View Full Version : my ex and his new girlfriend friended me on facebook
Athenathefabulous
11-11-2010, 10:04 PM
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Kylea2
11-11-2010, 11:48 PM
i dont think she claims to be a scientist. she wouldnt tell me what she does due to her being a humble christian ::). im guessing she is unemployed.
I believe you are right, she's un-employed. Although she did comment on one of her friend's pages that she had just enrolled in massage therapy school. I guess she plans to change the world one back-rub at a time? /:O
DesuvsDeath
11-12-2010, 12:08 AM
she deleted all of her comments. all 51 of them according to my email updates.
also just saw that my ex is now engaged to her, via facebook status.
I hate that. "I care enough to sit on your FB for 20 hours leaving condescending comments and insulting sex-workers as a general group... but I don't care enough to stand by anything I said now that people on the internet is being mean to me back."
I feel bad for your ex, I really do. One of my friends is currently dating someone JUST LIKE that girl. :(
Kylea2
11-12-2010, 12:14 AM
"I don't care enough to stand by anything I said now that people on the internet is being mean to me back."
The funny thing is that I basically told her from the get-go that she should delete all of her comments because she was making a fool of herself.
DesuvsDeath
11-12-2010, 12:22 AM
Lol. Is that why she finally deleted them?
That's even worse.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Kylea2
11-12-2010, 12:33 AM
I just want to say thank you for all the other ladies who stood up & said something to her/them. THAT is a prime example of fighting back at prejudice, telling them that their stereotypes are not correct for all of us, & that we can be happy as well as proud of what we do!
tempest666
11-12-2010, 01:48 AM
It's very easy to give up stripping and escorting when nobody would fucking hire you. If i was that butt ugly i'd claim i quit to become a fucking scientist too.
LMFAO omg!!!! my turn for my sides to hurt!
tempest666
11-12-2010, 02:47 AM
I was bored so I posted again! read my posts!!!!!! }:-D
Elvia
11-12-2010, 03:19 AM
^^^ I want in :(
_Avery_
11-12-2010, 10:47 AM
Lol. Is that why she finally deleted them?
That's even worse.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
lmao, I thought she blocked me which is why I couldn't see her posts anymore!
Then I read everything and this and she deleted them?!!
BWA HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
Gosh, her head looks like a watermelon....or more like a squash.
tempest666
11-12-2010, 11:10 AM
Did anyone see my posts >:-(
Athenathefabulous
11-12-2010, 11:19 AM
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she sells sanctuary
11-12-2010, 12:00 PM
that's not what tourette's is. i can almost handle people who are obnoxious failures at life, but who are capable of doing better. people who aren't, but are delusional enough to think they're brilliant, omg. i wouldn't actually do anything, but the film reels that run in my mind when i have to interract with them tend to involve fire or blunt trauma.
i like to point to people like this when i get called insecure or whatever. i'd rather be "insecure" (not full of myself) than think i'm the shit when i'm really a fugly retard.
i suspect she'll show up again to try to contact you or your friends with her awesomeness when they get married.
DesuvsDeath
11-12-2010, 03:48 PM
Did anyone see my posts >:-(
I saw them. Then I lol'd... then I fb stalked you briefly.
lmao, I thought she blocked me which is why I couldn't see her posts anymore!
Then I read everything and this and she deleted them?!!
It was pretty funny... she deleted them... and posted something gay like "There, I deleted all my posts, now everyone can calm down."
Then after I responded to that... she posted a bunch of stuff in reply to me... (funny... the only thing she could come up with in response to my valid points were to tell me to shut up or to go away. LOL. Apparently... she HAS to respond to anything directed at her whether she has a valid point to come back with or not.) Then later... she deleted all of that, too. Lol.
Kylea2
11-12-2010, 05:02 PM
I loved Tempest's "hoover" comment.
tempest666
11-13-2010, 01:53 AM
I saw them. Then I lol'd... then I fb stalked you briefly.
It was pretty funny... she deleted them... and posted something gay like "There, I deleted all my posts, now everyone can calm down."
Then after I responded to that... she posted a bunch of stuff in reply to me... (funny... the only thing she could come up with in response to my valid points were to tell me to shut up or to go away. LOL. Apparently... she HAS to respond to anything directed at her whether she has a valid point to come back with or not.) Then later... she deleted all of that, too. Lol.
