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That"MODEL"Chick
04-19-2011, 01:50 PM
^^I know right I don't really want to get banned as I LOVE this forum. So if he isn't going to GTFO...guess I'll leave!!
mzdeniro
04-19-2011, 01:51 PM
Yes, but it typically takes a few loose screws before someone interprets a simple hello as a creep trying to mess with her/his head.
Well I guess everyone who disagrees with you on this thread has a couple of screws loose then. You've total missed the point of this thread.
It wasn't the saying hello that was creepy. It was the fact that your on SW, went to her chatroom to say hello, she banned you, you then sent her a message on SW and now your debating your action to no end in her thread.
Yea I'm done with this thread as well.... some ppl just don't have a clue smh.
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 01:53 PM
Oh fuck you. This is such typical blame the victim bullshit.
Dude, get a clue. She doesn't want anything to do with you. But your poor little ego just can't let it go. So, so sad.
It feels like I just tried to give a homeless person 20$ and instead of receiving a thank you, I was spit upon..
Slab4508
04-19-2011, 01:57 PM
Well, I have never been raped or molested so I suppose it doesn't too me.
Seriously, you should be banned from this forum!
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 01:58 PM
Seriously, you should be banned from this forum!
She even admitted that it was true? Where did I say something that was untrue?
BustyAmeera
04-19-2011, 02:00 PM
I normally don't come back after exiting a thread....
I just wanted to say that there are a lot of men on stripperweb. Just about all of them are awesome, and are welcome to post here. I like to hear from them the guys too. there are also a lot of legit male models out there, who have a lot to offer this community, and are quite welcome.
However, trolls are just trolls. Bad behavior is just bad behavior. Making people feel uncomfortable and arguing for days is just insane and narcissistic behavior.
I'm out of this for good now. Hopefully everyone will just move on, and get back to the positive threads...
leighbeigh
04-19-2011, 02:01 PM
It feels like I just tried to give a homeless person 20$ and instead of receiving a thank you, I was spit upon..
Ha ha ha ha! And then you go to Hallmark and buy a nice card to give that homeless person, and get all offended when they throw it in the trash and instead of LETTING.IT.GO. you walk by the same corner every day begging the homeless person to explain why they spit on you and asking for an apology.
Except the $20 was actually Monoploy money and you still have no idea why they would be upset.
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 02:03 PM
Ha ha ha ha! And then you go to Hallmark and buy a nice card to give that homeless person, and get all offended when they throw it in the trash and instead of LETTING.IT.GO. you walk by the same corner every day begging the homeless person to explain why they spit on you and asking for an apology.
Except the $20 was actually Monoploy money and you still have no idea why they would be upset.
I assure you my money is not monopoly money.
But your right about that card thing.
TouringGirlfriend
04-19-2011, 02:05 PM
I normally don't come back after exiting a thread....
I just wanted to say that there are a lot of men on stripperweb. Just about all of them are awesome, and are welcome to post here. I like to hear from them the guys too. there are also a lot of legit male models out there, who have a lot to offer this community, and are quite welcome..
Very well said. The men on this forum never harass us. They give us our space, chime in when they have something valuable to contribute and respect us. I am shocked.. just shocked at this whole exchange. :::::::Taking my ass back to work.
CamWhore
04-19-2011, 02:07 PM
This thread went south pretty quickly.
Entertaining none the less.
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 02:09 PM
Very well said. The men on this forum never harass us. They give us our space, chime in when they have something valuable to contribute and respect us. I am shocked.. just shocked at this whole exchange. :::::::Taking my ass back to work.
You respect them until they challenge your condescension may be a more accurate statement.
TouringGirlfriend
04-19-2011, 02:12 PM
You respect them until they challenge your condescension may be a more accurate statement.
I've been challenged by a few of them.
I love a great debate. I'll argue someone down but I know right from wrong.
You don't.
You know a wise man once told me "Crazy people don't know they're crazy".
He was right. Buh-Bye.
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 02:14 PM
That's actually a common misconception. Most crazy people know that they are crazy. The trouble is that they can't differentiate between periods of lucidity and fantasy.
Slab4508
04-19-2011, 02:16 PM
She even admitted that it was true? Where did I say something that was untrue?
