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sexandgrammar
04-12-2011, 02:18 PM
[I'm sincerely sorry for derailing this beautiful thread.

You ladies--TG included--are an inspiration to me every single day, and I couldn't see past my own pride in the moment.

I'm embarrassed and humbled, and I promise it won't happen again. In the meantime, I'll keep quiet for a while.]

AngelCummings
04-12-2011, 02:22 PM
um... group hug anyone?? ;D

if not, someone please notify me when this thread is back on track, thanks xoxo

TouringGirlfriend
04-12-2011, 02:37 PM
Deleted. Not worth it.

TouringGirlfriend
04-12-2011, 02:55 PM
Deleted. Not worth it.

MistyRose
04-12-2011, 03:08 PM
I never dreamed of becoming a camgirl. I, indeed, didn't always know you can do it for a living in the first place. I started doing it out of need for money that would come from a flexible job that has high earning potential for little money. Camming did fulfill my expectations and I'm making enough money to be able to live off and continue working on my MA. I'm studying something that's very applicable to a lot of industries and isn't limited by one, so if I decide to forever stay in the adult industry, I can correlate that and my degree or I can apply it to a bunch of other areas. Right now I enjoy camming. I'm sometimes lazy and procrastinate working, like with every job, but in general, I'm mostly having fun with it.

For one thing, I really enjoy getting to know what do these people really fantasize about...I find it exciting and fun to be the one who knows that the handsome, confident looking guy in a business suit actually has a burning desire to be put in a pink tutu, cuffed and fucked by a large strap on. I enjoy being able to provide just chatting to guys who are honestly not looking to get off in 10 mins, but want to spend an hour with someone talking about, idk, tea and comic books. There's something touching about knowing that there are really sweet guys out there who are apparently lonely enough that they're willing to shell out a sizeable amount of money just so someone with a pretty smile would talk to them (and yes, I have customers who repeatedly buy 30, 40 or 60 min shows and don't even want me to do anything sexual). Plus all the other perks included. I'm quite sure I'm not changing the world by what I'm currently doing and I don't think at this moment that I want to cam for the rest of my life, but I can understand how people can see it as a dream job.

I've seen many a show about sex therapists. I don't consider myself one, no, but I'm trying to say that just because a job is sex related, it doesn't make it irrelevant. I also don't think everyone can do something Earth shattering, or that everyone's definition of it is the same. Sure, it'd be nice if I left some mark, but fuck that thinking. Biggest marks left are those by people who gave the most love to everyone they could. Having a loving family, loving friends, loving strangers who will help you with something when you least expect it, is life changing. It makes life and world better. That's how I want to be relevant. Screw 30 years of promotions if I'll be a miserable person. Career itself can't make anyone any better of a person than they already are.

MistyRose
04-12-2011, 03:09 PM
I have nothing but love for you and wish you the very best even though I think you're very obnoxious.. no .. wait... a lot of people here think you are obnoxious.

You're exuding love, indeed. And if there's one person who thinks sexandgrammar is obnoxious, I'd bet there's 10 people on that one who adore her because she's an absolute doll.

TouringGirlfriend
04-12-2011, 03:14 PM
Deleted.

Ashly06
04-12-2011, 03:23 PM
Not sure what happened in the past,but thank God I'm a newbie :) I just want to say as much as I LOVE camming,its definetly not my dream job. Sure I like the money and attention,but its only helping me where I need to go. I'd like to start my own business...a toystore. Camming is helping me pay my bills and put food on the table. However I don't think that camming alone will help me reach my goal. By the end of the summer I plan on becoming a dancer. Hopefully between the two,I'll get to where I'm going. Giving myself three years to save up for the store. Once I start my business I'll stop camming,but more than likely continue dancing. If the store profits like I think it will,then I'll move into my dream house,buy my deam car,ect. I also keep thinking about how much I would like to own a hotel. Doesn't have to be built from the ground up,doesn't have to be that big either. Something like a small bed and breakfast. Or maybe a hotel,but with only two floors. It will have more of a homestyle touch to it as far as decor. Also it will be available at no charge whenever distant family comes into town. In my later years,I would like to be a teacher,english to be exact. Of course it wouldn't be for the money,but I LOVE english as much as I LOVE children. I plan on having two more one day(already have one)as well as a husband that will be dedicated,devoted proud and determined to keep all of us together and on the right track. So is camming my dream job? No,but it sure as hell is going to help me get to where I want/need to go ;)

bun
04-12-2011, 03:55 PM
Y'all suck. How's that for personal attacks?

