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wickvid
10-03-2011, 02:38 AM
Ok well I found this site that really works. It will allow you to use a disposable phone number. So now you never have to give out ur real number on all these crazy dates and what not :)

I think the number last 7 days and forwards to your mobile...also think u can change the life span of the number but I have not got a chance to really play with it yet.

Just doing my part to look out for all u lovely ladies...

http://www.ringshuffle.com/

cbrandy
10-03-2011, 05:51 PM
Awesome, Wickvid! Thanks for the helpful info-I'll have to look into that.

And yes, FiendishGyrator, I plan to counter to $400 down to $300, but when they start low and/or won't counter...what's the fun in that? LOL

FiendishGyrator
10-03-2011, 09:39 PM
When they start low, I hit them with 500 and we wind up at 300. If I say 500, and they counter 200, I've picked up a date for $400. I've only gone out on three dates, one in the summer for 500, and two in the last couple of weeks for 300 and 400 respectively.

I've had two more accepted (that I'll go out with) for 500 and 300.

Not a main hustle but if you are open to a sugar daddy relationship or like going out
on dates and meeting new people, WYP can be a lot of fun.

I avoid, as a rule, any guy that doesn't have a.sugar relationship listed since I'm not looking
for anythg but that.

krystel_gotti
10-04-2011, 08:06 PM
^^^ not saying spending time with you lovely ladies isn't worth 500 bucks :)) but do guys honestly pay that and not expect anything in return? I am alittle afraid to ask for something that high when I know I am not going to give them anything lol!

FiendishGyrator
10-04-2011, 08:52 PM
Well it depends-- are you looking for a boyfriend, a sugar daddy, or a one-off avenue for making occasional money? If it's the third, then yeah, I would likely not use this website because, for me, $100 is not worth getting made up to go out and sit with someone I don't know for 2-3 hours.

And you start high because a) you never know, and b) it gives you room to maneuver downward.

camille27
10-04-2011, 11:29 PM
for the bajillionth time, men pay for ANYTHING, especially company. to me, this is like saying, why would anyone pay for a massage when your mom can rub your back for free? humans pay for all kinds of weird shit.

i feel sad for all the women who don't believe their presence and conversation is truly valuable.


^^^ not saying spending time with you lovely ladies isn't worth 500 bucks :)) but do guys honestly pay that and not expect anything in return? I am alittle afraid to ask for something that high when I know I am not going to give them anything lol!

DottieMay
10-07-2011, 01:25 PM
Google voice is also a great way to use a fake phone number. It also records your messages for you and you can receive text messages. And you can also set it up so that the calls and texts get sent you your phone. And when you text back it shows up as your fake number. To make a call you have to hit call from the site and it will call your phone then connect you to the number you want to reach. www.google.com/voice. Oh did I mention it's FREE!

krystel_gotti
10-07-2011, 03:10 PM
for the bajillionth time, men pay for ANYTHING, especially company. to me, this is like saying, why would anyone pay for a massage when your mom can rub your back for free? humans pay for all kinds of weird shit.

i feel sad for all the women who don't believe their presence and conversation is truly valuable.

right on! That makes me feel better :) I am just worried about things going south is all you know the horror story stuff, but starting off high and giving myself some wiggle room sounds good. I am looking to make like at least 800 a week, that would be great...

FiendishGyrator
10-07-2011, 03:27 PM
Google voice is also a great way to use a fake phone number. It also records your messages for you and you can receive text messages. And you can also set it up so that the calls and texts get sent you your phone. And when you text back it shows up as your fake number. To make a call you have to hit call from the site and it will call your phone then connect you to the number you want to reach. www.google.com/voice. Oh did I mention it's FREE!

Keep in mind though that if someone texts you and it's routed to your phone number, if you text back and their number is just a regular number-- it will show your google number as the texting number.

HOWEVER, if THEY too have a google number, and they text you and you text back from your phone (not your computer) it will show THEM your real number.

I've had this happen TWICE. Now I don't text anyone back until I've called them to ascertain whether or not they have a google number.

DottieMay
10-07-2011, 04:13 PM
Keep in mind though that if someone texts you and it's routed to your phone number, if you text back and their number is just a regular number-- it will show your google number as the texting number.

HOWEVER, if THEY too have a google number, and they text you and you text back from your phone (not your computer) it will show THEM your real number.

I've had this happen TWICE. Now I don't text anyone back until I've called them to ascertain whether or not they have a google number.
Didn't know that. Thanks!;D

FiendishGyrator
10-07-2011, 09:31 PM
Just got back from a date for $300. Really nice guy, interesting conversation, great dinner (mmmm!)
I don't think he really wants a sugar baby. I think he's looking for initially a sugar baby who could be open to more like a girlfriend later. I've been open with him about just wanted to be a sugar baby-- so we'll see how it goes. He's been taken advantage of by a lot of women, mainly an exwife...so I've emphasized that I will be honest with my expectations and do the whole pity story thing as a hustle (which I don't, I never have.)

But I wish he was more sugar savvy because I don't want him to eventually get more attached than just a SD/SB relationship.

jacki_j
02-05-2012, 08:31 AM
I'm starting to wonder how many guys will eventually start typing the name of this site into google and seeing this thread pop up in search results, showing word for word some of the things they are writing to girls, girls laughing at them, *sharing* them, and divulging details about their dates, what they've paid, etc... and what effect, if any, that will have on outcomes.

I don't think it's indexed yet but that might be something to consider.

