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sananeko
05-21-2011, 12:58 AM
The girl in the second pic is sexy. ^
Anyway, we're talking about shamus here. Double chins, hanging belly, rolls/skin flaps, horrid cellulite and stretch marks. We can all agree none wants to see that at any type of club.
BTW, this thread needs to die already.
Now if it that we are talking about then I agree but only til you get to stretch marks.. I have stretch marks on my breasts. Its cause I grew four cup sizes over one summer.. But I think I got them almost back to my skin color.
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 01:04 AM
The girl in the second pic is sexy. ^
Anyway, we're talking about shamus here. Double chins, hanging belly, rolls/skin flaps, horrid cellulite and stretch marks. We can all agree none wants to see that at any type of club.
BTW, this thread needs to die already.
yeah i think thats a bad way to determine what kind of "shamus" belong in the club and who doesnt..
ive read on the forums of healthy weight dancers with TONS of cellulite & stretch marks:-\
Vyanka
05-21-2011, 01:05 AM
Now if it that we are talking about then I agree but only til you get to stretch marks.. I have stretch marks on my breasts. Its cause I grew four cup sizes over one summer.. But I think I got them almost back to my skin color.
I did say horrid. :P
tampadancer
05-21-2011, 01:29 AM
Yea, anna nicole took a lot of flack for her fat before she slimmed back down and became a trimspa spokesmodel.
Before then, she was hot and modeled for Gap. So, I'd say that during her peak times of popularity, she was thin.
tempest666
05-21-2011, 03:56 AM
Guuuuuuuuurl, i've been arguin with some racist broads on the thread "fat girls dancing"....these buzzards stay trippin. Llol....i swear, this site is full of undercover kkk granddaughters.
Anyway, i've been chillin waaay too hard and i wanted to holla at blkbarb about her surgeries. I'm familiar with the doc she went to but i wanted to holla more extensively about him with her.
She hasn't been on myspace in a long while.
Your ass is looking really pretty i must type!
What's been up with you?
Where are all the closet KKK grandaughters *hiding* :D I am biracial......
Reality is fat will hold you back from getting hired in some clubs, too thin, race, tattoos, style you dress in, being pear shaped ..ect ect might as well depending.
However much I am an example of diversity & I believe a strip clubs should be filled with different kinds of hot & sexy -- plus sizes & extra big or any female that generally is out of shape I just don't feel should be strippers at all as it just doesn't sell the image of hot bod we market our self on having.
Stripping is not a god given right & not every female was given the bod to strip even though most women now can find someplace that will have them, but I'm still not going to look at a woman who is completely disproportionate & out of shape as stripper material or living up to the image of the industry. I will always see them as subpar strippers no matter what they make how how they have convinced themselves that out of shape is a great & sexy shape for women to have. Sorry I see that as lying to yourself & trying to connivence people that excess fat is a good thing when really it just isn't. Some is healthy ,needed, natural, & looks nice don't get me wrong, but there is a point where it's unhealthy & not attractive to most people who understand that unfit bodies is nothing to strive for or idealize the way a woman should have to work to maintain an impressive figure in this industry.
PS Let's try not to tie race with weight as there are some stripper built super sexy AA women out there (1 of my lovers is & she's tiny with great curves like OMG I love going out w/ her cuz she's such eye candy ) & of course there are also white women that look like miss pissy though some hip-hop clubs & men prefer thicker women bigger waistlines & lard hanging everywhere just go against all the standards of the industry & lower customer satisfaction in paying to see.
kthnx
05-21-2011, 05:59 AM
I don't condone total fatties in a mainstream sc but this is even worse! Yuck!
I wanna puke (how do I type a puke emoticon with a cell phone?)
luscious sadie
05-21-2011, 06:35 AM
I have become a lot thinner recently and make a lot more money. I have a super small waist and wide hips and guys really like it. Also, the guys who spend the most comment that they like my tiny belly :)
kthnx
05-21-2011, 09:11 AM
I'm gonna say something I didnt have the heart to say before. I know some people will probably get hurt or angry about this but I'm gonna say my true opinion regardless.
