View Full Version : Camming and being single/Not single..
cherryblossomsinspring
05-16-2011, 05:15 AM
For those that don't know me, I'm in my 40's and I wanted to share my viewpoint as someone who has been married almost 15 years and cams.
I didn't start camming until 12 years in to our marriage, and we were both VERY traditional for that first part of our marriage. In fact I was a churchgoing, "good wife" and never though in a million years that I would end up camming .
Then as I grew older , my perspective on things started to changed. I found that I was sick and tired of the "mold" and wanted to explore my sexual side (dominant), which I had suppressed for years. With his encouragement and support, I tried camming. In no way did he pimp me out. Heck, he is not even my sub!
Sometimes when the kids are all at school and he is telecommuting (he has a great stable job), I will work upstairs and if he hears me yelling, it doesn't bother hi. Before I even started camming, I tried it for free and when I saw the interest from the guys, I said "I should be getting paid for this"..and that's how it all took off. This part of my life is separate from who I am as a wife and a Mom and accounts for maybe what? 5 or 10% of my weeks since I only work 8 to 10 hours a week. In no way does it interfere with our relationship.
There a great guys out there and yes, there are lazy bums and assholes. I was once married to what I thought was the image of a "real man" (beer drinking, football loving, all around Mr personality, non stop sex drive), but behind closed doors, he was an abuser. So the second time around, I married the quiet, nerdy (but hot) nice guy who wasn't in to all those macho things, and he is one of the kindest people I know who works hard for our family. It's ok to have traditional views, but life doesn't always work out the way you want it and you have to adjust as you go along. Just do what works best for you! Peace.
This I understand completely. Everyone situation is different and camming as a hobby sounds pretty damn fun because it's a no pressure situation.
Fridays
05-16-2011, 08:17 AM
cherry blossom, are u single? or if not single, do u live alone?
BelleDeJour
05-16-2011, 09:14 AM
I am single.
I don't even bother dating because it was drama and a waste of time when I could of been working.
I can work as much as I want as long as I want with absolute freedom. I wouldn't have it any other way.
2 votes :D
cherryblossomsinspring
05-16-2011, 09:30 AM
Yes single.Yes live alone.
Ex bf wanted to move into a house together but I knew he was the type that wanted me to pay half (HIS MORTGAGE) Dumped him and kept my freedom. Started camming about 8 months after dumping him. He's struggling now. I'm doing better then I thought I would as life would have it. Also i didn't know what a cam model was and thought about doing it then , he told me what it was and I was like OOh hell no , I can't do that. I changed that thought process fast when I said hmm he's a loser better to struggle alone , then to struggle with a man under my roof. So he got dropped for (HIS MODERN VIEWS) .
I met a sub right after him that gave me close to 20,000 within a few months. Hmm stay with a man that wants me to pay half his shit? Or be alone and have man giving me half his shit? Hmm didn't seem like a hard decision to me.
Now let me add a little history from my upbringing as to why I'm not just talking out of my ass and why my views are so strong.
My mother married young and was the traditional domestic engineer (house wife) . Cooked , cleaned, read bedtime stories and made sure daddy had his vixen in the bedroom.
After awhile she felt he wasn't doing enough for the family and felt a man should be working harder then this.
She kicked his ass to the curb. Said hmm I can do it ALL ON MY OWN.
So she went out and got certified in 4 trades.
She worked with HPD( MAINTENANCE MECHANIC doing carpentry , plumbing, cabinet making and electrical work. She worked for ConEdison as a stationary engineer in steam and electrical work. Also a member of IBEW . Worked putting in floors , building apartments. etc She was : MRS DAD.
So instead of showing up to my school's pta meeting in stocking , dress and heels, she came in plater covered combat boots, a tool belt and a hard hat. ( most likely with a cigarette hanging out of her mouth.)
Talk about breaking the TRADITIONAL MOLD!! NO ONE KNOWS BETTER THEN I DO!!!
