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AngelCummings
06-13-2011, 08:03 AM
Lmfao. I'll have to start a brag picture post thread then. Just know by the end of it .. yall are gonna hate me. Hehehehehe. The brag thread should be about both sugardaddy and escorting.

Btw... I'm so behind on this thread, trying to play catch-up LOL I was like on page 4 the last time I read anything! Are you still using craigslist to find sugar daddies? I haven't tried it but I just might have to start doing that :D Also, what is the meeting fee that you are charging and how are you wording it so they know that's just to meet in public and not for sex? Just curious as to what your current strategy is :)

TouringGirlfriend
06-13-2011, 08:39 AM
Btw... I'm so behind on this thread, trying to play catch-up LOL I was like on page 4 the last time I read anything! Are you still using craigslist to find sugar daddies? I haven't tried it but I just might have to start doing that :D Also, what is the meeting fee that you are charging and how are you wording it so they know that's just to meet in public and not for sex? Just curious as to what your current strategy is :)

No I am not. I launched my new escorting website on the 10th and I've been busy with that alone. If you search this thread you can see where I posted links to my ads (now flagged) but I also posted the exact texts I used on my ad. It's a lot to read into but pretty much the guys that responded knew they would be paying me for a meet. It was pretty straightforward. I guess that's why I had luck with it. If I wasn't escorting, I would totally do the sugardaddy thing full-time at least. I'm totally turn off from camming.

RoxyHart
06-13-2011, 09:10 AM
No I am not. I launched my new escorting website on the 10th and I've been busy with that alone. If you search this thread you can see where I posted links to my ads (now flagged) but I also posted the exact texts I used on my ad. It's a lot to read into but pretty much the guys that responded knew they would be paying me for a meet. It was pretty straightforward. I guess that's why I had luck with it. If I wasn't escorting, I would totally do the sugardaddy thing full-time at least. I'm totally turn off from camming.

OMG That's me! I keep thinking about doing it {again} and go surfing MFC. I then get this totally turned off feeling like "I am worth WAY more then this.". I just can't bring myself to sit around and beg for quarters. I just can't. {No offense to those who do} So i'm hoping this SD stuff works out for me. TG can you spare some of that luck you have?

TouringGirlfriend
06-13-2011, 02:54 PM
OMG That's me! I keep thinking about doing it {again} and go surfing MFC. I then get this totally turned off feeling like "I am worth WAY more then this.". I just can't bring myself to sit around and beg for quarters. I just can't. {No offense to those who do} So i'm hoping this SD stuff works out for me. TG can you spare some of that luck you have?

Lol! Sending lots of luck, hugs and kisses your way!


Yes I cannot beg for chump change anymore and that's pretty much what camming is. What camgirls make in a day I can make in an hour. I will stick to what's best for me.

BeautifulTease
06-13-2011, 10:50 PM
Hey, I just joined SW...n Can I just say I was inspired by reading this shit. I have 3 girlfriends in the game and ive always thought about joining but I didnt know how. So I posted an ad on craigslist in two diff cities. Before it got flagged after 10seconds I got immediate responses. I did post my picture and my inbox was overwhelming with response. So I have been talking to an italian guy into real estate development who really seems like hes on the band wagon. Was completely honest and told him "I NEED AN XTRA INCOME". He's with it, as he is looking for company. Im excited to see what happens...I have shitted on craigslist but it seems like you can come up on alot of shit on it....THANK YOU FOR THIS POST!

BlkSharpie
06-15-2011, 09:33 PM
Okay...soooooooo after saying over and over again that it wasnt worth trying because the market is so saturated and taking into consideration how dead the market is for escorting etc...Im going to eat my words.

I posted an ad on craigs last night, and in less than 10m it was flagged. But in those 10m I got 2 replies, both guys in their late 20's. They wrote intelligently and such, and I decided to go ahead and send them my pic and tell them what I wanted. The first never replied back, the second did and wanted to meet right away for coffee...but then he had work or something come up, and we were supposed to meet this afternoon. He pissed me off though because he asked me for more photos in the meantime to "hold him over" and well...I didnt like where the convo was going so I stopped replying to him.

This morning, I tried again, posted another ad...not only did it not get flagged..its *still* up. I got almost 20 replies...:O And just now got another reply...they are still coming in.

One guy, right away wanted to meet...he asked if I could come to his office cause he was super busy and couldnt get away but wanted to at least see each other face to face. So we met and talked for about an hour, and he basically said hes stuck in his office for about 10-12hours a day, and he knows its not glamorous or anything, but having company, someone to come over and talk to and hang out with for a lil every once in awhile would be great. Oakies cool...he gave me $150 plus an extra $20 for gas money. Im going to go by and see him again tomorrow morning also.

