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yoda57us
02-23-2011, 02:53 PM
see im not even a stripper and i want to take my clothes off for this guy for free!!!! I love when men put losers in check!! It's a panty wetting experience!!!

:hat:

Alas, if only it was this easy....:)

jack0177057
02-23-2011, 03:08 PM
see im not even a stripper and i want to take my clothes off for this guy for free!!!! I love when men put losers in check!! It's a panty wetting experience!!!

What if Laxman is.... Yoda?... Wouldn't that be something?

(I haven't said anything offensive in a while, so he creates a new villain.... Kind of like the movie Megamind.)

bunny8558
02-23-2011, 03:28 PM
Wow-- just read this whole thread. In Houston, there are tons of guys like this, and I utterly enjoy putting them into place.
I am a working model, so I am VERY aware of all my various flaws. That being said, I know when I walk into a club that I am any or all of the following (most likely all):
1) Too beautiful to ever consider dating a customer, much less bone him later
2) Too classy to be seen with a customer around friends
3) Too smart to converse with a customer on most topics

Guys like Laxman are assuming that I am stupid enough to fall for his offensive tactic, which is a PUA technique that works ONLY on non-stripper women lacking in confidence, intelligence, AND looks at a regular club... while most likely drunk. (Poor things.) His tactic merely proves his cheapness, stupidity, and inability to socialize well with others.

I tell ANY man trying to negotiate dance prices (which are $20 here) that I am worth FAR more than $20 a dance. I point to each breast and booty cheek and say that dancing involves all four parts at $5/each. It's non-negotiable as it's already a steal.

Dancing is the ONLY way that a guy like HIM can get this close to ME, and he should appreciate the opportunity. I don't dance often, so there's often no tomorrow at the same club. You may never see me again.

Also, guys like him will find a flaw in ANYONE in order to justify price haggling. America is not a foreign-freaking country where all prices are meant to be negotiated downwards. You ask to negotiate AND offend ME, and I WILL point out YOUR flaws and avoid you forever (and tell all the dancers to do the same).

sananeko
02-23-2011, 03:37 PM
This thread is hilarious. Personally, when customers try to "throw me the neg" or whatever the lingo is, I don't reduce my price. I double it. :)
I would keep adding for each flaw he points out.


And just to point out.. Hes saying he has the right to negotiate prices with stripper and lower the price cause of their flaws. As I remember this opens the door for stripper to up their prices for the flaws of the man/women buying their time so they both can compromise on a price with as I remember as a taxi dancer would be higher than the normal price and the man would either have to buy or leave the building to find another club or to sit and hope they would forget the time waster.

This business plan he has built is greatly flawed in itself.. it forget that its human to human and each has emotions, the will to exist, and the will to profit. So each side will fight til one leaves or something is agreed. It why there is a set price, less time to waste and more money to make.

yoda57us
02-23-2011, 05:16 PM
What if Laxman is.... Yoda?... Wouldn't that be something?

(I haven't said anything offensive in a while, so he creates a new villain.... Kind of like the movie Megamind.)

You have a vivid imagination jack...

Laxman
02-23-2011, 06:49 PM
I'm still struggling to understand how you make this "stare at her flaws till she caves" tactic actually work. If I asked a guy for a dance, and he replied sloooowly that he thought $20 was too much while staring at my belly/nose/hair/legs I would just assume he was retarded or stoned. I've never met someone fully functioning who could not make eye contact for just a second or who spoke as though they were running out of batteries.

So what I would probably do in that situation is feel bad for you, and ask one of your buddies to make sure you got home ok, and then leave.

After reading your post, I have feeling, I will not bargain you down. You strike me as a good looking woman.

Laxman
02-23-2011, 06:52 PM
Now back on topic... I think a better way for a customer to compliment a dancer if he isn't spending money is to preface his compliment with that fact. Ex~ " Hey, I'm not going to get a dance or anything but I just wanted to tell you you are very beautiful." It would still be annoying if he stopped me when I was busy to say this but at least it's not AS irritating. Then if I choose to try to sell him regardless it is on me.

I noticed you have significantly moderated your original tone. I am not doing any victory dance or anything like that but I am just delighted this thread was able to teach you a few vital lessons on life.

Laxman
02-23-2011, 06:54 PM
Oh please. Drop the secret agent man act. Let the cat out of the bag!

