View Full Version : what women find the most attractive on men like how most men find boobs the best?
The Six
09-27-2012, 11:44 PM
What all women like the most is a sense of humor. Of course, what most women find HILARIOUS is a huge bank account.
Rockabilly_Harley_Quinn
09-30-2012, 11:00 PM
Strong sexy back! hehe...I don't know it just gets me! ;)
Oh and a broad chest with alittle chest hair....grrrr!!!
CurvySweet
10-02-2012, 12:27 PM
Depends on the guy. But bottom line for me: GSOH, has a meaty cock and tongue that he knows how to use AND tattoos. I just love tattoos on a guy its sooooooooo sexy on the arms, shoulders, neck.
LaurenAus
10-02-2012, 07:54 PM
i really need to get myself to Man Jose. I'll meet a cute, single, great guy and he'll tell me he's visiting from San Jose. My love life down here is a joke.
I don't think men have a particular feature that women swoon over. I always check out girls and admire their boobs/butt/tummy/legs cause they're sexy, I am yet to catch myself checking out a guys calf muscles or something.
Obviously there are things that attract us but they are usually pretty subjective. I've traveled the world and been attracted to men in all colours, shapes and sizes. I thought I wasn't attracted to asian guys and I fell in love with a Chinese Trinidadian, I thought I'd gone black and I'd never go back and my boyfriend now is a bearded Middle Eastern. Chemistry is the most important element of physical attraction, I want to laugh and be myself and have a genuine connection with someone. A good smile is incredibly sexy as is someone who knows how to use eye contact, it's the best foreplay..
That said, chemistry and eye fucking will only get you so far if we can't have a decent conversation. Intelligent, humorous, honest and kind hearted men will win out over guys with six packs and zero brains.
I don't think men have a particular feature that women swoon over. I always check out girls and admire their boobs/butt/tummy/legs cause they're sexy, I am yet to catch myself checking out a guys calf muscles or something.
Obviously there are things that attract us but they are usually pretty subjective. I've traveled the world and been attracted to men of all colours, shapes and sizes. I thought I wasn't attracted to asian guys and I fell in love with a Chinese Trinidadian, I thought I'd gone black and I'd never go back and my boyfriend now is a bearded Middle Eastern man. Chemistry is the most important element of physical attraction, I want to laugh and be myself and have a genuine connection with someone. A good smile is incredibly sexy as is someone who knows how to use eye contact, it's the best foreplay..
That said, chemistry and eye fucking will only get you so far if we can't have a decent conversation. Intelligent, humorous, honest and kind hearted men will win out over guys with six packs and zero brains.
Vyanka
10-08-2012, 12:43 PM
For me, I LOVE a nice face. Balanced & symmetrical facial features. Nice skin and teeth.
The body can be average(as long as he isn't a fat fuck with a small penis), it's a nice face that does it for me. Long hair - MEGA bonus
Jemmalyn
10-08-2012, 09:00 PM
to me its about their attitude..quiet confidence. If I had to pick a feature though, physically, I would say eyes. Strong confident eyes. Not cocky though I hate that. I also like nice triceps and biceps, but honestly physical doesnt attract me as their overall attitude..dont know if this counts..but all else could be perfect and if they sound weird to me I cant be attracted to them.
Jemmalyn
10-08-2012, 09:02 PM
same here. I dont catch myself checking out men either. I am always on google images checking out the girls the ones I think are pretty.
Jemmalyn
10-08-2012, 09:03 PM
oh yeah a sense of humour is the number one thing. It actually changes the way a man looks in our brain when they are funny and make us laugh.
xGeminix
10-08-2012, 09:28 PM
it depends. I see it when I see it.
if I had a number 1 trait. It would be kindness, respect, and look no older than your 40s. Without that, you have no chance for me to be attracted to you.
Money does even most flaws, but kindness/respect still is more important than money.
charlotte_ai
10-27-2012, 10:37 PM
TURN ON's:
Young, like, early 20's (no younger than 21 or older than 27-28) Occasionally they're OK in their 30's, but rarely.
Tall, generally over 6 foot. Muscular shoulders and back. In shape but not hella cut.
Blonde hair, blue or green eyes, pale/lightly tanned
OR Brown eyes and black hair- Persian/Iranian, sometimes Egyptian, occasionally Macedonian, or mixed italian (finer built, medium 'dark' guys)
Good size dick, if I can't choke on it, I don't want it in my mouth. Above average a must, and has to know how to use it. Well, and at length. Groomed "down there".
