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Amy Lee
04-26-2011, 12:11 PM
I agree that it should be private...I know there are men (customers) on here posing too, like little trolls....>:(

Amy Lee
04-26-2011, 12:16 PM
1. I don't want to have to be verified. I like picking and choosing who knows my cam persona and yeah, it's a little tricky having the REAL ME, my CAM ME, and my SW ME - but you know what? I'm a paranoid stoner :)

2. I'm so sorry Isobel!!!! At least it's complimentary? Change your name - those of us that find your commentary provoking will find you again :)

3. how has BHG not been banned yet??? where's a mod when you need one!

4. I emailed Pryce a while ago about becoming a Premium Member and never heard back, so I'm guessing profits on this site are not a motivating factor for working on anything forum related.

5. I'd be willing to buy a domain with my SW name and setup a private forum and let everybody vote on mods so it's as neutral as possible.



LMAO @ "paranoid stoner" that was cute honey.::)
(Just had to say that)

AngelCummings
04-26-2011, 12:17 PM
::::::::::::::And he's gone.


:drum::drink::party2::joke::beer:

That"MODEL"Chick
04-26-2011, 12:17 PM
"And I question AnalCummings posts because they are full of contradictions and not logical..."

"The difference TGF is u react and your Camgirl friend AnalCummings. Always responds to peoples posts."

"I believe AnalCummings tells more lies than the men at cams tell me."

This was posted by bloodhoundgang:

Hmmmm.....sure does use the word "anal" alot. LMAO,thats not even her name!!! Sure you aren't a dude??!!

AngelCummings
04-26-2011, 12:31 PM
"And I question AnalCummings posts because they are full of contradictions and not logical..."

"The difference TGF is u react and your Camgirl friend AnalCummings. Always responds to peoples posts."

"I believe AnalCummings tells more lies than the men at cams tell me."

This was posted by bloodhoundgang:

Hmmmm.....sure does use the word "anal" alot. LMAO,thats not even her name!!! Sure you aren't a dude??!!

LOL. I'm still scratching my head trying to figure out what this person has against me? :O He just got here like what, a week ago? And has already given me a new nickname ::) I'm seriously starting to think it's a jealous ex who somehow found out I'm on the thread, bc it's not normal to hate someone when you don't even know them and haven't been on the board long! But then again, I highly doubt it because I don't date stupid men, only the articulate and well-educated ones. I'm one of the nicest people anyone irl would ever meet, and I really try to be helpful. He doesn't believe anything I say because he's IGNORANT. He was the ONLY person to vote "splitcamming" in the poll I recently made. He said himself that he had never even HEARD of a sugar baby before. So if course he's going to think I'm lying if he lacks knowledge in most of the areas we concern ourselves with on a daily basis. Or maybe he has some sick sexual fetish and gets his rocks of by attacking women? It's hard to tell when you are dealing with creeps exactly what the motivation is. Or, maybe he is indeed a hacker and I just got to be his "lucky" scapegoat, in order to shift the attention away from the fact that he's trying to hack this forum and many of the girls on it.

Amy Lee
04-26-2011, 12:42 PM
LOL. I'm still scratching my head trying to figure out what this person has against me? :O He just got here like what, a week ago? And has already given me a new nickname ::) I'm seriously starting to think it's a jealous ex who somehow found out I'm on the thread, bc it's not normal to hate someone when you don't even know them and haven't been on the board long! But then again, I highly doubt it because I don't date stupid men, only the articulate and well-educated ones. I'm one of the nicest people anyone irl would ever meet, and I really try to be helpful. He doesn't believe anything I say because he's IGNORANT. He was the ONLY person to vote "splitcamming" in the poll I recently made. He said himself that he had never even HEARD of a sugar baby before. So if course he's going to think I'm lying if he lacks knowledge in most of the areas we concern ourselves with on a daily basis. Or maybe he has some sick sexual fetish and gets his rocks of by attacking women? It's hard to tell when you are dealing with creeps exactly what the motivation is. Or, maybe he is indeed a hacker and I just got to be his "lucky" scapegoat, in order to shift the attention away from the fact that he's trying to hack this forum and many of the girls on it.


It can be a jealous woman on here, or just someone that does not like you posing as a man so they can be a bitch to you since they don't have the balls to it themselves...I mean you never know. As a psych major, I know "crazy" and people will do the craziest, neurotic shit ever...

