View Full Version : Escorting: to see or not to see African American males
BlkSharpie
08-18-2011, 02:24 AM
Good to ho...LoL! I dont know if that was a typo cause the g and h are right next to each other, but I love it :D
For some its not a looks thing, but a preference thing. Just like some prefer not to see a guy who is morbidly obese, or someone who is under a certain age, or disabled (on my mind since I just had a date with a guy who is disabled, which went awesome btw!) or any other number of things.
It may be a history thing...after having many bad experiences with one type of guy, they just choose to lower their odds of those bad experiences and not see that particular type of guy anymore...yes they may well and likely are missing out on some great guys, but at the same time, they may feel the risk based on past experience isnt worth it. Or they just cant get into a mode and even act like they want to be around the guy or bring themselves to be comfortable with him.
All are I think valid reasons to not see a guy based on certain criteria...the whole point here is to provide pleasure, and if one goes into meeting a guy knowing they arent going to be at their best with him, then hes going to sense that vibe and its not going to be a great date. Better that he see someone who wholeheartedly is willing and able and wants to see him, than someone who just wants to get it over with.
crystalize
08-18-2011, 05:07 PM
the only reason why i wouldn't wanna see them is the likelihood of them having enormous (too enormous) packages is a lot higher than with any other race and that's my biggest fear lol
BlkSharpie
08-19-2011, 05:38 AM
the only reason why i wouldn't wanna see them is the likelihood of them having enormous (too enormous) packages is a lot higher than with any other race and that's my biggest fear lol
Ive said it before, and Ill always say it...its such a myth :D
The smallest sized guys Ive ever been with were black.
crystalize
08-19-2011, 12:47 PM
Ive said it before, and Ill always say it...its such a myth :D
The smallest sized guys Ive ever been with were black.
me too... BUT also the biggest sized guys.. actually the biggest one was a cuban guy.
camille27
08-19-2011, 04:26 PM
i read a thread on another site that was about this issue but i don't want to link it, because it's so negative.
but really, i just came in to lmao at someone suggesting bgclive.
BlkSharpie
08-19-2011, 05:01 PM
me too... BUT also the biggest sized guys.. actually the biggest one was a cuban guy.
Im with you on this...my FWB is Cuban...Thankfully, he knows how to handle his size.
I still remember the first time he pulled it out, I literally said "You want to put that *WHERE?!" :D
That was 6 years ago...we're still cracking each other up and having fun :)
DanceMami
08-19-2011, 05:31 PM
Every black men ive ever slept with was big. The AA im seeing in my personal life is GIGANTIC. I almost feel like i should pay him! Ooooowww!
Anyways, ive never met a small dick AA.
HerRoyalHotness
08-20-2011, 12:22 AM
I didnt take the time to read the whole thread, but after reading a few...i was ledt speechless!
How does an escort turn down money based on looks? Hell, i saw a (very nice,sweet,caring,professional) man more than once who was over wait, had a hard time catching his breath, had an ittybitty tiny penis, and took FOREVER to get off. BUT i made my money. I would have LOVED to see a black man instead. But bottom line is i made my money.
If u gor bills to pay.... Do what ya gotta do.
I have never had a problem with any of my black clients. They actually didnt gross me out and they paid with no problems.
I only date black men and i will admit....there are some bad apples. But if u screen well, u should be good to ho.
LMFAO!
Is this some sort of joke? Are you serious? How does an escort turn down a client based on looks? It's very fucking simple. Believe it or not it is very easy to do when you are NOT desperate for cash and can afford to. I have certain rules : I will NOT see an morbidly obese client / a disabled guy or an african american guy.It is not because they are big down their either. It is a personal preference like another poster pointed out. You are used to fucking big dicks and prefer big dick guys - a lot of ladies do not want that. They want to stay as tight as they can so when they leave the business they will still have a cervix. Trust me if you think that all the ladies in this business are willing to do anything and everything for money they you're in for a rude awakening. We're not all that desperate. A lot of us have greate reputations in our area and make good money without doing everything under the sun. Ugh Seriously nuff said.
I feel sorry for anyone who takes the "Just do it! That is MONEY" advice.
CamWhore
08-22-2011, 04:49 AM
This thread is.... Rascist & stereotypical.
