View Full Version : How do I Become a Financial Domme???
CatBBW
04-19-2016, 11:37 AM
I am a domme and i do hve few good money slaves, but yes, they are just few. Most of the sites wont take dommes into financial slavery, they find it gross, so i advise you to not post in real domme sites like fetlife.
FetLife community *generally* doesn't like Pro Dommes anyway. I never had a warm welcome from FL members regarding being paid for my time.
CollarSpace was even worse.
Amata
04-19-2016, 12:05 PM
I know, I tried already CollarSpace. Very warm welcome there ... LOL
And what about insta dommes? I see a lot of profiles on twitter. Not talking about groups on facebook. They are posting receipts of payments on their walls.
All I've seen until now were kind of BDSM services online.
audritwo
04-19-2016, 12:43 PM
Saturated market. Also there are turf wars.
You can try. I doubt you'll make much. Its not smart to rely 100% on findomming.
If you want to do domme and fetish. Sell clips and start working cam sites. You can use social media to market yourself.
Amata
04-19-2016, 12:52 PM
I don't want to focus on that ... which cam sites are good for foot fetish? Or are they all the same?
Thank you all for replies !!
audritwo
04-19-2016, 12:55 PM
All the same. It depends on you and your ability to sell. Best thing to do is to just jump in. Foot fetish is also a saturated market too.
Amata
04-19-2016, 01:05 PM
OK, thank u !!
KittieVenom
04-21-2016, 09:01 PM
Ugh flashbacks from attempting to find customers on Fetlife. *shudders* I hope you find something, love!
DancesWithSloths
04-22-2016, 01:48 AM
I've had a couple of genuine money slaves, but they found me through neighbouring femdom-related fetishes. Although they have a genuine *fetish*, it doesn't mean they have the income to indulge in it regularly. So they'll come round for their treat once in every few months, like any other middle-class slave, but instead of, say, talking about being paraded around town on a leash, they'll want to spin fantasies about shopping.
Bottom line is, it's a fantasy. They like to talk about it and role-play. Some are pleasant genuine guys, and you'll have fun sessions with them. BUT don't expect the fetish to spill over into real life any more than the ones who offer to come and clean your house with a toothbrush, or be chained under your desk all day.
xxxluv
04-27-2016, 08:58 PM
I like most agree it can be time consuming as most potential finsubs have a fantasy of it. If you are a femdom already and you want to expand on financial domination research, research, research ! I say go for it be prepared to invest in time, joining reputable findom sites that verify both findoms and finsubs, always have it as an fetish that you are into (on any and every site you are on) and let them come to you. If you are just getting into it thinking random sissy humanatms (or whatever name you will call them) is really going to give you $500 and send you $1,000 in gifts after a 2 min convo just because you said do it, think again.
My experience
I am on collarspace and fetlife and a few times a month I get my one time finsubs- fine with me easy sessions that I bank on.
Also being active on both sites and not just popping up ranting to give me this and that - the prior is better received.
Real finsubs like other sensible custies with camming or elsewhere will send you items off your wishlist without question (not the old scammie lets do a session and this is your payment).
Another with camming I have quite a few random subs who will come in and just tip because I am a femdom or we play findom games. I never have to ask or seek out. While there may be a question or two about it or they want a more in depth convo they pay for it! This shows that if they are genuinely interested all the back and forth is unwarranted( when no $$ has been given).
Just like other custies trying to get free dirty talk or free humiliation think again my friend.
Financial domination clips are great many subs will buy them as most can not afford to do what they want - so perfect fantasy through clips.
I have had many subs in the past and some now whom were not necessarily interested in financial domination but eventually after building a relationship enjoying our other sessions they ultimately what me to have even more control, allowing me to dominate their finances.
Amata
04-27-2016, 11:18 PM
Thank you all for replies !!
queenmallika
05-13-2016, 07:26 AM
Well I am a findom myself i started out on second life which to some might sound dum but its not you have no idea how many subs i have gotten on there and some have followed me to me doing pro domme and even want to tribute real money instead of linden which is second life money which if you save enough lindens you can turn into real money and I use team viewer and skype with my subs and i also seen many so call findoms make a bad name for the true meaning of what findom is all about which is not all about milking and its hard work but i love it .
SylvySinclair
05-13-2016, 08:57 AM
if u interested visit this site: findoms.com, its a great way to learn a lila abt financial domme.
DonaDiabla
05-15-2016, 07:41 AM
My experience as a findom is very good so far. Also, I am a findom on Second Life and it is pretty great as well. However, most finsubs can not afford to pay for their fetish every week and many real finsubs are very needy. Also that hepays site is not a scam as there are many Niteflirt findoms on there but it has not worked for me. I only received 40 dollars at the most. Interestly enough, you can find a lot of finsubs on Ebanned.com as well. Also never discount the whole email finsub because they tribute 50 to 200 per week but they do not want to be caught up in the whole website experience :) Also, make sure financial domination also goes along with some other fetish. Usually, I pair financial domination with magic control or the erotic magic fetish. I hope this helps :)
Hi girls,
I would like to know if somebody has experiences with financial domination and where could be good place to "appear" as findomme.
Does anybody know hepays website? Is it serious or scam?
thank you in advance for help.
Amata
anouk.oui
05-11-2018, 08:06 AM
I mean if you're already into bdsm and stripping its the fusion dreams are made of.
What are your experiences? Does it work long term for you? Happy to swap stories.
Most people I engage with are thru twitter, IWantClips and MFC
SadistPrincess
09-18-2018, 09:16 PM
As a seasoned FinDomme I will tell you right now that it’s not the easy way to make money that many think. Many Dommes post fake screen shots of tributes and make it look like they’re getting all this money when they’re not. It’s a ploy to get the finsubs to step up and tribute. And it doesn’t work most of the time.
Like anything else it takes time. Read forums and study how others work, but remember a LOT of it is smoke and mirrors. There will be plenty of guys who spend a bit here and there, but the whales are rare and you’ll only find them by putting out time and lots of content. (Or being online a lot if you’re camming or doing phone).
The men themselves are needy AF. They’re like little vampires, and they will absolutely suck your energy dry because they think they can, since they’re paying you. They often try to top from the bottom when they know you’re depending on their money. I hate most of them tbh. Dealing with other fetishists is so much easier. Trust, it’s really not as easy as it looks. If you’re willing to do it for the long haul, by all means go for it, but if you’re looking to get rich quick and cannot devote your all to it, it’s not a good idea.
SadistPrincess
09-18-2018, 09:27 PM
“FetLife community *generally* doesn't like Pro Dommes anyway. I never had a warm welcome from FL members regarding being paid for my time.
CollarSpace was even worse.”
Agreed. Many forums on FL will ban you for trying to advertise yourself as a provider of any kind.
CFMNH44
10-23-2018, 12:55 PM
I do see members on FL that advertise services and events / parties for payment, but they are know members of the community. Not just FinDoms, although they may offer it, more like traditional fetishes (If there are any LOL), play parties and CFNM type events. So I'd say join the community, build a friends list, maybe go to a few local munches before posting ads.
“FetLife community *generally* doesn't like Pro Dommes anyway. I never had a warm welcome from FL members regarding being paid for my time.
CollarSpace was even worse.”
Agreed. Many forums on FL will ban you for trying to advertise yourself as a provider of any kind.