View Full Version : Men who Bitch about Condoms
Djoser
02-16-2011, 08:01 PM
I just saw this on Facebook, had to post it! Read the fine print...
she sells sanctuary
02-17-2011, 01:48 AM
i totally hate condoms. BUT i also think i may be irritated by glycerin (standard lube) and/or latex. so once i start fucking again, i'm gonna try polyurethane and invest in some silicone lube. my hatred of condoms is why it's so easy to avoid sex. i don't want to risk bareback. but what's the point of fucking with a condom? i'll just masturbate. it's fast and easy. works great. besides, i've broken so many fucking condoms. i don't trust them anyways. if i knew they wouldn't break, my stats would be massively higher.
i used to think guys who complained were total bitches. then a condom broke, and he came in me. and i figured, well fuck it. why not. the second go, i let him go without. morning after pill is expensive. i want my moneys worth. but omg, it was soooooo good. i had no idea it could feel that good. i loved sex already, but omg!!! so good.
i actually haven't had many guys who had a problem with using condoms. i've never ever had one on me. they always provided them. i guess i must be one of those skanks they must protect themselves from. or i tend to not like the selfish asshole types enough to find out if they hate condoms. probably a combo.
But I am still amazed by these people who will do strange pills of dubious manufacture, gleefully let their macho asshole date race their crotch rocket home at 120 mph after 16 shots of tequila, without helmets, but won't let the guy touch them unless he wears a heavy duty double ply latex condom.
Friend of mine told me he always wears condoms even if in a long term relationship. He told me that while we were in the car and he had no seat belt on. People try to prevent what they fear most, not what's actually most likely to kill them.
Redwolf
02-17-2011, 06:47 AM
she sells sanctuary, I suggest using Wet Platinum for silicon lube.
charlie61
02-17-2011, 07:25 AM
Friend of mine told me he always wears condoms even if in a long term relationship. He told me that while we were in the car and he had no seat belt on. People try to prevent what they fear most, not what's actually most likely to kill them.
I see what you're saying, but the consequences of a car accident and the consequences of contracting an STI are still very different.
I see what you're saying, but the consequences of a car accident and the consequences of contracting an STI are still very different.
Not sure I follow. There are people who wont swim in the ocean due to a fear of sharks, but don't wear a seat belt when driving, cops who wear bullet resistant vests but are 50lbs over weight and have high BP and cholesterol. Example are endless of focusing on what we fear most vs what is most likely to actually kill you. At the very least, be consistent across the spectrum.
Obviously, avoiding STDs is always a good thing.
charlie61
02-17-2011, 08:01 AM
^ STI's are different in a number of ways...
-They're frighteningly common (more so than shark attacks and car accidents)--a freakishly high percentage of people have them and don't even know about it
-It can't be seen until you have it, which makes you (rightfully) fearful of even healthy-looking people
-Having an STI is a lifetime of having to tell people about your personal shit upfront, dealing with stigma, taking medications to suppress breakouts, etc, etc.
It's just a very distinct, different set of consequences / threats.
The Six
02-17-2011, 09:08 AM
Seat belt use being required by law is such a joke.
Odette
02-17-2011, 09:11 AM
I think I have the same stance on condoms as most guys do. They're annoying, yes. They're uncomfortable, yes. (For girls too! They suck up allll the moisture in there and you get reeeeaaalllly irritated even with lube after a while. Plus its just not as saucy ;) ) But hey, I'm not going to go around boning every dude bareback, that would be pure and utter stupidity. If its with a guy I've known for a while and trust, then I don't have a problem with bareback during those very infertile times of the the month.
Kisca
02-18-2011, 03:55 PM
I've had guys tells me they knew I was safe, clean, and that they could tell I haven't had many partners because of how tight I felt. Oh boy, are they completely wrong about my past. Idiots.
Hahah I love this.
Ive had a guy tell he KNEW I was a virgin cause I was tight, when I told him I wasnt (was with 2 guy before), but he insisted, he knew the difference ::) Okay..
Hahah I love this.
Ive had a guy tell he KNEW I was a virgin cause I was tight, when I told him I wasnt (was with 2 guy before), but he insisted, he knew the difference ::) Okay..