AngelCummings
04-26-2011, 01:00 PM
It can be a jealous woman on here, or just someone that does not like you posing as a man so they can be a bitch to you since they don't have the balls to it themselves...I mean you never know. As a psych major, I know "crazy" and people will do the craziest, neurotic shit ever...

Wow :O That's a good point, I didn't even really think about that. I have probably been a bit to trusting of other members of this community, it's just so supportive! But I guess there is a bad apple in every bunch :/ It doesn't seem like another camgirl here would try to hack others though? He sent that email to multiple people, so if it was a camgirl who just didn't like me, then I don't see why they would try to hack other girls and bring them down too?

TouringGirlfriend
04-26-2011, 01:02 PM
Check out his style of posting. Read the ridiculous things he say. Check out the people he's going after. I don't even know CoolBreeze but this person seems to know him well and HE just got here (weird!). I am guessing it's a troll that left Bambalina's site and came here to cause chaos. *sigh* Losers!

Amy Lee
04-26-2011, 01:03 PM
Wow :O That's a good point, I didn't even really think about that. I have probably been a bit to trusting of other members of this community, it's just so supportive! But I guess there is a bad apple in every bunch :/ It doesn't seem like another camgirl here would try to hack others though? He sent that email to multiple people, so if it was a camgirl who just didn't like me, then I don't see why they would try to hack other girls and bring them down too?


I agree...most of the women are here are the bee's-knees and great!! But there might be that one hater on the sideline....in my opinion, there is always one.

IsobelWren
04-26-2011, 01:30 PM
Holy CRAP this thread took off while I was asleep! lol.

I'm only just now starting to read the posts and there are LOTS of great, insightful posts, thank you so much everyone!

ETA that reading it all I realized that the bulk of the thread is the fight btwn the stalker/phisher guy and his intended victims. Ladies, I suggest PMing Charlie (our mod) about thread cleanup and banning the freak. She's been great about it when we draw her attention to it (she's busy with a day job right now so can't browse the threads herself). I'd ask her about this myself but it's not really my fight here and I'd feel like a tattletale :)

IsobelWren
04-26-2011, 01:34 PM
or you could just use a name other than your work name on the forum

I could. When I started the account I thought, other girls would want a way to know I was legit (because I was new at the time and worried I'd sound like an uneducated troll or tourist) and I didn't know how much of the forum was private girl talk and how much was networking with clients.

Even if I had a private name I'd have to refrain from things like posting in the "what's your twitter" or posting my website b/c then people would just connect the names.

Kat Stories says people figure out who she is all the time regardless of her blog name.

IsobelWren
04-26-2011, 01:37 PM
That would lower traffic, Thus lowing there profit from this site , this site isnt just a community
it is the owners business. The sell add space through it , and memberships.

Thats why im guessing it is the way it is. You just cant post to many details here.

Does this site have ad space? What does it have memberships for? I've never been asked to buy a membership. I browse on Firefox, which blocks many ads by default so I've never seen any. Are there a lot of ads?

LOL, I'd go check in Chrome or Safari, but I've forgotten my password and I have it auto-enter in FFX.

dixievista
04-26-2011, 01:38 PM
yeah typically if there's some sort of nonsense going on here, it's PMS or outside drama filtering in - we work in the fucking sex industry, we're all sweethearts! lol

back to topic - I'm serious I'd love to start a forum for us where you don't have to get verified (simply because I don't want anyway as paranoid as me to not join because of that) but you all know I'm almost always around and easily reachable so if there is a troll BAM taken care of.

IsobelWren
04-26-2011, 01:48 PM
Dixie, I didn't even THINK about the verification being a problem that way. I'd thought of it as a webmaster and how it would be a pain in the ass and create a posting and work bottleneck. Wow, thanks for bringing that up, never considered it!

dixievista
04-26-2011, 01:50 PM
yeah I mean I follow AmberCutie on twitter but finding out I had to be verified by her? fuck that shit!!!! I don't know her!

MissKatie
04-26-2011, 01:56 PM
Agreed. This has been nagging me for a while so I just changed my user name ;)

lilmisssunshine
04-26-2011, 01:59 PM
I use a different name to post with than I work with because I have been harassed by the same girls that post here. Member verification won't change that. SW won't do anything about it as other girls have been harassed here again and again.

There are many people who post here who are not what they seem. Take caution and use a different name, don't post personal details/pics and don't believe everything you read that other "girls" post.

