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fionatulip
06-01-2011, 02:26 AM
i want my fake titties :(

Yeah me too actually. Especially because I'm not LITERALLY skeletal anymore and the weight gain did NOTHING for my boobs. I'm still by BMI standards. underweight, but I have a feeling, no amount of weight gain will aid the mammary glands

tempest666
06-01-2011, 02:30 AM
Yeah me too actually. Especially because I'm not LITERALLY skeletal anymore and the weight gain did NOTHING for my boobs. I'm still by BMI standards. underweight, but I have a feeling, no amount of weight gain will aid the mammary glands


I saved up pretty quick. Just put aside a little at a time. It adds up:)

fionatulip
06-01-2011, 02:40 AM
I saved up pretty quick. Just put aside a little at a time. It adds up:)

I have plenty saved already, I'm just terrified of taking that step. I've been to 2 different pre-ops, the day before surgery, and backed out. I decided to wait until I was 22 so that I could do silicone (CA or federal thing?) and now that I am 22, I can't justify paying for it. I should have done it when I was younger and less concerned with where my $ went!

tempest666
06-01-2011, 02:43 AM
I have plenty saved already, I'm just terrified of taking that step. I've been to 2 different pre-ops, the day before surgery, and backed out. I decided to wait until I was 22 so that I could do silicone (CA or federal thing?) and now that I am 22, I can't justify paying for it. I should have done it when I was younger and less concerned with where my $ went!


you have to do what's best for YOU....I am doing mine for a career move plain and simple. Fake tits are like Kevlar..they don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it. 8)
And quite honestly in my old age, I'm getting lazy...I like the idea of not having to work as hard for my kills :D

DesuvsDeath
06-01-2011, 03:31 PM
Went to a car show this weekend... took pictures in the back of the hearse.
How fitting for my shapeless, skeleton body.

ZePeanut
06-01-2011, 03:41 PM
^hahahaha

Man, some of the stuff they are saying on the 'bigger girl' support thread is not too nice...=(
Girls are so mean, geeze.

ZePeanut
06-01-2011, 03:57 PM
^ I love your positivity=)

tempest666
06-01-2011, 04:08 PM
^hahahaha

Man, some of the stuff they are saying on the 'bigger girl' support thread is not too nice...=(
Girls are so mean, geeze.


Oh yeah about how all guys love some meat on their plate. ::) Yes they do...NOT THE WHOLE FUCKING BUFFET THOUGH

tempest666
06-01-2011, 04:13 PM
I am glad you made this thread...support the body of real women and not orange lollipops that look like bobble-heads starving themselves chewing on ice chips...lmao

I love my body and my natural curves! Celebrate it!


I'd rather be an anorexic lollipop starving myself on ice chips with my big fake tits than 180 llbs of blubber munching on cupcakes. LMAO ::)

I have natural curves, not rolls.

tempest666
06-01-2011, 04:14 PM
^hahahaha

Man, some of the stuff they are saying on the 'bigger girl' support thread is not too nice...=(
Girls are so mean, geeze.


Well of course the gordita thread is jealous :D

ZePeanut
06-01-2011, 04:27 PM
=) aw, I appreciate your sense of humor tempest^^

I ty to float through life being as non-judgemental as possible. I'm insecure, but I have never taken it out on another person. But my entire freakin' life I have been called some pretty nasty stuff by women who are fighting their own insecurities. Sometimes it just sucks.

ZePeanut
06-01-2011, 04:28 PM
^I'm sure everyone expereinces that to some degree though. Ah, nevermind.

tempest666
06-01-2011, 04:32 PM
=) aw, I appreciate your sense of humor tempest^^

I ty to float through life being as non-judgemental as possible. I'm insecure, but I have never taken it out on another person. But my entire freakin' life I have been called some pretty nasty stuff by women who are fighting their own insecurities. Sometimes it just sucks.


nothing against you ZEP.... You're fine. It's just the whole "bigger dancers belong in upscale clubs, all men like meat on them" pissed me off.

I don't belong in an upscale club either. I'm not fat but I am covered in tats. I hate gowns. My tits are still real and I don't like them.

And it's not even thicker girls, it's the ones that come in 20 llbs overweight, none of it in their TNA mostly guts and they wonder why they don't make money, nor do they put in any effort to maintain their look and ideal body weight.

DesuvsDeath
06-01-2011, 04:53 PM
And it's not even thicker girls

I think that's the hilarity of it all... this whole thing started over a thread where we were saying FAT GIRLS shouldn't be strippers.
So if no one thought they were too fat to dance, no one would've been offended.
If people are saying "girls with a gut as big as their tits and a fat cellulite ass are too big to dance at a nice club"... why would you get mad unless you have a gut as big as your tits and a fat cellulite ass?
If someone says girls with bony skeleton butts shouldn't dance, you don't get mad unless you've got a bony skeleton butt.

