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brownsugardoll
02-11-2011, 12:58 AM
Is it just me I feel like racial slurs happen the most if caming with US base guys? I know it can still happen anywhere with customers outside the states. I only cam on AW and do Indy caming most of the customers get are either European or Australian and they never blurt out racial slurs to me.
I'm not trying to have this stereotype toward men from the states as I know they are the good and bad everywhere, but I just think it happens the most if the guy is American.
pamand
02-11-2011, 02:25 PM
I might get flamed for this but imho I think a lot of us are using race as an excuse. I am great friends with Cindi Cruz on streamate and she makes no less than $500 a day. She's black so I don't understand what all this fuss is about. I also make more than most being a black camgirl. When you're hot black white purple or green guys will spend money on you. Just take care of yourself mentally and physically and it will show. There is nothing like a beautiful and confident woman. Now that's HOT!
Ms.Lacey
02-11-2011, 05:03 PM
I might get flamed for this but imho I think a lot of us are using race as an excuse. I am great friends with Cindi Cruz on streamate and she makes no less than $500 a day. She's black so I don't understand what all this fuss is about. I also make more than most being a black camgirl. When you're hot black white purple or green guys will spend money on you. Just take care of yourself mentally and physically and it will show. There is nothing like a beautiful and confident woman. Now that's HOT!
read through the whole thread 1st and you will understd what we are saying. I make money on streamates. The problem is the treatment. Are you Black??? +++ Candi goes by Hispanic *side note*
I will not let you or anyone feel like I am making excuses for my feelings when I am being degraded as a human being. If being called a NIGGER was never presented to you please please please pass on this thread.
pamand
02-11-2011, 06:55 PM
read through the whole thread 1st and you will understd what we are saying. I make money on streamates. The problem is the treatment. Are you Black??? +++ Candi goes by Hispanic *side note*
I will not let you or anyone feel like I am making excuses for my feelings when I am being degraded as a human being. If being called a NIGGER was never presented to you please please please pass on this thread.
You need to watch your tone young lady. 1.) I am black. 2.) Have more experience in this business than you do. 3.) Way older than you are.
That is not how you talk to people. My post was not even directed to you or anyone. I read through the thread thank you. Candi is mixed with black. She puts Hispanic for a lot of reasons you ladies states. Believe it or not a lot of black girls do this. I have been called a nigger but never on cam sorry! Does that make me not black? BS.
CamWhore
02-11-2011, 07:21 PM
you sound crazy.
ignorance is not bliss.... not not at all.
pamand
02-11-2011, 08:00 PM
you sound crazy.
.
How do I sound crazy???? She came at me for what? and Assumed that I wasn't black.
Ms.Lacey
02-11-2011, 09:42 PM
You need to watch your tone young lady. 1.) I am black. 2.) Have more experience in this business than you do. 3.) Way older than you are.
That is not how you talk to people. My post was not even directed to you or anyone. I read through the thread thank you. Candi is mixed with black. She puts Hispanic for a lot of reasons you ladies states. Believe it or not a lot of black girls do this. I have been called a nigger but never on cam sorry! Does that make me not black? BS.
Don't address me as if Im a little girl, Grown women show respect like I showed you. If you would like to state the fact that you are a grown women than respect what we are saying instead of undermining what we feel. Ignorance!!!
Ms.Lacey
02-11-2011, 09:43 PM
You need to watch your tone young lady. 1.) I am black. 2.) Have more experience in this business than you do. 3.) Way older than you are.
That is not how you talk to people. My post was not even directed to you or anyone. I read through the thread thank you. Candi is mixed with black. She puts Hispanic for a lot of reasons you ladies states. Believe it or not a lot of black girls do this. I have been called a nigger but never on cam sorry! Does that make me not black? BS.
How do I sound crazy???? She came at me for what? and Assumed that I wasn't black.
++++ when there is a question mark at the end that means I was asking you a question
pamand
02-12-2011, 06:58 AM
Don't address me as if Im a little girl, Grown women show respect like I showed you. If you would like to state the fact that you are a grown women than respect what we are saying instead of undermining what we feel. Ignorance!!!
