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jack0177057
03-15-2011, 08:44 AM
speaking of men being sex-crazed... i secretly like it that guys agressively pursue me sexually. even though a lot of girls complain about men being constantly horny pervs or whatever, when guys tell me im sexy and ogle my chest, stare at my ass, etc., it makes me feel sexy, and wanted, and that's hot!!
Please post some pics so I can ogle... :D
But, seriously,.... thanks for this thread... Its so refreshing to hear nice things said about us men!
I was really beginning to hate myself, until I found this thread. :D
Almost Jaded
03-15-2011, 12:05 PM
-Strong.
-Out going.
-Funny.
-Caring.
-Understanding.
-Can make fun of him self.
-Can make fun of me.
-Willing to take care of me(in more then one way)
-Clean.
-Independant.
-Educated.
-Spontaneous.
-Gives me the raunchy/hot/romantic sex.
-Passionate about something.
-Open minded.
-Proud of his imperfections.
That's half the guys I know, lol. Not joking. It's amazing how so many women have such terrible luck with men. Granted, the standard is dropping - I can't believe how most guys act these days, and the younger they are the worse it is - but there are PLENTY of guys out there that fit that bill and much more. :(
lemiwinks31
03-15-2011, 01:07 PM
That's half the guys I know, lol. Not joking. It's amazing how so many women have such terrible luck with men. Granted, the standard is dropping - I can't believe how most guys act these days, and the younger they are the worse it is - but there are PLENTY of guys out there that fit that bill and much more. :(
Not sure how much of it is luck.......i think its a matter of choosing the wrong person. Maybe because of the location where they draw their pool of candidates from contains mostly poor serious relationship material. Maybe its a matter of making the conscious decision to go back to a bad guy, because this time he says it will be different.....Maybe they are attracted to a type of guy that doesnt consider being a good guy and doing the right thing...all that important....
either way....i think it is rarely just bad luck...especially when it happens over and over.
xGigi
03-15-2011, 01:13 PM
I love the strong assertive men who know what the fuck they're doing in bed. makes me sooo hot when they tell me when to change positions and what to do. the only thing I DON'T like is when they push your head down when they want you to give them a blow job. fuck that.
I mean...I'm not against giving blow jobs. in fact I LOVE giving my boyfriend blow jobs when he least expects it. the look on his face is priceless. I love unzipping his pants when he's on the phone or putting my mouth over his pants RIGHT before we're about to leave the house...hehehe...it's so mean cos he's like "baaabe we gotta go" and I'm like "but I wanna suck your cock!!!" and he CAN'T say no
what I REALLY like about guys is their sex drive and the fact that you can get a guy to fuck you whenever you want. it sucks for guys that us ladies have to be "in the mood" for it. I could wake my man up at 4am by sucking his cock and he'd be completely helpless ;]
I love it when a guy knows how to tease. whenever my boyfriend goes down on me he doesn't just go right to it. he kisses and breaths on my whole body all the way down and he'll kiss and lick my thighs FOREVER until I'm squirming and shaking from the anticipation and when he puts his tongue on my clit finally I go CRAZY
but enough about sex...I'm a little sexually frustrated right now if you can't tell.
I like a guy who's a gentleman. my boyfriend will carry my coat and shopping bags without me even asking. if I'm tired he'll even carry my purse and he doesn't mind. on a couple occasions he's even carried ME and it makes me feel like a spoiled little princess.
I love when a guy does cute little things like kiss my hand randomly when we're walking and holding hands.
I love how a guy who's really into me will surprise me with romantic things. once when I went to go visit my parents I came back and the guy I was dating picked me up at the airport with roses. I was only gone for 5 days but it was sweet!!!
I love it when my boyfriend calls me "my love" and things like that because it's so cheesy but he doesn't even care because he loves me so much.
I love genuine guys who are really crazy about you and don't treat you like shit basically. I love how when a guy is REALLY into you you just know that he'd do anything for you :]
lemiwinks31
03-15-2011, 01:14 PM
Key points I require:
-Strong.
-Out going.
-Funny.
-Caring.
-Understanding.
-Can make fun of him self.
-Can make fun of me.
-Willing to take care of me(in more then one way)
-Clean.
-Independant.
-Educated.
-Spontaneous.
-Gives me the raunchy/hot/romantic sex.
-Passionate about something.
-Open minded.
-Proud of his imperfections.
IMO..Good list....with the exception of bolded one.
I dont think i would be attracted to someone who expected me to take care of her. I like women who are independent and can take care of themselves....
I would be more than happy to take care of them after marriage & kids etc......but not if it was 'required'
Kellydancer
03-15-2011, 01:47 PM
IMO..Good list....with the exception of bolded one.
I dont think i would be attracted to someone who expected me to take care of her. I like women who are independent and can take care of themselves....
I would be more than happy to take care of them after marriage & kids etc......but not if it was 'required'
I want someone to take care of me, but not in that way. What I mean is that if I get sick I want him to take of me. Same thing if he gets sick. Or I am having a bad day I want him to comfort me and I would do the same. However, I can't stand women who expect a man to financially support them or men who want to support a woman. In a day where women can be anything I hate ideas like women who expect because he's the man he should support her.
lemiwinks31
03-15-2011, 02:22 PM
I want someone to take care of me, but not in that way. What I mean is that if I get sick I want him to take of me. Same thing if he gets sick. Or I am having a bad day I want him to comfort me and I would do the same. However, I can't stand women who expect a man to financially support them or men who want to support a woman. In a day where women can be anything I hate ideas like women who expect because he's the man he should support her.
that was how i read it and what i was responding to.
