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Kellydancer
05-07-2011, 05:13 PM
Thing is, though... Kim K isn't FAT.
We're talking about fat girls... not girls with curves. (Actual curves, not - I'm fat so I'm calling myself curvy)
There's nothing wrong with a curvy girl with a huge ass and tits like Kim K who, but we're talking about girls with panties that cut an inch into their fat or who are mistaken by customers as PREGNANT because they've got such a big gut.


Not everyone has to be stick thin... it's not possible for some girls to REACH stick thin. Kim K has a body that clearly gets worked on in the gym and is in good shape. Which is just fine.

This is on the mark and what I was trying to say. Way too many people put real curvy girls (like Kim K) in the same category as the fat girls and they are NOT the same. I am to some extent a truly curvy woman because I have large breasts (though not a large ass) and I hate how fat women have taken over the curvy word to describe women like Kim K and them. Kim K is curvy, fat is fat. Girls like Kim K belong in the clubs, fat women do not. Most men I know love truly curvy women, most men do not like fat women.

beckatron
05-07-2011, 05:33 PM
Fat girls shouldn't dance. Period. End of story.
Do you ladies think this applies to escorts as well, or just dancers?

PS. I'm not targeting you, it was a sentiment echoed throughout the thread and I'm just curious.

DesuvsDeath
05-07-2011, 05:58 PM
Do you ladies think this applies to escorts as well, or just dancers?

PS. I'm not targeting you, it was a sentiment echoed throughout the thread and I'm just curious.

Not at all. Because men choose escorts on an individual basis, there's more room for variety in the type of girls. The man chooses the escort he wants... that's the only girl he has to see or deal with. It's not like he's fucking you and he's going to look up and see some girl he finds completely repulsive bent over next to the bed.

In a strip club... no matter which girl a man wants... he's forced to see/possibly interact with women he finds undesirable.

BringOnTheMen
05-07-2011, 06:12 PM
^i just don't get it. We say "no fat chicks" and girls always try to come back with "but curvy girls look good, too!"
i have a 40" ass... And a 25" (lost another inch <3) waist. I know curvy chicks look good.

I'm saying no the the girls at my club who have the same size ass i do... With a 36" waist... Not to girls like kim k or like myself who have a small waist and a big ass... I'm saying no the girls with a big gut to match their big ass.
There's a huge difference.

Of course looking well put together makes a difference. Everyone should take the time to do little things in addition to hitting the fucking gym. if you're fat, you're fat and no amount of fake hair or tanning or nails is going to hide the fact that you look like you could eat half the other dancers in the club in one gulp.

love this!

natilinia rouge
05-07-2011, 09:42 PM
The way I see it if there is a girl with a big belly & rolls who really makes money then great she can afford to go get lipo the same way I would hope a girl with missing front teeth who makes money as a stripper would go get that corrected to fit industry standards becuz the reality is that doesn't help her, her club, or the industry at all to keep up a lower standard of visual & physical sex appeal.

I'm not talking about girls with a bigger body frame or who or naturally healthy & fit thick. I'm talking fat obsese girls who want to wear a thong & jiggle around the pole like a Christmas carol competition is going on.

Sorry they just are not meant to be strippers even if my club will hire pretty much any1 female & willing, but when my mangers won't let a girl on stage, girls are complaining about not making enough to pay for their meals, & customers name those girls after the names of famous whales well get the hint it's not sexy or the career 4 them.

I've seen all of that happen wondering why they wanted to embarrass themselves like that to go around saying they are strippers when who on earth are they trying to fool. In my eyes they got a job as something they just were not cut out for & they bring down the standards of the whole industry.



omg hahahahah this shit just made me laugh soo hard dance around the pole like a Christmas carol u really just brightened my day with this lol

trishaxxxo
05-09-2011, 02:48 PM
Wow, we have very similar body types, same height, weight and waist size, crazy lol. I think of myself as curvy too but I don't use the term because I feel like when people hear curvy, they think fat.

