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That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 10:01 AM
Glad you made it back home safely TG!. Yeah it is too bad you're not attracted to him,but like Sharpie said that can be a good thing. :)

That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 10:34 AM
So,did anyone ever try BP?? Thinking about posting in the "bodyrub" section. Kind of looking for the same kind/amount of fast cash as a SD/SB arrangement,but without the meetings and relationships.

TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 10:38 AM
So,did anyone ever try BP?? Thinking about posting in the "bodyrub" section. Kind of looking for the same kind/amount of fast cash as a SD/SB arrangement,but without the meetings and relationships.

I'm not understanding. You want to do bodyrubs? Go for it! Check out that FBSM thread. Is that what you're asking? When I did bodyrubs, I posted only on backpage and banked!

That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 10:46 AM
Yeah at first I was intrested in just SD/SB relationships,but now I just DON'T have the time. Not trying to confuse anyone,I've never done it before,but am very eager to start! I was just asking if the ladies decided to post their SD/SB ads on BP. Since I know they were thinking about it. Here in my town it only costs $1 to post in the adult section! So yeah,thinking about putting up an ad in their bodyrub section. The females in my area offering it don't look HOT at all! Not that it has an effect on the way they "rub",but still :D I'm just debating weather or not to show my face for this kind of ad :thinking:

TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 10:54 AM
Sb/SD arrangment is not stable income. Nothing is guaranteed. I love it because it's fun, it's extra money and of course I like "dating" wealthy men. So It's not really a source of income for me but a hobby. I would highly recommend bodyrubs if you are good with your hands, If you're not and you give a shitty massage, forget it because you will not have repeats. You can find bodyrub info . That is as detailed as it gets. If you want anymore info you can pm me and i'll help anyway that I can.

That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 11:03 AM
Yeah I'm pretty good with my hands }:D Think I've read all of the threads here on it. I would only be available for outcalls though,don't know how well that would go. Definetly not any parlors near me. Not that I'd want to apply anyway! Yeah,I'm going to try it. Only one way to know,how it would really go...

DottieMay
05-26-2011, 11:20 AM
I don't show my face in my ads. I either blur it out of just do neck down. I will send my face only if someone is serious about scheduling an appt or they request it and don't seem shady.

BlkSharpie
05-26-2011, 02:22 PM
About showing face at all...I was kind of considering sending it to guys by email if they passed screening, but then too many horror stories, not much different than posting it publicly. By that I mean, when you have it on your website, le has been known to print it off and distribute it to hotels just to keep on file to recognize you when you walk in... and if they can get the photo by email, they will use it the same way.

Since I do outcall and sure I will come across traveling guys staying in hotels, plus use hotels as incall, I decided to just never put my face out there in connection to this for any reason. Problem with me too is...I go somewhere once, and people remember me...I just have one of those faces people dont ever forget. So personally, I know its not worth the risk.

Miss_McKenna
05-26-2011, 03:00 PM
Which section are you guys posting in? Women seeking Men? I wish there was still the adult/erotic section, but I guess maybe that would give the wrong idea seeing as it's for dates only and no eroticness (if that's even a word lol)

SpeedDial
05-26-2011, 03:33 PM
Hey you all!
Im just jumping back in this thread.
I totally forgot (Ive been using most of time on here to do some research)

Im happy things are going good for TG and her arrangements.
I havent posted any ads since the first time I did.

lol lemme tell you guys.

500 dollar guy I posted about earlier.
He found it amusing that I wasnt going to have sex and he was so sure I was in need of a lover instead. I had to tell him that I wanted a SUGAR DADDY.
He said being a Sugar Daddy was being a loser and what Im really looking for is someone that can be a friend, a confidant and a lover.

I told him that the things he described was apart of being a Sugar Daddy and that the lover part was optional.

He proceeded to tell me that everyone else thinks differently.

I do not care what everyone else is because generally I believe the public is not fully educated on what a SB/SD relationship REALLY consist of and that sex is optional, depending on the type of arrangement.


And another guy, He said I cheated him because I wouldnt send him my picture after I received his. I didnt send it to him because he was being a hard ass about simply sending his when clearly in the as posted I asked for a picture.
I didnt even bother with him.

MEN NEED TO LISTEN.

TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 03:38 PM
Yeah Mr. P didn't send me his pictures because he wanted to be discreet. You really can't expect any of these guys to send you their picture. You're the one posting the ad so of course they want to see what you look like before committing to anything. So yeah you could have lost a potential SD right there.

