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DesuvsDeath
05-16-2011, 02:38 PM
Why is everyone so obsessed with trying to make themselves and others fit into this teenie tiny box of what is considered attractive to the "best" (read: middle-aged, white, wealthy) customers? We are women.
We're not talking about women... we're talking about STRIPPERS. Strippers used to be held to MUCH higher standards that the typical woman walking down the street... and that's all we want. We want strip clubs to have STANDARDS and not hire women that discourage the bulk of our customers from returning to our club.

sananeko
05-16-2011, 02:42 PM
If thats the case.. stop blaming the dancers.. blame the management..

DesuvsDeath
05-16-2011, 02:53 PM
^There are plenty of fat dancers who got hired when they were thin.

...Pretty sure that's the dancer's fault.


I guess I'll have to be more specific.

We want strip clubs to have STANDARDS and not hire women that discourage the bulk of our customers from returning to our club. And girls who have already been hired to maintain the body they got hired with and not think it's okay to let themselves go and gain 40 pounds because they've landed the job.


Is that better?

sananeko
05-16-2011, 03:18 PM
I thought we were talking about dancers starting overweight. But I still blame the management. I understand its a pain to have to bench a dancer cause they got to comfy at a job but it should be done also. You want standards stop pointing fingers and get to work. Believe me they run fast if you walk faster. All we need to bitch about is kicking extra girls, they are the reason standards are low not cause of weight and fat. You get rid of the ones sucking cock and fucking and girls will have a chance at making ok money. Then they start becoming better dancers and making themselves look better to top the game. You will have your standards back.

I started dancing cause of one dancer. 200 pounds and the most beautiful dancer I have seen even to this day. She is the reason I believe I can dance and the reason I'm still not bored out of my mind waiting for something to give or give up. She was fun to talk to, a wonderful dancer.. and never waved the pole.. Never did extras and would kick any girl's ass for doing extras.

kthnx
05-16-2011, 03:51 PM
Yeah everyone is born with different body types but people who are actually fat (not curvy, not thick..but FAT) tend to not put in the effort to lose any weight. And if you are one of these people or maybe you do try to lose weight and can't then stripping is NOT the job for you! No one is saying you can't become a lawyer, doctor,

Actually I disagree. NOT just anyone can be a doctor or lawyer either!! U need smarts, aptitude, good application of classroom skills on the job in practical modes, etc. Why else do they make med school and law school so hard, and even harder to get into??

Just becuz someone is fat and/or ugly doesn't guarantee they got an extra dose of intelligence to make up for it. There's lots of people that aren't cut out to be strippers or models but also wouldn't make it into med school even if their daddy was a well known alumni that bribed them. Not naming any names, but one particular girl on sw comes to mind...admitted she's not slender enough to be a stripper, and judging by her vapid naivety towards random Internet dudes who claim to be CEOs, and total lack of knowledge and common sense in general, apparently the looks Dept isn't the only area where she's lacking. Lol.

Now lets say a girl was heavy but had a knack for knowledge, a science whiz, skilled with a steady hand, and great with people...yea then I'd say I could see that girl bein a surgeon.

Kellydancer
05-16-2011, 04:30 PM
Actually I disagree. NOT just anyone can be a doctor or lawyer either!! U need smarts, aptitude, good application of classroom skills on the job in practical modes, etc. Why else do they make med school and law school so hard, and even harder to get into??

Just becuz someone is fat and/or ugly doesn't guarantee they got an extra dose of intelligence to make up for it. There's lots of people that aren't cut out to be strippers or models but also wouldn't make it into med school even if their daddy was a well known alumni that bribed them. Not naming any names, but one particular girl on sw comes to mind...admitted she's not slender enough to be a stripper, and judging by her vapid naivety towards random Internet dudes who claim to be CEOs, and total lack of knowledge and common sense in general, apparently the looks Dept isn't the only area where she's lacking. Lol.

Now lets say a girl was heavy but had a knack for knowledge, a science whiz, skilled with a steady hand, and great with people...yea then I'd say I could see that girl bein a surgeon.

Gee I wonder who you mean?:O. Seriously I think that poster is either very naive or a troll and if she's naive she will get herself in big trouble.

