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That"MODEL"Chick
05-21-2011, 11:20 AM
Girl please all of that nervous-ness :D will leave as soon as they hand you that cash }:D
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 11:27 AM
Hey TG,did you ever come up with a way to meet/see the SD's you met up with again and make them pay(again)? I have two dates this week(yes only two,going to take this slow) and they both seem real cool. Not sure if I'll want to see them again,but I won't really know how to bring it up in our conversation. Along with the fact that I'll expect them to pay me for my time...again }:D Just wondering if you've seen any of the guys more than once yet. Not including the ones seeking a living arrangement(or more). Obviously they're loaded,talking about the ones who are...not loaded /:O I don't know,somehow I just confused myself :-\
Nope never did. I posted again before I left the house so I'm gonna check now to see the responses. I have not came up with a way to make them pay again. I don't know how to actually. I guess I'll just stick to the ones that agree to pay me a weekly allowance lol.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-21-2011, 11:29 AM
Yeah,thats what I was thinking. I just straight up told the men"the price is for EVERYTIME we go out"! If they like me enough,then they'll pay. If not they can get lost!
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 11:31 AM
Yeah don't charge less than $100 for the meet. If you KNOW he has money (I can usually tell), I would charge extra.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-21-2011, 11:33 AM
:D I'm no less than $150. Since I had someone pay that before when I first started I'm def not taking less!
SpeedDial
05-21-2011, 11:46 AM
Yeaaa if things go through, I'll charge 100 to 150 per meet too.
I posted the ad!
for a second I thought it was flagged, because I didnt see it appear right away.
But I edited it just in case. And it is up and running and I just got an email! whoo hoo!
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 11:47 AM
Let me know how it goes ladies. Out of the 12 responses I got from my ad, only 4 guys fit the type I'm looking for. Will keep yall updated!
SpeedDial
05-21-2011, 11:52 AM
Thanks TG!
uggh I want you to be my mentor.
"Hello, I am a mature married professional who would like a nsa relationship with a young woman"
Should I be wary of this response.. usually NSA means sex.
Im not into sexing a senior citizen.
VelvetPassion
05-21-2011, 12:10 PM
Hi all - long time lurker here. I've been on the prowl for a new sugar-type relationship after recently ending one. I've registered on many of the sites, including what's your price (a huge waste of time, imo).
So, thanks the the great results TouringGirlfriend recounted in this thread, I decided to try the CL thing. I got a few not-so-promising responses, and of course, I was flagged after about an hour. I checked out the section again and noticed someone had posted a reply to my ad, calling me a 'whore' and saying I need to 'get a job' etc. Grrrrrrrrr! I know haters come with the territory and I expected to be flagged, but a post devoted to calling me out??? :banghead: Oh well, just needed to bitch - definitely not deterred just yet. I think I'll try another city.
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 12:16 PM
You wouldn't have to sex anyone if you play your cards right.
BlkSharpie
05-21-2011, 12:17 PM
Im wondering if this would work too by answering guys ads on Craigs...
Ive seen a couple of interesting ones posted by guys..using all the lingo "generous", "professional" one even writing that he does not want an intimate relationship, just someone to be able to go out and do things with and help her with her bills or any financial problems. That has me intrigued...
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 12:23 PM
Well .. it's interesting. looking at my CL history I've had over 10 ads flagged.. OMFG!
I can't help but think why my ads keep getting flagged! Is it because I'm asking for a donation? Amazing. I'm about to repost.. ridiculous.
bubblegumbitch
05-21-2011, 12:38 PM
Well .. it's interesting. looking at my CL history I've had over 10 ads flagged.. OMFG!
I can't help but think why my ads keep getting flagged! Is it because I'm asking for a donation? Amazing. I'm about to repost.. ridiculous.
unfortunately you will NEVER be able to stop all the random flaggers, all you can do is repost, repost, repost! :finger: that madness will never end.
Raider
05-21-2011, 12:45 PM
Well .. it's interesting. looking at my CL history I've had over 10 ads flagged.. OMFG!
I can't help but think why my ads keep getting flagged! Is it because I'm asking for a donation? Amazing. I'm about to repost.. ridiculous.
In my area anything mentioning 'ladies wanting men' or seeking arrangement gets flagged. I actually think the 'righteous' people do it for whatever reason. Almost as if they have assigned shifts to monitor as they certainly don't stay up long.
Oh well...'righteous' people should be yanked upwards shortly and the rest of us can go on !!!
