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DesuvsDeath
11-05-2010, 03:08 PM
^^^Lol! Same!

JoeUnCool
11-07-2010, 02:16 PM
Ok so last night I am bored so i decide to cruise up to Pasco county from Clearwater, to the land where the full liquor and full nudity prevails. I'm sitting at the bar watching the football game when a girl approaches me asking for a dance. We talk for a while and then i figure sure, what the heck...3 songs for 100$ seems pretty steep but she seems reasonably intelligent along with cute so we head to the LD area. In this club the LD area has multiple benches separated by walls and each one has a curtain so its pretty private compared to most places i've been, but they're quite small areas. First thing i realize is that this girl isn't the most skilled dancer ever, she pretty much spent the first song with her back to me doing the same grinding over and over. As soon as the second song started she took off her top, slammed my face in her boobs and just kinda wiggled around before going back to the same grinding as the first song, and she removed my belt. It had a square buckle that had to be jabbing her ass/vagina the whole time so i didn't think much of it. As soon as song 3 came on and before i even totally realized what she was doing she had my dick out, a condom on and was giving me a HJ. Seriously, I'll bet it took her all of 3 seconds to unbutton/unzip/install rubber. i just kinda let her go with it till the song was over. She never asked for extra $$$ for it, never mentioned anything extra up front so clearly that's just how she does her thing.
Now here's the thing: That's not my thing. I appreciate an attractive, intelligent female who can dance seductively and includes some contact but I don't go to strip clubs for "sex". Please don't take this as conceited becuase that's totally not what i mean but I'm an attractive 29 year old male who is in shape, has a good job, uses the shower daily, brushes my teeth, etc..... If I'm looking for sex I'll go to a bar at 2:45am. To me the club is entertainment, much like going to a movie or baseball game. And if i wanted a handjob I'd do it myself at home for free, instead of 100$!
I've never been in a situation where it's just "happened". It's been offered and i've turned girls down, and they're always cool with that...but how does one tell a girl that I'm not looking for extras, so please close my pants?? Preferably without making her feel like a total whore or something?

i completely know the feeling, except I am old disgusting fat guy. Just this past week, I had several ladies openly offer sex at a club in Vegas. Were they serious, I don't. In each case, I attempted to politely turn them down. Personally, I like to go to a club, have some "clean" fun, and when I leave the club, I leave what happened there. Sex in a club would seem to mess that up for me.

JoeUnCool
11-07-2010, 02:27 PM
Ok, so I wish I had read beyond the original post and the first 5 responses before responding.

For some reason, this person is getting barbequed by some folks because this could never have happened. Ummmm, sorry folks, I have seen this happen and yes, it has happened to me in my younger, non-fat and disgusting days, and alcohol drinking days. In addition, one of my dancer friends was pretty open that she would do this. Now, this was many years ago in my early days and it would depend on the guy she was dancing for. A middle aged fat guy like me would have no chance, however, she would easily be all over a hot muscular guy if he was her "type."

I guess I am heading back to the dungeon...........

Christyismyalias
11-08-2010, 12:10 AM
Wow, this is a first! LOL

If I were in your position, I would grab both of her hands gently, look her in the eyes and say, "Sweetie, I really appreciate the gesture but that's not my thing." If anything she will probably be relieved that for once she doesn't have to do that.

This is the perfect answer.

Believe it or not boys, not all of you come to the clubs for those services. Thank god.

jack0177057
11-08-2010, 04:08 PM
by the way.....which smilie would you say best represents Tampa's surprise ass-fisting reaction?

The polite thing to do is to put up with it, until you start to like it.

:O... :-[... :)... ;D... :D...

dtxgirl
11-12-2010, 08:37 PM
I hate to think what would have happened had it been.......

dtxgirl
11-12-2010, 08:46 PM
What if she'd done this move???

(I'm hoping the girl was cuter than this baby ALF)

rickdugan
11-12-2010, 08:51 PM
What if she'd done this move???

(I'm hoping the girl was cuter than this baby ALF)


LMAO!!

JenniKat
11-24-2010, 11:46 AM
This story seems about as believable as my telling an ex I cheated on him because I tripped and accidentally fell on a dick.