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TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 12:02 PM
The OP is the victim. She's the one who lost her husband - she's the one whose life is ruined. Where did you get your information that the ex-GF's life has been potentially ruined? If a woman is skanky, stupid and vicious enough to text naked pics of herself to a married man - she assumea the risk that his wife will find those pics and... I don't know,... she might just post them on the internet. Big fucking surprise that a jilted wife would do such a thing.

I never said I condoned it. Just that she deserves a little sympathy.



How is the OP the victim??? How did she LOSE her husband? It seems to me that he left her because she's a crazy ass bitch. Now Jack, I actually like you but your comments here are a bit bizzare. LOST? Her ex-husband is NOT dead! The only sympathy she has from me is that I hope she gets help because she sounds like she needs to be in an asylum. What she is doing is wrong. The even more fucked up part about it is that she was seeking support for this. What? Hell no! If I knew her and knew were these pics were located, I would call the cops on her ass.

A jilted wife? I'm gonna guess that her ex wants her to stay the hell away and leave him the fuck alone! Sounds to me like you're condoning this, Jack! Sorry but what if I put naked pictures of you on the internet for your family to see without you knowing??? Would you like that or is that ok in your family??? C'mon. I know it wouldn't go well with my family and I would be mad mad mad MAD AS HELL!

Kellydancer
06-03-2011, 12:30 PM
To be fair the op never really explained why her relationship broke up. If by chance it was the ex's fault (and her husband for going back to her)that changes a lot. There have been many marriages borken up y things like this. If I was married and some woman was sending my husband nude photos trying to get him to cheat I would blow a gasket. Would I post the photos? Likely not.

jack0177057
06-03-2011, 12:57 PM
A jilted wife? I'm gonna guess that her ex wants her to stay the hell away and leave him the fuck alone! Sounds to me like you're condoning this, Jack! Sorry but what if I put naked pictures of you on the internet for your family to see without you knowing??? Would you like that or is that ok in your family??? C'mon. I know it wouldn't go well with my family and I would be mad mad mad MAD AS HELL!

I don't text naked pics of me to my married ex-GFs. If I did, and also seduced them, and instigated them to leave their husbands, and their husbands found out about it, I'd be more concerned about getting shot. If the only thing that happened to me was that a jilted husband posted my naked pictures on the internet, I'd consider myself very lucky.

We only have pieces of this story. It seems to me that ex-GF was stalking the OP's husband and when the OP's marriage hit a rought patch (all marriages do eventually), the ex-GF made her best move, seduced him and instigated a breakup. If this is not the actual story, then I take back what I've said.

I do not condone what the OP is doing, but she's obviously in a lot of pain and very bitter. I think the comments on this thread from other women should be a little more constuctive, and not just - you're a crazy bitch.

TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 01:00 PM
the ex-GF made her best move, seduced him and instigated a breakup.

This is BS! If a man truly loves you, no amount of pussy in the world will make him leave. When he leaves because of some chick, he was never yours to begin with! As an escort, I see married men all the time. Yup I'm the one that fucks their brains out.. they pay me but they still tell me "I love my wife" and go back home. Fine with me. Jack, you know better than this I know you do!

We don't know the details but the OP needs to stop while she's ahead!

Kellydancer
06-03-2011, 01:11 PM
This is BS! If a man truly loves you, no amount of pussy in the world will make him leave. When he leaves because of some chick, he was never yours to begin with! As an escort, I see married men all the time. Yup I'm the one that fucks their brains out.. they pay me but they still tell me "I love my wife" and go back home. Fine with me. Jack, you know better than this I know you do!

We don't know the details but the OP needs to stop while she's ahead!

Men like that are scum. In those cases I hope the wife finds out and dumps his ass. I don't blame the escort in those cases, I blame the man. However, there are cases where the other woman is to blame along with the husband and perhaps that's the case here.

TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 01:16 PM
Men like that are scum. In those cases I hope the wife finds out and dumps his ass. I don't blame the escort in those cases, I blame the man. However, there are cases where the other woman is to blame along with the husband and perhaps that's the case here.

Trust me, most of the time, the women are the ones to blame. I've heard some horror stories. Of course there are those guys that are just born douchebags but that's not the case with every guy that comes to see me.

Kellydancer
06-03-2011, 01:20 PM
Then if the women are that bad why doesn't he leave? See, that I don't get. I suppose I understand when it comes to children because our system is screwed up, but otherwise I don't get it.

TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 01:24 PM
Then if the women are that bad why doesn't he leave? See, that I don't get. I suppose I understand when it comes to children because our system is screwed up, but otherwise I don't get it.
Honey, I know I know it's the same thing I say. However, I deal with a lot of VIPs and all they care about is their finances and their children. Simple. It's cheaper to keep her. I, too, don't understand being with someone that makes your miserable. I honestly think if there weren't escorts, more men would man up and divorce their wives.

Perry
06-03-2011, 01:25 PM
Well.... I'm hesitant to say anything. I prefer TOS or the basement, but you reap what you sow. And if she was stupid enough to take and send those pics, she should have been prepared for the worst. No man ever comes back over some nudie photos.

And with all the naked on the internet already, I guess I just don't see it as all that big a deal. Granted, I'M naked all over the internet and couldn't care less. But you really would feel better to take them down and move on.

After all, it's illegal and quite cruel. There are cooler ways to end up on the wrong side of the law and karma.

Kellydancer
06-03-2011, 01:32 PM
Honey, I know I know it's the same thing I say. However, I deal with a lot of VIPs and all they care about is their finances and their children. Simple. It's cheaper to keep her. I, too, don't understand being with someone that makes your miserable. I honestly think if there weren't escorts, more men would man up and divorce their wives.

That makes more sense and I was wondering if these were wealthy men. I've known a few wealthy men and yes I've seen that because the wife was basically a gold digger and would take him for everything. I guess this is why I am glad I'll never be a wife like that.

TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 02:26 PM
That makes more sense and I was wondering if these were wealthy men. I've known a few wealthy men and yes I've seen that because the wife was basically a gold digger and would take him for everything. I guess this is why I am glad I'll never be a wife like that.

Yup! Heck there was one guy that would buy me a lot of lingerie, dresses and corsets. He would overnight them each and every time. I asked him why he was sending me all these gifts and he told me how one time he bought all this stuff for his wife and when he got off work there was a bonfire in the backyard. She burned ALL of it! One of the most sweetest men I've ever come across so yeah ....sometimes these men just marry crazy ass bitches! He owns a fortune 500 company in Florida so there is no way he's leaving her. Cheaper to keep her.

SexToyFiend
06-03-2011, 03:41 PM
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TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 03:50 PM
What the ever loving fuck?!?

I believe if wives did what they needed to do, their husbands wouldn't see girls like me. :)

Athenathefabulous
06-03-2011, 04:38 PM
I believe if wives did what they needed to do, their husbands wouldn't see girls like me. :)

while some women certainly do things that drive their men to the stripclubs/escorts/whatever, i think this is a rather unfair statement.

some men are just cheaters. a woman can be hot as fuck, look after himself, and attend to his physical and emotional needs but still not be enough. some men will just stray. i dont think that you can blame the female ever time she gets cheated on. that is absolutely ridiculous.

this is unrelated to the OP.... i am 100% anti facebook stalking esp. since i am a victim of it heh.

TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 04:44 PM
while some women certainly do things that drive their men to the stripclubs/escorts/whatever, i think this is a rather unfair statement.

some men are just cheaters. a woman can be hot as fuck, look after himself, and attend to his physical and emotional needs but still not be enough. some men will just stray. i dont think that you can blame the female ever time she gets cheated on. that is absolutely ridiculous.