What respect did you show me? You pretty much called me a liar. You're the one that's ignorant. Everyone's experience in this industry isn't the same and if you think it is then you're even more ignorant than I thought. Bye!
++++ when there is a question mark at the end that means I was asking you a question
I do not have to answer to you. I will ignore you from now on. You either have a really bad problem or some mental issues. I can't fix that. Totally gross.
Ms.Lacey
02-12-2011, 08:18 AM
What respect did you show me? You pretty much called me a liar. You're the one that's ignorant. Everyone's experience in this industry isn't the same and if you think it is then you're even more ignorant than I thought. Bye!
I do not have to answer to you. I will ignore you from now on. You either have a really bad
problem or some mental issues. I can't fix that. Totally gross.
this is the dumb shyt with some new ppl on the forum. Relax and stop being defensive for no reason. I have no idea what ur reading. I never called you a liarand if ur some much older than me please display that. Lol ignorant??? Who me?! Never...
CamWhore
02-12-2011, 08:48 AM
Race as an excuse my ASS,
I watch vanilla girls on mfc get tipped 100 tokens at a time and higher on MFC.
I have watched Black-Black woman get tipped in 5 -20 token increments at a time. As if we need to work harder for our money...
Yeah I'm sure theirs an excuse lying around for me to use.... *rolls eyes
pamand
02-12-2011, 11:39 AM
this is the dumb shyt with some new ppl on the forum. Relax and stop being defensive for no reason. I have no idea what ur reading. I never called you a liarand if ur some much older than me please display that. Lol ignorant??? Who me?! Never...
There's no point talking to you. You seem to have a problem with sw newcomers.. ha!
Race as an excuse my ASS,
I watch vanilla girls on mfc get tipped 100 tokens at a time and higher on MFC.
I have watched Black-Black woman get tipped in 5 -20 token increments at a time. As if we need to work harder for our money...
Yeah I'm sure theirs an excuse lying around for me to use.... *rolls eyes
hahaha well what does that mean? we need to step out game up right? I get tipped 500 tokens and up all the time Camwhore. This is a very individualized business. I have no problem sharing my cam name via pm so you can check me out. I'm sure you'll be impressed ;)
Oh and there is a website that I cam on. Percentage is pretty good. Big spenders and Loyal customers (most of the custies are from UK). I'm sure you'll love the site. They also have same day approvals. I can share with you via pm.
pamand
02-12-2011, 12:32 PM
Pamand are you referring to Adultwork.com or another camsite with UK base customers ? I'm on that site and most of all that in this topic also on AW. If you're referring to another camsite, can you please share with us the link to the camsite.
There are hundreds of threads on MFC, Streamate and AW .. Oh and Imlive on this site. I was not referring to any of those.
pamand
02-12-2011, 12:39 PM
Why would I post that info in public. I am not willing to share with everyone for obvious reasons. Sorry.
pamand
02-12-2011, 01:14 PM
probably yes. This site has been around for years though. It's not a new site. Good luck.
amberluv
02-12-2011, 01:33 PM
this thread became srz bznz really fast... ಠ_ಠ
AngelCummings
02-12-2011, 11:19 PM
edit.....................
CamWhore
02-13-2011, 04:22 AM
no, ask the guys ..... these girls dont pay your bills.
AngelCummings
02-13-2011, 07:17 AM
no, ask the guys ..... these girls dont pay your bills.
lol, valid point... i just wanted to know what type of crowd i would appeal to bc im not sure which websites appeal to which types
Hahahha. Angel, it is time to end the era of inquisition and begin the era of action. I swear, the minute you get busy on these sites, you will find you have no more questions to ask. Sign up on everything, try everything once.
