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Kisca
02-14-2011, 03:33 PM
Ignore all the nasty comments and remarks. You need to observe yourself. What is going on in your life now? Why do you feel down? What is making you feel that way? You need to seek mental help, see a doctor.. I remember you posting about something simlar to this and your health didnt seem intact. You need to seek a better path for yourself, whether its going to a doctor, by meds or by therapy.. This is an on-going thing.

This guy may be nice to you, he may call you, give you advice, tell you he will do everything for you so you can earn money and get back into the stripping world. But, you dont need him. You dont know this man, he will take your money and run. Whatever you decide to do, never .. NEVER give money to someone else. Put it in a money bank, into a safe.. not in his hands or anybody elses hands. This will help you keep your money intact, and if you think you arent stable to have money, there is a bank. But mainly first of all, Stop ALL contact with him, dont even tell him, just stop. This guy is going to using you, you dont need anyone to get you into escorting, or stripping. It takes YOU to get there, not anyone else. Seek a professional to help you with your stablity and get back on track onto what is going to make you happy. Go into the postive path.. this guy wont get you there, he will be bad news no matter what he says to you.. He is not going to be there for you.. You are.

BritishBecky
02-14-2011, 03:55 PM
you can still cam to earn cash while you are getting yourself fixed up, and all you need is your computer and YOU

YOU can do it for YOU! Good luck x

Smurfette
02-14-2011, 04:54 PM
This thread is depressing. Hook up your webcam and get on Streamate. You won't make as much as you would escorting or stripping but you'll make enough to support yourself. Stay out of strip clubs, stay away from sleazy guys and don't even consider escorting. Go to the doctor, get better meds & start exercising.

I hope everything works out for you.

MistyRose
02-14-2011, 05:38 PM
I'm really sorry to hear you're going through such an awful period, so awful you're even thinking this is a good idea. Please, please listen to what other girls here told you: your health is a PRIORITY now. Schedule appointments you need, switch medications if that's doctors reccommendation, anything to regain your mental stability. In my opinion, a person who has extreme self-image and self confidence issues doesn't belong in a sex industry. Those things would be put on trial daily, and working any job that relies on your body as a primary source of income WILL subject it to criticism. You need to be in a state where you can wave nasty comments off without thinking twice about them FIRST and then consider sex industry, not the other way around.

What I think about pimps? Well...let me ask you a few questions instead...You want to escort because you need money till you get back to stripping? So you're going to work as an escort and then hand over all the money to a man just because he told you that you don't know how to handle money so he'll take it? So...you're going to escort but still NOT have any money?

Pimps are for girls who had the extreme misfortune of becoming sex slaves or being at such a low point in life that they thought this way a good idea. It's never ever a good idea. Please don't be one of those girls. Break every contact with this man, get some medical help and surround yourself with family, friends, people who you know truly care for you. And for Pete's sake, if you need a job badly, work at Walmart till you get yourself together.

Good luck, girlie.

IsobelWren
02-15-2011, 12:56 AM
Pimp PImp Hooray!

I just snorted merlot out of my nose from that one! It buuuurrrnsss. OMFG I can't stop laughing!:D

IsobelWren
02-15-2011, 01:04 AM
But seriously OP. Listen to the other girls and listen to this. You don't need a pimp and you don't need to be in the sex industry when you're having mental health and self image problems. This kind of work can really do a number on your self esteem and if you're already having problems with it? You'll only feel worse. Go get a nice day job, even if it's something menial and get away from this guy. If you're asking us you already know he's bad news. You know in your heart what is right.

misselise07
02-15-2011, 03:23 AM
OMG this is the most stupid thing I have ever heard in my life. When you have a clear frame of mind OP go read everything you just wrote and see how stupid you sound and look. If you think you are to fat to work at the SC (which by the sounds from the actual strippers SC hire anything these days...) or get your ass on cam. If you go running to this pimp you are stupid and you better hope you find a captain save a hoe.

prettysammie
02-15-2011, 04:23 AM
I have a guy who wants to pimp me out as a prostitute. I figure I can make more money this way since my confidence about auditioning is down due to weight gain.

The thing is he wants to keep all the money to build it up he says. He also says I'm too scatterbrained to hang onto the money and would end up blowing it all on some bullshit.

That's why I want to get involved with him.

Hi LilSweetVixen,

I'm really a little shocked and upset by your post. You normally seem so much smarter and more confident than this. Even if you gained some weight, I bet you're still beautiful. You really don't need a pimp, or an abusive guy, or any one really.

The only way I could see someone needing a pimp is if this were still the 1930's and the only way to escort was to be a street walker. I guess back then there weren't agencies, so if you wanted "security" you had to have a pimp. The world has changed, and pimps don't really provide any kind of service that someone more legitimate couldn't provide. If you're worried about money management maybe just find a financial planner. A pimp is just an agent/manager who's less legitimate and who'll use you and take advantage of you and maybe hurt you. They're basically dinosaurs that don't know they're extinct yet. You can find much better people out there who could help you out.