Listen fucktard, her life is none of your damn business, and this slow decline from "just defending yourself" has become a bit more than anyone on this forum wants to deal with. Stop trying to paint yourself as this great guy that has been wronged because your story keeps changing and everyone here can see you as the stalker you are claiming not to be.
Go back into lurker mode because you will NEVER be an equal on here.
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 02:18 PM
Listen fucktard, her life is none of your damn business, and this slow decline from "just defending yourself" has become a bit more than anyone on this forum wants to deal with. Stop trying to paint yourself as this great guy that has been wronged because your story keeps changing and everyone here can see you as the stalker you are claiming not to be.
Go back into lurker mode because you will NEVER be an equal on here.
I appreciate your contribution.
laurielegs
04-19-2011, 02:19 PM
When someone kicks you out of their chatroom don't question it. How about that? I would have done the same thing and I also would have branded you a "stalker". Or maybe I should put it this way: When someone kicks you out of their chatroom, they want you to leave them alone. Continuing to argue about it does not look good.
"it's like someone walking into the dressing room with you."
This is so true. Someone else described this forum as a break room. While the forum is public, the conversations are obviously very honest and, on a certain level, intimate. So I agree with the OP's reaction. It's invasive and comes off as stalking to publicly connect someone to SW. It suggests that they have no respect for boundaries, which seems to be a rampant problem.
I personally didn't even know men were on this site until a month or so ago when a male responded to one of my posts. It did leave me feeling like someone walked into the ladies room on me.
Also I don't cam on SM but there are dozens of women on there and I find it quite odd to beable to find someone that easily based on one picture. If I didn't know any better that sounds a bit creepy there. I mean your gf is a cam model and uumm thanks for posting how she reached her cam goals... not really sure how that was relevant but ok .. but after all of her hard work ,you decide to go and look for another cam model to talk to? So you weren't looking to do a show then just looking to sit and chat. I dont' know maybe this was looking for a 3rd in a threesome or something. But that just seems to be abit much.
Plus the whole umm ooh I'm going to give tokens or is it gold on that site for someone agreeing with you? Asking for a screen name to tip? Who does that? Also you're tipping a model that is easy to find but yet you never looked for . Hmm wonder why? Not your type perhaps but good enough to tip for agreeing with you?
I felt for you in the beginning feeling ok he made a small mistake and just hoped you would just apologize and say I meant no harm and I'm sorry. But wow tipping people for agreeing? Saying your gf called her a b***?
1 word
CREEPY.
btw there was a guy in my room saying that he's been a male cam model for umteen years. Talked in my room about all the friends he has on the site blah blah blah and how he's there for moral support. As if he needs to egg on the model as she removes her gstring. The funny thing is that every other guy in my room was like why doesn't this guy STFU already. He talked for about 3 hours straight and didnt tip a dime. i was trying to be nice but by 2.50 hrs I was tired of seeing him go on and on. I eventually banned him because he had messed up the room with his rantings and many of my premiums were like umm yeah wake me up when this guy shuts up please.
One thing that was strange was that his screen name was :THE DUNLAP.
hmm funny .
Also the guy's pix was a fake and he was not a cam model at all. Who knows with all of that irrelevant information you just provided I don't think you are a cam model at all or if you are a cam model , you probably don't have a gf. No man would go through all of this trouble to find a model on a site that has over dozens of models and then write all of this about what his "so called girlfriend has said or made" plus offering tips for agreeing with him.
I THINK YOU ARE A FAKE. But hey I could be wrong! Carry on and take some time off this thread and enjoy the umm "girlfriend" you have:) :O
It's exactly like that - as if an obsessed person followed one of us into the ladies room or the dressing room at a strip club. The more info that is posted about this whole thing the worse and more stalkerish it looks. We really need a locked model's only section with verification to cut down on this type of thing.
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 02:22 PM
It's exactly like that - as if an obsessed person followed one of us into the ladies room or the dressing room at a strip club. The more info that is posted about this whole thing the worse and more stalkerish it looks. We really need a locked model's only section with verification to cut down on this type of thing.
It would be more like I am a frequent customer of the stripclub and because of your paranoia you thought I somehow followed you to the stripclub, and when I try to convince you that I am just a customer, I'm attacked and assaulted by a possee of angry models ;)
CuriousLatina
04-19-2011, 02:24 PM
Well, I have never been raped or molested so I suppose it doesn't too me.