VelvetPassion
05-21-2011, 12:55 PM
So my question is - is it a good idea to keep posting if there's a negative thread up about you? That's what I'm dealing with now, someone didn't like my ad so they posted another nasty ad in the w4m section in reply to mine. Annoying!!!! My concern is that the reply could draw more trolls to my ad should I choose to repost, but perhaps I'm overthinking!
BlkSharpie
05-21-2011, 01:52 PM
Oh well...'righteous' people should be yanked upwards shortly and the rest of us can go on !!!
At 6pm sharp apparently!!! :D:D:D:D
nico3690
05-21-2011, 02:17 PM
At 6pm sharp apparently!!! :D:D:D:D
Better off without em, on the off chance it does happen, lol!! 8)
Jazelle
05-21-2011, 02:55 PM
this sounds amazing. something i might really consider doing. what light screening methods do u use tg? i dont want to end up meeting the craigslist killer:-\
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 03:04 PM
this sounds amazing. something i might really consider doing. what light screening methods do u use tg? i dont want to end up meeting the craigslist killer:-\
First and Last name, Employment and home address if I'm meeting them at their home. With just that information you can find out a lot in google. Don't forget to get their age. Don't sound inquisitive. Ask them when their age and when their birthdate is in conversation. With that information you can figure out the year. Run everything via google. I use erin myer's screening tool (It's been posted here before do a search) for light screening. I wasn't too worried about the guys I met in public. Luckily I found enough info about the guys I met at homes.
Jazelle
05-21-2011, 03:15 PM
do you specify in the ad that the meeting must be in a public place and do you include the meeting fee in the ad or just wait until the emailing begins?
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 03:20 PM
do you specify in the ad that the meeting must be in a public place and do you include the meeting fee in the ad or just wait until the emailing begins?
If you read through this thread you will be able to catch the exact text of some of the ads I posted. I DID mention on the ad that I would need a donation for first time meeting. I accepted no less than $100 donations.
Jazelle
05-21-2011, 03:30 PM
OOKAY im going to try it in a few! i live in big city so hopefully i dont get drowned out. do u currently have an ad up? if so can u dm me the link so i can get an idea. i promise i wont flag u lol.
dixievista
05-21-2011, 04:51 PM
just posted an ad in my new city! there appears to be little to no competition, we'll see how it goes. Thanks again TG!!!!!!
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 04:54 PM
Dixie, Don't forget to post a pic!!! Good luck!! :-) :-)
natilinia rouge
05-21-2011, 05:00 PM
ooo i loveee this ad dammit!!! lol i live right near new york and can take the train there which is awesomeee imtotally gonna do this lmao
dixievista
05-21-2011, 05:04 PM
I didn't post a pic on purpose - but I already got SEVEN EMAILS. JESUS CHRIST!!! I'm going to be PMing you TG lol
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 05:28 PM
I didn't post a pic on purpose - but I already got SEVEN EMAILS. JESUS CHRIST!!! I'm going to be PMing you TG lol
Lmfao! Ummm... yeah I replied! }:D hehehe
SpeedDial
05-21-2011, 05:30 PM
Holy shit you guys (no pun intended because supposedly its the end of the world -_-)
But this guy is offering me 500 for my date when I only said 100 to make sure he was serious.
Oh boyyy.
I really wanna make sure its not LE on my ass. tho.
I did a bit of screening...but i need to do more.
I just need to get his last name and place of employment.
Im gonna ask now and I hope he gives it to me.
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 05:34 PM
NOoooooooo don't take more than $200 for a meet only. Anything more then they would probably expect sex! Make sure that the men KNOW that you will NOT be having sex with them for this money and you will be meeting them in public and that the whole point of the fee is just so you know that they are serious about a sugardaddy / sugarbaby relationship.
I don't know if you're comfy with going to people's homes but I was.. because of my escort work.. it comes naturally almost to me (I know I'm a freak), but still meet the guys in public! Let him spoil you and always make sure that you NEVER enter his car! Always drive yourself/have someone drive you to his location.
And NEVER meet at night unless you are experienced with this sort of thing.
I can't wait to hear other success stories!!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That"MODEL"Chick
05-21-2011, 05:50 PM
Yeah I don't know about that :-\ I wouldn't take more than $200 either. The only thing they're getting from me is a Thank You!