THIS is already happening

.. there are already some guys on the WYP blog who are referring to here (stripperweb) (which is what brought me here) and other review sites via google and noting comments made by girls from here and other places 'working the site' to earn regular cash from the idea so they are getting the picture as to how some women think of them and they WYP idea as a money sink. They are also debating the charges guys have to pay the site to unlock the communications - basically as others have pointed out here they have to buy credits for the site with real money before they can email anyone once they get date offers, whereas we (women) don't have to pay anything at all at any stage. This means that if we accept a date worth say $500 (or equivalent if you're not in USA) then they guy has to pay the site a fee of $20 per $100 for the date . so that's $100 he has to pay even to speak to a girl to arrange a date even if no date ever happens. This is gonna put the lower level income guys off and all they will do is get offers and do nothing about them as many won't be able to afford it nor want to pay those fees on top of the date fee. I have read a few posts there now showing there is backlash coming .. the site seems to make a lot of money regardless because it's cleverly designed..but basically the more they offer on a date the more fees they have to pay WYP even if the date doesnt happen just to be able to email girls.

I think a lot of guys will wise up that girls simply see WYP as an easily manipulated extra income and don't care a jot for the men themselves, and start offering 'official' low fees on WYP and then agree a higher 'real fee' with the girl by email. Maybe that's what some of them do already in their low offers? - I don't know have just joined it and only really to see what happens I am more interested in their sister 'seeking' sites, SA or SM, to meet properly wealthy (serious money) level men and I think the WYP is pretty tacky.

TBH I am not sure ANY really genuine serious multi-millionaire men would even use ANY online dating sites after all they can pretty much buy anything including female company almost any age and looks day or night around the world can't they through a dozen different ways if they have that much cash? I am sure guys who own mega yachts and jet planes are not struggling to date one single woman by email from a set of photos on WYP but have probably got a string of 'do anything' girls on the payroll or frequent clubs we haven't ever heard of where anything can be supplied. But I would think that really seriously any man willing and able to afford to pay upwards even of $500 for what are really all but 'blind dates' should be wealthy enough not to care much about another $100 as part of the contact process but as someone else said it can soon add up to a lot (for ordinary men) if the guy is emailing a few girls at a time about offers and I don't think guys really understand that part when they sign up cos the site doesnt exactly make it obvious (which is unsurprising).

I would imagine that reading some of the comments here about women's attitudes and critique of the men who frequent WYP it will soon dawn on many of them how low a regard they are held in. However I am sure we all know from personal experience with guys who really don't amount to much at all financially or status wise that their egos and accumulated self worth opinions are usually well beyond their manners..generally it's only really successful guys who have the real manners to date without being crass or vulgar or pathetic in some way..but then a lot of them didn't get rich by being nice so it works both ways. I think the more sites like WYP get touted as being a mecca for girls wanting to exploits 'suckers' and labelling the men using them as pathetic (which by all accounts some might deserve and some not) then in the end these sites will always be avoided by really serious wealthy guys with manners because they will be put off by the 'bad press'.

It's a Catch 22 in that we would all like 'good polite dates' on both sides but as long as it's managed like a 'meat market' with girls trying to get the maximum whilst giving as little as possible and men doing the same most dates will end up sounding negative.

Sorry I am not sure if I am allowed to post external links, should have checked but if I am not please delete (look at the most recent YWP posts here in the blog thread called 'how to deal with dating disputes')

wickvid
02-06-2012, 12:01 AM
ha ha ok so I joined this site just to test it out when this thread first started.
Anyway I decided to update my profile and send a few WINKS...my photos
need to be approved..

I sent a wink and got a counter offer for $1400 WTF...I mean she is pretty and
all but $1400...seriously I am currently in COLOMBIA SOUTH AMERICA...I can
do way better than her for $140 :) just have to get my Espanol together!!!!

cherryblossomsinspring
02-06-2012, 10:41 AM
Well I understand the creator of WYP decided to clean up the site a bit. There seemed to be too many overflow craigslisters that were giving the site a bad name. Personally to compare Seeking Arrangment to WYP is really comparing apples to oranges. I think in many ways SA can be quite "tacky".

Here's why:
1. Most profiles on SA say they make millions of dollars. Really? There are that many millionaires? I think not. Majority of the site are fakes that pay the basic membership.
2. You are typically required to talk a great deal on SA before even getting to meet someone that sounds decent.
3. Most guys you meet on SA you'll be meeting for free. That means no $$$ and sitting across from some guy that wants to size you up when in reality he has nothing to offer you.
4. You'll get dick picks, rude request to fuck for $100 or even a few rapists that use the site to lure girls out and force themselves on them. Not to mention the guys that are looking for free phone sex and nude photo requests.
5. There have been women on this site for years yet the closest they've come to a sugar daddy is P4P at cheap under escort rates that would make most people cringe.

I've read both blogs and even though I know SA has been around longer , it's blog tends to list some ugly stories of what guys have done to pot sbs. Plus that link to the court episode where that old guy was trying to force drugs on those 18-19 year old girls.Really made the sugar bowl look like predator alley.

With WYP if the guy's profile seems shady or he sends a really cheap offer , you can just reject his wink and block him all before a message even gets into your inbox.
Most guys that either have only intimate encounter + short term dating get passed over. If the guy has anything about pleasing a woman , or any type of sexual tone in his profile like " looking for a bad girl" , it doesn't even matter what else he has written , he'll be passed over. An escort may contact him and offer a rate that he could accept if he's interested in paying it.
Even the guy that puts" I don't need to pay for companionship" = this guy will not be paying for the date so why even bother. He'll get passed over if the woman takes the time to look at all the alarming clues

On SA that's not an option. You're likely to waste more time on SA trying to find a real SD where as with WYP if a man is open to spending $300-$500 for a first date without sex then he would be viewed as a more honest and sincere SD.