No.
thebumlap,
For someone who is attending Law School (as you mentioned before) your brain capabilities seems very limited, you can't comprehend and respect the wishes and feelings of a fellow cam model? Your comments, disrespect to models in the industry and lack of sense, shows how "much" success you will have as an attorney (note my sarcasm).Yet you can argue back and forth, I'll give you that. But your arguments are beyond comprehension.
When a cam model is working, she is submerge in her cam model persona, on that particular website, at that particular time. Working hard to make that daily goal, is like a train in motion. All the sudden some one pops up saying "Hey I know you from..so so! Or I seen you from so so" It does put a pause on that train. Specially for someone, that like many, find this area of SW a little oasis for camgirls and people in the industry.
You as a fellow Cam Model should also have respected that, and think about how creepy that would have been for you or your girlfriend (maybe not for you as we know), and to most models. But you being part of this industry (if you really are) should know better.
As an attorney, I would think you will need to learn to see every angle of every situation.
Not everyone thinks like you honey. You should have exercise a more suave approach, camaraderie and etiquette if you wanted to chat with the model, since you are in the cam industry also you should have know better. Open a Private there to make the model feel comfortable (you say you spend good money on models, why not that time?), or send her an PM here.
I adore this little oasis as well, and most ladies here have been nothing but help to other models. I see why we all feel so safe and protected on SW.
xoxoxoxoxox
TouringGirlfriend
04-19-2011, 02:25 PM
Ladies,
I just thought about something. How many times have we been PAID to tell someone to fuck off?? This guy could very well be jerking off to our responses. Hell he's being told to fuck off by a group of sexy ladies for free. We should be charging for this shit. ugH! No wonder he won't just go away. #Freeloader.
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 02:28 PM
thebumlap,
For someone who is attending Law School (as you mentioned before) your brain capabilities seems very limited, you can't comprehend and respect the wishes and feelings of a fellow cam model? Your comments, disrespect to models in the industry and lack of sense, shows how "much" success you will have as an attorney (note my sarcasm).Yet you can argue back and forth, I'll give you that. But your arguments are beyond comprehension.
When a cam model is working, she is submerge in her cam model persona, on that particular website, at that particular time. Working hard to make that daily goal, is like a train in motion. All the sudden some one pops up saying "Hey I know you from..so so! Or I seen you from so so" It does put a pause on that train. Specially for someone, that like many, find this area of SW a little oasis for camgirls and people in the industry.
You as a fellow Cam Model should also have respected that, and think about how creepy that would have been for you or your girlfriend (maybe not for you as we know), and to most models. But you being part of this industry (if you really are) should know better.
As an attorney, I would think you will need to learn to see every angle of every situation.
Not everyone thinks like you honey. You should have exercise a more suave approach, camaraderie and etiquette if you wanted to chat with the model, since you are in the cam industry also you should have know better. Open a Private there to make the model feel comfortable (you say you spend good money on models, why not that time?), or send her an PM here.
I adore this little oasis as well, and most ladies here have been nothing but help to other models. I see why we all feel so safe and protected on SW.
xoxoxoxoxox
I was blocked within 5 seconds I was never given the chance to do so.
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 02:35 PM
I am done here. Time for celebration for some I suppose.
Katie Evers
04-19-2011, 04:38 PM
It feels like I just tried to give a homeless person 20$ and instead of receiving a thank you, I was spit upon..
LMAO! Now I KNOW you are a fake!
cherryblossomsinspring
04-19-2011, 06:44 PM
I just came back and whoooooaa .
I think my wonder was did any one that agreed with this guy in the first place give
1. THEIR SCREEN NAME TO THIS GUY?
2. GET THAT 30 GOLD FOR AGREEING WITH HIM?
One thing I also noticed is that he no longer received those lovely "Thanks" under his postings.
Ha as I said cat is out the bag and yes the horror theme music is on surround sound! I can feel the bass in my knees. OOohhhh:O
TouringGirlfriend
04-19-2011, 06:55 PM
I just came back and whoooooaa .
