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colleen
04-24-2011, 12:31 AM
I can speak from experience on this one . . .

When I first came back to work, the first pair of jeans I bought for myself was a size 15. The next pair will be a size 4.

I found the customers are just as pervy now as they were then. The thing that blew me away was that I LOST some of my fave custy's when I lost weight, and lost them to the thicker girls! But I got new custys to replace them. It just goes to show. . . . there is somebody for everybody.

4everresolutions
04-24-2011, 12:43 AM
Oh man, there's nothing more frustrating than trying on a dress and it fits everywhere perfectly except the boobs. Or it kind of fits there but makes you look like a prostitute because its still too tight there. Story of my life :( But that's why I learned to sew!

But yeah. Mine are not bought but I definitely asked for them. Literally, when I was 12 when I said my bedtime prayers I asked god to give me big boobies, because I was jealous of girls in seventh grade that had them haha. I hate to use the cheesy phrase "careful what you wish for" buttttttt...evidence speaks for itself!


I completely have this issue right now. I'm currently looking for a dress to wear to a friends wedding over the summer, and I'm looking online and seeing tons of totally cute, feminine dresses that I could never wear! The moment I put on one of those frilly party dresses the damn thing goes from cutesy to hoochie! Also, being tall means that mini-dresses are SUPER mini, and knee-length are thigh-high.

Boo.

Although I DO love my boobies and legs. So it's not all bad.

bubblebutt8o8
04-24-2011, 01:25 AM
collen: when you were a 15 were you toned? i keep telling myself screw it just do it.

pink_bunny
04-24-2011, 01:45 AM
hey colorado!! suck my balls!! ( if i had them) i am short too(5'1 and a size 10 but i am built muscluar and bottom heavy and after a long battle i am ok with myself. I get a lot of attention here( mostly from latinoand/ or black men ) and that is a good thing. IF colorado is going to take a size 3 to to be happy they can have a seat. _ Big Sigh_ that is all...
and not to be obnoxious but...
Liz Hurley made perhaps her most lasting contribution to the cultural lexicon when she notoriously declared to Allure, "I've always thought Marilyn Monroe looked fabulous, but I'd kill myself if I was that fat...I went to see her clothes in the exhibition, and I wanted to take a tape measure and measure what her hips were. (laughter) She was very big." Roseanne, for her part, stated in '96 that, "I'm more sexy than Pamela Lee or whoever else they've got out there these days. Marilyn Monroe was a size 16. That says it all."

Okay, first of all, when folks toss around the "Size 16" thing, yes, that's a British 16, by which they mean a U.S. Size 12.

But if people demand numbers? They're certainly out there. According to measurements from Marilyn Monroe's dressmaker:
Height: 5 feet, 5½ inches
Weight: 118-140 pounds
Bust: 35-37 inches
Waist: 22-23 inches
Hips: 35-36 inches
Bra size: 36D..

anyhow men DO think i'm easier and more desperate somehow, and it disgusts me. however my ass and tits have gotten so many compliments!! I'm honestly conflicted. Its lose weight- be more socially acceptable. but lose my hot black and Latino customers:( AND my nice boobs:( when I am 15 lbs slimmer they serioulsy lose a cup size:(
But if people demand numbers? They're certainly out there. According to measurements from Marilyn Monroe's dressmaker:
Height: 5 feet, 5½ inches
Weight: 118-140 pounds
Bust: 35-37 inches
Waist: 22-23 inches
Hips: 35-36 inches
Bra size: 36D

But if people demand numbers? They're certainly out there. According to measurements from Marilyn Monroe's dressmaker:
Height: 5 feet, 5½ inches
Weight: 118-140 pounds
Bust: 35-37 inches
Waist: 22-23 inches
Hips: 35-36 inches
Bra size: 36D and people are afraid of being this big:
But if people demand numbers? They're certainly out there. According to measurements from Marilyn Monroe's dressmaker:
Height: 5 feet, 5½ inches
Weight: 118-140 pounds
Bust: 35-37 inches
Waist: 22-23 inches
Hips: 35-36 inches
Bra size: 36D

colleen
04-24-2011, 09:16 PM
collen: when you were a 15 were you toned? i keep telling myself screw it just do it.