I kind of :O when people call me skinny too. I'm lean but I'm not skinny. I lift weights as a hobby and my thighs are big and solid. I don't know how anyone can look at me and think skinny but you're right. If you don't have fat rolls or a gut, people label you "skinny".

Its funny I'm right on the line, I would say def a little smaller more toned than Kim K. but with a big ol booty...36"-25"-38"

In the real world I get called skinny a lot. In the club I often get "thick" and "healthy", guys actually ask my what i do to "stay in good shape" and that I "look like I work out" a LOT so I think thats a good sign...

most of the time I get "Damn youre skinny on the top but all thick on the bottom!"

BUT I have been not hired/fired/demoted to day shift for being "Too fat" MANY TIMES....

luxi_kitty, while you may think those "chubby" pics you posted are hot girls, they are girls that are too big to be in the club. and the "too skinny" pics of girl you dont want lap dances from....are the ideal stripper body type. thats just REALITY. Maybe you like bigger girls and some strip club patrons do to, but MOST of them want the tiny/tan/uber stripper thing.

I cant TELL YOU how many times ive worked at a big hustle club where im one of the bigger girls there, and guys will be like "oh wow youre so hot, its so nice to see a normal healthy girl, its hotter than these super skinny chicks"....then when they say "maybe later" to a dance I see them running back their with a SIZE ZERO GIANT BOOB JOB TAN AS FUCK girl that they were dissing earlier.

guys want to see STRIPPERS and they are into the freak show thing of it all. sometimes its not even about what they think is hot in real life. its just how it is and if you go out and try really hard to lose weight and still dont make $$ I dont want you to be heartbroken.

luxi_kitty
05-09-2011, 07:32 PM
Its funny I'm right on the line, I would say def a little smaller more toned than Kim K. but with a big ol booty...36"-25"-38"

In the real world I get called skinny a lot. In the club I often get "thick" and "healthy", guys actually ask my what i do to "stay in good shape" and that I "look like I work out" a LOT so I think thats a good sign...

most of the time I get "Damn youre skinny on the top but all thick on the bottom!"

BUT I have been not hired/fired/demoted to day shift for being "Too fat" MANY TIMES....

luxi_kitty, while you may think those "chubby" pics you posted are hot girls, they are girls that are too big to be in the club. and the "too skinny" pics of girl you dont want lap dances from....are the ideal stripper body type. thats just REALITY. Maybe you like bigger girls and some strip club patrons do to, but MOST of them want the tiny/tan/uber stripper thing.

I cant TELL YOU how many times ive worked at a big hustle club where im one of the bigger girls there, and guys will be like "oh wow youre so hot, its so nice to see a normal healthy girl, its hotter than these super skinny chicks"....then when they say "maybe later" to a dance I see them running back their with a SIZE ZERO GIANT BOOB JOB TAN AS FUCK girl that they were dissing earlier.

guys want to see STRIPPERS and they are into the freak show thing of it all. sometimes its not even about what they think is hot in real life. its just how it is and if you go out and try really hard to lose weight and still dont make $$ I dont want you to be heartbroken.


yeah i see what u mean..
overall, i just think theres diff types of wants in a STRIPPER in each club..
i just dont see a "skinny" girl getting cash flow at a black club for instance..:-\

BringOnTheMen
05-09-2011, 07:45 PM
yeah i see what u mean..
overall, i just think theres diff types of wants in a STRIPPER in each club..
i just dont see a "skinny" girl getting cash flow at a black club for instance..:-\

Which is why we have different clubs. It would be nice if every club was just a medley because then every girl would stand out a lot more, but men don't like that. Let's say there is a girl with the Barbie look that is a perfect 10 in a guy's eyes. He would much rather go to a club with a ton of 8s and 9s that all have the Barbie look, then see her and spend a ton of money on her, than go to a club with bigger girls, girls with less polished hair, and girls wearing the (sorry!) trashier stripper clothes (ie weird neon colors vs black lingerie and delicate jewelry), and her. Even though it's the same girl, her custies would much rather pick her out from the sea of barbies and buy dances from her while spending other time checking out the eye candy on stage than be "forced" to buy a dance with her and spend all of his time with her at the mixed club because there is only 1 or 2 girls there that he finds attractive at all.

