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TouringGirlfriend
05-15-2011, 05:00 AM
Why did you change your original thread-starting post?
What did I change? I made no edits to my original post. As you can see there is no time-stamp so please share with us what you're talking to us
Sadie/karina
05-15-2011, 05:22 AM
I apologize. I read something wrong-I thought you went back and said you met one guy off your craigslist ad.
TouringGirlfriend
05-15-2011, 05:31 AM
No. I'm still actively advertising on craigslist for SDs. I had two dates yesterday but was too lazy to get up, get all ready and go. Today I have a date with a guy at a really nice restaurant at 7pm, he's still paying me my meeting fee (this time $100) and feeding me. I sent out links to the actual ad but it kept getting flagged so I stopped sharing.
Edit: Yeah I see what you're saying. I met one guy off of whatsyourprice (which was a total waste of time)
Mistress Anika
05-17-2011, 10:27 AM
...and ask your new friend from last night if he has any friends or associates for me to meet. Hook a girl up okay?! :D
Seriously this thread has me add giddy (or maybe it was alll the coffee) but sign me up too lol
Craigslist and I are going to get really friendly over the coming week.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-17-2011, 01:11 PM
TG I called myself trying to place an ad,got a bunch of stones and only a few goldmines. I was about to start checking out the potentials when I got an email from an old sugardaddy. Apparently he had been wanting to go out again,but lost my email(we never spoke over the phone). So yeah right about now I'm like forget everybody else,they could be timewasters. I KNOW this man means business. He's a CPA and is forever traveling,so he was never clingy and always generous! *sigh* If I never tried to steal(}:D) your ad,we wouldn't have reunited. So,guess this is the part where I say thank you? Ummmm............................................. .................................................. ...............THANK YOU! ;D
TouringGirlfriend
05-17-2011, 01:14 PM
^Yay!!!!! I TOLD you it would work hehehehe! If you need tips on anything, feel free to hit me up
That"MODEL"Chick
05-17-2011, 01:16 PM
Yeah,I get the feeling I didn't strike GOLD because I didn't use a photo(duh). If I had used a pic,I'm sure the ad would have been 10x's more effective!! I was too chicken though ::)
TouringGirlfriend
05-17-2011, 01:28 PM
Yeah,I get the feeling I didn't strike GOLD because I didn't use a photo(duh). If I had used a pic,I'm sure the ad would have been 10x's more effective!! I was too chicken though ::)
Add a picture. Heck I added pictures and I got soooooo many guys wanting to date me it overwhelmed me. Add a pic if you want more responses for sure!
TouringGirlfriend
05-18-2011, 06:07 PM
Yay!!!!! Craiglist posting again today and I have two dates set for tomorrow! Will let yall know how it goes!
TouringGirlfriend
05-18-2011, 08:13 PM
Both of these guys are doctors! They live ON the lake in a very prestigious part of town! Weird huh? My goodness here we go again! This is double Jackpot! I hope they're not related.. lol. We're meeting in the morning toooooo!!!!!
That"MODEL"Chick
05-18-2011, 08:15 PM
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*Trying not to be a jealous a** biatch*
TouringGirlfriend
05-18-2011, 08:19 PM
His last email after I told him I was a bit wary of guys on CL:
M*****
I am single and have no children.
I am from England and Im a fun loving well mannered English guy
I love life and have done very well ....
I am not into drama
What can I say... if we talked on the phone you would soon realize I am a safe kind generous guy
P
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This is the doctor. He's fucking english??? I'm in love already!
TouringGirlfriend
05-18-2011, 08:22 PM
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*Trying not to be a jealous a** biatch*
Oooh whatever! You can do it too. You're just scared. I'm very ballsy especially when it comes to money. As long as it doesn't involve hurting myself mentally or physically, I'm all game!
SpeedDial
05-18-2011, 08:53 PM
aHHHHH im so giddy at everything!!
you're making me wanna post an ad for the fucking hell of it
ahhhhahahahahahahah1a!!!
*nicki minaj tourette syndrome*
but im in an over-saturated market :(
who knows if itll work.
I want this lifestyle but im so fuckin chicken lol
I have answered an ad off of BP before of a guy looking exactly for an AA sugar baby. I emailed and asked him if it was too late for me to be his and he said no.
We chit chatted, planned to meet up (he lived in a nice part of town) annnnd poof.. no more emails.
I hope he didnt kick the bucket. He probably didnt.. I think he was like... 50something.
haha!
But thats the closest Ive ever had in an experience similar to this thread.
TouringGirlfriend
05-18-2011, 08:53 PM
Gosh I just hit the fucking jackpot. I just know it! I'm so fucking excited!!!!!!!!!!!
