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That"MODEL"Chick
05-23-2011, 02:54 PM
Its a shame these a**holes don't have anything better to do!

TouringGirlfriend
05-23-2011, 02:58 PM
Its a shame these a**holes don't have anything better to do!

When you laugh at them they go away. They want you to be all shocked and angry. Honey I'm a camgirl part time I'm used to this ish! They just don't know.. LOL!

That"MODEL"Chick
05-23-2011, 03:05 PM
I know right and this other guy has been emailing me,he seems pretty cool. He keeps asking how much I need as his SB and I have no clue what to write back! I really don't know if I should say a specific price,but he's wanting to know what I have in mind.

TouringGirlfriend
05-23-2011, 03:10 PM
Uh... No less than $ 500 a week for allowance and that has nothing to do with sex!

That"MODEL"Chick
05-23-2011, 03:14 PM
Thought about that,but he wants to hand me cash on an "as needed basis" as in whenever I have a bill or something he gives me money.

TouringGirlfriend
05-23-2011, 03:18 PM
Thought about that,but he wants to hand me cash on an "as needed basis" as in whenever I have a bill or something he gives me money.

If that is the case tell him that you have a very expensive phone bill that's $500 and a very expensive cell phone bill that's $500. See the thing is there are sooooo many average joe blows THINKING they can be a true sugardaddy when their money is not long enough for that arrangement. You want a guy that won't flinch when you say "$500".

That"MODEL"Chick
05-23-2011, 03:25 PM
Gotcha!! He says he wants to meet a few times a month,I'm going to suggest either once a week or every other week(which is only twice a month). I'm pretty sure he'll pick the once a week,no matter how much he can afford. My question is this: if he chooses the once a week,should I say a higher amount or lower? I would think if we're meeting every other week the amount should be higher because its only twice a month. Weekly though I was thinking at least 300-500. I know most females request/expect a lot more,but honestly I'm just fine with a lower amount. I have nothing but time on my hands(obviously I'm forever posting on SW)!

thedunlap
05-23-2011, 11:13 PM
If that is the case tell him that you have a very expensive phone bill that's $500 and a very expensive cell phone bill that's $500. See the thing is there are sooooo many average joe blows THINKING they can be a true sugardaddy when their money is not long enough for that arrangement. You want a guy that won't flinch when you say "$500".

Do you really want to tell your possible surgardaddy that you phonebill is 500? It might work, especially if he's the competitive type, but it might also backfire (who the hell are you talking too etc.--if hes the more controlling type). But perhaps you're better off letting it backfire as you might be better off in the long-run staying away from someone like that.

ScarlettJanuary
05-24-2011, 12:06 AM
Do you really want to tell your possible surgardaddy that you phonebill is 500? It might work, especially if he's the competitive type, but it might also backfire (who the hell are you talking too etc.--if hes the more controlling type). But perhaps you're better off letting it backfire as you might be better off in the long-run staying away from someone like that.

This girl knows her shit so....uh....prepare to have your ass handed to you in 3-2-1.....

dirtydeedzbb
05-24-2011, 04:49 AM
can help me make good ad on cl with a new subject?

That"MODEL"Chick
05-24-2011, 05:26 AM
Do you really want to tell your possible surgardaddy that you phonebill is 500? It might work, especially if he's the competitive type, but it might also backfire (who the hell are you talking too etc.--if hes the more controlling type). But perhaps you're better off letting it backfire as you might be better off in the long-run staying away from someone like that.

Thank You SOOOO much for your unwanted opinion,feel free to exit our thread now ::) Man almost 4,000 views and only 200 comments?! I swear some people need to get a life! We're talking about OUR SD/SB experiences. WTF is so intresting about that?

TouringGirlfriend
05-24-2011, 05:56 AM
Do you really want to tell your possible surgardaddy that you phonebill is 500? It might work, especially if he's the competitive type, but it might also backfire (who the hell are you talking too etc.--if hes the more controlling type). But perhaps you're better off letting it backfire as you might be better off in the long-run staying away from someone like that.