KushKandi
02-20-2011, 04:26 AM
I think that it helps if people stop pigeon holeing themselves. I am SO much more than my skin colour. I think that black women will make it to the top when they stop thinking of themselves as black and start thinking of themselves as business people like any other business person. I was super shitty on MFC up until now. Was it because I was black and didn't stand a chance? No it was because I was absolute SHIT at the MFC system, I didnt understand it, I hated free chat and didn't like the environment. Then yesterday I had another $200 day when before I was going DAYS with making NOTHING or $2 MAX on MFC. My skin colour didn't suddenly change my ATTITUDE did.
Do people see the colour of my skin? Sure, the way the see my red hair, big boobs or sweet smile. What people either love or hate about me isn't my skin colour it's my PERSONALITY. It's my PERSONALITY that people fall in love with and want to spoil. Do I get ebony skin lovers flocking to my room? Sure I do, but what keeps them in MY room and not some other black girls room is my attitude and pep.
I honestly think that what's keeping women of colour out of the top twenty isn't their skin it's their minds. They are so busy thinking of their skin colour and what disadvantages it could cause they're NOT thinking about networking and promos.
Ok I am NOT picking on you I just want to use your post as an example for a minute. In the time it took you to sit there and fret about your skin colour and what everyone else is saying about black girls in the industry and writing this post you could have been making sexy content, tweeting to your followers, sitting on MFC giggling, laughing and playing tipping games.
Do you see what I mean hun? The energy you used to stress over skin colour could have been used to get PAID.
I am not my skin colour. I am not my hair. I am not my weight. I will make top dollar because of my mind and my abilities. I am black and I am sure I made more money yesterday than some of the white girls on this site did. I have gained a ton of weight, but I'm sure I made more money than some of the little pixie girls did yesterday. There will ALWAYS be something that we are told will hold us back or hold us down but that's bullshit sweety so pay it no mind. What WILL hold you back EVERY time is your mind. Your outlook on life. You are NOT your skin. Look at Michael Jackson. He went from black to noseless alien creature, but the change in his outer appearance did not change his inner TALENT.
Also you want to see a top black woman on the net go check out Goddess Tierra. http://www.clubtierra.com
If you want to be in the top 20 hun then BE in the top 20. Study the top girls, learn from them, find your own swagger and just DO it. If you think the colour of your skin will hold you back then you are saying being black holds us ALL back. And that's just not true hun cause I'm pretty sure there is a black family in the White House now yeah? If black ppl can run the States then I'm pretty sure we can make it to the top of a stupid cam site shakin our asses for a living. Cause come on now we're BLACK, we usually have more ass to shake anyway!
*hugs*
This is the exact attitude a cam girl needs!!! Thank you Arial for this comment. Your success is well deserved.
CamWhore
02-20-2011, 04:49 AM
Pamand you sound like Mal Tay
ShellyConnors
02-20-2011, 11:07 AM
^ word. I thought I was the only one who felt that way. And wouldn't be shocked one bit.
Arialandre
02-20-2011, 06:05 PM
This is the exact attitude a cam girl needs!!! Thank you Arial for this comment. Your success is well deserved.
My pleasure Hun just given my $0.02
ch1cka
02-21-2011, 05:36 PM
I'm a African-American cam girl with dreadlocks and when I went on MFC I banked with my hair like this. It can be done. I watched another black young lady on MFC the other day and she is up there with the other top models. It all boils down to confidence and believing in yourself!
Arialandre
02-21-2011, 06:36 PM
Thank you hun I think that we ALL needed to hear that!
ukmissy
02-21-2011, 10:15 PM
I agree with Pam a bit , why is everyone so upset?-
Doesn't matter if you're black , white , brown or yellow - It's a skin color not a disfigurement . Sure - there are certain types of girl who are more accepted in the mainstream world - and this image does tend to reach for the , small, white , blond look ...
That said , I think camming is an entity on it's own , and while a skinny girl may make it on the catwalk , A LOT of guys would prefer someone with a bit more meat , a bit more color, a bit more etc .. the list is endless and it takes all sorts. I think to feel a white girl has an advantage based on her skin color - is doing no one any favors ( psychologically what kind of message is this putting inside yourself ) , in the same respect , a white girl can envy the ebonies - based on the lack of competition in comparison they have ( again pointless ) .