SpeedDial
05-26-2011, 04:29 PM
Yeaaa you're right, I could have.
And you're right I am the one posting the ad.

But it was like pulling teeth to get a picture from him
If its that much of a trouble to get the picture how much of a trouble would it be to get 200 from him? lol

TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 04:31 PM
All he has to do is agree to the meeting fee via email. You're not having sex with him or anything like that. Just sitting and chatting so why not ya know?

Paul would NOT send me his pic at all I asked him like 3 times and he said no. When I finally met him, I understood why.

That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 04:33 PM
^^He was that unattractive??

TouringGirlfriend
05-26-2011, 04:36 PM
^^He was that unattractive??

Nope. It's not that. Everyone knows who he is. He is a very popular guy/businessman here in CLT.

That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 04:37 PM
Oh,ok

SpeedDial
05-26-2011, 04:48 PM
I see I see.
hmmm wellll next time I post an ad and get into a situation like that again
I'll do it differently.

Ya never know!

SpeedDial
05-26-2011, 04:48 PM
^^He was that unattractive??

lol that made me chuckle.

That"MODEL"Chick
05-26-2011, 04:53 PM
Dammit I want to find a "Mr. P" and I want to find him now!

BlkSharpie
05-26-2011, 07:43 PM
As far as SD's go...I would be more wary of a guy who doesnt mind/care about sending his photo out... To me, that would mean he hasnt much to protect or lose.

Definitely not a red flag or bad sign if a guy is reluctant to send his photo and would rather meet in person for you to see him.

Lady Xplicit18
05-27-2011, 05:25 AM
Yaaay made my first post on CL :D
Guess I'll have to wait and see what happens ^.^

DottieMay
05-27-2011, 08:23 AM
I decided not to meet with my guy last night. We had talked earlier in the week and I told him to call me to confirm last night. He did, 20 minutes late, which irritated me but he started talking like he didnt want to give up any money and if he did it didn't seem like an amount that would satisfy me. So oh well for him. I do have 3 other gentlemen who would love to meet me and have absolutely no problem parting with their money. Hopefully next week we will have something set up, I'd like to do it this week but I am just too busy. I also need to get on cam this weekend in between all the other random things I am doing. I went part time on my normal job, so now I am using the camming to make up for that, but I've been slacking! My goal is to leave my regular job by winter, get my car fixed and have a substantial amount saved up by this time next year.

TouringGirlfriend
05-27-2011, 09:30 AM
DottieMay- That's just awesome!!!

sandyangel
05-27-2011, 12:22 PM
I have a quick question:

so, I'm new this this whole sugrbb/daddy relationship. I am straddled in student debt (>50k) and would LOVE some advice about some people i met and how i would go about getting the most money (hehe), well, it is what it is.

1.) A very wealthy business man (dont know how wealthy but he lives in a major US city on the west coast and has a life insurance policy worth $25 Million and is in his 50's offered me 1k/week if I saw him for 4 hours (2 hours x 2). That breaks down to about $500/2 hours. He wants a very discreet sugar baby relationship becuase his wife will take him down if she finds out and the relationship would ONLY be in a hotel room).

I talked to him and he seemed very legitimate, however I will get his drivers license and run it through some screening websites (background checks to make sure it's safe)

I was wondering, though, if $500 is too little? SHould I somehow ask for more? How much would somebody make a year to be able to afford a 25 million life insurance policy? His company just bought a project for 10 million, -his company not him.

2) a second businessman offered me $900 for a night with him starting with dinner out and then me leaving in the morning. We would stay in a hotel. He doesnt want me to leave at night becuase he says it would be ackward and he doesn't want to wake up alone. He wants to do this with me 4 x a month, so weekly. I didn't know if this was a fair price.. his wife lives in another country and I think he's lonely...becuase he suggested either going to dinner at a restaurant OR if I could cook dinner for him also if he got a hotel/suite that had a kitchen...
(!) Dont those cost a bundle? Is he lowballing me? Oh, and He's going to get tested and we're picking up the papers together.

TouringGirlfriend
05-27-2011, 12:24 PM
^ Too little for a man of his caliber. Ask him for $400 or more per hour.

sandyangel
05-27-2011, 12:31 PM
which man? the 1st or the second?