After him, I went straight to Starbucks to meet yet another guy who had emailed me. He right away said he was really hungry and asked if Id like to do dinner at some italian place instead of coffee...oakies...so he took me out for dinner, and right away said...okay, Im a businessman, and I like to get logistics out of the way so that we can just relax and enjoy each others company. Hed done an arrangement like this twice before, so he knew what was up.

Anyway, the arrangement is to meet up for dinner/movies/whatever once a week, maybe once every other week...just depends on how his schedule is for a $1200 allowance. After dinner he gave me $300.

So..thats $470 for meeting 2 guys today.

Plus, I still have a crapload of emails to respond to and get back to guys on.

Okay, for my ad, I wrote that I was a single mom, cute, charming, blah blah, that I need help with bills but looking for a generous, kindhearted guy to spend time with blah blah. Asked for thoughtful responses, no one-liners blah blah. Did not include a photo with my ad, but I said I had one to send. I forgot to include a line about coming with money to show they are sincere, but both guys I met gave me money, plus of the emails I replied to with my photo, many of the guys said they would be prepared to give me something to take care of a bill or something when we meet.

Even though I didnt ask for it, most guys sent a photo with their email, I only got 2 one-liner emails which I deleted right away. Not a single person wrote being nasty or telling me off, but I did get a handful of emails from guys saying they cant help in any kind of way, but loved my attitude and how positive I am, and hope that I do get what Im looking for cause I seem sweet and deserve it.

I am blown...the fuck...away. Seriously...

Lady Xplicit18
06-15-2011, 10:50 PM
^^^^
Yaaaaaay! I'm so happy for you! Go girls! :D

TouringGirlfriend
06-16-2011, 12:15 AM
BlkSharpie, I saw the pm from the other day but was too sleepy to write back. All I'll say for now is Congrats. But hell I knew it would work for you!!!!

bubblegumbitch
06-16-2011, 08:14 AM
thanks for giving it a go blksharpie, i am moving to florida in the fall, you just gave me lots of hope now, i am def gonna be trying that when i move there:)

BlkSharpie
06-16-2011, 08:47 AM
Yeah...Im still shocked. No one here wants an escort but everyone wants a sugababe. Go figure.

PrettiPeach
06-16-2011, 09:37 AM
This is true question: How do you know if your ad has been blocked? Do you get an e-mail?

Sorry if it sounds dumb.

BlkSharpie
06-16-2011, 09:47 AM
I say go for it redhead...the worst that can happen is...nothing at all :D
I really didnt think Id get replies or just a bunch of nasty emails, but it was the total opposite!
Even emails from guys just wanting to say I sound sweet and hope the best for me lol

Not a dumb question at all PrettiPeach...just sign up for an account to put your ad under, and if your listing is flagged/deleted, they will both send you an email letting you know, plus it will show up in your account that the ad was deleted. But it has the whole text there if you want to copy and paste it...just change up the Header line, and also the text of your ad a bit, because you cant post the exact same ad twice.

TouringGirlfriend
06-16-2011, 11:16 AM
Gosh I love this thread!

PrettiPeach
06-16-2011, 11:50 AM
I love this thread too!

I found out my city doesn't use CL for dating based on ads up. Literally 5 ads for today for w4m. Zero ads for m4w. Now on the other hand ~ over 20 m4m. Guess I need to try another city for this. It's a college town, so maybe the locals are using a diff svc to hookup. Gotta study up on that. Hopefully they're not using chatlines.

Oh and I did post an ad this afternoon. No bites though. I don't feel bad though because of the number of ads I saw for my city.

BlkSharpie
06-16-2011, 12:22 PM
Wow thats interesting....how about backpage.com? Is there more activity for your city on that site?

PrettiPeach
06-16-2011, 02:06 PM
I just looked and it's actually worst. Links for dating sites. Quite odd because I would think that alot of people would be on at least CL? Oh well, learn something new everyday.

lilykane
06-16-2011, 02:48 PM
Based on this guy's ad, do you think he's looking for a SD/SB relationship involving sex?