Even for those that end up meeting a really great guy that want more of a real relationship, he has a better chance at finding that on WYP. I'm noticing that there are more attractive and younger men on WYP than I've ever seen on SA.

Now what would you rather have? The fake ugly fat wanmabe guy that considers himself a Sugar Daddy because he takes a girl out to dinner yet buys her lingerie for her to wear for his pleasure? Or the attractive younger guy that's able to afford a nice date. We all know that men will desire sleeping with any woman they find attractive but the younger guys tend to not be pushy about it.

On WYP you will get the guy that will try to bs also but It's harder to do without him loosing money in the process.

99% of the guys that I've spoken to on SA have been fakes.
With WYP' a guy really wanting to be an SD can actually set up a first genuine meet with an sb and provide her with at least something other than a $5.00 cup of coffee. If he can't open communication then he's not worth the time. I wish more sites were like this so you weren't bombarded with so many time wasters that SA has.

AS : AshleyMadiso is another site that some sugar babies have had success on but I'm hearing escorts are taking this site by storm,
SD4M: Has alot of fakes as well. I believe on guy has a "get your bank info and address scam" asking for checking accounts and routing numbers to clear out a sugar baby's account with writing fake checks.

I believe there's a blog called : fakesugardaddies exposed or something of that nature that lists the fake sugar daddies , what site's their on and what their account id's are. Great tool .btw.

cherryblossomsinspring
02-06-2012, 10:42 AM
Ohh and these self proclaimed sugar daddies offering $200-$300 per meet are really SALTY JOHNS.

sananeko
02-06-2012, 09:04 PM
I signed up and got a offer a week later. He agreed to the amount I liked but the communication stopped after that. I will be amazed he replies back.

Lovelyme
02-07-2012, 06:08 AM
news flash: whatsyourprice is for prostitutes. Call girls and johns are flocking there left and right. It's for low end prostitution.
4 of my RL girlfriend have been telling me their stories of the site. They are escorting and they don't even know it... smh.

cherryblossomsinspring
02-09-2012, 08:17 PM
^ I don't believe what'syourprice is FOR PROSTITUTES. Some may be there and others are not. Generally you can tell when the guy has sexual tones in his profile so if those are your potential clients then have at it. No one is going to stand in your way of getting new Johns on the weekly roster. For those of us that are seeking real relationships or real sugar daddies then we'll hopefully connect with those types.

What I'm noticing is that many of the "johns" as you call it are not the high dollar guys. They are roughly old men looking to spend anywhere from $75-$150 for a blow and go. That's obviously not the guy I want to meet. So with WYP you are able to weed through the bs a bit easier than say SA. On SA you have no idea who is coming your way. It's just random and in more ways you'll spend alot of time getting nothing at all.

After a guy opens up communication within the week of accepting an offer. If he's not talking about setting up the first date and just babbling on about nonsense I'm cutting him loose. Some guys after they've paid their credits and paid to open communication are just using the site to talk to attractive women for free. I've even looked at the blog and seen women chatting with the same offer for months . Later stiffed on the date because after so much time has gone by they now feel uncomfortable in asking for the agreed upon date amount. Guy plays the head game and luck up on giving nothing.

Also I don't think I'll being sitting on a date and waiting for payment. After reviewing those blogs , it's best to be paid upfront either all of it or half. At the end of the date the remaining about can be given. Not about to sit through a 1-3 hour date for $0 I find the whole holding you for ransom seems a tad over the top. Plus there are so many women that did this and didn't get paid a dime. Not nice.

lokikola
02-11-2012, 07:55 AM
Hey guys. I signed up for whatsyourprice yesterday. I checked it this morning, my profile has been approved and I have 3 offers, two for 200 and the other for 50. I think I'll accept the $200 offers and just reject the $50 one. I also got a wink so I guess I'm supposed to tell them how much I want.

Does anyone else still use this site?

Nikki_Fox
02-11-2012, 11:44 AM
Just curious why any man would look for a prostitute on a site of this nature and go through all of the hassle that you guys are talking about? There are thousands of girls on Backpage and Eros etc... who are very clear in what they offer so why go through all of the bs of either of these sites? I have never used any of the sites mentioned so I'm sincerly curious as to the dynamics of this and why a guy would not just go straight to the "source" and not play this game.

lokikola
02-11-2012, 11:49 AM
Just curious why any man would look for a prostitute on a site of this nature and go through all of the hassle that you guys are talking about? There are thousands of girls on Backpage and Eros etc... who are very clear in what they offer so why go through all of the bs of either of these sites? I have never used any of the sites mentioned so I'm sincerly curious as to the dynamics of this and why a guy would not just go straight to the "source" and not play this game.

I'm not a prostitute. On what grounds do you make the assumption that all the women that are on this site are prostitutes?

lokikola
02-11-2012, 03:39 PM
Okay so I've got 2 offers so far for dates. Only one has responded and I think he is Bsing me but its okay because I'm not giving him what he wants. He immediately messaged me asking for my number, I said no, offered times and days I was available for a lunch and he said he'd message me with a day/time. not counting on seeing him, its only 200 anyway.

I've gotten a lot of cheap ass offers from 25 to 200 dollars usually. I'm countering with 450. I priced one for 200 and he rejected, then sent me another offer for 150 so I countered with 300 :P

I hope this doesn't turn out to be a waste of time. The way I'm thinking of it is that if I charge mimimum 250 for a half hour in the champagne room I shouldn't charge any less for lunch/dinner. I'll spend more time if they're taking me shopping or somewhere I'd like to go and they're not creeps.