It all comes good in the end, and I am absolutely positive that if you put effort into yourself , appearance , personality and confidence, You will do well , whatever color , size or shape you may be.
If you're a nagging little shit who makes custys feel like they've gained a second nagging wife - it won't matter how good looking one is , they're going to pay for their shite personality .
Arialandre
02-21-2011, 11:02 PM
My bitchy `I told you so` comment for the night. I just made $100 in 2 hours. Guess what? I`m still black! Get OFF this thread Ladies and go make your damn money, SERIOUSLY.
EricaErotica
02-22-2011, 04:26 AM
My bitchy `I told you so` comment for the night. I just made $100 in 2 hours. Guess what? I`m still black! Get OFF this thread Ladies and go make your damn money, SERIOUSLY.
Word!!! Preach, sister!!!
CamWhore
02-22-2011, 05:10 AM
uhm anyway it still exist. Even when i have 200+ days I still feel the same way. Money is not going to cover it up all of a sudden.
Money will throw almost anything under the rug.
cherryblossomsinspring
02-22-2011, 07:07 AM
I am not in the top 10 of MFC , but I have been top ten in a few spots on several occassions.
That leads me to this :
In order for me to have made top, I put my self in a position to be there... Like just what Aria said.
Im not into MFC shows, I just go to have fun, not work. But if i wanted top 20, Id hire a promoter | Photographer and whatever it took to make it there.
Color really isnt it. Its what you are willing to do.
And as far as me, Im really snobbish on alot of things, so i will never make 5,000 a day.
And want to know a little secret about most girls who make top positions on anysite ? :>>> they bring there own traffic ( sometimes brought in by promo teams ) and most likely spends a considerable amount of time on cam. <<<
When I put time in, and really took it there, I couldn't find time to be on StripperWeb, I was on a roll.
Agreed!!! I find I'm picky about what I'm willing to do. When I see the top girls many of them are doing things in free chat that I would never do, so for me I feel you can have that position any day.
I'd rather men come in and take me private or tip me for making them laugh and just overall enjoying my personality.
Someone said something about stereo typical names like " sugardaddy" this guy usually comes off broke which is the funniest thing. You would think with his name he would be dropping crazy money, but this guy doesn't. He just wants attention that he has something to give so girls can give him the attention that he doesn't deserve. I've seen this several times in the cam world and I usually laugh at these and ignore them accordingly.
Also the racists. Never understand why racist men come into the room. It's the weirdest thing to force yourself to look at something you are repulsed by. But many of these so called racists are not racist at all. They may have been taught to hate but they are more frustrated with why their parts get hard looking at these women. I've seen it a dozen times and some of these types are actually other women.
cherryblossomsinspring
02-22-2011, 07:16 AM
Is it just me I feel like racial slurs happen the most if caming with US base guys? I know it can still happen anywhere with customers outside the states. I only cam on AW and do Indy caming most of the customers get are either European or Australian and they never blurt out racial slurs to me.
I'm not trying to have this stereotype toward men from the states as I know they are the good and bad everywhere, but I just think it happens the most if the guy is American.
I agree! If it's a USA dominated site then i get this quite a bit myself. Typically from men over 50+ that can't afford my rate and feel how dare I be out of their reach financially. I got harassed about my price constantly and usually it was a guy wanting a girl to do something ridiculous.
Ok ok I guess I have a thing against the 50+ guys. Primarily due to the fact that in their youth race mixing was frowned upon, well let's be honest in many areas it still is. Now these guys want to live out their fantasy and approach you with some of the most stupid comments. It's a love hate relationship. Does anyone remember the scene in Schindlers' List when that nazi soldier was beating the hell out of the jewish slave woman? In his sick way he loved her, but at the same time he hated himself for feeling such emotion towards her and he obviously took out his anger on her physically. It's the same thing just a different day.
I hate you because I love you. Sick and twisted right?