My ex cheated on me and I'm hot, did what I was supposed to do ... he still did it. I guess what I meant was if the lady wasn't such a bitch, loved and cared for him , he wouldn't have saw me. He(my client) said it himself.

Sorry OT... but yeah OP is wrong.

jack0177057
06-03-2011, 05:32 PM
while some women certainly do things that drive their men to the stripclubs/escorts/whatever, i think this is a rather unfair statement.

some men are just cheaters. a woman can be hot as fuck, look after himself, and attend to his physical and emotional needs but still not be enough. some men will just stray. i dont think that you can blame the female ever time she gets cheated on. that is absolutely ridiculous.


I agree. Men cheat for many different reasons and women cheat for many different reasons. Statistically, women usually cheat for revenge (adultery or neglect by their husbands).

Men are more varied. They could be resentful because their wives reject their sexual advances, they could be bored, frustrated, depressed, have a "mid-life" crisis, want to see if they still "got it", plain horny, etc. The "its just sex" logic is still very ingrained in the male brain. A study found that about 90% of men in committed relationships admitted that they would sleep with a hot woman, if they knew for sure that their SO would never find out about it. As far as male dreams go, men commit adultery dozens of times every week. (Not to mention jacking off to porn.)

I don't have sex with other women, but I "cheat" by getting lap dances from other women. I love my GF and she is very hot. I NEVER tire of fucking her and she is accomodating to me 80% of the time (I've got a sky-high libido), but, basically, I've been with her (on and off) for a very long time and crave a little variety/mystery/novelty/naughtiness. Its exciting and thrilling to go to the SC, meet a beautiful woman I've never seen before, and get to see her strip and dance on my lap.

I wish my love for my GF (which is sincere and profound) would annihilate all my cravings and lust for other women... It doesn't. I meet gorgeous sexy women at work or outside and my brain unleashes a flood of sexual fantasies. Ironically, the SCs help to keep me away from full-scale cheating. I get a llittle dose of erotic variety/thrill and that keeps me from going all the way with another woman.

This may sound terrible and I'm not proud of it nor defending it (its more like a confession),... but as far as male pigs go,... I'd say I'm just a 4 on a pig scale of 10.

lokikola
06-03-2011, 06:44 PM
This is the last thing I'll post here, I stopped because this thread basically got hi-jacked by touringgirlfriend.
You're way the fuck out of line, calling me a crazy bitch and basically assuming I 'didn't do what I needed to do as a wife.' What the fuck does that mean anyway? Not all marriages are the same. But just for the record, I'm the hottest chick my ex will ever have, I can guarantee that shit. As far as sex went, this fucker never made it past a minute, that says enough. AAAAAAAAAAAnnnnnd, he didn't leave me, I left him.
Just because you've toured around fucking married men doesn't make you a relationship expert, neither does it make you some kind of God to tell what is right or wrong. If you were so concerned with what is wrong you wouldn't be on here ranting on and on and on for days and insulting someone who in all reality you don't even know. So much for saying I'm the psycho one.
Like someone said earlier, men just cheat to cheat. When my ex cheated on me, he didn't just because, he fucked girls that were nasty, not even close to looking as good as me. So its not always a woman's fault that their husband strays. For someone who claims to know so much, that is a really ignorant statement on your behalf. Keep in mind that you are only hearing out the guy you're fucking, what the fuck do you know about what happens behind closed doors with his wife?
All I'm saying, don't insist I'm the crazy one when you are arguing with anyone who displays any sympathy towards me or even says they can see where I'm coming from, you're sitting here trying to force your view upon all of Stripper Web which is just outright a waste of time (something else you've accused me of doing).
So basically, I think you need to remember that when you're pointing a finger at someone you got three pointing back at you bitch.

TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 06:53 PM
This is the last thing I'll post here, I stopped because this thread basically got hi-jacked by touringgirlfriend.
You're way the fuck out of line, calling me a crazy bitch and basically assuming I 'didn't do what I needed to do as a wife.' What the fuck does that mean anyway? Not all marriages are the same. But just for the record, I'm the hottest chick my ex will ever have, I can guarantee that shit. As far as sex went, this fucker never made it past a minute, that says enough.
Just because you've toured around fucking married men doesn't make you a relationship expert, neither does it make you some kind of God to tell what is right or wrong. If you were so concerned with what is wrong you wouldn't be on here ranting on and on and on for days and insulting someone who in all reality you don't even know. So much for saying I'm the psycho one.
Like someone said earlier, men just cheat to cheat. When my ex cheated on me, he didn't just because, he fucked girls that were nasty, not even close to looking as good as me. So its not always a woman's fault that their husband strays. For someone who claims to know so much, that is a really ignorant statement on your behalf. Keep in mind that you are only hearing out the guy you're fucking, what the fuck do you know about what happens behind closed doors with his wife?
All I'm saying, don't insist I'm the crazy one when you are arguing with anyone who displays any sympathy towards me or even says they can see where I'm coming from, you're sitting here trying to force your view upon all of Stripper Web which is just outright a waste of time (something else you've accused me of doing).
So basically, I think you need to remember that when you're pointing a finger at someone you got three pointing back at you bitch.

.....says the girl that can't get over her ex husband and his mistress after how long now? It's not my fault he left you ok sweetie?

I had to edit my comment. I cannot and will not argue with crazy (I didn't read your post btw.. way too scattered for me). Those arguments usually don't go anywhere. Oh just FYI: I have fun fucking the rich men for money.. ok? It gives me a rush and I feel absolutely fantastic afterwards (power). Anyways, YOU have a very fanfuckingtastic day ok? I am. Take care.

Trem
06-03-2011, 07:12 PM
I believe if wives did what they needed to do, their husbands wouldn't see girls like me. :)

Unless said wives have access to time machines they are not going to look like hot 20 something year olds for long.

TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 07:13 PM
Unless said wives have access to time machines they are not going to look like hot 20 something year olds for long.

I'm a hot 21 year old. I'm pretty aware of that fact, Trem. :-*

Brigham
06-03-2011, 07:31 PM
Besides, don't you have to look for a stripper wife.



Thank god I don't have to because if I were, the task would have been a daunting one. At least if the venue were this forum. :D

If I were looking, the criteria would be very strict:
- An accomplished stripper
- Educated
- Honest
- Sweet
- Kind
- Classy
- Dirty in bed
- Etc.

TouringGirlfriend
06-03-2011, 07:34 PM
Thank god I don't have to because if I were, the task would have been a daunting one. At least if the venue were this forum. :D

If I were looking, the criteria would be very strict:
- An accomplished stripper
- Educated
- Honest
- Sweet
- Kind
- Classy
- Dirty in bed
- Etc.

Lmfao!

Brigham
06-03-2011, 07:39 PM
Lmfao!

I am delighted.

Kellydancer
06-03-2011, 08:56 PM
Unless said wives have access to time machines they are not going to look like hot 20 something year olds for long.

And the men won't still look like the 20something men they may have been. You would be surprised (or not) with the fat slobs that have tried to get me to sleep with them because their wives "aren't hot". I'm like, dude you are no prize either". However, when it comes to powerful men (as I'm sure that's who Touring Girlfriend's clients are)money is the only thing that matters. The former CEO of my former employer committed suicide by standing in front of a train and it came out that he had a mistress. This guy was uglier than sin.

camille27
06-03-2011, 09:35 PM
suddenly, i'm in love with you.


