View Full Version : SeekingArrangement.com - Any Positive Reviews?
kikiwiki
08-02-2011, 07:17 PM
They really didn't give him a chance to defend himself here. Boo to CNN and those anchors that likely came from privileged backgrounds and cast judgment on him!
http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/us/2011/08/02/hln.mutual.prostitution.cnn?
ava_xo
08-03-2011, 12:30 PM
I just made one of these accounts and the men are so creepy :[
mikef
08-03-2011, 03:16 PM
I just made one of these accounts and the men are so creepy :[
Lol ;D
ava_xo
08-03-2011, 09:17 PM
Lol, they really are!
Also, do you girls know if there's a message restriction to how many messages we can receive in one day? I looked at the site and it says I've received 74 (in one day, omg....) but I've only gotten 40 in my inbox. Kind of odd.
cherryblossomsinspring
08-05-2011, 09:40 PM
They really didn't give him a chance to defend himself here. Boo to CNN and those anchors that likely came from privileged backgrounds and cast judgment on him!
http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/us/2011/08/02/hln.mutual.prostitution.cnn?
Ohh just watched this! Wow I don't actually feel to bad for Mr. Wade. He knows that most likely 80% of the males that sign up are looking for cheap hookers that are naive and gullible. I think If I didn't read though half these threads I probably would have met the very first guy to contact me. Let's be honest here I mean most of the immediate contacts will be from some guy that's just about the goods nothing more and he'll offer as little as possible if he think he can get it for cheap.
Realistically a girl struggling with some school bills can easily sleep with about 10 guys and make about $3,000-$40,000 tax free money. Now of course I wouldn't do it , but for those that are open to the idea , they're in the right place. Actually if I was a prostitute or an escort I would sign up on this site and get to work.
marisaleigh
08-06-2011, 07:21 AM
I've noticed some news stories about SA and I'm writing an article about it, so I made my profile "public" on there again.
I wouldn't show my face, you can blur it and have additional pictures that are private and let guys see them when you're ready. Expect a shitload of emails from guys saying NO MORE than "can I see your private photos." Ummmm no! They are private because I wanna vet you first.
I know many dancers are adamant about not prostituting and others are perfectly cool with it; it all depends on what your comfort level is and whether you're willing to go above and beyond in the interest of higher earnings. SD/SB relationships are soft prostitution and I think, from a girl's standpoint, it's easier for us to swallow because it's relatively monogamous compared to escorting. Many girls on SD sites have multiples sugars at the same time, not just one, and I can see why, plus I had 2 at once at one point.
There are tons of pros on SD sites, one guy I met talked about his weeding through all the "russian hookers." I had an advantage over, let's say russians, because I had no foreign accent and was more 'girl next door' from his native Boston.
I guess it's all about target marketing; if you're ok with behaving more like an escort, find the SA guys who are looking for one they're willing to compensate in a proportionate escort manner by the hour (300-500) Most SD guys wanna pay "per meeting" which means a fixed predictable amount, but no running a clock. It's like pulling teeth to get a monthly allowance, I only got 2 guys to do that and others paid per meeting; that's where they're most like johns, they wanna sample the goods and give you 400-500 or whatever, but don't count on them month after month.
Some SD's don't want escorts cause they are actually the genuine type of sugar daddy who wants to build a rapport and mentor etc. Others don't want escorts cause they know escorts are less gullible and spoiled by hourly expectations of 300+
Once a guy offered me 150 to fuck on SA, not gonna happen buddy! So insulting.
So if you want a real sugar daddy, try to differentiate yourself from escorts, but realize sex will be involved sooner than a traditional dating relationship and you won't be holding yourself back like trying not to fuck before the 3rd-5th date with a hot young guy!
If you're comfortable with escorting, SD sites can help, but half the guys profiles are like "you shouldn't be a pro supplementing her income" I discussed this with a professional companion in her mid-40s and she does well on those sites, being older and wiser with more experience. She's in Texas around Austin/Dallas, which is a great place for independent escorts etc...so she may have more luck than girls in other markets, but she clearly has learned to make her luck.
That woman says many men respond positively if you simply state hourly rates. You have to filter through the spam and I find that process tedious.
Be careful about guys wanting, not only cheap hookers, but trying to coerce you into unprotected sex. That's the danger of SD/SB pay for play. If you're not a true blue escort, the man assumes you are clean of STD's and more open to unprotected sex. Also, disproportionate demand for anal sex :/ all set with that.
marisaleigh
08-06-2011, 07:27 AM
PS if a girl is comfortable with "soft" prostitution, I'll warn you that you have to waste lots of time on SA and it gets frustrating.
