View Full Version : What do girls think about guys cumming from Lapdances?
Esben
02-26-2011, 07:11 AM
Wow, that was quite a feedback on that topic.
Anyway I figured it was kind of accepted as a part of the package by the dancers, I guess not.
Once I asked a dancer her opinion before I took a dance with her, she didn't mind, actually I think she was a little amused. A sample of one dosent say much, and she could have told a line to get to my wallet.
Laxman
02-26-2011, 07:18 AM
Wow, that was quite a feedback on that topic.
Anyway I figured it was kind of accepted as a part of the package by the dancers, I guess not.
Once I asked a dancer her opinion before I took a dance with her, she didn't mind, actually I think she was a little amused. A sample of one dosent say much, and she could have told a line to get to my wallet.
My man, turn off the Stripper Web for a moment and turn on the common sense. A woman whose job it is to turn you on; will she be disappointed or amused when you do not get turned on? The answer is logical one. But on this forum between strippers and PLs, the truth is the first casualty.
yoda57us
02-26-2011, 07:19 AM
One side is looking for money for nothing. Another side is looking for sex for nothing. That in a nutshell is strip club.
Lax, only you are the one trying to get something for nothing. The dancers are quite willing to perform for their supper and we customers are fine with the concept of paying for the privilege of enjoying it.
Of course you will come back and contradict me by enlightening me with your years of experience in strip clubs in 'Rhode Island'.
Well, RI, MA, CT, ME, NH, NY, PA, IL, CA, FL, NJ and probably one or two other states that I can't remember right now but I don't see how that's relevant. I am not the one who continually posts ignorant presumptive comments about the the industry. That would be you. I may not know everything about clubs everywhere but I have been around long enough to know that things are not the same everywhere either. That logic seems to have escaped you.
Where do you club most of the time? Why am I starting to wonder if it might not be strictly in your imagination....
Laxman
02-26-2011, 07:25 AM
Yoda,
I club pretty much everywhere in USA because my job takes me everywhere. Trust me, I am a grand master when it comes to strip club industry.
sadbuttrue
02-26-2011, 07:41 AM
The ATF was all about that. She could nail you right through jeans. She said it was a "power" thing. She never once used her hands. She was out to get you. Full on, crotch-to-crotch, full eye contact. I was new to lap dance and I had not experienced anything like her. The first few times I never had a chance. Then it became a war, and eventually it did not happen very often except in 20 dances or so.
She said she told her boyfriend should could do this, and he laughed at her, and then she did it to him.
This was like 13 years ago, so forgive the jeans thing. I never wear jeans if I am going to a lap dance club now out of respect. But with her I never even thought about it, she never mentioned it.
But there are others like most of the female posters here. In a non-contact club, I was giving a back rub to the most beautiful one of my regulars, a contemporary to the above one, and for whatever reason I was hard and she leaned back and jolted forward, like she'd never felt that before.
Sad
sadbuttrue
02-26-2011, 07:49 AM
Note: there were some dances that were so energetic during "the war" that you would think we were fighting and then we'd do it again in two weeks.
Sad
Laxman
02-26-2011, 07:50 AM
Note: there were some dances that were so energetic during "the war" that you would think we were fighting and then we'd do it again in two weeks.
Sad
Just curious. Why are you sad? :-\
yoda57us
02-26-2011, 08:10 AM
Yoda,
I club pretty much everywhere in USA because my job takes me everywhere. Trust me, I am a grand master when it comes to strip club industry.
you could have fooled me...
How is it that you are so blissfully unaware of things like strip clubs that offer both full nude dancing and serve alcohol if you are so worldly and wise?
sadbuttrue
02-26-2011, 08:11 AM
Well, I'm not sad now. ;D
Sadbuttrue comes from the Metallica song and the name is a comment on certain things in life, many that do not last.
Sad
bem401
02-26-2011, 08:16 AM
Dude, you got some serious comprehension issue. The point is some guys like yourself are too intimidated by strippers to get a boner. Makes sense to you or do I need to write dozen more posts to make you see the light?
First off, getting a boner and cumming in your pants are not the same thing. I know several dancers who were not happy if you didn't get a boner and weren't happy with the guys who came in their pants either.