Come on. I already said no. This is exactly how you ladies are in the club. You cannot take no for an answer. :D

DesuvsDeath
02-23-2011, 06:54 PM
I noticed you have significantly moderated your original tone. I am not doing any victory dance or anything like that but I am just delighted this thread was able to teach you a few vital lessons on life.


^ LOL

Laxman
02-23-2011, 06:54 PM
This is a great possibility, but it's to much fun to ignore.

Thank you for your sweetness!

Laxman
02-23-2011, 06:56 PM
If I follow the Laxman Method... I'll get laid for sure.

She asks if I want a dance,... I find a flaw somewhere on her body and just stare at it... stare for a long time... until she's practically begging to dance for me for half price.... Then, I get lots... and lots... of mileage...

I can do this! Laxman is definitely onto something.

Your enthusiasm is definitely encouraging. Still, you need a lot more practice, young man.

Laxman
02-23-2011, 06:58 PM
Well if this is how things are going to go at a strip club. They you're price will have to go up.

Hmm lap dance? Well you have more like 4 legs there baby so that's 2 laps not one. I guess I'll have to charge you $40.00 heheehh.

Aww you smell like vomit, yess you do. That will be an extra perfume fee of $25.00 . ..
Aww and if you come and drip on me after the first song there will be deposit of $20.00. Yes don't come too fast baby . hehehehe!

OOh and you're bald... wow there's a $15.00 hair tax, all that shine and I may get blinded and fall in my shoes. You know no health insurance love... unless you want to wear one of my wigs?....

Ohh and are those dentures?? Ohh no hunny I can have those falling on me after you get excited... that will be $5.00 poligrip tax. heheheh:)


Seriously?
Come on now. If strippers treated men like they do at regular clubs, many of these guys would be sitting alone. So here we have the " I HAVE THE POWER" types. How lovely.

As far this post of yours is concerned, I have no major points of contention with you. As I said earlier, both parties should be mature enough to realize that this is a business.

Laxman
02-23-2011, 06:59 PM
^ LOL

Did you get my point though? :D

DesuvsDeath
02-23-2011, 07:04 PM
I got the point that you're very good at trolling. <3

I wish you'd flip flop a little less though... either stick with the insults like early on in the thread or stick with talking down to people like you are now. It makes it more believable that you're serious.

Laxman
02-23-2011, 07:08 PM
^ You are seeing insult where none exists. Some people love to call anyone they do not agree with a troll. You could be a troll too. Who know?

Laxman
02-23-2011, 07:11 PM
bunny,

For the millionth time, what I am talking about is pure business; it has nothing to do with PUA thing. You can ask for any price you want to. It is a free country but you cannot pry the money out of someone's hand. That is where the freedom stops.

DesuvsDeath
02-23-2011, 07:20 PM
Pfft. I can't even remember the last time I called someone out on their trolling, I only mentioned it because I wanted to compliment you on being so damn funny.

You claim you think that it's good business practice to insult people by unnecessarily pointing out flaws to try and gain the upper hand. I disagree with that. I wouldn't call you a troll because I disagreed. Trolling =/= disagreeing. Lol
I troll all the time... I know the difference.

I'm really not imagining insults here... Not going to bother rereading the whole thread here... but I'm pretty sure this snippet from the front page is an insult:
"You are disgrace to the institution of manhood. Grow some self respect and learn that kissing ass does not get you pussy."
I recall there being other instances... and I think they're a major flaw in your trolling. It makes it look like you're actually having an emotional response to what's going on. :( If you could cut those out it'd be a lot more believable that you're being serious when you talk to people the way you do the rest of the time.

Laxman
02-23-2011, 07:28 PM
DesuvsDeath,

As you said yourself, I am emotionally too invested to be a troll. I agree with that.

Calling someone a disgrace to the institution of manhood if he really is a disgrace is not an insult. It is out of frustration. It is out of care.

Some of you ladies want it both ways. You want it to be a business when you want our money. You want it to be a friendship when you want our money for nothing. All I am asking is cut the crap and make up your mind.

Anyway, I am late for bed again. So I better hit the bed. Let us regroup tomorrow.

DesuvsDeath
02-23-2011, 07:37 PM
I don't want it both ways. It's a business.
One with no room for negotiation.


Even if there were room for negotiation... immediately jumping to pointing out insults would be an ineffective and inappropriate way to go about it.

MistyRose
02-23-2011, 08:08 PM
It is foolish for customers to praise strippers in a strip club because it dilutes their bargaining power.