I think sometimes the reason some plus sized girls argue so much about the "right" for heavy girls to be strippers too is because they want to blissly reassure themselves their stripper dreams/goals aren't unrealistic. The deluded referring to an obese body as "curvy" is a bravado. But the thin-bashing shows their true body insecurities too well.
Also, I think it'd be more effective if heavyset girls who want to become strippers/models/hooters girls/etc focused more on getting in shape, than focusing so much on thin-bashing or trying to convince others to think they should be eligible for those jobs at their current size. I don't like that approach. I've always been a person that believes in working to FIX an issue, not simply try to feel better about the current issue. If u want to become a stripper, focus on weight loss, toning up, etc first.
I think the real reason luxi_kitty keeps defending big girls being strippers, is becuz she's big too and she wants to think she'll have a good chance of getting hired + making $$ as a stripper, since she can't survive on her current low paychecks at target. If she lost the weight she wants to lose and got hired as a stripper, think she'd be defending the "stripper worthy hotness" of heavyset girls as much as she is?? Or even if she was making enough $$ to not even have to think about/ consider stripping? What it all comes down to is, she wants positive reassurance in hopes that she'll be able to escape the debt-ridden situation she's in at target right now. And yea I feel bad about her current job situation, I worked at target yrs back so I know how they can drastically cut hrs and not pay beans, but I don't think it's reason to justify all big girls being entitled to become strippers.
MISS.NY
05-21-2011, 09:17 AM
honestlt i think women are getting offended at the fact at whats being called fat. how bout if ur belly is hanging over ur thong its a nono
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 09:19 AM
honestlt i think women are getting offended at the fact at whats being called fat. how bout if ur belly is hanging over ur thong its a nono
OKAY
muuucch better haha;)
tampadancer
05-21-2011, 09:50 AM
I'm gonna say something I didnt have the heart to say before. I know some people will probably get hurt or angry about this but I'm gonna say my true opinion regardless.
I think sometimes the reason some plus sized girls argue so much about the "right" for heavy girls to be strippers too is because they want to blissly reassure themselves their stripper dreams/goals aren't unrealistic. The deluded referring to an obese body as "curvy" is a bravado. But the thin-bashing shows their true body insecurities too well.
Also, I think it'd be more effective if heavyset girls who want to become strippers/models/hooters girls/etc focused more on getting in shape, than focusing so much on thin-bashing or trying to convince others to think they should be eligible for those jobs at their current size. I don't like that approach. I've always been a person that believes in working to FIX an issue, not simply try to feel better about the current issue. If u want to become a stripper, focus on weight loss, toning up, etc first.
I think the real reason luxi_kitty keeps defending big girls being strippers, is becuz she's big too and she wants to think she'll have a good chance of getting hired + making $$ as a stripper, since she can't survive on her current low paychecks at target. If she lost the weight she wants to lose and got hired as a stripper, think she'd be defending the "stripper worthy hotness" of heavyset girls as much as she is?? Or even if she was making enough $$ to not even have to think about/ consider stripping? What it all comes down to is, she wants positive reassurance in hopes that she'll be able to escape the debt-ridden situation she's in at target right now. And yea I feel bad about her current job situation, I worked at target yrs back so I know how they can drastically cut hrs and not pay beans, but I don't think it's reason to justify all big girls being entitled to become strippers.
THIS. I have wanted to say this also.
I have to say, it frustrates me that luxi_kitty keeps ardently defending whatever she calls "thick" or "curvy" (which I call "fat") girls in the strip club, when she has never been a stripper. It is because she herself is heavy, and she wants to feel like she will be successful as a stripper. However, the best thing for her to do if she wants to succeed as a dancer is to focus on getting in shape and losing weight, instead of trying to convince herself that fat strippers are okay.
Those of us who have chimed in and expressed frustration/disdain with overweight strippers are speaking from experience. Luxi can't say the same about her defense of fat dancers.
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 10:13 AM
wtf???
i havent even said negative things on this thread...
why the bashing me..
im only answering the previous posts and OP's original post
and yes i am chubby..i HAVE said that numerous times within this thread..
but u two need to DEF do ur research bc i have posted pics of examples of the difference bwtn thick, curvy and chubby!