Secondly, you are posting enough nonsense already but feel free to show me the light. You portray yourself as some sort of strip club expert. I ran the gamut as far as visiting SC's is concerned several years ago in about a year and basically know how things work whether I presently choose to participate or not. If you know so much, why do you ask so many questions?
yoda57us
02-26-2011, 08:17 AM
Note: there were some dances that were so energetic during "the war" that you would think we were fighting and then we'd do it again in two weeks.
LOL, yeah, that's not always good! I knew a couple of girls back at the turn of the century who were determined to get results in one or two songs so they could move on the the next guy. One girl actually used to apologize to me for not getting me off in two songs. I told her that it was OK, I could afford three songs. Evidently some of her cheaper customers would move on to other girls if she couldn't make it happen in two songs!
Laxman
02-26-2011, 08:30 AM
First off, getting a boner and cumming in your pants are not the same thing. I know several dancers who were not happy if you didn't get a boner and weren't happy with the guys who came in their pants either.
Secondly, you are posting enough nonsense already but feel free to show me the light. You portray yourself as some sort of strip club expert. I ran the gamut as far as visiting SC's is concerned several years ago in about a year and basically know how things work whether I presently choose to participate or not. If you know so much, why do you ask so many questions?
That is the problem. You are making your decisions based on what strippers would or would not approve. Any man who has gotten a boner would like to finish it off by ejaculating. It is a torture to not ejaculate after getting a boner. But you are so afraid that your stripper would not approve of you if you ejaculated that you are rejoicing in the torture. You have ceased to exist as your own man. Can't you see that? You are clearly an inexperienced young man in need of a mentor.
sadbuttrue
02-26-2011, 08:36 AM
LOL, yeah, that's not always good! I knew a couple of girls back at the turn of the century who were determined to get results in one or two songs so they could move on the the next guy. One girl actually used to apologize to me for not getting me off in two songs. I told her that it was OK, I could afford three songs. Evidently some of her cheaper customers would move on to other girls if she couldn't make it happen in two songs!
Those were the days in the late 90's when the extras were not quite so blatant in the Providence clubs, so they did whatever they could withing their parameters and never charged a bit for it. But, believe it or not, if I ever came close to touching any of the "areas" with the ATF, I was stopped short.
I have never experienced another quite as direct as the ATF (we needed army helmets). But nowadays, the reason is to draw you into one of the rooms, to really get you off and get more money in a short amount of time.
Sad
princessjas
02-26-2011, 08:36 AM
you could have fooled me...
How is it that you are so blissfully unaware of things like strip clubs that offer both full nude dancing and serve alcohol if you are so worldly and wise?
This! My first club was full nude and served alcohol. Also, how can you not be aware that in certain clubs, my first one included it is super rare for a guy to get off during a dance and it is not accepted at all. I've seen guys get thrown out over getting jizz on a dancer.
Some clubs it's standard and I learned that the hard way when I moved to NJ. I moved on to a different club where it wasn't the norm, but contrary to Yoda's observation that the money may be less in a clean club, it was actually better money (maybe because I was so uncomfortable with the blantant whoring going on ITC and the "dates" girls would set up for after work).
unbeleavable
02-26-2011, 09:01 AM
Thank god for strip clubs so Lax can feel like a man....grand master..lol
Almost Jaded
02-26-2011, 09:56 AM
That is the problem. You are making your decisions based on what strippers would or would not approve. Any man who has gotten a boner would like to finish it off by ejaculating. It is a torture to not ejaculate after getting a boner. But you are so afraid that your stripper would not approve of you if you ejaculated that you are rejoicing in the torture. You have ceased to exist as your own man. Can't you see that? You are clearly an inexperienced young man in need of a mentor.
Once again showing his complete ignorance - this time of things sexual, not only SC.
My dear queer man, if your oly thought after getting an erection is getting off, not only are you missing out on MOST of the fun to be had in the sack, but the imaginary women in your life are seeking satisfaction elsewhere, lol.
And I'm not a pimp. I am engaged to a wonderful woman. We have a wonderful girlfriend. And I have a fabulous fuckbuddy that doesn't play with the other two. Just because they're all strippers and all live in my home does not make me a pimp. Why, may I ask, is it OK to have one partner who works for living and contributes to the household, but multiple partner in the same arrangement is unacceptable? What about this makes me a "pimp"? Because they work in SC's?
