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_natasha
08-20-2011, 10:03 AM
Still working for me... Finally out of my massive earnings slump from burn out. Last night was top earner by $415. This stuff works. Thank you AGAIN for posting this.

UwishUknewhy
08-20-2011, 01:20 PM
I have been in a financial slump/ burnout from work and cannot wait to incorporate these into my work and life ethic! Thank you so much for posting!!

Lady_Daysia
08-20-2011, 05:56 PM
Money_Worshipper, thanks for the explanation on "the Vortex."

I came back in to share with you and the others a tip my friend gave me and some other information that works for me.

My close friend, A teacher of the Law of Attraction and a life coach shared this with me the other night. He said to ask the universe for what I want, release it, and then (here is the kicker) open yourself up for a bigger miracle. Example below.

Ex. "Today, I wish to manifest $500."

You then, follow up the sentence with, "I do not know how I will make $500 today but I believe that I will. I also wish to open myself up for receiving anything else on a grander level that the Universe/God (whichever you feel comfortable with) would like to give me. I contiously open myself up for a miracle and allow my energy to flow with the universe and what you wish to bring me."

Then, you imagine giving this to the universe and then you "let it go".

THIS WAS SPECTACULAR AND HAS WORKED FROM THE MOMENT I BEGAN IT.

For those of you who are beginners and would like clarification on "letting it go," here is a great visualization I always use.

To let it go, Imagine that you are standing within the ocean and the ocean represents all of the Universe; you being a huge part of it. Visualize placing your request into a crystal jar. Once you place in your request, throw this jar into the ocean! Imagine that you are an intricate part of this universe (the ocean you stand in) and therefore, without a doubt, your request will immediately flow back to you all on its own. So when you throw it, truly let it go.


Request, Let it go, Receive. NO WORRIES! Do not think about it.


The next Step: Once you let it go, BECOME GREATFUL. Think about when you were a young child and grandma told you she'd bring you that new expensive toy you've asked for since last year. She promises it to you on Friday. Remember the excitement and the gratitude you felt? Grab that kind of feeling when you are showing gratitude to the universe. Gratitude plays a huge role in this working because it raises your positive vibration and allows you to resignate in the energy of receiving. Gratitude also puts you in the state of mind, that you've already received confirmation of having it in your hand, therefore you are emitting the energy that you have it now and therefore it will come.





......... (clearing my throat.)

I cleared $1,000.00 last week! I worked Day shift and worked only 2 1/2 days.

Claim yours. Own your power.

Good luck to all of you who start practicing it. This way of living becomes not only part of your financial life, but creates your entire world; your friends, your career, your home, your car, your money, your happiness. Each step you take to learn more about LOA and how to apply it in your life will make huge steps to your new reality. No matter how great or not so great your life is now, it can be 80x better. If we ask for it, science says we can have it.. Just believe. Wow, the possibilities! We are women and we deserve the BEST!

Rent or Buy the Videos:

"What the Bleep!? Down the Rabbit Hole" for a more in depth discussion that actually seeks to scientifically prove why all of this works and is not just positive thinking, mumbo jumbo.

"The Secret."



;D

Rio_Summer
08-21-2011, 02:02 PM
well i applied the law of attraction last night the place was pretty dead and i just kept smiling. girls were bitching about it being quiet i just kept super positive and knew i was going to make my goal and i did i was so happy. i'm gonna start doing this every night i work.

UwishUknewhy
08-22-2011, 12:51 AM
this worked so well for me tonight!!!! The club was dead for a Sunday and I ket getting guys asking me to do dances!! I didn't hustle at all and if I did it was more of me telling the guy what was going to happen. My goal was 1000 which is pretty high for a sunday, I made 700!! I wrote down the mantras and said them over an over through out the night and whenever I went to the dressing room. MY night rocked to say the least!!! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I will utilize this method EVERY time I work!