If someone says 5' and 110+ is too fat to dance... but *I know* that I look thinner than the typical 5' 120 pound flabby girl they're thinking of... why would I get upset? They aren't talking about me. ;D

No one here has a problem with thick girls... just fat ones. So if you're 'thick' but not 'fat'... why you hatin?

JenniferH
06-02-2011, 10:01 PM
I need support.. I can't figure out why I have nothing to stare at... it's either the super healthy lifestyle or all the calories I burn spending hour after hour straight lap dancing...... :o)

who am I kidding... both.. I'm just really into myself.. :o)

4everresolutions
06-02-2011, 10:32 PM
Well of course the gordita thread is jealous :D

Tempest! Stop calling them Gordita's!


Not beacuse I'm opposed to the nick-name, but becasue it's making me want Taco Bell really fucking bad!!! }:D}:D}:D

:P

DEE_K
06-02-2011, 10:56 PM
I used to be a skeleton until just a few months ago! I finally gained a little weight (5'4 and 118 pounds) but it was a struggle to even hit 100 pounds for years. I have a feeling the weight will all drop off now that I am less stressed, so I may be a skeleton again within a couple months.

What I always hated the most was the phrase "skinny bitch." Sure I was skinny, but they didn't even know me or my personality. Women used to always say the rudest and most stupid things to me, feeling entitled to say they hate me or that they would love to have my problem. Why would anyone want to have to eat way past the point of feeling full constantly just to keep from losing too much weight?!?

When I started dancing, the comments to buy me a sandwich was also annoying.

Support for the skeletons! Learning to be comfortable and confident about who you are is a wonderful thing!

tempest666
06-02-2011, 11:33 PM
I used to be a skeleton until just a few months ago! I finally gained a little weight (5'4 and 118 pounds) but it was a struggle to even hit 100 pounds for years. I have a feeling the weight will all drop off now that I am less stressed, so I may be a skeleton again within a couple months.

What I always hated the most was the phrase "skinny bitch." Sure I was skinny, but they didn't even know me or my personality. Women used to always say the rudest and most stupid things to me, feeling entitled to say they hate me or that they would love to have my problem. Why would anyone want to have to eat way past the point of feeling full constantly just to keep from losing too much weight?!?

When I started dancing, the comments to buy me a sandwich was also annoying.

Support for the skeletons! Learning to be comfortable and confident about who you are is a wonderful thing!


dude better to be a skinny bitch laughing all the way to the bank than the alternative:O

Jay12
06-04-2011, 07:28 AM
Cuz there's nothing to see on us ::)



I don't think you're an skeleton; you have plenty of junk in the trunk.


There's a mulatto girl in one of the clubs I work...and she's a real skeleton, but I get along with her anyways (we both hate reggaeton music, and that's how we started to get along). I got over the whole beef I had against "skeleton" dancers; with the right outfits, they can accentuate what they have and look just as good as any curvier girl.

I mean, in a strip club there should be a little bit of everything and in the end, all women are beautiful.

tempest666
06-04-2011, 07:24 PM
I feel fat I'm on my period and I'm craving weird shit :'(

Jay12
06-05-2011, 06:59 AM
and it's easier to lift a girl up and fuck her standing up when she weighs 95lbs than a girl that weighs 195lbs.

Well, I'm 164 and I never had problems in that department...

UV69
06-05-2011, 09:55 AM
Yeah, but you are not the 1 doing the lifting? Or maybe you are. Hmmmm. I know when I took swing dance classes there was a reason I was more popular then usual.

Addison
06-05-2011, 11:31 AM
Meh, I don't work out at all and I eat whatever I want. I ate pasta before bed and pizza and chips for breakfast this morning. I'm gonna have m&ms for lunch. I just don't put on weight for whatever reason.

I'm gonna start eating right and working out so that I can be healthier........tomorrow.

velvet
06-05-2011, 04:16 PM
Meh, I don't work out at all and I eat whatever I want. I ate pasta before bed and pizza and chips for breakfast this morning. I'm gonna have m&ms for lunch. I just don't put on weight for whatever reason.

I'm gonna start eating right and working out so that I can be healthier........tomorrow.

I was the same way until i hit my mid thirties. So it my not last forever:)
Here I am in my 40's not really a skeleton but I'm 5'1 and 115. I refuse to be fat and middle aged. I haven't danced in two years and I've kept that shit off, it's just will power and discipline as the ladies in this thread know. ;)

_Avery_
06-05-2011, 07:04 PM
Meh, I don't work out at all and I eat whatever I want. I ate pasta before bed and pizza and chips for breakfast this morning. I'm gonna have m&ms for lunch. I just don't put on weight for whatever reason.

I'm gonna start eating right and working out so that I can be healthier........tomorrow.