All three of them have college level educations. This is Vegas. A lovely young woman who doesn't take issue with the industry can make more working 3 or 4 6 hour shifts a week than she can make with her Masters Degree. It's a legitimate career anywhere if you make it one, and more so in this town than most.
I didn't put them to work in SC's, they were all dancers before I met any of them.
Sooo... Basically because you can't even dream of my life, you insult me, lol.
Would somebody PLEASE ban him (again)?
Casual Observer
02-26-2011, 10:01 AM
Thank god for strip clubs so Lax can feel like a man....grand master..lol
^ Indeed.
Laxman; Grand Poobah of PLDom.
Most men, IME, or at least most PAYING men (i.e. men who will buy multiple dances, champagne rooms, etc.) aren't looking for sexual release. This is my experience only. I know that in many cities this is not the case. But, regardless, I think many men do not go to SCs for sexual release. They go to look at beautiful women and spend time with them. They may masturbate later, but they don't walk in wanting to get off during a lapdance.
Agreed, as this is my MO in particular. SCs are convenient time kills on extended business trips. But if I'm looking for sexual release, it's more efficient and satisfying to arrange OTC activity (or just call on a pro). More than that, I guess I just lack the requisite sensitivity to finish from a lapdance; never even close in twenty years of clubbing.
yoda57us
02-26-2011, 11:02 AM
Some clubs it's standard and I learned that the hard way when I moved to NJ. I moved on to a different club where it wasn't the norm
A fav of mine in a low contact Mass club tried a club in North Jersey a few years ago. She was back in Boston within a week with quite a few horror stories. Last year when she asked me about Providence clubs I told her the truth about what would be expected of her if she wanted to make good money and she decided to stay where she is...
contrary to Yoda's observation that the money may be less in a clean club, it was actually better money (maybe because I was so uncomfortable with the blantant whoring going on ITC and the "dates" girls would set up for after work).
Sorry, I didn't mean to imply that the money will always be better in the dirty clubs. I actually don't think that's always the case. Also, even within the dirty clubs there are girls who do very well while not giving in to blatant whoring ITC or OTC. Not every guy wants a hj or bj and it's still more about salesmanship than anything else. My fav at one Providence club has been a steady earner for years without heavy extras or any OTC activities at all. She has regulars lined up for every shift she works...
Laxman
02-26-2011, 11:04 AM
Thank god for strip clubs so Lax can feel like a man....grand master..lol
If it were not for strip clubs guys like you would be unemployed. I bet you are a bouncer at a strip club. I have to admit this forum has the largest collection of PLs. }:D
Laxman
02-26-2011, 11:05 AM
Once again showing his complete ignorance - this time of things sexual, not only SC.
My dear queer man, if your oly thought after getting an erection is getting off, not only are you missing out on MOST of the fun to be had in the sack, but the imaginary women in your life are seeking satisfaction elsewhere, lol.
And I'm not a pimp. I am engaged to a wonderful woman. We have a wonderful girlfriend. And I have a fabulous fuckbuddy that doesn't play with the other two. Just because they're all strippers and all live in my home does not make me a pimp. Why, may I ask, is it OK to have one partner who works for living and contributes to the household, but multiple partner in the same arrangement is unacceptable? What about this makes me a "pimp"? Because they work in SC's?
All three of them have college level educations. This is Vegas. A lovely young woman who doesn't take issue with the industry can make more working 3 or 4 6 hour shifts a week than she can make with her Masters Degree. It's a legitimate career anywhere if you make it one, and more so in this town than most.
I didn't put them to work in SC's, they were all dancers before I met any of them.
Sooo... Basically because you can't even dream of my life, you insult me, lol.
Would somebody PLEASE ban him (again)?
Who cares what a pimp has to say? That was a waste of the bandwidth.
unbeleavable
02-26-2011, 02:11 PM
If it were not for strip clubs guys like you would be unemployed. I bet you are a bouncer at a strip club. I have to admit this forum has the largest collection of PLs. }:D
Don't judge people because you just look like a ass when you do. I'm in real estate & don't even go to strip clubs because I think they are for losers like yourself that could never get a woman to seduce you without a $20 bill. I understand the rules because I've dated & married a entertainer.