UwishUknewhy
08-22-2011, 08:42 AM
Actually I counted wrong last night! 785!!!

xoari
08-25-2011, 09:19 AM
i tried this last night hoping for $200. the club was deaddeaddead, and the only customer was a regular who never buys dances. apparently i tickled his fancy last night and he took me for a $200 cr :D i was so shocked! then i got a $105 ticket on the way home, but thats besides the point.. -__-

Vyanka
08-25-2011, 09:24 AM
OMG, so last night I went back to work after taking some time off cramping with my period in a bad as hell mood. I was trying hard to practice this mantra while in a piss ass mood. I was trying to get into while on stage. I think the opposite worked for me(I got lucky on a shit night). haha. All I did was looked at my customer like an idiot, not saying shit to him...he was enamored & I juiced out his wallet. Love it. lol. Or it can be my period that brought me mula last night. I'm going to keep on practicing though. It's hard for me to be in a loving state.

I'm also a lazy hustler, esp lately.

Flickdreams
08-25-2011, 10:06 AM
I feel like a hypocrite/false when I try affirmations and self talk lately, I have a deep residual sadness in my life/heart.

I am so stressed my body shakes with it!

I want positive change and firm self belief.... :snow:

laurielegs
08-25-2011, 02:47 PM
we tell ourselves terrible falsehoods about ourselves all the time ( i'm fat/ugly/stupid/lazy, no one loves me, blah blah blah) so very little harm can come from telling yourself some "pleasant" "lies" (i don't see them as lies because there is always some truth there somewhere if you look hard enough). focus on what you do want. stop focusing on what you don't want. stop talking about it and giving it your attention and only give your attention to good things.

(this is the basis for "allowing" good things you've attracted and unmanifesting things you no longer care to attract)

Wow, that's the most helpful thing I've read in a long time. Thanks so much.

(flickdreams I'm dealing with that right now too and it's difficult for sure!)

Flickdreams
08-27-2011, 05:40 AM
Last night was my easiest night financially for 2months+. $1200 and he wanred to book in for another hour however the club was to close to closing :)

malika29
09-14-2011, 09:34 AM
thanks for this post! im going to give it a go once i get the internet at uni and start camming!

rx_queen
09-25-2011, 12:19 PM
i'm not stripping (yet) but i am a huge follower of AH & just now did a general search... abraham hicks exotic dancing... which led me right to this thread and i just joined SW a week or so ago. anyway, just wanted to say absolutely AWESOME to know there are other ladies like me who 'get' this stuff! yay :-)

AriahsPariah
09-25-2011, 05:08 PM
Thank you, Money_Worshipper, for starting this thread and the additional information you're providing in your replies. My younger sister introduced me to Abraham Hicks a couple years ago and since then I've been hooked. The guided meditations of "Into the Vortex" are also amazing since I find it hard to meditate in silence.

http://www.abraham-hicks.com/lawofattractionsource/index.php

Here is a link to the AH website. I have this up on my home screen and I read the daily quote first thing when going online each day. I even copy and paste quotes on MS Word that mean a lot to me. I love it!!

la petite sexy
09-29-2011, 05:22 PM
bookmarked!

CamWhore
10-16-2011, 06:45 PM
The best thread Ive read in years. So very helpful and positive!

Audrina Parks
10-21-2011, 08:38 PM
Another amazing program is called "The One Command," with Asara Lovejoy. It involves getting yourself into the brain wave state called "theta," which is a very resourceful brain wave state. Anyone could google her- it has helped me a lot when I had no money before.

Lindvall
10-21-2011, 09:19 PM
focus on what you do want. stop focusing on what you don't want. stop talking about it and giving it your attention and only give your attention to good things.

(this is the basis for "allowing" good things you've attracted and unmanifesting things you no longer care to attract)


Thank you for reminding me of this!! It is oh so true, and it works. We create our realities with our focus.

Money_Worshipper
10-23-2011, 12:02 PM
I had taken months off from work and spent almost all of my earnings while on break. When I got back to work, I failed to apply the Law of Attraction and I had to work really hard to make money. My hustle style have changed and I don't just wait around for men to approach me. I find that I feel more fulfilling if I actually won over a custie.

Anyway, I just recently again applied the Law and again, I'm successful. This time it has become easy again and am making huge bucks for so little work.

I find that if you deliberately try to be in a good feeling place, you will attract very generous custies. When I'm in a very good mood, I attract custies who give me more money than what they owe me for. Let's say, they owe me 200, they would give me 250.

Also never depend on regulars. Never be wishing that your regular will come so you can make money. Never depend on external forces. Try to change your vibrations and feelings internally first. When I change my feelings and then go back to the floor, I will spy a regular sitting there and looking at me. He was never there when I left the floor to get a moment.

