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Bearded Mountain Man
06-04-2011, 04:21 AM
Hey guys, I'm new here, and I have a question: How do I deal with a dancer falling for me?

This is going to be kinda long, so bear with me. I first attended a SC a while back. Since it was my first time there, i went kind overboard with the dances. I think I went too intimate with stuff like soft kisses, touches, and other things. I say this because I'm a pretty infrequent customer. I've been to the SC once before, but the Dancer I was with the 1st time remembered me, even though I hadn't seen her for like 4 months. I only thought it was weird because I really didn't remember her at first, but it eventually came to me.


Fast forward 3 months and I'm in the same club on a whim with some friends. I see her and grab a couple of dances with her. heres where stuff starts to get really heavy.

We go to some place private and start doing dances, she's really going heavy, like grinding hard with her face really close and softly kissing me. I reciprocate. She then puts my hand on her sex, but I deny her the pleasure and tease her by caressing her inner thighs and abdomen, all the while I'm kissing her neck, her shoulder, back...etc.

At this point she's breathing heavily, caressing my engorged sex, grinding on me and putting my hand on her vagina. I deny her again. I really think if I wanted to, i could have escalated it to sex, but I didn't know her so i didn't want to.

Next thing I know, she masturbating on me! Calmly at first, but then furiously. I'm still running my hand all over her. Eventually she cums and kisses me. I end my dance in silence. I get up and then leave.


About 7 months later I head back to the club with my friends again. She's there. This time, my friends hitting on her and I'm sitting across the table from. All the while, she's sitting on my friends lap and she staring at me intensely. My Father just died and slightly before I had some shit going in school. So, at the time, i really didn't give a fuck about her. Now that things have settled, I haven't really been to the club ever since because I feel incredibly awkward when she's there.


So, my question is How should I deal with her and what can I do to prevent it from happening again?

TarsTone
06-04-2011, 04:59 AM
She let you touch her sex??...

Dude, you got a stalker on your hands.

SteveSmith
06-04-2011, 05:40 AM
She's not falling for you, she's falling for your wallet. ;D

TarsTone
06-04-2011, 06:03 AM
Well I'm sure she told him her real name though.

Was it Tigress...Storm...maybe Extreme?...Let us know bro. I'm starting to see wedding bells in your future.

Brandi_Lynn
06-04-2011, 06:20 AM
Dude, this is written like a bad Danielle Steele novel. Ugh. *vomit* Troll

JayATee
06-04-2011, 07:08 AM
lmfao. You don't happen to also be the writer for the porns when they attempt to have dialogue, are you? Thanks I needed an early morning laugh!

Dirty Ernie
06-04-2011, 11:00 AM
I'm guessing there was no internet in your house growing up and the only porn available was your mother's dog-eared copy of Lady Chatterly's Lover. Caressing your sex?! Really? Major lulz

Kellydancer
06-04-2011, 11:04 AM
Oh look another virgin!

22lligm
06-04-2011, 11:04 AM
hahaha i really hope this isn't serious...

if it is.. no offense but she's doing that with most customers!

pussyinboots
06-04-2011, 01:05 PM
This is just too f*****g hilarious to post anything.......!!;D:D

Mr Hyde
06-04-2011, 01:07 PM
Dear Penthouse Forums-

I never believed these stories were actually true until it happened to me....

camille27
06-04-2011, 01:08 PM
lady chatterlys lover lmao

Brigham
06-04-2011, 04:52 PM
It happens all the time. If you are an attractive man with accomplishments, I do not see why strippers would not fall for you. The issue more often is would men consider falling for strippers?

Brandi_Lynn
06-04-2011, 04:59 PM
hahaha i really hope this isn't serious...

if it is.. no offense but she's doing that with most customers!

Actually, no most dancers don't try to touch a custies's dick,have him touch their pussy or masturbate on him "furiously". This is what makes it so unbelievable... that & his oh so romantic writing style. Yuck. ::)

Brigham
06-04-2011, 05:25 PM
Actually, no most dancers don't try to touch a custies's dick,have him touch their pussy or masturbate on him "furiously". This is what makes it so unbelievable... that & his oh so romantic writing style. Yuck. ::)

I agree. There are some vital details missing. For example, what medium did she use to masturbate? Did she use her fingers? The post would have been a lot more credible if he had provided detailed account of her orgasm.