I was walking around carrying English wrenches at young age.
MY MOTHER BROKE THE TRADITIONAL MOLD AND BUILT IT BACK UP WITH HER BARE HANDS!
But don't think for a moment that she wasn't reminded on a constant basis that she did not have a PENIS. She also made many men feel uncomfortable that she could lift things with ease at her 5'2 120 lb frame. She's also 100% straight BTW.( in case you were wondering)
Also to balance her male dominated field she GOGO DANCED in certain cites.
Do people remember seeing "FLASHDANCE"? Well there you go.
So with seeing a woman like this break her neck working this hard, a man should always be able to do that and much much more without being sexually harassed.
Being at the office and seeing a man complain about how his back hurt or how he was tired after 8 hrs made me want to kick him balls with steel toe boots and say " MAN UP BITCH!
So believe you me if she did this to put her babies through private school, a man should have no problems getting up there and putting in the work. IT CAN BE DONE!
SO THE MOTTO : IF I HAVE TO WORK LIKE A MAN... I DON'T NEED ONE FITS! PERIOD
Smurfette
05-16-2011, 10:29 AM
Cherry, your mom sounds AWESOME!
I disagree with a lot of the things said in this thread because maybe I'm some hyper-feminazi or something but I believe men and women are EQUAL. Yes, men are physically stronger than women (but as you demonstrated Cherry, that doesn't mean a woman can't do traditionally masculine jobs), men have a bigger sex drive than women (so?), and men can't have babies (but I can assure you, minus the breastfeeding a man is 100% capable of caring for a baby as soon as it's pushed out the vagina.)
Other than that, I believe men and women are pretty much the same. Sure, maybe your man likes to watch football while you go out and buy shoes, but what does that matter? Intellectually, we're on the same level and capable of doing the same things. I hate all this arbitrary Venus vs. Mars crap that's permeated throughout our society. It's incredibly sexist. Society pushes the whole BE A MAN, DON'T BE A PUSSY, MEN DON'T CRY mentality while simultaneously pushing the "oh you're a pretty little princess, you need a prince on a white horse to take care of you, your purpose is to make babies and do laundry" shit on the women. I think it's all BS and has no bearing on ACTUAL real human beings.
I see a lot of blatant man-hating in this thread. To me, saying "If he's not bringing home the bacon or working 80 hours a week to pay for my Mercedes Benz, kick him to the curb!" is the same as a man saying "If dinner's not hot on the table as soon as I get home along with a BJ for dessert I'm kicking the cunt to the curb, I'll go get a maid and pay a hooker instead, same thing right?" which I'm sure we can all agree is INCREDIBLY misogynistic.
Personally, I don't see men as objects who exist purely to benefit me financially. I see them as human beings. I want a man for companionship, someone to share my experiences with, someone to laugh & cry with, raise children with, grow old with. Have you guys forgotten that that's what marriage is about? The issue of who makes the most money has no bearing on, well, anything. Would I dump a guy who sat on the couch playing videogames all day while I fucked myself for money and took all responsibility for bills and child-rearing and everything else? Yes, of course I would! But that's not the kind of man I have, just because I'm currently making more money than him does not make him worthless or lazy.
Besides, a lot of you are saying that you'd expect a man to work 2 or 3 jobs to support a wife and children, but I would absolutely HATE that because I'd never get to see him and he'd never get to spend any time with the kids. Would I trade a low-income-earning man for an absentee father? hell no.
cherryblossomsinspring
05-16-2011, 11:44 AM
Cherry, your mom sounds AWESOME!
I disagree with a lot of the things said in this thread because maybe I'm some hyper-feminazi or something but I believe men and women are EQUAL. Yes, men are physically stronger than women (but as you demonstrated Cherry, that doesn't mean a woman can't do traditionally masculine jobs), men have a bigger sex drive than women (so?), and men can't have babies (but I can assure you, minus the breastfeeding a man is 100% capable of caring for a baby as soon as it's pushed out the vagina.)