Bloodhoundgang's name sounds familiar.

AngelCummings
04-26-2011, 02:04 PM
I use a different name to post with than I work with because I have been harassed by the same girls that post here. Member verification won't change that. SW won't do anything about it as other girls have been harassed here again and again.

There are many people who post here who are not what they seem. Take caution and use a different name, don't post personal details/pics and don't believe everything you read that other "girls" post.

Bloodhoundgang's name sounds familiar.

interesting... please elaborate! (if you feel comfortable doing that).

lilmisssunshine
04-26-2011, 03:16 PM
I am trying to remember. I searched the name but didn't find anything. It seems like a name that is an older name from this forum or from the old aspd forum.

I found SW years ago when I was an escort posting on the old aspd. The members on aspd used to laugh and joke about how they would troll the "pink stripper forum" and make fun of everyone here. Funny cause I searched for it and found a very helpful forum.

But SW has been trolled by men on other forums for years. I seem to remember the name bloodhoundgang but can't place it. If it was from aspd, that forum no longer exists, so no luck there.

TouringGirlfriend
04-26-2011, 03:22 PM
Interesting... from Aspd? Wow!

bun
04-26-2011, 03:33 PM
Jesus, this place is creepy sometimes.


But, bloodhoundgang is an silly parody type band, so that may be where you recall it from. extremely inferior to lonely island! ;)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKrMxmNicns&feature=related

FiendishGyrator
04-26-2011, 03:49 PM
The other site has a privacy section for girls who want to send in a picture to the mods of themselves with a specific handwritten sign in front of them. So if you're looking for privacy-- there's already a space available.

The thing is, you'd be losing some of the people since, while there's still a bunch of traffic, there's not as much traffic as SW.

And you should be careful about posting shit. I entered in an email to google and it came upon an adult related thread archived (and thus not able to be erased.) So I had no clue for a couple of years that any craigslist business or work related business would have ALL this information just by googling my email that I foolishly wrote in a thread, and then they could backtrack by my username.

So just a heads up on that.

Slab4508
04-26-2011, 03:51 PM
Apple Dumpling Gang? Oh, wait, that was something else, lol.

Been iffy about posting in this thread, but I'm not sure there is a real solution. A forum on a cam site for models only solves some issues, but of course, would you REALLY speak your mind knowing the man is watching? A forum for women in the adult industry, run by women, has been thought of and tried many times, but just like some of the ladies here creating a new forum, the real trick is getting everyone to go there and be part of it!

And related to that, how would anyone find a private forum when you keep Google and other bots from surfing the threads? A really popular place that no one knows about sounds great if your already there, lol.

The group dynamic here just sort of fell into place, and I'm sure it could happen again on another forum, but the same issues of getting the word out to MODELS without being over-run by fans/stalkers/trolls etc is always going to be there.

It would be cool if models searching for info on cam sites/being a cam model could find some useful info on a small site that was a front for a kind of "dead poets society"... maybe have a section where women/models could leave a question that is answered (or at least responded too) by the private group. The ones that are active on the front-end can be invited into the actual group where the threads on the outside are just part of all the threads being posted.

lilmisssunshine
04-26-2011, 03:54 PM
No I remember it as a forum name. Just can't remember which forum.

AngelCummings
04-26-2011, 04:05 PM
The other site has a privacy section for girls who want to send in a picture to the mods of themselves with a specific handwritten sign in front of them. So if you're looking for privacy-- there's already a space available.

The thing is, you'd be losing some of the people since, while there's still a bunch of traffic, there's not as much traffic as SW.

And you should be careful about posting shit. I entered in an email to google and it came upon an adult related thread archived (and thus not able to be erased.) So I had no clue for a couple of years that any craigslist business or work related business would have ALL this information just by googling my email that I foolishly wrote in a thread, and then they could backtrack by my username.



So just a heads up on that.
Which forum are you talking about? AC? PSOS? CGU? I'm confused lol

Athenathefabulous
04-26-2011, 04:10 PM
The other site has a privacy section for girls who want to send in a picture to the mods of themselves with a specific handwritten sign in front of them. So if you're looking for privacy-- there's already a space available.

The thing is, you'd be losing some of the people since, while there's still a bunch of traffic, there's not as much traffic as SW.