Brandi_Lynn
06-04-2011, 06:10 PM
I agree. There are some vital details missing. For example, what medium did she use to masturbate? Did she use her fingers? The post would have been a lot more credible if he had provided detailed account of her orgasm.

Heheh! Were there multiple oragasms? How bout lube or a banana? And is he really a bearded mountain man? ;)

sammii
06-04-2011, 06:11 PM
Haha, you wish ...

JayATee
06-04-2011, 06:37 PM
Actually, no most dancers don't try to touch a custies's dick,have him touch their pussy or masturbate on him "furiously". This is what makes it so unbelievable... that & his oh so romantic writing style. Yuck. ::)

Yes... his "engorged sex". I'm still laughing over here. :rotfl:

bucket
06-04-2011, 06:41 PM
I doubt Mountain Man can actually grow a beard.

Rockette
06-04-2011, 06:45 PM
I doubt Mountain Man can actually grow a beard.

Mods, can you change the name to "dirtstache mountain man?" }:D

Djoser
06-04-2011, 07:17 PM
I deny her again.

My favorite part.

Brandi_Lynn
06-05-2011, 08:34 AM
Engorged sex....just made me giggle like I was 12 again. Oooo, I'm soo dirty - I'm gonna go show my customers my "sex" 2morrow at work.Sexay! Yeah! Heheh!

JayATee
06-05-2011, 09:02 AM
Engorged sex....just made me giggle like I was 12 again. Oooo, I'm soo dirty - I'm gonna go show my customers my "sex" 2morrow at work.Sexay! Yeah! Heheh!

Lmfao!!! :rotfl: this is gold.

Dirty Ernie
06-05-2011, 10:01 AM
Oh No! It's Sweatpants Engorged Sex Man!

22lligm
06-05-2011, 10:13 AM
Actually, no most dancers don't try to touch a custies's dick,have him touch their pussy or masturbate on him "furiously". This is what makes it so unbelievable... that & his oh so romantic writing style. Yuck. ::)

well i just meant if there's a dancer actually doing that then he isn't anything special and she'd do that with anyone! but ya haha i didnt think about that. :D

rickdugan
06-05-2011, 11:58 AM
Actually, no most dancers don't try to touch a custies's dick,have him touch their pussy or masturbate on him "furiously". This is what makes it so unbelievable... that & his oh so romantic writing style. Yuck. ::)

Well, maybe not at your club...;)

His story could actually be plausible depending upon where he is, but I did find the comment about his "engorged sex" to be something he must have lifted out of a romance novel. And the fact that he thought that he "denied her" is just a riot if it is true. LMAO

FBR
06-05-2011, 02:56 PM
Thanks DJ for moving this thread to Blue. The Blue boys and Blue dancers needed some fun :) I need to check to see if I am engorged. Maybe. Would be more impressive if I had gray underpants like Weiner. Gray more clearly shows the throbbing veins and so forth LOL

FBR

yoda57us
06-05-2011, 04:42 PM
OK, I read your post all the way through...sorry, I must have missed the part where she is falling for you...

Brigham
06-05-2011, 05:55 PM
OK, I read your post all the way through...sorry, I must have missed the part where she is falling for you...

Now, this is a text book example of what I call a passive aggressive post. }:D

Brandi_Lynn
06-05-2011, 06:54 PM
well i just meant if there's a dancer actually doing that then he isn't anything special and she'd do that with anyone! but ya haha i didnt think about that. :D

Point taken. Your right there, there are many bad girls running around in the clubs now -sometimes I almost forget cuz I've had my blinders on for so long. :-\

Bearded Mountain Man
06-05-2011, 08:17 PM
What the fuck!? This did actually happen. It happened at a strip club here in Canada. Her real name is Tamara. Look, I'm serious here. I'm no troll. Also, I'm no virgin.

And besides, if I can't touch a Dancer at an SC, I'd never go to another one to spend my money.


I agree. There are some vital details missing. For example, what medium did she use to masturbate? Did she use her fingers? The post would have been a lot more credible if he had provided detailed account of her orgasm.