"First, let me start by saying that this is a real post. Im not looking to waste your time and hopefully you arent here to waste my time. I am wanting to find a nice, normal girl who maybe is in school or working full time and just needs a little extra help each week or month. I've never posted an ad before but i am very much open to this kind of arrangement due to the fact that I work long hours and travel frequently for work. I want someone I can spoil and have lots of fun with.
Ideally, I would like to meet at least twice a week ,weekday evenings. 800 per week.
I dont have a specific race or body type that im looking for as long as you are attractive,not into drama and have a great personality. If there is anything you would like to know just ask.
MAKE SURE YOU INCLUDE A PHOTO WITH YOUR RESPONSE."

I'm seriously thinking of responding if it's just hanging out and being cute two or three times a week. What do you ladies think??

PrettiPeach
06-16-2011, 03:01 PM
Well I embarked on my own mission with a diff twist. I searched for an sd ad that wouldn't be too far for me to drive and found one from May 20th. Old as hell but I figured ask him if he ever found that sb he was looking for and if not, I was interested. I did the whole donation on first meeting thingy and would you believe he replied.

"What kind of donation would you be looking for at our first meeting? Tell me more about yourself."

lol I'll keep you chicas posted. If the money doesn't come to you, better go get the money. Now I need to send my gift request. This is fun

Lady Xplicit18
06-16-2011, 04:12 PM
Based on this guy's ad, do you think he's looking for a SD/SB relationship involving sex?

"First, let me start by saying that this is a real post. Im not looking to waste your time and hopefully you arent here to waste my time. I am wanting to find a nice, normal girl who maybe is in school or working full time and just needs a little extra help each week or month. I've never posted an ad before but i am very much open to this kind of arrangement due to the fact that I work long hours and travel frequently for work. I want someone I can spoil and have lots of fun with.
Ideally, I would like to meet at least twice a week ,weekday evenings. 800 per week.
I dont have a specific race or body type that im looking for as long as you are attractive,not into drama and have a great personality. If there is anything you would like to know just ask.
MAKE SURE YOU INCLUDE A PHOTO WITH YOUR RESPONSE."

I'm seriously thinking of responding if it's just hanging out and being cute two or three times a week. What do you ladies think??

I would respond...... just make sure that he lays everything on the table of what he "wants" so he doesn't think that you're an undercover escort.

Lady Xplicit18
06-16-2011, 04:31 PM
Question: What do I write back to people saying they don't want to pay a fee to me for lunch? Should I say since I don't have a job? Don't know how to go about this.... *scratches head*

TouringGirlfriend
06-16-2011, 04:57 PM
Question: What do I write back to people saying they don't want to pay a fee to me for lunch? Should I say since I don't have a job? Don't know how to go about this.... *scratches head*

It's not that hard. If they do not want to pay the fee, they can fuck off. You're not meeting them for free. If they want someone to meet them for free they should go on okcupid.com. If you want to meet them for free then that defeats the purpose of even doing this in the first place.

PrettiPeach
06-16-2011, 05:19 PM
Update on the ad I responded to. He sent me msg. asking if I was an escort. I replied of course not. He hasn't sent anymore msgs. lol

Guess he thought he was gonna buy a pack of sugarbabes limited edition candy with that $120 donation I asked for. I'll try again tomorrow.

**Also wanted to add that for this particular venture, going forward, I am only going to post questions or if indeed I do manage to do a meeting or find an an sd. I am not going to clog the thread on hope. I think that'll be best for those that are searching for answers or reading the entire thread just as I have done. Ttys chicas

Lady Xplicit18
06-16-2011, 05:43 PM
TG--- I meant they're willing to pay but they're asking "why"

TouringGirlfriend
06-16-2011, 05:44 PM
TG--- I meant they're willing to pay but they're asking "why"

They shouldn't be asking "why?". If they have to ask "why". They're not the type of guy you want as a sugardaddy.

That"MODEL"Chick
06-16-2011, 06:04 PM
^^Yeah its not their job to ask why?? Who cares? As long as they get their feeling of being wanted or whatever they're looking for,it doesn't matter. I bet he wouldn't look up an escort,then call/email her and ask "why" is her donation so high!! ::)

Lady Xplicit18
06-16-2011, 06:26 PM
^^^
Truuuue! For some reason I just don't do well on CL but on SD websites! lol
QUICK UPDATE:
The guy that flew out to see me is flying me out to Vegas next weekend to shop and see some shows! Yaaaay :D

Lady Xplicit18
06-16-2011, 08:32 PM
I hate CL. This email a guy sent that went auto to spam I just read said
"I'll give you a penny... you're missing out on asking for a fee"
Guess my email has the same sb mindset as me and didn't even want me to read it lol.

BlkSharpie
06-16-2011, 10:03 PM
This entire thread is a string of hope...lol!