I remember those days.... :(

tempest666
06-06-2011, 12:07 AM
At least if they're gonna be fat they should have the decency to have an ass >:( I can't believe a fat bitch WITH NO ASS got more dances >:( than ME?!!!!!??????

Jay12
06-06-2011, 02:02 PM
^^

AGREE!!!!!!!


I mean, if they're fat they better have fat where it actually matters; like the ass and the titties.

tempest666
06-07-2011, 11:21 PM
Work fucking sucked. >:( I'm watching Silence of the Lambs and even serial killers don't want skinny girls!

lam*1023
06-10-2011, 10:26 AM
At 5'9 and 119 lbs, I actually genuinely appreciate this thread. It's all lean muscle, and I do have some ass ( the customers often compliment it), but I suffer through nasty comments from other dancers constantly. I don't do drugs (often), and don't have an eating disorder, I'm just a "skeleton." It's nice to have some support ;)

tempest666
06-10-2011, 11:09 AM
At 5'9 and 119 lbs, I actually genuinely appreciate this thread. It's all lean muscle, and I do have some ass ( the customers often compliment it), but I suffer through nasty comments from other dancers constantly. I don't do drugs (often), and don't have an eating disorder, I'm just a "skeleton." It's nice to have some support ;)


Haters are gonna hate! they can all go fuck themselves! 8)

PhxRising
06-10-2011, 03:24 PM
At 5'9 and 119 lbs, I actually genuinely appreciate this thread. It's all lean muscle, and I do have some ass ( the customers often compliment it), but I suffer through nasty comments from other dancers constantly. I don't do drugs (often), and don't have an eating disorder, I'm just a "skeleton." It's nice to have some support ;)

Gee well maybe if both parties were a little more sensitive, then "eating disorders" wouldn't even come up in conversation, you think? Erm but this is within the club environment so haha! nevermind... ::)

Not to hate on you directly or anyone on this thread, but some of the comments/use of terms on here seem outright ignorant and disrespectful IMHO. I'm surprised no one has said anything (that I've noticed). ED is a serious disease. A friend of mine DIED from anorexia and bulimia --battled it for 9 years. She was 23 when she finally died. I'm sure if I didn't have sit bedside to her and witness some of that ordeal, I wouldn't be the party pooer right now. THANK YOU GIRLS

lam*1023
06-10-2011, 07:08 PM
Maybe what I said about eating disorders came off weird. It's definitely not something I take lightly, I simply meant that the dancers who say mean things to me often make snide remarks about me having an eating disorder. So, in a sense, they are the ones treating a serious subject flippantly. Sorry, didn't mean or want to upset anyone, just stating what I've personally experienced.

tempest666
06-10-2011, 11:10 PM
Maybe what I said about eating disorders came off weird. It's definitely not something I take lightly, I simply meant that the dancers who say mean things to me often make snide remarks about me having an eating disorder. So, in a sense, they are the ones treating a serious subject flippantly. Sorry, didn't mean or want to upset anyone, just stating what I've personally experienced.


I'm with you there girl! A friend of mine from my 1st club here in PA has Crohn's disease. she is VERY petite and she constantly gets hated on and accused of having an eating disorder. She finally snapped one night and offered to trade places with the offending party.

DesuvsDeath
06-10-2011, 11:27 PM
Gee well maybe if both parties were a little more sensitive, then "eating disorders" wouldn't even come up in conversation, you think?

Actually... skinny girls get accused of having eating disorders (and drug habits, for that matter) pretty often by 'haters'. It doesn't really have anything to do with them being insensitive... or really anything they do at all.

It's just like how skinny girls say things like "put down the cookies" and assume all bigger girls are fat because they're lazy. /shrug

tempest666
06-11-2011, 12:47 AM
It's just like how skinny girls say things like "put down the cookies" and assume all bigger girls are fat because they're lazy. /shrug


I never said that don't misquote me I said put down the cupcakes! :D

PhxRising
06-11-2011, 02:42 AM
Actually... skinny girls get accused of having eating disorders (and drug habits, for that matter) pretty often by 'haters'. It doesn't really have anything to do with them being insensitive... or really anything they do at all.

It's just like how skinny girls say things like "put down the cookies" and assume all bigger girls are fat because they're lazy. /shrug

To Iam, tempest and Desuvs -- I understand where you're coming from. I realize I wasn't thinking too much about opposing situations that you all were describing. I guess it was hard to tell among the slight humor. I can add, my grandma often wants to stuff my face with food whenever I visit because I look like a "starved college student" (though she forgets I'm no longer in college).

RoxyHart
06-11-2011, 08:04 AM
Even though i'm not a stripper, can i still join???
{Plus i still heart Tempest something fierce even if she doesn't remember little ol me}

I'm 5'5 and 100lbs {even after popping out a kid}. Its all cause of genetics.