Do any of you gals ever not date morons? :O;D:O
charlie61
02-18-2011, 04:56 PM
Do any of you gals ever not date morons? :O;D:O
I think maybe it's just difficult to find guys who aren't morons. And anyway, strippers are normal human beings. Everyone has dated a moron at one time or another.
The important thing is to start somewhere and continue making upgrades until you find someone who is actually worth it.
Side comment: this isn't necessarily true in Kisca's case, but in general, you can tell a lot about a person by the people she chooses to date. If a woman continually makes bad choices about the men she's dating, then that really says something about her. i.e. she may be beautiful, but maybe she ain't the whole package. Know what I'm sayin'?
That's why I hate it when guys are like "You could have anyone! Why are you with this douchebag?" Um, probably because she ain't the best catch either.
I think maybe it's just difficult to find guys who aren't morons.
No argument from me.
If a woman continually makes bad choices about the men she's dating, then that really says something about her. i.e. she may be beautiful, but maybe she ain't the whole package. Know what I'm sayin'?
I sure do. People either learn from their experiences, or they are doomed to repeat them.
Kisca
02-18-2011, 05:42 PM
Do any of you gals ever not date morons? :O;D:O
Who ever said I was dating him? ;D
It was just one night.. and Im glad I never saw him again.
threlayer
02-20-2011, 12:04 PM
Seat belt use being required by law is such a joke.
::)
Let's hear you say that after your mother or sister has a bad head-on collision.
Kellydancer
02-20-2011, 12:13 PM
I think maybe it's just difficult to find guys who aren't morons. And anyway, strippers are normal human beings. Everyone has dated a moron at one time or another.
The important thing is to start somewhere and continue making upgrades until you find someone who is actually worth it.
Side comment: this isn't necessarily true in Kisca's case, but in general, you can tell a lot about a person by the people she chooses to date. If a woman continually makes bad choices about the men she's dating, then that really says something about her. i.e. she may be beautiful, but maybe she ain't the whole package. Know what I'm sayin'?
That's why I hate it when guys are like "You could have anyone! Why are you with this douchebag?" Um, probably because she ain't the best catch either.
Very true. I'm often asked why I dated a few jerks I did and the reason was because they were sweet at first. Guys that are jerks from the get go never get a second date (I think I posted my date from hell with a guy who thought I should pay for him). Guys who are jerks often hide it by spoiling me at first, and once I am hooked they pull the nastiness. Depending on how far into it I am, but I eventually break it off.
I have a friend though who dates men she knows are jerks and treat her that way right away. She truly feels she doesn't deserve better and it's sad. I think it's because she was molested so she has this feeling she's worthless. Some of the things she's allowed men to do to her is truly horrifying. She'd rather be with a jerk than be alone and I've tried telling her she deserves better but she never listens.
threlayer
02-20-2011, 12:15 PM
Older guys seem to like them less b/c they can lose their erections 1) while putting one on (b/c it isn't sexy and it takes time) and 2)during sex, because of the lessened sensation.
Gals can make it fun by helping guys put one on.
Those little pills can help tremendously with "losing" it; guys don't even have to take a whole one. Yes, that powder is bitter, but you can go strong all night like a teenager with a little lick of it and your partner's "encouragement."
Use of "ultra sensitive" ones, pre-lubricated, and to pre-lubricate the gal orally all will help here. Plus pre-lubing the gal is a huge amount of run too.
Nuclear Martini
02-20-2011, 03:02 PM
I prefer not using condoms but when I used to take BC, it made me very depressed. As soon as I stopped taking them, I felt like myself again.
In my next relationship, I would prefer mutual testing and someother type of birth control since there is no way in hell I'm having kids yet.
With my ex, we used to start having sex without a condom, and halfway through he would put a condom on. I don't know how effective this was, but I have never been pregnant.
Laxman
02-20-2011, 04:39 PM
I do not like condoms. They suck. Condoms are devils.
SerenaSin
02-20-2011, 05:09 PM
I can't remember really feeling the difference between condom sex and condomless-sex... but then again I've been using condoms every single time with my boyfriend for the past 6 years, so feeling latex inside me just feels normal and natural, I guess.