I want you both gone so I don't have to think about how glorious you look while I read your incredibly intelligent posts.

I'm tired of being tempted away from heterosexuality. I'm tired of reading a variety of posts because I'd prefer we all have the same opinions.

I want you both to LEAVE NOW because you're both opinionated and glorious. Seriously. Go. Get on with it.

cyberstripper
04-12-2011, 06:59 PM
My dream is not to have a job, but to do something I enjoy but make money at it LOL! Id love to own a homestead in my future, farm my own food, etc. No rent to pay, minimal bills, and a home based non adult business! I do love the work from home lifestyle, and the freedom of camming, but camming is still work and work I deep down do not enjoy! I'd love to maybe own an online store/empire of various websites that have nothing to do with the adult industry and still be involved in ecommerce.

I believe camming is selling myself short, but it pays the bills for now! I am definately not reaching my full potential here, granted I have no problem making my financial goals, but I am not reaching my full potential. This saddens me at times but it is what it is for now. I just continue to look toward the future positively and save.

Smurfette
04-12-2011, 07:10 PM
Honestly my 'dream job' would be directing Academy award-winning films in Hollywood, so no, I'm not working my 'dream job'. But two years ago if you asked me, "Would you like to work a job where you can expect to make $30-$50 or more per hour, with little effort compared to most other jobs, work your own schedule & be your own boss?" I would have been totally amazed and I wouldn't have believed that such an opportunity existed. So in that respect, webcam is kind of a dream job. Because it's just so much damn better than 75% of other jobs out there.

I don't want to do it forever, though. My fiance & I plan on starting our own business at some point, likely buying a franchise. I also really want to become a nurse. I worked in health care before getting into webcam and I honestly love it. This is a possibility, but it`s not set in stone. Regardless, if my fiance gets a really good job where I don`t necessarily have to do webcam, I won`t. I`ll concentrate on raising my son & eventually going back to school at some point.

TouringGirlfriend
04-12-2011, 07:44 PM
Y'all suck. How's that for personal attacks?

I want you both gone so I don't have to think about how glorious you look while I read your incredibly intelligent posts.

I'm tired of being tempted away from heterosexuality. I'm tired of reading a variety of posts because I'd prefer we all have the same opinions.

I want you both to LEAVE NOW because you're both opinionated and glorious. Seriously. Go. Get on with it.

Yup. I got in my car and drove to the lake only to come home and have the concierge desk tell me I had a check from smate SOOOOOO I'm not so angry anymore. Yup I suck, my attitude sucks sometimes and I can even be a bitch when someone pushes me that far but I'm not going to let anyone put my "dream-job" down. To those that I offended, my apologies. Yall have a goodnight and *Hugs* bun.

ashiepants
04-12-2011, 08:35 PM
Its not my dream job, but I don't see anyone offering me a position as Iron Chef judge, so this is the next best thing. ;D

no seriously though, I make the living I want to make...I'd sort through trash to make this kind of money if I had to...I'm not so concerned about what I do for the eight hours a day I earn a living, I'm mostly concerned with making enough $$ to be able to enjoy the time outside of my workday. Work is work, any way that you look at it. Its not something I dreamed of doing when I was a little girl, but the money is definitely on par with what I dreamed of achieving, which is more than most people can say about their careers so I'll effin take it :)

lagirl
04-12-2011, 09:22 PM
A thread yesterday made me think about this question. A lot of you have said you want to cam forever, cam until you can't cam anymore..etc. I understand wanted to milk the industry until you can't anymore. I get that part but I got to thinking the other day. Do you have goals? dreams? outside of the adult industry or is the adult industry pretty much it for you? What are your long term goals? and when you get there would you still cam? I have always thought of camming and escorting as a crutch to get to where I want to be. I have said before that camming is not my dreamjob though I love it. My dreamjob is to run my own boutique and when I get there I would still escort here and there but not cam. With camming, we have our faces plastered everywhere but not with escorting and plus escorting is much more glamorous (to me). I am sure i have been copied and pasted, cut and cropped..etc as a camgirl but no need to give the sites more content of me. I understand a lot of people don't feel the same way...and that's ok.

