View Full Version : Is porn influencing guys expectations?
yoda57us
01-18-2011, 06:18 AM
Soap and the anus do not mix.
Dude, what on earth are you talking about? I'm not suggesting that anyone insert it in their ass.
MargaritaVillain
01-18-2011, 08:33 AM
^^ Haha... that post really made me laugh
SerenaSin
01-18-2011, 08:58 AM
Yeah there's been too much spitting (like any at all) for a long time. They started that shit ten years ago, and never stopped. What the fuck is sexy about that?? It's actually a turnoff.
It's a way to get the genitals wet without the intimacy and pleasure of giving a woman oral. It's fucking dumb. As someone who enjoys porn, I just don't get it. I've been seeing it a lot more recently. Spit just grosses me out! (I mean it's different when it's "saliva", from licking, kissing, oral, or whatever though...)
And I'm not someone who's exclusively or even heavily into cutesy/cuddly/lovey-dovey "softcore" porn. I like some stuff that's just straight up nasty fuckin. But there's a limit.
And to answer the question, yeh of course it influences guys' expectations. Preferences and expectations don't exist in a vacuum, removed from the images that inundate our media-saturated culture and permeate our collective consciousness.
When was the last time you saw some bush in a porn clip that wasn't a relic from the 80's?
Soap and the anus do not mix.
Really? you don't use soap back there? That seems highly unhygienic.
billh
01-18-2011, 12:06 PM
Yes. Yes it is. Not even just guys, but chicks as well.
I find this to be true also. I am surprised how many women ask for anal or you to come on their face. I can only guess this is due to more women watching porn now that it is no longer seen as a guy only thing.
lemiwinks31
01-18-2011, 01:09 PM
I agree..., I love going down on a woman; eating her pussy and rubbing her clit with my tongue,
... but her asshole? --- Shit comes out of there! :-\
???
yeah.....and babies come out of the vagina...it doesnt mean you have to eat them.
lemiwinks31
01-18-2011, 01:14 PM
Soap and the anus do not mix.
Well, Captain Skidmarks, I think you are going to be safe from anyone wanting to eating out your ass......
charlie61
01-18-2011, 10:52 PM
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yeah.....and babies come out of the vagina...it doesnt mean you have to eat them.
Your posts entertain me.
yoda57us
01-19-2011, 11:16 PM
^ Seriously! Those last two are cracking me up!!
Redwolf
01-20-2011, 10:26 AM
I am always UP for whatever a lady wants to try.
Most porns probably spend about two or three times more time on the girl going down on the guy than on the guy going down on the girl. Of course, I enjoy receiving. But the lady should get more than equal time. I equally enjoy giving.
jack0177057
01-20-2011, 01:25 PM
Just a comment - While the OP was complaining about the negatives of porn - i.e., the misguided expectations of men in certain things, it should be noted that porn has had positive effects on society too - most notably, the idea that women can enjoy sex as much as men, and that a "lady" may enjoy rough sex (and this doesn't make her a freak). Also, going down on a woman has become mainstream because of porn.
OP here. Unfortunately, I don't like when guys go down me. But I see your point.
msincredible01
01-20-2011, 07:25 PM
I really haven't seen a porn star lick pussy very well. It's like they're unclogging a drain or drilling for oil when they go down on a girl. I usually fast foward during these scenes. I lick pussy like I'm licking honey off a butterfly's wings. My girlfriend goes crazy over pussy licking and I can make her cum. She's very difficult to make cum, BTW.
Thank you!
I've had this problem with literally every single guy who's gone down on me. Personally speaking mine is way too sensitive to start drillin away at it like that. Its not only a turn off but physically uncomfortable.
*Best 'advice' I ever give to guys who go down on me: said in the sweetest voice, "I want you to kiss here (points to kitty) like you kiss me up here (points to lips...on mouth)" Thats the perfect foundation for giving amazing oral that will actually get a female off. French kiss**
kandie_kitten
01-20-2011, 08:35 PM
Maybe it's just wishful thinking, or maybe it's porn...but why is it just assumed now that every girl is down for a threesome?
I know plenty of girls like it, but now it seems expected for a girlfriend to be happy to have a girl (or 4) in bed with her and her boyfriend.
But god forbid she suggest bringing in another guy.
MistyRose
01-20-2011, 09:10 PM
My bf is crazy about doing a threesome with another girl and he's very willing to bring in another guy if I want that instead. I reeeeeeally don't, but I just wanted to point out not all straight men are dreading another guy in bed.
Kellydancer
01-20-2011, 10:33 PM
Thank you!
I've had this problem with literally every single guy who's gone down on me. Personally speaking mine is way too sensitive to start drillin away at it like that. Its not only a turn off but physically uncomfortable.
*Best 'advice' I ever give to guys who go down on me: said in the sweetest voice, "I want you to kiss here (points to kitty) like you kiss me up here (points to lips...on mouth)" Thats the perfect foundation for giving amazing oral that will actually get a female off. French kiss**
I always have to show them what I like. I like when a guy teases my clit, yet for some unexplained reason some of them think I like when they lick inside my lips and I hate that.
I am happy to see men here stating they enjoy oral. Sometimes I feel guilty admitting that I love oral better than regular sex. I've dated a few men who hated it or just tolerated, and it's sad. I will not do a threesome with a serious boyfriend though. While in theory it sounds fun (and I've done them) there's often too many emotions when dealing with someone who one is in love with. Some can handle it but others can't.
yoda57us
01-22-2011, 06:39 PM
I always have to show them what I like. I like when a guy teases my clit, yet for some unexplained reason some of them think I like when they lick inside my lips and I hate that.
Many years ago a woman told me exactly what you just posted. I took it to heart and it was advice that has served me well...
I am happy to see men here stating they enjoy oral. Sometimes I feel guilty admitting that I love oral better than regular sex.
Guilty? Why should you feel guilty about admitting to what pleases you? I've been with women who enjoyed oral more than penetration and had the time of my life. I'm not getting any younger and, to be honest, mutual oral is a lot of fun and very relaxing and satisfying for me at this point in my life. Even a gal who enjoys penetration is almost always good for a few orgasms delivered orally as well.
Djoser
01-23-2011, 05:00 AM
Haha you know I have to say that it's not necessarily a bad thing, as long as you like what they want to do, and they are trying like hell to please you like in the videos. Which makes you want to reciprocate, and that's always a good thing. Like I could never come easy from getting head, before one porn fan GF, and she dedicated herself to changing that. She was as good as almost any porn starlet, so it worked. Quite amazing. So I'm really not complaining, far from it.
Sometimes you can eat your cake, and save some too.
;D