One guy in particular comes in daily to state my race as if he some how has to remind me. Racist yes he is. Is he hard for me.. of course. Does he hate that he can't afford me? Darn skippy! lol Did I actually say "darn skippy" lol ! But you get my drift.
ch1cka
02-22-2011, 08:14 AM
Racism is always about the other person. It's never personal so please don't take it that way! These types have enormous amounts of hate in their heart and will do anything to ease their feelings of worthlessness & project their hate onto others. I just let that mess slide and make my money! :)
pamand
02-22-2011, 09:00 AM
I agree with Pam a bit , why is everyone so upset?-
Doesn't matter if you're black , white , brown or yellow - It's a skin color not a disfigurement . Sure - there are certain types of girl who are more accepted in the mainstream world - and this image does tend to reach for the , small, white , blond look ...
That said , I think camming is an entity on it's own , and while a skinny girl may make it on the catwalk , A LOT of guys would prefer someone with a bit more meat , a bit more color, a bit more etc .. the list is endless and it takes all sorts. I think to feel a white girl has an advantage based on her skin color - is doing no one any favors ( psychologically what kind of message is this putting inside yourself ) , in the same respect , a white girl can envy the ebonies - based on the lack of competition in comparison they have ( again pointless ) .
It all comes good in the end, and I am absolutely positive that if you put effort into yourself , appearance , personality and confidence, You will do well , whatever color , size or shape you may be.
If you're a nagging little shit who makes custys feel like they've gained a second nagging wife - it won't matter how good looking one is , they're going to pay for their shite personality .
Thank you.
Arialandre
02-22-2011, 02:37 PM
All I care about is being happy with MYSELF. Reaching my OWN personal goals. Making what I need to pay my OWN bills. I'm not trying to be DevonAlexis I'm just trying to be ME. If I can make $200 a day steadily then I'm happy! once I've reached that I'll try for a steady $300 then maybe $400 a day. I would be OVERJOYED with that kind of money. That's what I need to just breathe, relax, feel ballin', and let my life flow.
I know racism is out there but I don't care. It's not about ME, it's about the racists. And there are tons of other people out there that will be more than happy to spend the money on me. So unless you guys are going to use this thread as a catalist to start some ultimate civil rights war in the sex industry sitting here chatting about it is next to pointless in the sex industry big picture.
We can sit and gripe about the unfairness all you want but it won't change anything unless you take ACTION. And the fastest and most direct way to take action is, right now with YOURSELVES.
MonicaF
02-23-2011, 03:46 AM
So I read a comment in another thread about how MFC isn't really a "black girl" site, and it got me thinking... Even though both of my parents are biracial, for all intents and purposes I'm "black" lol, and I think I certianly look more black than anything else. But anyway, I was just wondering if black girls can realistically even reach the top in this industry? Because on most of these sites I don't think Ive ever seen a black girl in the top 20, much less the top 5, but ive seen all other races be top cam girls. Is it posible to make it into the top ten on any of these sites as a model of African Descent, and is it possible for a black cam girl to make 500 - 1k a day like some of these other top chicks? It seems like a lot of black models on here have been struggling, or has it been everyone? Which sites are most favorable for women of color? I'm not trying to be a negative Nelly, but I just want to have a realistic idea of how far I can go in this industry and not end up sorely dissappointed. I'm hoping we can have a civil but very honest and open discussion about this.
I've written at great lengths on my blogs about this topic, but here's my current findings:
As a webcam girl, you will make more money as a black woman because there are so few of us.
As a "porn actress / star" unless you are producing and distributing your own content, you can forget it because the California porn populace has a very old fashioned mindset in regards to black women.
As an exotic dancer, your income will be about 40% less than your other ethnic counterparts.
Now of course there are always exceptions to the rule/norm - how successful you are is really based on the effort and time you put into whatever it is you're doing.
ukmissy
02-23-2011, 04:01 AM
Monica- I think you have the nail hit on the head!