Kellydancer
03-15-2011, 02:43 PM
I know you were talking about financially, but taking care of someone can mean different things. I once told someone I wanted a man to support me and they thought I meant financially. I had to say no, not financially, more emotional. I don't likely don't even need a man support me physically (though that's another thing entirely).
Vyanka
03-15-2011, 03:19 PM
Men make good loyal friends.
I saw how my exbf is with his buddies, they have like this special tight brotherly bond. Watch each other's back. I remember wanting to have friends just like that back then(now I do :) ).
But yeah, I see this with a lot of men.
Ashly06
03-15-2011, 04:45 PM
I love the strong assertive men who know what the fuck they're doing in bed. makes me sooo hot when they tell me when to change positions and what to do. the only thing I DON'T like is when they push your head down when they want you to give them a blow job. fuck that.
AMEN!! I usually have to remind him that I am his GIRL,not a fu*king PORNSTAR!
Spankie55
03-15-2011, 06:16 PM
IMO..Good list....with the exception of bolded one.
I dont think i would be attracted to someone who expected me to take care of her. I like women who are independent and can take care of themselves....
I would be more than happy to take care of them after marriage & kids etc......but not if it was 'required'
Lol I didn't really mean financially. Paying for most dates,things like that are required :) But I dont want someone to pay all of my bills,and buy me tons of crap. I mostly want a man that will support me including emotional support... But he DOES have to be financially stable (or heading in that direction) Because I'm sorry, I don't want a broke ass man. I would make an exception if I truely fell for the guy-but I would push him in the right direction for the sake of his future,and our future together. I don't need a rich man,just someone motivated enough to go to work every day,and responsible enough to keep a damn job.
anouk.oui
03-15-2011, 06:31 PM
i love my bf's muscles and bear hugs. whenever he picks me up i feel protected from anything in the world in his strong arms =]]
AngelCummings
04-01-2011, 09:12 AM
I love how men can be spontaneous! I will have guy friends that if I'm all of a sudden feeling adventurous and want to take a random roadtrip or go ziplining @ midnight in the middle of the week, my guy friends will be all for it! Spontaneity can be so much fun. My girlfriends, on the other hand, are not up for doing fun stuff at the last minute for the most part. And even when they are it still takes them like 2 hours to get ready lol ::)
Rookie2010
04-01-2011, 09:54 AM
go ziplining @ midnight
Where do you do this? Sounds awesome.
AngelCummings
04-15-2011, 10:47 PM
Where do you do this? Sounds awesome.
i'll pm you lol
johnjdick
04-15-2011, 11:21 PM
Y'all are awesome. I love this thread. I hear so much anti-man talk at work, it really kinda gets to me. It's refreshing to hear a positive thread.
Thank you.
I know you were talking about financially, but taking care of someone can mean different things. I once told someone I wanted a man to support me and they thought I meant financially. I had to say no, not financially, more emotional. I don't likely don't even need a man support me physically (though that's another thing entirely).
I think that is one of those phrases that has been distorted on the internet. Like girls who call themselves "curvy" or "voluptuous" or worse "cuddly" when they really mean fat. If a girl says she wants a man to take care of her or support her i immediately assume she means "you better have a lot of money".
Kellydancer
04-16-2011, 03:59 PM
I think that is one of those phrases that has been distorted on the internet. Like girls who call themselves "curvy" or "voluptuous" or worse "cuddly" when they really mean fat. If a girl says she wants a man to take care of her or support her i immediately assume she means "you better have a lot of money".
I think so too. Seems "generous gentlemen" now means "I am looking for a guy to spend money for sex". Of course that usually means hooking now, though it could mean a gold digger. At least with prostitutes you know what you re getting, with gold diggers they lie about what they want. I think that's why hookers don't bother me but wome who lie about what they want do.
I think so too. Seems "generous gentlemen" now means "I am looking for a guy to spend money for sex".
Hah, didn't know that one.
JayATee
04-16-2011, 04:47 PM
So Ive noticed in general, that there seems to be a lot of man-bashing on this forum. Now, Im not saying that those who have said negative things don't have a right to vent, venting is healthy, and men and women are different so naturally we are going to get frustrated at times with the other sex! However, if there wasn't something about men that a lot of us find irresistible than none of us would be here ;D So let's make this a positive thread celebrating men and what we like about them! I'll start:
- I like how men are laid back. A lot of my female friends and myself included, take ourselves way too seriously, over-analyze, and get emotionally worked up over nothing. But the guys in my life keep me balanced, they know how to just relax and if they mess up, they laugh at themselves instead of making a huge deal of it.
-Guy are funny!! Most of the men I know are hilarious, some on purpose and some not LOL
-They're adorable! So maybe they can't always read between the lines to know what they want, maybe they aren't perfect when it comes to romance, but when you can tell they are trying it's so darn cute.
-I like how men are natural leaders and take control. Maybe I'm just more naturally sumbissive then most girls, but when a guy takes the lead it makes me feel protected, safe, and taken care of :)
Post yours!
Yeah it's called dick.
No seriously, (well that was serious but still ;)) on here you're likely to hear more of that since a lot of the guys dealt with on a reg basis aren't exactly of the awesome variety.