Also, safe sex puts me at ease mentally and emotionally, which makes me able to feel aroused. Who gets turned on when they're terrified of getting pregnant or STD's?
I don't take the Pill cuz I don't like the idea of flooding my body with any more medicine or chemicals than what is absolutely necessary (I don't even take cough medicine, and just spent a whole month being sick because I elected to try and get better on my own/naturally without jumping straight into antibiotic use)
charlie61
02-20-2011, 05:13 PM
I found this amazing condom, and right afterwards, they literally discontinued it.
Optimist
02-20-2011, 05:55 PM
I just saw this on Facebook, had to post it! Read the fine print...
F-ing HILARIOUS!!!! Extra gritty. That's how the latex feel after a while. I'm allergic to them so lambskin are waaay better.
The Six
02-21-2011, 04:02 AM
::)
Let's hear you say that after your mother or sister has a bad head-on collision.
Interesting choice of relatives. Will only female relatives make me realize your logic?
Wearing seat belts should be our choice and not mandated by law.
A friend of mine just got divorced. When his wife moved out she took all the condoms. Never seen a guy so depressed about not having condoms before.
charlie61
02-22-2011, 12:10 PM
I even ask my SO of 3.5 years to use a condom every now and then. Having to deal with semen all over the place... :ill:
lemiwinks31
02-22-2011, 01:48 PM
I even ask my SO of 3.5 years to use a condom every now and then. Having to deal with semen all over the place... :ill:
yeah...its a matter of who has to get out of bed and go to the bathroom to clean up......
threlayer
02-22-2011, 09:06 PM
'seat belt' was an analogy only to make a point for safety, no other implications even if you didn't understand it
Djoser
02-25-2011, 04:36 AM
I think maybe it's just difficult to find guys who aren't morons.
It can be difficult to find women who aren't morons either, especially in certain areas of the country. I had very bad luck with this in Daytona. Even the lawyers are fucking morons in that town.
I hate to say it, but I do not have a great impression of the average intelligence factor in this business, either. Present company excepted. It's almost impossible to find anyone, male or female, that has read an entire book. If they have, it's Dean Koontz or some other worthless pap.
So, having been sexually abused and having your "picker" broken makes you a bad catch, in your opinion, Charlie? Being in an abusive relationship usually means it's because you're not good enough for better people? You're seem like a very reasonable person, so I'm sure that didn't occur to you when you wrote that, but how is that not the obvious conclusion from your statement?
What I believe she is saying is that someone who repeatedly goes for guys who take their money, lie to them, cheat on them (often with their money), beat the shit out of them, etc., has some sort of attraction for abusive men. This is not healthy. It means there is something wrong with their thinking about romantic involvements--i.e., they might not be such a great catch. But I cannot speak for her.
Also, from the Naturalamb website: "NATURALAMB® does not prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases." I haven't looked this up recently, but I believe the reason why Naturalamb doesn't work for STDs is because sperm is much larger than most STDs and the natural gaps in NaturaLamb are small enough that sperm cannot get through, but large enough that STDs can. Pregnancy factor aside, if you insist on only using Naturalamb, you're almost as bad as the people who insist on not using a condom at all.
You are correct about the permeability factor. But it sure as hell makes it much more difficult for the little bastards to get through. And the women I have sex with certainly have the choice to say 'no' to Naturalamb. I then have the choice as to whether to wear a trash bag on my dick instead.
I get tested, and I am clean, and I am very particular about who I fuck, so I'm not losing any sleep over it. Just as I don't lose sleep over the many times I have not worn a seatbelt, or what people on the internet might think of that.
charlie61
02-25-2011, 09:47 AM
It can be difficult to find women who aren't morons either, especially in certain areas of the country. I had very bad luck with this in Daytona. Even the lawyers are fucking morons in that town.
Totally agreed! I didn't mean to imply that women are any different.
vicdaman
02-27-2011, 09:24 AM
as a man, i also here about a lot of guys that bitch about condoms. it really isn't a big deal, i don't know why so many guys complain about them. if they did a little research they could probably find a condom that would suit them.
i always use condoms for casual sex. and i advice everyone do the same. you don't know whats out there. man or woman.