Other than that, I believe men and women are pretty much the same. Sure, maybe your man likes to watch football while you go out and buy shoes, but what does that matter? Intellectually, we're on the same level and capable of doing the same things. I hate all this arbitrary Venus vs. Mars crap that's permeated throughout our society. It's incredibly sexist. Society pushes the whole BE A MAN, DON'T BE A PUSSY, MEN DON'T CRY mentality while simultaneously pushing the "oh you're a pretty little princess, you need a prince on a white horse to take care of you, your purpose is to make babies and do laundry" shit on the women. I think it's all BS and has no bearing on ACTUAL real human beings.
I see a lot of blatant man-hating in this thread. To me, saying "If he's not bringing home the bacon or working 80 hours a week to pay for my Mercedes Benz, kick him to the curb!" is the same as a man saying "If dinner's not hot on the table as soon as I get home along with a BJ for dessert I'm kicking the cunt to the curb, I'll go get a maid and pay a hooker instead, same thing right?" which I'm sure we can all agree is INCREDIBLY misogynistic.
Personally, I don't see men as objects who exist purely to benefit me financially. I see them as human beings. I want a man for companionship, someone to share my experiences with, someone to laugh & cry with, raise children with, grow old with. Have you guys forgotten that that's what marriage is about? The issue of who makes the most money has no bearing on, well, anything. Would I dump a guy who sat on the couch playing videogames all day while I fucked myself for money and took all responsibility for bills and child-rearing and everything else? Yes, of course I would! But that's not the kind of man I have, just because I'm currently making more money than him does not make him worthless or lazy.
Besides, a lot of you are saying that you'd expect a man to work 2 or 3 jobs to support a wife and children, but I would absolutely HATE that because I'd never get to see him and he'd never get to spend any time with the kids. Would I trade a low-income-earning man for an absentee father? hell no.
Being a stripper, cam model, phone sex operator and escort would all be stoned to death by a TRUE FEMINAZI!! WHY ? because in this feminist veiw selling anything sexual as a woman would be a dialing back the hands of time. We all know in society sex sells. If you want to be treated equal then you have to work equal. The point here is that it's financially convenient to capitalize off of the view men have about sex.
As I said before we wouldn't have jobs if it was truly equal. There would the same number of men on cam sites as women and their customer would be women not gay or closeted straight males. There would also be phone sex lines with only men to talk to and they would be talking to women not other men. Everyone can run their household as they see fit, but again if you do any sex work as a female enjoy the anti- feminist movement. I surely do! I thank god that some men just haven't changed their views either.
TouringGirlfriend
05-16-2011, 11:47 AM
Being a stripper, cam model, phone sex operator and escort would all be stoned to death by a TRUE FEMINAZI!! WHY ? because in this feminist veiw selling anything sexual as a woman would be a dialing back the hands of time.
Hmmmmmmmmm............. exactly.
cherryblossomsinspring
05-16-2011, 11:47 AM
btw thanks Smurfette for the mom compliments. It still shocks me today that she did what she did. I bow my head to her ,for she has shown me what real courage and strength is against all odds.
Smurfette
05-16-2011, 12:48 PM
Being a stripper, cam model, phone sex operator and escort would all be stoned to death by a TRUE FEMINAZI!! WHY ? because in this feminist veiw selling anything sexual as a woman would be a dialing back the hands of time. We all know in society sex sells. If you want to be treated equal then you have to work equal. The point here is that it's financially convenient to capitalize off of the view men have about sex.
Feminism is a wide and varied field and not every feminist believes in the same things. I took several Women's Studies classes in college and spent most of the time rolling my eyes because I simply didn't agree with a lot of it. Some feminists believe in a lot of bullshit like all sex is rape or that the only way to break free from the chains of paternalism is to be a lesbian.
