View Full Version : Ever actually enjoy giving a dance to a customer?
bambiblue
05-15-2011, 09:06 PM
There were definately people I "enjoyed" dancing for more than others. The guys who were respectful, smelled good and paid me well didn't make my skin crawl... but the guy who didn't shower for 12 weeks... tries grabbing me or licking me so much that i had to take 3 steps away from him so I don't punch him in his face, and then dont even tip or only buy one or 2 dances after making you hustle the death out of him to get it... yuck... definately don't miss that part of the job.
Addison
05-17-2011, 07:06 PM
I'm sure I'm going to totally regret admitting this, but as a baby stripper, I get really turned on during lap dances.
Reason being, my favorite position (with BF) is me on his lap, him sucking on my titties, while I'm grinding on him. The clit/nipple stimulation (esp. nipples) is the easiest way for me to orgasm. penetration adds to it, but i can take it or leave it.
Soooo ... unfortunately, my BF and I have broken up and me doing this on my own just isn't as great.
That said, if I'm straddling a customer and he's touching my nipples, it drives me freaking insane. I've had to stop a few times when I came too close and once I even leaned in and almost kissed this guy - he tried to kiss me too but I turned just as I realized - OMG this isn't my ex BF, this is some 50something year old dude. A couple of times I found myself trying to please MYSELF during the dance instead of the guy and had to reel it back in. Ugh. I'm freaking pathetic.
Sexually-frustrated stripper here. :( I'm sure with a little more time, it'll go away but to go from having sex EVERY day, multiple times a day, to not having sex at all...takes some getting used to.
*hangs head in shame and leaves*
Well, as an update, ...um, yeah, I was giving a guy a third dance and totally GOT THERE last night. SMH Fortunately, it wasn't a crazy one and I was able to be pretty discreet about it! I was just like, "wait ... stop.." <insert breathing> .. but the dude called me on it! He was like, "OMG did you just cum??" I'm like, "..umm ... maybe we should take a break!" He ended up getting 11 more dances, though. :)
On a better note, I'll probably be calling up the exBF soon, so we won't be having this....."situation".....again.
GummyBear
05-18-2011, 01:37 PM
I definitely have. I never gave heavy grinding lap dances right off the bat, I always lead into it depending on the customer's levels of respect and how much they spend and if I think they could handle it without getting gross or having an accident (eww). Or if they even want it, I find a lot of guys prefer sensuality over crotch rug burn. I think if I had to start off the bat with a heavy grind I would feel chafed and my muscles would tire and I would secretly be hoping the guy would want a break. When I have a guy's mind blown and I can tell that he feels like a king and thinks that I am the sexiest goddess in the world I seriously enjoy my job. That's what makes it worth it. I always challenged myself to learn new moves and would throw a practice one into a string of dances with someone I had some rapport with, and if I end up getting stuck in a weird position or rolling off their lap or something we can laugh about it. I like to slowly undress finding new ways to suddenly make a boob pop out or a strap fall down. I do a lot of rolling and sliding over them into different positions. And I make lots and lots of eye contract and running my nails through their hair and breathing down their necks. On the other hand, when I sense that someone is trying to take advantage of the fact they have a naked girl on their lap for $20 I have to revert to defensive don't assault me mode and that sucks. Also if somebody smells it's hard to get into it. But I never approach these guys they would have to go out of their way to ask for a dance so it doesn't happen too much. Maybe I am just overly open sexually, but I feel like in a perfect situation I am getting paid for making someone feel special and better than they did before by giving them an experience unlike anything else in their life.
jack0177057
05-19-2011, 04:29 PM
I'm sure I'm going to totally regret admitting this, but as a baby stripper, I get really turned on during lap dances.
Reason being, my favorite position (with BF) is me on his lap, him sucking on my titties, while I'm grinding on him. The clit/nipple stimulation (esp. nipples) is the easiest way for me to orgasm. penetration adds to it, but i can take it or leave it.
Soooo ... unfortunately, my BF and I have broken up and me doing this on my own just isn't as great.
That said, if I'm straddling a customer and he's touching my nipples, it drives me freaking insane. I've had to stop a few times when I came too close and once I even leaned in and almost kissed this guy - he tried to kiss me too but I turned just as I realized - OMG this isn't my ex BF, this is some 50something year old dude. A couple of times I found myself trying to please MYSELF during the dance instead of the guy and had to reel it back in. Ugh. I'm freaking pathetic.
Sexually-frustrated stripper here. :( I'm sure with a little more time, it'll go away but to go from having sex EVERY day, multiple times a day, to not having sex at all...takes some getting used to.
*hangs head in shame and leaves*
What city do you dance in? }:D
NeedsHelp123
05-19-2011, 04:55 PM
This is very nice to hear that if we are a complete gentleman that you ladies can actually enjoy giving dances
addicted
05-23-2011, 03:08 PM
I think that 99% of the time the dancers seem to be just doing there job, not always hating it but, in the back of there head thinking when I get home I can this or that done, just like I do when I am working (mechanic)!
But if I get along with a customer, and they are nice, let me do by job, without watching over my shoulder, I will be more willing to provide "extra services" like showing how to maintain some stuff on there own, and give free advice, maybe I will be there for 2 hours and only charge 1.5 hrs!
I have had dances on rare occasions that went beyond the song, or they hold there breasts into my face a little longer, etc.. were they turned on..hell know! Did they enjoy it maybe a little more then usual...maybe, because I actually kept my hands to my self, my mouth closed, when she rubs her body against my lips. I also try to smell nice..shower, brush my teethe, clean clothes, etc... before I go out.
I think if she was truly enjoying it she wouldn't charge for it! Like she doens't charge for it with her b/f! And like I don't charge for mechanical work with close friends or family!
Hopper
06-04-2011, 06:16 AM
I genuinely enjoy giving a dance to a customer if he makes good conversation, is polite, cleanly, not grabby, looks like he's entranced by the way I move, compliments me, thanks me, and of course tips very well after buying a string of dances. Very few customers have been like this but the ones that are, are a total welcomed breath of fresh air! :)
Some dancers can't handle compliments. They respond with some fake tone or bitchy remark like they have to discourage me in case I ask for their number. Because we all know the world would probably end if that happened. I don't know what their problem is - men often compliment women just out of courtesy and of course I am going to compliment a girl I just paid to dance naked on my lap. They put all that effort into getting me hot and then get annoyed if I act like it.
Jay12
06-04-2011, 08:34 AM
In Elizabeth City, I had this customer who is a big Led Zeppelin fan; he always bought lots of dances from me 'cause I always sang some Led Zeppelin song for him. I had lots of fun with him!
bucket
06-05-2011, 01:01 PM
I had a couple LD's where I'd say she enjoyed it. So did I. It was because of the conversation we had before and during it.
I'd say that's probably not the norm from a dancers perspective. It's just part of the job most of the time.