Funny how none of the guys have their own photo up as a avatar & you call me a PL.
Laxman
02-26-2011, 02:13 PM
Funny how none of the guys have their own photo up as a avatar
And, you do not know the reason for that. Really? Do you think a sane person with good social standing would put his real picture on a stripper website? You are dumber than I thought.
unbeleavable
02-26-2011, 02:16 PM
And, you do not know the reason for that. Really? Are you that stupid? 8)
That right hide little boy....
Laxman
02-26-2011, 02:26 PM
That right hide little boy....
It is not called hiding. It is called common sense which a strip club bouncer like yourself is completely devoid of.
charlottenh
02-26-2011, 02:34 PM
It is not called hiding. It is called common sense which a strip club bouncer like yourself is completely devoid of.
Ad Hominem attacks are the sign of a good argument, I hear.
unbeleavable
02-26-2011, 02:37 PM
I wouldn't want to show my face either if I posted about cuming in a strip club....common sense..LOL
Common sense would be not joining a forum you thought might get you in trouble.
Laxman
02-26-2011, 02:45 PM
I wouldn't want to show my face either if I posted about cuming in a strip club....common sense..LOL
Common sense would be not joining a forum you thought might get you in trouble.
You have serious comprehension problem but that is expected from a strip club bouncer. I have never claimed that I ejaculated in my pants. There is a difference between one's sympathetic disposition and one's own ethos.
Laxman
02-26-2011, 02:49 PM
unbeleavable,
I can bet $1.99 that you have tried hitting on strippers on this board. Trust me, I am very good at gauging people.
DesuvsDeath
02-26-2011, 02:59 PM
^Thats... a... bit... too... high.... Would you be willing to bet $1.50?
unbeleavable
02-26-2011, 03:02 PM
unbeleavable,
I can bet $1.99 that you have tried hitting on strippers on this board. Trust me, I am very good at gauging people.
If you want the truth.....there are some women on here that PMed me! I don't need SW or a strip club to get female attention.
I bet you that the only thing you have going for you is your wallet....& you are a easy mark.
Kellydancer
02-26-2011, 03:05 PM
Don't judge people because you just look like a ass when you do. I'm in real estate & don't even go to strip clubs because I think they are for losers like yourself that could never get a woman to seduce you without a $20 bill. I understand the rules because I've dated & married a entertainer.
Funny how none of the guys have their own photo up as a avatar & you call me a PL.
That's because he's so fat his blubber takes over the entire photo.
DesuvsDeath
02-26-2011, 03:06 PM
Anyway I figured it was kind of accepted as a part of the package by the dancers, I guess not.
It really depends on where you go, tbh...
From what I've been told... there are clubs where most of the customers expect lots of heavy grinding, ect and the girls don't think much of guys getting off unless it gets ON them...
But there are a lot of clubs where this isn't considered part of the package OR acceptable, and the dancer is likely to have you thrown out of the club if you're not already on your way out the door the second you're done at a minimum.
rickdugan
02-26-2011, 03:14 PM
Don't judge people because you just look like a ass when you do. I'm in real estate & don't even go to strip clubs because I think they are for losers like yourself that could never get a woman to seduce you without a $20 bill. I understand the rules because I've dated & married a entertainer.
Funny how none of the guys have their own photo up as a avatar & you call me a PL.
You might want to rethink that theory a bit.
Also, I have my own theories about guys who are perfectly content to let their wives and GFs crawl all over other guys' hard-ons, but given where I am I tend to refrain from making those types of comments.
Just a couple of thoughts to consider.
kaiarose
02-26-2011, 03:20 PM
Basically in reply to this thread, yes alot of guys ejaculate in their pants. My biggest problem with it is the fact that #1 they usually don't warn you. #2 Having a complete stranger jizz all over your bare ass is just, uhh, ick. #3 Most of the guys (that come in their pants) know they are there to get their rocks off so why not do both of us a favor and wear a condom! #4 When I have to run into the dressing rm and wipe my ass off with a gallon of sanitizer, girls assume I must've been doing something awfully naughty for the guy to come. Plus all night I get teased for getting came on... ugh..
unbeleavable
02-26-2011, 03:22 PM
You might want to rethink that theory a bit.