I'm in a good mood today so I won't insult you. You already know that I do NOT like you.

Dunlap, You're not my sugardaddy so you shouldn't worry about it for one.
Two, the key here is to find a guy that won't flinch at $200-500. See when I placed my ads, I got A LOT of guys writing me saying "Is the donation for a blowjob", "Can we do it in my car", "Are you into oral?" and just like they came in .. I deleted those messages right after I read them. One by one! If I was looking for an average joe, broke ass, penny pinchers.. I would have placed and ad on okcupid or match.com and acted like I wanted a boyfriend and met with everyone and anyone that answered my ad... right? Or If I was looking to fuck random strangers for money (which I have no problem with btw) I would have placed an escort ad.

But with this CL ad I was looking for something else... someone with REAL money/ Someone that DOESN'T live paycheck to paycheck . You know the man that doesn't have to work because he's busted his ass all those years and has it alllll and more now? I found that! I told my SD yesterday (Yes he's now MY Sd (Guy #1 to be exact.) that my car was having problems and it would cost $630 to fix it and the first thing he was "Just take one of the cars out of the garage and return it when you're done with it". I rejected the offer and told him I wanted to fix my own car that unless he was giving me one of his cars it wouldn't make sense. He told me I was right and that I should pick up this money this evening.

Men that do NOT have access to this kind of money will not understand. It's almost like in escorting. You should read the hooker boards. The guys that are used to paying $200 are always the ones saying "YOU PAID $1500 FOR SEX?????" They will never understand the guy that spends that kind of money because they themselves have never been there.

A lot of men would roll their eyes if I ask them for $500 to pay a phone bill.. yes I know that. Hell some of them would even laugh at me but that's the more reason why I did not reply to every single guy that wrote me when I posted those ads. I knew exactly what I was looking for. $500 for a phone bill is NOT alot of money. There was a time I ran up my sprint bill to $1400 making international phone calls and using the internet so.. yeah!

Mr P says whatever I want I can ask him for it. I won't do too much too soon but he IS going to give me $630 tonight to fix my car.

BTW my car is just fine. I'm gonna use that money to pay bills.

Dunlap, It's ok if you don't understand. There are a lot of guys that would FLAME Mr P but even then I'm sure he wouldn't give a damn. The man is very very secure with himself and doesn't care what others think of him.

That"MODEL"Chick
05-24-2011, 06:02 AM
^^*sigh* Thats EXACTLY the kind of man I'm looking for and intend to find!

TouringGirlfriend
05-24-2011, 06:10 AM
I'll be honest and say that I've been posting ads these last two days and pretty much deleting every response that came in because I KNEW they were not the type I was looking for. Some just thought it was a front for prostitution.. whatever! If I even decided to have sex with one of those guys, I'd charge them an arm and a leg because the ad clearly states that I'm looking for "generous, financially stable" men. Why the hell would a broke ass respond to my ad anyways??! That shit urks me. Men do NOT know how to read I swear!

I have a date tomorrow night with ONE guy I came across yesterday. He's a dentist. As soon as he told me his name I knew the building he worked out of. His practice is right next to a very popular mall here so we'll see how that goes. He's a black guy so I don't have my hopes up too much. Let's just hope he's cute and doesn't short me on the meeting fee (I doubt he will but ya never know)

Ummm... Damn you know it's fucked up when I say ."This is a black guy so I don't want to get my hopes up too much".. now you know most of them do NOT like spending money!

TouringGirlfriend
05-24-2011, 06:52 AM
To those that are confused. This is Mr P: (Guy #1)

I don't think Mr. P wants me posting anymore CL ads though. I'm starting to think he's on there alot.

I'm still gonna post though just not today. I found that the my ads tend to get flagged more in the morning :(!

Edit to add: I'm getting lots of PMs on this subject but I wouldn't get anything accomplished If I sat here and answered pm all day so ask your questions here so I can help you with whatever it is.