SpeedDial, Please DO IT!!!!!!
BlkSharpie
05-18-2011, 09:18 PM
Yeah..thats the thing about a saturated market. The opportunity is literally everywhere around here for guys, like kids in candy stores all they have to do is walk out the door *sigh*
TouringGirlfriend
05-18-2011, 09:20 PM
So I just got off the phone with one of the guys I'm meeting in the morning. He's legit. Everything he's told me so far actually ads up. He's divorced, no kids, doctor/has his own practice and owns two other businesses. He lives in lakefront home... O M G! He wants to work on a long term relationship sb relationship. I really wanted to ask him WTF he was doing on craiglist. I mean .. really.. wtf? I'm getting more hits on my sugardaddy ad than my escort ad.. I don't get that! It's puzzling to me. I mean.. damn I'm using the same pictures. Is that the new hangout now??? Anyways..
He's really looking forward to spoiling me and will give me whatever I need tomorrow to cover bills (the ones I said I needed help with in my ad). Yes I did mention help with bills in my ad. I didn't want these men contacting me looking for a relationship.
It's actually more about how much I can make without having sex with them than it is about a true sd/sb relationship where sex is involved... bleh. Within 10 minutes of posting my ad, I had 15 responses. What I don't get is .. why? Why is that part of craigslist getting that much traffic? It's pretty insane the amount of responses I receive in so LITTLE time!
I can't wait to report to yall tomorrow. I think this one is actually gonna turn into a true sd/sb relationship!
BlkSharpie: I guess it's easy when I'm the only young attractive black girl advertising in that section. Everyone else just write one liners and don't include pics. I would have thought MIA would be the place for this.
BlkSharpie
05-19-2011, 12:41 AM
Nah..not at all easy in Miami...like I said, every other ad is about looking for a sugardaddy..and theres *tons* of attractive black women around here..and latin, and european and and and lol! Really....kid the candy store, these guys dont know where to look first, and craigs is no different. So its not like they have much respect or anything...they arent trying to impress, just trying to see how much they can get and how little they can give in return...cause they are testing out all their many available options at the same time.
I need to move to where Im one of a kind or something...lol The guys here are way too spoiled :P
That"MODEL"Chick
05-19-2011, 04:49 AM
Oooh whatever! You can do it too. You're just scared. I'm very ballsy especially when it comes to money. As long as it doesn't involve hurting myself mentally or physically, I'm all game!
I'm not really scared,I just don't want a family member,friend,associate whoever to recognize me!! :-[ I know,I know friends,ect don't pay my bills,so why should I care what they think. I really do want to put a pic up though,just know I would be successful! TG did you put all of the ads up in your town? Or another? I was thinking if I go to the next biggest city and post it,that might be better. Would just have to make sure its worth the drive!!
TouringGirlfriend
05-19-2011, 05:28 AM
TG did you put all of the ads up in your town? Or another? I was thinking if I go to the next biggest city and post it,that might be better. Would just have to make sure its worth the drive!!
Heyyy,
This time I put up ads in my town! My date is this morning so I'll be getting ready in a few here.
Honey the only way I'd drive more than 30 minutes to see someone is IF I knew they were forreal or they are willing to send a deposit! I will not drive without knowing for sure the guy is legit.
I say just advertise in your town, your fam isn't paying your bills and it's not an escort ad! It's a frikkin sugardaddy ad. Harmless! Just meet the guys in a public place and you'll be fine.. hell you can even ask them if you can bring a friend a long. It's a bit babyish but if I didn't know what I know I'd totally be bringing my friends along.. ya know? Shooot paid to hang out, free food and whatever else for me and my friend!
TouringGirlfriend
05-19-2011, 06:19 AM
I'm getting dressed and all made up now. eeeeep! excitement!
Maina
05-19-2011, 06:25 AM
Good luck and be safe!!!
TouringGirlfriend
05-19-2011, 03:26 PM
I'm homeeeeeeeee!!!!
OMGOSH I have to make this short because I have a date with an "Old friend"... anyways.
Guy #1: He answered my ad from CL last night. He's english!!! I loooove men from the UK so that alone got my attention. He's a doctor and has multiple business around the carolinas and in england. He's in his mid 50s. He told me he owned a lakefront home and he enjoyed the "finer things in life" and of course.. that along got my attention. I asked him if he was willing to pay a $200 fee to meet and he said yes as long as I looked like the picture on my ad LOL! The agreement was for me to call him as soon as I woke up so we could meet..I guess he couldn't wait! Well.. then it gets interesting...