Someone else just accepted a counter offer for 350. Lets see what happens here...

mikef
02-11-2012, 08:45 PM
Just curious why any man would look for a prostitute on a site of this nature and go through all of the hassle that you guys are talking about? There are thousands of girls on Backpage and Eros etc... who are very clear in what they offer so why go through all of the bs of either of these sites? I have never used any of the sites mentioned so I'm sincerly curious as to the dynamics of this and why a guy would not just go straight to the "source" and not play this game.

It is like Captain Ahab and Moby Dick..... I'm not joking.

Full disclosure..... I actually have a profile on this site..... But spend no time reading or responding.

Nikki_Fox
02-12-2012, 10:09 AM
lokikola -- i think you misunderstood my question - I said NOTHING about anyone on SW or Whatsyourprice being a prostitute - In reading through this thread many SW ladies who are on WYP made the statement that the guys on that site and on SA are "LOOKING" for a prostitute. So, I DID NOT accuse anyone of being one, I simply asked a question as to why THE GUYS would waste their time on a site like WYP or SA when it seems MOST of the ladies on there are NOT looking to provide sex. The site that I mentioned were ERO's and Backpage - and yes there are ladies who offer sex for money on those sites. So my question was "why would a man waste his time trying to convince a lady on WYP or Sa to have sex for money when he could easily go to BP or ERO's and call hundreds of ladies willing and happy to provide that service " ?? Also, there ARE ladies on SW that offer sex for money. Am I judging anyone for that - No - I have much love for ALL sex workers - I have worked as an escort, phone sex operator, cammodel, and behind the glass in a peep show arcade (25yrs total) . I have no disrespect or judgement towards anyone. Your statement that " I assume all women on this site are prostitutes" is incorrect - My previous post said nothing of that nature. Peace - Love - and Money to All

lokikola
02-12-2012, 10:50 AM
Oh well then I don't know. I don't know why guys come in the club every day asking for sex when they could go pick up a street walker or look online.

Nikki_Fox
02-12-2012, 11:26 AM
lol - yea , I guess that was a stupid question - who knows what goes on in their minds -

Lovelyme
02-12-2012, 01:18 PM
lol - yea , I guess that was a stupid question - who knows what goes on in their minds -

Yes. It was a stupid question. It's the same reason why johns go on sugarbaby sites pretending to be sugardaddies.
A guy with john mentality -- cannot be a sugardaddy.

lokikola
02-12-2012, 03:19 PM
Generous users pay $5 or more depending on the cost of the date to write or read an email.


This is listed above the correspondence between members... I guess this is why they are asking for my phone number. I don't want to give them my number!

I really wish people who used this would respond and offer tips/advice?

cherryblossomsinspring
02-14-2012, 02:26 AM
Some guy sent me a $25 offer. I not only rejected his ass but blocked him too. Really Old fat guy?

In other news:
I have gotten 3 offers accepted. 2 didn't respond to my message so they most likely don't have money to open the date. The other opened the date and seemed ok at first. Then he kept pushing for my phone number. After the 3rd push I gave him the gvoice number I created. After that his messages all turned into one line responses . Like he was all of a sudden not interested. Also he keeps changing plans around for things to do which states he doesn't really have plans to do anything. Then he put in his phone number as if I'm supposed to call him instead. I guess because gvoice number didn't give him info on me , the next best thing is to gps search me when I call him. Sorry not gonna happen loser. This guy will probably drop off the face of the map in a week or two or die of old age whichever comes first.

The other two I'll just have to wait and see. One is really good looking and younger so I'm hoping he opens things up.

Even though it's not as good as dating fake sd's on SA for free lol it really does cut out the bullshit big time. It doesn't feel so bad when a guy flakes out. He still had to get off of some money just to bullshit for info that's going to be erased in a week anyways.

As in cam, the BLOCK feature is always your Friend! lol

lokikola
02-14-2012, 05:19 PM
I've gotten four offers accept, all 200 and up... I'm calling two of them tomorrow to arrange a time/place to meet. I was on another site before and it was a waste of time. I totally agree that this cuts back on a lot of bs and I like that.

Lovelyme
02-15-2012, 07:00 AM
OK so only offers. Has anyone been on a date RECENTLY?

a_little_mermaid
02-15-2012, 05:44 PM
I Signed up here just for kicks and got an wink with in a day. I offered $350 and he declined saying it was to expensive. I am going to put more pics up and see if I cant get more men interested. Do most men go for about $200 to $250?

cherryblossomsinspring
02-15-2012, 07:28 PM
$200+ seems to be the safe range. I like when guys counter for a reasonable amount. The ones that are sending $100 or less yet their pics and profile scream I "copied this out of a magazine" or " even though I put single , I'm actually quite married" make me hit block fast. One guy has a profile that says single , yet when he sent me an offer he only has one hidden picture and it's just of his torso. No face, no legs. Just a torso. So that's screaming : I'm wanted in a few states for murder", or "my wife doesn't know I'm doing this". He kept countering with $90. Blocked!

king a
02-15-2012, 11:52 PM
Tried it twice girls seem to just want a free lunch and never meet you again I canceled after the second one.

cherryblossomsinspring
02-16-2012, 07:35 PM
Tried it twice girls seem to just want a free lunch and never meet you again I canceled after the second one.

So you signed up on SW to post this?

Free lunch? I've personally never been that hungry to sign up on a paid dating site desperate for a meal.