Placing SD ads are easy! It's catching the whale / knowing who's serious and who's full of shit thats the hard part.

When placing ads you could say something like:

Headline: Sugarbaby seeking Sugardaddy

Classy, Stunning and Articulate 21 year old college student seeking generous,
financially and mentally stable male.
Looking for a guy that can help with bills and enjoy the good life with. Serious inquries only.
Must be willing to make a small donation on first meeting to show that you're serious.
Must be over 30 years old! <<<<< Note: That part is optional

It's that simple ladies! See no magic tricks. Post and they will come!

That"MODEL"Chick
05-24-2011, 07:09 AM
To those that are confused. This is Mr P: (Guy #1)

Yeah I figured thats who "Mr. P" was.

DottieMay
05-24-2011, 11:41 AM
Just posted an ad on cl, the first time I haven't been flagged in 15 minutes or less. Let the emails keep rolling in! I better check my horoscope, things are going too well.

22lligm
05-24-2011, 07:09 PM
Hey! have you tried the website www.seekingarrangement.com ?
ive used it before and ended up ALMOST meeting with someone but chickened out. now i made another account on there and theres a guy who wants to take me to dinner for 250$ just to talk! Anyone try this website before? Feedback?

22lligm
05-24-2011, 07:10 PM
oh and i reccomend it also because it seems to obviously attract all types of wealthy men who want sugarbabies. and i made my account yesterday and i ahve a LOT of messages!

TouringGirlfriend
05-24-2011, 07:13 PM
Hey! have you tried the website ?
ive used it before and ended up ALMOST meeting with someone but chickened out. now i made another account on there and theres a guy who wants to take me to dinner for 250$ just to talk! Anyone try this website before? Feedback?

Yup tried it and didn't last two days. The amount of timewasters and wannabe sugardaddies/guy hunting for free or discount sex was amazing! I immediately left and went on to sugardaddyforme. I used the 3 day trial and I love it. My trial expired and I didn't renew it. I will buy a gold membership one of these days maybe sometime next week but honestly? right now I really don't need it. Try sugardaddyforme.com you'll have to sift through a lot of bull but I came across some pretty cool, serious guys. I never actually met them though because at the time I was too chicken but I do plan on renewing some day. Cool site.

That"MODEL"Chick
05-24-2011, 07:54 PM
Hey! have you tried the website ?
ive used it before and ended up ALMOST meeting with someone but chickened out. now i made another account on there and theres a guy who wants to take me to dinner for 250$ just to talk! Anyone try this website before? Feedback?

Its a no-go for me as well

22lligm
05-24-2011, 08:58 PM
Yup tried it and didn't last two days. The amount of timewasters and wannabe sugardaddies/guy hunting for free or discount sex was amazing! I immediately left and went on to sugardaddyforme. I used the 3 day trial and I love it. My trial expired and I didn't renew it. I will buy a gold membership one of these days maybe sometime next week but honestly? right now I really don't need it. Try sugardaddyforme.com you'll have to sift through a lot of bull but I came across some pretty cool, serious guys. I never actually met them though because at the time I was too chicken but I do plan on renewing some day. Cool site.

oh okay i'll try that other website then. idk if i should keep the SA account though..now i'm worried every guy is a shmuck! lol

BlkSharpie
05-24-2011, 09:47 PM
Ive tried SA twice...both times, all the men I met just wanted NSA fun, no sugar (for me anyway). Amazing to me since they were all professionals, by all accounts had the money to spend, but all saw themselves as great catches that Id want to hop into bed with for nothing save for our unbridled passion. Yeah right.

Jazelle
05-25-2011, 05:41 AM
Has anyone tried this with bp? craigslist ads kkeep getting flagged within minutes. What do you think the success chances are on bp?

That"MODEL"Chick
05-25-2011, 06:08 AM
Haven't thought about trying BP. Do you have to pay for it? I've never placed an ad with them before.