If you are ok with escorting, I'm happy to offer some advice via private message. I know a thing or two about reputable agencies in the Northeast and how to discretely go about it independently. Crossing that line with your dancing customers is not the way to go, though I know you all get propositioned all night! As do I.
lindsknits
08-06-2011, 08:50 AM
I joined. I plan to tell my SO about it. Hopefully he is OK with me pursuing it...if not, then I won't.
I don't want to have sex with a SD though...is that realistic?
same... :-\ I hope he isn't mad, but we gotta get them bills paid yo!
Clement
08-06-2011, 11:37 PM
I read a fascinating article about seekingarrangement.com in The New York Times a couple of years ago. When I saw it mentioned here I thought I would post a link. It's kind of a long article, but well researched and interesting. Here's the link: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/12/magazine/12sugardaddies-t.html?scp=1&sq=Seekingarrangements.com&st=cse
hellocutie
08-09-2011, 02:30 PM
I'm part of a private network of 100 or so sugar babies and former sugar babies who serve as mentors (and yes, it DOES exist lol, if you want more info pm me, i've already invited 2 people from this forum) and have been on and off the site myself for a couple of years now. We also have a blacklist for the guys who are fakes so that helps weed out some of the bad apples. I have many close friends who have had success on this site, and there are some major sugar daddies on the site for sure. However, they are few and far between and honestly finding a legit match on there has a certain amount of pure luck involved. The amount of women on the site is vast compared to the amount of men, and even from the men I would guess that less than 50 percent are genuine. There are a lot of guys who are looking for cheap escorts, guys who are pic collectors, flakers, poofs, etc. As I've said before, freestyling is your best bet. It is a skill that has to be acquired but it's worth it! This is how most of us, at least the sugar babies I know, have the most success, and that's how it was done years before sites like this popped up. And remember, if it's too good to be true than it most likely is!! If there is a guy claiming to own 5 lambo's and offer you 20k per month, don't believe the hype ::) There are sugar daddies out there that are that generous, but you most likely aren't going to find them on that site. Just my two cents :) Seeking arrangement does hold some live events and mixers for Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies to meet, and I have a couple friends who have had better luck going to the parties and meeting wealthy men. They hold a couple in NY each year and I believe they have hosted parties in LA as well! If you want more info, feel free tp send me a private message. i have some ebooks that would be good for you to read and can tell you a lot more but i don't feel comfortable revealing all i know here in such a public place, especially in light of recent events...
I am really interested in getting into a sugar baby relationship. I have members online I do that with but would like to do it in real life as well . Pls sent me any info :)))));D
Aurora_Sunset
08-12-2011, 07:06 AM
I know right? I'm sitting here scratching my head at all the comments from people on this particular True Life ep (which I did not know had aired and I'm mad I missed it) because they've got it in their head that somehow these men are being MANIPULATED. ::)::)::) Silly!
Oh wow, really? They think the men are being manipulated? I've never heard that side. I always hear from people who think the women are being degraded for having to "resort" to that. But honestly, when I read the article, I thought one girl who was interviewed sounded like a sad case simply because she had no idea what she was doing. She took a car and a train to meet some guy in another city, spent all day with him at the pool, and then had sex with him. On the ride back to the train, she had apparently never even discussed a payment, and he gave her like $300, which she thought "was decent for half a day's work," but then felt like crap on the train. I'm like :O - there is no girl on SW who would travel that far out of her way, and do all that for only $300, and would especially not "not discuss" money before doing all that... No kidding the girl felt duped and degraded - she had no idea what she was doing. If that's the kind of clueless girl they get for the story, of course people are going to feel sorry for her and think this is a "bad" system. ::)
whiteheat
08-15-2011, 07:50 PM
I finally signed up on it, and for now only 2 guys seem sugar daddy material and serious.
Let's see, no negative or too positive attitude towards all this, just neutral but actually interested in trying a SB relationship from a site!
GlamourRouge
08-17-2011, 09:54 AM
Anyone have any positive reviews on the site? I put up a fake profile with fake pics and within 24 hours I've had a dozen emails.
Anyone get a Sugar Daddy off the site?
"Typical" allowance monthly and/or weekend?