Sorry you have a bad time.

sananeko
02-16-2012, 08:12 PM
Well the guy finally message back. It seem he was more interested in getting my number than going on a date but we will see.. I'm bored enough to wait with other things to do. My friend decided to join last night and got a lot of 5 dollar offers... The one guy that agreed to 200 only wanted a hooker and when he found out shes really looking for a real man to date he offered in the message 50 dollars for a date and told her the 200 was for sex...

a_little_mermaid
02-20-2012, 02:13 PM
Anyone having much luck lately? I upgraded to a pay membership to see if it makes a difference. I setn a few winks and got nothing. Do you guys search out men and send winks too?

cherryblossomsinspring
02-22-2012, 03:21 AM
$5 offers? What kind of incentive is that? The younger guys don't see to be serious , I think I may start ignoring winks and waiting until those expire. A wink just doesn't say enough and 95% of the guys that winked never send over an offer. if I sent them an offer they just say " not interested". The ones that seem interested send over an offer right away and counter if it's too high.

cherryblossomsinspring
02-22-2012, 03:23 AM
I have a date this Saturday but still unsure if the guy is serious about being there. Seems like the guy was just paying to get my phone number. So not sure if it's going to happen or not. Will keep you posted.

thebizness
02-29-2012, 09:36 PM
Hi this is a quick question about whatsyourprice (with a long intro sorry)... I actually came across SW when running a yahoo search on "whatsyourprice reviews" so perhaps I have no business being here and apologize if I don't. Anyway, here is a quick rundown of my situation... 35 years old, 2 kids, divorced, I guess most would say very wealthy with bigger on the horizon, world traveler (been to Hong Kong, Thailand, Philippines, Tokyo on business this year alone... you should see last years passport action!), have a crazy sense of humor and love to laugh, intense with business but laid back in life, kind, caring, very generous (especially to my SO) but definitely overly sensitive sometimes, people say I'm good looking and I am involved on the outskirts of the fashion industry so I am very well kept, up on fashion and very fashionable due to my job (I like my swagger :-). Now all that seems like I am trying to portray myself as perfect... far from it. Married my high school sweetheart at 20, had two kids and then started to make money and act like a jackass cheater... luckily we have moved on and now have a great relationship again and I am even great friends with her new husband and step kids. Now since the divorce I have been unlucky in love to say the least... been used, abused, cheated on (guess karmas a bitch hugh) and pretty much treated like total crap for a long time now. Finally thought I found someone... I was engaged and in an 8 year relationship with (dancer when I met her (fitting for this site I guess haha) but hadn't danced in 6 1/2-7 years) we lived together for about the same amount of time 6 1/2-7 years. She always had substance abuse demons but kicked them before I met her and we were both very much in love. Last year she completly went off the rails... always enjoyed a drink or two too many IMHO (I'm not much of a drinker and don't smoke) but she turned into a complete and utter alcoholic. Went to rehab(S), tried to kick it but it was an epic fail... the more the drinking (worst of all she is a mean, angry drunk too), the worse she felt about herself (mind you looks and personality when not drunk she is undeniably a 10 so its very very sad)... then the cheating started... multiple times last year before a weekend lacrosse tournament out of town with my son was ruined by an accidental phone call to me that started as conversation and launched into sex on our brand new couch (which I loved and is no longer with us). Each guy had less going for him than the next and the couch guy lived in mom's basement and hadn't worked in 4 years plus was an arrogant asshole to boot... anyway I digress... this is all just the background to where I am: Single for a while now, very lonely in a very large house with my kids only half the week (thank God they live up the road so I can do sports pickups and visits and thank God for my two dogs) and ZERO, ZIP, NADA on the self-esteem scale :-( compound this with the fact that I have always been shy till I get going and aren't the type to go out and just meet women (quite frankly hence the reason I have dated quite a few dancers... they talk to you so I'm already past that hurddle... then I'm fine and confident and we hit it off... sadly many of these relationships end up toxic). Soooooo.... (here is the question part finally) I was thinking that this whatsyourprice sight would be great (match.com etc is a disaster because its filled with women who think they are God's gift making kissy faces in every photo waiting for the perfect juicehead with 20 shirtless pictures to sweep her off her feet and get married and make more baby assholes). With whatsyourpirce, the money thing isn't an object so I figured it would get me some dates, get my confidence up and hopefully meet someone special... Are there women on there truly just looking for dates, to get to know some nice guys who are simply willing to spend some money to show they are serious to meet someone beautiful and nice? Or is it what it seems from what you ladies here are saying: all I'm going to get is escorts, sugerbaby wannabes and users and abusers. This stuff I really don't need believe me! Too much more of that and I'll just decide to ride it out and die single and lonely and live vicariously through my sons. I seriously can't take another Thanksgiving and Christmas where my exwife and her new husband feel so bad for me being alone they invite me over for dinner... want a self-esteem punch in the gut try that one.

roast
02-29-2012, 10:48 PM
Clumping 'users and abusers' in the same category as escorts is, well, unfortunate - and probably not a conversation worth having. But Ill say this - many of the guys on these sites are 'users and abusers' btw.

However, many (many) women truly want to date 'up' and attempt to use these sites for that purpose, while some men have no problem entertaining women with their income. Just look carefully and go on some dates before making this super-defeatist attitude your motto.