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there might not be as much traffic as SW, but there is a lot. in the battle of quality v. quantity, i think they take quality and SW takes quantity. in regards to stripping info, if i ask a question about stripping i often post it there becasue i tend to get a lot better info. and same with ladies only/ girly type issues (plus they are private there). the community there is more tightknit, but many of hte members are members who were here at one pt. i think the quality of the stripping community on this forum has gone down as a whole... so even if SW gets more traffic, that doesnt mean that the traffic is good traffic.

in regards to other work, there is not nearly as much info on camming over there. there is more info on sugar daddy etc. on that site but there is WAYYY more of a webcam community over here.



And related to that, how would anyone find a private forum when you keep Google and other bots from surfing the threads? A really popular place that no one knows about sounds great if your already there, lol.



google exotic dancing forum. stripperweb is not the first forum to come up.

the trick is you have a public and private section. it would be like making a private cam girl section on SW.


Been iffy about posting in this thread, but I'm not sure there is a real solution. A forum on a cam site for models only solves some issues, but of course, would you REALLY speak your mind knowing the man is watching? A forum for women in the adult industry, run by women, has been thought of and tried many times, but just like some of the ladies here creating a new forum, the real trick is getting everyone to go there and be part of it!

its been done before (for strippers).

arielbriel
04-26-2011, 05:38 PM
We really need this forum to be private. I know I'm not the first to have a run-in regarding things I've posted on here thinking noone else would see it but us adult workers.

Elusive21
04-26-2011, 11:33 PM
google exotic dancing forum. stripperweb is not the first forum to come up.

the trick is you have a public and private section. it would be like making a private cam girl section on SW.


its been done before (for strippers).

precisely

benic
04-27-2011, 02:13 AM
LOL. I'm still scratching my head trying to figure out what this person has against me? :O He just got here like what, a week ago? And has already given me a new nickname ::) I'm seriously starting to think it's a jealous ex who somehow found out I'm on the thread, bc it's not normal to hate someone when you don't even know them and haven't been on the board long! But then again, I highly doubt it because I don't date stupid men, only the articulate and well-educated ones. I'm one of the nicest people anyone irl would ever meet, and I really try to be helpful. He doesn't believe anything I say because he's IGNORANT. He was the ONLY person to vote "splitcamming" in the poll I recently made. He said himself that he had never even HEARD of a sugar baby before. So if course he's going to think I'm lying if he lacks knowledge in most of the areas we concern ourselves with on a daily basis. Or maybe he has some sick sexual fetish and gets his rocks of by attacking women? It's hard to tell when you are dealing with creeps exactly what the motivation is. Or, maybe he is indeed a hacker and I just got to be his "lucky" scapegoat, in order to shift the attention away from the fact that he's trying to hack this forum and many of the girls on it.

I'm pretty surprised this bloodhoundgang guy is still around on the forums. I actually read those threads when he first showed up. Not only is he creepy, but he's pretty incoherent. I can't even understand what he's trying to say. I doubt that he's an ex if you're saying you only date educated men...cause I don't think any educated man could write soooo poorly (even if they were making it up).

Probably some bored teenager...hopefully he's gone for good...

CoolBreeze
04-27-2011, 09:47 AM
Back on topic now? Ok.

There should be someplace where performers can speak openly and with each other away from prying eyes, trolls, stalkers, haters, curious fans, ex-boyfriends, boyfriends, husbands, and ME too.

I am unconditionally with you on this subject.

I have some pretty specific ideas about how to achieve it too. Ideas that I've been solidifying for almost two years while trying to keep the peace and squash the bullshit as a moderator on that other forum.

But I'm new to many of you here. And that's ok. :) Thanks to those who responded with their thanks.

Breeze

camille27
04-27-2011, 10:26 AM
i've never understood why this forum is not private, but that's one of the main reasons i don't post much anymore.

roast
04-27-2011, 01:18 PM
Are people envisioning a forum like psosupport? No model verification necessarily but you have to register and nothing is public? I support that.

CoolBreeze no offense to you, and Im glad you acknowledge that:
1. you are not a cam model
2. you moderate in another forum that seems to have a hate-on for SW (let's uh not derail by discussing this)

Which feels... counter-intuitive. Do know that I think your participation as a male voice here is one of the better ones Ive seen since Ive been on SW's Other Work section but Id rather be blunt about my perspective.

EDIT: oh, you said away from YOU too? I missed that. allrighty.