How does the first meeting usually go? Dinner, hotel, random spot?
Thanks in advance.
I've had several sugardaddies off there. I never had sex with one of them and would never, but to each their own. IMHO, they aren't worth it. It's too much time & effort, and they always end up expecting more than they say they wanted in the first place. Annoying.
First meeting is usually coffee or dinner. Always always ALWAYS ask for at least $100 for the first meeting to show they are serious.
Having a sugardaddy is most comparable to babysitting the most spoiled, rich, bratty child you've ever come across. Seriously.
LeahBabii
08-20-2011, 12:13 AM
I've had my fair share of irritating dirty old men on SA, you have to really weed out the good ones. I get the slick ugly old guys that try and say ill be "generous" and offer you 300$ for a visit. I'm sorry but $300 is NOT generous. I most def got very irritated with how cheap some of these sugardaddies were trying to be, um hello the name is SUGAR daddy for a reason not budget daddy. It get's tiring waiting around for a half decent non-grungy man.
Lady Xplicit18
08-20-2011, 02:20 PM
um hello the name is sugar daddy for a reason not budget daddy.
lol exactly!
cherryblossomsinspring
08-20-2011, 02:35 PM
Ewww I dislike this site even though I just created profile a couple days ago. So far I've gotten 5 emails with the same exact two sentences in each message from fake guys the website created to talk to real members.
I received one message from a cheap-o who thought my asking price was insane since I was asking for 5,000 a month. He said that he only paid the rent each month for his last SB and that if I was interested in that offer he would definitely like to get to know me. First off, why do men message you telling you that you're asking for too much? If that is what my needs are in order to study for school, pay bills, as well as set money aside for the cost of the expensive degree program I have to pay for, then that's the amount I need. There's no way I'm spending all of my time each month with a man who will pay only 500. I could make that in a club. But anyways, I'm thinking there's not much on there so I deleted my account already. I'll post back if I find a site that seems more active.
I had a few of those myself actually losers were coming at me for $300 a pop. I was like wtf? I said we could do dinner for $300 since you're offering me 7% of what I'm asking for. This one asshole said well that's like me saying I'll stick my cock in 7% of the way. lol My response was well if you're having such great luck at that rate then please continue on to the next profile.
What bothers me most is that if you don't have what i want then why the f*** contact me? Annoying.
Also now Mr. Wade is getting alot of press because of that sugar baby mtv show. He is now encouraging girls that go to college to sign up with their college email so their profile states something like "college student certified".
Now anyone can go and sign up for a college , get an email address and use it on the site. I will say the blogs are pretty helpful there but it's as if the guys that keep contacting women with $100-$500 sex a la carte are not aware it exists. I also hope that the site actually encourages women to read the blogs first because many would make the mistake of believing in the bullshit emails that come from some of these dusty ass men.
I know there are some great catches there but I've read that even some of the financially stable and successful men have stiffed ladies on the site. Why? Out of spite? Or perhaps just because they can.
LaceyCummings
08-20-2011, 09:01 PM
I used to post on CL legitimately looking for NSA fun and fuck buddies, not at all trying to solicit or advertise myself, these would truly be personal ads.
I would post a picture of my body or just tits or ass and I'd always get at least a dozen replies offering SD type situations.
This wasn't at all what I was looking for, so I'd usually ignore them, meaning I have no idea how many of these offers were BS, BUT I did end up meeting a guy once for a drink, no sex or contact at all and he gave me $500. I kept saying no, even calling him names and getting angry, and he kept upping the price.
I think it might be worth a shot. Whenever I told any of these guys I was not a sex worker ( I wasn't at the time) it only seemed to make them want me more. Weirdly, I think they get off on thinking you're a "good girl" and you only make an exception for them/ that you are naive and inexperienced and they think they can take advantage of that. Let them think what they want, use it to your advantage!
LaceyCummings
08-23-2011, 05:04 AM
Posted an ad an hour ago and i've only gotten a collection of dick pics from guys so far haha. All I can say is that if I were sending pictures of my body parts and embarrassing messages to people on craigslist, I wouldn't be using an email account that had my first and last name included like the majority of these guys are doing hahaha!!!
Did you keep your photo and posting up for the entire 7 days craigslist allows you to keep it up?