Also, I have my own theories about guys who are perfectly content to let their wives and GFs crawl all over other guys' hard-ons, but given where I am I tend to refrain from making those types of comments.
Just a couple of thoughts to consider.
Unless you know where my exwife was working & what she did to get it!
I will consider your thoughts but I still see REGS as losers....
Laxman
02-26-2011, 03:31 PM
You might want to rethink that theory a bit.
Also, I have my own theories about guys who are perfectly content to let their wives and GFs crawl all over other guys' hard-ons, but given where I am I tend to refrain from making those types of comments.
Just a couple of thoughts to consider.
I know you do not need my commendation but I commend you again for a very candid post.
kaiarose
02-26-2011, 03:38 PM
You might want to rethink that theory a bit.
Also, I have my own theories about guys who are perfectly content to let their wives and GFs crawl all over other guys' hard-ons, but given where I am I tend to refrain from making those types of comments.
Just a couple of thoughts to consider.
Elaborate please..
Raider
02-26-2011, 03:39 PM
uh-oh....feeling this is going to get ugly. but before it does... Laxman...where did unbeleavable state that happened to his wife?
Laxman
02-26-2011, 03:44 PM
uh-oh....feeling this is going to get ugly. but before it does... Laxman...where did unbeleavable state that happened to his wife?
Can you focus on some other member of this forum for few minutes for a change? You are beginning feel like a paste.
kaiarose
02-26-2011, 03:45 PM
uh-oh....feeling this is going to get ugly. but before it does... Laxman...where did unbeleavable state that happened to his wife?
No not at all :) I'm just genuinely curious!
Raider
02-26-2011, 03:47 PM
Nope....why should you be able to make things up just to rile people up? Did I miss something? Where did he state that happened?
Raider
02-26-2011, 03:50 PM
No not at all :) I'm just genuinely curious!
Was not referring to your post. Your reply just sorta got caught in the middle.
Laxman
02-26-2011, 03:54 PM
Nope....why should you be able to make things up just to rile people up? Did I miss something? Where did he state that happened?
As we stand, you are riling me up. You appear to be a secret weapon strippers unleash on real men. :)
Raider
02-26-2011, 03:56 PM
Did I miss something? Where did he state that happened?
No real answer to question?
Kellydancer
02-26-2011, 03:58 PM
As we stand, you are riling me up. You appear to be a secret weapon strippers unleash on real men. :)
What is a "real" man? A guy that is a cheap tipper or tries to knock down dance money is NOT a real man.
Laxman
02-26-2011, 04:02 PM
What is a "real" man? A guy that is a cheap tipper or tries to knock down dance money is NOT a real man.
Here is the formula. As the amount a customer pays to a stripper for a lap dance approaches zero, his manhood approaches infinity. Your friend, the strip club bouncer just validated this theory. You went so far as to call me fat in his support. }:D
Now why are you changing your tune? Why so much flip flopping?
Laxman
02-26-2011, 04:03 PM
No real answer to question?
Read his posts. You will find it.
DesuvsDeath
02-26-2011, 04:07 PM
^A man who thinks that what happens in the strip club determines whether or not he is a real man... is not a real man. LOL
Kellydancer
02-26-2011, 04:11 PM
Here is the formula. As the amount a customer pays to a stripper for a lap dance approaches zero, his manhood approaches infinity. Your friend, the strip club bouncer just validated this theory. You went so far as to call me fat in his support. }:D
Now why are you changing your tune? Why so much flip flopping?
I wasn't defending anyone nor was I flip flopping. I was agreeing with his idea that the same men (namely you) attacking him for his looks are in fact fatasses. Same thing when women are attacked for posting their photo online yet the attacker does not.
Men that don't pay strippers or try to pay less aren't real men they are losers. They are the same losers who are on online dating sites at 50 and can't figure out why women bypass them, while these same guys (always ugly and fat) only want the hottest girls. Life doesn't work that way and women don't want cheapasses.
Laxman
02-26-2011, 04:19 PM
KellyDancer,
I never attacked the bouncer for his look. On the contrary he attacked me for my look. He does not even know what I look like. It is not my style attacking others for their look unless there is a valid reason.