FOR A RELATIONSHIP: see above, plus
Good sense of humor, a trolling or sarcastic type of wit.
Likes computers/gaming and cars
Honest and has integrity.
Smart, but not more so than me.
Likes "together time" but respects that I am very independent and need space. Often.
Not a jealous or controlling type.
Bonus points for: Good tattoos
Piercings
TURN OFF'S:
Chubby, out of shape or man boobs
Small hands
Bad hygiene
Needy, clingy
Bad tattoos
Bad dress sense
DEAL BREAKERS:
Over 35-40
Has kids (or wants them with me)
Wants to marry me
Small peens
Lazy in bed, cannot last/no stamina
Has issues with me dancing
Listens to country and western music
Financially dependant
I'm really fussy. If I guy was everything perfect but crap in bed (been there) I couldn't do it. Sounds bad, but really, if they can't keep up in the bedroom I find my eyes and thoughts wandering... Maybe that's why I like 'em young... High sex drive is a huge plus.
BlkSharpie
10-28-2012, 12:39 AM
Smile....when a guy has a great smile, it just makes me melt, sploosh, all over the place LoL
Which might explain why I have SUCH a thing for Andre Benjamin... I mean, physically hes not really my type at all (Im a blonde blue girl)
But when I see that guys smile, lord help me, I want to do all sorts of dirty things to him...twice...no three times...
....lots of dirty things....
Almost Jaded
10-28-2012, 01:29 AM
Maybe that's why I like 'em young... High sex drive is a huge plus.
Hey - not all of us 35-40's have problems in this area! I'm going nuts finding 20-something year old females that can keep up, even 2 and 3 at a time, lol. Not bragging, just don't sell us not-quite-middle-aged guys short, lol!! ;)
micio
10-28-2012, 04:57 AM
Intelligence, great sense of humor, sarcastic, confident and sexxy eyes. Good tatts piercings, great taste in music (listens to similar music as me - real punk rock, metal, rock) and has broad interests. Open minded, not religious, nice hair, has a unique sense of dressing. Last but not least - a killer personality!!
charlotte_ai
10-28-2012, 05:24 AM
Hey - not all of us 35-40's have problems in this area!
Got no point of reference for this, really. No experience with guys any older than 28. I just find once I hear a guy is over 40, I'm instantly turned off finding him even remotely attractive. No idea why, but it ruins the attraction for me.
Vyanka
10-28-2012, 11:07 AM
Hey - not all of us 35-40's have problems in this area! I'm going nuts finding 20-something year old females that can keep up, even 2 and 3 at a time, lol. Not bragging, just don't sell us not-quite-middle-aged guys short, lol!! ;)
No, you're not bragging at all. :-P
Find 30 yr olds. They know better.
Kellydancer
10-28-2012, 01:35 PM
Or older. I know what I like and what I don't like at this point. In my 20s I was often shy about asking what I want but as I aged I have become far more assertive and tell men what I like.
Kellydancer
10-28-2012, 01:42 PM
Got no point of reference for this, really. No experience with guys any older than 28. I just find once I hear a guy is over 40, I'm instantly turned off finding him even remotely attractive. No idea why, but it ruins the attraction for me.
I don't blame you. I find many men my age and all I want to say is eww. So many don't keep up their looks and are quite repulsive. The ones in decent shape (and by decent I mean not obese)are not as common as the ugly ones with huge beer bellies and hair everywhere except on their head. I have found one with only a small belly, balding and greying and he's definitely someone who I could manage sleeping with. Apparently he feels the same way.
BlkSharpie
10-28-2012, 03:09 PM
Wow...you all are checking out all the wrong older men! LoL
Ive been attracted to and dating guys 30's and up ever since I became legal...
..and they didnt look anything like you described!
Also, I find it funny, when Ive been with youngers guys they'll complain "Im too old for this!"
and older guys are all energizer bunnies... :D
Almost Jaded
10-28-2012, 06:18 PM
Find 30 yr olds. They know better.