No I was not. My arms, legs, and butt have always been very nice, and at the time my boobs were much fuller than they are now (BOOOO! to universal fat loss!) so I played them up. My belly was far too big and flabby, so I hid it under my dresses. I did a very glamorous look, lots of halter dresses and rhinestones. and dresses that fit under the boobs and then flared out with full skirts. In other words, I played up my strengths and hid my weaknesses. I was not working in a high-end club, either. I tried, but I could not get hired there.

luxi_kitty
04-25-2011, 08:23 PM
^^^^ So when u were dancing with dresses and a flabby tummy..did u take off ur dress to be fully naked..or??

DesuvsDeath
04-25-2011, 08:28 PM
^^^^ So when u were dancing with dresses and a flabby tummy..did u take off ur dress to be fully naked..or??

Noo. When you're dancing in dresses with a flabby tummy you leave them on.
The point is that your tummy STAYS hidden.

Same with a corset.

luxi_kitty
04-25-2011, 09:16 PM
Noo. When you're dancing in dresses with a flabby tummy you leave them on.
The point is that your tummy STAYS hidden.

Same with a corset.

yeah i figured with the dress ud use it to hide ur mid section (pull dress down to show tits and pull dress up to show ass and then dance)
but is it not strange to guys that almost every girl in the club is full nude but the girl with the dress is not haha idk:D.call me naive

DesuvsDeath
04-25-2011, 09:23 PM
^Not really. There are typically always girls who wear bikini/skirt sets who don't take the skirt off... or girls who wear tight t-shirts and just pull them up instead of take them off... Or girls with little button down shirts they undo but don't take off...

There area a lot of costumes that have some bit or another that girls don't take off... so it doesn't even typically stand out that you're not taking your dress off as long as you pick a dress that doesn't look AWKWARD half on/half off.

4everresolutions
04-25-2011, 11:00 PM
Yeah, a 23 inch waist is super tiny - Victoria Beckhams waist is 24 inches, and look how itty bitty that woman is!

Marylin Monroe would not be an American 12 by today's standards. She's be a 4-6, MAYBE, and would have to have all her pants/skirts taken in severely at the waist.

The woman was 'hippy' by Hollywood standards, but still slim for her figure type.

mediocrity
04-27-2011, 02:20 AM
Now are we talking curvy as in coca cola figure or "curvy" as a euphemism? Cuz if it's this... that is NOT sexy.....26334

I've met pappillion in person and she is too critical she is NOWHERE near thick....she is perfectly proportionate.

but excess blubber and fat rolls, spare tires, that is fucking nasty

This bitch you posted is the personification of the term "Lipstick on a pig".

mediocrity
04-27-2011, 02:54 AM
I hate when people toss around Marilyn Monroe's size to prove a point. These measurements just spell out the blatant size deflation over the past few decades. 22 inch waist and 36 inch hips is NOT a size 12!!!! I'm 26-39 and I'm a size 6.

Yeah, I'm 34 25 36 and a size 4. Size 12 is waaaay larger.

tempest666
04-27-2011, 03:08 AM
This bitch you posted is the personification of the term "Lipstick on a pig".


LMAO how he stuck his dick in that is beyond me as I have said

Kellydancer
04-27-2011, 01:24 PM
Oh man, there's nothing more frustrating than trying on a dress and it fits everywhere perfectly except the boobs. Or it kind of fits there but makes you look like a prostitute because its still too tight there. Story of my life :( But that's why I learned to sew!