I KNOW the diff bwtn skinny, curvy, thick, and chubby..and i HAVE said that i fall into the chubby category...i have NEVER denied that...PLEASE RE-READ THIS ENTIRE THREAD FROM THE BEGINNING..ya ll sound extremely lost
i have only given my opinion on the whole "fat girls dancing" in the club topic
so dont bash me or my self-image..i am def NOT insecure
NOR did i ever bash thinner women..so i am VERY pissed off that these words are put into my previous posts..when i have NEVER said anything of such
ya ll r apparently confused and have mixed my opinions on thinner women to another member's opinions!!!
MISS.NY
05-21-2011, 10:19 AM
my question for you ladies is how do you feel about overweight women in general?? AND YES i SAY OVER WEIGHT because thats what it is just in all the right places.
Like it's mean yoir telling girls with a little more meat that no man will find them sexy or money making men would not find them as a fantasy. That hurts.
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 10:26 AM
EXACTLY..
all i was saying throughout this whole DAMN thread was that men like diff types of women and/or that strip clubs have DIFF standards in women in DIFF regionals in this COUNTRY!!
FOR indirect EXAMPLE--just bc Kthnx is from...idk..butt-fuck Alabama and she says that strip clubs where she is only allows women under 110lbs, ribs showing, and Ashley Olsen types..doesnt mean here in atlanta at clubs like Magic City or Strokers has the same standards as where u are
**
thats what i have been pretty much defending in this thread
tampadancer
05-21-2011, 10:27 AM
I have no problem with overweight women, I just think that overweight dancers can be problematic.
Just as I have no problem with blind people - but I don't want a blind person piloting my plane.
We aren't being mean or saying that chubby girls can't be cute - just that there should be certain standards for dancers. If you want to strip, be in shape...work on your body. That should be a given. You don't have to be a "skeleton" (as the overweight girls seem to like calling anyone who isn't FAT), just be toned and fit.
That's all.
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 10:29 AM
^^^what if i DONT want to be smaller
the clubs i WANT to be in embraces curves, thick asses, big natural tits, wobbling thighs..
if i lose weight and be too thin..then i have the chance of not being hired at those clubs that wants to see nothing but ass shaking!
tampadancer
05-21-2011, 10:30 AM
EXACTLY..
all i was saying throughout this whole DAMN thread was that men like diff types of women and/or that strip clubs have DIFF standards in women in DIFF regionals in this COUNTRY!!
FOR indirect EXAMPLE--just bc Kthnx is from...idk..butt-fuck Alabama and she says that strip clubs where she is only allows women under 110lbs, ribs showing, and Ashley Olsen types..doesnt mean here in atlanta at clubs like Magic City or Strokers has the same standards as where u are
Yeah, I'm pretty sure she said none of that.
Come back and talk to us when you can speak from experience.
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 10:33 AM
Yeah, I'm pretty sure she said none of that.
Come back and talk to us when you can speak from experience.
i said INDIRECT
loosely meaning---i know she didnt say any of that i was just making an example of things that are being said around the threads..
and i dont NEED to be experienced in dancing to give my opinion on differences btwn skinny, curvy, thick, and chubby
MISS.NY
05-21-2011, 10:34 AM
luxi for the black clubs they're not saying loose weight but be toned. even at those club the grls are toned. ass, titties, thighs yes but belly no. even here in new yrk big and toned for black clubs
MISS.NY
05-21-2011, 10:37 AM
belly will always bring a club down
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 10:38 AM
THIS. I have wanted to say this also.
I have to say, it frustrates me that luxi_kitty keeps ardently defending whatever she calls "thick" or "curvy" (which I call "fat") girls in the strip club, when she has never been a stripper. It is because she herself is heavy, and she wants to feel like she will be successful as a stripper. However, the best thing for her to do if she wants to succeed as a dancer is to focus on getting in shape and losing weight, instead of trying to convince herself that fat strippers are okay.
Those of us who have chimed in and expressed frustration/disdain with overweight strippers are speaking from experience. Luxi can't say the same about her defense of fat dancers.