30-40 is definitely when woman are at their peak sexually; no question! But the poster making the comment is in her 20's, as are many of the other girls who write off anyone over 30 or 35. They can prefer younger guys all they want; everyone had their thing. But to say that "we" can't keep up in the sack - well... That needed correcting, lol. :P
Blksharpie gets it. ;)
charlotte_ai
10-28-2012, 06:21 PM
It's not so much about looks for me when it comes to age attraction. Although if they're fat and hairy better bet I'm not interested in the slightest. But that goes for guys of any age.
What I'm talking about is more psychological, ie- I have had situations where I've thought a guy was quite attractive (tho a bit older looking-you gotta admit, it's rare to find a 40yr old who looks 22) then found out he was 42 and the attraction was gone in a snap. My dad would be in his late 40's if still alive, so a guy in his 40's is just too close to my dads age... Maybe that's why I feel turned off by them.
That and I have nothing to talk about with older guys unless they're the rare party types, like a male stripper I know who is 50.
By the same token, hearing a guy is 21/22 instantly gets me going if I was attracted to him to start with.
Kellydancer
10-28-2012, 07:13 PM
It's not so much about looks for me when it comes to age attraction. Although if they're fat and hairy better bet I'm not interested in the slightest. But that goes for guys of any age.
What I'm talking about is more psychological, ie- I have had situations where I've thought a guy was quite attractive (tho a bit older looking-you gotta admit, it's rare to find a 40yr old who looks 22) then found out he was 42 and the attraction was gone in a snap. My dad would be in his late 40's if still alive, so a guy in his 40's is just too close to my dads age... Maybe that's why I feel turned off by them.
That and I have nothing to talk about with older guys unless they're the rare party types, like a male stripper I know who is 50.
By the same token, hearing a guy is 21/22 instantly gets me going if I was attracted to him to start with.
It is perfectly normal not to be attracted at all to older guys. I know at my age men old enough to be my dad just gross me out big time and probably would unless they were exceptionally good looking. I have a dad, I don't need another but would think I was dating my dad if I went out with these older men. Not to mention I would have little in common with them.
FiendishGyrator
10-30-2012, 07:26 PM
a nice big dick.
if I were single, I'd institute a dick check because aside from a push up bra
it's not like you don't know what size a woman's tits are.
on the other hand, the pants don't come off until right before sex and that can
be a huge let down---I honestly have felt cheated! We women need better cock displaying
clorhes to better make our decision based on our preferences just like men can see the size
of our bum or bewbies.
Almost Jaded
10-30-2012, 08:23 PM
That's not a direct comparison, lol. Boobs and butt are nice and all, but you can check out a mans physique while clothed as well - hell, we can display more of it in public! I'm all for cock-size-displaying outfits just as soon as a pussy-size-o-meter becomes available, too - that disappointment works both ways; the "hotdog in a hallway" effect sucks for everyone involved, not just the woman. :P
pinups4
10-30-2012, 09:04 PM
From what I read here, there's one special part of a man....each man has one, and the very desirable ones have a pristine specimen with an endless supply that comes flowing out.
All she has to do is smile and he shows it. She flirts with him, and it's under her control. If she's good, it can keep them both happy for years and years.
Everyone knows the power of such a man, it's obvious. NO ONE denies him what he wants. NO ONE questions his ability, brilliance, capability or value.
Some people desire to make theirs grow, no one desires to make theirs shrink
What is this secret part of a man?
HIS WALLET! These ladies are dancers! (lol)
charlotte_ai
10-30-2012, 09:29 PM
a nice big dick.
if I were single, I'd institute a dick check
I totally do this... I'll cop sneaky feels thru clothes by lap sitting, dancing, (if at a night club) and other "stealth checks".
Only time I've been disappointed is when I didn't check such things first. I also seem to have a pretty good "big dick" radar. Dunno what it is, but once I'm in the situation close enough to check... I'm rarely disappointed...
melb_oz_n00b
06-04-2013, 12:16 AM
Obviously there are things that attract us but they are usually pretty subjective. I've traveled the world and been attracted to men of all colours, shapes and sizes. I thought I wasn't attracted to asian guys and I fell in love with a Chinese Trinidadian, I thought I'd gone black and I'd never go back and my boyfriend now is a bearded Middle Eastern man. Chemistry is the most important element of physical attraction, I want to laugh and be myself and have a genuine connection with someone. A good smile is incredibly sexy as is someone who knows how to use eye contact, it's the best foreplay..
That said, chemistry and eye fucking will only get you so far if we can't have a decent conversation. Intelligent, humorous, honest and kind hearted men will win out over guys with six packs and zero brains.