luxi_kitty
05-09-2011, 07:49 PM
awww i like neon colors..haha
it shows soo nicely on dark skin (what i heard) :D

BringOnTheMen
05-09-2011, 08:02 PM
^^They're great for divey environments. But honestly try to picture someone wearing them in a very upscale SC, where all of the custies are polite, dressed up gentlemen.

There is a girl who just started working at my club that obviously came from dive clubs. My club isn't completely upscale, but all of the girls are very polished looking in their own way and dance very slowly and sensually onstage. This girl dances like girls from rap videos, which isn't bad, but looks really out of place in my club.

luxi_kitty
05-09-2011, 08:07 PM
hahahahaa!;D

Paris
05-09-2011, 08:32 PM
There is definitely a market for BBW dancers. A lot of obese men are uncomfortable around thin women and like a more substantial woman to give them lap dances.

She still has to be pretty and healthy. But being skinny is no longer a requirement to make good money as a dancer.

I'm working the door/ cash cage at a club these days, and customers will call in and ask if there are any BBW girls working. Every one of those guys are large themselves. It is just a matter of preference, is all.

tempest666
05-09-2011, 09:53 PM
Ugh.....we just got another one in today....I took one look tossed my hoagie in the trash and ate a salad. I'm tacking on an extra 30 mins at the gym tonight.....

natilinia rouge
05-09-2011, 10:01 PM
Ugh.....we just got another one in today....I took one look tossed my hoagie in the trash and ate a salad. I'm tacking on an extra 30 mins at the gym tonight.....


haha temptess ur soo mean :P

tempest666
05-09-2011, 10:12 PM
haha temptess ur soo mean :P


Dude this was no Kim K....there were more rolls on her than a pastry truck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:ill:


To boot, she has no fucking ass and a severe case of PBS!

natilinia rouge
05-09-2011, 10:29 PM
hahha lmao what is pbs??

tempest666
05-10-2011, 12:57 AM
paper bag syndrome

natilinia rouge
05-10-2011, 03:45 AM
Lmao haha

mediocrity
05-10-2011, 03:51 AM
I call it Brown Baggin', tempest. ;-)

mediocrity
05-10-2011, 03:53 AM
There is definitely a market for BBW dancers. A lot of obese men are uncomfortable around thin women and like a more substantial woman to give them lap dances.

She still has to be pretty and healthy. But being skinny is no longer a requirement to make good money as a dancer.

I'm working the door/ cash cage at a club these days, and customers will call in and ask if there are any BBW girls working. Every one of those guys are large themselves. It is just a matter of preference, is all.

The biggest girl I have ever found to be beautiful was 5'0" and a size 10; but she wore a 32F bra naturally and wore corsets. She was always done up on point, knew she had to hustle harder than other girls, and had a stunning face.

That being said, being SKINNY may not be a requirement, but not being a slob IS.

trishaxxxo
05-10-2011, 10:08 AM
yeah i see what u mean..
overall, i just think theres diff types of wants in a STRIPPER in each club..
i just dont see a "skinny" girl getting cash flow at a black club for instance..:-\

Actually you are CORRECT on that one, after being told to lose weight at a larger rock type club w mostly tatooed pale white girls I now dance at the only upscale black club in town, out of 20-30 girls im normally one of 3 or 4 white girls...I tan and sell myself as "big booty white chick" and do a lot of ass tricks/pole tricks, the skinny girls def make way less money than me, the guys there think its gross! I hear all the time "I want a real woman not a little girl"

That being said there are a few larger dancers but most are my size (toned but w big butt or natural big breasts, size 4 to 8 ) and thats about the largest size limit as far as making good $$

Also as per neon colors- i LOVE them and the way they glow under the black light, i wear a lot of outfits like this:

and thats what most girls wear at my club. Everyone has their nails and hair done well and wears big stripper shoes w very little jewelry.