MissNy -i thought thats all they wanted too, was thick women to tone..but no they both said lose the weight and then i wouldnt have to worry about my self-image
tampadancer
05-21-2011, 10:41 AM
and i dont NEED to be experienced in dancing to give my opinion on differences btwn skinny, curvy, thick, and chubby
This thread isn't a discussion of the differences between skinny, curvy, thick, and chubby - it's a discussion about strippers who are overweight and out-of-shape. And I just find it hard to lend your opinion much credence because you aren't a dancer. Best of luck, but I think stripping might be a cruel reality check for you.
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 10:46 AM
...to be honest and with all due respect this thread has went ass off the wall
it went from fat girls dancing to racial slurs to bashing thinner women..soo really there IS no exact discussion
Kellydancer
05-21-2011, 10:59 AM
THIS. I have wanted to say this also.
I have to say, it frustrates me that luxi_kitty keeps ardently defending whatever she calls "thick" or "curvy" (which I call "fat") girls in the strip club, when she has never been a stripper. It is because she herself is heavy, and she wants to feel like she will be successful as a stripper. However, the best thing for her to do if she wants to succeed as a dancer is to focus on getting in shape and losing weight, instead of trying to convince herself that fat strippers are okay.
Those of us who have chimed in and expressed frustration/disdain with overweight strippers are speaking from experience. Luxi can't say the same about her defense of fat dancers.
I agree with this and Kthnx. I have seen this idea from fat (yes I said it) women who don't think being fat is a big deal. My sister in law's best friend is over 300 pounds around my height and she says she's fine with her "curves". Um no, it's not curves it's fat. I've worked with women who were too fat to dance and yes it does bring down the reputation. I am talking flabby stomachs hanging over pants fat. These women have ruined clubs for me. I am one of those people who resents how fat women took over curvy and how they compare themselves to Marilyn Monroe. They have nothing in common with her. I don't think extremes are good.
Kellydancer
05-21-2011, 11:03 AM
Where are all the closet KKK grandaughters *hiding* :D I am biracial......
My grandmother is a racist so I suppose that makes me the granddaughter of a closet KKK person. She's not in the KKK though.
I don't get why people are claiming racial slurs because I don't see any. There's hot black women and fat black women just with all races. The only difference is black women often look better being fatter than white women. However, fat is fat no matter the race.
Christany
05-21-2011, 11:05 AM
...to be honest and with all due respect this thread has went ass off the wall
it went from fat girls dancing to racial slurs to bashing thinner women..soo really there IS no exact discussion
Fwiw girl, don't let this thread get you down. There's different subgenres of the stripping world (like burlesque), where all different body types are embraced (and in some cases it's actually beneficial to not be so cookie cutter). Also, I just noticed you're in ATL. A couple pages back, I mentioned a club in ATL (Clermont Lounge) which is famous and well known for having different body types. (And I say that not to limit you, as I have no idea what you look like. But just to let you know that there are options).
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 11:11 AM
^^ aww hehe :)
no im fine, theres no way that i ll let this thread and some member's opinions drag me to hell and attack my self-image, baby!
yeah ive read on that clermont lounge..sounds interesting thats my last resort if no one else is hiring..that permit is killer
no one knows what i look like...
here..i ll post a pic..
NO its NOT the best pic to determine my exact body shape..but at least u get an idea of what im working with
..and no im not on valium or had a stroke..nothing is wrong with my mouth..its called a goofy-smirk
i have a full arm sleeve on my right arm-17other tatts, and 11piercings (smiley, septum, nipples, ears, and nose)
yes i know..i will NOT being accepted in a upscale club or even a "mixed" club
no i have never belittled or said thinner women were skeletons or underweight..i dont care what they look like i care about MY image and defending others that fall into my category
yes i know i need to tone..(which is why i havent started dancing yet)
and no my belly does not go over my thong
no im not skinny or curvy..however i will like to say that i fall in bwtn the category of thick and chubby..
thick bc i have ass, tits chubby-bc my arms can be def worked on!
tempest666
05-21-2011, 11:23 AM
My grandmother is a racist so I suppose that makes me the granddaughter of a closet KKK person. She's not in the KKK though.