It also came up yesterday that most camgirls don't save. Do you save? If not, why? If you do save, HOW do you save?

Disclaimer: Let's keep this one civil. This is not a flame thread

I don't think this is anyones dream job but some peoples dream is to simply be rich and the adult industry might be the easiest way to achieve that goal. I don't make 10k upward a month but if I did u better believe id be like "fuck my dream job". My dream job is probably not gonna make me a 6 figure income. Also I think some people don't have dream jobs. They work to survive. Everyone is different. Just like you think escorting is glam while mostt people would be horrified to do it. Right now I am stripping and pursuing my dream job. I strip because its the best paid job I can get at the moment. And I'm gonna keepdoing it till I find a better paying job that allows me to still have free time to purue other stuff
I do want to quit simpply because its not making me as much money as I should. Nw if I wa making 6 figures a year as a stripper I would probably want to do it for much longer

AngelCummings
04-12-2011, 09:36 PM
Its not my dream job, but I don't see anyone offering me a position as Iron Chef judge, so this is the next best thing. ;D

no seriously though, I make the living I want to make...I'd sort through trash to make this kind of money if I had to...I'm not so concerned about what I do for the eight hours a day I earn a living, I'm mostly concerned with making enough $$ to be able to enjoy the time outside of my workday. Work is work, any way that you look at it. Its not something I dreamed of doing when I was a little girl, but the money is definitely on par with what I dreamed of achieving, which is more than most people can say about their careers so I'll effin take it :)


i love iron chef! 8) actually, i like pretty much anything culinary related lol

ashiepants
04-12-2011, 10:15 PM
i love iron chef! 8) actually, i like pretty much anything culinary related lol

Sweet, me too! We should get together and cook up some yummies ;D

dixievista
04-12-2011, 11:50 PM
we seriously need meetups. SW is great short-term but I think we could all use some happy hour community love, amiright?

lagirl
04-13-2011, 02:21 AM
k not sure what went on in the deleted threads but i just wanted to maybe help clear up what sex and grammar might have been trying to say, and im the biggest prude ever, so dont think that im saying that i think making someone cum is making a huge difference in the world. i think what she was saying was that a lot of jobs dont really make much of a difference, and your dream job of opening up a store isnt really any less shallow and useless to the world than being a cam whore. yes you might think you are changing lives by helping people plan their dream wedding, but not everyone believes that marriage is a positive thing and a some people are actually against marriage in general or even just weddings and would find buying a wedding dress repulsive and materialistic. lets face it, opening a clothing store isnt going to change the world. very few jobs actually make a positive difference. trust me, ive felt guilt over not having a job that changes the world. my first job was a teleinterviewer and i couldnt stand it because i knew my job didnt make any positive change in the world..it was just collecting information for marketing purposes. i wasnt curing cancer or helping the homeless and that made me feel like my job was useless. but lets face it, most jobs are pretty useless when you think about it and so many jobs are there to provide recreation for other, not to change the world for the better. i still feel guilt about it. my dream job is providing recreation for other and i am kind of jealous of my friends who want to be things like doctors- who make a difference. but then i also know its dumb to take on a job just because you want to impress people. its not my passion to be a doctor so it would be stupid of me to pursue it just because i feel that jobs have to change the world. id rather be selfish and happy.

also some of us did in fact have dreams of being in the sex industry since we were little..though probably not camming simply because the internet wasnt mainstream when we were little. i had always wanted to become a stripper because it seemed lucrative and glamarous...and it was when i was little- i grew up in the 90s...1k a night was the norm apparently and it sucks that i missed out on that. i also wantedto be a playboy playmate. yes these are all selfish goals but believe it or not theyre a lot of girls dream jobs. hugh hefner actually came and talked to my class back when i was at uni and they showed a documentary of him where he mentioned how many girls dream of being playmates. i heard some girl behind me snicker at the thought that anyone would dream of being a playmate and she basically said that those girls are complete morons. at the time being a playmate was like 'the ultimate' for me. i realllllly wanted it. it mindboggled me why anyone WOULDNT want to be aplaymate. so one persons joke is another person's dream

CamWhore
04-13-2011, 05:10 AM
this is tricky for me, as I just started - only being able to work daytime hours means only about $250 a week right now

but I started this as a fast way to get back on my feet - I can't really go back to the job I was trained for (fashion has tanked really hard since I finished school, and since that 10 year plan didn't work out, I'm unwilling to work for someone else and give them that control over my future again)

I want to go to massage school - REAL therapeutic massage - that has lingered in the back of my head for years! Basically I have always wanted to work for myself, and that is the easiest, most enjoyable route for me - I love working with my hands, and I love variety, and massage therapy would give me all of that.

