View Full Version : boyfriend cant cope with me been a stripper
Djoser
12-14-2010, 12:31 PM
The vast majority of 'civilian' women can't handle dating a DJ/bouncer/manager of a stripclub, either. It's usually best to either just stay single and save your money, or date other people in the industry--preferably NOT in your own club!
Though that's no guarantee either, I've seen plenty of dancers and DJs that still couldn't handle 'their' SOs working in the clubs. Usually the trouble is when they are in the same club, though--that's a recipe for disaster (though on rare occasions I have seen it work).
Anastasia Foxx
12-14-2010, 03:42 PM
I just don't understand these things. I understand guys *think* it would be great to date a stripper b/c we're all supposed to be horny & available all the time. Then they realise how difficult this job really can be & the toll it takes on us &nall of a sudden they want to force us to quit.
Well, I've always had one solution to this: I tell them "If you are willing to pay ALL my bills in full every month without bitching and complaining, I'll quit." That usually shuts them up and gets them gone.
I've really lucked out with my So though, he does get frustrated with the club I'm at now, but then so do I. But he's very supportive and encouraging. So I can't complain.
shift_6x
12-17-2010, 02:09 PM
Yea the last two guys I was in ltrs w couldnt handle me being a dancer. It is weighing on me bc current bf wont stop making stupid comments. I told him if he could pay my bills and if he wants to pay my half of the rent Ill quit. That shuts him up at least for a little while but he still likes to give me a hard time about it. It wears on me.