I don't get why people are claiming racial slurs because I don't see any. There's hot black women and fat black women just with all races. The only difference is black women often look better being fatter than white women. However, fat is fat no matter the race.
I hope you didn't take me seriously! :D I just wanted to illustrate the er, absurdity of that post. This thread has really....expanded :D
I still love ya Kelly!
I just don't see how thinking that fat chicks don't belong at certain clubs makes us racist. You're right fat is fat no matter what.
DesuvsDeath
05-21-2011, 12:21 PM
Stripping is not a god given right & not every female was given the bod to strip even though most women now can find someplace that will have them, but I'm still not going to look at a woman who is completely disproportionate & out of shape as stripper material or living up to the image of the industry. I will always see them as subpar strippers no matter what they make how how they have convinced themselves that out of shape is a great & sexy shape for women to have.
I don't UNDERSTAND this. I mean... You see the big girls in the club, 9/10 times they're making NO money but they're still walking around talking about how sexy they are and how men LOVE their bodies. >>;
I don't get why people are claiming racial slurs because I don't see any.
Because all other points were addressed... so it's time to distract.
wtf???
i havent even said negative things on this thread...
why the bashing me..
It's more that they're bashing the fact that you keep telling US what makes money and what doesn't... and you aren't a stripper (yet?). :P
Is that a hello kitty tattoo on your chest?
my question for you ladies is how do you feel about overweight women in general??
Overweight women in general are fine. I have NO problem with them.
Just gtfo my club.
At the end of the day... a strip club is supposed to be a place where men come to be entertained by unimaginably sexy women. There are clubs with high standards for a reason... and you should have to live up to those standards to work there. Not just anyone should be able to walk off the street and be a stripper. Strippers are supposed to be held to higher standards of beauty than normal women - THIS INCLUDES YOUR BODY.
(This is not directed at anyone in particular...) You want to be a fat stripper? Go for it... but don't expect that a nice club should hire you because you've convinced yourself that rolls are sexy.
The argument that some men like fat women really isn't a valid one. There are men who like burn victims and corpses and think women who don't shower are sexy. Stripping is not, and should not be open to everyone.
Kellydancer
05-21-2011, 12:26 PM
I hope you didn't take me seriously! :D I just wanted to illustrate the er, absurdity of that post. This thread has really....expanded :D
I still love ya Kelly!
I just don't see how thinking that fat chicks don't belong at certain clubs makes us racist. You're right fat is fat no matter what.
I knew you weren't serious so no not offended (btw that's a compliment because I love ya too!).
But yes you are right and fat women don't belong at clubs.
Kellydancer
05-21-2011, 12:35 PM
I don't UNDERSTAND this. I mean... You see the big girls in the club, 9/10 times they're making NO money but they're still walking around talking about how sexy they are and how men LOVE their bodies. >>;
Because all other points were addressed... so it's time to distract.
It's more that they're bashing the fact that you keep telling US what makes money and what doesn't... and you aren't a stripper (yet?). :P
Is that a hello kitty tattoo on your chest?
Overweight women in general are fine. I have NO problem with them.
Just gtfo my club.
At the end of the day... a strip club is supposed to be a place where men come to be entertained by unimaginably sexy women. There are clubs with high standards for a reason... and you should have to live up to those standards to work there. Not just anyone should be able to walk off the street and be a stripper. Strippers are supposed to be held to higher standards of beauty than normal women - THIS INCLUDES YOUR BODY.
(This is not directed at anyone in particular...) You want to be a fat stripper? Go for it... but don't expect that a nice club should hire you because you've convinced yourself that rolls are sexy.
The argument that some men like fat women really isn't a valid one. There are men who like burn victims and corpses and think women who don't shower are sexy. Stripping is not, and should not be open to everyone.
This reminds me yet again of another fat stripper story. I once saw this grossely fat woman audition and get rejected. She then said "but men love my love handles". Ok, I've known guys who liked larger girls including a couple of chubby chasers, but never heard a guy who was turned on by love handles. Large ass and hips? Sure. Large belly? Not really unless she happened to be pregnant with his child.