What I fail to understand (as everyone around here) is why you even think bargaining is an OPTION in strip clubs. It's a place where you pay for a certain service. I'm fairly certain you're not bargaining at the bar because in your opinion Jack Daniels should cost less than a Cola. It's a place with set prices for services.

It is NOT a swap meet.

princessjas
02-24-2011, 07:20 AM
What I fail to understand (as everyone around here) is why you even think bargaining is an OPTION in strip clubs. It's a place where you pay for a certain service. I'm fairly certain you're not bargaining at the bar because in your opinion Jack Daniels should cost less than a Cola. It's a place with set prices for services.

It is NOT a swap meet.

He thinks it's an option because he's Cyril and one thing we learned before is Cyril has ZERO respect for women. He speaks to us like we are property instead of people, then tries to deny it and talks down to anyone who calls him on it.

I really think he believes in his own little deluded mind that we are so stupid we buy his line of bullshit.....because how could a woman be smart enough to see through his paper thin lies?!?! He's just soooo much smarter than us, he can make us believe whatever line of shit he's spewing atm! :rotfl:

rickdugan
02-24-2011, 01:01 PM
I don't want it both ways. It's a business.
One with no room for negotiation.


What I fail to understand (as everyone around here) is why you even think bargaining is an OPTION in strip clubs.

Actually I disagree with this to an extent.

There are clubs where the VIP price is a moving target and three different girls may quote you three different prices. This most often happens in clubs that take only a small amount (if any) of the VIP $$$. In these clubs, when I think that a dancer is coming in too high I will negotiate the price down a bit.

Now I never negotiate lapdances (though I don't do them often), but I can tell you that in some places girls will readily offer you discounts on them, outside of any official club pricing, if you will do more than one. I suppose that, on a bad night, something is better than nothing. And there are plenty of guys that DO actively negotiate lapdance prices, particularly in places that charge $30+ per dance.

Now I'm obviously not in favor of Lax's purported tactics, but the "there is no negotiating in a SC" mantra is simply not true in all places.

Laxman
02-24-2011, 06:43 PM
rickdugan,

Why is it OK to negotiate VIP rooms but not lap dances? Your attitude stinks like holier than thou crap. By the there was some honesty in your last post and I commend you for that.

Laxman
02-24-2011, 06:46 PM
He thinks it's an option because he's Cyril and one thing we learned before is Cyril has ZERO respect for women. He speaks to us like we are property instead of people, then tries to deny it and talks down to anyone who calls him on it.

I really think he believes in his own little deluded mind that we are so stupid we buy his line of bullshit.....because how could a woman be smart enough to see through his paper thin lies?!?! He's just soooo much smarter than us, he can make us believe whatever line of shit he's spewing atm! :rotfl:

He really is a pathetic little man, who can't even be man enough to stand behind what he says. Instead he insults us then tries to worm his way out of it if anyone calls him on his crap. TRULY PATHETIC!!!

I have a very strong feeling you are on some sort of medication. So I do not want to say anything that my compound your medical problem. Just have a good night and learn to relax. Please por favor!

Laxman
02-24-2011, 06:48 PM
What I fail to understand (as everyone around here) is why you even think bargaining is an OPTION in strip clubs. It's a place where you pay for a certain service. I'm fairly certain you're not bargaining at the bar because in your opinion Jack Daniels should cost less than a Cola. It's a place with set prices for services.

It is NOT a swap meet.

Bargaining is an essential component of any business process. Is stripping a business? If the answer is yes then bargaining comes naturally with it.

yoda57us
02-24-2011, 06:48 PM
rickdugan,

Why is it OK to negotiate VIP rooms but not lap dances? Your attitude stinks like holier than thou crap. By the there was some honesty in your last post and I commend you for that.

Because investing two, three or four hundred dollars, even if it is a discounted rate, is not the sign of a guy being a cheapskate...

Looking for a deal on a twenty dollar dance is...

Laxman
02-24-2011, 06:53 PM
I don't want it both ways. It's a business.
One with no room for negotiation.


Even if there were room for negotiation... immediately jumping to pointing out insults would be an ineffective and inappropriate way to go about it.

Just because customer is asking for a bargain that does not mean merchant (stripper) has to give one. No you do not have to. Just be mature about it and say, "$10/song is my last price. Take it or leave it. "

Pointing out flaws is very effective. It renders opponents nervous and provides you with room to take hold of their psyche.

yoda57us
02-24-2011, 06:58 PM
Pointing out flaws is very effective. It renders opponents nervous and provides you with room to take hold of their psyche.