Building a forum is not tough if one has access to the appropriate software, cpanel is fantastic and I used it for my website... and there are several features there already for creating forums. Many cam girls are webdesigners and are around who would be willing to invest the time. So can we leave this thread up at least a week and not leap into making a choice... that'd be helpful at least for my process.

A surveymonkey poll may be a great way to capture everyone's ideas, concerns, questions, mod nominations - plus itd be anonymous and the results can be freely available to everyone.

Also if there can be a realistic timeline so people don't get overly ambitious and end up resenting everyone or suddenly disappear that'd help make this more viable. Bear in mind that the person buying the domain isn't just buying a $10 godaddy thing - they'll need to add on privacy + possible bandwidth + memory + cpanel, etc.... plus calculate time away from their own work into the project. That person can offset costs by taking out advertising/affiliate space though, but it won't be nickels and won't be a few minutes here and there (at least at the beginning).

Also if there is some kind off-SW communication method that people can use to design the project (google groups or mass emails or something), I think that'd help keep the ideas in one place and won't clog up space for those who aren't interested.

The person leading this will have to keep in mind that they'll be doing the bulk of the work, will need to sustain a bulk of the energy, will be spending their own money, and may not have people knocking down their doors with gratitude. It won't be a fun vanity project and it may fail. So the person heading it needs to be blindly committed to having this kind of forum or they'll grow resentful, dramariffic, and / or fade away.

...I realize I am shouting out ideas that I should just implement myself, but wanted to vomit this all out in case I can't commit.

But great idea Isobel and basically everyone else who has been asking for this for months.

MarvelGirl
04-27-2011, 01:52 PM
i've never understood why this forum is not private, but that's one of the main reasons i don't post much anymore.

Perhaps because "Other Work" doesn't solely apply to camgirls.

I'm not verifying shit with anybody. This is an open forum. Anybody who expected privacy form a forum that they didn't have to do a damn thing to gain access to must have been suffering from a moment of gross stupidity.

Seriously, some of you use your work names on here, post your websites and then screech stalker when someone contacts you because of it.

It's called ADVERTISING for fuck's sake. If you don't want to advertise here then FUCKING STOP DOING IT.

I swear to god this website is full of moronic children lately. Use your fucking brain. If you post your pictures on the Internet along with contact info and talk about masturbating on cam, people WILL contact you. Go fucking figure!

TouringGirlfriend
04-27-2011, 01:59 PM
Perhaps because "Other Work" doesn't solely apply to camgirls.

In fact, I was going to bring that up but had other things to take care of. Here goes: The name of this website is called "Stripperweb". This site is more dedicated to strippers more than anything (at least it seems that way). I imagine the other work section was supposed to be this small section of the site until it blew up! It is now BIG! We have new posters posting here everyday. However, we have to keep in mind that this site is geared toward strippers more than anything. I would love a private forum as well but I know it ain't gonna happen here.
If you are an escort there are private forums for that. If you are a camgirl there are private forums for that. If you are a stripper there is a private forum for that but stripperweb isn't it and from what I have heard as of late, it will never be it.

Having said all that, I don't think others are stupid or moronic for wanting a private forum. However, I do think it is stupid to post your contact info, website info and complain when someone contacts you using that information.

MarvelGirl
04-27-2011, 02:05 PM
. However, I do think it is stupid to post your contact info, website info and complain when someone contacts you using that information.

It sure is. Incredibly stupid, but it happens on here.

Slab4508
04-27-2011, 02:29 PM
Well I think the idea is to have a place where some threads can be private chatter between models while other threads can be open, such as general advice or even a thread to promote themselves (but really, you would want to promote all the models and non-scam sites without having to show the name your using on the forum).

A site (more than a simple forum) would be nice if it allowed models to vote-off anyone that spammed or caused trouble, but as part of that, you would need some kind of system to "vote-up" models that post, a kind of "verified by consent."

Perhaps a respected blogger that posts about issues found on many different sites/forums and moderates the comment section to highlight model feedback.

Cam News Network... the OTHER CNN :p

CoolBreeze
04-27-2011, 11:09 PM
@Roast ~ No offense taken. A clarification: I did moderate on another forum. Past tense. And a thank you: for the compliment and other observations. I like blunt. It's to the point.