I think my wonder was did any one that agreed with this guy in the first place give
1. THEIR SCREEN NAME TO THIS GUY?
2. GET THAT 30 GOLD FOR AGREEING WITH HIM?
One thing I also noticed is that he no longer received those lovely "Thanks" under his postings.
Ha as I said cat is out the bag and yes the horror theme music is on surround sound! I can feel the bass in my knees. OOohhhh:O
Uh... Just FYI, I encouraged Camwhore to get the $300 gold from him LOL. He's all talk.
Ms.Lacey
04-19-2011, 07:16 PM
next thread please...
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 09:22 PM
I just came back and whoooooaa .
I think my wonder was did any one that agreed with this guy in the first place give
1. THEIR SCREEN NAME TO THIS GUY?
2. GET THAT 30 GOLD FOR AGREEING WITH HIM?
One thing I also noticed is that he no longer received those lovely "Thanks" under his postings.
Ha as I said cat is out the bag and yes the horror theme music is on surround sound! I can feel the bass in my knees. OOohhhh:O
Thank you for your contribution.
and it was 300 gold.
bass on my knees? Would you happen to be under the influence of drugs?
TouringGirlfriend
04-19-2011, 09:28 PM
and it was 300 gold.
So did you send her the 300 gold?
@ Camwhore, Did he send you the 300 gold?
thedunlap
04-19-2011, 10:26 PM
So did you send her the 300 gold?
@ Camwhore, Did he send you the 300 gold?
She never sent me a pm.
misselise07
04-19-2011, 11:15 PM
trolololololololololol lmao seriously you all need to go read somewhere and learn how to deal with trolls. So what if someone found their name of SW and messaged them off SM with it. This is a public forum anyone can see what is posted. You post a picture of your face or anything close to your model name this is going to happen. Most of you are acting like you are on your period or some shit.
This guy could very well be jerking off to our responses. Hell he's being told to fuck off by a group of sexy ladies for free.
He's definitely jerking off to all the attention. Over and over until he rubs his little dick raw.
(I'll invoice you, dunlap.)
CuriousLatina
04-20-2011, 05:10 AM
I am done here. Time for celebration for some I suppose.
Why? Did you just came? Finally! Now time to tip the ladies!
cherryblossomsinspring
04-20-2011, 06:10 AM
Thank you for your contribution.
and it was 300 gold.
bass on my knees? Would you happen to be under the influence of drugs?
haha lol no but apparently you skipped a few doses. I say DOUBLE UP! THEY MAY WORK THIS TIME AROUND!
TheBrownFox
04-20-2011, 07:04 AM
*eats popcorn cuz this shit is HILARIOUS*
Lacy Luck
04-20-2011, 07:18 AM
Clearly the OP was right about blocking this guy. He has no respect or common sense what-so-ever. Any sane, rational person would have said "I'm sorry I made you uncomfortable" and BACKED THE FUCK OFF but he just keeps pushing. I think he should be banned as troll.
thedunlap
04-20-2011, 07:49 AM
Clearly the OP was right about blocking this guy. He has no respect or common sense what-so-ever. Any sane, rational person would have said "I'm sorry I made you uncomfortable" and BACKED THE FUCK OFF but he just keeps pushing. I think he should be banned as troll.
I wonder how you handle conflict in your personal life. Fight-fight-fight at all cost until the otherside backs-down? I did concede that perhaps I didn't possess the life experiences of the OP.
What I find troubling is this battered woman group-think/mob mentality on here. Where any guy that has a simple disagreement with someone's opinion, especially one of a libel nature pertaining to his character is told that he is wrong and that he should have done X and Y and Z. Furthermore, he is told that he's some kind of troll or fake person because he is persistent that he did the right and correct thing under the circumstances. That although I am sorry that she became upset I did nothing unreasonable under the circumstances; that in fact a reasonable person would completely agree that I was following proper ettiquette and protocol. I provided explanation for why I didn't perform X and Y and Z.
(1) I did not know her or her positions on this forum (I vaguely had a memory of photograph)
(2) "You should have PMed Her" I did not know her name on this board, I saw a face I thought was familar.