How come you havent friended me :'(
dtxgirl
11-14-2010, 06:35 PM
Oh holy balls, that whole thing is AMAZING. WOW.
And it's kinda like Malificent had a love child with a hobbit.
Athena FTW!!!!!!!
Kylea2
11-14-2010, 06:53 PM
^^^ Haha, yes.
We really should have saved that whole conversation somewhere start to finish - it was pretty amusing.
HEAD TURNER 2
11-15-2010, 07:17 AM
It's very easy to give up stripping and escorting when nobody would fucking hire you. If i was that butt ugly i'd claim i quit to become a fucking scientist too.
Exactly what I was thinking.. :)
cherryblossomsinspring
11-15-2010, 08:07 AM
Ohh no way. Ok I had something similar happen. Some guy my mother used to date when I was in high school found me now at my age. Started trying to keep hinting out how he cheats on his wife with phone sex. Now why would I want to hear that? I don't want to even imagine my mother naked and now you're putting those images of you in my head? Gross. So he kept pushing and pushing with trying to bring up inappropriate stuff. So I told him hey umm that's grossing me out can you please stop and lets talk about "normal" stuff. His attempt was to try and find someone he could phone sex for free on facebook. What a loser right?
So whenever I logged in it started the same still trying to drop hint and I kept ignoring it but still trying to umm respect my elders. Then I decided to just lay him out with the truth because I felt like I was getting mentally raped. So I started telling him how old men gross me out. Not interested in seeing anyone that has no hair on thier head or that dreaded cut in half christmas wreath around the back of the head look.
He tried to laugh it off but I didn't stop there. I started making references to Jaba the Hut for this guy is pretty obese. I respect and admire big women but I find big men to be gross. I mean look at that sick guy who was recording those escort girls and strip club shows. They are usually 50+ nasty body and hate women. I find that when I see a man like this I'm offended by how blatant they are about sex. They are usually bitter and selfish as well. The cheapest types.
Anyhow everytime he made an inappropriate comment I just kept stating on how gross that was and how he was making me want to vomit.
Then when he couldn't take the last back of his actions that's when he tried the typical " I NEVER WANTED YOU ANYWAYS" game. Which is where he tried to ask questions like what do you do for work? Did you go to school. blah blah trying to give the old well you're not all that speech after being so horribly rejected by yours truly. When I see a fat man if he doesn't have diabetes or some glad issue I see lazyness. Especially here in CA it's like unacceptable and they are usually the most pushy when they arent even trying to keep in shape. They just let themselves go and then come at the skinniest girl and hit on her with their pockets turned out. I mean it's not like these guys had children? Or have a monthly cycle?
So anyways this guy is married just got married to 3years ago. So wow you're already bored and you're hitting on the child of a woman you used to date some 13-14 years ago. My mother even dropped him never slept with him and thought he was a loser and sadly he was pretty handsome back in the day.
I even threatened him that if he kept this up these inappropriate messages would be forwarded over to the wife. I even went off on him saying wow she's out there working and this is what you do behind her back? Would you like her to talk to men and try having sex with a stranger? He was like ooh no that woudn't work. I now realized he married her so when he gets too big or his body gives out he'll have someone to change his diapers for him.
Any how. he then tried to come back saying well you're not all that and blah blah blah. I told him hey that's the point sweety I told you stop coming at me because im nto interested.
So here's what i did. Instead of deleting him. I blocked him from comments, picture posts and even my wall. What he can only see now are pictures of me and my sexy hot ex. I leave pictures of my ex up on purpose so that these guys know they don't stand a chance. If you can't beat him in looks don't even bother hitting on me.
So he even tried the whole I got money game or I can introduce you to some heavy hitters. I always laugh at guys that try that out here because they will never let you have a conversation with these men. I mean yeah right they're going to take you out and just let you have conversations with men that are more interesting, have a very comfortable financial backround and are attractive? NOT
So he tried the whole ohh yeah where are you going for Halloween my wife is going to be out of town. Then tried the whole welll yeah we're going to this WB party it's going to great. I would invite you...blah blah.