But yeah. Mine are not bought but I definitely asked for them. Literally, when I was 12 when I said my bedtime prayers I asked god to give me big boobies, because I was jealous of girls in seventh grade that had them haha. I hate to use the cheesy phrase "careful what you wish for" buttttttt...evidence speaks for itself!

I have this problem. When I was shopping for a bridesmaid dress for my brother and sister in law's wedding I had to keep going up a size only because of my boobs. Nothing else is big on my body except them. I have tiny hips and long muscular legs and a small butt, but a huge chest. At times I was accused of having implants because they were much larger than my body.

Kellydancer
04-27-2011, 01:26 PM
I hate when people toss around Marilyn Monroe's size to prove a point. These measurements just spell out the blatant size deflation over the past few decades. 22 inch waist and 36 inch hips is NOT a size 12!!!! I'm 26-39 and I'm a size 6.

This is one of my pet peeves. I hate how curvy and voluptous now means fat. Roseanne is fat not curvy. To me curvy means large boobs, maybe large butt and hips but not a fat ass.

atgny
03-05-2012, 11:12 PM
I consider my self to be full figured, I am 5'7 36 33 47,is that fat,cause I dont have rollls or hang over anything, but the pretty face and personality do help. Still want to tone up!

tempest666
03-06-2012, 06:52 AM
I consider my self to be full figured, I am 5'7 36 33 47,is that fat,cause I dont have rollls or hang over anything, but the pretty face and personality do help. Still want to tone up!

That's not fat. Tall people can carry weight far easier than short girls like me. Without pics though I coulnd't tell ya.

GlitterBexie
03-06-2012, 12:12 PM
I posted a body pic in picture post y'day, i would describe myself as curvy, cause i have hips, boobs and an arse, but my waist pisses me off cause it doesnt curve in enough, no matter how many excersizes i do, i have a tiny pouch, but i like my body. Summer irks me, well, summer clothes in particular. I have never yet found a summer dress which i could just throw on which didnt make me look hoochy or frumpy. Strappy tops means cleavage. Im short (5,2) so i can get away with wearing slightly shorter shorts or mini skirts during the day as i have chunky but shapely legs.

I find for the most part, men perv more in the club when ive got outfits on which accentuate the hips and boobs, but minimize the waist, so yeh, curvier. But in fairness, i think men perv no matter what, it just depends on what their personal ideal may be and if she's wandering round the club as to if they have a dance.

velocixo
03-06-2012, 01:28 PM
I'm curvy, 5'9- 155 pounds, 38-28-38 and while I don't find that guys are necessarly more "perv" with me I do notice something else...
Let's say one of my petite asian friends wears this cute tight dress with leggings to go shopping... she looks all cute and casuel. BUT I can wear the EXACT same dress (in a different size of course) with the leggings and Iook like I'm working the streets cause I have boobs and ass hanging everywhere. Kinda the same thing with girls who have smaller boobs can get away with wearing lower cuts at the office without looking "slutty" but if I wear a low cut shirt at the office my director would probably ask me to go back home and ut some clothes on!
Am I the only one who feels like this?

Yeah I feel the same way, I have smaller breasts then my friend so some of the tops I wear look more tame then when she wears them. But since my hips are alot bigger the skirt I wear become shorter and more hochie/ sexy haha.

Jay12
03-06-2012, 06:50 PM
This is one of my pet peeves. I hate how curvy and voluptous now means fat. Roseanne is fat not curvy. To me curvy means large boobs, maybe large butt and hips but not a fat ass.


If the hip/butt are small (and the boobs are big), it's not curvy, but coney. Get it? It's a jokey joke.

skylar_jade
03-14-2012, 02:21 PM
Being short fucking sucks ass! We have to work twice as hard to maintain our weight and be vigilant :(

It's a huge pain. Especially being in Colorado. I have 24 waist and 34 hip. I'm curvy. I got some booty. Most younger white guys never really got dances with me. Sigh.

papillonluvr
03-14-2012, 05:42 PM
It's a huge pain. Especially being in Colorado. I have 24 waist and 34 hip. I'm curvy. I got some booty. Most younger white guys never really got dances with me. Sigh.