UV69
05-16-2011, 05:39 PM
Mind you if stripper image isn't about having physically fit bodies then why is every song out that talking about girls working the pole contain lines like... "Oh you look so sweet what you work at Bally's look at your physique ", "apple bottoms", "A dime with a fat ass, thin waist and tall heels", even baby got back says "cuz your WAIST is small & your curves are kicking" ,"When girls walk in with in itty bitty waist & a round thing in your face"

BringOnTheMen
05-16-2011, 05:40 PM
If bigger dancers could make (clean) money without it affecting my money, I would be fine.

That's what I'm concerned about. MY MONEY!

I don't give a shit what you look like, but when it affects MY MONEY I get mad!

Lost good stage money (and potential customers who normally sit at the front when I go on) because when everyone saw Miss Fatty (and btw, she's not one of those who still looks good and has a pretty face, she's also ugly and doesn't do hair/makeup) go on after 2 hot skinny chicks, they decided to take their smoke break. So I have to suffer because your team is only as hot as the weakest link.

SO I LOST MONEY!

I don't CARE how she looks when she's not affecting MY MONEY!

Luckily my club barely gets any reviews, good or bad, so I don't really have this problem, but I feel SO bad for the hot girls at other clubs who get reviews saying

"was approached by a chubby girl who tried to sit on my lap and almost broke it. Luckily there's a club next door that actually has decent looking girls, so I'll be spending my time over there."

You don't think that review doesn't hurt EVERYONE'S MONEY at that club?????

If your club has FAT strippers, it better be compensating by having a low house fee/low cuts for the dancers and good promotion and deals for the custies, otherwise your dancer's money will be suffering and your club's money will be suffering.

DesuvsDeath
05-16-2011, 05:53 PM
^Its so true.
No matter how many times people want to say "Oh but there are customers who like that"... there as many customers or more who DON'T. They don't give a FUCK if a fat chick has a pretty face... they don't want to see her naked. They don't want her sitting in their lap while they're waiting for their regular dancer. They don't want to see her walking by. They don't want her trying to annoy them into dances.
It quickly turns into they go find a new regular dancer at a club where girls they think are nasty aren't hounding them for dances while they wait for the girl they want.

tempest666
05-16-2011, 07:51 PM
^Its so true.
No matter how many times people want to say "Oh but there are customers who like that"... there as many customers or more who DON'T. They don't give a FUCK if a fat chick has a pretty face... they don't want to see her naked. They don't want her sitting in their lap while they're waiting for their regular dancer. They don't want to see her walking by. They don't want her trying to annoy them into dances.
It quickly turns into they go find a new regular dancer at a club where girls they think are nasty aren't hounding them for dances while they wait for the girl they want.


Hey a custie not wanting to see Miss fatty got me a CR :D

d.catherine
05-16-2011, 08:10 PM
I try to avoid all brands of prejudice. When the place where you work compromises your paycheck while trying to improve their own earnings, the people responsible are difficult to like. The people whose presence are contributing to your diminished paycheck are responsible for making your money funny. The people who are turning this into a prejudice and a race thing are clueless. I don't care who you are, if you make my money funny, we aren't friends.

I think some people look for a something to wag their fingers at.

loveyonetwo
05-16-2011, 08:17 PM
You girls are all arguing completely different things! lol

To one girl reading this, "fat" means a 5'5" 200 lb woman, while another girl reading this is thinking a "fat" girl is 5'5" 150 lbs, all while another girl reading this thread is thinking "fat" is a girl who is 5'5" 125 lbs.

What kind of "fat" are we talking here?

Kellydancer
05-16-2011, 08:25 PM
You girls are all arguing completely different things! lol

To one girl reading this, "fat" means a 5'5" 200 lb woman, while another girl reading this is thinking a "fat" girl is 5'5" 150 lbs, all while another girl reading this thread is thinking "fat" is a girl who is 5'5" 125 lbs.

What kind of "fat" are we talking here?

The 5'5 200 pound woman is probably the fattie. The other two would likely not be. I've seen and worked with dancers who were far fatter than that, including an almost 300 pound woman.