This is the last thing I'll post here, I stopped because this thread basically got hi-jacked by touringgirlfriend.
You're way the fuck out of line, calling me a crazy bitch and basically assuming I 'didn't do what I needed to do as a wife.' What the fuck does that mean anyway? Not all marriages are the same. But just for the record, I'm the hottest chick my ex will ever have, I can guarantee that shit. As far as sex went, this fucker never made it past a minute, that says enough. AAAAAAAAAAAnnnnnd, he didn't leave me, I left him.
Just because you've toured around fucking married men doesn't make you a relationship expert, neither does it make you some kind of God to tell what is right or wrong. If you were so concerned with what is wrong you wouldn't be on here ranting on and on and on for days and insulting someone who in all reality you don't even know. So much for saying I'm the psycho one.
Like someone said earlier, men just cheat to cheat. When my ex cheated on me, he didn't just because, he fucked girls that were nasty, not even close to looking as good as me. So its not always a woman's fault that their husband strays. For someone who claims to know so much, that is a really ignorant statement on your behalf. Keep in mind that you are only hearing out the guy you're fucking, what the fuck do you know about what happens behind closed doors with his wife?
All I'm saying, don't insist I'm the crazy one when you are arguing with anyone who displays any sympathy towards me or even says they can see where I'm coming from, you're sitting here trying to force your view upon all of Stripper Web which is just outright a waste of time (something else you've accused me of doing).
So basically, I think you need to remember that when you're pointing a finger at someone you got three pointing back at you bitch.

mediocrity
06-04-2011, 12:39 AM
My ex-husbands ex-girlfriend used to call our house and e-mail him (he never responded), pretending she wanted to maintain just a friendship. When things got rough with my husband and I a year after we got married, they started e-mailing again and she sent him super explicit pix of herself (let me know if you want to see them }:D).
So, I put them up on Flickr but she isn't aware yet, I even put her whole name and home town... I don't know why people aren't finding this stuff yet?
I'm considering making a fb profile with her photos and adding all of her friends. I'm not gonna lie though, I'm afraid of criminal charges, what do you guys think?
Oh, I know some people might think this is some evil bitchy stuff I'm doing, but truly, my ex, the skank and I ALL KNOW she had it comin'. Just sayin'.

One of my good friends is going through this right now. Wanting to do this makes you crazier than the bitch in the pictures.

lestat1
06-04-2011, 10:27 AM
If you acquired the pictures from her home somehow, then posting them online would be illegal. Once she transmitted the pictures via the Internet, she forfeited her "expectation of privacy." So I belive it is legal, but I still wouldn't do it. Most European countries, but not the U.S, have a "secrecey of correspondence" doctrine that would make what you're doing illegal.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Expectation_of_privacy
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secrecy_of_correspondence

EDIT: I forgot about civil crimes. What you're doing could be considerd "intentional infliction of emotional distress," something tht won't land you in jail but could get you sued for monetary compensation.

bucket
06-04-2011, 02:47 PM
To the original poster,
I saw in another thread that you're a military vet. It's not just about following orders, it's knowing when to follow orders.

Take down the pictures. Don't ever do something like this again.

Jaden_GD
06-05-2011, 09:51 PM
Don't do it. It's very illegal and not a mature way to handle it. Why not contact police if she is harassing your family?? Seems a little more sensible..oh, and please get a hobby. Seriously. I'm also 22 and couldn't imagine doing something so juvenile.

LolaBanana
06-06-2011, 05:32 PM
Go post them on www.isanyoneup.com guarantee she'll find out and be humiliated!! Yee haw. }:D

lokikola
06-06-2011, 07:40 PM
Go post them on www.isanyoneup.com (http://www.isanyoneup.com) guarantee she'll find out and be humiliated!! Yee haw. }:D


BAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAA! I know I said I wouldn't post again... but you guys won't believe this shit. I checked out the site, looked myself up, my ex... and her. Guess who's pictures are up there? Hers, not the ones I have, some other ones but equally trashy.
I'm seriously laughing so hard my chihuahua is barking at me.
Oh yeah and fuck you haters ;)

colleen
06-06-2011, 08:49 PM
I wouldn't do it just out of fact that you could get into some legal or criminal trouble. But I'd say the bitch def had it coming (sometimes it can be hard not to hold a grudge for along time, right). Just don't do it.

