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Hopper
05-04-2011, 06:53 AM
Even working topless, customers constantly try to violate our boundaries & stick their fingers where theyre not supposed to. It'd be even worse for me to be within arm's reach of these dudes and NOT have the at least minimal protection underwear provides. These clubs can get scary sometimes. I don't blame some dancers for being reluctant to go nude. (then again I don't judge dancers who DO go full-nude, or heavy-contact, or whatever is appropriate and allowed for their club/region and/or within their own personal comfort level)
All of the SCs near me have only nude, full contact LDs (more precisely - they strip nude during LDs) and I don't recall ever hearing of customers trying touch girls between their legs in any of them. Dancers have often complained to me about many things in their work/club but I don't recall them ever complaining about this. I never saw any customers leaving the club without touching the ground either, or any kind of commotion in the LD areas. However, it does seem odd that no customers would try it. But there is a strong security presence (video and staff) in SCs which would deter most customers.
None of the dancers here seem to have a problem with nude LDs. Aside from the obvious fact that some percentage of the girl population will be prepared to do it (and they are not "trailer trash" or hard luck cases - they are regular girls, often attractive and pleasant), it could also be a case of prospective dancers going along with whatever standard or trend clubs in the area set. Together with the fact that SCs have now "crossed over" into social acceptance and even fashionability. Of course many girls would have the same attitude some dancers here are displaying; but some percentage of the girl population will be prepared to do it.
yoda57us
05-04-2011, 07:07 AM
I must live in a sheltered part of the world.
More likely you simply live in county or state that allows nude dancing in strip clubs. It's a big world out there and regulations regarding nudity and alcohol vary quite a bit from place to place.
princessjas
05-04-2011, 07:33 AM
I would disagree. The vagina is naturally self-cleaning and we expel wetness every day through out the day.
Snail trail could also be her yeast infection medicine or another mans semen seeping out. :-[
Ick, to me "snail trail" implies the clear fluid that only comes out in enough of a quantity to leave that obvious stain if a girl is aroused. Other secretions at least to my knowledge are whitish or clumpy, etc, or to scanty to leave a stain.
Almost Jaded
05-04-2011, 08:07 AM
It is very possible for perfectly clean and non-diseased vaginal secretions to leave a milky looking spot on dark fabric when they dry. Not a stain, as it washes right out, but it IS quite visible until washed. Just sayin'.
This thread + linky = funny as fucking hell, lol.
princessjas
05-04-2011, 08:22 AM
It is very possible for perfectly clean and non-diseased vaginal secretions to leave a milky looking spot on dark fabric when they dry. Not a stain, as it washes right out, but it IS quite visible until washed. Just sayin'.
This thread + linky = funny as fucking hell, lol.
True, at a certain time of the month, we change from normal snail trail, clear/iridescent like stain, to quiet milky looking. And yeah, discussing vag juice is pretty funny all by itself. :D
natilinia rouge
05-04-2011, 08:40 AM
hahah when ever i think of snail trail i thikn of leftover poopy stains!!! like thas what i thought ewww but i guess theres other menings to snail trail too ha
Hopper
05-04-2011, 10:14 AM
/:O
Hopper, winters are cold up here so I let my wife wear socks. After all, if she gets too sick who's gonna' cook dinner? :P
Did you see direct quotes around those comments? No, because I never made them.
safado
05-04-2011, 02:24 PM
hahah when ever i think of snail trail i thikn of leftover poopy stains!!! like thas what i thought ewww but i guess theres other menings to snail trail too ha
I believe the "poopy stains" are referred to as "skid marks"
natilinia rouge
05-04-2011, 03:13 PM
I believe the "poopy stains" are referred to as "skid marks"
ohhhh okay lol haha im always getting mixed up :P thanxx
safado
05-04-2011, 03:25 PM
I was merely a little puzzled as to why you think I would think a dancer would be aroused during an LD, since (as yoda and KS_Stevia pointed out above) secretions are not solely due to arousal.
Considering that I am still young and hot I would like to think that they are getting aroused, but I realize that may not be the case and I am OK with that.
I mentioned "trails" because somebody else brought it up and because, although I have had nothing but nude LDs since I began visiting SCs, I never got a "trail". Even though some dancers "grind". Dancers appear careful not to straddle on only one leg of the customer .