But I have a real entrepreneurial spirit, so now that I'm camming, I have a whole different set of goals that, if all goes well, I may never leave the adult industry! With all my design training, I can see myself doing many things: already partnered up as a design/tech/media partner in a studio, but I'd love to design apparel (I really miss lingerie design!), I love doing web/graphic design, really there are so many ways I can utilize skills I already have but in the adult industry (which really is fantastic, I love that you kind of HAVE to have a modern/liberal mindset to work in it, cuts out a lot of crap!).

I've never been able to save much money, mostly due to immaturity I suppose and the fact that I love partying, but being on unemployment really changed that for me - I plan to do pretty much what MissEgo is doing - save up enough money for at least 12 months of expenses (rent, bills, groceries, etc.) and once I have all of that, save up the $2K for massage school and start the basic classes during the day, and continue saving for all the add-on classes so I can get nationally certified, and all the certifications for aromatherapy, pregnancy massage, etc. It's a really fantastic field to be in if you have all the right training and if you don't do one of the $13K programs. And then once I have all of that, I'll continue camming and start building my massage business from the ground up - I have a whole business plan prepared, I just need to get the money to start it up.


Sooooooooooooooooo motivating ;D

CamWhore
04-13-2011, 05:31 AM
I can care less if my job is "important" to other people. Just cut the damn check.

When i go to the bank, society is not my bank teller.

I am the " richest" ( lol ) 25 yr old on my block! No one knows what i do, except those close to me, but if somebody wanted to act as if they where better, I guess I could smack them around with a few bank statements right?

http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lf3e9i6Eah1qzgnx9o1_500.gif

Didn't they say MONEY is power? OKAY THEN, fuck society, cause society is struggling pay check to pay check, and are mad at sex workers because we get a lot for a little. #haters.

LOL

When I die, they dont have to say what i did... just say " Here lies a stone cold HUSTLER ..."


In the mean time .... "I'm busy fuckin' the world and givin' the universe my damn tongue" - Lil Wayne

h0ttie
04-13-2011, 05:33 AM
hahahaha omg camwhore i just fell in luv with u ;D

TouringGirlfriend
04-13-2011, 05:46 AM
Camwhore, TFF!!!

wildthyme
04-13-2011, 06:01 AM
No, it's not my dream job. I had my dream job but now it's part time and in a couple of years, I won't be able to do it any more because of my illness. I dominate on cam to pay for private MRI scans and my prescriptions so I can save for a fuck off fabulous mobility scooter ;D Oh and get the best adaptations needed around the house.

dixievista
04-13-2011, 10:13 AM
@Camwhore

Fuck 'em!! fuck 'em all!!!

My parents may wish I'd done business school like everybody else, but I'd rather be rich making people cum than by being a doctor in a broken system that just makes money for doctors;

I'd rather be rich making people feel hot and horny than by being a financial exec in a company that pays the very few women they hire very little money and takes advantage of all the little people.

I'd rather be rich and fulfilled but scorned by my community than by being a person with no idea what it's like to be on the other side, to be looked down upon.

This job is about so much more than making people cum; it's a real world experience, unlike most people ever see. Most of us have seen every income level, from poverty on up, and have a more valid view of the world because of that exposure. I'd rather be devalued by society but have a realistic view of the world than be praised by my peers and be blinded. I've been on that side, and it was like being brainwashed; never again.

lilmisssunshine
04-13-2011, 11:44 AM
I <3 Camwhore

DottieMay
04-13-2011, 12:08 PM
I actually always wanted to be a stripper ever since I figured out what a stipper was. But I have no rhythm lol so I opted for an easier way (for me) to make money. I don't care who else knows what I do because I don't ever intend on working for someone who would care. I only want to do my own thing whatever that may be. Most of the people in my life know I'm a good person, just a little crazy and I don't think that if anyone found out they would care and if they did, they aren't my friend anyway.

