View Full Version : Is a pretty face *really* that essential...?
tempest666
01-12-2014, 07:23 AM
No not really. I have a cute face and that's the last thing anyone looks at. ::) It's a plus though.
whirlerz
01-12-2014, 08:55 AM
I have previously seen not super attractive ladies make $$$, so no. Just do your best makeup/hair/outfits though
Stormi Weather
01-12-2014, 03:37 PM
I did a double dance with a girl who has a huge nose the other day. You know what's funny? I didn't even notice her nose until I saw her leaving in her civilian clothes at the end of the night. When I was dancing with her I was thinking about how curvy and freckly and sensual she was. I can imagine the customers feel similarly.
No definitely not. I've seen lots of girls that don't have 'model' faces who are great hustlers and make bank. As long as your body is fit.
simone87
03-08-2014, 04:43 PM
i rock a very pretty face and and a just ok body. i do pretty well. ideally, you'd want to have both, but i think you could coast along with one or the other ( as long as your body isn't in really bad shape or your face isn't either). looks DO matter a lot in this industry ( its not just your sales skills or hustle, if you are butt ass ugly you will still struggle. just my experience), but its also a bit subjective.
tempest666
03-08-2014, 08:17 PM
I had some guy say "For a girl with huge tits you sure do have a cute face!" -_-
Your nose is beautiful the way it is. It is human nature for people to focus on what they think are their flaws, but you will do fine. I'm sure there are men out there that will think your nose is flawless. Women especially, pick and obsess over their appearance too much. I won't lie, I do it too. I think we all do from time to time, but we are all beautiful in our own, unique way.
she wolf
03-11-2014, 11:33 AM
no, fugs do fine, girls that are super fat do fine, ghetto girls do fine and 40 yr olds and by fine i mean racking up those stages tips w/o any pole work or floorwork...its either inspiring or extremely fustrating...you pick
lol1337a
03-11-2014, 12:02 PM
I double as a customer with my boyfriend, so I'll give you my observations from club visits.
My ATF was a dancer in a club in Montreal (we only saw her once sadly). I remember just about every inch of her body and her mouth but nothing else. Seriously. Two hours in VIP and I have no idea what the girl's face looked like.
I recently went to a club and was entranced by the way this dancer moved her ass onstage. She came by to ask if I wanted a dance and I noticed for the first time that she looked like a 45 yr old muppet. But this wasn't a problem as I'd already fallen in love with her ass. I enjoyed the dances.
At the same club, my boyfriend noticed a dancer who didn't have my preferred body type (she looked like me and I'm just not into that!) but a gorgeous face and unique short, slicked back hair. Watching her facial expressions onstage got me into her. I loved the dances and I think her face is burned into my memory forever.
To sum it up, I think there are a million things that can attract positive attention in a strip club and counteract negatives. Most customers don't have as limited of a type as a lot of us think. My boyfriend's tastes are just all over the place as mine too.
I'm so glad I go as a customer sometimes because I'd be a little depressed reading this thread otherwise. I have an ok body and a good face so maybe a customer isn't gonna come running from across the room, but all it takes sometimes is the right look and guys who wouldn't even like my body can be hooked.
onlythelonely
03-11-2014, 05:00 PM
That's very subjective; to some men, a pretty face is one with strong and defined features (defined cheekbones, defined eyebrows, defined jawline, etc.) while other men find alluring delicate features, and others prefer a fuller/rounder face. Different strokes for different folks.
Kaylak
03-15-2014, 05:23 PM
Body image issues suck. Suck.Suck.Suck. Even the very pretty girls here have issues. I suspect the OPs nose is less noticeable than she sees it, as we all seem, (or at least I do) to accentuate our flaws. I'm no great beauty- average pretty face, average body compared to the other girls. So I have lots to obsess about. (I mean, who wants to be average?) The thing is, so called flaws may actually be selling points. Claire Danes, Gwyneth Paltrow, Sarah Jessica Parker come to mind. (How could I miss Cher?)
Confidence seems to be the recurring theme. I've had days - (like I'm the only one ha ha ) - where I felt like hell, hated the world and didn't want to go dance let alone see drooling men. But I found, more often than not, I could "act as if" I was in the mood and had my mojo. By the time I leave the DR I'm feeling much better. Still, when the dancers that have great FAT <faces, asses and tits> come out there are times when I want to hide behind the bar.
It seems where looks are concerned, between what I think and what I think others think about me, I just can't win.
As Shawn and Gus would say on Psyche: "SUCK IT!"