AngelCummings
02-23-2011, 09:28 PM
wow, this thread has so much great insight, thank you guys so much! like seriously, i have gained some important wisdom from some of your words that transcend the adult business and apply to life in general, so i'm going to work on changing my outlook :)
ShellyConnors
02-24-2011, 02:47 AM
So what do you ladies think about playing rap music (and being black) while camming? So many people go on and on about "being yourself" and having fun on cam blah blah blah, but there is a sort of general consensus, at least in my opinion, on what is acceptable. Like, it's good to appeal to the masses, or to who has the money and god forbid that you actually ::gasp:: play Rick Ross.
I'm kind of over the race threads personally because even the comments that are meant to be helpful and productive still have undertones that suggest white is right. It's annoying. But seriously since Devon Alexis is used so much as an example, I've been in her room on several occasions while she's played some pretty hardcore rap music... other white girls too... but if I was to do it oh boy... whatevvvv...
pamand
02-24-2011, 07:50 AM
So what do you ladies think about playing rap music (and being black) while camming? So many people go on and on about "being yourself" and having fun on cam blah blah blah, but there is a sort of general consensus, at least in my opinion, on what is acceptable. Like, it's good to appeal to the masses, or to who has the money and god forbid that you actually ::gasp:: play Rick Ross.
I'm kind of over the race threads personally because even the comments that are meant to be helpful and productive still have undertones that suggest white is right. It's annoying. But seriously since Devon Alexis is used so much as an example, I've been in her room on several occasions while she's played some pretty hardcore rap music... other white girls too... but if I was to do it oh boy... whatevvvv...
They are white. They can get away with playing rap music and people will think it's cute or funny but if we do it we fit the stereotype get it? My customers have straight up told me that if they go into a black girl's room and she's playing rap music they will leave.
Funny observation the other day and this is not directed towards you ShellyC but I was checking out some girls cam that post here and her cam feed was not up to par. She did NOT look like her pictures but yet she comes here complaining about money all the time.
I was surfing a cam customer forum the other day where guys were complaining about this and I went looking for myself. If you don't look like your pictures on cam don't you think that guys are going to leave your room? Especially if they expected you to look even better than your pictures and have good cam quality and good lightning.
ShellyConnors I have known black girls that looked classy get away with playing and even bopping to rap music because they didn't look "ghetto"/didn't feel the stereotype. The big problem here is that some people don't know what their room is supposed to look like. Minnie posted some wonderful examples a while ago and I think one of us needs to go back and bump that thread.
My point? People love playing the blame game but I betcha if they went an extra mile to look twice as better than the next girl on cam, an extra mile to make sure their room is clean, An extra mile when it comes to makeup application and not looking like a zombie, an extra mile when it comes to positioning themselves on cam/and not just laying there they will get MORE business. I surely wish everyone the best but do not come here and complain if you are false advertising and not trying.
CamWhore
02-24-2011, 09:20 AM
LOL @ False advertisment.
now THAT is funny....LoL
AngelCummings
02-24-2011, 02:16 PM
They are white. They can get away with playing rap music and people will think it's cute or funny but if we do it we fit the stereotype get it? My customers have straight up told me that if they go into a black girl's room and she's playing rap music they will leave.
Funny observation the other day and this is not directed towards you ShellyC but I was checking out some girls cam that post here and her cam feed was not up to par. She did NOT look like her pictures but yet she comes here complaining about money all the time.
I was surfing a cam customer forum the other day where guys were complaining about this and I went looking for myself. If you don't look like your pictures on cam don't you think that guys are going to leave your room? Especially if they expected you to look even better than your pictures and have good cam quality and good lightning.
ShellyConnors I have known black girls that looked classy get away with playing and even bopping to rap music because they didn't look "ghetto"/didn't feel the stereotype. The big problem here is that some people don't know what their room is supposed to look like. Minnie posted some wonderful examples a while ago and I think one of us needs to go back and bump that thread.