(3) Usually when you see someone that has a common interest or partakes in a common activity as was the case with the OP; it is typical etiquette to approach them in an informal and friendly manner in my case it was "hi aren't you on stripper web" which is like saying hello its nice to meet you, I am also a member of stripperweb; its a way of breaking the ice, kind of like talking about the weather with someone
(4) Wall-Posts; Ashly06 (@2:24 A.M.): "did u just come in my room??"; Me(8:37am): "yeah I did :/"
Which implies my unhappiness with the result of that initial meeting. Not one of anger but of slight and mild dissappointment that a fellow SW member would react in such a negative way.
I had hoped that we could have a rational discussion on here, but it quickly degraded into name calling. I do wonder if maybe this sense of security/privacy violation stems from:
(1) lack of social/family support
(2) possible domestic violence/abuse history with men
(3) stripper/escort protocol (necessary for protection) as opposed to a guy thinking that he recognized a girl from an online forum and saying hello to that girl on another online website.
(4) women in the sex industry are so weary of being burned that they are left in this heightened state of alert; where typically the female is physically inferrior in its ability to defend itself from the male aggressor, so it becomes exceedingly necessary that at all times that the female maintains the perception of dominance and control, otherwise fear and uncertainty can overtake her and lead her to question her safety
(5) continuation of (4).... that any man that wishes to have a rational discussion concerning something that he thought was less than in good manners is attempting to assert his sexual dominance of that woman as if he is trying to rape her... which is instinctual but inappropriate under the circumstances.
TouringGirlfriend
04-20-2011, 07:55 AM
:duel::censored:
TheBrownFox
04-20-2011, 07:59 AM
This thread may need to be locked. I don't see this discussion ending anytime soon.
One thing I'm sure we all know about posting on forums (and if ya don't know, now ya know...).....it only takes one nosy person's Google search to read everything you've ever posted on forums, etc. Not a very comforting thought, is it? Do a Google search on yourself (your real name, your model name, whatever) just to see what happens...you may find a list to all kinds of stuff you had forgotten about. The girls on here hit the nail on the head when they said it's a good idea to have a forum name different from your actual cam site name.
TheBrownFox
04-20-2011, 07:59 AM
:duel::censored:
You're funny! ;D
TouringGirlfriend
04-20-2011, 08:03 AM
I wonder how you handle conflict in your personal life. Fight-fight-fight at all cost until the otherside backs-down? I did concede that perhaps I didn't possess the life experiences of the OP.
What I find troubling is this battered woman group-think/mob mentality on here. Where any guy that has a simple disagreement with someone's opinion, especially one of a libel nature pertaining to his character is told that he is wrong and that he should have done X and Y and Z. Furthermore, he is told that he's some kind of troll or fake person because he is persistent that he did the right and correct thing under the circumstances. That although I am sorry that she became upset I did nothing unreasonable under the circumstances; that in fact a reasonable person would completely agree that I was following proper ettiquette and protocol. I provided explanation for why I didn't perform X and Y and Z.
(1) I did not know her or her positions on this forum (I vaguely had a memory of photograph)
(2) "You should have PMed Her" I did not know her name on this board, I saw a face I thought was familar.
(3) Usually when you see someone that has a common interest or partakes in a common activity as was the case with the OP; it is typical etiquette to approach them in an informal and friendly manner in my case it was "hi aren't you on stripper web" which is like saying hello its nice to meet you, I am also a member of stripperweb; its a way of breaking the ice, kind of like talking about the weather with someone
(4) Wall-Posts; Ashly06 (@2:24 A.M.): "did u just come in my room??"; Me(8:37am): "yeah I did :/"
Which implies my unhappiness with the result of that initial meeting. Not one of anger but of slight and mild dissappointment that a fellow SW member would react in such a negative way.
I had hoped that we could have a rational discussion on here, but it quickly degraded into name calling. I do wonder if maybe this sense of security/privacy violation stems from:
(1) lack of social/family support
(2) possible domestic violence/abuse history with men
(3) stripper/escort protocol (necessary for protection) as opposed to a guy thinking that he recognized a girl from an online forum and saying hello to that girl on another online website.
(4) women in the sex industry are so weary of being burned that they are left in this heightened state of alert; where typically the female is physically inferrior in its ability to defend itself from the male aggressor, so it becomes exceedingly necessary that at all times that the female maintains the perception of dominance and control, otherwise fear and uncertainty can overtake her and lead her to question her safety
(5) continuation of (4).... that any man that wishes to have a rational discussion concerning something that he thought was less than in good manners is attempting to assert his sexual dominance of that woman as if he is trying to rape her... which is instinctual but inappropriate under the circumstances.