***Yeah wow...wait til you get a response (cock pic included) from someone you know! Or, if you post frequently enough, you'll start to notice a pattern of "regulars," guys that respond (cock pic included) to EVERY AD!****
Hey, I'm glad you decided to give it a try! Good luck! Yes, I would leave my ad up as long as possible. Any time I post on CL it seems to get flagged, I always get accused of being "fake." SO annoying, so be prepared for that. If and when you do get flagged, just reword your ad a bit and for sure, change the title. It may also help to change the details like age and location. I do not use a Craigslist account, and I change up the email address I use as well.
What I always tell people is that basically, only freaks post on Craigslist, but everyone reads it! I don't recommend answering ads but I've always had lots of luck placing them. I'm actually quite experienced with Craigslist, I've used it a million different ways, so if you need any help with strategy, I'd be happy to do my best! Happy Hunting! }:D
whiteheat
08-27-2011, 11:23 PM
Probably being Captian Obvious, but I saw many that are both on SA and on whatsyourprice...
Kalypso
09-10-2011, 12:20 AM
DR ,but sugar daddy sites are hit or miss. Mainly miss. They are a bunch of broke wanna-be posers trying to get cooch for a couple hundred a month OR annoying couples looking for a third wheel. Pssssh! Do not get me started.
Freestyling is the best way. There's a thread here full of great basic information. I also recommend the book The Art of Seduction. Very helpful for potential SB's and just sex workers in general! Good luck with whatever route you take. I hope you find the perfect SD.
Kalypso
09-10-2011, 12:36 AM
Oh god, I'm reading some of the replies and getting angry. I HATED when the guys would say my allowance was too much.
:toldoff: Yeah, maybe for your broke ass! For some reason they'd never write me back after that.
camille27
09-11-2011, 11:06 PM
this interview is really irritating. i'm tired of women with vanilla jobs calling everyone that isn't them pimps and prostitutes. no one "has to" have sex with anyone. that's coercion and meets the statute for rape and you would think a fancy prosecutor would know that.
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Davey17
09-12-2011, 02:19 AM
Why in the f*ck is a blue commenting here? Dude, not cool.
AND NO, not all SD are sexually oriented.
I've had 2 that had absolutely no sexual pressure and were still mutually beneficial.
Some just want the company that they normally can't get. To have a "girlfriend" for a few hours who listens, enjoys their company and makes them smile.
{Although its few and far between these days...}
Well princess ..let me tell you what a " Blue " ..is doing making comment .
Its called freedom of speach , and Despite the fact that you may not like the truth ..Both genders making comment , may just give you BALANCE .
Now , if you think for a moment that entering much an " Arangement " will not involve SEX ..THE only person you are kidding is Yourself ! You may well strike ( the less than ) 1% ...Who want a SMILE and a Shoulder to cry on , But to be sincere to others and Realistic ..It vitally important to point out ..That you Arrangement WILL ( 99%) involve Sex ..These Guys are NOT stupid .
Sometimes a SPADE is actually a SPADE ... AND a RAT is a RAT ...
Dont try and kid yourself that you will other than this ....At the end of the Day ..There is NO free lunch .. and you are playing with an Entremely TIGHT market . It is what it Is ..Dont Try and FOOL yourself otherwise .
Good luck to all looking for the Dopey .... lonely .... 0.5% .. commiting to the interlude would probably be better . Once again ..It is what it is ..Face It .:D
sananeko
09-12-2011, 08:03 AM
I have had sugar daddies, I have never had a found online one yet.. Three were gay and the other four liked my time. I have never had sex with any of them and all of these lasted years. There is always a chance and people who say there isn't, need to update their maturity. Sugar daddies to sugar babies is not a pay to sex relationship. It is for time, fun, and love without sex. It use to be we would shun the gold diggers cause they only wanted the money and not give back the emotions. I really don't care what you think it should be but I'm never going to have sex with a guy that is paying for a sugar relationship. I might never find another again but its not my whole world and as all can say here its easy to be replaced.
Raider
09-12-2011, 08:12 AM
I was looking for something else on line and ran across this that some ladies may or may not find to be interesting. Dr Phil show on this coming Friday (Sept 16th) is about sugar baby students and recent graduates turning to arrangements to help with debt and expenses . Article states that 4 ladies (and the father of one lady) are interviewed along with Brandon the creator of seekingarrangement. Maybe a load of crap but thought it also might be interest to some.
edit...just went back to read some comments on this thread and saw it wasnt appreciated a 'blue' posted on it. I will leave my post as it is all informative rather than opinion and hope I haven't over stepped here.