Are you inside my mind? Haha. I have certain types that I'm more attracted to, but then I'll go crazy for someone who is everything I never thought I was attracted to. For example, my default type is Latin American mestizo, nice accent, fit (like a soccer player rather than bodybuilder), quick to laughter, and 30-38. I'm unsual actually prefer shorter or same height to much taller. Probably has something to do with the fact that many latin guys are shorter than me, and they're my type. I have very little common with Aussie guys in their 20s and have essentially sworn off them. (I'm 25 and Aussie myself.) BUt the last guy who swept me off my feet was the opposite of what I thought I was attracted to: White Aussie, one year older, very muscular, and overthinks everything. I don't think I've ever been so strongly affected by a guy in my life. Perhaps for the best, it hasn't worked out. On the lookout for a fun latino to take my mind off him. Haha.
BlackSheEp3
06-04-2013, 07:04 AM
Their bank accounts.
Okay and a good heart, sound mind, intelligence, and kindness.
Looks are bonus...its important too.
Djoser
06-04-2013, 10:22 AM
From my experience and observations, the bank account wins every time. Unless the guy is shy and retiring. Having a big dick is overrated. Best of all is to have a fair amount of money (at least) and be in reasonably good shape.
Mmm yeah, Aussie guys in their 20s are not really my thing either (and I'm 22 and Aussie). Brazil trip? Haha
From my experience and observations, the bank account wins every time. Unless the guy is shy and retiring. Having a big dick is overrated. Best of all is to have a fair amount of money (at least) and be in reasonably good shape.
So not true! The bank account has NEVER won me over. I actually have kind of the opposite reaction where I find if guys have a fair amount of money they are insufferable and I would never date them. I've only met one exception to my rule but even though he was lovely, caring, considerate and wanted to shower me with money and clothes and whatever else women supposedly want I couldn't date him cause the chemistry wasn't working for me.
Obviously in the club it's a different story and a big fat wallet is a positive thing.
Kellydancer
06-04-2013, 09:16 PM
In the club the ONLY thing that matters is the bank accounts but in non dancing situations bank accounts are important but not like people make them. Oh sure I generally avoid broke men like the plague but generally speaking it's because I don't want to have to support them. It's why I never date men with kids, because they have financial responsibilities that could become my problem as well and take money from me. However money is only a small issue, but I would prefer a middle income man who is in decent shape (doesn't have to be in perfect shape)over a rich obese man.
Djoser
06-05-2013, 05:36 AM
So not true! The bank account has NEVER won me over. I actually have kind of the opposite reaction where I find if guys have a fair amount of money they are insufferable and I would never date them. I've only met one exception to my rule but even though he was lovely, caring, considerate and wanted to shower me with money and clothes and whatever else women supposedly want I couldn't date him cause the chemistry wasn't working for me.
Obviously in the club it's a different story and a big fat wallet is a positive thing.
Glad to hear it! Those guys in Brazil will be very happy to see you I am sure.
Just be careful, there was a horrible story I read just today about a gang rape there.
elisabetta
06-05-2013, 06:24 PM
Confidence, skills, status. Dont care about looks
Nickirose20
12-03-2013, 01:48 AM
Long slim legs
Flat butt narrow and very low fat deposit there especially
A fit slim waist broad shoulders
I dig tall guys more than anything.
And hairy guys
And guys who aren't too muscular but very slim.
Thick long curly black hair is my favorite but dark brown medium brown and light brown/dirty blond hair can be attractive just gets less as it gets lighter.
I like Indian guys
I like Latino guys next
Then middle eastern guys
Ethiopian guys
Native American guys
Southern European guys
Then white guys darker haired ones are attractive IMO.
In that order
I like a caramel complexion
smaller/slimmer nose
full lips
large green eyes
Angular slim face shape
Square jaw structure
That's about it. This is an ideal fantasy.
JoJoX
12-03-2013, 01:52 AM
I am a sucker for a sexy smile and deep voice.
Nickirose20
12-03-2013, 01:54 AM
Oh yeah I forgot about that a nice heavy healthy baritone voice.