I believe that you can be a feminist and a sex worker. I happen to view sex work as incredibly empowering. It's a complex issue but in my mind it's totally compatible. A lot of women in this forum are Christian sex workers and they rationalize it perfectly, soo...
If you believe women should have the right to vote, own property, and work any job they choose for wages equal to those of their male counterparts, then yeah, you are a feminist even though you may not like the title.
As I said before we wouldn't have jobs if it was truly equal. There would the same number of men on cam sites as women and their customer would be women not gay or closeted straight males. There would also be phone sex lines with only men to talk to and they would be talking to women not other men. Everyone can run their household as they see fit, but again if you do any sex work as a female enjoy the anti- feminist movement. I surely do! I thank god that some men just haven't changed their views either.
I don't understand why this matters? If MEN didn't love sports then there wouldn't be jobs for men in the sports industry. So what? Yeah, some jobs are catered for men, some for women. And your point is? I never said that men and women are 100% EXACTLY THE SAME, of course there are differences. But I do believe that we are more or less capable of doing the same things and pursuing the same endevears, and that the 1950's gender roles are a construct of society. We don't live in caves anymore, the man doesn't have to go out clubbing tigers while the woman stays inside nursing babies.
I don't care if other women, feminist or not, look down on me. Not my problem. I'm living my life the way I want to, and I feel empowered. But if you embrace the anti-feminist movement than you'd pretty much say you'd like things to return to the way they were 100 years ago when women couldn't do anything on their own and were looked down on as second-class citizens.
Smurfette
05-16-2011, 12:59 PM
Oh yeah, and I don't understand how kittykrane's situation is "okay" but everyone else is in the wrong. I thought the argument was that a man should NEVER let his wife perform sex work, that a real man would go to great lengths to prevent that. But it's okay in kittykrane's case because she does it only as a hobby? Why does it matter whether she's working 3 hours a week or 30? Or even whether she gets paid or not? Either way her husband is still allowing her to get naked on cam for other men to see.
So I guess no one would look down on me or my man if I got naked on cam purely for "fun" but the moment I start using the cash to pay my bills, it's wrong all of a sudden?
CamWhore
05-16-2011, 02:03 PM
This is interesting.
Proceed....
kittykrane
05-16-2011, 04:54 PM
WE ARE ALL SEX WORKERS. WE ALL SHOW OUR PUSSIES/TITS/ASS FOR $$$. Single, married, to pay bills, have some pocket cash...who cares?! And honestly, what's the difference? I never got the impression that anyone in this thread was being exploited by their partner to do this. I don't even know that this is about anymore! Have a good night and go make some $$$$.
Fridays
05-16-2011, 06:39 PM
well ya I was asking cherry if she is single.. because some single ladies posted "advice" for the non single ones...(including cheery)...
then the discussion escalated from basic stuff to whos better then who based on whos in a relationship and whos not
sure, they can have their opinion about this subject, but truth is UNTIL they are in a serious relationship and camming in the same time, its hard to say if their options would stay the same..
actually not many truly answered to the topic....
but its the same with all topics ....they eventually go down hill....
to answer to my own topic, i think Im doing pretty good handling both. ( wish I cud do better -EDIT LOL)
u gotta compromise sometimes.
u cant have it all.perfect. all the time.
Fridays
05-16-2011, 06:53 PM
@cherryblossomsinspring.
Reason why some cam girls who are married/have BF and live with him are at times not comfortable with their men hearing them/seeing them do the online camwork is the EXACT reason why some single girls who posted in this thread do not want to get in a relationship... cause they know deep down inside it would bother their men..unless that man is a porn star himself and even them it might bother them, eventually, somehow.. sometime.. So they prefer the eazy way out.. no relationships.
and showing/selling ur stuff as a woman is the old fashioned way to make money?... I like to believe WebCamming is the NEW fashioned way for modern women. cause its not the same thing to actually fuck for $ (old fashioned) and just letting them see a picture of you ( new fashion)...