HerRoyalHotness
08-22-2011, 08:36 AM
This thread is.... Rascist & stereotypical.
No it is not. That is how things are in the wonderful world of escorting. Each woman IS her own business and makes the rules as she sees fit. There is no union and there such is no racist police to tell you what's racist and what's not. I like that as independent we can pretty much do whatever we want. We're above the law --- until we get busted that is. :)
miss.adventure
08-22-2011, 01:33 PM
This thread is.... Rascist & stereotypical.
I didn't read the entire thread, because I thought the same. However, I did contribute, which would have fallen in the "stereotyping" catagory.
You brought to my attention what I did, I'm not like that (try not to be anyway) and I deleted my post. Thank you for making me a better person today :)
Nsa1nightstands
01-30-2012, 10:48 PM
I have an article about this on my blog/classifieds site, because this is an interesting topic. I was reading some more on this and there were some brothas who were really upset that some escorts didnt see black men. Like they wanted to start a civil rights movement for something that is border line illegal. They need to just suck it up and go get married or something because its not that serious bro. heres the link to my article
mikef
01-31-2012, 07:00 AM
It would be interesting if prostitution was legal..... Would this constitute a violation of someones civil rights? is it in Nevada?
Nsa1nightstands
01-31-2012, 09:19 AM
Well lets hope some dudes dont get the bright idea to try and protest in Nevada.
It would be interesting if prostitution was legal..... Would this constitute a violation of someones civil rights? is it in Nevada?
Tattoo Queen
02-01-2012, 04:29 PM
I didnt take the time to read the whole thread, but after reading a few...i was ledt speechless!
How does an escort turn down money based on looks? Hell, i saw a (very nice,sweet,caring,professional) man more than once who was over wait, had a hard time catching his breath, had an ittybitty tiny penis, and took FOREVER to get off. BUT i made my money. I would have LOVED to see a black man instead. But bottom line is i made my money.
If u gor bills to pay.... Do what ya gotta do.
I have never had a problem with any of my black clients. They actually didnt gross me out and they paid with no problems.
I only date black men and i will admit....there are some bad apples. But if u screen well, u should be good to ho.
I totally feel you on this babe! I only date black men to and you're right. Some bad apples but every race has them. I'd never turn down anybody escorting unless my life was threatend or something very strange about the situation OR if they just were unable to perform well enough for me to get the job done.
I put in one of my ads that I will see any race and I've never had a decrease in clients. In fact one time I had an old guy actually pay me to have sex with a black guy in front of him! Just some weird fetish he had of wanting to see a white woman fucked by a black man.
I'm sure some guys are turned off that the escort they are seeing has been with a black man but I gotta ask, are you surprised?? I mean we are in the year 2012 now and it's so common compared to 20-30 years ago. Pretty soon we'll all be one race. Unless your a rich guy going for the top of the line escorts you probably shouldn't be THAT picky!
slowpoke
02-01-2012, 06:45 PM
What difference does it make? Pick your clientele according to your criteria, whatever they might be.
goddesskali
02-09-2012, 08:22 AM
My issue with the whole "white clients wont see ladies who see xyz clients" thing is this: an escort shouldn't be discussing her clients with other clients. EVER!
As for the black clients themselves they just need to get over it. There are so many escorts out there who will see anyone regardless of race.
The escorts who are scared of the pimps and "gangstas"- client screening goes a long way. If a man is rude on the phone he is going to be worse in person. If he sounds like a Lil Wayne wannabe over the phone - don't see him! The lack of common sense in this industry is astounding.
I've NEVER had an issue with my black clients...or for that matter my Indian clients (who also get a bad rap) because I screen, screen, screen! Then again, I charge enough to weed out the losers of any race.
Wait, I just realized this thread is over a year old. Why was this dug up?
CurvySweet
02-09-2012, 01:24 PM
When it comes down to it. Do whats best for you. And only you.
Dddallas
02-10-2012, 02:03 PM
And come to think of it, when I danced I used to know girls who wouldn't even DANCE for black men.
wtf? that's me. It's not that I won't dance for them it's that I won't talk to them. If a black guy waived money n said let's do a dance of course I would. But in my mind not only can I not stand talking to most of them in the club they never have money and if they do they are chap with it. Never worth it. On the other hand when lil Wayne came to my club I was his main girl and we had fun/ I made money
Dddallas
02-10-2012, 02:09 PM
This thread is.... Rascist & stereotypical.