Told him no thanks I love going out by myself , I give me the opportunity to meet hot eligible bachelors. hahhaha
lol this guy was so pissed off that's when he started with well you're not all that andyou don't have the body type I like. Thats when I put him in his place and said aww it's that the game you're trying now? You didn't want me so now I didn't want you anyways speech. hahah nice try but sorry old man you're were dying to get a piece of me, you just realize that I find you so repulsive that no matter what money you have you couldn't pay me enough to even be in your company for a sec.
Then he was like ooh I don't think we shoudl talk anymore. I was like well it's apparent that you can't speak to someone's kid with some respect and you don't respect you wife , or my mother if you have to come on facebook trying to find someone that would do free phone sex with you. How lame is that? People that look like you should never be cheap if anything you should be paying for it like every other married , hideously obese old man. Lame
Then right before halloween he sent me a message saying hey I'm sorry can we be friends . Lol I totally ignored him.
His hope was that maybe he could bump into me somewhere.
Just to play it safe I put that I went to like 6 places on Halloween and really I stayed home to work my phones. Lol never even went out. hahaha So I was thinking even if I blocked my wall from this loser he could have gotten in another way and if so he would have wasted a bunch of money running around town trying to bump into me but hahah I'm sitting at home in a sexy alfit about to cam up to real wankers that pay. lol If only he knew what I do for a living... hahaha
ANSWER BLOCK YOUR POSTS / BLOCK YOU WALL / BLOCK YOUR PICS and just let them see the same old ones they have been looking at. This will fix them good and really? What ex and new girlfriend friend you on facebook? That's creepy as hell!
ArmySGT.
11-15-2010, 01:29 PM
Hmmmmmm I just wanted to Troll. Damn I love baiting fundamentalist Christians.
Athenathefabulous
11-15-2010, 02:53 PM
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tempest666
11-15-2010, 03:12 PM
Que fea! Porque estas hablando con ella?
Athenathefabulous
11-15-2010, 03:13 PM
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tempest666
11-15-2010, 03:19 PM
mira mira!!!!
DesuvsDeath
11-15-2010, 03:28 PM
@Tempest... I thought i did friend req you. D':
Maybe I should stop browsing with 20+ tabs open so I can keep track of what I'm doing.
lol she messaged me and i was hoping or a conversation as amusing as the last one. unfortunatley this one is not as amusing.
now she is retracting her statement about needing to 'give it up' at the SC.
and saying that as an escort she was never asked for sex ::).
That's the problem with lying when you're bad at at. Hard to keep up with things.
tempest666
11-15-2010, 03:32 PM
Anyone who is fluent in espanol look at my posts and feel free to translate!
tempest666
11-15-2010, 03:32 PM
@Tempest... I thought i did friend req you. D':
Maybe I should stop browsing with 20+ tabs open so I can keep track of what I'm doing.
That's the problem with lying when you're bad at at. Hard to keep up with things.
You can come to my bedroom now }:D
tempest666
11-15-2010, 03:36 PM
How the fuck did that bitch make any money? did she extort money from them so they would pay her to go away? She makes this one bitch I despise from KO's look like Helen of Troy, and that's saying a lot!!!!
Athenathefabulous
11-15-2010, 03:42 PM
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DesuvsDeath
11-15-2010, 03:48 PM
How the fuck did that bitch make any money? did she extort money from them so they would pay her to go away? She makes this one bitch I despise from KO's look like Helen of Troy, and that's saying a lot!!!!
I would very much doubt if she made any money if she was even a stripper at all.
...Which would explain the way she talks about the industry/dancers.
But you know how it is.
The girls that make $40 a night are always the ones that were "top of their club" once they're no longer dancing.
Athenathefabulous
11-15-2010, 05:37 PM
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ArmySGT.
11-15-2010, 07:14 PM
Anyone who is fluent in espanol look at my posts and feel free to translate!
What if I read better than speak, and tongue pussy better than I speak?
Conjugacion de las verbas es no mas facil para mi chica bonita.
dame su su attencion para un mometo solamente, por favor. linda. La alma dulce.
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and saying that as an escort she was never asked for sex ::).