WorkerBee
09-12-2011, 07:19 PM
I'll be the test rat.
Just opened my account tonight.
FYI: When you register with your university email address you get free premium membership.
FiendishGyrator
09-12-2011, 08:50 PM
Ugh. I went on a SA lunch date today and then the guy said he didn't think we had a connection.
Made me feel ugly even though I know I was really pretty. Maybe he just doesn't like redheads.
Plus, I ordered fried pickles which he kept saying his daughter orders all the time so maybe
he just compared me too much to his daughter. ugh.
Still, I got a nice lunch and a small gift out of it.
WorkerBee
09-12-2011, 09:07 PM
!!!!!! Fried pickles !!!!!!!!!!! LOL!
FiendishGyrator
09-12-2011, 09:12 PM
They were sliced! I wasn't doing no phallic pickle play! Swear!
http://24celebs.com/images/stories/celebrity-news/septembrie-2009/10-septembrie-2009/holly_madison_pickle_desire_1ss.jpg
Kalypso
09-14-2011, 12:52 AM
I try not to venture into the blue. Too many entitlement complexes going on.
lalalatina
09-14-2011, 11:11 PM
I've had an account on SA for a couple years and this thread reminded me that I had one, probably disabled by now and i don't even know what email address is affiliated with it because I create email addresses just for that purpose. I should try it out..I'm single now and the only thing that's on my mind is MONEY.
cherryblossomsinspring
09-15-2011, 05:31 AM
Oh god, I'm reading some of the replies and getting angry. I HATED when the guys would say my allowance was too much.
:toldoff: Yeah, maybe for your broke ass! For some reason they'd never write me back after that.
hahaha! lol you killed me with this! Has anyone checked out the site lately? Mr. Wade seems to be making some real changes. He even publicly deleted a well known predator on the site. Also the Dr. Phil episode airs tomorrow the 16th talking about the SB/SD lifestyle. I believe Mr. Wade either will be on it or he will have people from his site on it.
When I saw the latest blog , I felt automatically this show painted a bad picture of the sugar bowl.
With the cheap ass P4P types of emails that 100% of women get when first signing up, this is largely why he's getting so much flack. Glad to see he's cleaning it up there
cherryblossomsinspring
09-15-2011, 05:55 AM
I wish some of you ladies posted in their blog . I have to say that reading the blogs is a world of help and it's pretty positive . The horrible downside is reading about some poor girl that's getting taken for a ride. I saw a girl say she was only asking for $1,000 a month and one guy wanted to meet like 8 times that month. I was like nooooooooooooooooooooo someone save her!!!!!!
Another girl posted about meeting some pot SD and he said I'll agree but NO CONDOMS.
I was like wtf is this shit? Fuck your health? You know damn well this asshole if paying to fuck everything under the sun and wants to spread his shit to you. That same guy declined being tested . Huh? I hate women so much that I'll give them AIDS??
Some of these men sound like sick hateful bastards. Not trying to be someone's personal petri dish.
Another girl posted that the guy gives her $200 per meet (no sex) and when they have sex $300 . lol I was like umm yeah you're an escort that doesn't get to complain about the clock.
I even saw one guy complain that he found out his pot sb was a dancer. Hmm but you're married, old and trying to find someone half your age to cheat on your wife but ohh no she's a dancer??? Let's call the villagers and chase her with rusty pitch forks!!
Ohh I almost forgot. There was this one girl that chatted with a pot SD and he told her that he wanted to do a 3 some with her friend. Why did this girl go purchase tickets for her and her girlfriend (out of her own money) and meet this guy. They had sex with him and afterwards he said , my wallet is in my car. lol This guy just ups and takes off with no warning. Forget the fact that they got $0000000 but they actually paid for RT tickets to meet this man out of country. I almost screamed when I read this. Whhhhatt????? And you both slept with him too? Uggg talk about horrible nightmare situations.What was bad was that this guy was supposedly a Diamond Member. Which is supposed to indicate that he's a real deal 100% verified SD. Guess he felt his status gave him some extra perks.
^This was probably the worst story I've heard thus far.
All I see mostly is that these men want to give below escort rates yet take time with a young lady like a regular relationship.
Also after reading the blogs for a while, I would never do dinner with a pot SD until after there was an agreement in place since most are trying to get the free arm candy deal.
marisaleigh
09-16-2011, 11:45 AM
Your reactions made me laugh out loud.