There is this one club regular (takes a lot of girls) who usually spent 200 on me before I took a break from work. When I got back and was not feeling good, he only spent 40 on me. Now that I'm feeling good again, he'd be spending 200 on me. He's a foot fetish guy so you know that the work is just sooooo easy and lots of money. This guy although he's in the club a lot won't take me all the time. I never approach him because he's very moody. I let him approach me for his fetish. I really attract this man through Law of Attraction.

Anyway, last night was pretty dead and not many were making money. I found myself a rich man last night without doing anything really. I made 700 from him very easily for an hour and a half. I was happy and didn't bother making more money because of how dead the club was.

Flickdreams
10-24-2011, 02:35 AM
That's great babe, I just started reading The 12 Universal Laws of Success by Herbert Harris (I think thats his name)- someone on here suggested it, I think you would enjoy it..

whirlerz
10-29-2011, 09:21 AM
http://effectivelearningsystems.comI use cassettes, I like the auto shut off, my cd player's not working now..
I like this^
There's a variety of topics from weight loss, learning, $, etc. Each has 2 parts: pt 1 has a soothing voice speaking, the other is a subliminal message in your choice of ocean or music. Avail in different formats

cairalis
11-05-2011, 12:16 PM
I just wanted to thank Money_Worshipper and everyone else who has been sharing in this thread, so inspirational, I have been on this path many times but after a while somehow I just fall back into old patterns...this thread reminded me that I need to stay focused and work on setting my mind in the right place every single day. I havent been dancing for about two years but I will do a full year of dancing starting in January and this is exactly what I needed to read to remind me on what I must do to succeed with what I want...thank you thank you thank you!!!

Swagz
11-14-2011, 01:10 PM
Last night I finally tried this. For a while I thought I was being positive by being reasonable. "Well, I hope I make money tonight, probably will, maybe not. At least $200 is fine, but I'll shoot for $500..." etc

Last night I consciously focused only on positive things. "I'm feeling hot, that customer was funny, it'd be great to go get tons more money after my food break!" I told myself I am going to make $700. No goals, no minimums, just I will make $700.

I made almost exactly $700 (before tipouts but still!). Yessss. :D

DEUCESWILD
11-15-2011, 10:47 PM
I love listening to Abraham & Esther Hick's youtube videos. I notice if I go in EXPECTING to make $$$ it always works.. Just keep a positive attitude in everything you do. If I feel negative before I cam I usually end up having a bad experience.

glitzy
11-24-2011, 01:54 PM
Hey guys --

was wondering if any of you who are successful at consistently applying these techniques had techniques you use to overcome situations that automatically mess with your head: i.e. the club is dead, everyone is acting super desparate in the club, rejection....typical stuff. How do you reverse it and get back into the correct LOA mode?

glitzy
11-24-2011, 01:55 PM
Like if I walk in and it's totally dead and I get 2$ my first stage set and everyone in the back is commiserating over the suckiness it's sooooo hard to convince my subconscious that I will make $$$.

Money_Worshipper
11-25-2011, 12:44 AM
this is what i do:

usually before even going to work, i do my LOA and intend to have good customers coming in the club before i even get there. LOA usually takes time to manifest your desires. if you make a routine of getting into the love/ appreciation vibration, things will always manifest the way you like it to.

so its better that even before reaching the club, intend to make money. dont intend to have the club be busy. intend that YOU make money instead no matter what. whether its busy or not, it depends on your thought processes whether you will make money.

if it's super dead in the club when you get there and everybody is complaining, it is best to go into the washroom or anywhere where youre by yourself. take deep breaths focus on them and then start feeling happy emotions. think of the days when you make good money, think of the days when it was so easy. then intend or tell the universe to give you money, name how much you want or whatever. make sure you are passionate about it. keep doing it until you forget how bad it was.

the main focus of the law of attraction is to feel good. once you forget that you're trying to manifest something and you focus on wanting to feel good then things will start happening. the universe is giving you a bunch of things that make you feel good.

charise
11-26-2011, 09:28 AM
hello :) I am a webcam model and love this thread!! I actually read a book on this(called a seth book) about 5-6 months ago and had good success but completely stop using the technique's because I just got so over whelmed with work and so my life went into a downward spiral. I do believe this works!! And my life is a ton better now. But if you are looking for more scientific explanation and more in depth writings about it check out any of the seth books by jane roberts they are actually written before abraham and it proves that everyone can attain the source knowledge. ;D

Flickdreams
11-27-2011, 05:36 AM
[quote=Money_Worshipper;2249357]this is what i do:

so its better that even before reaching the club, intend to make money. dont intend to have the club be busy. intend that YOU make money instead no matter what. whether its busy or not, it depends on your thought processes whether you will make money.

quote]

Now thats some smart cookies!