I agree with everything you've highlighted, and a lot more that you didn't. Building a forum isn't hard. Building a public forum, securing certain sections of it, staffing it, growing it, operating it, moderating it, and maintaining privacy is a little harder. It takes planning and time and effort and money and expertise and patience and a level head. Yeah, and a zero tolerance for bullshit policy.

I like the idea of an off SW communication point, and I think it's appropriate (respectful) considering the subject. Props to SW for everything they've accomplished! As for timeline, if it's me doing it, expect 6 months from initial disucssions to first live. If it's sooner, great. But I like to cover my bases and I'm a particular son of a bitch about certain things. Honestly I was just trying to measure interest in something like this. People here don't have a feel for me yet, and I have zero problem staying out of it.

I just have more time than usual right now and I don't like to be idle. No, I'm not a cam model. I just get it. I'm interested in the community of people who operate with a different perspective on life. Adult worker or not. Because I do. The secure area isn't the focal point of what I've got in mind, it's just one of the pieces.

Breeze

Amy Lee
04-27-2011, 11:12 PM
Maybe I am still high or something, but I think there are some people on here who are men posing as cam girls....and cam girls posing as men (customers).

I know I am still new, but I have posted a lot and talked to some girls in private messaging and something just seems so "fishy" about some of the posts...:-\

But that's the internet...nothing really is private or what it appears to be, I guess.

AngelCummings
04-28-2011, 02:27 AM
Maybe I am still high or something, but I think there are some people on here who are men posing as cam girls....and cam girls posing as men (customers).

I know I am still new, but I have posted a lot and talked to some girls in private messaging and something just seems so "fishy" about some of the posts...:-\

But that's the internet...nothing really is private or what it appears to be, I guess.


agreed. especially the ones who are acting like lesbians and trying to hit on people privately! im seriously suspecting that 90 percent of them are dudes. I'm THIS close to not posting advice on here anymore bc im tired of freeloaders who expect you to baby feed but don't contribute by helping others, and I'm tired of guys pretending to be chicks! Sorry lol it's been a bad night :/

TouringGirlfriend
04-28-2011, 05:57 AM
Maybe I am still high or something, but I think there are some people on here who are men posing as cam girls....and cam girls posing as men (customers).

I know I am still new, but I have posted a lot and talked to some girls in private messaging and something just seems so "fishy" about some of the posts...:-\

But that's the internet...nothing really is private or what it appears to be, I guess.

Why not just out them? or report them? Obviously we already know of one. However, if one is doing that and could be a threat you need to say who you think it is and alert the community.

camille27
04-28-2011, 02:14 PM
i'm not a camgirl.
the quality of posts in the dancing sections declined because dancers were wary of revealing where they worked or had worked, reviewing clubs in fear of consequent flooding...basically, the dancing sections became more and more deserted when the other site popped up and offered the no-lurkers, dancers-only rule. and that is where people are giving current reviews of clubs and all that shit that is no longer done here because of the lack of privacy.
certainly, it's a private forum and blah blah don't be stupid, but that doesn't really address the issue of women not wanting to post because of privacy issues.
i know i am not the only one who did not understand why there were men posting, the lack of privacy, etc.
i'm also not sure why you seem so upset. but then again, i never post here so i'm not sure if this topic has been overdone or what. i literally popped in to see if they had make the forum private yet. irony.



Perhaps because "Other Work" doesn't solely apply to camgirls.

I'm not verifying shit with anybody. This is an open forum. Anybody who expected privacy form a forum that they didn't have to do a damn thing to gain access to must have been suffering from a moment of gross stupidity.

Seriously, some of you use your work names on here, post your websites and then screech stalker when someone contacts you because of it.

It's called ADVERTISING for fuck's sake. If you don't want to advertise here then FUCKING STOP DOING IT.

I swear to god this website is full of moronic children lately. Use your fucking brain. If you post your pictures on the Internet along with contact info and talk about masturbating on cam, people WILL contact you. Go fucking figure!

Amy Lee
04-28-2011, 02:21 PM
Why not just out them? or report them? Obviously we already know of one. However, if one is doing that and could be a threat you need to say who you think it is and alert the community.