I was going to say try traditional dating but this read like a lot of just -- not dating for the right reasons at all, to say the least (worried abt being humiliated in front of your ex?). Look, if youre 35 with 2 kids and divorced - and youre only looking at 'kissyface' girls looking for other 20yr olds (match.com is full of women), youre not being realistic about what your appeal and market are. Consider paying for dates the equivalent of a license to just air out all of your baggage and as a license to date someone youre not actually compatible with & just grin and bear it.... or, ideally, try counseling as that is more emotionally sustainable.

Harsh? Yes, but what you wrote is a carbon copy of what I feel like (many) older divorced men regularly say, aka: my dating history is filled with crazy women, Im awesome but kind of a doormat, there are NO eligible women, no really Im pretty fantastic I just date terrible people over and over and over and over again, my exwife moved on and it is humiliating, why cant I find someone, why are all of the girls I want to date interested in dating hot young guys? Answer: youre not realistic about your appeal, youre possibly not over your exwife, and you keep making poor mating choices. Best bet is to figure out how to break the cycle of bad relationships, often that starts with you.

Failing that just scan profiles for signs the person is a SB or an escort. Last I checked there are options on WYP for 'relationship', just filter for that and dont look at profiles where the person is clear they want a BF.Simple.

sananeko
02-29-2012, 11:56 PM
Hi this is a quick question about whatsyourprice (with a long intro sorry)... I actually came across SW when running a yahoo search on "whatsyourprice reviews" so perhaps I have no business being here and apologize if I don't. Anyway, here is a quick rundown of my situation... 35 years old, 2 kids, divorced, I guess most would say very wealthy with bigger on the horizon, world traveler (been to Hong Kong, Thailand, Philippines, Tokyo on business this year alone... you should see last years passport action!), have a crazy sense of humor and love to laugh, intense with business but laid back in life, kind, caring, very generous (especially to my SO) but definitely overly sensitive sometimes, people say I'm good looking and I am involved on the outskirts of the fashion industry so I am very well kept, up on fashion and very fashionable due to my job (I like my swagger :-). Now all that seems like I am trying to portray myself as perfect... far from it. Married my high school sweetheart at 20, had two kids and then started to make money and act like a jackass cheater... luckily we have moved on and now have a great relationship again and I am even great friends with her new husband and step kids. Now since the divorce I have been unlucky in love to say the least... been used, abused, cheated on (guess karmas a bitch hugh) and pretty much treated like total crap for a long time now. Finally thought I found someone... I was engaged and in an 8 year relationship with (dancer when I met her (fitting for this site I guess haha) but hadn't danced in 6 1/2-7 years) we lived together for about the same amount of time 6 1/2-7 years. She always had substance abuse demons but kicked them before I met her and we were both very much in love. Last year she completly went off the rails... always enjoyed a drink or two too many IMHO (I'm not much of a drinker and don't smoke) but she turned into a complete and utter alcoholic. Went to rehab(S), tried to kick it but it was an epic fail... the more the drinking (worst of all she is a mean, angry drunk too), the worse she felt about herself (mind you looks and personality when not drunk she is undeniably a 10 so its very very sad)... then the cheating started... multiple times last year before a weekend lacrosse tournament out of town with my son was ruined by an accidental phone call to me that started as conversation and launched into sex on our brand new couch (which I loved and is no longer with us). Each guy had less going for him than the next and the couch guy lived in mom's basement and hadn't worked in 4 years plus was an arrogant asshole to boot... anyway I digress... this is all just the background to where I am: Single for a while now, very lonely in a very large house with my kids only half the week (thank God they live up the road so I can do sports pickups and visits and thank God for my two dogs) and ZERO, ZIP, NADA on the self-esteem scale :-( compound this with the fact that I have always been shy till I get going and aren't the type to go out and just meet women (quite frankly hence the reason I have dated quite a few dancers... they talk to you so I'm already past that hurddle... then I'm fine and confident and we hit it off... sadly many of these relationships end up toxic). Soooooo.... (here is the question part finally) I was thinking that this whatsyourprice sight would be great (match.com etc is a disaster because its filled with women who think they are God's gift making kissy faces in every photo waiting for the perfect juicehead with 20 shirtless pictures to sweep her off her feet and get married and make more baby assholes). With whatsyourpirce, the money thing isn't an object so I figured it would get me some dates, get my confidence up and hopefully meet someone special... Are there women on there truly just looking for dates, to get to know some nice guys who are simply willing to spend some money to show they are serious to meet someone beautiful and nice? Or is it what it seems from what you ladies here are saying: all I'm going to get is escorts, sugerbaby wannabes and users and abusers. This stuff I really don't need believe me! Too much more of that and I'll just decide to ride it out and die single and lonely and live vicariously through my sons. I seriously can't take another Thanksgiving and Christmas where my exwife and her new husband feel so bad for me being alone they invite me over for dinner... want a self-esteem punch in the gut try that one.

You just need to screen thru better. I'm not there for the money but I'm looking for something alot of people don't seem to understand or want someone to buy sex from. So if you do try, throw out the past and picture each women as something new and don't wrap the old around it. If you let the past run your search that your going to have history repeat itself over and over.