DesuvsDeath
05-16-2011, 08:30 PM
What kind of "fat" are we talking here?

Depends on the type of club.
Normal club the 200 pound girl is fat...
Upscale club the 150 pound girl is fat, too.

Although I do tend to agree that a lot of us are arguing different things. People get replied to based off their last comment without anyone taking the time to at least skim through and make sure they're talking about the same work environment, ect.

Kellydancer
05-16-2011, 08:35 PM
Depends on the type of club.
Normal club the 200 pound girl is fat...
Upscale club the 150 pound girl is fat, too.

Although I do tend to agree that a lot of us are arguing different things. People get replied to based off their last comment without anyone taking the time to at least skim through and make sure they're talking about the same work environment, ect.

I've actually auditioned at clubs where the 5'5 125 pound girl was fat too, which I found strange.

DesuvsDeath
05-16-2011, 08:47 PM
^^Yeah, it'd depend on how good her body was.
I just assumed that we were talking about each weight looking as good as it possibly could.

Kellydancer
05-16-2011, 08:52 PM
Then again I worked with a 5'4 200 pound girl who banked. She had a tiny waist and a huge ass and boobs. No cellulite or flab on her.

loveyonetwo
05-16-2011, 09:04 PM
I've actually auditioned at clubs where the 5'5 125 pound girl was fat too, which I found strange.

I was actually fired from a club here in SF (Hustler) a bit back for being those stats. That's why I was asking people what kind of "fat" we're talking here. I'm thick at those stats, but I have a larger frame so my BMI is still pretty low. It's dumb, but yeah. We should all be clarifying what "fat" we are arguing here or there's no point in even replying.

loveyonetwo
05-16-2011, 09:09 PM
The 5'5 200 pound woman is probably the fattie. The other two would likely not be. I've seen and worked with dancers who were far fatter than that, including an almost 300 pound woman.

See the whole time I was reading this thread, I was thinking the 5'5" 125 lb "fat" and was getting annoyed at everyones comments. Here in San Francisco, I don't think I've ever even worked with or seen someone working with a BMI over 23. Even at a ghetto club. I just can't fathom someone of that size getting hired. I understand now.

Kellydancer
05-16-2011, 09:15 PM
I was actually fired from a club here in SF (Hustler) a bit back for being those stats. That's why I was asking people what kind of "fat" we're talking here. I'm thick at those stats, but I have a larger frame so my BMI is still pretty low. It's dumb, but yeah. We should all be clarifying what "fat" we are arguing here or there's no point in even replying.

I am only a little bit taller than that but I was rejected for being fat at 125 pounds. I have a large body frame and tend to be more muscular and have had people call me fat. My BMI has always been below average because I have very little fat on my arms or legs. I actually slimmed down to 115 pounds and was still told I was too fat. One club had a bunch of women with ugly faces but were very slender and I never understood why they did this.

When I talk about fat women I am talking average standards not dancing standards. Many celebrities would be considered "fat" by many clubs but would be desired by the average man. I'm not talking them but the women who are obese by regular standards. I've danced with a few of these women.

DesuvsDeath
05-16-2011, 09:59 PM
^Think we were all busy trying to stay on topic.




We should all be clarifying what "fat" we are arguing here or there's no point in even replying.
It seems like a lot of girls on the boards just don't want "sloppy" out of shape looking girls, and it just so happens that typically the ones who have sloppy bodies also have a few extra pounds.

Personally... since it varies so much from club to club - I guess I'd define "fat" as anyone far enough above the typical size or fitness level in the club to stand out in a negative way...

Outside of the club, I'd be more likely to describe a normal woman as being fat once she gets big enough that she's starting to get rolls or something... but I think itc "fat" varies by location.

UV69
05-16-2011, 10:01 PM
Fat to me is whatever weight starts looking like rolls, flab, cellulite, round belly, gut hanging - extra weight that doesn't look right on a person's frame as obesity/fat is a matter percent of unhealthy weight factored with a person's muscle, bone structure, & bodily mass. Fat is not healthy muscular thickness or a matter of being big boned in my book.