Oh and I knew a guy who was turned on to women dressed as babies or himself dressed as a baby. This doesn't mean clubs should start hiring diaper wearing dancers. I knew another guy into really old women but this doesn't mean hiring a 80 year old woman. I knew another guy into amputees but I don't think many clubs would hire one (though an ex told me about a club that hired one). The fact is women dressed as babies, old women, amputees and fat women are a very specialized niche and most men aren't into this.
tempest666
05-21-2011, 12:40 PM
Correction, I never typed that ALL men like thick women....quote me where I did and your argument is valid with me. BUUUT, being that I didn't, go catch a flight somewhere with the bullshit. You commented on my weight/body....I know you wish you had shape. In fact, why don't you post a pic for all of us to see? If it's nice, I'll give you props. If not, then I might waste a little bit of time and comment about it.
Ass so PHAT I need a lapdance. :D I like PHAT asses not FAT asses -_-
That's desu's ass right there. Me and my boyfriend have been jerking off to it all week.
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 12:43 PM
It's more that they're bashing the fact that you keep telling US what makes money and what doesn't... and you aren't a stripper (yet?). :P
Is that a hello kitty tattoo on your chest?
yes its one of my many hello kitty tatts..
why?? u got beef with kitty..???:medusa:
hehe :D
and no i never said that being thick gets u more money..once again im being confused with another member(s)
i said that thick women can bank in hip hop clubs..
my only argument is that there are diff standards in diff states/cities/towns..
where u might think a girl is too fat/thick/chubby to be in ANY club..my only defense is.."well she ll do excellent in a hip-hop/black/urban club"
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 12:46 PM
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Ass so PHAT I need a lapdance. :D I like PHAT asses not FAT asses -_-
That's desu's ass right there. Me and my boyfriend have been jerking off to it all week.
oooo nice!
is there anymore pics??? :drool:
tempest666
05-21-2011, 12:50 PM
oooo nice!
is there anymore pics??? :drool:
Ask desu I just found this cuz my bf saved it on the computer
DesuvsDeath
05-21-2011, 12:51 PM
yes its ones of my many hello kitty tatts..
why?? u got beef with kitty..???:medusa:
hehe :D
and no i never said that being thick gets u more money..once again im being confused with another member(s)
i said that thick women can bank in hip hop clubs..
my only argument is that there are diff standards in diff states/cities/towns..
where u might think a girl is too fat/thick/chubby to be in ANY club..my only defense is.."well she ll do excellent in a hip-hop/black/urban club"
No. I just happened to notice that one and wasn't sure.
I didn't mean you were saying that being thick got you more money... just that you were saying thick girls did well in the clubs down there.
There are definitely different standards in different areas... but in my experience... different standards for different scale clubs have less gap than the different clubs do from each other: ex - a high end gown club will have thin girls (for the area) no matter where the area... a dive will be most likely to hire "big" girls whether "big" for the area is 140 or 200.
oooo nice!
is there anymore pics??? :drool:
Nope! That's she only one she has (So far....) of what some might say is my "shapeless" body. }:D
camille27
05-21-2011, 12:57 PM
omg. you are my new favorite poster.
i am tiny tiny but am most attracted to women who are thick. tummies on ladies are cute, i think.
Bitch, y r u on my clit??? If your dumb ass read the original posting carefully, you'd see that a weight number was applied. U can sit around and believe that ALL men like skeletons if you want to, BUT, your grossly in error. U can't hate on my weight because my body is L.O.V.E.L.Y.!
Now dig, when I first read your quote and statement, I tripped but I understand now that you just need to eat a little bit more and you'll be alright. LOLOL, but so what huh?
AGAIN...men do appreciate shapely women...hell, they all were in total love with Marilyn and Anna and we all know those broads were thick than a snicka!
kthnx
05-21-2011, 01:01 PM
I think either extreme is bad. I don't think really heavy girls should strip in most mainstream clubs but obviously posting those gross anorexic pics shows that I don't think sickly skinny belongs in a sc either.