If it becomes blatantly obvious to me, then I will. "Fishy" does not proof make.

lilmisssunshine
04-28-2011, 03:24 PM
agreed. especially the ones who are acting like lesbians and trying to hit on people privately! im seriously suspecting that 90 percent of them are dudes. I'm THIS close to not posting advice on here anymore bc im tired of freeloaders who expect you to baby feed but don't contribute by helping others, and I'm tired of guys pretending to be chicks! Sorry lol it's been a bad night :/

Thank u...I feel the same. I haven't stopped posting but there have been many times I have just avoided posting and/or taken hiatus...it gets annoying

lilmisssunshine
04-28-2011, 03:30 PM
Camille I remember arguments about girls not wanting to post about specific clubs in the strippers sections and now the stripper sections have seemed to become lacking.

There have been recently people arguing here in the OW section about people not talking specificly about websites or releasing information. If that mentality wins out, it will just become like the other SW sections.

I have been to the other site. Seemed kinda dead but I visited years ago and its probably better off now.

lilmisssunshine
04-28-2011, 03:31 PM
And I was kinda glad when the other site came along years ago, as it took many of the "divas" out of here.

dixievista
04-28-2011, 04:11 PM
so is there still interest in a completely 100% private forum, no verification required, but high monitoring with voted-on moderators? I'm crazy about the idea now :)

camille27
04-28-2011, 05:15 PM
yeah, between clubs getting curiously flooded after good reviews in club chat, and newbies asking the same questions, and not-yet-dancers glorifying the industry during the honeymoon period, and....there was a lot, i think, that decreased traffic in the dance sections.
it is nice to see a name i recognize! christ, i am getting old..



Camille I remember arguments about girls not wanting to post about specific clubs in the strippers sections and now the stripper sections have seemed to become lacking.

There have been recently people arguing here in the OW section about people not talking specificly about websites or releasing information. If that mentality wins out, it will just become like the other SW sections.

I have been to the other site. Seemed kinda dead but I visited years ago and its probably better off now.

Slab4508
04-29-2011, 03:28 PM
so is there still interest in a completely 100% private forum, no verification required, but high monitoring with voted-on moderators? I'm crazy about the idea now :)

No verification, but maybe a requirement that all new members post in a "welcome aboard" thread or else their account will be deleted for not posting anything after 30 days (or something like that). Doesn't have to be details on there screen names or what site(s) they are on, but SOMETHING to let everyone else know who is actually on the forum.

Also think there needs to be at least one section that is public so cam models or potential modles can find the forum.

dixievista
04-29-2011, 03:30 PM
No verification, but maybe a requirement that all new members post in a "welcome aboard" thread or else their account will be deleted for not posting anything after 30 days (or something like that). Doesn't have to be details on there screen names or what site(s) they are on, but SOMETHING to let everyone else know who is actually on the forum.

Also think there needs to be at least one section that is public so cam models or potential modles can find the forum.

great ideas! I agree. Shall I start a new thread on this topic? Is there enough interest? If you're interested, thank this post!!!!!

Athenathefabulous
04-29-2011, 05:23 PM
In fact, I was going to bring that up but had other things to take care of. Here goes: The name of this website is called "Stripperweb". This site is more dedicated to strippers more than anything (at least it seems that way). I imagine the other work section was supposed to be this small section of the site until it blew up! It is now BIG! We have new posters posting here everyday. However, we have to keep in mind that this site is geared toward strippers more than anything. I would love a private forum as well but I know it ain't gonna happen here.
If you are an escort there are private forums for that. If you are a camgirl there are private forums for that. If you are a stripper there is a private forum for that but stripperweb isn't it and from what I have heard as of late, it will never be it.

Having said all that, I don't think others are stupid or moronic for wanting a private forum. However, I do think it is stupid to post your contact info, website info and complain when someone contacts you using that information.

since the otherwork section has blown up so much.. it would be nice if they made it a sister site to here... like camwhoreweb or something like that. kind of like strip club junkie is now... the actual stuff related to being a customer is separate but they still interact with us on life support, lounge etc. but when i hit new posts, posts on SCJ dont show up. this would be nice to girls who are mostly dancers like me, because when i hit new posts sometimes if i am not paying attention i will start replying to something as if it is a question for dancing, then realize what i am spending time to type is not important since it is a question for camming. i also doubt i am the only stripper on here who is getting kind of turned off due to the boom in camgirl members.... not that it is a bad thing in theory, but since this is a site mostly for strippers, i think that the overflow in the other work section is turning off some dancers from posting and resulting in the stripper section being much less active than it used to be.

other work section should still remain... but i remember when it was evenly split between escorting and camming and being a sugar baby etc. now it seems like most of the posts on here are about camming... and i think the site should adapt accordingly.