However on a petite frame like mine 150 would totally be fat for 5'5 1/2"
4 stripping standards at upscale clubs that could very well to too big.
Maybe for less upscale clubs 150 depends on how a woman carries it
, but 200 lbs at 5'5 is overweight & definitely fat as in obese by most scale used to measure bf & or BMI unless the women is pretty much a professional weight lifter who still should not be stripping for a living as that is a completely different body image then that of a dancer. Unless she carries it expectational well. Talking about the rare exceptional 200lbs girl that carries it where it looks like 150.

Still there are fat skinny girls that have bodies I wouldn't consider stripper worthy & there might be a thick girl who looks tight at a higher weight then others could get away with, but that is not the case of most overweight strippers & big or small if a woman is out of shape {looking more () then )( } I don't think she should work as a stripper.

I personally don't care that much if bigger girls work with me so long as they keep fat obese girls off the stage & from being strippers scaring away customers at my club (or atleast keep it to a low ratio), but personally I'm way much harder on myself who I hold to a higher standard then the other girls at the club as I am the person who has to live in my body & be happy with what is in the mirror so as picky as I am I consider myself very lucky to be able to maintain my body the way I have very close to my ideal.

22lligm
05-16-2011, 10:41 PM
Actually I disagree. NOT just anyone can be a doctor or lawyer either!! U need smarts, aptitude, good application of classroom skills on the job in practical modes, etc. Why else do they make med school and law school so hard, and even harder to get into??

Just becuz someone is fat and/or ugly doesn't guarantee they got an extra dose of intelligence to make up for it. There's lots of people that aren't cut out to be strippers or models but also wouldn't make it into med school even if their daddy was a well known alumni that bribed them. Not naming any names, but one particular girl on sw comes to mind...admitted she's not slender enough to be a stripper, and judging by her vapid naivety towards random Internet dudes who claim to be CEOs, and total lack of knowledge and common sense in general, apparently the looks Dept isn't the only area where she's lacking. Lol.

Now lets say a girl was heavy but had a knack for knowledge, a science whiz, skilled with a steady hand, and great with people...yea then I'd say I could see that girl bein a surgeon.

lol i wasn't going to comment on this again but i just wanted to say you definitely didn't get the point of what i said and i thought it was kind of funny.

my point of saying "we're not saying you can't become a laywer, doctor.." is that no one is discriminating overweight girls from becoming professionals in any other field (ex medicine & law). overweight girls arent being judged by their intelligence because that doesnt matter when it comes to stripping..what matters is appearance.

obviously my point was not that literally anyone can be a doctor or lawyer..LOL..i fully understand how difficult it is to go into those professions..::)

BringOnTheMen
05-16-2011, 11:24 PM
See the whole time I was reading this thread, I was thinking the 5'5" 125 lb "fat" and was getting annoyed at everyones comments. Here in San Francisco, I don't think I've ever even worked with or seen someone working with a BMI over 23. Even at a ghetto club. I just can't fathom someone of that size getting hired. I understand now.

Lol...youd be surprisedat some of the girls hired in SF.

tampadancer
05-17-2011, 09:33 AM
a girl who is 5'5", 125 could be fat if she has no muscle tone. But that could also be a very lean, sculpted woman with a divine body. It's hard to say if a girl is chunky or not just based on her height/weight. BF% plays a major role.

But yeah, 5'5" and 200 lbs is fat no matter how you look at it.

CherryBomb954
05-17-2011, 10:04 AM
No matter how many times people want to say "Oh but there are customers who like that"... there as many customers or more who DON'T. They don't give a FUCK if a fat chick has a pretty face... they don't want to see her naked. They don't want her sitting in their lap while they're waiting for their regular dancer. They don't want to see her walking by. They don't want her trying to annoy them into dances.
It quickly turns into they go find a new regular dancer at a club where girls they think are nasty aren't hounding them for dances while they wait for the girl they want.