Or it just gets you ignored.

Dancers spend day after day, week after week being judged by customers. Honestly, are you naive enough to think that whatever you say to them hasn't been said a hundred times before? The ones who last for more than a few weeks learn how to let it roll of their backs and move forward. You are not gaining bargaining power when you criticize a dancer. You are only establishing yourself as a person to be avoided in the club.

DesuvsDeath
02-24-2011, 07:00 PM
Actually I disagree with this to an extent.

There are clubs where the VIP price is a moving target and three different girls may quote you three different prices. This most often happens in clubs that take only a small amount (if any) of the VIP $$$. In these clubs, when I think that a dancer is coming in too high I will negotiate the price down a bit.

Fair enough. I will go ahead and amend my earlier statement. In clubs where there is not set dance price... and dancers can charge whatever they want above the minimum... A price quote above the base guideline can provide room for ATTEMPTED negotiation or questioning... but still no room for insulting dancers to get a cheaper price, as was suggested by someone else earlier in the thread. LOL

However... most clubs seem to have set prices... which is why I say there is no room for negotiation. For me... there's never any room for negotiation. ;D

Laxman
02-24-2011, 07:01 PM
Because investing two, three or four hundred dollars, even if it is a discounted rate, is not the sign of a guy being a cheapskate...

Looking for a deal on a twenty dollar dance is...

$10/song can be a good money for someone but apparently it is not for you. I am very happy for you. However, it seems like $400 for you is a big enough sum to warrant negotiations. I got news for you, there are people out there for whom $400 is like $.40. Those people will call you a cheap ass for bargaining a meager $400 transaction. What you need to realize is the term 'big money' or 'small money' is relative. You making fun of someone who is being frugal about his $10/dance is callus. There is always someone who got more money than you. Remember this before you make fun of someone who got less money than you.

DesuvsDeath
02-24-2011, 07:02 PM
Pointing out flaws is very effective. It renders opponents nervous and provides you with room to take hold of their psyche.

Pointing out flaws is only effective if you're dealing with someone a moron who can't figure out what you're doing.

princessjas
02-24-2011, 07:03 PM
Or it just gets you ignored.

Dancers spend day after day, week after week being judged by customers. Honestly, are you naive enough to think that whatever you say to them hasn't been said a hundred times before? The ones who last for more than a few weeks learn how to let it roll of their backs and move forward. You are not gaining bargaining power when you criticize a dancer. You are only establishing yourself as a person to be avoided in the club.

Listen to Yoda! He knows what he's talking about! Also, how do you give a good and sensual dance to someone who has already proven he is a rude, creepy, cheapo? Most dancers would be too worried about being assaulted to be able to give a nice dance. Polite gentlemen get MUUUCH better dances!! We feel sexy and are not really worried about getting painfully or forceably groped/grabbed/licked/bit.

DesuvsDeath
02-24-2011, 07:10 PM
Also, how do you give a good and sensual dance to someone who has already proven he is a rude, creepy, cheapo?

You don't. You ignore him and spend your time dancing for the polite guy who didn't tell you that you had too many freckles for warrant $20. ;)

Raider
02-24-2011, 07:11 PM
laxman, it is after 9....time for you to go to bed.

princessjas
02-24-2011, 07:15 PM
$10/song can be a good money for someone but apparently it is not for you. I am very happy for you. However, it seems like $400 for you is a big enough sum to warrant negotiations. I got news for you, there are people out there for whom $400 is like $.40. Those people will call you a cheap ass for bargaining a meager $400 transaction. What you need to realize is the term 'big money' or 'small money' is relative. You making fun of someone who is being frugal about his $10/dance is callus. There is always someone who got more money than you. Remember this before you make fun of someone who got less money than you.

Yes, but the vast majority of SC patrons would NEVER ask for a discount on a $10 dance. When I started in the mid 90's (at an admitedly upscale club that had suuuuper strict hiring criteria) dances were $25 a piece ($60 for 3), and went to $35 ($80 for 3) within months. No one asked for a discount. It was actually well known that a tip was expected on top of the standard price and it was a huuuuge insult to not tip at least 40-50%.

CR's were $450/half hr, Hot tubs were $500/half hour and both required at least one $150 bottle of champagne or $100 bottle of wine. There was no negotiation in prices what-so-ever as the cash was paid to the bar and we got paid out our cut later.

