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Amy Lee
04-30-2011, 11:34 PM
Hey hon, not trying to find you, just giving the girls an idea of where porn is illegal and has restrictions. Please do not think I am trying to hunt you down or something;D

Here is a link of the world map (to give you guys a better idea):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornography_by_region

ALL of the Muslim countries are highlighted and even China...but they actually restrict on the internet....so any words like breasts, penis, sex, etc... some countries will let you view, and use porn and camming with restrictions (like Australia).

CamWhore
05-01-2011, 01:17 AM
whoaaaaaaaaaaaaa did I just read that you gsve him half when you guys where both on cam?

what the hell? He doesn't support you financially OBVIOUSLY. He could have let you keep that.

He is controlling, mentally and verbally abusive!

seek help fast, because im sure it gets worst then what you choose as a job.

CamWhore
05-01-2011, 01:20 AM
He does not love you, because you do not love yourself.

kittykrane
05-01-2011, 06:07 AM
I tell you about the ring, we lived in different countries, and we were preparing for the wedding and one day he told me that bought HIS wedding ring, so I asked him about mine and he told, feel free to buy it lol
Everything was ready, all my familly, friends, colleages knew that I was going to get married, UNFORTUNATELY I COULDN'T TAKE A STEP BACK

Was this some kind of pre-arranged, internet-bride thing?

Noa
05-01-2011, 07:14 AM
Oh honey...

I don't know which country you're in, but I have an idea. (It's true that camming is illegal in a number of countries, which is insane.)

Know this: staying with a man who treats you like shit is bad enough as it is, but raising a child around a man who treats you like shit will guarantee that your child will think that his behavior is acceptable. If your child's a girl, she'll think that this is how men should treat women. If your child's a boy, he'll think that this is how he should treat women.

I know it's easier said than done if I say you should walk away from your marriage. But if not for yourself, you should do it for your child. I don't know what kind of laws your country has and I know that some countries favor men when it comes to custody and divorce. Draw on whatever resources you have - friends, family, legal support - and do everything in your power to go.

CoolBreeze
05-01-2011, 07:48 AM
I'm glad you've found some support here. There is little worse than living at home with someone that you don't feel in love with and that doesn't support you. Not only financially, but emotionally and intellectually. From a man's perspective, your man is the type that makes me want to slap them in the face and yell, "Wake up you fool!! Your wife is sitting right here in front of you!! Don't you know how good you've got it!!?? BE a man!!" Unfortunately, far to many men think that they are being "the man" by acting how he's acting, and they'll live their whole life like this. I hope there will be a way out for you, because even though I don't know you, you deserve better. ANY woman deserves better than this. And there are men out there that will treat you as an equal.

Be safe sadlady. Love your child with all your heart. Draw strength from some of the friends you'll meet here. SW has it's fair share of drama, but it's also full of strong, intelligent women who will go out of their way to help you right where you're at.

CoolBreeze

laurielegs
05-02-2011, 01:56 PM
I can't leave even if I had enough money, where I live camming is considered prostitution (pls don't ask me where because of privacy doesn't exist here lol)
and in case of divorce the child can't stay with me ..I won't do anything to loose my child


I left with TWO kids. You are being abused and you are allowing it. He will also abuse your child, I have NO doubt.

Why is it you can not get some other type of job if camming is truly illegal where you are? You might not be able to leave immediately but you could work toward it, could you not? You need to get yourself and your child out.

Do you have any family members who care about you who might help you escape this abusive situation?