She used her fingers. But what does that matter?

Also, I can grow a beard.

Look, I'm only asking for some fucking advice because it's really fucking awkward at my club and no-one gave advice on how to deal with it. They just say "forget it, she's a whore" or "fuck it man, she a stripper. You shouldn't care about some ho who's fucked up enough to walk around with her titties flopping everywhere."

harsh, i know, but my friends are guys all in their 20's. i didn't ask my female friends because I don't ask for advice about strippers from normal women. They hate them for some reason.

Why would you guys would believe a stripper falling for a customer from a stripper, but not from a customer?

Yes, i did a search and found a thread about some dancer falling for some older female customer that also frequents these boards. I searched because I wanted so see if anyone else had a similar situation.

What the fuck is the difference?

I never even said i liked her, just that it's awkward at my club.

Wow, you guys are making me think that strippers think lowly of their customers. Almost makes me feel like never spending my money at a Strip club again.

I came here with an honest question. No need to be such dicks.

Brigham
06-05-2011, 08:26 PM
Hmmm, this did actually happen. It happened at a strip club here in Canada. I'd rather not say her real name, but her dancer name was baby tease. Look, I'm serious here. I'm no troll. Also, I'm no virgin.

And besides, if I can't touch a Dancer at an SC, I'd never go to another one to spend my money.

Dancer hitting on PL is not as uncommon as some people are trying to make it out to be. The issue is you lacked details.

So, how did she masturbate while she was giving you a lap dance? Did she use her finger? Did she use yours? Or, did she use a dildo?

yoda57us
06-06-2011, 04:21 PM
Now, this is a text book example of what I call a passive aggressive post. }:D

I doubt you even understand the meaning but, in any event, you are wrong. There is no double meaning or veiled aggression to anything I posted. There is also nothing in the original post to indicate that any dancer is falling for him. He ay think so but that's simply not the case. She wants his money. If you actually went to strip clubs you would understand this.

yoda57us
06-06-2011, 04:24 PM
What the fuck!? This did actually happen. It happened at a strip club here in Canada. Her real name is Tamara. Look, I'm serious here. I'm no troll. Also, I'm no virgin.

And besides, if I can't touch a Dancer at an SC, I'd never go to another one to spend my money.


Come on in off the ledge Grizzly Adams no one is calling you a liar as far as the facts go. The problem is that the facts don't add up to her "falling" for you. She is after your money. It's her job...

lopaw
06-06-2011, 06:48 PM
Yes, i did a search and found a thread about some dancer falling for some older female customer that also frequents these boards. I searched because I wanted so see if anyone else had a similar situation.



Still figuring it out myself.

You kinda set yourself up for the abuse with your over-the-top writing. Maybe if you'd have toned it down it might have come across as more believable.

The reality is that she may be into you, or she may be into your wallet. Only time will tell.

Brigham
06-06-2011, 06:58 PM
I doubt you even understand the meaning but, in any event, you are wrong. There is no double meaning or veiled aggression to anything I posted. There is also nothing in the original post to indicate that any dancer is falling for him. He ay think so but that's simply not the case. She wants his money. If you actually went to strip clubs you would understand this.

I disagree. There was lots of aggression encapsulated in your passive post. Let me spell it out for you. You were attempting to intimidate him by stating that there was no way the dancer could have been interested in him.

A reasonable person would have asked for more details and would have withheld the judgement pending further details. But you went the route of intimidation. Got it?

DesuvsDeath
06-06-2011, 07:00 PM
I did a search for you... I think the site you were looking for is here: http://www.literotica.com/


Seriously, though... to any customers who REALLY have this problem. Sit the girl down at explain that you're there for the fantasy and the fun... not looking for a relationship.
If the problem continues... you could try directly explaining that you do not have any interest in her, find a new club, or start going in on the nights she doesn't work.

yoda57us
06-06-2011, 08:26 PM
I disagree. There was lots of aggression encapsulated in your passive post. Let me spell it out for you. You were attempting to intimidate him by stating that there was no way the dancer could have been interested in him.


