View Full Version : How shallow are you ladies?
Vyanka
05-26-2011, 02:46 PM
I wont settle unless I get the whole package. I want it ALL. :)
I love good looks, it's good for my libido. }:D Esp if I want to have his kid(s). I want pretty kid(s).
Must have a great career, enough to support me & the possible future kid(s). I don't know if I want one kid or two(max). I will also not work when I have a kid. I want to focus on raising my child. If I go back to work, i'll wait til the kid is a little older. I want my kid to live in the best neighborhood and go to the best schools. I don't need to marry a billionaire, but someone who is able to provide us with a comfortable happy lifestyle will do.
Smart too of course.. I like a man who can fulfill me with a good conversation and teach me new things. Impress me.
Great personality too. I don't like flakes, dumbasses, or douchebags. Easy going & a pleasant person to be around. Outgoing...likes to travel and eat out at nice places.
I think what makes me a little shallow is wanting the good looks. The rest is high standards.
I forgot to add humble. No matter how good looking or how much money he has/has brought up into, I love a dude who is humble in my personal life. I like the stuck up arrogant ones as customers $$$. haha
Optimist
06-01-2011, 09:46 AM
Welll I am married but I'll answer anyways....
I have dated some not-so-typically-attractive men in my days but it's their personality that really caught my attention to begin with. I want to state that a guy has to have good hygiene, decent teeth, dress decently, etc... in order for me to even consider dating him. If that's shallow then, yes, I am shallow. I don't typically go for the drop dead gorgeous guys because they are usually full of themselves and too Alpha-male for me. I like a guy I can chill with, laugh with and not be self conscious with.
Me too! >:( Every smoking or financially successful guy I've dated had an ego that was off the charts. I put a LOT of weight on personality now because good looking dudes are generally only good for pumpn'dumps (sex and ditch). Guys who've developed their minds and spirits are keepers.
Kellydancer
06-01-2011, 10:50 AM
Me too! >:( Every smoking or financially successful guy I've dated had an ego that was off the charts. I put a LOT of weight on personality now because good looking dudes are generally only good for pumpn'dumps (sex and ditch). Guys who've developed their minds and spirits are keepers.
Agreed. I can't stand ego driven men and I've dated a few but none were long lasting.
kthnx
06-13-2011, 01:01 AM
I would only date the following; Latino, Jewish, or White, Native American, and possibly Asian (if he's tall)
I don't do black guys. I don't do Indians from India. I don't do red-headed white men (eww). I don't do blonde white men, at least not generally.
I don't date guys younger than 45, or older than 80.
I date guys who are at least 6'0 tall.
I date guys who make at least 50 k (short term). I date guys long term who make at least 300 k.
I don't date guys over 250 lbs or less than 150 lbs.
And no long hair men for me.
60% WALLET, 30% Personality, 10% Face. Height is more important than face.
Money is my religion.
And this is (one of the) reasons you're still an inexperienced virgin. Involuntary virgins cannot afford to be picky. ::)
Kellydancer
06-13-2011, 10:26 AM
And this is (one of the) reasons you're still an inexperienced virgin. Involuntary virgins cannot afford to be picky. ::)
Yep. You should read the online profiles of most people. I once saw one for a 45 year old obese, unattractive man wanting a brunette woman 18-25 and "no fatties". No wonder he's still single and will be at 50.
Kisca
06-15-2011, 11:40 AM
I dont like dating guys who are "10s", I like to be the better looking one in the relationship. I usually like "regular" guys just a plain t-shirt and jeans, nothing too dressy or fancied up -- only when its a nice dinner or something special.
I generally avoid guys who are super good looking, I always think they will cheat or something along those lines. I do like my men tall (over 5'10) and an average weight, to be clean but doesnt have to dress up in fancy clothes or shoes etc. I like guys dont like attention, as I like to dress up for them and whoever else sees me with them.
I've never been one for looks. as long as the guy isn't gross, Im ok. Personality is what wins me over
^^^This.
He's gotta be well-groomed (IMHO, that's a sign of self-respect and mental health; I'm not interested in dealing with some nut case, thank you!)
And a sense of humor that matches mine is just about essential. (I'm NOT talking about some wannabe stand-up comic; that can get tiresome really fast!) But if we're not going to have fun and enjoy each other's company, what's the point?