GlitteryGoddess
04-13-2011, 12:10 PM
I always wanted to be a pin-up and this is my version of that... nothing really compares to the exhilaration I feel when I cam!

Spinnerette
04-15-2011, 10:17 PM
All I want to be remembered for is being happy and doing what I love. I enjoy what I do and it puts a smile on my face. I'd do it for free, but luckily it pays. :D I want 5 more professions in addition to this (going back to being a writer, for one), but what it boils down to is that I'm an entertainer. Important? Imo, yes. Happy people begets happy people. I know when my dude is sexually satiated, he suddenly becomes an optimist and good things at work start to happen instead of the endless barrage of "fuck, what am I going to do?" that seems too common nowadays. I know the same things works for me along with a good book or a nice evening out. "sex worker" isn't as prestigious as "national bestselling author", no, but when I think about who says that has to be so, I give less of a fuck. Content of character versus professions, ya know? If people don't remember me as a passionate, humorous, loving, HAPPY human being, then those people must not have been that close to me and therefore what they have to say about me is irrelevant.

So short answer, yes. Yes, this is my dream job.

judyQ
04-17-2011, 08:37 PM
Dream Job, NO WAY, Thankful that I got it, HELL YA,

Except for the dang monthly bladder infection/yeast infection, stupid ass boys, (some very funny)...

Other than that, heck, beats McDonalds, and unemployment line!
J

BlkSharpie
04-17-2011, 09:55 PM
I dont have a dream job per se... Id love to marry rich and spend the rest of my life making dirty/erotic ceramic :D

When I was a little girl, I told people I wanted to be a fireman cause all the other girls wanted to be nurses and teachers, and I just picked something off the wall to be different and for the reaction.

As a teen, I decided I wanted to be an accountant, cause it is such a boring job and brings visions of an old guy with a comb-over, but I wanted to be a sexy accountant so that people would look at me and say youre an accountant?!! Thats hot!

When I graduated high school, I thought about dancing, but I wasnt exactly graceful and got teased for being a horrible dancer. Really wish I had gone for it...as it turns out, I was at the tail end of my lanky awkward stage and I actually am a very good dancer! But definitely not something for me to get started into now that Im in my 30's...:-[:-[

Ive been in the adult industry in one way or another for 10 years now, and to be honest...I see myself doing something industry related for as long as I can, up til when Im behind the scenes. Theres something about the industry that draws me in so hard and I miss it so much when I take a break and focus on something else. I had no idea back when I first started that it would turn into this for me. Even my ex-bf who pretty openly has a thing for strippers and escorts (Im his first, only cam girl..awe! lol) said he can tell I actually enjoy what I do and even though he thinks theres so much more out there I could be doing, he admires that Ive found a niche in the world that I really am happy to be in, cause people can go their whole lives without finding that.

Its really encouraging too what I heard about those who are escorts burning out from cam. As much as I really do love cam, I burn out big time which always has led to me taking breaks lasting from days to weeks to months...and even like right now its been a year, which hurts me financially but burn out is a bitch so Im looking forward to seeing how the path as an escort takes me.

But yeah, Ill probably always be around the industry in some form or another ;D

BlkSharpie
04-17-2011, 10:04 PM
Oooh and yes, like Judy says, Im very happy that I have this!! When money is tight, you can bet I will get on cam, and just like now going into escorting. I have such a hard time not getting heated and go on a rant when I hear someone (usually a woman) going off on how the porn industry is so degrading and demeaning... but then its "ok" if in a bind, to ask guys for money or sweet up to a guy to take care of thier rent and bills.

To me *that* is demeaning...Id rather work and earn what I need than have some guy see my name on caller ID and go...oooh, okay yeah rent is due lets see how much she needs now. No way!

I think Im very fortunate to a) have something like this available to me an b) that Im willing to take advantage of it. Even when I venture out and do anything else, its a great feeling to know that this is always here for me to fall back on. I really feel like I will never be job-less as long as Im able to work in the industry somehow...Hows that for job security? :D

MissEgo
04-17-2011, 11:18 PM
You know, it's funny.

After all the shit I've dealt with lately, and all the things I've been through in this job, you'd think I'd hate it and run screaming to get as far away from my webcam as possible.