That"MODEL"Chick
05-21-2011, 06:00 PM
Sooo pissed right now! I finally got the courage to add a pic to my ad this morning and they(I put up 4 ads in 4 diff cities) were just flagged again! This is the third time I had to re-post. Screw it,I'll just take the guys I already have and run with them >:(
SpeedDial
05-21-2011, 06:04 PM
You guys are right!
But if he still decides to give me to 500... Im going to take it lol
But I've gone to other's people house to meet them before, when it wasnt even in an SD type of situation. So Im okay with it.. I dont do it all willy nilly all the time though.
But model chick, just keep posting them!
Mines was flagged twice for the two time I posted the ad.
I will post the ad one more time before I go to bed tonight.. whenever that may be, but dont get discouraged lol
TouringGirlfriend
05-21-2011, 06:06 PM
Remember not to post the same ad over and over. Switch up the wording or CL will block you from posting again!
VelvetPassion
05-21-2011, 07:18 PM
So annoyed! Met a guy tonight from CL using this method, we met up for drinks, spent a couple of hours together, and at the end of the night, he totally stiffed me! Even though we discussed that I wanted a small fee at our first time meeting to prove that he was serious about mutually beneficial, he pulled the "I'm not paying just to go out on a date" crap :banghead: grr... he was a lousy, obnoxious date as well. He didn't even try to hide the fact that he was checking out other women and he kept trying to chat with different chicks at the bar while I was sitting there. What a creep!!! He claimed to be in his 40's but looked more like 60-something.
Lesson learned. I'm a little uncomfortable with asking for money upfront, but I've definitely gotta get over that if I want to use this approach.
DottieMay
05-21-2011, 08:58 PM
just broke down and spent the five dollars to post a bp ad lol. not for sb/sd and i received great feedback, i hit a goldmine of very nice professional men. but even better talked with a couple of guys that are intersted in sb/sd. really excited! will let you guys know how it goes. as it is right now i am booked until wednesday.
That"MODEL"Chick
05-22-2011, 04:14 AM
^^Yea!!
That"MODEL"Chick
05-22-2011, 02:09 PM
You ladies think there is a such thing as an "online" SD? The reason I ask is because this man contacted me(he lives two states away,found my ad on CL),he said he travels my way at least once a month on business. So basically we've been writing through email,he gave me his contact number but I haven't called. I can tell he's loaded,don't ask me how because I haven't done any deep screening,but I just get the feeling,could be wrong but just in case. He says we can meet up whenever he comes and I also introduced him to the whole amazon wishlist setup. I told him that I've had an online SD before,just to see what he would say and he was immediately intrested! So now I'm racking my brain trying to figure out what this "imaginary"(:D) online SD used to do. I've come up with these things: webcam sessions,not exactly adult related,just flirty,sometimes dirty,SHORT(maybe 10-15min) sessions. I also was thinking about telling him that the SD would load my online account(paypal,alertpay,ect) every week with xxx amount of dollars. I already mentioned the wishlist and I was thinking about saying how I used to send the online SD pics/vids of me. Nothing x-rated,just some sexy pics and flirtatious vids. What do you ladies think? Does this idea sound stupid(I won't be offended)? Or am I an inspiring genius }:D
bubblegumbitch
05-22-2011, 03:17 PM
You ladies think there is a such thing as an "online" SD? The reason I ask is because this man contacted me(he lives two states away,found my ad on CL),he said he travels my way at least once a month on business. So basically we've been writing through email,he gave me his contact number but I haven't called. I can tell he's loaded,don't ask me how because I haven't done any deep screening,but I just get the feeling,could be wrong but just in case. He says we can meet up whenever he comes and I also introduced him to the whole amazon wishlist setup. I told him that I've had an online SD before,just to see what he would say and he was immediately intrested! So now I'm racking my brain trying to figure out what this "imaginary"(:D) online SD used to do. I've come up with these things: webcam sessions,not exactly adult related,just flirty,sometimes dirty,SHORT(maybe 10-15min) sessions. I also was thinking about telling him that the SD would load my online account(paypal,alertpay,ect) every week with xxx amount of dollars. I already mentioned the wishlist and I was thinking about saying how I used to send the online SD pics/vids of me. Nothing x-rated,just some sexy pics and flirtatious vids. What do you ladies think? Does this idea sound stupid(I won't be offended)? Or am I an inspiring genius }:D
i would be very interested to know this as well, i could do this kind of arrangement, like over skype! this would be awsum to find out:)
strippername
05-22-2011, 04:18 PM
I am going to my little sisters for a few days in a major city. This is where I will be test driving this and the hotel hooker idea. Why does this make me a bit nervous?