What price would you command? I just want to get rid of my student debt asap

TouringGirlfriend
05-27-2011, 12:35 PM
I wouldn't spend a night with anyone for less than $3500 a night.

So guy number 2 is out.

Great that he wants to get tested but what does that prove? Nothing.

If you need cash now .. go ahead and see guy 2. I wouldn't.

BlkSharpie
05-27-2011, 12:47 PM
The getting testing thing scares me...not the test itself but...exactly...what would that prove? Thats its okay to have unprotected sex? I dont bleeping think so! Aye...that would be my concern, that thats what hes after...

Yeah, $900 for an overnight is seriously low. Im at the mid-low end of the scale escorting and would not do it for less than $2k...thats for up to 14hrs.... As a sb, I did not get money per visit, it started out with a $4k allowance, plus my rent and utilities paid for...and I only saw him about one week out of the month. And I would expect more as an sb...theres a lot more to the relationship than an escort/client relationship.

Ultimately the choice it up to you, and if you do think it will progress, it may be worth going for it, for sure. But do not keep it just at that...

sandyangel
05-27-2011, 12:47 PM
Is it safe to have guy 1 or 2 send money into my savings account? My bank says they would have to know my checking account number and also my full real name...They can't see my balance or get a check to take it out since this would be a savings account for that ONLY and i've disabled the atm card feature.

TouringGirlfriend
05-27-2011, 12:51 PM
Is it safe to have guy 1 or 2 send money into my savings account? My bank says they would have to know my checking account number and also my full real name...They can't see my balance or get a check to take it out since this would be a savings account for that ONLY and i've disabled the atm card feature.

Exactly what are you referring to?

No. It is not safe.

It is safer to get the cash in person before the meeting begins.

That"MODEL"Chick
05-27-2011, 01:11 PM
^^Exactly ! Why not get the cash in hand? There isn't a major difference between exchanging between hands and him loading it into your account.

BlkSharpie
05-27-2011, 01:15 PM
Cash. No checks, no paypal, no deposits through 3rd party...cash.

Safer for him too, being a married man, to not have money being xferred from his account to yours...his wife and her lawyer would have a field day with that during the divorce if she found out. Discretion is key.

Personally, I was deep in with my sd for about 6 months, and hed gone over and beyond and had my trust that I gave him my banking info and he started depositing the money that way. But it wasnt remotely a consideration when we first got involved....

Lady Xplicit18
05-27-2011, 05:38 PM
I'm getting alot of guys saying they want a DISCREET friend. I know it means private but is that a red flag for them might wanting something else other than company? :-/

Lady Xplicit18
05-27-2011, 05:46 PM
TG How Does this sound?

I'm an older gentleman, 54, looking for an on-going friendship with a decent and classy young black woman. No drama. Dinner would be a good start. I ran an ad the past two months looking for exactly you. A person who wants to develop an on-going friendship / intimate relationship with an older man.

I am very selective and must find a decent person that is into an on-going friendship / intimate relationship. I'm 5'8" 165lbs.
I am of Italian background. I'm very normal, professional, single parent, good job. I do not date in front of my daughter.

My career is in a number of different areas including restaurants, real estate and small business consulting.

I am seeking ONLY an on-going thing with one girl who wants one older man.
Hopefully you will get back to me. I'm up.

That"MODEL"Chick
05-27-2011, 06:00 PM
^^This is NOT cupid.com!! He never once mentioned SB or SD. Didn't mention the key words either: generous,spoil,ect. I say pass,the only reason you two need to have dinner is to discuss how much he's willing to "donate" for your time. I know I'm not TG,but had to put in my :twocents:

BlkSharpie
05-27-2011, 06:18 PM
Hrmmm....true he did not mention outright generous, spoil, etc...

But...he does put it out there about what he does for a living, as to say he is successful...and if you mentioned all the right the key words in your ad, that may be his way of saying he can afford it.

Also, that hes saying he will not date in front of his child, but wants something ongoing, says to me hed like someting with you, but not close enough to really be a part of his private/family life.

I wouldnt blow him off just yet....at least talk to him by phone, and if you get a good vibe that you are both on the right track, dress to kill and meet him for dinner. See where he takes you, and where the convo goes. Dont go home and sleep with him no matter what lol. (just putting it out there....)

Lady Xplicit18
05-27-2011, 06:19 PM
^^^True true!
What about this?:

Hey gorgeous my name is David im 36 5'9 205 lbs...and I am looking for an attractive girl to spoil from time to time. I am attached so I have to be discreet. If your interested let me know how I can get in touch and then I can send a pic. I am serious and dont mind giving that small donation on first visit.