So I got up this morning and got on sw which pretty much killed time. I was supposed to call him (We'll call him P) as soon as I got up so we could meet but nope I had to get my sw fix! So between trying to get my daughter all situated, bathing, getting dressed, getting all SEEEEXY.. It took me a good 3 hours. I threw on a sexy maxi dress and flip flops.. I then got in the car, called him, he gave me his address, plugged his address into my gps and drove to one of the most gorgeous neighborhood in Charlotte!
It took me 30 minutes to get to his house. I stopped at a gas station because I was nervous, nervous, nervous as hell. I even called a few friends on the way to give me a pep talk but they were all busy it seemed no one answer :(.. well it was a bit early! Anyways, I got to THE house! There was a bmw in the driveway. He instructed me to come in and meet him by the lake so I did.
The house was absolutely HUGE... GORGEOUS.. I wouldn't call it a mansion but it was 6bdrom/4baths!
So there he was. Wearing a blue button up and black dress pants. He wasn't as attractive as I imagined. He was actually a bit overweight... we sat in the "covered porch" and talked! Of course I am almost an award winning actress (you have to be when you're an escort) so this guy fell in love with me in 10 seconds.. hehehe! After chatting for what seemed like 5-10 minutes, he told me my "meeting fee" was on the kitchen counter ($200). I went to the kitchen and grabbed it and sat back down and talked. He told me he was relieved that I looked like my pictures and that he didn't greet me at the door because he told himself that if he saw cop cars pull in that he'd have to run and lock all the doors... LMFAO! He asked me about bills and I gave him the usual sob story :). Don't worry I did it with style!
We talked about the arrangement but not for long. He asked me if I wanted something to eat and I told him "Chinese!" LOL! He ordered.
He made me an amazing proposal but it's something I have to think about and I want HIM to think about it to make sure it's REALLY something he wants to do. To make a long story short, I would get a weekly allowance, a new car, my education paid for, a live in nanny if I want for my daughter and will get to travel the world. He flat out told me that he's looking for a companion and isn't really about the sex (they all say that but we'll see). This guy did not try to touch, grope or kiss me not once! I was soo impressed.
Well after our date, which was pretty much hours of doing nothing but talking and eating shrimp fried rice. He gave me a tour of the house (The house has a movie theater and a full gym in it)..it was unbelievable!. He told me that I can visit anytime and I am free to make his home mine :). He was a very sweet guy, very fun to talk to and just a gentleman.
While I was walking back to my car, I could feel him watching me.. lmfao! He called me over to him and said "That is an amazing dress" and gave me an extra $200. He called me while I was driving and told me he really wanted to work on an arrangement. Interesting guy there but again I was not really attracted to him..
Again no sex took place, no kissing, touching, fingering, bjs .. lmfao nothing! This was just sitting, talking and enjoying company and it was fun!
Guy #2: I met this one around 4pm. He was DAMMMN good looking. We met at a diner and he had an envelope with $120 in it NOT $150 like we agreed. I was pissed but didn't want to show it. After the date I KNEW he couldn't really afford an arrangement with him. He was the average joe blow and AFTER what I've seen these past few days I know I can get WAYYY more than average! NO SEX took place with this one either.
So you guys, that was my day! It was fun fun fun! Now I'm back home with my daughter but I have to step out again for a REAL date LOL. If you wanna see my new ad or get an idea of HOW to post an sd/sb ad feel free to pm me. TTYL!
edit: Ok this was not short at all omg! I can't believe I typed all that. Just wanted to give yall as much detail as possible. SORRY!!!!
That"MODEL"Chick
05-19-2011, 03:34 PM
OMG,I'm sooo freakin' happy for you!! This def gives me the courage I need to flaunt my pics allll over CL :D WOW!! I can't believe what an awesome time you had. Man those men sound really great,or at least the first one. I didn't realize it until now,but one really could make a living out of something like this! *sigh* I think I'm ready now }:D
TouringGirlfriend
05-19-2011, 03:39 PM
OMG,I'm sooo freakin' happy for you!! This def gives me the courage I need to flaunt my pics allll over CL :D WOW!! I can't believe what an awesome time you had. Man those men sound really great,or at least the first one. I didn't realize it until now,but one really could make a living out of something like this! *sigh* I think I'm ready now }:D
To be very honest with you? I just started posting escort ads with the same pics I have on my sugardaddy ads and I have gotten NO takers. However, when I post my sugardaddy ad, My inbox is flooded. Yesterday I got SOOO many emails it was overwhelming. I don't spend time with everyone and anyone so I picked 4 guys who I thought were SANE and could afford an arrangement with me. I did a quick google search on the guy with the lakefront home and I KNEW he was loaded from the info I saw on google. Guy #2, not so much information but still a great guy. Just can't afford my time. Do I think someone can make a living just doing this? FUCK YES but it's all about location. Honestly? I think I can make at least $600 a day if I just did this.. but we will see.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-19-2011, 03:42 PM
Yeah I think my location sucks. I don't really live in a big city,not even near any. Yeah my location sucks,but for $600 I can damn well try!!
