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Vyanka
05-26-2011, 02:46 PM
I wont settle unless I get the whole package. I want it ALL. :)

I love good looks, it's good for my libido. }:D Esp if I want to have his kid(s). I want pretty kid(s).


Must have a great career, enough to support me & the possible future kid(s). I don't know if I want one kid or two(max). I will also not work when I have a kid. I want to focus on raising my child. If I go back to work, i'll wait til the kid is a little older. I want my kid to live in the best neighborhood and go to the best schools. I don't need to marry a billionaire, but someone who is able to provide us with a comfortable happy lifestyle will do.

Smart too of course.. I like a man who can fulfill me with a good conversation and teach me new things. Impress me.

Great personality too. I don't like flakes, dumbasses, or douchebags. Easy going & a pleasant person to be around. Outgoing...likes to travel and eat out at nice places.

I think what makes me a little shallow is wanting the good looks. The rest is high standards.

I forgot to add humble. No matter how good looking or how much money he has/has brought up into, I love a dude who is humble in my personal life. I like the stuck up arrogant ones as customers $$$. haha

Optimist
06-01-2011, 09:46 AM
Welll I am married but I'll answer anyways....
I have dated some not-so-typically-attractive men in my days but it's their personality that really caught my attention to begin with. I want to state that a guy has to have good hygiene, decent teeth, dress decently, etc... in order for me to even consider dating him. If that's shallow then, yes, I am shallow. I don't typically go for the drop dead gorgeous guys because they are usually full of themselves and too Alpha-male for me. I like a guy I can chill with, laugh with and not be self conscious with.

Me too! >:( Every smoking or financially successful guy I've dated had an ego that was off the charts. I put a LOT of weight on personality now because good looking dudes are generally only good for pumpn'dumps (sex and ditch). Guys who've developed their minds and spirits are keepers.

Kellydancer
06-01-2011, 10:50 AM
Me too! >:( Every smoking or financially successful guy I've dated had an ego that was off the charts. I put a LOT of weight on personality now because good looking dudes are generally only good for pumpn'dumps (sex and ditch). Guys who've developed their minds and spirits are keepers.

Agreed. I can't stand ego driven men and I've dated a few but none were long lasting.

kthnx
06-13-2011, 01:01 AM
I would only date the following; Latino, Jewish, or White, Native American, and possibly Asian (if he's tall)

I don't do black guys. I don't do Indians from India. I don't do red-headed white men (eww). I don't do blonde white men, at least not generally.

I don't date guys younger than 45, or older than 80.

I date guys who are at least 6'0 tall.
I date guys who make at least 50 k (short term). I date guys long term who make at least 300 k.

I don't date guys over 250 lbs or less than 150 lbs.

And no long hair men for me.

60% WALLET, 30% Personality, 10% Face. Height is more important than face.
Money is my religion.

And this is (one of the) reasons you're still an inexperienced virgin. Involuntary virgins cannot afford to be picky. ::)

Kellydancer
06-13-2011, 10:26 AM
And this is (one of the) reasons you're still an inexperienced virgin. Involuntary virgins cannot afford to be picky. ::)

Yep. You should read the online profiles of most people. I once saw one for a 45 year old obese, unattractive man wanting a brunette woman 18-25 and "no fatties". No wonder he's still single and will be at 50.

Kisca
06-15-2011, 11:40 AM
I dont like dating guys who are "10s", I like to be the better looking one in the relationship. I usually like "regular" guys just a plain t-shirt and jeans, nothing too dressy or fancied up -- only when its a nice dinner or something special.

I generally avoid guys who are super good looking, I always think they will cheat or something along those lines. I do like my men tall (over 5'10) and an average weight, to be clean but doesnt have to dress up in fancy clothes or shoes etc. I like guys dont like attention, as I like to dress up for them and whoever else sees me with them.

Grac
06-15-2011, 05:00 PM
I've never been one for looks. as long as the guy isn't gross, Im ok. Personality is what wins me over

^^^This.

He's gotta be well-groomed (IMHO, that's a sign of self-respect and mental health; I'm not interested in dealing with some nut case, thank you!)

And a sense of humor that matches mine is just about essential. (I'm NOT talking about some wannabe stand-up comic; that can get tiresome really fast!) But if we're not going to have fun and enjoy each other's company, what's the point?