View Full Version : Dancing while pregnant
Jay12
02-20-2012, 06:45 AM
^I do camming like every once in a bluemoon, so I guess I could give it a try to the SM pregnancy section.
Truebebeblue
02-20-2012, 10:41 PM
Yep! Do a search Camming Connection forum here.. there are few Preg girls doing well.
^I do camming like every once in a bluemoon, so I guess I could give it a try to the SM pregnancy section.
sexyscarlet
02-21-2012, 12:14 AM
I don't think it's a good idea at all but if you need to dance, do it. If there's another job you could get for a few months instead of dancing, that would be best. It is really such a hazardous environment: tall heels, super grabby men, slippery stages, not to mention the pole, cigarette smoke, and the extra stress from crazy people and their criticism. My friend worked until she was three months pregnant and guys started to shy away from her towards the last few weeks she worked. Sure, some guys may like it, but if you work in a smaller club with regulars they're bound to catch on and feel weird. Also the last thing you need to happen is to have some crazy customer hurt you on accident and fuck up your belly. Dancing past 5 months seems a little risky to me. See how your body reacts. You might be too tired to work past 5 months anyway. Good luck!
sierra.
02-21-2012, 12:30 AM
A girl at a club I worked until she was pretty pregnant. I don't know how far but she was definitely showing. She wore outfits that were loose fitting around the belly (lingerie). Some people talked shit but some customers loved it.
Personally I have mad respect for ladies that dance pregnant. When I was pregnant all I wanted to do was sit on my ass and eat ice cream and sleep. My boobs looked awesome and I was super flexible (being pregnant makes you flexible, its crazy) but besides that I hated it. So yeah, anyone who gets their ass to work while growing a person inside them deserves a medal.
Jay12
02-21-2012, 05:12 PM
I'm just gonna do it for like another more month; I am starting to show, and so early. Afterwards, I would either switch to my vanilla job full time (which I loath doing for more than 25 hours a week, no wonder I only do that part time), cam more often, or a combination of both.
The club I dance is a stage only no contact so grabby customers are non existence, and I switch to 5 inches. Just trying to save some more money, since I'm also moving to another state as well. Something I wanna buy with that extra money is a pole (probably a platinum stage, or x pole); that'll help me out shed that pregnancy weight (on top of BF).
Thanks everyone for all your help; I really appreciate it!!!
greeneyedgrl
02-22-2012, 12:02 PM
Has anyone ever danced while pregnant? Knew someone that has? What are your thoughts on it? How do you think customers will react?
I'm in a really bad spot and might have to dance while preggers. I'm 15 weeks and really only show after I eat. I think I can conceal it for now...
Anyones feedback would be greatly appreciated.
I have been dancing for 11 years in both high end and dive clubs and I will tell you this....I have seen MANY pregnant girls working, some all the way up to delivery. I have also danced while pregnant, in a small club, the manager knew, the girls knew and I did fine. I quit at a full five months because it became too uncomfortable for me. I did however get fired at a club, at only three months along, because I told ONE girl and she blabbed to the manager. I say do what you have to do. As long as you are being careful, you should be fine. Exercise is good for you and baby. In fact, I only gained A LOT of weight after I quit dancing:( Took me a year and a half to lose it all. And for the girl who said high end clubs won't allow it.....HA! I've seen plenty of girls in HIGH END clubs go all the way till they actually had the baby!!!! They just didn't go on stage.
GlitterBexie
02-23-2012, 09:48 AM
A girl i worked with in my first club danced until she was about 7/8 months pregnant, she was a fairly tall/heavy set girl so you couldnt even tell she was pregnant until right up to the end. She wore baby doll nightie type things which were loose and flowy round the middle but cupped her boobs which were IMMENSE! She told management when she was about 4/5 months gone and paid £10 on top of house to not go on the pole. She made good money and danced on weekends. She wore smaller heels as she got further on and had a rest in the dressing room if she got too tired.
If you have to do it, do it, hell, there are women all over the world who have to work right up till they give birth, and a lot of these women do not have available health care. Just take it one day, week, month at a time and see how you go. Women dont have a "lying in period" any more where they are supposed to stay in bed from the moment they feel the baby move, just be extra careful. Everyone is different while they are pregnant. You do it to suit you.
I know for me, i would struggle to dance after about 3/4 months, i am not going to suit pregnancy and i will no matter how hard i try be a sack of potatoes during and after, i dont know if my figure would ever actually return to a good enough place so id feel able to dance!
I am covered in stretch marks already, literally, they are all over my arse and legs (literally from booty to below my knees), some on my hips, some on my boobs, they have gone silver now, but i still get conscious occasionally. When i was younger i refused point blank to wear skirts, or if i HAD to wear a skirt (school) i wore tights year round because i hated them so much) This isnt because i had a baby, its cause i hit puberty at 10 and grew boobs and hips before the rest of me had a chance to catch up, i mean, i went from being pankcake flat to being a 32C in about two months, I was lucky noy to not have any on my tummy, but i know having a baby will finish that dream, i shall be zebra lady. Its myskin type, i dont stetch easy! My mum was the same, she was an athletic slim size 6/8, excersized all the way through and after pregnancy and has stretch marks and has never gotten rid of the tiny pouchy overhang of excess skin, only thing that would remove it is a tummy tuck! But yeah, i think my original point was going to be, you dont have to have had a baby to have stretch marks. And its never hindered me from making money in a strip club.
sexy_celeste
02-24-2012, 06:51 PM
i danced until 31 weeks pregnant. i lied about how far along i was to keep my job, since i was moving 4000km to have bubs. after 19 weeks i stopped the pole, and around 28 weeks (when i was obviously preg, not just cchubby) i stopped stage.
i wore bustiers to cover my tummy, and was lucky to lose 17kg while preg so was in great shape.
customers didnt seem to care, and actually ended up with a few 'knights' who did the 'oh you poor preg woman, let me save you' thing and took me to vip for a few hours a shift. one of these guys had never looked at me before, but once i was preg was coming in for an hour or two, and tipping 300-400 so id 'rest and chat'
it did help that id worked there 2 years already, and the customers/regulars all liked me.
in the 7 months that i was preg and dancing i put 20k in the bank (10 in trust for my bubba), paid for our move and all our baby things.
im planning on going back after this bubs as we want an investment apartment, and want to buy outright.
Jay12
03-09-2012, 06:00 PM
Update!
I stopped dancing; my feet couldn't take it anymore, and until the baby is delivered I'm living off my husband and my tax refund. Also, I quit my vanilla jobs too.
In the mean time I will be studying for additional certifications.
sexy_celeste
03-10-2012, 06:28 AM
how long to go? good that youre taking it easy
Jay12
03-10-2012, 11:47 AM
Yeah, I'm really taking it easy. It was so uncomfortable (especially my feet) and I was starting to get carpal tunnel. I'm not overeating either.