TouringGirlfriend
05-27-2011, 09:36 PM
^^^True true!
What about this?:

Hey gorgeous my name is David im 36 5'9 205 lbs...and I am looking for an attractive girl to spoil from time to time. I am attached so I have to be discreet. If your interested let me know how I can get in touch and then I can send a pic. I am serious and dont mind giving that small donation on first visit.

fUCK YES! Go for it!!! woot woot! Let me know how it goes!! 8)

BlkSharpie
05-27-2011, 09:39 PM
I love living vicariously through you all lol!!!!

Lady Xplicit18
05-28-2011, 04:00 AM
TG- my friend worked for alot of escort agencies and told me the ad I copied off of you sounded like I was a cop writing it lol idk why. smh

Lady Xplicit18
05-28-2011, 05:54 AM
OMG! I think I got a Mr.P ALMOOOOST :D
The place he wants to take me to lunch is soooooooooo nice! Ah! Can't wait to get things going!!!

_______

Love your look and profile.

I have a very nice French Chateau style estate in Santa Barbara which I share with my 2 dogs.

I would love to have you visit, if you are interested. When you arrive in SB we could have lunch or dinner at the 5 star Four Seasons Biltmore resort so you can confirm that you are comfortable with me.

I doubt you will be disappointed or that I will be. I would like to keep things simple and trust we both have a lot to offer the other.

Hope to hear from you,

Mark

That"MODEL"Chick
05-28-2011, 06:18 AM
Go Lady,whoo hoo!! }:D

Lady Xplicit18
05-28-2011, 06:54 AM
^^^
I thought he was bluffing but this guy is totally serious!!! He said he'd pay my travel expenses and whatever else I need help with! Ah! I can't believe it! Maybe because I haven't gone to sleep yet but I just can't believe I found someone that's legit FINALLY.

Here's the place we're having lunch at on Tuesday :)))

That"MODEL"Chick
05-28-2011, 07:30 AM
WOW!! That is super cool! Now go ahead and delete it unless you want uninvited guests scoping you out. SW is too damn popular,full of lurkers,creeps & potential stalkers :(

TouringGirlfriend
05-28-2011, 07:36 AM
I think you got yourself a Mr. P ;)


TG- my friend worked for alot of escort agencies and told me the ad I copied off of you sounded like I was a cop writing it lol idk why. smh

Tell her to call me and I'm sure she will teach her a few things ;).

Escort ad and sugardaddy ads are NOT the same. So it's really your friend that doesn't know what she's talking about forgive me.
This is not supposed to go hand in hand with escorting. The fee is asking for a meet fee and has nothing to do with sexual acts.
Escorting = sexual acts .. not this.

BlkSharpie
05-28-2011, 09:27 AM
Okay Explicit...you are now bound to give a full report and *details!!!!!!!!!!!!* lmfao!!!!

So excited for you!!!!

TouringGirlfriend
05-28-2011, 10:17 AM
I'm soooo excited! E, You better spill the beans!!!!!!!!!! I have a meeting in a few but I'll be stalking sw afterwards for details!!

That"MODEL"Chick
05-28-2011, 12:04 PM
Man we must be all running into the same kind of men. I just got an email from someone who is 40 and claims that he would treat me "exceptionally well". He refuses to send me a pic saying we could meet he'll hand me the money for my trouble even if I don't like him,I can just walk out. He also says he'd rather be VERY discrete,so I wouldn't have to worry about him flaunting me,which I'd very much prefer. *sigh* Going to set up a meet for tomorrow hopefully. Oooo maybe he's a "Mr. P" :D That would be o-so-lovely! }:D

Lady Xplicit18
05-28-2011, 03:21 PM
The only thing is that he's old :/
But seems sweet already :)
I'll totally let you guys know!
I'm excited! Ah :D

TG- Yeah, I tried explaining to her but she didn't get it as well. Ugh. lol
Model- Thanks for telling me that!

TouringGirlfriend
05-28-2011, 03:39 PM
OMGosh Lady x, Who cares about them being old? He can be 99 years old and I'll still date him as long as he's loaded. I don't care. Even better for me! Heck maybe I'd be able to talk him into making me the beneficiary on his life insurance. Ok Ok .. that would involve sexual acts.. LMFAO!