cherryblossomsinspring
03-07-2012, 03:01 AM
Hi this is a quick question about whatsyourprice (with a long intro sorry)... I actually came across SW when running a yahoo search on "whatsyourprice reviews" so perhaps I have no business being here and apologize if I don't. Anyway, here is a quick rundown of my situation... 35 years old, 2 kids, divorced, I guess most would say very wealthy with bigger on the horizon, world traveler (been to Hong Kong, Thailand, Philippines, Tokyo on business this year alone... you should see last years passport action!), have a crazy sense of humor and love to laugh, intense with business but laid back in life, kind, caring, very generous (especially to my SO) but definitely overly sensitive sometimes, people say I'm good looking and I am involved on the outskirts of the fashion industry so I am very well kept, up on fashion and very fashionable due to my job (I like my swagger :-). Now all that seems like I am trying to portray myself as perfect... far from it. Married my high school sweetheart at 20, had two kids and then started to make money and act like a jackass cheater... luckily we have moved on and now have a great relationship again and I am even great friends with her new husband and step kids. Now since the divorce I have been unlucky in love to say the least... been used, abused, cheated on (guess karmas a bitch hugh) and pretty much treated like total crap for a long time now. Finally thought I found someone... I was engaged and in an 8 year relationship with (dancer when I met her (fitting for this site I guess haha) but hadn't danced in 6 1/2-7 years) we lived together for about the same amount of time 6 1/2-7 years. She always had substance abuse demons but kicked them before I met her and we were both very much in love. Last year she completly went off the rails... always enjoyed a drink or two too many IMHO (I'm not much of a drinker and don't smoke) but she turned into a complete and utter alcoholic. Went to rehab(S), tried to kick it but it was an epic fail... the more the drinking (worst of all she is a mean, angry drunk too), the worse she felt about herself (mind you looks and personality when not drunk she is undeniably a 10 so its very very sad)... then the cheating started... multiple times last year before a weekend lacrosse tournament out of town with my son was ruined by an accidental phone call to me that started as conversation and launched into sex on our brand new couch (which I loved and is no longer with us). Each guy had less going for him than the next and the couch guy lived in mom's basement and hadn't worked in 4 years plus was an arrogant asshole to boot... anyway I digress... this is all just the background to where I am: Single for a while now, very lonely in a very large house with my kids only half the week (thank God they live up the road so I can do sports pickups and visits and thank God for my two dogs) and ZERO, ZIP, NADA on the self-esteem scale :-( compound this with the fact that I have always been shy till I get going and aren't the type to go out and just meet women (quite frankly hence the reason I have dated quite a few dancers... they talk to you so I'm already past that hurddle... then I'm fine and confident and we hit it off... sadly many of these relationships end up toxic). Soooooo.... (here is the question part finally) I was thinking that this whatsyourprice sight would be great (match.com etc is a disaster because its filled with women who think they are God's gift making kissy faces in every photo waiting for the perfect juicehead with 20 shirtless pictures to sweep her off her feet and get married and make more baby assholes). With whatsyourpirce, the money thing isn't an object so I figured it would get me some dates, get my confidence up and hopefully meet someone special... Are there women on there truly just looking for dates, to get to know some nice guys who are simply willing to spend some money to show they are serious to meet someone beautiful and nice? Or is it what it seems from what you ladies here are saying: all I'm going to get is escorts, sugerbaby wannabes and users and abusers. This stuff I really don't need believe me! Too much more of that and I'll just decide to ride it out and die single and lonely and live vicariously through my sons. I seriously can't take another Thanksgiving and Christmas where my exwife and her new husband feel so bad for me being alone they invite me over for dinner... want a self-esteem punch in the gut try that one.

Wow. That was more than I expected to read from a guy.

I kinda feel like you may need to take a break from dating all together. Think of it this way. If this is your first post about your history of dating ,marriage , divorce then you still have some gaping wounds that haven't heeled just yet. Actually after reading this your wounds are still actively bleeding.

Now you talked about match.com and I quote : (match.com etc is a disaster because its filled with women who think they are God's gift making kissy faces in every photo waiting for the perfect juicehead with 20 shirtless pictures to sweep her off her feet and get married and make more baby assholes). So the women think their god's gift? Or do they want a physical match for the work they put into keeping their own body in shape? Why does that make these women bad? Also they may not have children and want someone that doesn't have any either. Does this make them bad or does this make them want someone that's at a similar point in their life?

Now think about a woman that saw your picture , thought your profile was great and happened to read this comment here. Don't you think she would feel that you were harboring some anger and resentment that could otherwise be taken out on her at some point?
Based on your report you were cheated on last year. Most would feel that you're still not ready yet to embark on a new relationship because you're still rather wounded from the last one.

Moving into whatsyourprice question : Are there women on there truly just looking for dates, to get to know some nice guys who are simply willing to spend some money to show they are serious to meet someone beautiful and nice? Or is it what it seems from what you ladies here are saying: all I'm going to get is escorts, sugerbaby wannabes and users and abusers.

Now we as women here are talking about what some of these guys are after. Some are looking for cheap escorts and we don't know this until after they open communication. So the users and abusers are the men on the site. The site is to take a girl out on a date at the agreed upon price. Some guys are stiffing girls on the money. Trying to barter for sexual services that most of the women aren't into.

So rest assured that there are many women on the site looking to date a nice generous guy. It just seems harder for us to find that. Now sugar baby wannabes I haven't really heard of since any woman can be a sugar baby. Now on this site it's your chance to shine. So please don't bring up any of this past drama on your date. If you go out with someone make it about you and that person. Don't talk about your ex wife or someone cheating on you because you loose their respect instantly.