BuffyFlame
02-15-2011, 05:26 AM
Everything thats to be said has already been said ,
I just wanted to state my condolences to your condition
and that we share some of the same mental issues,
And also state , The sex-adult industry is sometimes a hard
thing to deal with with bipolar - depression.

Without my meds personally , i have split personality's with my bipolar.
One of them LOVES being the sexy vixen , and having guys look at her,

On the other hand, side B thinks side A is a disgusting whore.
And i say that as serious as possible.
Including self inflicted suicide attempts and brutal abuse on myself.
With my meds im fine.

Anywho , before i ramble , I just wanted to tell you , Your not alone out there
in this business , battling a mental health issue.

And you will always have a friend in me if you ever need to talk.

=]

And please protect yourself.

xxxevexxx
02-15-2011, 09:06 AM
A pimp isnt going to help you make money and he may act like he cares about you and is going to help you at the beginning but thats just and act till he has you wrappped around his finger(like in an abusive relationship) When I worked in vegas at brothels there were a lot of girls that had pimps and would try to recuit younger girls but I've been in this adult industry for too long to fall for that. They are scum! and I have known girls that had them and would get beat on a daily basis and didnt have any money even though they worked their asses off. It's the worst career move you could make.

Caramel69
02-15-2011, 12:40 PM
well this is quite sad. goodluck to you.... I hope you wake up before you make this big mistake. I hate to see people so lost they turn to anything to try and make things better. You should seek help and talk to someone. I know people that has depression like you and the best thing for them to do is speak to others and surround themselves with bright, cheerful, optimistic people. Take care of yourself.

LilSweetVixen
02-15-2011, 02:31 PM
You ladies are so sweet and caring. :-*

You've talked me out of dealing with this guy. I was so desperate for money and he promised to pay all my bills and do my hair and everything. But now I realize this is a really stupid idea and I will just have to go through the tedious process of filling out apps @ various area clubs. I already filled one out yesterday.

Thanks again for the heads up.

pamand
02-15-2011, 02:36 PM
You ladies are so sweet and caring. :-*

You've talked me out of dealing with this guy. I was so desperate for money and he promised to pay all my bills and do my hair and everything. But now I realize this is a really stupid idea and I will just have to go through the tedious process of filling out apps @ various area clubs. I already filled one out yesterday.

Thanks again for the heads up.

Glad to read this (hugs)

CamWhore
02-15-2011, 02:38 PM
and you definitely can do all those womanly duties on your own! Glad you found your way out you did the right thing by reaching out for help.

Also, look into counseling, it helps :)

whirlerz
02-15-2011, 02:44 PM
Yes, good luck hun, take care of yourself!

laurielegs
02-15-2011, 05:13 PM
Wow, seems I was wrong? I just couldn't believe this was a real actual person posting this because it sounded like someone had made a story up.

I apologize and am happy to see you have come to your senses Sweetlilvixen. Just be sure you stay away from this guy (and probably any other guy for awhile till you get your head straight and start making your OWN money and don't consider giving a cut of it to any man).

KatGrrl
02-16-2011, 12:53 AM
What I hate the most about some Pimps how they operate doing human trafficking kidnaping and forcing children and women to sex slave themselves. The other type Pimps they're just as bad.

LilSweetVixen,

Did you honestly think we would write anything positive about Pimps ?

Lol - this is THE most awesome pimp-post ever!

xxxevexxx
02-16-2011, 09:17 AM
good to hear.. now dont let him harass you or try to sway you into changing your mind. stay strong

taylormadison
03-15-2011, 08:41 PM
You ladies are so sweet and caring. :-*

You've talked me out of dealing with this guy. I was so desperate for money and he promised to pay all my bills and do my hair and everything. But now I realize this is a really stupid idea and I will just have to go through the tedious process of filling out apps @ various area clubs. I already filled one out yesterday.

Thanks again for the heads up.

I just read this thread so I'm bumping it.
I am glad you had the courage to reach out for help on this thread and got the support you needed to make the right choice. I am super proud of you because I know you were in a difficult place mentally.

The new thing that I heard that some pimps are doing (If you don't know they're pimps), is pretending they want to trick and beating the escort up in the room to set the tone. Then having the tricks waiting outside. They force the escort to service these tricks while they stand outside. The escort is not able to leave and they take her belongings (phone,$,ID). The pimp keeps her near at all times mostly having her in a motel room around the clock working making it hard for her to escape. This might not be new to some but it was news to my ears when I heard it. Pimps are modern day slave owners. I can't even stand music were artists brag about being pimps and degrade women. I wasn't trying to thread jack that is what I think about pimps.

Bbvsla
03-24-2011, 05:16 AM
Every time when I encounter a pimp, he just cracks me up!! They all pull out the same lines and say the same sht over and over again.. I keep laughing at their face but they usually get mad like "what the fck is this smirk on your face??" LOL

There is nothing wrong with fall for their lines once, cuz I must say that they are very persuasive!! However, the sooner you recognize that this decision is a blunder and move on, the better!!

Overall, pimps are really pathetic. I think they are the most lonely people in a world.. Plus every pimp can be pimping for so long (even though they think that pimping is for life.. my ass!!).. then they get old and can't catch up with new trends in business or whatever.