THIS.

kthnx
05-17-2011, 03:25 PM
lol i wasn't going to comment on this again but i just wanted to say you definitely didn't get the point of what i said and i thought it was kind of funny.

my point of saying "we're not saying you can't become a laywer, doctor.." is that no one is discriminating overweight girls from becoming professionals in any other field (ex medicine & law). overweight girls arent being judged by their intelligence because that doesnt matter when it comes to stripping..what matters is appearance.

obviously my point was not that literally anyone can be a doctor or lawyer..LOL..i fully understand how difficult it is to go into those professions..::)

Sigh. Lol I really wasn't going to comment on THIS but alas I'm in a really bad mood and responding snarky will probably help my mood (bully complex). ::)

I saw the point, I was actually pointing out Another oft-overlooked point concerning a lotta underachieving dancers. I've noticed alot of the strippers who end up not succeeding at making enough money stripping--usually due to something looks related reason like being too fat, too disproportionate, too ugly, etc--think just becuz they're apparently not cut out to make $ in a looks related industry, that it's soooo easy to just jump into another criteria-driven career field. E.g., one loser who couldn't cut it as a stripper, then next min she's posting on facebook, "I want a career in medical field like my daddy!! Can't wait til I start med skool like omg wow!" meanwhile girl's dumb as a brick, and get it right it wasn't "med school" it was some medical assistant aide program at a tech school (she was too dumb to see the difference), and in the end she wasn't able to even pass the entrance test to get into THAT. Stupid stripper rejects need to realize that lack of looks is no guarantee they have brains either. SO tired of stupid girls saying they're gonna be a lawyer or chemist like it's sooooo easy to just do that too. >:(

tempest666
05-17-2011, 07:14 PM
lol second good night I've had thanks to Fatty mcfatfat! :D They do affect my money....they make it go up up UP!!!!!!

Remember the 3 C's ladies! Keep em corralled contained and controlled! We can't get rid of em (let's be realistic here, mgt wants more house fees) but we can control how we evolve our hustle in relation to an invasive species.

Plus like they said in a previous post, someone's gotta be onstage while I'm in the CR banking!

I even sprung for cupcakes today!

DesuvsDeath
05-17-2011, 07:29 PM
^But what happens when that customer comes back to see you and you're busy in the back with someone else... so she goes and sits on his lap.
He'll either be long gone or in the CR with someone else to get away from her before you get done that your other custy, and you'll miss out on the next CR.

tempest666
05-17-2011, 07:35 PM
^But what happens when that customer comes back to see you and you're busy in the back with someone else... so she goes and sits on his lap.
He'll either be long gone or in the CR with someone else to get away from her before you get done that your other custy, and you'll miss out on the next CR.
Or get squished :'( Dammit you always have more sound logic than me>:(

I dunno keep em occupied with twinkies in the DR? :-\

sananeko
05-17-2011, 07:37 PM
Maybe you should hand out waiting tickets. That way they the custies have an excuse to not be sat on by a unhealthy dancer.

BringOnTheMen
05-17-2011, 09:44 PM
^^once i put a sticky note with my stage name on a guy's shirt. he told me later a bouncer ripped it off. :(

22lligm
05-18-2011, 02:40 AM
^^once i put a sticky note with my stage name on a guy's shirt. he told me later a bouncer ripped it off. :(
lol!! i would laugh so hard if i saw that:D

LexyNYC
05-18-2011, 07:54 AM
um... idk what happened here lol responded to post that has vanished :(

luxi_kitty
05-18-2011, 09:08 AM
idk..im sorry i just dont see it
this girl is 5'7 and 200lbs but she looks hot to me...
she doesnt look fat at all..:-\
yes shes got some hot spots (thighs, boobs etc)
but i dont see how she wouldnt make it in a nice club with the weight she is..http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ll5f9paz1e1qcl5svo1_r1_500.jpg

Elusive21
05-18-2011, 10:52 AM
^^ that's what i look like right now (except i think my boobs might be a cup size bigger actually). im 5'4' and weigh 155 lbs. yes i might be a bigger girl but i am making decent money (just like i was when i weighed 125)

i think as long as you dont weigh over 200 lbs and you take VERY good care of your appearance you should be fine (even more than fine if you work in the midwest or idaho, montana, washington)

It IS true that bigger girls have to go the extra mile when it comes to their apperance such as always having a spray tan, perfect manicure, outift that highlights your good parts while hiding things like a big belly. someone that takes good care of their looks and is 20-30 lbs overweight should do just fine in a club.

what i dont like is the girls that are overweight and look like shit. greasy hair, nasty attitude, lingerie that looks like it came from a thrift store. THAT i have a problem with sometimes. yet some of them still continue to make money so at the end of the day, who really cares? my motto at work is "ignore everybody. make your money" you stick to that rule, and who cares what everybody else around you is doing or what they look like?