Wow.. To all those ladies that agreed with this BOY: I hope you now realize how he really feels about you. Dunlap, Thanks for the self alert.
Hilarious post btw!
thedunlap
04-20-2011, 08:07 AM
Wow.. To all those ladies that agreed with this BOY: I hope you now realize how he really feels about you. Dunlap, Thanks for the self alert.
Hilarious post btw!
Fail... I think you mean those that disagreed :P but nice try... get that pitch fork sharpened, I prefer a quick end.
TouringGirlfriend
04-20-2011, 08:08 AM
I thought you said you were done here?
thedunlap
04-20-2011, 08:10 AM
I thought you said you were done here?
Everytime I try to leave you pull me back-in.
TouringGirlfriend
04-20-2011, 08:15 AM
Everytime I try to leave you pull me back-in.
Actually you just can't help it. You sure do fit the profile of a stalker.
thedunlap
04-20-2011, 08:17 AM
Actually you just can't help it. You sure do fit the profile of a stalker.
If you have to give me a label, I prefer the Dexter label. Serial-killer with the heart of gold :P
That"MODEL"Chick
04-20-2011, 08:19 AM
(2) "You should have PMed Her" I did not know her name on this board
How were you able to leave me a comment here first,if you did not know my name? When I looked at my wall(here) and noticed the name,than I wrote on your wall asking: did you just come into my room. Which you replied "yeah I did :/". Why do you keep trying to explain yourself? Its not like any of us plan on meeting face to face. Some of the ladies have agreed with you(don't know if they still will after your last comment) and some have not. This thread was meant to bring an issue that I HAD to attention. If you don't like what I said/did or the way I said/did it,then fine. Continue talking sh*t about me,but you really should have left them out of it. Attacking them is not helping the situation!!
thedunlap
04-20-2011, 08:22 AM
How were you able to leave me a comment here first,if you did not know my name? When I looked at my wall(here) and noticed the name,than I wrote on your wall asking: did you just come into my room. Which you replied "yeah I did :/". Why do you keep trying to explain yourself? Its not like any of us plan on meeting face to face. Some of the ladies have agreed with you(don't know if they still will after your last comment) and some have not. This thread was meant to bring an issue that I HAD to attention. If you don't like what I said/did or the way I said/did it,then fine. Continue talking sh*t about me,but you really should have left them out of it. Attacking them is not helping the situation!!
Click my name and look at my wall... its that simple.
I have never attacked you. I have merely attacked the reasonableness of your expectations.
Yes, and your response along with many of the supporting responses uncovered a deeper issue that I believe should be discussed.
Where does this fear come from? Is it reasonable? Is it healthy and appropriate?
That"MODEL"Chick
04-20-2011, 08:25 AM
^^Well if my account was still open,you would be able to "click my wall". That would be simple as well!! ::) How the hell would I have been able to find you on here anyway to write you first? Your SM screen name and your screen name here are clearly not the same /:O
TheBrownFox
04-20-2011, 08:25 AM
Everytime I try to leave you pull me back-in.
I was one of the people who said I didn't think you meant the OP any harm, but the way you're acting right now in this thread is making you look bad. Ok, we get it...you and the OP crossed paths on a cam site, where she got creeped out by you mentioning SW forums. Now you're back here in her thread, trying to play psychiatrist/psychologist towards the cam girls who aren't taking your side. Lol. I'm sorry, but that post only makes you sound like an ass.
That"MODEL"Chick
04-20-2011, 08:28 AM
Where does this fear come from? Is it reasonable?
Here we go with this victim bullshit again ::)
TouringGirlfriend
04-20-2011, 08:30 AM
*sigh* He claims to be a law student with a girlfriend that works as a camboy. Now he's trying to play psychiatrist. Uh.... it's clear this guy has issues. I'm sure he's just some fat snot nose kid still living in his mommy's basement jerking off to free porn.
@Ashly, no need to keep repeating yourself. He's doing a great job digging his own grave.
@ Brownfox, next thing you know he's going to say he's also in med school. #posers.