Luxi_kitty, if you feel confident that u can get hired and make money as u look now (I haven't seen what u look like, just read u mentioning u want to make weight loss goals), then DO IT!!...go try out at a club already. What are u waiting for??? U need to make car payments right? U say your happy the way u look, but the only reason I said u should find ways to tone up is becuz I read u writing bout wanting to lose weight so u can start dancing(I think it was on vatashas profile).
And if you dont wanna change but clubs don't hire u, don't despair, there's OTHER ways to make more than $150/wk without bein in the stripclub. U can apy to office jobs. Most will give u full time day hours, not the 6pm-10pm bullshit shifts target puts out. If u have no experience u can usually still get an entry level data entry job thru a temp agency paying about what target pays u but with more hrs. Use that to move up to better temp jobs or even perm office work. U can also make good money waitressing and u won't have to worry bout the weight thing as much. Don't think it's stripclub or no money at all. And if u wanna be a stripper for more than just money, then try out, tone up, etc whatever it takes to make your goal a reality. Good luck.
My grandmother is a racist so I suppose that makes me the granddaughter of a closet KKK person. She's not in the KKK though.
I don't get why people are claiming racial slurs because I don't see any. There's hot black women and fat black women just with all races. The only difference is black women often look better being fatter than white women. However, fat is fat no matter the race.
Yeah one of my grandmas was a bit racist, having grown up with a rather redneck view. I used to always get in argument debates with her about it since i opposed her racist views. Then Obama ran for president and she thought he was so hot!!! Lol in my family the running joke is that my grandmas crush on Obama made her see the light on racism as a whole. As soon as Obama came about, she would encourage people to vote for him and preach on about how people need to look beyond race and see him for the great person he is. Oh and the slightly pervy comments at the holiday table that yr bout wishing she'd be there to see him in a tight bathing suit! Haha. Nevermind obamas younger than BOTH her children!! Lol
Addison
05-21-2011, 01:05 PM
Awwww, luxi_kitty, you're a cute lil thang. Go dance, girl! I KNOW you can make money!
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 01:06 PM
Luxi_kitty, if you feel confident that u can get hired and make money as u look now (I haven't seen what u look like, just read u mentioning u want to make weight loss goals), then DO IT!!...go try out at a club already. What are u waiting for??? U need to make car payments right? U say your happy the way u look, but the only reason I said u should find ways to tone up is becuz I read u writing bout wanting to lose weight so u can start dancing(I think it was on vatashas profile).
i already posted an attached pic like several posts above..
JESUS christ..do i smell stalker?? :D
jk
thanks for reading up on me..:-X and yeah im VERY intrigued by this industry and have always wanted to do it..weird to some people..hmm maybe, but its what i like and its what i want to do..
(my mom just found out like 7min ago, wrote a post about it in Life Support forum, please read bc im bugging out right now)
office jobs? hmm nooo thats fuckin torture..however i am still working at Target part time
luxi_kitty
05-21-2011, 01:09 PM
Awwww, luxi_kitty, you're a cute lil thang. Go dance, girl! I KNOW you can make money!
awww hehe ^_^ thank u!
ohh i will Addison... ohh i will!:D
kthnx
05-21-2011, 01:12 PM
Kelly, your post about the diaper wearing dancers made me laugh so hard!!!
Luxi, I just saw your pic. Ok not as big as I thought (I mighta gotten u confused with vatashas size) but yea toning up is a good idea. U have boobs and a cute face so that'll help u a lot make money.
Also, i didn't mean to say YOU in particular bash thin girls, was talking In general which means I looped all the girls' contributions together. Didn't mean for u to think I was falsely accusing u of anything. Hope that helps.
Kellydancer
05-21-2011, 01:14 PM
You'd be surprised how many guys are into that. I never knew diaper wearing was that common until I met that guy and actually found a website devoted to it. That just creeps me out and reminds me of pedophilia. The most common fetish I've found has been feet. This one I actually like because I love foot rubs.
Kellydancer
05-21-2011, 01:26 PM
No. I just happened to notice that one and wasn't sure.
I didn't mean you were saying that being thick got you more money... just that you were saying thick girls did well in the clubs down there.