I dont know any real life married strippers but I would think they prefer to NOT have their husbands/BF at the club, all night every night.. that would juste create unnecessary arguments... I guess...might be wrong, dunno.
TouringGirlfriend
05-16-2011, 06:55 PM
So they prefer the eazy way out.. no relationships.
aka.. the smart way.
Anyways, why is this conversation still going on? and what was the topic again?
Smurfette
05-16-2011, 06:59 PM
The 'smart' way, yeah you're right TG, you're smart and we're dumb ::) we get it.
TouringGirlfriend
05-16-2011, 07:00 PM
^ Thanks! I hope you feel better about yourself now.
Edit: You called yourself dumb. I didn't call anyone dumb in my post.
Smurfette
05-16-2011, 07:10 PM
by saying that your way is the 'smart' way, you're insinuating that our way is the 'dumb' way (obviously, it would be the opposite of smart, right?)
Sigh, this thread is getting a bit silly isn't it?
Fridays
05-16-2011, 07:14 PM
by default, if you do something and call yourself SMART. and someone else does not do it = they are DUMB!
Fridays
05-16-2011, 07:15 PM
duh!
so blast me...
are single ladies making MORE then taken ones? yes? no? LOL
thats bottom line...
TouringGirlfriend
05-16-2011, 07:18 PM
*sigh* actually you are wrong. I said it was the smart way because it was taking the easy way out. Easy way out = No boyfriend, no drama...
Now I just wish you'd stop your little jabs every time i comment and get over yourself because it's not all about you. Buh-Bye!
Smurfette
05-16-2011, 07:19 PM
duh!
so blast me...
are single ladies making MORE then taken ones? yes? no? LOL
thats bottom line...
LOL, I don't know. I'd probably make more if I were single/childless because I'd have more time to devote to webcam. I don't make tons of money but that's less because of my living situation and more because I'm just, well, lazy.
TouringGirlfriend
05-16-2011, 07:46 PM
Again.. people just like cooking up drama. LOL! Whatever!8)
TouringGirlfriend
05-16-2011, 07:47 PM
duh!
so blast me...
are single ladies making MORE then taken ones? yes? no? LOL
thats bottom line...
Yes I make more now that I'm single than when I was dating. That's really all that matters.
Edit: I have never done couple shows...and don't think I ever will dating or not.
whitesancho
05-16-2011, 07:52 PM
i make more married, well my couple profile made more than my single one
TouringGirlfriend
05-16-2011, 07:53 PM
^ and that is awesome! I could never do couple shows so kudos!
tinka
05-16-2011, 08:01 PM
To the OP, I use a very loud fan outside my door, facing outward. It blocks a ton of sound and creates white noise. I've been told even if you press your ear to the door, you can't hear over the din, just make out that someone is talking, not exactly what is being said. Hope this helps.
I've read this thread all the way through. I agree that you should never let a man mooch off you. I think we've all been there, and it's easy to get your hackles up when you hear of what might be a girl in a similar situation.
The one part I can't understand is the "sexual exploitation" refrain. Maybe because I do very tame camming, but I don't see how men giving me money to sit and flirt with them on cam dressed in cute lingerie is very different than my boss at a vanilla job taking me out for lunch and giving me raises because he is attracted to me/flirting with me. I'm playing to my strengths. If I was a great translator, would someone be "exploiting" my talents with language? No one is exploiting me sexually, I am using my feminine wiles, while I've got them, to my advantage, just like I've done in every "office" job I ever had. }:D
whitesancho
05-16-2011, 08:13 PM
wow i too just read this thread, it got really intense for a inspirational forum
shaebabii
05-16-2011, 08:16 PM
A lot of threads have been going in the direction of SOUTH lately lol it's kinda sad
hidarlin
05-16-2011, 08:33 PM
Being a stripper, cam model, phone sex operator and escort would all be stoned to death by a TRUE FEMINAZI!! WHY ? because in this feminist veiw selling anything sexual as a woman would be a dialing back the hands of time. We all know in society sex sells. If you want to be treated equal then you have to work equal. The point here is that it's financially convenient to capitalize off of the view men have about sex.