I will say I've become a "fat-ist" over the years. Starting from people grabbing my wrist and yelling "your SOOOO skinny" in middle school to some "bigger women" in Walmart calling me Ethiopian cause they didn't have shorts in her size. I'm normally a "love all" kind of person but I've sadly become less tolerant to such belligerent behavior.

Odette
06-11-2011, 08:28 AM
^ If a fat girl is insulting you for being thin, go ahead and thrown out the cupcake line or anything similar, she deserves it and should know better. tick for tack.

RoxyHart
06-11-2011, 08:42 AM
^ If a fat girl is insulting you for being thin, go ahead and thrown out the cupcake line or anything similar, she deserves it and should know better. tick for tack.

With the Ethiopian attack, I was literally caught off guard. I was just standing there waiting for my turn to use the dressing room when this "bigger" women came out all huffy babbling about how they don't have shorts that cover her large behind. She takes one look at me and tells the fitting room lady "Its cause they make sizes for Ethiopian chicks like her" and points right at me. I'm like :O. She then continues to throw the "Ethiopian" comments around like its nothing. I'm not a fighter so i just took my size 0 skirt into the dressing room without a thought. I was offended and of course would have loved to said something back but i didn't. I'm just not that "quick witted". The fitting room chick was very nice and said something along the lines of "everyone has there own body issues". I agree, but that doesn't mean that heifer had any right.
Obviously now, I have become a lot less quiet about such situations.

DesuvsDeath
06-11-2011, 10:50 AM
^That's just crazy, Roxy. I can't believe someone would do that to A STRANGER in public.



I never said that don't misquote me I said put down the cupcakes! :D
Sorry, sorry. It's just that it pains me to think of the cupcakes involved.

tempest666
06-11-2011, 11:19 AM
^That's just crazy, Roxy. I can't believe someone would do that to A STRANGER in public.



Sorry, sorry. It's just that it pains me to think of the cupcakes involved.


So now we're discriminating against pastries! bitch are you a pastry racist!!!!!! :rotfl:

4everresolutions
06-11-2011, 06:31 PM
So now we're discriminating against pastries! bitch are you a pastry racist!!!!!! :rotfl:

be careful.

you know they be banning pastries up in here....

tampadancer
06-11-2011, 09:40 PM
be careful.

you know they be banning pastries up in here....

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

DesuvsDeath
06-11-2011, 10:53 PM
Fucking love you ev. <333

4everresolutions
06-11-2011, 11:10 PM
^I couldn't resist.

I miss your ass in chat.

DesuvsDeath
06-12-2011, 04:27 AM
^I couldn't resist.

I miss your ass in chat.

Oh sorry. Was busy leaving the house for once.
You know. Out walking around getting exercise so I can has shapeless bodies.

tempest666
08-03-2011, 12:48 PM
Running 4 miles a day hope to be under 100 by surgery date. Not even worried about losing my tits because I'm getting fake ones installed :rotfl:


Let's all have an under 100 party if we make it

Aslinn
08-03-2011, 04:56 PM
With the Ethiopian attack, I was literally caught off guard. I was just standing there waiting for my turn to use the dressing room when this "bigger" women came out all huffy babbling about how they don't have shorts that cover her large behind. She takes one look at me and tells the fitting room lady "Its cause they make sizes for Ethiopian chicks like her" and points right at me. I'm like :O. She then continues to throw the "Ethiopian" comments around like its nothing. I'm not a fighter so i just took my size 0 skirt into the dressing room without a thought. I was offended and of course would have loved to said something back but i didn't. I'm just not that "quick witted". The fitting room chick was very nice and said something along the lines of "everyone has there own body issues". I agree, but that doesn't mean that heifer had any right.
Obviously now, I have become a lot less quiet about such situations.

That irritates me to no end, I wish I would have been there because 1. Ethiopia is full of beautiful woman and 2. It be personally insulted because I have Ethiopian relatives. Also idk why fat woman assume they should be catered too due to their own inability to take of themselves. There is a difference between fat and thick and being over weight doesn't mean you can be a bitch to every stranger you meet who doesn't even speak to you. That's just crap.

obscurity
08-03-2011, 06:44 PM
5'7", 120 lbs. My ribs show and I have no boobs *cry*.

I hate it when guys tell me they want to bring me in a sandwich!

And somehow I still manage to have cellulite on my butt. Arrgh.

that's because cellulite has nothing to do with the number you weigh. it has to do w/ your bodys composition. things like poor circulation and inefficient waste removal from the cells in this region create cellulite.

enlargement of the adipocytes, which now, with nowhere else to go, will extend to, and press to the top, causing the much feared look of cellulite.

charlie61
08-03-2011, 06:50 PM
^Cellulite is also genetic. And birth control pills make it worse. Both estrogen and synthetic hormones make it worse.