This is why guys say in their profiles "no pros" or "no dancers", cause dancers know how to hustle! And guys don't want girls who ask a fair price for their time and efforts. If a girl is making X to "just meet" and X to have sex, she may as well be advertising on escort sites with those begging-to-be-arrested "I charge X for a BJ, X for regular sex, X for anal, X for condomless" etc
WAKE UP WOMEN!!!! although I'm sure most SW users are savvy enough to self-preserve
I've used SD sites plenty and it's despicable how many men use it, not only as a CHEAP alternative to escorts/dancers etc, but as a way to put young, vulnerable, financially desperate girls at risk of STDs.
One guy said "I like the younger girls; they are more open-minded." He went on to pretty much tout younger girls for being too naive to demand safe sex. ARGH these guys suck, I'm glad the site's owner is cleaning up his act.
LaceyCummings
10-05-2011, 11:37 AM
Hey ladies, now that I'm single and have my own place, (the pay stubs worked in case anyone remembered or cares) I decided to try out the sugar bowl. Well, kinda fell into it actually.
I responded to an ad on CL from a guy looking for what he described as "arm candy" and a "wing woman." I've been paid to attend events before, literally to stand around and look pretty, so I thought why not?
Well, when I met him, he was really sexy and handsome, and he confessed to me that he had signed up on SA, but not had much success with it.
Basically, I made a move on him, and now we are in a SD/SB relationship. We are having sex, but I insisted on it. He's so hot and great in bed. I like him a lot!
So, thinking about this thread, I signed up for SA finally and I've had some mixed luck so far... Yesterday I met one guy for a drink around lunchtime, he was disgusting-looking but polite, and gave me $300. (Actually, he handed me a wad of $20's in the restaurant and when I counted it later, he had shorted me a $20! WTF?) Rookie mistake I guess. I'm supposed to see him again tomorrow nite for drinks for $520. He didn't even get a kiss on the cheek.
Later on yesterday I had another drink date with a doctor who looks like Rick Perry! Haha. He had GOD AWFUL breath. I mean, it was distracting. I had said beforehand that I would need a "small donation" minimum $50. We spent about 3 hours laughing and talking, we agreed he'd give me $150 (cheap bastard) and wouldn't you know it? Rick Perry shorted me too! He gave me $140 in $20's and I didn't count it until we'd parted ways. In my defense, I was drunk. :) So I'm gonna learn from that mistake.
A third guy talked a big game, like about how he could get bottle service for my girlfriends and I and one night when he was drunk was offering me 4K to come over at 1am ( I was with my current SD that night! lol) When the big talker and I made plans to go shopping, he stood me up. Seems like the married ones are more flaky.
The majority of the dudes on there do seem like doucharoos, but once again the best luck I've had is with Craiglist!
MistyRose
10-05-2011, 05:36 PM
^^ I somehow find that hilarious...they're willing to part with $280...but they cling on to that 1 twenty like their life depends on it.
"Yeah, I'll give her $280...and save this $20 for coffee, yes, that's a good plan."
LaceyCummings
10-08-2011, 03:23 PM
UPDATE-
I went out with the guy who had shorted me (the $280 instead of $300) He promptly gave me an envelope with my $500, plus an extra $50 to make up for the $20 from before, so he is legit. We had a very nice dinner, again nothing physical, though I did give him a kiss on the cheek. He did hint that "next time" he would want things to get more "intimate" so I think I will pull the plug on him, but I'm happy with over $800 for a few hours work.
The Rick Perry lookalike hasn't called me yet, and I hope he doesn't.
The big talker gave me some BS about having to shut off his phone because of his wife, (whatever, not my problem) OFFERED me "200 apologies" to my paypal, but never came thru. I called him a poser, laughed at him. He said he likes me sass, and that was the end of the conversation.
I started talking to a guy who lives far away, and he may come to my city to meet me. Seems kinda fishy.
The most reliable one so far was the old ugly fat one of course, but he's been super straightforward from the beginning. His first email asked me to meet for $300. No Bs, no pictures, no "what are you looking for?"
I haven't cammed in over a week, lol. I'm starting to think about freestyling, anyone in Central Texas want to buddy up?
KarinaGiselle
10-09-2011, 11:34 AM
How are you supossed to approach a guy through their site using the PM system? I find kinda difficult to contact them because, I don't really know what to tell them :P
How do you girls do this?
marisaleigh
10-10-2011, 11:14 AM
Like a traditional dating site, try to find something in common in their profile; something you can relate to and connect on. It can be hard on SA cause half these guys don't say shit on their profiles, like one sentence. Look for ones who have a little something to say; it's probably an indicator they are better prospective SD's with more respect.