That"MODEL"Chick
05-22-2011, 04:38 PM
This is where I will be test driving this and the hotel hooker idea. Why does this make me a bit nervous?
It makes you nervous because of that hotel/motel thread! Or have you not read that yet? If you haven't,you should get over there. Better safe than sorry!!
TouringGirlfriend
05-22-2011, 04:41 PM
I am going to my little sisters for a few days in a major city. This is where I will be test driving this and the hotel hooker idea. Why does this make me a bit nervous?
Heheheh I'll be trying the hotel hooker thing again either this or next week. I'll report for sure!
TouringGirlfriend
05-22-2011, 04:42 PM
You ladies think there is a such thing as an "online" SD? The reason I ask is because this man contacted me(he lives two states away,found my ad on CL),he said he travels my way at least once a month on business. So basically we've been writing through email,he gave me his contact number but I haven't called. I can tell he's loaded,don't ask me how because I haven't done any deep screening,but I just get the feeling,could be wrong but just in case. He says we can meet up whenever he comes and I also introduced him to the whole amazon wishlist setup. I told him that I've had an online SD before,just to see what he would say and he was immediately intrested! So now I'm racking my brain trying to figure out what this "imaginary"(:D) online SD used to do. I've come up with these things: webcam sessions,not exactly adult related,just flirty,sometimes dirty,SHORT(maybe 10-15min) sessions. I also was thinking about telling him that the SD would load my online account(paypal,alertpay,ect) every week with xxx amount of dollars. I already mentioned the wishlist and I was thinking about saying how I used to send the online SD pics/vids of me. Nothing x-rated,just some sexy pics and flirtatious vids. What do you ladies think? Does this idea sound stupid(I won't be offended)? Or am I an inspiring genius }:D
Very interesting for sure. Is this another way to market camshows?? Hmmmmm.......
strippername
05-22-2011, 04:45 PM
It makes you nervous because of that hotel/motel thread! Or have you not read that yet? If you haven't,you should get over there. Better safe than sorry!!
Yes that makes me nervous! I was just about to let a reference slide because a potential client is from Hong Kong. I don't always use references, but do investigate deeply. (I am getting better! Screening is nearly zero in the UK where I started) He ended up calling me from his cell phone from Hong Kong. I think that is enough to know that isn't LE. They can't be that smooth. He has been at the same hotel for four days. He called me a few days ago, too, from the hotel. Right..rambling..hotel thing makes me nervous! I am not good at blending in even in sweatpants.
Heheheh I'll be trying the hotel hooker thing again either this or next week. I'll report for sure!
I will report back with everything.
Did you make up a new full name for SD?
That"MODEL"Chick
05-22-2011, 04:47 PM
Very interesting for sure. Is this another way to market camshows?? Hmmmmm.......
Yeah i was thinking about sending him over to SM,since I don't do the indy thing,but I'd rather be paid 100% instead of 35,ya dig?
TouringGirlfriend
05-22-2011, 04:52 PM
You're on to something. However, Camwhore told me something about this a long time ago. I just never tried it!
LAChloe
05-22-2011, 04:55 PM
I posted an ad. It was flagged within 3 mins. I'm so sad!! :(
The Contessa
05-23-2011, 02:38 PM
I posted an ad. It was flagged within 3 mins. I'm so sad!! :(
I posted a few. There's some DOUCHE on the LA CL that flags like crazy, but not before sending me emails on what a bitch I am. :)
TouringGirlfriend
05-23-2011, 02:41 PM
I posted a few. There's some DOUCHE on the LA CL that flags like crazy, but not before sending me emails on what a bitch I am. :)
Wow I am so sorry to hear that. WTF???
That"MODEL"Chick
05-23-2011, 02:50 PM
I posted a few. There's some DOUCHE on the LA CL that flags like crazy, but not before sending me emails on what a bitch I am. :)
Well I would much rather be called a bi*ch than a whore or slut! Those are the emails I was getting before I decided to just close all 4 of my ads!
TouringGirlfriend
05-23-2011, 02:53 PM
Well I would much rather be called a bi*ch than a whore or slut! Those are the emails I was getting before I decided to just close all 4 of my ads!
How about this just two days ago someone emailed and wrote "Nig*er you must be out of your mind"... Nice huh? Hehehe