This is what I was thinking. She TOTALLY has it coming--and it will still get you in trouble. Such a fun revenge fantasy---but dont do it. }:D

camille27
06-07-2011, 06:37 AM
i am laughing my ass off. oh god, you and brigham might be the greatest posters on this board.



BAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAA! I know I said I wouldn't post again... but you guys won't believe this shit. I checked out the site, looked myself up, my ex... and her. Guess who's pictures are up there? Hers, not the ones I have, some other ones but equally trashy.
I'm seriously laughing so hard my chihuahua is barking at me.
Oh yeah and fuck you haters ;)

TouringGirlfriend
06-07-2011, 10:04 AM
edit: Now that was not nice of me to say. ::))

Stenturion
06-08-2011, 01:52 AM
I wonder if she would react that way though...

I wouldn't take the risk, if I were you? There's a million ways how BAD this situation could turn out, and more than half of them would end up with you on the receiving end. Do the right thing before you lose control of the situation. Seriously, this can't end well...

shoveme
06-08-2011, 03:56 AM
It's not good when someone tries to get you like that. Honesty is much better. One case of revenge leads to antoher one and it breeds more revenge until someone gets really hurt.

Dizzygurl
06-08-2011, 07:02 AM
am i the only one who thinks she deserves a high five?? as someone who has been cheated on and can smell skank a mile away, i think that cheatering ho had it coming. sending dirty pics to a married man? you get what you get. LMFAO. and heck yeah, i wanna see the pics too!!!

Dizzygurl
06-08-2011, 07:04 AM
but post the pics from another ip or something. not sure how to do covert internet ops, but don't get in trouble. oh yeah, another high five baby!

Dizzygurl
06-08-2011, 07:08 AM
or write her number in a few seedy mens' rooms with like, an awesome personal skank ad by it. ;)

JayATee
06-08-2011, 10:07 AM
Oh yeah and fuck you haters ;)

Karma is a bitch. What you put out you get back. Enjoy. ;)

lokikola
06-08-2011, 10:35 AM
Karma is a bitch. What you put out you get back. Enjoy. ;)

You mean, like, skank sending pics to a married man? Then getting them back from a social networking site?
Totally feel you on that! ;)

lemiwinks31
06-08-2011, 10:45 AM
Karma is a bitch. ;)




Karma is not alone.

JayATee
06-08-2011, 02:46 PM
^ way to edit my post. Lifes more fun when you have to guess at context. Good job.

GlitterBexie
06-08-2011, 03:06 PM
If i were to post all the dirty pictures which were sent my my ex during our relationship after the conclusion of our relationship id have to set up my own website to host them. From my experiences, explicit pictures arnt sent without invitation, i know i would never knowingly shove something up my twinkle, snap a shot and then sent it out to whomever i felt deserved a show.

If you are angry (i would be too, hell, i am angry at my ex lol) be angry at your ex husband, but dont let it take over your life. This girl, whether she's crazy or not and invited herself into your life or whatever, its not for you to make it your buissness to be posting her buissness on websites (Yeah, i know i cant spell buissness, i always put too many ssss's) and im also pretty sure it is criminal to post pictures of someone without their express consent, and by the sounds of it, it wouldnt be hard to trace the posting of them back to you.

Im not saying "be the bigger person" or whatever, im just sayin, its not healthy to harbour so much hate and bitterness, and its gonna have a detremental effect on your life at some point or another, speaking from literal and physical and recent experience (Im just coming through a nervous breakdown, and that isnt easy for me to admit!) You need to let go, speak to someone, get counselling, go to a MMA class and beat the heck out of someone in an environment where it is ok to. Im not much older than you and ive just come out of the worst relationship known to man, love and ending of love hurts to hell and back, but dont let it ruin you!! Revenge wont make you feel better, only encourages someone wanting to get their own back on you, and nothing good comes out of making yourself feel better by making somebody else feel bad.

lokikola
06-08-2011, 07:26 PM
If i were to post all the dirty pictures which were sent my my ex during our relationship after the conclusion of our relationship id have to set up my own website to host them. From my experiences, explicit pictures arnt sent without invitation, i know i would never knowingly shove something up my twinkle, snap a shot and then sent it out to whomever i felt deserved a show.