Emanuelle
10-11-2011, 04:00 AM
Well princess ..let me tell you what a " Blue " ..is doing making comment .
Its called freedom of speach , and Despite the fact that you may not like the truth ..Both genders making comment , may just give you BALANCE .
Now , if you think for a moment that entering much an " Arangement " will not involve SEX ..THE only person you are kidding is Yourself ! You may well strike ( the less than ) 1% ...Who want a SMILE and a Shoulder to cry on , But to be sincere to others and Realistic ..It vitally important to point out ..That you Arrangement WILL ( 99%) involve Sex ..These Guys are NOT stupid .
Sometimes a SPADE is actually a SPADE ... AND a RAT is a RAT ...
Dont try and kid yourself that you will other than this ....At the end of the Day ..There is NO free lunch .. and you are playing with an Entremely TIGHT market . It is what it Is ..Dont Try and FOOL yourself otherwise .Good luck to all looking for the Dopey .... lonely .... 0.5% .. commiting to the interlude would probably be better . Once again ..It is what it is ..Face It .:D
This sounds like every broke loser in the strip club who says "no matter how successful I was I'd never pay $1000/hr for a private room" and assumes everyone who does is having sex. Uneducated, unsuccessful men always seem to think all men are the same and share in the same troglodyte pursuits they do. If something constructive was said in either one of your posts I doubt they'd be mocked, but all you're doing is spouting ignorance and calling it fact. I'd hardly call that a balanced viewpoint.
mysterion
12-08-2011, 02:15 PM
Sorry to raise an almost dead thread.
I just signed up for this site a couple days ago. This morning, I took the advice here and put down $ minimums for meetings. The number of emails I've been getting dropped to about 10% of what it has been.
Is that good or bad...?
I put $100 for the first meeting (public only) and then $300 per hour thereafter. Is $100 too much to ask for the first public meeting?
Spinnerette
12-09-2011, 12:27 PM
Sorry to raise an almost dead thread.
I just signed up for this site a couple days ago. This morning, I took the advice here and put down $ minimums for meetings. The number of emails I've been getting dropped to about 10% of what it has been.
Is that good or bad...?
I put $100 for the first meeting (public only) and then $300 per hour thereafter. Is $100 too much to ask for the first public meeting?
Nope, $100 is not too much to ask. Bare minimum if you ask me.
As for the message volume dropping, on one hand, you could be weeding out the cheapos. There are tons on that site. On the other, the way you phrased it here, it makes you sound like an escort and that could turn off a lot of the serious suitors.
mysterion
12-09-2011, 12:38 PM
On the other, the way you phrased it here, it makes you sound like an escort and that could turn off a lot of the serious suitors.
Yeah, that's a good point. I modified it again. Thanks!
marisaleigh
12-09-2011, 12:43 PM
What spinnerette said. Does anyone have suggestions on how to ask for $100+ for the face to face introduction? Fuck free meals, and half the guys are trying to get you drunk and make you instantly consummate the damn arrangement.
sananeko
12-09-2011, 03:30 PM
I should update mine.. but sadly it feels like a waste of time cause I have only found guys looking for cheap hookers in my area..
PinkKittie
12-10-2011, 02:16 AM
I just made a new profile and I see the site has this "private photos" section, but how do I grant someone access to it? Is there a password I set for it and then give that out? *confused*
mysterion
12-10-2011, 09:35 AM
I just made a new profile and I see the site has this "private photos" section, but how do I grant someone access to it? Is there a password I set for it and then give that out? *confused*
I've been granting them access by checking a box at the bottom of writing them an email.
PinkKittie
12-10-2011, 01:05 PM
Ah ok good to know. Thanks!
girlundressed
01-04-2012, 07:24 PM
I met my current SD on seeking arrangement. I went through a few dates and one other relationship on that site before I met him, but it was worth it in the end.
I tried freelancing, but it always seemed like too much hassle. On SA I just sort through the losers by not answering their email rather than politely trying to get away from a creeper when in approaches me IRL.
cherryblossomsinspring
01-04-2012, 07:50 PM
Bumping, I want to hear if anyone has found better luck on here. I closed my account out months ago because I kept getting messages from the same guy that used different profiles.