Kellydancer
05-18-2011, 12:59 PM
But see it has nothing to do with the weight number but what the weight is. I weigh much more than I look. I am not flabby but very muscular.

kthnx
05-18-2011, 01:15 PM
^ yes and also how well proportioned someone is. For example, how well does the girl carry the weight? Is she toned/muscular? Does she have curves in all the right places (boobs, hips, butt, etc) to balance her out? Does she have a relatively flat belly, or a flabby gut? Weight is only a number.

I remember last yr when that blonde from Michigan got put on probation at hooters for not fitting her uniform correctly. She whined right to the press, "omg they said I'm fat, they said I'm fat, they said I'm fat" and kept emphasizing her weight (132 lbs), but in reality hooters never said her WEIGHT was the prob, just that she didn't FIT properly. One glance at her pics revealed to me the truth: no she wasn't fat or a "big" girl at all, just had a disproportionAtely large belly, one you'd only want to see on someone 3-4 mos pregnant. Pregnant with belly/bump is sexy; not pregnant but with a bump is totally NOT!! And I know hooters won't discriminate against those truly preggers, as they have maternity uniforms and besides pregnancy is protected by the disabilities act. But looking "pseudo pregnant" like that hooters girl Cassie smith, however, is NOT protected nor desired.

BringOnTheMen
05-18-2011, 01:52 PM
1) I highly doubt she is 200 lbs.

2) her pose is extremely flattering and you can still see some pudge. Chances are if she turned around you would see some cellulite, or if she removed her hand on her hip you would see her big love handles, etc.

Elusive21
05-18-2011, 02:28 PM
yeah pseudo pregnant is definitely not attractive.

UV69
05-18-2011, 02:44 PM
There are women that hide fat better then others, but on stage naked working a pole even with flattering lighting well there still should be standards maybe not based soley on weight in lbs. However at some point if a woman lets go of herself, can't compete with the standards of the other dancers, or is out of shape they should exit the bizz.

I've seen alot bigger & my complaining is geared those that could fit a walmart size xxlg , but I really don't feel many should be hired if they fit any walmart size large except the few rare girls who really look like they weight alot less.

DesuvsDeath
05-18-2011, 02:48 PM
idk..im sorry i just dont see it
this girl is 5'7 and 200lbs but she looks hot to me...
she doesnt look fat at all..:-\
yes shes got some hot spots (thighs, boobs etc)
but i dont see how she wouldnt make it in a nice club with the weight she is..

A. Nice looking at 200 pounds... still looks like a fucking whale next to a 90 pound girl. You can have an adequate(ish) body like the girl in the picture and still stand out in a negative way for being so much larger than the rest of the girls.

B. Look how soft her body looks. She'd probably be a jiggly mess in the club.

C. Really nice clubs don't hire chunky girls because they look like SHIT compared to girls with really hot bodies. Picture that girl standing next to something like this:
http://www.all-photos.net/pictures/d/94618-1/Jesse+Jane+picture+b3.jpg
She's going to look fat and sloppy in comparison.

BringOnTheMen
05-18-2011, 05:10 PM
^^yup.

Keep in mind that we are not saying that her body is unnatractive, however it WILL look unnatractive when she is in a thong and every bit of fat is jiggling as she walks past you, especially since her ass will be at eye level. BTW- her ass has no definition whatsover- there is no curve to her butt, it just fades into her thighs. A lot of people don't mind this or actually think its cute, but when she's in a thong walking by it WILL jiggle and men WILL be repulsed. When she's sitting in a chair she won't be able to arch her back like she's doing and her stomach will fold into rolls-again, most men won't like this.