That is actually pretty believable looking at her.
tempest666
11-19-2010, 12:21 AM
Careful, I better not let my SO see her pic. Hee hee old habits die hard and those of you that saw the pics know my SO has a history with fugly bitches!!!! :D
_Avery_
11-19-2010, 05:00 PM
Careful, I better not let my SO see her pic. Hee hee old habits die hard and those of you that saw the pics know my SO has a history with fugly bitches!!!! :D
Omg, I couldn't believe those pics! I was eating too when I opened them up....eating and ugly bitches don't mix. LOL
tempest666
11-19-2010, 05:28 PM
Omg, I couldn't believe those pics! I was eating too when I opened them up....eating and ugly bitches don't mix. LOL
I wish the mods would let us start up an "I can't believe he stuck his dick in that" thread!!!!! Mine would definitely be in the winner's circle!!!!
_Avery_
11-19-2010, 07:43 PM
I wish the mods would let us start up an "I can't believe he stuck his dick in that" thread!!!!! Mine would definitely be in the winner's circle!!!!
lmfao, I never even seen that thread!
rock_n_roll_dream
11-29-2010, 08:27 PM
wow that would be so annoying. Thats exactly why i can't add my exes or their new girlfriends...they act like idiots on my page and they embarrass me with their stupid comments on there....I think "oh how embarassing, other people are going to read this and think I like to hang around morons!" lol. I bet the new chick is definatley trying to see how she measures up to you...I hate when stupid exes try to add you just to stalk and go through all of your pictures/comments/statuses and not to mention see if their boyfriend has made any comments! lol
i just try and take it as a compliment when I see a new friend request from a new girlfriend of one of my exes and crack a little sh*t grin..and then delete them of course :)
sananeko
11-29-2010, 08:46 PM
Now I'm rethinking about getting a facebook.. I thought against it cause I don't like my ex stalkers finding me.. but this might balance it out.
tempest666
11-30-2010, 01:23 PM
Omg, I couldn't believe those pics! I was eating too when I opened them up....eating and ugly bitches don't mix. LOL
I'm gonna siggy that!!!!!
Athenathefabulous
01-15-2011, 11:23 AM
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Athenathefabulous
01-15-2011, 12:07 PM
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_Avery_
01-15-2011, 12:16 PM
I'll go report her...see if you can get everyone else to report her too, and get her FB deleted.
She sounds like a crazy ass stalker.
Sending you messages and then blocking you so you can't respond? I fucking hate that shit.
I would create another profile, just a fake one, so you can use it to message her back.
What she's doing is harassment.
I would call your lawyer friend to see if there's something you can do.
The thing that sucks, is there is no way to get in contact with FB. There's no contact e-mail, no customer service...nothing. I've tried so many times to get in contact with someone there. (If there is a way, and I'm completely missing it...I'd love to know.)
princessjas
01-15-2011, 12:17 PM
I would immediately post a status update warning your friends that you have a girl stalking you and that you suspect she went through your friends list before you realized she was crazy and made it private. I'd also call the ex and explain that she is now also stalking another friend of yours' and ask him to get her to stop, then call the lawyer and ask if there is any legal retribution. Best to hit it from all angles imo before it becomes a bigger problem or a serious threat to your safety.
Kisca
01-15-2011, 12:36 PM
Is there a way to block her and him? I would do an update status saying sometihng along the lines of your account being stalked.. Make everything "friends only" not friends of friends or everyone. I would also just wait a bit on it and let her cool down, if she still bothers you contact her and the ex saying you will file a harassment report on them if they dont stop.
Athenathefabulous
01-15-2011, 08:42 PM
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You don't reason with the crazy, you shoot it with a shotgun. Arguing with her is pointless, she likes the drama. Ignore her, ignore the ex, make your profile private and forget either of them exist. If she continues to harass you report her to the appropriate authorities.
*Jade*Love
01-15-2011, 09:28 PM
Holy fuck I just read this whole thread.....bitch is CRAZY. And it seems like any type of attention, good or bad, just fuels her fire. What a pathetic mess! Sorry you have to deal with this, be the bigger person and just cut off all contact after sending the messages you posted above ^. What's really disturbing is that she has a kid. Some poor child's mom is behaving this way? :O
Athenathefabulous
01-15-2011, 09:35 PM
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