Well...for an update, the guy I met yesterday morning, he got weird on me. I didnt end up seeing him today, he kept sending me messages asking for pics, saying how hot I was, how he cant wait to see me and my jamaican ass... Oakies...at least I got something from him for meeting up, and thankful we met up at his office too.

I got two more interesting emails today...one owns a business and he sounds pretty good so far and we are meeting for lunch on Monday. Now the other guy, Im trying not to get my hopes up but...on "paper" he sounds really, very good! First off, I screen all these guys the same way I do when Im escorting..yes, I wanna know what I can know about whoever Im going to meet and see if he is who he says he is. So, this guy said he owned 3 business', and when I checked him out, found his linked in page and wow... 2 business' here in the states, and one in japan.....!

So yeah, very interested in that guy lol So far so good though. ;D I cant believe I almost didnt do this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dirtydeedzbb
06-18-2011, 02:20 AM
hey @ladyxplicit18 how do you screen your sd's because i have a business man too who says he owns a clothing biz and wants us to go out.... he lives on a golf course,

TouringGirlfriend
06-18-2011, 03:41 AM
hey @ladyxplicit18 how do you screen your sd's because i have a business man too who says he owns a clothing biz and wants us to go out.... he lives on a golf course,

You can do a lot with first name, last name, age, city he lives in and email address alone. Spokeo and google is your friend.

AngelCummings
06-18-2011, 10:28 AM
You can do a lot with first name, last name, age, city he lives in and email address alone. Spokeo and google is your friend.
Exactly! I like using pipl, personally. I have found out about potential sugar daddies' court and criminal records for absolutely free by using that site! Also, ask him the business and then call the business and ask who owns it. I've outed a couple of fakers that way. If he doesn't feel comfortable telling you what he owns and where he works, then he is not worth it. A REAL Sugar Daddy will want you to feel comfortable and won't mind sharing what he needs to in order to put you at ease. The Sugar Daddy who gave me the weekly allowance I posted in this thread, he was encouraging me to do a background check on him and told me his real name, gave me the link to his business website, and everything within the first week of communication! He felt comfortable doing so because he has nothing to hide! Then again, he's not married so perhaps he feels a little more open. My other SD was a bit more hesitant at first but he eventually was more open about his real info because making me feel comfortable is a priority for him.

AngelCummings
06-18-2011, 12:32 PM
Also, blacklists can be a quick and useful tool of guys to steer clear from. The Sugar Baby network I belong to has a private one that is not publicly listed on the internet but more comprehensive and has pictures of the guys as well as their usernames, etc. I'm not really sure if it's ok to list it here but maybe later I can save the names to a word document and email or copy and paste and send via pm but that will probably be a while because it's a pretty firggin' big list LOL.

This is a start:
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Some of these lists are old, but some of the guys actually still have profiles on the sites and I can tell you from firsthand experience they are full of shit.

dirtydeedzbb
06-19-2011, 02:55 AM
can you help @touringgirlfriend with a great ad for cl or show me some thats not on here mwah

dirtydeedzbb
06-19-2011, 02:58 AM
yipee i have a date with an italian biz man i want to meet meet more men

TouringGirlfriend
06-19-2011, 05:48 AM
can you help @touringgirlfriend with a great ad for cl or show me some thats not on here mwah

Honey, I do not write sugardaddy ads for others. I have posted examples of my ads here. All you have to do is search this thread.

BlkSharpie
06-19-2011, 08:25 AM
Ooooh an update. Met with the guy with three business' for lunch yesterday, and I really like this guy. Like...I really like this guy. Crazy. We talked for almost 4 hours and I had to fly out of there to get to somewhere else...but the convo was from one thing to the next, super cool chill guy, and we have just about everything in common one can possibly think of.

One of his business' is for the music/entertainment industry,and he invited me to come to an event next Saturday. Its an hours drive away and up by where he lives, so instead of me driving up, hes going to send a limo to get me.

He walked me to my car, gave me "gas money" and when we said goodbye, he gave me a hug and had this huge smile...he was just like, this is the most amazing thing, I never expected *this* and he kept looking back at me with this big smile as he walked away.

Hes not the best looking guy, but I wouldnt be embarresed being seen with him or anything... Also, Im 5'10" was wearing 4" heels, and he was still taller than me. YaY! lol

TouringGirlfriend
06-23-2011, 01:19 PM
One word: Amazing. 11,000 views! I hope this thread help you all. I'm glad it's already working for a few of yall. Just pure awesomeness!