And yet, I just did that b complex / red bull concoction and am ready to work for another three days straight, it feels like.

I love this job. Love it.

Even though we deal with so much abuse and bull shit, I wouldn't trade it for anything. Well, okay, maybe if I could be a princess or a trophy wife. But other than that, nothing.

lilmisssunshine
04-18-2011, 12:40 AM
^^^Yea I vote for princess or trophy wife.

A girl can dream can't she?

TouringGirlfriend
04-18-2011, 12:46 AM
And yet, I just did that b complex / red bull concoction and am ready to work for another three days straight, it feels like.

I love this job. Love it.

L m b o! Girl isn't it amazing! I have no problem spending $20 for a Red Bull 12 pack now. As you can see I'm still up and it's almost 4am. I can't sleep and I don't feel like a zombie either! It's so kick ass!

MissEgo
04-18-2011, 01:49 AM
L m b o! Girl isn't it amazing! I have no problem spending $20 for a Red Bull 12 pack now. As you can still I'm still up and it's almost 4am. I can't sleep and I don't feel like a zombie either! It's so kick ass!

ooomg yeah. I took it over 4 hours ago. And I've been super productive since then. lol! This is so kick ass.

leyla2
04-18-2011, 01:56 AM
what particular type of B complex do u ladies take?
I think I have some
& I have red bull too
hmm...

MissEgo
04-18-2011, 01:58 AM
Mine says Jamieson B100Complex Super Potency Formula.

Smurfette
04-18-2011, 10:05 AM
I'm gonna have to try that for sure! I hate the taste of Red Bull though, blech.

prettygreeneyes
04-18-2011, 02:08 PM
I am in school for web design right now. School limits my camming income because I can't work a ton of hours, but my semester is over in 2 weeks, and I'm gonna cam my little booty off this summer to save lots of cash :D
After I get my web design degree, I want to get my bachelor's in marketing, and do internet marketing/web design. I will probably work for a company for a few years to get experience, then start my own business.
Originally I just wanted to do web design, but camming has made me really interested in internet marketing, and I realized that it would be a perfect job for me.
I'd love to design websites and do marketing for escorts, cam girls, and porn stars. I don't think I'll always be in the adult industry as a performer, but I'd like to still be involved with it in some way.

MissEgo
04-18-2011, 05:40 PM
I'm gonna have to try that for sure! I hate the taste of Red Bull though, blech.

I was up for five hours after I took it. I'm NEVER up until 3am.
I slept for two hours, jumped out of bed, and felt like I had had the absolute best sleep in the world.

Granted, I am pretty sensitive to caffeine. But hoooooly shit. Try it.

Smurfette
04-18-2011, 05:59 PM
I was up for five hours after I took it. I'm NEVER up until 3am.
I slept for two hours, jumped out of bed, and felt like I had had the absolute best sleep in the world.

Granted, I am pretty sensitive to caffeine. But hoooooly shit. Try it.

You've convinced me. Those two items are going on my next grocery list. :P

I'm such a wimp, I can't work past 9PM without feeling groggy and unmotivated. I just wanna go lay down and watch tv at that point.

AngelCummings
04-18-2011, 06:13 PM
I can care less if my job is "important" to other people. Just cut the damn check.

When i go to the bank, society is not my bank teller.

I am the " richest" ( lol ) 25 yr old on my block! No one knows what i do, except those close to me, but if somebody wanted to act as if they where better, I guess I could smack them around with a few bank statements right?

http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lf3e9i6Eah1qzgnx9o1_500.gif

Didn't they say MONEY is power? OKAY THEN, fuck society, cause society is struggling pay check to pay check, and are mad at sex workers because we get a lot for a little. #haters.

LOL

When I die, they dont have to say what i did... just say " Here lies a stone cold HUSTLER ..."


In the mean time .... "I'm busy fuckin' the world and givin' the universe my damn tongue" - Lil Wayne



lol! Camwhore i saw this and it reminded me of you! http://mob1121.photobucket.com/albums/l518/broitsashley/161cgti.gif?t=1296171515

dixievista
04-18-2011, 09:10 PM
@angelcummings

omg yes!!! I thought of that too but couldn't remember where I had seen that!!!!! lmfao I love you girls :)