Money_Worshipper
11-27-2011, 12:53 PM
nice camille,

its the same law of attraction. its poverty thinking when all dancers see there is no customers, they complain thinking that they wont make money. i know what you mean. i used to think that way and the dancers i hang around with think it that way.

when dancers complain, i just get away from them and focus on myself and my emotions. money do come easily for me. i dont have to do much but money just come to me.

lately i've been focusing on manifesting to have come men come to ask me for dances and it's been working! i dont have to do the work and men with money just come to me. the more persistent you are with your emotions the faster the manifestation is.

also strong emotions like passion and love can change your belief and mentality system if they are repeated consistently.

glitzy
11-27-2011, 01:04 PM
if a customer doesn't want to give me his money, i assume he has a personality defect and i feel pity for him because he's missing out on the greatest experience ever.

my brain is my brain and i'm the only one in control of my brain so i use whatever logic is most beneficial to me. "omg, there's only one customer, i guess i'm going to make all my money tonight off of him".

"some of these dancers are doing more for a dollar than is necessary. i am excited to make hundreds of dollars doing a fraction of what they're doing."

"i'm so glad no one came in today. i can leave right at the end of my shift and get chinese food before they close and i won't be tired so i'll get lots of reading done tonight!"


Camille, thank you so much for responding. I feel like I got a deeper insight into specific mechanics of shifting perspective. It's all about using logic to your advantage in a way that makes you feel good and 100% certain of what you're saying in response to changing conditions/environment...

I'm realizing that a lot of my problems at work have probably been stemming from problems in real life. I need to fix my attitude towards both.

Avamonet
12-04-2011, 06:34 PM
try a negativity diet for 24 hours. then 48 hours. and then do it until you forget how to beat yourself up. you will eventually forgot how to be mean to yourself.



This is such great advice. I have attempted to the the "7 day mental diet" by Emmet Fox several times and I always fail. I never even thought of shortening the time. Tomorrow i'm going to try a "1 day mental diet". Sometimes it takes awhile to undo all the stuff we learned from childhood. Thanks for this. I love your posts!!

charise
12-06-2011, 08:54 AM
This is soo random I was looking at this chics profile cuz I thought she was pretty so I read her bio:

http://www.lionsdenu.com/ldus-monday-morning-mistress-kourtney-reppert-12-05-11/?fb_source=message

lol check out what she has on her Ipod!!! This just proves law of attraction works!!!

charise
12-10-2011, 07:43 PM
here is a good website to check out also!! :) http://www.qualified-lifecoach.com/index.html

Flickdreams
12-18-2011, 11:16 PM
the brain responds really well to negativity fasts. i find criticizing myself very difficult ...........

it's like fighting with someone who refuses to fight with you. eventually, you stop fighting because they will not engage with you. this JUST happened with a customer. we were arguing about something and i felt upset because i was giving this idiot the power to affect how i felt. so i'm so riled up, and i remember that i am the only one who gets to control how i feel. and i take a deep breath and say, "i want only the best things for you. i want your life to be full of happiness, for you to let happiness in, to stop sabotaging yourself, to be the wonderful person i know you truly are, and for everything in your life to be easy and smooth and beautiful".

i immediately feel better. he thinks i'm batshit crazy but that's irrelevant because i chose to do what would make me feel better which was to wish him into a better place and get the hell on with my day.


but yes, my point was, try the negativity fast. start at 24 hours and then just keep going. if you slip up, keep going. if you don't slip up, keep going. it isn't a thing that you can "fail" at. after maybe three days of not saying anything negative to yourself (and reading louise hay because all she does is say positive shit), you will kind of start to feel weird. that's normal because you're altering neural pathways. you are going to feel a little weird when you are trying to undo decades of cynicism. but you can't go back! this isn't something you can fail at.