I have never had that problem, the nude dancers always straddle one of my three legs and grind away. It is either the club you go to or maybe your personality is rubbing the dancers the wrong way?:shrug:
Not surprisingly, since dancers can perspire during an LD and perspiration tends to run down to the crotch and would drip onto the customers leg if they sat right on it. They even ask me to position my legs so that they are out of the way of their crotch when they are straddling my lap. And yet - some of them grind right on me. Mysterio.
No sweating dancers here, it has been a little cold in the clubs still, and during the summer they have this thing called air conditioning that the have cranked up.
tampadancer
05-04-2011, 06:10 PM
Wow, did anyone read her post about why she was asking all of those questions? It was like James Joyce and William Faulkner took over the body of an insecure housewife, and started writing on a computer.
That was the Ulysses of jealousy posts.
LOVE the literary allusion. ;)
Almost Jaded
05-04-2011, 07:29 PM
Mr Hyde/Tampadancer - I got into other stuff in the thread and forgot about that! Seriously Mr Hyde, that post cracked me up!
charlie61
05-04-2011, 07:37 PM
I cleaned up the thread--let's cut it with the drama. You can always war via PM.
Almost Jaded
05-04-2011, 07:38 PM
Charlie - my comment @ PJ was tongue in cheek, my way of pointing out how silly the argument was, lol. We're cool like that.
charlie61
05-04-2011, 07:53 PM
Charlie - my comment @ PJ was tongue in cheek, my way of pointing out how silly the argument was, lol. We're cool like that.
Yeah, I figured. Still, what with site rules and everything, I couldn't leave the comment up in good conscience. I have to apply the same rules to everyone, and it appeared ambiguous to everyone but the two people involved. Game-time decision on my part there--no offense intended.
Almost Jaded
05-04-2011, 07:56 PM
None taken, oh great and wise (and smokin' hot) Moderator...
Hopper
05-04-2011, 07:57 PM
I have never had that problem, the nude dancers always straddle one of my three legs and grind away. It is either the club you go to or maybe your personality is rubbing the dancers the wrong way?:shrug:
Thanks, I don't think that is a problem; and I wasn't complaining about not getting snail trails on my trousers.
No sweating dancers here, it has been a little cold in the clubs still, and during the summer they have this thing called air conditioning that the have cranked up.
My clubs have AC too, but it is set to customer comfort level, not dancer comfort level, and (although dancers wear less clothing than customers) dancing works up a sweat. In any case, I've definitely seen the sweat dripping off of some dancers during LDs and felt it on them.
princessjas
05-04-2011, 07:58 PM
Charlie - my comment @ PJ was tongue in cheek, my way of pointing out how silly the argument was, lol. We're cool like that.
lol, I missed it! You'll have to PM it too me! I was watching Practical Magic and getting my girly-girl on. ;D I'm just glad all the dramarific stuff is gone! Thanks Charlie!
charlie61
05-04-2011, 08:02 PM
None taken, oh great and wise (and smokin' hot) Moderator...
Or at least, my avatar is hot. I'm sure you've seen my actual photos in the picture post thread, but in case you missed them....
Almost Jaded
05-04-2011, 08:02 PM
PJ - I said something at you that started with "fuck" and ended with "you" for calling me a predator in that thread ages ago, and then made this face: :P
Charlie gains 5 internetz for being funny as hell, and is penalized 10 internetz for requiring eye bleach. :vomit:
Hopper
05-04-2011, 08:07 PM
I cleaned up the thread--let's cut it with the drama. You can always war via PM.
Nope, no point if it's not being read by others. Next time there's "drama" I'll PM you when it starts and save myself the trouble.
charlie61
05-04-2011, 08:10 PM
Charlie gains 5 internetz for being funny as hell, and is penalized 10 internetz for requiring eye bleach. :vomit:
He looks cuddly and utterly desexualized to me...and is therefore not a threat...and therefore does not disgust me. I am far more disgusted by the uglies that are sexually eager and active. :ill:
Almost Jaded
05-04-2011, 08:12 PM
Cuddly... Interesting choice of words. I suppose if you like to sleep ON your partner instead of WITH them, there IS the Tempur-Pedic factor...
charlie61
05-04-2011, 08:14 PM
^ It appears that I've now started deleting all posts, including my own.
*Gasp*...I didn't know I could restore posts....