I guess black lingerie and jewelry is good for a gown club, but for more top-40/hiphop style clubs the neon polyester that glows in the blacklight is what gets you attention and compliments, there are a lot of wealthy business men who come in too bc its close to the airport and convention hotels, and they still spend a lot of cash. Portland, Oregon doesnt get much more upscale than that though, im sure it would be considered a mid scale or divey bar in say, NYC

BringOnTheMen
05-10-2011, 03:35 PM
^^^lol reinforcing our point...size 4-8 isn't fat (well, most of the time). When we talk about fat girls dancing, we're talking 12+. Yes, a 4-8 can oftentimes be too big to be hired at the absolute most upscale clubs, but as long as you are toned with a flat stomach, 4-8 is not fat by any means.

trishaxxxo
05-10-2011, 09:37 PM
^^^lol reinforcing our point...size 4-8 isn't fat (well, most of the time). When we talk about fat girls dancing, we're talking 12+. Yes, a 4-8 can oftentimes be too big to be hired at the absolute most upscale clubs, but as long as you are toned with a flat stomach, 4-8 is not fat by any means.


yep agree with that point. 4-8 is "fat" in stripper land but totally not fat in real life, and thats about as big as you can get and still make $

BeBe
05-11-2011, 03:27 AM
Stop hating ladies. You know you'd pay money to see this... }:D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_kg2-lsoNg

Hey, I'm not hating on BBW. If there's a market for them and they're making money. Then come on down.

Currently there's not a market for them at my club, but if anything opens up I'll be sure to let ya know, holla' :P

lol1337a
05-11-2011, 09:24 AM
^^^lol reinforcing our point...size 4-8 isn't fat (well, most of the time). When we talk about fat girls dancing, we're talking 12+. Yes, a 4-8 can oftentimes be too big to be hired at the absolute most upscale clubs, but as long as you are toned with a flat stomach, 4-8 is not fat by any means.

This is why I'd previously misunderstood a lot that was going on in this thread. I danced when I was a size 8-10 and was defending myself as a formerly "fat/obese dancer" who still made good money (size 10 is probably pushing obese in stripperland), not as a formerly fat/obese person who danced. Because I've only ever gotten as far as the border between normal and overweight in terms of BMI (yes useless but whatever) I guess I can't speak for actually fat girls who dance in terms of moneymaking. But I agree with Mediocrity and others who are saying that if a fat girl is well put together and dresses appropriately it can add to the diversity of a mid-range club. Maybe just a maximum number? I feel gross for saying that though.

LexyNYC
05-11-2011, 09:27 AM
Stop hating ladies. You know you'd pay money to see this... }:D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_kg2-lsoNg

Hey, I'm not hating on BBW. If there's a market for them and they're making money. Then come on down.

Currently there's not a market for them at my club, but if anything opens up I'll be sure to let ya know, holla' :P

I feel like a club is only as good as their worst looking dancer. If I walked into a club to audition and saw that on stage, I would leave. I have no problem with fat people, but I don't think they need to be stripping. Stripping isn't for EVERYBODY. Certainly not for a body that big. That girl would have a hard enough time getting in as a customer at the clubs I work at, let alone working at them. Clubs need to have standards, sure she'll pay tip out and you may have a few customers that want to see that but for the vast majority, that's a turn off.

tempest666
05-11-2011, 12:24 PM
Do they charge per llb for lap dances with that chick! OMFG that just traumatized me

tempest666
05-11-2011, 12:25 PM
clubs do have standards: If you have a vagina and payless heels you can strip :D

DesuvsDeath
05-11-2011, 03:06 PM
Stop hating ladies. You know you'd pay money to see this... }:D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_kg2-lsoNg

That is possibly the most disgusting thing I've ever seen. No offense to anyone here if you look like that... I'm just saying.