How about you go look up the rates of stds/HIV in blacks and then let's see how much you want to FUCK THEM for money. Being a cam girl is nice because you have a computer for a barrier. In the real world we aren't as protected. The small amount of money they bring is not worth the higher risk. you guys can debate all you want but rate of risk comes down to numbers and they aren't in aa/blacks favor.
Nsa1nightstands
02-10-2012, 03:27 PM
hxxp://movies.netflix.com/ WiMovie/House_of_Numbers/ 70125403?trkid=2361637
False positives are more the case when it comes to those numbers. damn near any symptom can trigger a false positive. There are plenty of cases when the person walks into a doctors office one month/year they are H.I.V. positive then the next time they walk in doctors office they are H.I.V. negative, or they go to different doctors, and get totally different results.
point being its a numbers game.
How about you go look up the rates of stds/HIV in blacks and then let's see how much you want to FUCK THEM for money. Being a cam girl is nice because you have a computer for a barrier. In the real world we aren't as protected. The small amount of money they bring is not worth the higher risk. you guys can debate all you want but rate of risk comes down to numbers and they aren't in aa/blacks favor.
cherryblossomsinspring
02-10-2012, 03:33 PM
My issue with the whole "white clients wont see ladies who see xyz clients" thing is this: an escort shouldn't be discussing her clients with other clients. EVER!
As for the black clients themselves they just need to get over it. There are so many escorts out there who will see anyone regardless of race.
The escorts who are scared of the pimps and "gangstas"- client screening goes a long way. If a man is rude on the phone he is going to be worse in person. If he sounds like a Lil Wayne wannabe over the phone - don't see him! The lack of common sense in this industry is astounding.
I've NEVER had an issue with my black clients...or for that matter my Indian clients (who also get a bad rap) because I screen, screen, screen! Then again, I charge enough to weed out the losers of any race.
Wait, I just realized this thread is over a year old. Why was this dug up?
Because the NSA1n stds want's to promote their site. With links to and from SW. He/she is obviously trying to get his/her name out there. No different really from people putting sites in their signature. It's free advertising.
Nsa1nightstands
02-10-2012, 04:00 PM
I think I contribute to the topic at hand. On this thread and every other thread I have posted on, Im not spamming to the point its annoying. I get hits on my site about this topic at least 5 times a day! so people do want to know about this.
Because the NSA1n stds want's to promote their site. With links to and from SW. He/she is obviously trying to get his/her name out there. No different really from people putting sites in their signature. It's free advertising.
cherryblossomsinspring
02-10-2012, 08:54 PM
I think I contribute to the topic at hand. On this thread and every other thread I have posted on, Im not spamming to the point its annoying. I get hits on my site about this topic at least 5 times a day! so people do want to know about this.
I wasn't worried or even complaining about you overly spamming. I was just answering the question. I'm also well aware that guys will go to your site to ask. I expected to see the protest or civil rights movement as you said it but when I got over there all I saw was 1 single comment. If your site gets hit for this topic 5 times a day then that's saying that's it's really not that much of a loss to the providers that refuse services to AA men. Their body their choice.
Again I have no issues with you posting wherever you decide to.
unbeleavable
02-10-2012, 09:14 PM
NSA..to think that you are arguing rights to a escorts is LOL...I have posted how I feel about said topic but because YOU are making a deal of it makes me want to watch.
Nsa1nightstands
02-10-2012, 09:21 PM
Believe me the last thing I want is some stupid protest about wanting someone to sleep with you. That is just ridiculous I was on other forums and it seemed like a big deal amongst other hobbyist that are black. Me personally I don't care who or what a female lets slide up in her it doesn't hurt me not 1 bit, If you read my post on my blog it was more of a comical thing. I didn't even know there were other websites that wrote about the topic, until I searched for it.
I wasn't worried or even complaining about you overly spamming. I was just answering the question. I'm also well aware that guys will go to your site to ask. I expected to see the protest or civil rights movement as you said it but when I got over there all I saw was 1 single comment. If your site gets hit for this topic 5 times a day then that's saying that's it's really not that much of a loss to the providers that refuse services to AA men. Their body their choice.