My point? People love playing the blame game but I betcha if they went an extra mile to look twice as better than the next girl on cam, an extra mile to make sure their room is clean, An extra mile when it comes to makeup application and not looking like a zombie, an extra mile when it comes to positioning themselves on cam/and not just laying there they will get MORE business. I surely wish everyone the best but do not come here and complain if you are false advertising and not trying.
lol i wonder who it was... anyway, yeah i def think its important to at least look like your pics, sheesh lol . i mean this is webcam for crying out loud! i usually don't play any music at all, bc it can be too distracting and honestly i feel like my voice and cam personality are part of my strengths so i just dont want to distract too much from the main focus of my chat room, which is me! ;D
pamand
02-24-2011, 05:56 PM
LOL @ False advertisment.
now THAT is funny....LoL
I've see you in action ;)
You're a hottie.
lol i wonder who it was... anyway, yeah i def think its important to at least look like your pics, sheesh lol . i mean this is webcam for crying out loud! i usually don't play any music at all, bc it can be too distracting and honestly i feel like my voice and cam personality are part of my strengths so i just dont want to distract too much from the main focus of my chat room, which is me! ;D
Yeah....
Well....
It was the most shocking thing I have seen ever. I see her pics
and think wow gorgeous then her cam feed is a totally different woman. Not cool.
Caramel69
02-25-2011, 09:38 AM
So what do you ladies think about playing rap music (and being black) while camming? So many people go on and on about "being yourself" and having fun on cam blah blah blah, but there is a sort of general consensus, at least in my opinion, on what is acceptable. Like, it's good to appeal to the masses, or to who has the money and god forbid that you actually ::gasp:: play Rick Ross.
I'm kind of over the race threads personally because even the comments that are meant to be helpful and productive still have undertones that suggest white is right. It's annoying. But seriously since Devon Alexis is used so much as an example, I've been in her room on several occasions while she's played some pretty hardcore rap music... other white girls too... but if I was to do it oh boy... whatevvvv...
I'm over this thread pretty much as well. I honestly play everything in my room. Everything i listen to, I'm big on music. My room enjoys that and always suggest that I act like nicki minaj or "bust a freestyle" and I get tipped. It's just for fun. I play things from Katy Perry, Black Eyed Peas to Biggie Smalls and Rick Ross. I have a fun personality.:D I can't help but be silly at times... I'll get bored following someone else's rule. I make money my own way and never do I look "ghetto".
Last night some guy was offended (IDK why, honestly) and left my room sending me PM's that I'm a black slut and a race riot is on the way to my room. I told the room and they said screw him. He just comes out of nowhere with the disrespect. It's whatever so done with racist assholes.
Anyways, I can't wait to reach my goals so I can be done with camming. So sick of the beggars, racist losers and wack ass men that sit behind a screen and think they run shit! This business just isn't for me and I've realized that. Kudos to you ladies!
DevonSantos
02-25-2011, 04:27 PM
Us Hispanic/Latino models get it just as bad! We get called ALL kinds of rude nasty, words I would never repeat and guys have this thing with us Spanish women assuming we are nothing more than horny, baby making, barefoot and pregnant housemaids. Not trying to justify anything but at least let you ladies know that us Hispanic/Latino women get called all kinds of rude names online just as well. I have even been in white girls rooms and seen trolls call them the ''N'' word! People online are stupid! Just ignore them, ban them, and don't pay them any attention. For you models with low camscores, how do you expect to make it to the top rows or increase your camscore to running a room of 500 or more people without being able to handle a small room of trolls, beggars and bums? You do know that the higher your camscore the higher you are placed in the listing which allows for even ''more'' beggars, rude people, trolls and the whole nine to be in your room. No success comes without stress! If you wish to make top dollar on MFC and increase your camscore you should ''always'' look forward to trolls and ignorant people visiting your room. Just stay focused and have a drink before cam or a pop a cute pill for your anxiety cause from what I read in many forums ''anxiety'' is the #1 thing that makes a model not want to sign into MFC not because of ''this'' or ''that''! I also suffer from anxiety issues and first noticed it when I used to be an exotic dancer dancing topless on stage in front of many people and all wondering what they were thinking about me or worrying if I was going to fall or if they they I was small enough or whatever. Some models/girls drink to cope with their anxiety issues but I'm all about diet and fitness so I can't ingest all those calories just to make money, I do better with my pills. ;)
HunnieBunny
10-18-2012, 08:39 AM
I'd like to see a black woman, raised in "black culture", maybe with dreadlocks or an afro, who doesn't appear to be mixed at all, maybe not even *sounding white* when she speaks, make it to a top spot. What would she have to do to make it there? What if inside she felt super confident? What if she had a super high quality HD cam with remote and a wide assortment of toys? What if she was knowledgeable about fetishes and world events and had a stellar personality? Do you think she would have just as much of a chance as AvaAlexander or Kaileah to be top performer? I don't know... maybe...