goreantx
05-19-2011, 03:45 PM
He made me an amazing proposal but it's something I have to think about and I want HIM to think about it to make sure it's REALLY something he wants to do. To make a long story short, I would get a weekly allowance, a new car, my education paid for, a live in nanny if I want for my daughter and will get to travel the world. He flat out told me that he's looking for a companion and isn't really about the sex (they all say that but we'll see). This guy did not try to touch, grope or kiss me not once! I was soo impressed.
Just make sure you put as much of your allowance as you can away. It would suck to get dependant on this guy and then have him start trying to control you because of it
bubblegumbitch
05-19-2011, 04:36 PM
i honestly think this whole sugar daddy thing wrks great if you aren't totally depending on one guy alone, cuz you know how they get after a whiile, lol. and by switching up locations, is a very good idea, to keep it all fresh. i have definitely learned alot from this thread. the doc from england seems like a dream come true, you know how to play your cards right, so you know when to get out if it turns south. milk it while you can, thanks for creating this thread, i love reading the experiences you have and is giving me new insight. i could never do it tho, for one i live in michigan: too many cheap asses here for anyone classy and two: you TG are so experienced with the escorting thing, you know how to work it and still be safe, i would have to have your know how to feel comfortable enough to do that. keep the posts coming, i love a good read like this:)
ScarlettJanuary
05-19-2011, 05:49 PM
I just have to say I freakin' LOOOOVE this thread! Thx for sharing with us TouringGirlfriend. I am living vicariously through you!
TouringGirlfriend
05-19-2011, 06:45 PM
Thanks ladies!!
G: Yes I would save, save, save and save! Do not get me wrong: I am not planning on moving in with this guy anytime soon. If we become friends and we click then of course I'm down for a live in arrangement. I would LOOOOOVE to live in that house and have all my bills taken care of. The allowance wouldn't hurt. He is not looking for a traditional relationship. I KNOW he would be fun to live with just from this first date. I told him I would need some kind of insurance deposit for such arrangement in case shit hit the fan for whatever reason and his exact words were "Anything you want darling". Again no time soon but it's something to sleep on!
B: Yes You know what? My experience with escorting has made me much more knowledgeable about the BS men pull. I have found that I can totally tell when a guy is forreal and when he isn't. My experiences this few days have proven that. All the guys I've met with light screening have been totally sweet to me/ complete gentleman (except for the idiot that shorted me $30 :( ) That guy today (guy #2 ) shorted me $30 but you know what? A lot of girls are having sex for that money and all I did was meet with him at a diner and talk so no big deal. Hell that's money I didn't have.
Scarlett: Thanks love!!
Anndddd yes I'm totally posting on sw while on a date (not a sd date.. real date lol). Gotta go!
I'll have to delete the history on his PC Lol!
strippername
05-19-2011, 07:24 PM
What do you tell these guys that you do?
BlkSharpie
05-19-2011, 11:29 PM
Im just so fucking thrilled for you!!!!! I cant *wait* to get up there and in on some action. Seriously. Work "do you have any friends or colleagues" into conversation for me lololol!
Goodness knows, for that kind of money and lifestyle, I would consider moving. I could always come back to visit Miami whenever I want lol
dirtydeedzbb
05-20-2011, 01:12 AM
can i also have the link so far i have 3 men who want to meet this week. craigslist works mami.
DottieMay
05-20-2011, 07:12 AM
I've done cl and backpage. I use backpage to scan through ads posted by men. Usually they post them in the adult jobs section, for my location. The men to women and women to men are under review for me. Cl I used a long time ago, when I wasn't loking for a sb/sd relationship, just money but found alot of guys who wanted that. Should have jumped on it. But it sucks having t repost. My friend told me that usually what happens on cl is when a guy sees your ad and likes it, he will flag it so that way nobody else can talk to you. Clever sons of bitches.
TouringGirlfriend
05-20-2011, 08:20 AM
What do you tell these guys that you do?
unemployed student. thats why he (Guy #1 )mentioned paying for my tuition.