There are definitely different standards in different areas... but in my experience... different standards for different scale clubs have less gap than the different clubs do from each other: ex - a high end gown club will have thin girls (for the area) no matter where the area... a dive will be most likely to hire "big" girls whether "big" for the area is 140 or 200.
Nope! That's she only one she has! (So far....) }:D
One thing I've noticed is this. For instance when I was dancing there were three levels of clubs: upscale, midlevel and dives. Granted this varies depending on area but this is what I saw.
Upscale: All the women were at least 9's if not 10's. All were in fantastic shape, most had implants, mostly white (especially blonde), tanned younger (Many had age limits) and wore expensive outfits. These were mostly gown clubs. Clientele was mostly professionals.
Midlevel: These clubs had lower standards but still were somewhat picky. Girls were at least a 7. Some dancers were a little heavy (say 10 pounds)but still attractive. More variety with dancers and sometimes they had a larger dancer (who tended to have a nice large ass and pretty face). Clientele was more middle class though did have some professionals as well.
Dives: Hired anyone with a vagina (or at least suspected of having one). Really didn't matter what they looked like so this is where the many rejected dancers went. Many dancers were older and many fatties. Of course many of these dancers also did tricks too. The clientele was usually lower class as well.
I generally stuck with the mid level clubs because I was too pretty for the dives and not good enough for the top tier clubs. I briefly worked at a few dives but didn't last long because while they usually paid me or the house was low, the money wasn't there.
I'm trying to think of other jobs in the SCs women that are built 2 thin or fat for can do well at.
& even then I could see why they would hire the anorexic girl becuz it is a SC it can't hurt 2 have a few backup poles around.
But when looking around the club trying to find something the size of these bigger women the only thing I found that came close was when looking at the customers which only confirms it to me that they don't belong on stage.
Then again I did think some of them were in better shape so I wouldn't want to offend the non heavyweight custies of the club as I would hire them before I would hire fat girls if I ran the club. Which makes sense since male strippers bank, there are custies that find them attractive who are willing to pay, & you won't see fat male dancers in the bizz either. Which as a lesbian it makes it even harder to admit that male strippers have better standards than we seem to.
Kellydancer
05-21-2011, 01:30 PM
I'm trying to think of other jobs in the SCs women that are built 2 thin or fat for can do well at.
& even then I could see why they would hire the anorexic girl becuz it is a SC it can't hurt 2 have a few backup poles around.
But when looking around the club trying to find something the size of these bigger women the only thing I found that came close was when looking at the customers which only confirms it to me that they don't belong on stage.
Then again I did think some of them were in better shape so I wouldn't want to offend the non heavyweight custies of the club as I would hire them before I would hire fat girls if I ran the club. Which makes sense since male strippers bank, there are custies that find them attractive who are willing to pay, & you won't see fat male dancers in the bizz either. Which as a lesbian it makes it even harder to admit that male strippers have better standards than we seem to.
From what male dancers have told me it's stricter than female dancing. Makes sense since I don't see fat male dancers.
Christany
05-21-2011, 01:58 PM
Awwww, luxi_kitty, you're a cute lil thang. Go dance, girl! I KNOW you can make money!
I really like her personality too. Seems like the type that can keep forging ahead and stay positive.
tempest666
05-21-2011, 01:59 PM
Yeah sir Mix a lot says 'I like Big butts and I cannot lie" not "I like big guts with more rolls than a pastry truck"
All the rap songs I listen to make no mention of spare guts hanging over the sides and fronts of thongs like nasty pancakes or jelly rolls.
Yeah I won't dispute that black clubs or black guys like ass! :D I bank off em }:D
_Avery_
05-21-2011, 02:04 PM
You'd be surprised how many guys are into that. I never knew diaper wearing was that common until I met that guy and actually found a website devoted to it. That just creeps me out and reminds me of pedophilia. The most common fetish I've found has been feet. This one I actually like because I love foot rubs.
Omg, there was a guy on TABOO who had that fetish.
Guess the IRS is coming after him for social security fraud or something.
Then he threatened to kill himself if they stopped his disability (I dunno the whole story..) just that guy was a freaking weirdo!
/threadjack