She's perfectly fine the way she is IRL but if you put her in a SC she will most likely bring down the caliber of the girls that the customers are used to.

mediocrity
05-18-2011, 06:07 PM
idk..im sorry i just dont see it
this girl is 5'7 and 200lbs but she looks hot to me...
she doesnt look fat at all..:-\
yes shes got some hot spots (thighs, boobs etc)
but i dont see how she wouldnt make it in a nice club with the weight she is..http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ll5f9paz1e1qcl5svo1_r1_500.jpg

This will be an unpopular opinion, but I think she is fat. She's turned to the side which hides a lot. I bet a straight on view looks quite different. I've said it before, but my 6'5" husband is 200lbs, and he is not rail thin. That's a whole lot of weight for a chick.

DesuvsDeath
05-18-2011, 07:14 PM
This will be an unpopular opinion, but I think she is fat. She's turned to the side which hides a lot. I bet a straight on view looks quite different.

I agree 100%. It's easy to take a bigger girl, have her pick a flattering angle and suck in her tummy and say "There, see... a girl at xx weight and xx height looks good!" But it's not an accurate depiction of what her body really looks like.

Elusive21
05-18-2011, 07:56 PM
I highly recommend everyone to watch the new episode of south park. it's about penis size. everyone wants to be bigger than average, and they go to any lengths to convince others that they are bigger and better than the average bear.

how about a moment of truth here? if everyone was truthful and honest with themselves, this thread would not have gone on as long as it has, (13 pages, r u kidding me?!)

fact is: MOST customers prefer thin or average girls. HOWEVER, there are many custys out there that dont mind getting a dance from a thicker girl. that's just the way it goes. if you are thin: good for u, MOST custys will love u, and thats good. If you are overweight (yes i am included in this category) there will surely be guys out there that spend money on u. there is no reason to feel insecure.

it is fact that more guys will go for a thinner girl than a thicker girl. thats ok because there will always be guys that spend $$ on a thicker girl, u just gotta find the right guy. it might take longer, but thats ok.

i think its fine for a club to have a couple or 3-4 thick girls, and the rest skinny and athletic. its variety.

i do agree that a club shouldnt have ALL thick girls but like i said variety is good.

what i hate is thick girls looking down on skinny girls saying they look sick or gross. OR, skinny girls looking down on bigger girls saying they are unhealthy and gross. cant we all just get along?

UV69
05-18-2011, 08:53 PM
I'm sorry just becuz south park lowered the average penis size to make guys with small dicks feel bigger doesn't mean strip clubs should lower it's standards to make fat girls feel like stripper material.

Truth is a guy with a lil dick should not be doing porn--unless it's like midget porn or something where having a monster cock is not ideal the same way a woman with a big fat belly does not belong on a pole in a sc.

Addison
05-18-2011, 09:03 PM
I'm in the grey area of this because I LOVE bigger dancers. Thick ones, not fat ones. Big tits, a huge ass, thick thighs .. :heartbeat I can even deal with a little belly because if her body is hot enough I don't even care about a little pudge.

On the other hand, if I came up to myself and was like, "Hey, can I get a lapdance?" I'd be like, "Hoe, can you get a sandwich first?"

tempest666
05-19-2011, 05:47 AM
This will be an unpopular opinion, but I think she is fat. She's turned to the side which hides a lot. I bet a straight on view looks quite different. I've said it before, but my 6'5" husband is 200lbs, and he is not rail thin. That's a whole lot of weight for a chick.
What you don't think she'd be a ton of fun? :D Far be it from me to play the devil's advocate when it comes to fatties, but I have seen worse :(

princessjas
05-19-2011, 06:30 AM
idk..im sorry i just dont see it
this girl is 5'7 and 200lbs but she looks hot to me...
she doesnt look fat at all..:-\
yes shes got some hot spots (thighs, boobs etc)
but i dont see how she wouldnt make it in a nice club with the weight she is..http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ll5f9paz1e1qcl5svo1_r1_500.jpg

Ive never worked at a club that would hire this girl. 90% of men wouldnt wanna see this naked ime. I was a bigger girl and Im a helluva lot thinner than that.

She may look okay in clothes but is just gonna run off some $$ in a SC. Sure she may sell some dances, but she will run off far more $$ than she brings in. girls with tight assed bodies and big butts/tits bring in $$, flab doesnt.