Kellydancer
05-20-2011, 10:54 PM
I got my first direct rejection while doing this and am bummed. I created a profile at this one free site awhile back mostly to screw an innocent man. This is when I was devastated when my last guy dumped me and I was bitter with men. I didn't go through my plan and pretty much forgot about the profile until a few months ago when I started getting several messages. I then briefly uploaded my photo, wrote a more in depth profile and got hundreds of responses.
Most of the guys were either dads (though my profile states bluntly no dads)or illiterate morons. One guy started sending me messages everyday then would call me names when I didn't get back to him right away. He then would apologize. I gave him 2 chances then when he did it again I blocked him. I had several like him contact me. His grammar was beyond poor but I overlooked that.
So then a guy I was interested in actually contacted me and he lives 20 minutes away or so. He seemed like a match for me, he was athletic, he had a college degree, he was even never married, no kids and Catholic. I started talking to him quite a bit. Then the other day he sent me a bunch of questions and I replied honestly. After that, he messaged me that he decided I was too far away to meet (a lie)and that he decided I wasn't what he wanted. Obviously I said something in my messages that he didn't like. Either that or he wanted something else like maybe casual sex (I want a relationship).
I feel like perhaps I am destined to be a crazy cat lady. I know I won't appeal to all guys or he might have wanted something else but still let down. Everytime I like a guy they don't like me and the guys who like me I never like. I thought online would be different but I guess not. There was one guy that I actually contacted and he deleted my message after I sent it. I got several messages but every single guy is either obese or a dad.
Most of the guys were either dads (though my profile states bluntly no dads)or illiterate morons. One guy started sending me messages everyday then would call me names when I didn't get back to him right away. He then would apologize. I gave him 2 chances then when he did it again I blocked him. I had several like him contact me. His grammar was beyond poor but I overlooked that.
So then a guy I was interested in actually contacted me and he lives 20 minutes away or so. He seemed like a match for me, he was athletic, he had a college degree, he was even never married, no kids and Catholic. I started talking to him quite a bit. Then the other day he sent me a bunch of questions and I replied honestly. After that, he messaged me that he decided I was too far away to meet (a lie)and that he decided I wasn't what he wanted. Obviously I said something in my messages that he didn't like. Either that or he wanted something else like maybe casual sex (I want a relationship).
I feel like perhaps I am destined to be a crazy cat lady. I know I won't appeal to all guys or he might have wanted something else but still let down. Everytime I like a guy they don't like me and the guys who like me I never like. I thought online would be different but I guess not. There was one guy that I actually contacted and he deleted my message after I sent it. I got several messages but every single guy is either obese or a dad.