So, yeah, you're damn cheap. Most guys would maybe think of negotiating something that cost hundreds but would never even consider negotiating the price of something that was under $50. It's ridiculous to even consider doing so.

Laxman
02-24-2011, 07:18 PM
Yoda,

There are certain thing we humans can never get used to. One of them is feeling bad. Another one is feeling inadequate. Therefore you could always capitalize on these feelings. It is all about who is stronger psychologically. Try it next time. You might get lucky which means all night fun with a stripper for $0.00.

rickdugan
02-24-2011, 07:18 PM
rickdugan,

Why is it OK to negotiate VIP rooms but not lap dances? Your attitude stinks like holier than thou crap. By the there was some honesty in your last post and I commend you for that.

No need to commend me for anything, I'm never anything but honest on here. In fact, as many on here know, I'm a bit of a dog and my particular gig is not especially favored by some of the pinks. And if you read more carefully, you'll find that I never criticized the concept of negotiating anything, but simply stated that I normally don't negotiate lapdances as I do not do many of them.

My issue with you is how you purportedly accomplish your goal. There is never a good reason to treat a girl badly. Are you so insecure that you really need to shit on a girl that is just trying to make a living? Also, your tactics would not work in most clubs anyway, but even if they would there are some things that simply should not be done, period.

There are ways that these things are handled, and yours fail on every level. They are a bad way to achieve your end result, bad for the girls that you are pulling this on, and just bad human behavior.

Laxman
02-24-2011, 07:20 PM
Listen to Yoda! He knows what he's talking about! Also, how do you give a good and sensual dance to someone who has already proven he is a rude, creepy, cheapo? Most dancers would be too worried about being assaulted to be able to give a nice dance. Polite gentlemen get MUUUCH better dances!! We feel sexy and are not really worried about getting painfully or forceably groped/grabbed/licked/bit.

I will listen to Yoda the day he brings a stripper home without paying her a dime. Fair enough?

rickdugan
02-24-2011, 07:21 PM
$10/song can be a good money for someone but apparently it is not for you. I am very happy for you. However, it seems like $400 for you is a big enough sum to warrant negotiations. I got news for you, there are people out there for whom $400 is like $.40. Those people will call you a cheap ass for bargaining a meager $400 transaction. What you need to realize is the term 'big money' or 'small money' is relative. You making fun of someone who is being frugal about his $10/dance is callus. There is always someone who got more money than you. Remember this before you make fun of someone who got less money than you.

I think someone struck a nerve. ;)

Laxman
02-24-2011, 07:26 PM
Yes, but the vast majority of SC patrons would NEVER ask for a discount on a $10 dance. When I started in the mid 90's (at an admitedly upscale club that had suuuuper strict hiring criteria) dances were $25 a piece ($60 for 3), and went to $35 ($80 for 3) within months. No one asked for a discount. It was actually well known that a tip was expected on top of the standard price and it was a huuuuge insult to not tip at least 40-50%.

CR's were $450/half hr, Hot tubs were $500/half hour and both required at least one $150 bottle of champagne or $100 bottle of wine. There was no negotiation in prices what-so-ever as the cash was paid to the bar and we got paid out our cut later.

So, yeah, you're damn cheap. Most guys would maybe think of negotiating something that cost hundreds but would never even consider negotiating the price of something that was under $50. It's ridiculous to even consider doing so.

Read my post to which you responded at least ten times and then probably you will grasp the spirit of the message. You have entirely missed my point. Do you have a comprehension problem or something?

Casual Observer
02-24-2011, 07:28 PM
Pointing out flaws is very effective. It renders opponents nervous and provides you with room to take hold of their psyche.

You are well and truly delusional.

Have you ever even been in a strip club? Or does your Mom have you on a 9PM curfew?

Laxman
02-24-2011, 07:30 PM
I think someone struck a nerve. ;)

I know what you are implying but I can assure you are wrong on that. Dead wrong. 8)

Laxman
02-24-2011, 07:31 PM
laxman, it is after 9....time for you to go to bed.


All right, this PL is right. It is past my bed time. Good night folks! Let us regroup tomorrow.

cherryblossomsinspring
02-24-2011, 07:32 PM
I'm beginning to understand the used car analogy... I'm becoming a Laxman convert.

Just need to go over it again - She asks if I want a dance,... I find a flaw somewhere on her body and just stare at it... stare for a long time... until she's practically begging to dance for me for half price.... Then, I get lots... and lots... of mileage...