If you are angry (i would be too, hell, i am angry at my ex lol) be angry at your ex husband, but dont let it take over your life. This girl, whether she's crazy or not and invited herself into your life or whatever, its not for you to make it your buissness to be posting her buissness on websites (Yeah, i know i cant spell buissness, i always put too many ssss's) and im also pretty sure it is criminal to post pictures of someone without their express consent, and by the sounds of it, it wouldnt be hard to trace the posting of them back to you.

Im not saying "be the bigger person" or whatever, im just sayin, its not healthy to harbour so much hate and bitterness, and its gonna have a detremental effect on your life at some point or another, speaking from literal and physical and recent experience (Im just coming through a nervous breakdown, and that isnt easy for me to admit!) You need to let go, speak to someone, get counselling, go to a MMA class and beat the heck out of someone in an environment where it is ok to. Im not much older than you and ive just come out of the worst relationship known to man, love and ending of love hurts to hell and back, but dont let it ruin you!! Revenge wont make you feel better, only encourages someone wanting to get their own back on you, and nothing good comes out of making yourself feel better by making somebody else feel bad.

This thread is never going to die so fuck it, I'll respond if its worth responding to.
I guess because of the way I posted earlier people think I am heart broken and all, I am not. I was heart broken when I was with him. When I got over all the times he cheated on me and the fact that he rejects our daughter, it was easy to leave, because I don't love him anymore; and while I stayed with him not loving him I did it in the hopes that he would love our daughter and be a good father. When that didn't happen either, after more than a year of waiting for it I realized I had no reason to carry on with him. The first time I divorced him (you read right, this is the second time divorcing him) I went through all that crap. Yes, I was in a lot of pain, I loved him so much and it felt like pulling myself away from him was the same as peeling my own skin off. I became a terrible person to myself. I started drinking and wasted all of my earned vacation days crying and drinking alone because I couldn't bare anything else. I'm not going through that again, I'm not that person anymore, that was a sad and pathetic person who disgusts me and I promised myself I wouldn't be that again. SO, I don't get sad, I get even. Which in this case turns out to not be necessary, because the truth is there is nothing I can do to this girl that she has not already done to herself.
So for all of you who say Karma is a bitch, its been said, plenty of times, I think we all agree on that.
In the end, the only person who needs to know the facts surrounding the dissolution of my marriage is my daughter, and while I won't shit talk her dad EVER... she is a smart baby and will without a doubt grow up to be an intelligent adolescent. His actions or lack thereof will speak louder than anything I could ever try to explain to her.
In the end, my life is my daughter, and all else can go to hell.

Brigham
06-08-2011, 09:04 PM
Karma is a bitch. What you put out you get back. Enjoy. ;)

I cannot believe I am agreeing with this young lady.

lemiwinks31
06-09-2011, 10:59 AM
^ way to edit my post. Lifes more fun when you have to guess at context. Good job.


on your side.......not directed at you.

Vyanka
06-10-2011, 01:18 PM
I understand your frustration, so no judgements here. The best revenge you can do is not waste your energy on these two. The fact that your ex sees that two women are fighting bc of him, gives his ego a big blow. You don't want that. NO cheating lying man is worth fighting for. Walk away from the situation like he missed(which he did) out and you're open for the next best thing you deserve. That'll teach him. Let karma do it's own work, you don't have to do anything. ;)

JayATee
06-14-2011, 03:10 PM
on your side.......not directed at you.

Ah, apologies then.

anarokr
06-21-2011, 05:06 PM
let karma take care of it. went through something similar, the girl actually ended up getting chlamydia. its not worth getting into trouble over!