Trust me, I spent the majority of my stripper career in Colorado being a bit thicker. It is hard, but then if you travel you realize that you can really hustle, since you've never fully relied on your looks. Also, the clubs you are working at may not be the right type. I found the mid-level clubs were more money for me rather than the high end clubs.

skylar_jade
03-14-2012, 06:16 PM
Trust me, I spent the majority of my stripper career in Colorado being a bit thicker. It is hard, but then if you travel you realize that you can really hustle, since you've never fully relied on your looks. Also, the clubs you are working at may not be the right type. I found the mid-level clubs were more money for me rather than the high end clubs.

The sad thing is, we're really not thick. Just according to these club standards. I have tried places like pt's and it's usually younger guys that don't spend. I wish I could travel oh well.

decalion
07-03-2012, 05:35 PM
i just got hired i start in thirty days at a club. alot of people think im cute im 5'4 , c cup, and about 160 pounds. lol i ws suprised i got hired. I have never done it before. i cannot wait im so excited. a lil worried though i have a son. so i have so many stretch marks my stomach looks horibble.

Jay12
07-05-2012, 10:20 PM
I'm curvy, 5'9- 155 pounds, 38-28-38 and while I don't find that guys are necessarly more "perv" with me I do notice something else...
Let's say one of my petite asian friends wears this cute tight dress with leggings to go shopping... she looks all cute and casuel. BUT I can wear the EXACT same dress (in a different size of course) with the leggings and Iook like I'm working the streets cause I have boobs and ass hanging everywhere. Kinda the same thing with girls who have smaller boobs can get away with wearing lower cuts at the office without looking "slutty" but if I wear a low cut shirt at the office my director would probably ask me to go back home and ut some clothes on!
Am I the only one who feels like this?

Nope! I'm build almost exactly like that (same height, same top/waist dimensions, larger butt, and slightly heavier 'cause of muscles) and I feel the very same way. I'm so happy to know I'm not the only one who feels the same.

Old thread, I know, but I feel identified with this.

Aurora14
07-29-2013, 10:18 AM
I want to resurrect this thread! I've been feeling a bit blue about my size lately, but it makes me happy to know there are other 'bigger' girls rocking it.

When I started dancing I was wearing a size 00 pants and 34C bra. Went up to size 2 and 34D after baby 2. I had baby 3 in January and ballooned to size 7/9 pants and 34F/G (I hate how every manufacturer make stuff different). My current measurements are 34/32/35 at only 4' 9". :( So I don't know if I qualify as fat until I get rid of the belly pudge. I know I look curvy from a profile view though! My chest and bum are kinda the same size lol Plus, even with my heels on, everyone has to look down to see me so all they see are boobs.

When I was tiny, the college guys loved me. But they're usually cheap bastards that want to get me drunk and get 1 dance. Now, I attract older gentlemen that spend better, tip at the table, and do strings of dances. Either way, I'm making about the same amount of money, but I make it without having to "pull teeth" to get a lot of single dances. I might talk to 5 customers on a good night. Ya, I'd like to make more than I do, but I'm lazy and have a low tolerance for dumb people.

xxxGothBarbie
07-29-2013, 12:01 PM
I'm currently at 5'8", my measurements are 36-34-44 , my boobs are a 36 B , but I am tall so I feel I can carry it well esp if I'm wearing waist corsets & heels at work. I've always been considered "bigger" in LA, but when i'm in the "real" world I get told I'm normal size. I think i look great but I still get nervous about getting hired while I'm on the road. I'm only gonna be trying to work in either dives or mid tier clubs. I've been alot smaller a few years ago but i was also depressed & sick. I've always had a bubble butt & that's been my money maker :) Most of the time guys that get dances with me or tip onstage love that I'm an alternative girl with spunk & a great personality about me.