Might work... Its wor66th trying... I'm gonna get laid by a stripper tonight!

JACKS I thought you and LAX-ATIVE WERE THE SAME BUT MY MISTAKE. Your post responses sound almost identical in many ways.

Ohh great so we have a possible JACK -ASS AND A REAL LAX-ATIVE.
Ok now I heard one of you guys has a girlfriend, so why the strip club? Does she not look that hot? Does she not do the at home lap dance well? Does she only wear flip flops? Or perhaps you can't hold her weight on your lap?

I don't get it, either you just like posting nasty remarks because you like attention or you really do hate strippers. Or maybe it's the whole thought that you have to pay someone to touch you.

I bet if these guys posted pics of themselves we would understand the true issue behind this attitude. Care to enlighten us boys?

That would be funny if you were both drop dead hotties! But I guess I'm just being hopeful lol.

Raider
02-24-2011, 07:36 PM
Do you have a comprehension problem or something?


While some on here may agree with your right to negotiate prices or offer less for a dance, not one single person on here has agreed with your method for doing so. Do YOU have a comprehension problem or something?

rickdugan
02-24-2011, 07:37 PM
$10/song can be a good money for someone but apparently it is not for you. I am very happy for you. However, it seems like $400 for you is a big enough sum to warrant negotiations. I got news for you, there are people out there for whom $400 is like $.40. Those people will call you a cheap ass for bargaining a meager $400 transaction. What you need to realize is the term 'big money' or 'small money' is relative. You making fun of someone who is being frugal about his $10/dance is callus. There is always someone who got more money than you. Remember this before you make fun of someone who got less money than you.

Someone who needs to be frugal with $10 should not be hanging out in a SC.

The reason that one might feel more inclined to bargain over $400 is that, in most circles and for most dancers, it would be considered good money. $10 is not going to get many panties wet, so negotiating to an even lower amount is not likely to succeed.

princessjas
02-24-2011, 07:41 PM
Read my post to which you responded at least ten times and then probably you will grasp the spirit of the message. You have entirely missed my point. Do you have a comprehension problem or something?

Listen , the last time I was forced to undergo a psych eval, my IQ was between 183-185. Admittedly there has been a lot of alcohol since then, but I'd bet my damn life that I'm still smarter than you.

I have no comprehension issues, but apparently you have a communication problem. If it's everyone but you....then, well, it's obvious it's YOU, not them.

yoda57us
02-24-2011, 07:46 PM
$10/song can be a good money for someone but apparently it is not for you. I am very happy for you. However, it seems like $400 for you is a big enough sum to warrant negotiations. I got news for you, there are people out there for whom $400 is like $.40. Those people will call you a cheap ass for bargaining a meager $400 transaction. What you need to realize is the term 'big money' or 'small money' is relative. You making fun of someone who is being frugal about his $10/dance is callus. There is always someone who got more money than you. Remember this before you make fun of someone who got less money than you.

Actually Lax old boy I never said that I negotiate anything in a strip club. I merely stated my opinion on the practice. I work hard for my money as we all do. $10, $20 or $400 means a lot to me...it also means a lot to the ladies who are working to earn it. I look for value, not bargains, in the club as I do with anything that I spend money on. Quality and value both come with a price tag attached. Sure you may find a dancer or two who will take your offer sometimes but if you think you are getting her best effort as she dances for you while thinking about what a cheap asshole you are then you should think again...

yoda57us
02-24-2011, 07:48 PM
I will listen to Yoda the day he brings a stripper home without paying her a dime. Fair enough?

Actually that would have been last Saturday night. Now, to be fair, I didn't bring her home from the club, it was her night off...

It's one thing to express an opinion Lax but assuming that you actually know anything about the people that you are debating with is rather foolish.

yoda57us
02-24-2011, 07:56 PM
Yoda,

There are certain thing we humans can never get used to. One of them is feeling bad. Another one is feeling inadequate. Therefore you could always capitalize on these feelings. It is all about who is stronger psychologically. Try it next time. You might get lucky which means all night fun with a stripper for $0.00.

Well, as I pointed out in an above post, I already get that. Not as often as I would like but that has more to do with work schedules than it does with lack of opportunity. The bizarre thing is that I get it by complimenting the lady and making her feel good about herself, not by cutting her down. Shocking as this may be to you Lax, being happy and respectful (lol, and knowing a good restaurant or two!) goes a lot further with women than being rude or insulting does. You should try it though, somehow, I doubt you are capable of it...