Lady Xplicit18
05-25-2011, 06:10 AM
TG- while you're on a date, when exactly do you ask for the money? Once you first meet the guy you ask for it or while you guys are having dinner? I want to figure out how to not "interrupt the mood"

TouringGirlfriend
05-25-2011, 06:41 AM
TG- while you're on a date, when exactly do you ask for the money? Once you first meet the guy you ask for it or while you guys are having dinner? I want to figure out how to not "interrupt the mood"

There is no mood to interrupt. The guys knew that the meeting fee is the only way they can see me in person. All this is negotiated by email. Every single guy I met offered the meeting fee. Guy #2 sat with me for a few minutes and then offered the meeting fee.

So you see? There is nothing to interuppt. If they do not have my fee when I get there, I will leave and will not bother with them again. The whole point of the fee is so I know they are serious/have enough money for such arrangment and they know that.

Simply put : Must be willing to make a small donation on the ad so they know you're not meeting them for free.

Jazelle
05-25-2011, 07:20 AM
Haven't thought about trying BP. Do you have to pay for it? I've never placed an ad with them before.

Yes I think the price varies by state, I checked and mine is $10.

BlkSharpie
05-25-2011, 07:45 AM
$10??? In Miami its $1 for a personals ad...

..even the adult services section is just $7.

Theres no flagging on there either...I mean an ad can get reported, but it actually has to have something against TOS in it for it to be removed.. Its not based on how many people dont like that you have your ad up, like Craigs is.

The Contessa
05-25-2011, 11:03 AM
Just got a hit here in LA. Meeting for tea in beverly hills at 3! I asked him for 150$, we'll see how he responds. I really don't plan on being there for more than an hour, and unless he proposes something amazing, I don't plan on seeing him again. I just need some money, damnit.

The Contessa
05-25-2011, 12:18 PM
Ugh, nevermind. He was confused (asshole) and just wanted sex. Got another guy lined up for lunch tomorrow. Eh, should be interesting.

Jazelle
05-25-2011, 02:07 PM
$10??? In Miami its $1 for a personals ad...

..even the adult services section is just $7.

Theres no flagging on there either...I mean an ad can get reported, but it actually has to have something against TOS in it for it to be removed.. Its not based on how many people dont like that you have your ad up, like Craigs is.

Everything is bigger in texas including the cost of bp ads! Ive been blocked from cl =[ and bp wont let me post my ad with newly purchased prepaid card ugh! I need some cash where else can I post thhat ad

TouringGirlfriend
05-25-2011, 02:11 PM
Post on CL using a free proxy server like...


create a new CL account and post.

Lady Xplicit18
05-25-2011, 03:02 PM
Ugh, nevermind. He was confused (asshole) and just wanted sex. Got another guy lined up for lunch tomorrow. Eh, should be interesting.

Deng that sucks :/
I'm in LA too and hopefully not too many assholes will be flagging.
I'll be trying this today

TouringGirlfriend
05-25-2011, 04:33 PM
I'm very tempted to post today (so I can meet guys tomorrow). This was around the time I found Mr. P on CL. Maybe I can find another Mr. P? I'll have to think about another way to word my ad so it's not considered "spam". hmmmmm.

Jazelle
05-25-2011, 05:46 PM
Tg_they make me use my phone number to verify each time they.send a code I have to type in. ugh!.someone post a bp ad for me in my city lol I need cashhhh

TouringGirlfriend
05-25-2011, 05:51 PM
Tg_they make me use my phone number to verify each time they.send a code I have to type in. ugh!.someone post a bp ad for me in my city lol I need cashhhh

Girl I have like three phones. I have two different accounts on CL now. The trick to not get blocked is wording your ad differently each time and using a proxy server. .

Lady Xplicit18
05-25-2011, 05:59 PM
Thanks for the advice TG! How do you go about via paypal without them trying to chargeback?

That"MODEL"Chick
05-25-2011, 06:01 PM
Paypal?! We are NOT working! Tell em you only accept cash! :D

Jazelle
05-25-2011, 06:04 PM
Girl I have like three phones. I have two different accounts on CL now. The trick to not get blocked is wording your ad differently each time and using a proxy server. .

