of people meeting, hating each other and revealing info about the other.
*Prepares to be flamed*
4everresolutions
10-09-2010, 11:26 AM
Well, OK, if you say so...I guess supporting my mother and putting my daughter through college don't count for much in your value system but the two of them are very appreciative. If that makes me a female or a cry baby I guess I can live with that...
Just going to let you know I think it's great that you're supporting your mother and your daughter. If I had to go without because myself and my husband and I were supporting our little girl (or boy) I would go without. In my opinion a man will look after all the women and family in his life, not just the wifey. I'm glad your supporting your daughters way through school (it'll keep her off the pole. Seriously - it's hard to focus on studying when you're trying to work your way through college at any job.).
Honestly I think most of us get that. What puzzles me is why on earth, if one doesn't want to be judged, would one post a picture on the internet for others to see and comment on? In my humble opinion that is inviting catty behavior...
That doesn't mean of course that I don't view and enjoy the picture post section but it really does cause me to scratch my head sometimes...
Yeah, I don't know either. I'm fairly camera shy and have only really posted pictures from the waist up, very few at that. Mind you, I LOVE seeing pictures of other sexy SW members so I'm not going to complain one bit. ;D
Redwolf
10-09-2010, 11:38 AM
How did I miss this long thread? Wait it only started days ago.
OP: I think that the most important thing is that a couple is honest about expectations and communication. When they are on the same page and both are copasetic, good for them! If the guy says that he is all about a lady who is independent and works and exhibits self-reliance, but then is unhappy because he feels his manhood threatened by not being being the sole provider, BAD. If the lady says that she is all about being 50/50 splitting finances equally, but then she feels incomplete because she cannot stay home and spend more time with her baby, BAD. I say be upfront and honest about what you really want. If you find your honest expectations compatible, then good for you. Maybe you will work out.
Off topic: regarding the Final Four of SW, I think that in theory it sounds fun. I love to see pics of the varied beautiful and more beautiful ladies of SW. I love to read their comments when they are funny, intelligent, or erotic (Avery comes first to mind). Ideally, I would see more pics and get to know better the personalities of the ladies. In fact, it may not work just so. Some ladies will likely have their feelings hurt by being compared. A true comparison is rather difficult unless all the ladies come to my house to dance for me. ;D The few pics we see and comments we read is very little to actually go on. Plus, as is repeated, guys are attracted to different girls. I don't have a certain type, but some guys do have certain types.
That said, go for it, with certain controls. Who votes? Blues only, I suggest. Public or private votes? Private. How many votes? Once for each match-up. I also suggest that there be a common format for submission, including some pics and various Q&A or whatever. Have a preliminary vote to narrow it down to 64 or 32 or 16 depending on # of entrants. Selection Sunday. Selecting only girls who want to be in the 'tournament' would likely not eliminate totally the drama be it would limit it somewhat. Make it clear that this is not some objective standard but a few guys voting based upon something that is not the whole girl. And this would be for fun.
Redwolf
10-09-2010, 11:48 AM
My own personal view: I should do well enough to give a woman the choice to work and be more independent and self-providing or to stay at home with or w/o children knowing that we were doing well financially or some other choice. I bring my A game so that a potential lady is not limited in her choices. Then, I hope that we will be honest about our expecations so that neither of us will be frustrated or disappointed.
Off topic: regarding the Final Four of SW, I think that in theory it sounds fun.
CP's thread was a classic as the vets know. I believe he was just making a point.
FBR
Zinaida
10-09-2010, 05:10 PM
So, they're anorexic with rotten teeth who grab cocks?? LOL
At least the top earner in my club is... :-\
...don't know what kind of club's you've been working in....
_Avery_
10-09-2010, 05:15 PM
...don't know what kind of club's you've been working in....
It's actually a really nice club. :)
(this girl just really needs to get teeth fixed..lol)
Just from what you posted it sounded like you mean the main trend is strip clubs is blonde hair/big boobed??
Out here, that's rare.
Out here, it seems, the top earners are slim and natural. Girl next door look. :)
Zinaida
10-09-2010, 05:25 PM
^^^Prolly 'cause that's all there is.
charlie61
10-09-2010, 05:29 PM
^^^Prolly 'cause that's all there is.
Not true. I worked with a blonde w/ big boobs (and she was a hustler), and I beat her out on dances every night I worked with her.