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That's only true of some feminists. There are feminists who are sex positive who fully support women selling sex if it is their choice. I am most certainly a feminist (I even minored in women's Studies LOL). Hell there are feminist pornographers. It's the same as with any political view, not all Democrats think the same either.
As to working in this industry,I'm a domme. I do primarily phone, and clip sales with the occasional bit of camming. I am 38 (though I can and do pass for 25) I am also polyamourous. I have a man and a woman. Both younger than me. My woman does not work, she's a college student that's her job IMO. My man who has an excellent job and whatever I want him to provide he does. He likes the best (that's why he's with me;)) I pay all my bills because I am a grown ass woman, period. That said does my guy shower me with gifts, vacations, jewelry and all that, of course. As well he should. I honestly don't know how he would feel if my work involved nudity, but I can tell you this if he couldn't respect my work he would done.
At the MINIMUM you should expect to be respected. I grew up knowing that. Hell in college my girlfriends used to tease me because if a guy didn't open the car door for me I would turn around and go back into the house, date over. Call me a spoiled bitch if you want but I still roll that way. If a man doesn't treat you like a queen, pfft fuck him, or rather don't.
Spinnerette
05-17-2011, 01:17 AM
In reply to the OP: When I work, I do it like a regular 9-5. Husband is out of the house and I don't have to worry about him distracting me with his presence. I understand what you mean about it feeling weird to do certain things with your guy in earshot. For me it's not so much me being shy or awkward. I just don't want to hear his mouth about being turned-on and blah blah blah. -____-;;; Much easier when he's not around as I can't click the kick button when he's being annoying... :D
As for the rest of the bitterness in this thread...
A.) Wrong section. Wanna bitch women out for being doormats? Don't hide it where they won't see it.
B.) Not understanding how the stigma of being a sex worker is somehow lessened just because you're single. The supposed added shame isn't even on you, it's on your partner. You're a whore either way and it doesn't change just because there's a ring on it if we're going to use that slant to damn.
And that's not to say I don't agree with the overall message. There are a lot of women who need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and reclaim their control and find a damn backbone. But wtf is all this vitriol? I'm not down with the whole "sister sister let's uplift each other!" positivity only pow-wow either, but we deal with enough condemnation and biased criticism from the vanilla world. Chill out with chewing people's asses just because they're not of the same mindset as you. It's not that serious.
(NO, this was not directed at any one particular person so PLEASE save your overly-defensive reply unless it is to challenge something I said SPECIFICALLY)
kittykrane
05-17-2011, 05:02 AM
^ and that is awesome! I could never do couple shows so kudos!
My hubby suggested couples shows and I refused! Besides, we wouldn't make much because he is hardly ever in town. He wouldn't last long anyhow then the show would be over. LOL...
kittykrane
05-17-2011, 05:04 AM
wow i too just read this thread, it got really intense for a inspirational forum
Glad to see you back!
shannonkristin
05-17-2011, 06:22 AM
My husband sleeps naps on the couch at night until im done. I usually cam at night for 2 hours or a little more since i started doing the day shift too when no one is here. He loves hearing the thank yous because he knows thats money in the bank hahaha.
taylormadison
05-17-2011, 07:03 AM
I think this thread should be a sticky!! A lot of important information is posted in this thread.