Again I have no issues with you posting wherever you decide to.
unbeleavable
02-10-2012, 09:29 PM
I read your blog..like I told you & comical..&
Nsa1nightstands
02-10-2012, 09:42 PM
LOL, Naw man Im not "arguing rights to escorts" I'm not here to sway them to act differently towards AA's where did you get that i was "arguing rights" thats insane. it is really not that serious
NSA..to think that you are arguing rights to a escorts is LOL...I have posted how I feel about said topic but because YOU are making a deal of it makes me want to watch.
unbeleavable
02-10-2012, 10:01 PM
Because of the advertising...But its all good..:)
Dddallas
02-10-2012, 10:28 PM
hxxp://movies.netflix.com/ WiMovie/House_of_Numbers/ 70125403?trkid=2361637 (tel:2361637)
False positives are more the case when it comes to those numbers. damn near any symptom can trigger a false positive. There are plenty of cases when the person walks into a doctors office one month/year they are H.I.V. positive then the next time they walk in doctors office they are H.I.V. negative, or they go to different doctors, and get totally different results.
point being its a numbers game. even if that was as true as you're making it out to be it would to tip the numbers like that. I assume you've never worked in the medical field
Lovelyme
02-11-2012, 05:50 AM
NSA whatever your name is. If you think "upscale providers", would want anything to do with your site - you're kidding yourself. I just looked over your website and it's a big joke. I don't think there's reason to say much more. GOod luck!
Nsa1nightstands
02-11-2012, 07:24 AM
Naw, I never worked in a medical field, but that is no excuse for not knowing what is going on around you.
even if that was as true as you're making it out to be it would to tip the numbers like that. I assume you've never worked in the medical field
dixievista
02-14-2012, 02:58 PM
lol I missed the drama! I wanna see NSA's site now just for kicks lol!
this thread is so old I read it a year ago before I started escorting, lol!! It is sad lots of girls won't see nonwhite dudes, but that's fine more money for me!!!!!!!!!!
themorningsun
03-20-2012, 08:27 PM
I totally feel you on this babe! I only date black men to and you're right. Some bad apples but every race has them. I'd never turn down anybody escorting unless my life was threatend or something very strange about the situation OR if they just were unable to perform well enough for me to get the job done.
I put in one of my ads that I will see any race and I've never had a decrease in clients. In fact one time I had an old guy actually pay me to have sex with a black guy in front of him! Just some weird fetish he had of wanting to see a white woman fucked by a black man.
I'm sure some guys are turned off that the escort they are seeing has been with a black man but I gotta ask, are you surprised?? I mean we are in the year 2012 now and it's so common compared to 20-30 years ago. Pretty soon we'll all be one race. Unless your a rich guy going for the top of the line escorts you probably shouldn't be THAT picky!
what i don't understand is since the size is a myth, why not go for an asian guy rather than a black guy? asians have better morals they more upper class work harder have better work ethics and are better lovers, they're smarter and your babies look cuter, and better future opportunities. i have nothing against black guys, but they aren't really better than asian guys, i don't see why we hardly see many with white or mexican women..my theory is that they don't ask white girls out much but i think they should really try to.
littlemissbliss
03-20-2012, 08:49 PM
I'm Caucasian, w/a Mediterranean background - Asian men are very attracted to my look, and I definitely am open to dating them, even more so as I get older and I realize how much nicer they are than many of the white men I've been with. I also have many Asian friends in general, and they tell me Asian men often are afraid to ask white women out because of the stereotype of Asian men as being nerdy - and that is true to some degree. But I've found that with many Asian guys, once they relax a bit and that nerdy facade passes, they are quite interesting and funny. And in Asian culture, it's considered polite to always brings gifts - all the Asian men I've been with have been so courtly and sweet - they bring flowers to dates, or chocolates, encourage me to order anything I want for dinner.
BlkSharpie
03-20-2012, 09:19 PM
Are we still talking about escorting..or personal life dating?