Can u use landlines?

Lady Xplicit18
05-25-2011, 06:15 PM
Paypal?! We are NOT working! Tell em you only accept cash! :D

Kk lol I'm totally new to this (been working in clubs). Say it in the email or post? }:D

DottieMay
05-25-2011, 06:17 PM
I posted an ad yesterday and surprisingly enough it is still up!I've gotten a lot of good and bad feedback. I was very vague/clever with my wording but the more distinguished men understood my proposition. I am meeting with someone tomorrow and have been talking with two others seriously but we have no time set up yet. I'll post another ad up in a different area in the next day or two and see how it goes. I'm afraid of collecting too many of them and then being overwhelmed. I'd like to make enough money this weekend to cover all my rent and then some. That way I don't have to dip into my normal job money .

TouringGirlfriend
05-25-2011, 06:27 PM
Can u use landlines?

Yes.

I meant I had 3 cell phones. However you could use a landline and do a voice verification.

I'm spending the night at Mr. P's guesthouse so I'll post when I get there. Long ass drive! >:(

Lady Xplicit18
05-25-2011, 06:31 PM
Be safe TG!

DottieMay
05-25-2011, 06:36 PM
We need to find men with helicopters so we don't have to make long drives.

Jazelle
05-25-2011, 06:48 PM
I posted an ad yesterday and surprisingly enough it is still up!I've gotten a lot of good and bad feedback. I was very vague/clever with my wording but the more distinguished men understood my proposition. I am meeting with someone tomorrow and have been talking with two others seriously but we have no time set up yet. I'll post another ad up in a different area in the next day or two and see how it goes. I'm afraid of collecting too many of them and then being overwhelmed. I'd like to make enough money this weekend to cover all my rent and then some. That way I don't have to dip into my normal job money .

Please pm me what u said in your ad so mine can stay up. I got bills honey.
300 phone bill, inspection registration sticker, broken window repair, I can go on for days

TouringGirlfriend
05-25-2011, 08:01 PM
Hey I'm safe! We're watching the movie "Seven Pounds" with Will smith. He's really cool and there's no hanky panky going on. He's about to make me a burger. We'll be doing breakfast at some restaurant and I'll be driving home mid afternoon tomorrow!

natilinia rouge
05-26-2011, 06:09 AM
Please pm me what u said in your ad so mine can stay up. I got bills honey.
300 phone bill, inspection registration sticker, broken window repair, I can go on for days

lmao this made me laugh soooooo hard!!!!! haha

TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 09:44 AM
Hey guys, I'm back home! Interesting night but again no hanky panky. We watched that movie twice. When I got there it was almost over and I only saw bits and pieces and wanted to see it again. Luckily it came on again right after. He made me a burger and we talked more about the arrangement BUT ... BUT ... BUT he wants a live-in arrangment and after giving things CAREFUL thought...

I do not want that.

I really DO like my freedom so we'll just have to figure something out. He's going to England on July and wants me to go with him and I've decided that I feel comfortable enough to go so yay England here I come!

Anyways It was nice waking up to that lake! I wanted him to teach me how to fish but he didn't have time :(. He gave me $300 to"buy something nice" with ::). <<<< Honestly I asked for it. Yes it almost made my skin crawl to ask but oh well. This weekend he's gonna get jet skis so we can ride them on the lake :D.

That was my day! Any SD encounters?? You know what guys????? I HATE that I am not attracted to him!

BlkSharpie
05-26-2011, 09:55 AM
That really sounds awesome... And believe me, seeing how interested he is, and how cool a guy he seems, hes not going to go any further than your comfort level or make it out that if he cant get what he wants (you moving in) then nothing at all...

...I mean, yeah he's going to bring it up every so often lol but I also think he'll take it easy to not scare you away too...

I think...so far so good! Too bad youre not attracted to him though :( On the flip...maybe a good thing. If you were, you may be more willing to let go of the big picture, in staying independent.