Men out here tend to like their women more natural. Blonde/boobs might be a novelty, but they sure do enjoy slim/small-boobed/brunettes....
_Avery_
10-09-2010, 05:30 PM
Yep!:)
(Well,except for me...lol, I'm the crazy 'criminal'/alternative girl out here with all my tattoos..lol)
Like I said though, there is ONE girl at our club with fake ones, and she always does really well too.
That one girl though, (the anorexic one) always does the best though.
charlie61
10-09-2010, 05:33 PM
I actually regularly hear guys make fun of/complain about blondes with big boobs on stage. And not just to make me feel better about myself--this is from overhearing conversations.
**this is not to say that they aren't beautiful/desirable. Just my own personal experience.**
_Avery_
10-09-2010, 05:38 PM
I actually regularly hear guys make fun of/complain about blondes with big boobs on stage. And not just to make me feel better about myself--this is from overhearing conversations.
**this is not to say that they aren't beautiful/desirable. Just my own personal experience.**
Oh yeah, I've heard comments before.
(I'm sure comments have been made about me too...)
I hate when guys do that. ESPECIALLY when I'm talking to them and they start talking shit about the girl on stage. Like they want me to say something and cause drama....guys are weird sometimes. ::)
Jessie_tinydancer
10-09-2010, 05:43 PM
I actually regularly hear guys make fun of/complain about blondes with big boobs on stage. And not just to make me feel better about myself--this is from overhearing conversations.
**this is not to say that they aren't beautiful/desirable. Just my own personal experience.**
LOL Ya my wallet when I leave work tells me Im not getting laughed at or complained about. Not saying blonde/big boobs = top earner. Our top earner is a blonde with no boobs. Its all about the hustle. But I can say without doubt that my boobs have doubled if not tripled my income and I am 7 weeks back at work and have not asked for one private dance yet. They come to me now.
charlie61
10-09-2010, 05:54 PM
^ Girl, I know! I'm not dissing it. I'm just saying that it's regional!! (At least partially)
Wow, I'm threadjacking again. Sorry!!
yoda57us
10-09-2010, 06:50 PM
Just going to let you know I think it's great that you're supporting your mother and your daughter. If I had to go without because myself and my husband and I were supporting our little girl (or boy) I would go without. In my opinion a man will look after all the women and family in his life, not just the wifey. I'm glad your supporting your daughters way through school (it'll keep her off the pole. Seriously - it's hard to focus on studying when you're trying to work your way through college at any job.).
Thank you very much for the kind words. FWIW my kid graduated last spring and, even though I paid her tuition, she has actually worked full or part time since she turned fifteen. She always wanted to have her own money.
As for my mom, well, she took care of me so it's my turn. She was, btw, a single parent who left two bad marriages rather than be misserable and risk passing that misery along to her kids. She worked her ass off to raise two kids rather than be dependent on a man who was more interested in controlling her than in sharing a life with her.
Honestly, I didn't mean to turn this into a personal testimonial on family responsibility but it seems appropriate given the tone of some of the posts here. We all have our ideal version of the perfect relationship with our spouse or SO but sometimes life has other things in mind for you...
jester214
10-09-2010, 11:15 PM
Well that was an... interesting 6 pages.
Frankly I think the whole "it's my husbands job to provide everything and my contribution should be whatever I please" argument is just as pathetic as the "it's my wifes job to have babies, keep my house sparkling, have dinner waiting on the table and give me pleasure whenever I require".
As to the whole "I don't need a roomate, he better pay the rent" my thought would be "I don't need a mooching bum on my couch even if I really do enjoy his entertainment".
If I make 100K and you make 20K then OUR bank account should say 120K and vice versa. Nobody should be making all the financial choices, they should be done together with open discussion, even if one side doesn't contribute.
I just can't wrap my head around the idea of two people claiming to be together and be in love, yet still recognizing "my money".
I wouldn't drive a Beemer while my wife or girlfriend walked, and I wouldn't want the reverse to be true either.
There are some really antiquated ideas floating around on here... Though at the end of the day it just goes back to a point I've always beleived (and some hate me for it) a lot of women want equality to the point that it suits them. When equality finds them in an uncomfortable position, many are happy to revert towards the unequal but benefical situations.
Kylea2
10-09-2010, 11:21 PM
There are some really antiquated ideas floating around on here...
"Antiquated" is exactly the term I used to describe this whole thing in my response to the similar thread on the pink side. I totally agree!