View Full Version : Do dancers have a jaded view of guys?
shift_6x
12-12-2010, 08:58 PM
Its not just that women customers r jealous of us that they give us dirty looks its bc they straight up carry the same disrespect that many men do. Actually I think sometimes when college kids come in in groups especially on the weekends I think the women sometimes like to show off in front of everyone with their degrading comments..Its almost like they think they r cool if they r talking shit about us in front of their friends. Ive either straight up picked up my money and walked away without a word, ignored them when they r right n front of me (they really hate that one),or told them off many times. I know thats killed my money sometimes but Im smart enough to know wtf they r doing and Im not going to play nto their stupidity on most occasions by pretending like Im an idiot dancer who doesnt hear a thing that they r saying. I tell people quite often...Now many think Im a mean bitch and well after that kinda treatment well those types of customers deserve it. However for me I think alot of it has to do with burnout. Whether I like it or not I need to work on my attitude and maybe try to kill them with kindness instead of lowering myself to their level. Maybe the next time some bitch makes a snide remark I should say 'Wow. I really love ur dress."....or "How r u tonite ?" maybe they will feel like an idiot instead of continuing to be disrespectful..
lopaw
12-12-2010, 09:02 PM
I imagine some of your angelic qualities are unmentionable on a moderated board }:D
FBR
Oh, if those VIP room walls could talk! ;D
Kellydancer
12-15-2010, 09:50 PM
This is .
I had to go back and actually read that thread. But yeah that's exactly how I feel and have seen that mentality so much dancing. To be honest though, the way I feel right now I'd love to find a guy who will take care of me. Not that I ever wanted that, but right now finding a guy I can use sounds pretty good.
keith77
12-16-2010, 10:01 AM
It will all have to depend on the person. We have different views about many things. It's just a matter of how we handle it.
Almost Jaded
12-25-2010, 10:07 PM
I either have to refrain from commenting at all, or write novel.
I'll opt for the former, lol.
Great thread. I'm also wondering who the OP is and if I or any of my friends know him, lol.
tempest666
12-26-2010, 09:20 AM
I just have a jaded view of humanity in general
LVpokerPRO
12-26-2010, 10:46 PM
I either have to refrain from commenting at all, or write novel.
I'll opt for the former, lol.
Great thread. I'm also wondering who the OP is and if I or any of my friends know him, lol.
If they play online, they probably know me.
girlfromipanema
12-27-2010, 05:52 PM
I don't think I have a jaded view of guys, but a realistic view. I feel I would be at a disadvantage if I had not worked in a strip club. I would believe what many sheltered women believe about men. I'm not saying they are completely ignorant of how men are, but they really don't know the depths to which men will sink. The truth is ugly, but I prefer it over an illusion any day.
Almost Jaded
12-27-2010, 06:04 PM
Not to be defensive, but women can sink pretty damn low as well, lol. Humanity is capable of doing aweful things to one another, plain and simple, and gender has little to do with it.