View Full Version : Am I just crazy or would this piss you off too?
argetdraco
11-04-2010, 10:34 PM
I just hate all this fighting. :( thank you for the apology, Shaebabii. I don't really ever take huge offence to anything anyone says because everyones in a different place than I am. Nicole84, I do tend to over-react when it comes to anything. But I cool down quick. It's hard to make relationships last when you're faced with some tough shit from the begining, but I love him and want my child to have it's dad. Thank you. :)
Kat w
11-05-2010, 06:37 AM
Side note - I find it kinda of hilarious when girls (not women, haha) passive aggressively use terms of endearment like "luv" and "hun".
Back to the OP - I understand what you mean, it seems hard to perservere in a relationship when the cards almost seem stacked against you in the first place. However, you love him and you have the greatest motivation in the world (your baby) to make things work so rock on.
Elvia
11-05-2010, 03:08 PM
Side note - I find it kinda of hilarious when girls (not women, haha) passive aggressively use terms of endearment like "luv" and "hun".
When someone acts like a child, I don't think it's possible to talk to them without condescending to them. If you have to explain basic manners to someone, it's going to come off as condescending. So I figure I may as well not bother trying to make it look like it's not condescending. It is passive aggressive, I'll own that. Rude people get rudeness in return.
DesuvsDeath
11-05-2010, 03:11 PM
This is a bit off-topic... but I'm still hung up on the fact that he lets his facial hair get HALF AN INCH LONG before shaving it.
That'd make me way crazier than him using my razor. >>;
KS_Stevia
11-05-2010, 03:48 PM
My ex used to borrow my nice razors all the time. I am now using the Hydro razors, which I love. But they don't come cheap. He would always use them and never buy me a refill every once in a while. So, I feel the pain of the OP. It really pissed me off and was an indicator of how the relationship failed. However, its not really a violation, he had to improvise for his new job. You wouldn't want him to get in trouble and not get paid at all right? If it was a one time thing, there is still hope.
A simple conversation about planning ahead and consideration should suffice.
And just because you aren't getting orals from him doesn't mean you aren't exchanging fluids constantly through sex and breathing on each other and kissing and whatever bacterial residue floats around.