Scratch that
TouringGirlfriend
05-17-2011, 07:06 AM
^ Lolz
DottieMay
05-17-2011, 07:13 AM
I live in a studio apartment with my now ex. Talk about awkward lmao! No, but seriously, we get along and I try to be done before he gets home. He's seen me naked so I don't really care. It does suck though because I can't cam at night because you can hear him snoring, so I am kind of looking forward to moving out.
taylormadison
05-17-2011, 08:30 AM
Ladies that share living spaces with others: Would going to a hotel (that provides broadband in the room) be an option? I am not talking about everyday but during your busiest time when you'd make more $$ being alone.
TouringGirlfriend
05-17-2011, 08:34 AM
Ladies that share living spaces with others: Would going to a hotel (that provides broadband in the room) be an option? I am not talking about everyday but during your busiest time when you'd make more $$ being alone.
I live alone in a home but I'll answer this question anyway since I cammed from a hotel when I first started.
If the hotel room is $60 a day and they can't pull in at least $180 (triple the hotel cost) then it will not be worth it.
If the room is $300 a week, and they can't make $900 then it wouldn't not be worth it at all.
There have been some great posts on working out of hotels :
taylormadison
05-17-2011, 08:46 AM
Ladies that share living spaces with others: Would going to a hotel (that provides broadband in the room) be an option? I am not talking about everyday but during your busiest time when you'd make more $$ being alone.
It is always nice to have a change in scenery even if you only check in a hotel once a month for a few hours. I am not suggesting how long or if it's worth it because everybody's situation is different. I was just throwing out an idea ;D. If it works it works but if it doesn't it doesn't.
TouringGirlfriend
05-17-2011, 08:50 AM
^ If one is to choose a hotel option, I hope they do take how long and "if it's worth it" into consideration or else they'll be camming just to cam. Nothing wrong with that. Just that the majority of the ladies here cam to make money and with a hotel .. you wanna see profit.
taylormadison
05-17-2011, 09:50 AM
^ If one is to choose a hotel option, I hope they do take how long and "if it's worth it" into consideration or else they'll be camming just to cam. Nothing wrong with that. Just that the majority of the ladies here cam to make money and with a hotel .. you wanna see profit.
I would hope they take into consideration if getting a room is worth it, too. I am fully aware that the majority of the ladies here cam to make money and I am one of them. I don't know how my posts could be misinterpreted to make it seem I think any differently. I was simply posting an idea for ladies that share a living space. I have added my unedited posts.
Ladies that share living spaces with others: Would going to a hotel (that provides broadband in the room) be an option? I am not talking about everyday but during your busiest time when you'd make more $$ being alone.
It is always nice to have a change in scenery even if you only check in a hotel once a month for a few hours. I am not suggesting how long or if it's worth it because everybody's situation is different. I was just throwing out an idea ;D. If it works it works but if it doesn't it doesn't.
I think even a post that helps one person is worth posting.
Ladies, if going to a hotel doesn't work for you, don't go.
Ladies, if something that I post doesn't work for you, don't do it.
girl_sam
05-17-2011, 09:57 AM
Ladies that share living spaces with others: Would going to a hotel (that provides broadband in the room) be an option? I am not talking about everyday but during your busiest time when you'd make more $$ being alone.
I share space with 2 guys- my bf and a roommate. I thought about the whole hotel thing, but right now money is tight so I can't.
Really I think I'm going to be dependent on good timing- which isn't so hard to do as both of them work about the same hours. My roomie really doesn't care what I do for a living so long as the bills are paid and I'm happy. I just don't want him knocking on the door while I'm camming. Awkward....
DottieMay
05-18-2011, 12:35 PM
I'd only cam in a hotel if someone else paid for it or if I was going to the casino because I get comped rooms woo! Free rooms are always so much more comfortable lmao. Camming to me is never guaranteed money even some days when I am on during my busiest. If I don't have to spend extra money, I won't.
Ana Paula
05-19-2011, 08:55 AM
this video sums it up:
Smurfette
05-19-2011, 09:52 AM
this video sums it up:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQ7wT4CUprQ
LMAO. I agree completely.