TouringGirlfriend
05-20-2011, 08:30 AM
Oh and just FYI, the ad was flagged 3 times and I gave up after so many responses anyway. I'm supposed to be meeting with a new guy today but I really don't feel like sitting and talking with anyone. Maybe that feeling will change later.
Anyways, I can send the text of the ad but it's not live anymore. #Haters!
That"MODEL"Chick
05-20-2011, 08:43 AM
Damn those haters! Damn them all to hell :devil:
TouringGirlfriend
05-20-2011, 09:58 AM
Damn those haters! Damn them all to hell :devil:
LMFAOO! That devil icon is funny as hell!
nico3690
05-20-2011, 10:16 AM
I'm sorry it keeps getting flagged, that really sucks! You've had amazing luck with it so far though, so that's awesome. This is definitely inspiring for all the girls out there looking for a SD-Craigslist! I still can't believe it, totally unexpected goldmine, lol!
TouringGirlfriend
05-20-2011, 10:23 AM
^ Yup. Interesting I'm getting more sd dates than escort dates. :(
It's like all the high rollers have flocked to craigslist. I don't understand that.
SpeedDial
05-20-2011, 10:42 AM
^ Yup. Interesting I'm getting more sd dates than escort dates. :(
It's like all the high rollers have flocked to craigslist. I don't understand that.
Girrrrrl stop questioning it and go with the flowwwwww.
The universe is in your favor.
Let it do its work! :O
nico3690
05-20-2011, 11:08 AM
Girrrrrl stop questioning it and go with the flowwwwww.
The universe is in your favor.
Let it do its work! :O
The Secret! lol, just watched it again a week ago ;D
That"MODEL"Chick
05-20-2011, 11:15 AM
^ Yup. Interesting I'm getting more sd dates than escort dates. :(
I can see how that would/might be disappointing. I know I read in another thread how you prefer clients over SD'S simply because its less time consuming. Its like get your money & get out :D
TouringGirlfriend
05-20-2011, 11:19 AM
I can see how that would/might be disappointing. I know I read in another thread how you prefer clients over SD'S simply because its less time consuming. Its like get your money & get out :D
Exactly!
See the thing is with these dates I'm not going to have any regulars. I'm not massaging these guys/giving them a handjob or having sex with them so what would they be signing up for ya know? Why should they PAY me again? That's why I'm sticking with the guys that have only proposed an arrangment. I'm not silly to think that these men will pay me for conversation again.. I'm pretty sure after seeing me for the first time most of them will want to f**k. My thing is how do I make them pay me again? I said in my ad that the donation was just for the first meeting.. right? Well what happens after that? Do I just beg for money now?
So yeah..
That's why I prefer escorting. Get in, get my money, get out.. no arrangements. However, I wouldn't mind the whole sb/sd live in arrangement thing. I would like for once for someone to take care of allllllll my bills, pay for my schooling while I cam and bank that money.. ya know? It would be nice NOT to have to pay bills...even for three months.. LMFAO!
kellsam
05-20-2011, 01:29 PM
I have LOVED reading this thread - Touring Girlfriend you are so ballsy!
I really hope you get a good arrangement going soon.
SpeedDial
05-20-2011, 10:52 PM
The Secret! lol, just watched it again a week ago ;D
Haahah the secret.
Does it work for you?
I read the book, but never finished it because its simple things Ive already have been doing throughout my life thus far..
Maybe I need to try harder, but meh.
I love this thread.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-21-2011, 10:14 AM
My thing is how do I make them pay me again? I said in my ad that the donation was just for the first meeting.. right? Well what happens after that?
Hey TG,did you ever come up with a way to meet/see the SD's you met up with again and make them pay(again)? I have two dates this week(yes only two,going to take this slow) and they both seem real cool. Not sure if I'll want to see them again,but I won't really know how to bring it up in our conversation. Along with the fact that I'll expect them to pay me for my time...again }:D Just wondering if you've seen any of the guys more than once yet. Not including the ones seeking a living arrangement(or more). Obviously they're loaded,talking about the ones who are...not loaded /:O I don't know,somehow I just confused myself :-\
SpeedDial
05-21-2011, 10:53 AM
Model chick
you posted ads on CL???!!
That"MODEL"Chick
05-21-2011, 11:01 AM
:D Yeah,just one similar to TG's(not exact though!). I also didn't post a pic though which is why I didn't get that many responses,but yeah why not get paid to go out. This girl has bills to! }:D
SpeedDial
05-21-2011, 11:03 AM
OMGGG yay!!
Im gonna do it now and see what responses I get.
Im kinda nervous lol
Update: I just post the ad. Mind you Im a super saturated market.. sooo lets see how this goes.