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unbeleavable
02-03-2011, 01:18 PM
This is exactly why I'm just giving up.
You can only take rejection so many times. It's like being at the club, after hearing "no" over and over again...it's time to take a break..ya know?
So, like I said, I've just prepared myself to just not have sex for awhile. I'm just sick of being humiliated over and over again.
Avery it sounds like he loves you...& he will be back..you know that. He just needs to learn how to show affection, even when there is nothing to gain in return. Now...when he does return try to help him learn a lesson.
jack0177057
02-03-2011, 01:50 PM
This is exactly why I'm just giving up.
You can only take rejection so many times. It's like being at the club, after hearing "no" over and over again...it's time to take a break..ya know?
So, like I said, I've just prepared myself to just not have sex for awhile. I'm just sick of being humiliated over and over again.
That's probably best for now. But, when you feel a little better, you both need to confront and discuss this issue.
Again, let me emphasize this - your DAMN HOT, GIRL, and I love your smile - I hope it stays on your face, despite what you're going through.
Don't let this make you feel insecure... This is just about relationships issues that have nothing to do with your attractiveness and sex appeal.
charlie61
02-03-2011, 10:57 PM
Yeah, Avery, seriously try not to take it as a shot to your self esteem. I love this quote: "For every hot girl, there's a guy who's sick of fucking her." I know that sounds SUPER harsh, but it is so true. Someone not wanting to have sex with you has nothing to do with how hot you are.
This is probably just a phase he's going through. Time to get your vibe on! :D
ETA: Also, in tough times like this, I'd advise you do a lot of flirting. It'll help keep your self-esteem up and is relatively harmless (IMO). Flirt with the grocer, the mailman, whomever you come into contact with. It doesn't have to mean anything, but it'll remind you that you still have what it takes, and that this problem isn't being caused by you. Maybe you're the type who doesn't enjoy flirting when she has a SO, but I thought I'd throw that out there.
Jessie_tinydancer
02-04-2011, 11:25 AM
Its definitely not you babe. You are HOT! Pretty sure my husband would jump at the chance to have sex with you... even preggers hehe.
This situation definitely sucks. I know you cant make threats when you are part of a family, but geez this would be a serious deal breaker for me. Not the porn. My husband definitely looks at porn several times a day, but he also initiates sex daily. If he was rejecting me I just couldnt handle it. I would straight out say he better start doing me or Id be looking elsewhere. I know its not a realistic solution given your pregnant but he needs to understand how serious this is. Sex is so important in keeping a relationship healthy. :(
GlitterBexie
02-05-2011, 05:36 PM
Yeah, Avery, seriously try not to take it as a shot to your self esteem. I love this quote: "For every hot girl, there's a guy who's sick of fucking her." I know that sounds SUPER harsh, but it is so true. Someone not wanting to have sex with you has nothing to do with how hot you are.
This is probably just a phase he's going through. Time to get your vibe on! :D
ETA: Also, in tough times like this, I'd advise you do a lot of flirting. It'll help keep your self-esteem up and is relatively harmless (IMO). Flirt with the grocer, the mailman, whomever you come into contact with. It doesn't have to mean anything, but it'll remind you that you still have what it takes, and that this problem isn't being caused by you. Maybe you're the type who doesn't enjoy flirting when she has a SO, but I thought I'd throw that out there.
This is my bf and his friends favouite quote, when i asked them about it they were honest and said it was nothing to do with the girl, it was them and their stupid penis's. One of his friends who was present at the time chimed in with this "yeah, i always close my eyes and imagine its someone else, or look at her pictures of her mates on the wall and pretend its them" bearing in mind his gf at the time was literally one of the hottest girls ive ever seen!
Men suck, take some you time, dont let him get you down!
GlitterBexie
02-05-2011, 05:38 PM
http://www.internetshouldbeillegal.com/
Mini thread jack but.. Ive taken to watching the above video whenever i need a good giggle/cheering up now, *warning* naked men "dancing" to euro pop!
charlie61
02-05-2011, 06:54 PM
This is why older men are the best, IMO. Or at least they're the best for mature younger women who can weed out the creeps.
Good older men know what actually counts in a relationship, and they appreciate what they have because they've already been there and done that.