This girl wouldn't be allowed in the door to even audition at the worst dive I've ever worked at... even if she wore a nice costume, got hair extensions, had a pro do her makeup, and got her nails done. ::)


I'm sure there are people who like that sort of thing... but unless it's at some kind of specialty club that ONLY hires big dancers... just. No. 90% of customers who walked through the door at a NORMAL CLUB would see that girl on stage and go ask for their money back.

tempest666
05-11-2011, 03:20 PM
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I'm sure there are people who like that sort of thing... but unless it's at some kind of specialty club that ONLY hires big dancers... just. No. 90% of customers who walked through the door at a NORMAL CLUB would see that girl on stage and go ask for their money back.



If they weren't too traumatized :D In Missouri she'd be quite a novelty. Probably do quite well too.

DesuvsDeath
05-11-2011, 03:31 PM
^Seriously, one of my old clubs gave a down-on-her-luck bigger girl a shot on dayshift... and customers would SERIOUSLY walk in, see her and LEAVE.
Like... it didn't matter who else was there or how hot the rest of the girls looked... if that girl was on stage or near the door and they saw her before getting settled in... they'd just leave.

LexyNYC is RIGHT. At least as far as dayshift goes... Clubs are only as good as their worst looking dancer.

Kellydancer
05-11-2011, 04:03 PM
Maybe this says a lot about some of the clubs I've danced at but I've worked with girls that size. At one club they hired anything that walked in the door which included very old and very fat dancers. I didn't work there long though they paid me. At a couple of clubs they had a fat girl because some of the customers liked that. However the fat girls were usually large in the ass and boobs not flabby belly. These clubs tended to have one large dancer and she always had a pretty face and nice personality to boot.

There used to be this one club in Indiana that caters to large dancers. I don't remember the name but on their marquee they mentioned BBW women. If I remember correctly (it's been 10-15 years)it was also an African American club so it's possible their clients liked that since in general African American men are more accepting of that bodytype than white men.

Addison
05-13-2011, 12:36 PM
That poor pole was like, "WTF? I didn't sign up for this sh*t!"

tempest666
05-13-2011, 04:24 PM
I think this is the 1st time that I have felt sorry for an inanimate object (4ever coined this phrase, unlike certain piece of shit websites, I give credit where credit is due)-_- Fortunately the lighting was so bad I didn't see much. It was like a bad car accident I couldn't look away.

DesuvsDeath
05-14-2011, 01:30 PM
That poor pole was like, "WTF? I didn't sign up for this sh*t!"

Bahahaaaaa.
It's mean to laugh... but DAMN... I'd be SCARED to jump on the pole if it bent like that under my weight.

tampadancer
05-14-2011, 03:35 PM
Bahahaaaaa.
It's mean to laugh... but DAMN... I'd be SCARED to jump on the pole if it bent like that under my weight.

no shit. I was waiting for the pole to fall...

mediocrity
05-14-2011, 07:21 PM
Stop hating ladies. You know you'd pay money to see this... }:D



Hey, I'm not hating on BBW. If there's a market for them and they're making money. Then come on down.

Currently there's not a market for them at my club, but if anything opens up I'll be sure to let ya know, holla' :P

DUUUDE. I think I just threw up a little. Her legs look like they are made entirely of dairy products. How do these women not know they look repulsive?

Amy Lee
05-14-2011, 07:25 PM
Every man has different preferences and having an ASS is in!

So glad I was blessed with hips and ass...and I don't have to buy one. I love it and so do they!

tempest666
05-15-2011, 12:06 AM
DUUUDE. I think I just threw up a little. Her legs look like they are made entirely of dairy products. How do these women not know they look repulsive?