I had to comment on this!!!! I am a black model on myfreecams whose been STRUGGLING up until now. I started off on myfreecams with genie locs (or yarn braids) in my hair and most days I struggled to make my topic or earn a decent amount (If you dont know what genie locs are do a quick google image search!). I recently took down my hair and put in a 14" sew in weave in my hair and guess what!?!?! I started to BANK and get privates everytime I log in. Last night I got a private instantly when I logged on and it was my first time EVER working nights. I made my topic in only about an hour and a half! It's bittersweet though, because Im the same fucking girl!!!! But is my value somehow increased by the tracks I put in my hair!?!
I am by no means ghetto, I was raised in Sugarland, TX (super suburbs!) and I have been told I "talk like a white girl" my whole fucking life. It is sad to say, but it's like people only want you to "be black" by your skin tone (if that makes sense). It was so confusing to me considering all of the compliments I received on my skin tone and my hair before my little makeover. Even the people who complimented my hair before tipped me MORE after I changed it! That's just the world we live in I guess....
RoseleeD25
10-23-2018, 12:08 PM
Ok so I know this is a very old thread but I still have questions on it if anyone can answer this are you supposed to go along with whatever they think you are? Because I'm black but sometimes people don't always know it because I'm lighter have natural blonde hair etc.. I have 2 black parents and am pretty sure I'm like 85-90% black. I am not mixed at all. People usually think I'm a biracial or Hispanic or middle eastern depends on stuff. I usually correct people if they say I'm Turkish or Italian or Mexican or mixed etc.... I'm wondering is this not the correct etiquette in this environment since it's off of guys fetishes and preference am I supposed to just go with it? I mean it's not real life right?
addytoi
10-23-2018, 12:26 PM
Ok so I know this is a very old thread but I still have questions on it if anyone can answer this are you supposed to go along with whatever they think you are? Because I'm black but sometimes people don't always know it because I'm lighter have natural blonde hair etc.. I have 2 black parents and am pretty sure I'm like 85-90% black. I am not mixed at all. People usually think I'm a biracial or Hispanic or middle eastern depends on stuff. I usually correct people if they say I'm Turkish or Italian or Mexican or mixed etc.... I'm wondering is this not the correct etiquette in this environment since it's off of guys fetishes and preference am I supposed to just go with it? I mean it's not real life right?
You should stay true to your character. I know my web persona is a character. It is me but like 100% better than I am irl. You can't please everyone so I think you should decide completely who your character is and stick with it. Unless your character is someone that tries to please everyone then you can go along with what each individual guy thinks you are but sounds exhausting to me.
minniesoporno
10-23-2018, 01:58 PM
I don't think I comment on this subject.
So I am just going to post the article I wrote for ynotcam on the subject and the youtube video I did.
https://www.ynotcam.com/2018/01/11/on-the-road-to-success-getting-started-as-a-cam-model-of-color/
Plus also I've been a top model on cams when I starting out from late 2003 and early 2004 for about 6 months. I am going on the 16 years of this it just takes work. and finding a website that list black models or models with darker skin tones.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JljOUQmcO4o
HoneyMachado
12-18-2018, 06:32 PM
I am loving chaturbate, I get guys paying me because of my complexion