POWERRRR!!!!!!!!!!111
Almost Jaded
05-04-2011, 08:21 PM
"With great power, comes a great ass".
Wait - is that how it goes? :confused:
I'm on a weird kick tonight, lol. I apologize for all comments made thus far and for the ones I will likely make in the near future that sound flirty or ass-kissy, lol.
EDIT - NO TEASING, PJ!!! :mad:
princessjas
05-04-2011, 08:24 PM
"With great power, comes a great ass".
Wait - is that how it goes? :confused:
I'm on a weird kick tonight, lol. I apologize for all comments made thus far and for the ones I will likely make in the near future that sound flirty or ass-kissy, lol.
:rotfl: I'm the same. In desperate need of sleep and have insomnia in a biiiig way (and have for the past 2 nights), so I'm all goofy.
Almost Jaded
05-04-2011, 08:32 PM
Masturbation + melatonin = sleeeeeeeeeeep...
princessjas
05-04-2011, 08:33 PM
NO TEASING PJ!!! :mad:
Hey, I got my court order to sign for a court date today!! No teasing! ;D I really might have freedom soon!
Kellydancer
05-04-2011, 09:19 PM
I suspect that poster is a troll with bad grammar. Probably a teen boy getting off on a site with hot women. There have been a few grammar challenged posters and I wonder if they are the same person. Having said that, if they are legit, I think there are many issues going on. I think their husband is in fact cheating but used going to a strip club as an excuse.
I will admit though this whole idea of nude lapdances repulse me. I only did air dances, usually bikini or topless and no contact. It sounds very unhygienic to dance nude on some guy's legs or lap.
lopaw
05-04-2011, 09:39 PM
Sometimes a nude dancer will place a cloth or hankie across my lap as a barrier. Totally a personal choice. Ironically, these are the dancers that don't really grind too much whilst dancing nekkid - just light contact. The dancers that don't put down a barrier seem to be the ones that grind like there's no tomorrow. Go figure.
Occasionally a topless or bikini dancer will slide her bottom over for full pants-to-pussy contact during a dance, which I always took to mean that she was marking me with her scent to ward off any other dancers coming near ;).
4everresolutions
05-04-2011, 09:48 PM
Sometimes a nude dancer will place a cloth or hankie across my lap as a barrier. Totally a personal choice.
Yep! I do this! All the girls do in Toronto Clubs.
Occasionally a topless or bikini dancer will slide her bottom over for full pants-to-pussy contact during a dance, which I always took to mean that she was marking me with her scent to ward off any other dancers coming near ;).
Yes, that is the general idea. }:D
Hopper
05-04-2011, 09:53 PM
I will admit though this whole idea of nude lapdances repulse me. I only did air dances, usually bikini or topless and no contact. It sounds very unhygienic to dance nude on some guy's legs or lap.
I don't blame any woman for being repulsed by dancing naked on stranger's laps all night (which is one reason why the rates are so high), but a customer is not allowed to touch the dancer between her legs and is not allowed to touch her with his mouth (no kissing, licking, sucking etc.). The dancers generally don't make contact with their crotch either, though some of them do grind. (They do not always grind on me with their crotches however - sometimes it is with some other part of their body.) They usually rub my face between and on their tits and they brush against my mouth. But other than that, no contact is occurring other than may happen in many other situations in or out of a SC (e.g. sitting on the customer's lap out on the floor or playing with his hair).
It's hard to believe dancers at my clubs are repulsed by what they do when they are hustling us to pay them to do it for as long as they can persuade me to. It's just "the done thing" in these parts and they accept it as such. They do it for the money and perhaps the job has a semi-prestigious underground "danger" element in it for them. Some of them genuinely appear to be okay with it and even like doing it, as long as the money is good. But I don't expect you to be like them.
charlie61
05-05-2011, 06:36 AM
If the drama continues in this thread, I will be issuing infractions to all involved.
charlie61
05-05-2011, 06:36 PM
Like she gives me a choice. If she makes vile comments like that I've got no choice but to challenge them and all her other stupid games.
Christ. Seriously? Yes, that's the entire point of being a mature adult--you absolutely do have the choice to ignore people instead of reacting angrily.
4everresolutions
05-05-2011, 09:05 PM
I have no idea what any of that was about, but dominating Charlie is kinda schmexy! Crackin' tha' whip!!