Hey don't insult cottage cheese! LMAO What did dairy products ever do to deserve such insolence:D

BringOnTheMen
05-15-2011, 03:37 AM
Why don't I like fat chicks working at my club? Because when my stage partner's not there, I have to go onstage with fatty mcfatfat and the tiprail clears!
It's a saturday night...moneys at stake here...even if I was the complete opposite of her (super skinny, blonde, fake tits) I would still be out money. But since I have small tits and Im carrying extra weight (for a stripper), I can't win back some of these guys. Boo! I'm going to the gym after work.

tempest666
05-15-2011, 03:57 AM
Why don't I like fat chicks working at my club? Because when my stage partner's not there, I have to go onstage with fatty mcfatfat and the tiprail clears!
It's a saturday night...moneys at stake here...even if I was the complete opposite of her (super skinny, blonde, fake tits) I would still be out money. But since I have small tits and Im carrying extra weight (for a stripper), I can't win back some of these guys. Boo! I'm going to the gym after work.



Go look at my last post in "Guys who like fat chicks" you'd hit that shit, yessiree! :D

Thanks alot for making me spit out my orange juice, BTW! :D Fatty mcfatfat! :rotfl:

Kellydancer
05-15-2011, 05:47 PM
Fatty McFatfat makes me laugh. I wish I had photos of some of the women I danced with at this one club. You think the women in those videos are fat they are skinny compared to som of the heifers I danced with (yes I know it's insulting to compare them to heifers since heifers are cuter and thinner).

4everresolutions
05-15-2011, 07:28 PM
My brother has called me Fatty McFatFat for years (jokingly, of course). He still does when we talk on skype.

I call him Booger-eater. Cuz he used to. Haha.

/threadjack

Brandi_Lynn
05-15-2011, 07:39 PM
Honestly, it bothers me w/ people fat bashing around here sometimes. I have worked w/ bigger girls & then I have worked w/ girls that look like 12 yr old asian boys. You know what they all have in common? They're men out there that will want whatever they have to offer.

I myself am a curvy girl -be it not as large as the girl in the pic. But I've noticed since my ass has gotten bigger & I've taken on a more womanly shape the middle aged men, black men & hispanic men luv me!

As for the baldie thing. Just grab a wig girl -you'll be just fine. :) Hell, I have dreads & I do just dandy.

Good Luck, girlie

BringOnTheMen
05-15-2011, 08:29 PM
^ we are not fat bashing just for the sake of fat bashing here. We are describing a big problem going on in our clubs (especially those of us working in big cities in clubs with declining reputations) that fat dancers drive away customers. Even though the fat dancers make me look good, it is NOT good for my money to hear stuff like "yeah you were so hot on stage...the chick before you was gross!" I heard that last week. Read reviews of clubs, the first thing the men mention is how HOT the girls are.

kthnx
05-15-2011, 09:38 PM
Lol totally punkd my two best friends (1 guy, 1 girl) with sending them that YouTube link this weekend!!! :D they were repulsedcand figuratively crying there eyes out for hrs hahaha

UV69
05-15-2011, 09:39 PM
Its a given there are many unattractive qualtiies that bring down thr stripper image of hotness but if fat isnt on that list then what is ? Get real there is an image we are selling and we would all go broke if that image was of girls shaped like miss piggy sorry but that is the truth cuz for every kermit that is into it there are alot more who it turns off and scares away from going to a sc with that image of having lower standards. Trust me I only let my friends come visit me at work when there r other hotgirls there but if not n they want to see and spend on me since they r friends n I dont want to disapoint them I warn them and make them swear they wont see those standards of what they dont want to see out on me

Christany
05-15-2011, 10:11 PM
I think there used to be a couple clubs to specifically cater to this fetish. I know Jumbo's Clown Room used to (before they changed it up), and I think there's one in ATL. (Clermont Lounge I think?)

tampadancer
05-16-2011, 07:40 AM
sigh. nobody is telling anyone to lose weight...

Just that maybe stripping isn't the job for them ;)

bollywoodbabe
05-16-2011, 07:45 AM
anyways I am done with this thread it is disgusting nothing positive. if I want to strip regradless if I am ugly or fat or what ever it my right fuck the other bitches it a free country right?;D