Again, you don't know what the fuck you are talking about nor do you understand what passive aggressive behavior is. There was nothing passive about my post. I told him he was wrong. I don't need more facts to know that. I've seen it happen dozens of times right before my eyes. That's not intimidation, that's me stating an opinion.

Instead of trying to one-up me why don't you try sticking to topics that you actually know something about. Clearly strip clubs and the dancer/customer dynamic are beyond your comprehension.

Brigham
06-06-2011, 08:32 PM
Again, you don't know what the fuck you are talking about nor do you understand what passive aggressive behavior is. There was nothing passive about my post. I told him he was wrong. I don't need more facts to know that. I've seen it happen dozens of times right before my eyes. That's not intimidation, that's me stating an opinion.

Instead of trying to one-up me why don't you try sticking to topics that you actually know something about. Clearly strip clubs and the dancer/customer dynamic are beyond your comprehension.

I am an expert on analyzing PLs like yourself. That is a worthy topic. Anyone who becomes aggressive on internet is pretty much a passive guy. Your posts are constantly filled with what can be dubbed as online bravado.

Brandi_Lynn
06-06-2011, 08:54 PM
I did a search for you... I think the site you were looking for is here: http://www.literotica.com/


Seriously, though... to any customers who REALLY have this problem. Sit the girl down at explain that you're there for the fantasy and the fun... not looking for a relationship.
If the problem continues... you could try directly explaining that you do not have any interest in her, find a new club, or start going in on the nights she doesn't work.

This would be the most obvious thing. I don't know why he wasn't able to think of this.

Aurora_Sunset
06-06-2011, 09:10 PM
Seriously, though... to any customers who REALLY have this problem. Sit the girl down at explain that you're there for the fantasy and the fun... not looking for a relationship.


And then be prepared to watch her walk away laughing because you actually thought she was falling for you and not just trying to get money out of you in the same way that she probably does with every other customer she dances for ::)

JoeUnCool
06-07-2011, 02:01 PM
Based on a quick readthru, I have to agree with Yoda. There doesn't seem to be a lot of data supporting that the entertainer is falling for him. My suggestion is the same as always: Explore, see what happens, and always protect yourself.

yoda57us
06-07-2011, 02:23 PM
I am an expert on analyzing PLs like yourself. That is a worthy topic. Anyone who becomes aggressive on internet is pretty much a passive guy. Your posts are constantly filled with what can be dubbed as online bravado.

If "online bravado" means confidence in my conclusions and conviction in my opinions then I agree with you for what will most likely be the first and last time...

SPLUT
06-07-2011, 04:50 PM
Yoda threw a dart, it was funny. I thought Blues had a sense of humor.....:'(

Brigham
06-07-2011, 06:18 PM
If "online bravado" means confidence in my conclusions and conviction in my opinions then I agree with you for what will most likely be the first and last time...

Read your own posts to find out what an online bravado means. By the way, over confidence is an offshoot of online bravado. And conviction, if misplaced can be a platform for one' demise. You need to ponder over these gems before rushing to reply. Cool? :D

yoda57us
06-07-2011, 06:44 PM
Read your own posts to find out what an online bravado means. By the way, over confidence is an offshoot of online bravado. And conviction, if misplaced can be a platform for one' demise. You need to ponder over these gems before rushing to reply. Cool? :D

Fortunately I don't come here looking for advice on how to post. Thanks for playing though...

Kellydancer
06-07-2011, 09:06 PM
Yoda is right. I'm starting to wonder if this guy and Brigham are the same guy are possibly friends. Just strikes me as funny how he's defending this.

Oh and Brigham if you don't go to clubs why are you here?

Btw, all of you blues who don't come up to the pink side you need to read the thread Brigham posted in customer conversation called "how to marry a stripper". It is a classic.

bucket
06-07-2011, 09:18 PM
Beardman,
You're in Canada I see. Your story made perfect sense. She was having an existential experience and I wouldn't try to undestand it at all.
Fa geta bout it.

Brandi_Lynn
06-08-2011, 07:22 AM
I'm a dancer. & I'm falling for you.

racejeff
06-10-2011, 10:33 AM
I'm a dancer. & I'm falling for you.

:D lol cute post - Now I just need to figure out who she was falling for.