Some ladies where I have worked do wear very purfumed lotion on their hineys. It could probably penetrate a brick wall, so no doubt it could seep through to the junk. Mind you, it would have to be on the outter layers of clothing as well.
Kellydancer
05-05-2011, 09:24 PM
Christ. Seriously? Yes, that's the entire point of being a mature adult--you absolutely do have the choice to ignore people instead of reacting angrily.
This. Recently, I was viciously attacked by another poster and this particular poster (and no it's not anyone involved with this)said some things looking for me to fire back. However instead of taking the low road, I told the poster that I was not going to fight with them. Their post was removed (no I didn't report it). Sometimes it's just best to ignore something rude or ask to have it removed if it's vile.
charlie61
05-06-2011, 02:02 PM
Not when others are reading them - if not challenged, they will accept them as true. A mature adult does challenge public claims that he is a sexual predator and it is a reason to be angry. Tell me the point of having a moderator if you aren't going to stop such attacks by warning the offender that they won't be tolerated. You told us recently name-calling will not be tolerated, and "sexual predator" is a particularly bad name.
Hopper- It is NOT your job as a mature adult to challenge public claims. It is your job to report them to those who can remove such offending claims. Feel free to be angry, but you can't go spewing your anger everywhere and expect the moderators to ignore it.
In the real world, if someone committed slander, would you go to the police, or would you take matters into your own hands? Which is the right way to respond, and which is the wrong way to respond?
It is a very, very, very dangerous mentality to believe that you cannot control your own responses to stimuli. People who think that the outer world determines their reactions tend to say things like "She made me hit her" and "I had to steal it--they put it out in the open!" It's a mentality that lends itself to crime, to be honest.
I'm not saying you do any of these things, Hopper, but I find it concerning that you can't understand this concept of taking responsibility for your reactions.
charlie61
05-06-2011, 02:05 PM
If that were true, you would too.
I hope you understand that, as moderators, we are not paid to do our jobs, but we are kind enough to donate our time to moderating this website even when we have to wade through the bullshit that gets in the way of making this a supportive resource for sex workers. So I come home from work and sit on my computer and, instead of using my time to enjoy the website, I sift through people throwing insults at each other. So please, have some respect. As a fellow mature adult.
charlie61
05-06-2011, 02:07 PM
If we can't cut the drama and get this thread back on track, I'm going to have to close it. Which is unfair to the OP, not to mention just plain sad.
Sophia_Starina
05-06-2011, 02:20 PM
I have no idea whats going on, but to all parties involved: quit wrecking my thread!
http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ-lcmnVUj25_FfeOz-qijgYHgC-tp5Nw7fMMGdMxNdAdlLyGTYgQ&t=1
Sophia_Starina
05-06-2011, 02:27 PM
I suspect that poster is a troll with bad grammar. Probably a teen boy getting off on a site with hot women.
To me, it sounds like a distraught wife with an active imagination and questionable investigative skills. Grammar.... ehhh.... have you ever mistyped something whilst you were upset? I know I have. Sometimes emotions run high, and spell check sensibilities go bye-bye!
Kellydancer
05-06-2011, 03:17 PM
To me, it sounds like a distraught wife with an active imagination and questionable investigative skills. Grammar.... ehhh.... have you ever mistyped something whilst you were upset? I know I have. Sometimes emotions run high, and spell check sensibilities go bye-bye!
I often type something wrong and don't catch it until someone quotes me and I see I wrote getitng instead of getting for example. Could be a wife but I think there's more going on with her if it is. For instance if it is a wife I suspect her husband is cheating on her and used the old "I went to the strip club" lie. I've actually been the victim of that a few times where a customer told his wife he was with me instead of with another woman.
KS_Stevia
05-07-2011, 12:28 PM
When I danced nude, if I did any grinding, it was with my legs closed and my butt on the crotch while I sort of sqwuated or sat. Pretty much the same contact as topless. I didn't do any crotch to crotch contact while nude.
Its not so bad. I was nervous about it for a second, but showing your pussy makes stage and lap dances a bit easier. Guys are absolutely fucking fascinated with looking at vaginas.
yoda57us
10-31-2013, 06:30 AM
Please do not bump old threads. You are responding to two year old posts from members who no longer participate on the forum.