Also I want to add that even though you may feel bad about being invited to Christmas and Thanksgiving dinner by your ex-wife and her new husband, see it as that she really cares for you enough to want to still break bread with you. It's a selfless act to have someone in your past want to still maintain a kind hearted relationship with you in the future. Be grateful that you are still loved for being who you are even though it's not the specific way you'd want it to be.

wickvid
03-07-2012, 11:09 PM
Hi this is a quick question about whatsyourprice (with a long intro sorry)... I actually came across SW when running a yahoo search on "whatsyourprice reviews" so perhaps I have no business being here and apologize if I don't. Anyway, here is a quick rundown of my situation... 35 years old, 2 kids, divorced, I guess most would say very wealthy with bigger on the horizon, world traveler (been to Hong Kong, Thailand, Philippines, Tokyo on business this year alone... you should see last years passport action!), have a crazy sense of humor and love to laugh, intense with business but laid back in life, kind, caring, very generous (especially to my SO) but definitely overly sensitive sometimes, people say I'm good looking and I am involved on the outskirts of the fashion industry so I am very well kept, up on fashion and very fashionable due to my job (I like my swagger :-). Now all that seems like I am trying to portray myself as perfect... far from it. Married my high school sweetheart at 20, had two kids and then started to make money and act like a jackass cheater... luckily we have moved on and now have a great relationship again and I am even great friends with her new husband and step kids. Now since the divorce I have been unlucky in love to say the least... been used, abused, cheated on (guess karmas a bitch hugh) and pretty much treated like total crap for a long time now. Finally thought I found someone... I was engaged and in an 8 year relationship with (dancer when I met her (fitting for this site I guess haha) but hadn't danced in 6 1/2-7 years) we lived together for about the same amount of time 6 1/2-7 years. She always had substance abuse demons but kicked them before I met her and we were both very much in love. Last year she completly went off the rails... always enjoyed a drink or two too many IMHO (I'm not much of a drinker and don't smoke) but she turned into a complete and utter alcoholic. Went to rehab(S), tried to kick it but it was an epic fail... the more the drinking (worst of all she is a mean, angry drunk too), the worse she felt about herself (mind you looks and personality when not drunk she is undeniably a 10 so its very very sad)... then the cheating started... multiple times last year before a weekend lacrosse tournament out of town with my son was ruined by an accidental phone call to me that started as conversation and launched into sex on our brand new couch (which I loved and is no longer with us). Each guy had less going for him than the next and the couch guy lived in mom's basement and hadn't worked in 4 years plus was an arrogant asshole to boot... anyway I digress... this is all just the background to where I am: Single for a while now, very lonely in a very large house with my kids only half the week (thank God they live up the road so I can do sports pickups and visits and thank God for my two dogs) and ZERO, ZIP, NADA on the self-esteem scale :-( compound this with the fact that I have always been shy till I get going and aren't the type to go out and just meet women (quite frankly hence the reason I have dated quite a few dancers... they talk to you so I'm already past that hurddle... then I'm fine and confident and we hit it off... sadly many of these relationships end up toxic). Soooooo.... (here is the question part finally) I was thinking that this whatsyourprice sight would be great (match.com etc is a disaster because its filled with women who think they are God's gift making kissy faces in every photo waiting for the perfect juicehead with 20 shirtless pictures to sweep her off her feet and get married and make more baby assholes). With whatsyourpirce, the money thing isn't an object so I figured it would get me some dates, get my confidence up and hopefully meet someone special... Are there women on there truly just looking for dates, to get to know some nice guys who are simply willing to spend some money to show they are serious to meet someone beautiful and nice? Or is it what it seems from what you ladies here are saying: all I'm going to get is escorts, sugerbaby wannabes and users and abusers. This stuff I really don't need believe me! Too much more of that and I'll just decide to ride it out and die single and lonely and live vicariously through my sons. I seriously can't take another Thanksgiving and Christmas where my exwife and her new husband feel so bad for me being alone they invite me over for dinner... want a self-esteem punch in the gut try that one.

Hey man we are the same age...

Look you love to travel and so do I...it would be cool to kick it with someone who is not
broke or owes to much in child support to get a damn passport!

Currently I am in Colombia South America...Medellin...not sure if you ever been here but if
you haven't...you need to get with me and get down here. I am not sure where you are
from but I am from The Heart of it All...yes...an Ohio boy....so get with me on here or hit
me up on email: sms [at] slidesms.com and be ready to kick it hard!

P.S.

Cherry, I have not forgotten about you :) I am revamping WICKVID.COM with whole
new concept and range of features :) I will post on SW when it is ready...

xXMamiXx
09-14-2013, 03:31 AM
man's lack of follow up or gratitude for people taking time to read and reply, whatever the reason, saying it all looooool

karmynvegas
04-01-2014, 12:52 PM
Hey ladies just curious what should I write to attract dates or clients on whatsyourprice?,??

sweetmayte
06-09-2014, 01:37 PM
Ok so im confused what this site is actually about im soooo out of the loop lol. is it a site for escorts? are you having sex with your customers? Isn't that illegal? blah blah blah plz excuse my ignorance lol

erisACAB
06-11-2014, 09:06 PM
Anyone use this site recently? I'm making an account now and hoping for the best!

Tourdefranzia
06-12-2014, 11:32 AM
^^Not you,I was talking about the $500 girls. I'd be nervous if a man gave me that amount just for a "date". Obviously he's expecting something else.

Not necessarily. I sell $500 rooms all week long at the strip club. You better bring some serious game to the meeting, though. Be his fantasy date, lots of ego stroking and flirting. Show off your education or gift of intelligent conversation, and the $500 rate would be worth it to a certain kind of gentleman.

addytoi
06-21-2014, 12:14 PM
I was on the site and kept getting time wasters. I had some photos up that I also used to advertise with. I got an email from the site saying that my account was suspended and the site was not an escort site. The account wasn't tied to my work related email address so I can only assume they went off of the photos because I never even got as far as having a conversation with a guy on there. I must have deleted the email because I have been searching through my inbox and I can't find it now.