A lot of these views on a guys morals and how he lives his life really doesnt have much to do with the business of escorting. I actually prefer it if the guy I see is nothing like what I would want in my personal life. Keeps the divide firmly in place....no matter how great a time Im having with a guy, I dont make it personal to the point that my preferences have anything to do with him.
themorningsun
03-20-2012, 10:43 PM
I'm Caucasian, w/a Mediterranean background - Asian men are very attracted to my look, and I definitely am open to dating them, even more so as I get older and I realize how much nicer they are than many of the white men I've been with. I also have many Asian friends in general, and they tell me Asian men often are afraid to ask white women out because of the stereotype of Asian men as being nerdy - and that is true to some degree. But I've found that with many Asian guys, once they relax a bit and that nerdy facade passes, they are quite interesting and funny. And in Asian culture, it's considered polite to always brings gifts - all the Asian men I've been with have been so courtly and sweet - they bring flowers to dates, or chocolates, encourage me to order anything I want for dinner.
exactly! its like at a young age everyone is brainwashed by these movies and magazines that advertise white guys as being the heroes and romantic ones..that is so bull crap. white guys are shit compared to asian guys. seriously. in reality is actually the asian guys who are one of the most loyal and romantic. thought cultually they are on the more conservative side, but like you said once that facade goes away its fun from there. i think a lot of them let all the media crap get in their heads which make them a little more hesistant than usual to ask white girls out, i can't blame them its not easy in a media driven society..i use to be there mentally myself but then i realize it was just all in my head (being an asian american guy..and a stud at that), like at some point i've realized guys have to look have to drop that and let that go and go for them, at this point ever since i went for white girls, i have totally fallen in love with them, i know im going to marry one one day. it seems most asian guys are still into asian girls as the norm, but i wish there was a way i can tell my asian guy friends to try something different like a latina or caucasian girl, open them up a little, for me its been way more fun and exciting, and the sex is wow the best, and i'm sure white girls feel the same way the sex is great. id definitely recommend it, and yea thats funny that you mentioned the flowers, i brought flowers to this italian girl i was seeing on our first date, we went to olive garden,haha.. so i guess thats true. ;)
cherryblossomsinspring
03-23-2012, 09:16 AM
exactly! its like at a young age everyone is brainwashed by these movies and magazines that advertise white guys as being the heroes and romantic ones..that is so bull crap. white guys are shit compared to asian guys. seriously. in reality is actually the asian guys who are one of the most loyal and romantic. thought cultually they are on the more conservative side, but like you said once that facade goes away its fun from there. i think a lot of them let all the media crap get in their heads which make them a little more hesistant than usual to ask white girls out, i can't blame them its not easy in a media driven society..i use to be there mentally myself but then i realize it was just all in my head (being an asian american guy..and a stud at that), like at some point i've realized guys have to look have to drop that and let that go and go for them, at this point ever since i went for white girls, i have totally fallen in love with them, i know im going to marry one one day. it seems most asian guys are still into asian girls as the norm, but i wish there was a way i can tell my asian guy friends to try something different like a latina or caucasian girl, open them up a little, for me its been way more fun and exciting, and the sex is wow the best, and i'm sure white girls feel the same way the sex is great. id definitely recommend it, and yea thats funny that you mentioned the flowers, i brought flowers to this italian girl i was seeing on our first date, we went to olive garden,haha.. so i guess thats true. ;)
You do know that the same "brainwashing" you're complaining about goes both ways in the opposite. Your interest in white women may also have to do with brainwashing as white women typically take leading roles in American Films. Now I don't know where you're from but white men dating Asian women is the norm now. Now since this post was specific to escorts I would think that Asian men make perfect customers. Based on data that suggests that out of all other men, they are noted for having the smallest penises , then yes an escort would enjoy working with numerous Asian men. It would make sure that she could take on many customers without being put out of work for having sex with someone that was well endowed.
Now it's lovely that you want to marry a white woman but that's the same way many Asian women feel too. Women typically are attracted to men that appear to be the financially dominant in a specific location. Plus add that many women hold to some of the specific traditional roles of cleaning, cooking etc white men have enjoyed an Asian woman's inherent and learned femininity when it comes to those traditional values.
Ohh and just in case you weren't aware, most of the male posters here happen to be white. You may want to clean up your comment. :O