Melonie
12-03-2013, 04:13 AM
a picture is worth 1000 words ...
http://t.fod4.com/t/87e808e020/c480x270_24.jpg
DonaDiabla
12-03-2013, 04:07 PM
I like Tall (6'2 and Up), super-skinny, pale to Bronze-skin, dark short hair, dark brown to lime green eyes, full lips, tattoos, piercings, intelligent, moody, serious, black-humored, and professional men of color. I am a sucker for Creoles, Latinos, and Romani men :) I love men from the Caribbean and West Africa as well :) When I mean super-skinny...I mean almost no meat on the bones at all ;)
Kellydancer
12-03-2013, 05:53 PM
Melonie, is that the most interesting man in the world? I would date him because he is interesting.
simone87
12-03-2013, 06:43 PM
men love boobs the most? news to me. most of the guys i've met love ass and legs! but anyways..
dark, beautiful eyes..never even slept with a blue-eyed/blond man.
older guys
in shape.nice muscular arms and stomach, i love wiry fit guys and nothing turns me off more than a tub o' lard.
little bit of facial hair
good hygiene a MUST
big hands with well-kept short nails
knows how to eat pussy, generous and adventurous in bed
good sized bank account and very responsible with money. nothing makes me feel more loved than being a little bit spoiled and taken care of, not that i need it but its the thought that counts
The Six
12-03-2013, 07:57 PM
good hygiene a MUST
Damn women are so picky these days. Remember the days when a little BO and earwax were status symbols?
Kellydancer
12-03-2013, 08:26 PM
Yeah it's picky when women refuse to date men with poor hygiene and are obese. In fact I love that natural smell of nature.
SexyAleks
12-03-2013, 08:28 PM
I am actually going to describe a client of mine I met 2 yrs ago and still can't forget about. I like what I refer to as "mature beauty". Older guy, a bit of grey hair, hazel eyes, full lips and high cheekbones. Slim and toned body, with broad shoulders and a thin waist, about 185 cm tall. Extremely shy and modest, kind and patient. Because of him, my standards are now so high that I think I will stay single till the end.
invibe
12-03-2013, 09:52 PM
Boobs are great of course, but I am definitely a leg man.
I think everyone male or female has a 'type'. What is interesting is when someone who doesn't fit that image at all gets your attention. I generally really like petite athletic/slim women with long hair and kind of spunky. Will never forget this 'thick' girl with short black hair and big green eyes, on paper not my type but my pants disagree. Maybe sometimes you just know it when you see it and it.
One other thing. See women can't say words like intelligence to guys and not give the impression you are talking geeks, nerds, engineers etc. To us, especially if you work in a technical field (I am a software engineer) it is a WTF?! whatever moment. What you actually mean is, you like handsome in shape men who dress nice and are good in bed and also not dumb as rocks, i.e. have the brain power to balance a checkbook and hold a conversation about something other than fantasy football. Guys who take this literally to mean greasy neckbeards who collecct anime and vaction to various game cons are not understanding that their t-shirt with a clever phrase in machine code is not turning the ladies heads.
xStacey
12-03-2013, 10:14 PM
I love tall caucasian men. He doesn't necessarily have to be extremely muscular but must be in good shape, I like men who take care of themselves. Well-groomed, intelligent, educated, well-mannered and attentive to my needs. In other words, I want a gentleman :)
I have a weakness for nerds, especially those who look so innocent lolll they were the best in bed.
And to be more crude, I like them well-endowed but his skills in bed still matter. He must love foreplay and be able to last. I am into very long passionate and intense love making sessions.
Sadly, I think I am describing my ex... Sigh
The Six
12-03-2013, 11:15 PM
Yeah it's picky when women refuse to date men with poor hygiene and are obese. In fact I love that natural smell of nature.
We should strive to be like the ancients, who considered the earth to be sacred, and thus, if you were covered in it, you received its blessings. I'm not dirty, I'm just touched by the glory of Mother Nature.
Melonie
12-04-2013, 04:24 AM
Melonie, is that the most interesting man in the world? I would date him because he is interesting
Yup ... he actually lives in New York !
DonaDiabla
12-04-2013, 07:33 PM
I like Tall (6'2 and Up), super-skinny, pale to Bronze-skin, dark short hair, dark brown to lime green eyes, full lips, tattoos, ear piercings, intelligent, moody, serious, black-humored, and professional men of color. I am a sucker for Creoles, Latinos, and Romani men :) I love men from the Caribbean and West Africa as well :) When I mean super-skinny...I mean almost no meat on the bones at all ;)
I almost forget he also needs to have a wonderful bank account ;D