Hey Camille, this is helping me at the mo. in life. Ta

glitzy
12-27-2011, 07:16 PM
hey guys -- i've been using these techniques at work and in life and they've been really helping me make more money, be more efficient at work, not let bad nights get to me, and get over my recent breakup.

i posted this in another thread just now and thought i'd share it here bc it's relevant to the topic. the wave of relief on her face just shows how powerful re-framing our thoughts can be!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ANY8-_kqCZQ

smeca
12-28-2011, 04:23 PM
I really need to get involved with this. Camille, what lousie hay book do you recommend starting on? Already excited about turning things around!

Avamonet
12-28-2011, 05:42 PM
I really need to get involved with this. Camille, what lousie hay book do you recommend starting on? Already excited about turning things around!

I'm not Camille but I would start with "You Can Heal Your Life". That's the one she started with and is most famous for. Everything else she has written kind of just builds upon that. And Camille is right it really will help you deal with the self-love and self-worth issues.

Another book she wrote that I really liked was "Empowering Women". It kind of deals with a lot of stereotypes that we as women hear growing up and teaches us to think differently about ourselves.

Kailey
12-29-2011, 12:31 AM
Mind over matter! I have always applied this method. I even maditate before or during work to avoid negative energy or feelings. I have never really had issues with other girls so that has never really effected my mood. Although some girls do like to pout at tables but I usually just leave so it doesn't effect me. I have even made money oils and attraction bath salts to help me further believe. Sometimes going through the motions of preparing such helps further your mood and believe in yourself. Thank you for posting this Money Worshipper. I am glad to see it. :)

Kailey
12-29-2011, 12:40 AM
Mind over matter! I have always applied this method. I even maditate before or during work to avoid negative energy or feelings. I have never really had issues with other girls so that has never really effected my mood. Although some girls do like to pout at tables but I usually just leave so it doesn't effect me. I have even made money oils and attraction bath salts that melt away the negativity and revitalize me to help me further believe. Sometimes going through the motions of preparing such helps further your mood and believe in yourself. Thank you for posting this Money Worshipper. I am glad to see it. :)

Flickdreams
12-31-2011, 04:45 AM
Read "you can heal your life"- never heard of 'empowering women". She is a very healthy lady.

Been remembering to say "busy for me" as a mantra instead of "busy club"- had a string of excellent shifts.

ExoticBeauty4U
12-31-2011, 11:10 PM
This thread is awesome! And to the people who suggested reading "You Can Heal Your Life" thank you sooo much, great book one of the best Ive read in a long time (and I read ALOT lol). Received it yesterday and already finished it. Anymore reccomendations by her or something similar to that?

cairalis
01-01-2012, 04:40 AM
This thread is awesome! And to the people who suggested reading "You Can Heal Your Life" thank you sooo much, great book one of the best Ive read in a long time (and I read ALOT lol). Received it yesterday and already finished it. Anymore reccomendations by her or something similar to that?

I was going to write the same thing...thanks very much for suggesting "You can heal your life". This thread has given me many other good suggestions too so thanks again everyone for sharing.

GummyBear
01-01-2012, 09:42 AM
I love the negativity diet idea. Perfect way to bring in the new year!

I keep a page with quotes from The Secret on my phone's web browser and I can usually find one that can help pep me up. This stuff seriously works. I've been in a rut for the past two months or so which I know I was slowly sinking into. Finally I decided I'd had enough and was going to stop obsessing over money and making it affect every aspect of my life. Stop focusing on what I can't afford this week, because we all know that two good weeks would make it seem like these expenses are nothing! While I wish I can say I had only $1000 nights at work, I attracted an old friend randomly back to me, and I had several girls buddying up to me at work and it was like we instantly connected and I can see us becoming great business partners. I attracted a handful of awesome new regulars at work who I also instantly clicked with and who have reliable money. The Law of Attraction doesn't work instantly, but I can see things turning around in the direction that I would like.

I like the idea of saying to yourself "busy for me". I would take a dead club over a packed one with 'nobody doing anything'!

Afroangel
01-01-2012, 12:11 PM
You can get You Can Heal Your life the movie on DVD. I loved the book.

I will be getting Empowering Women for sure.

Vyanka
01-03-2012, 12:32 AM
I need to get into a flow again. What fucks up my vibe is the lack of rest. Sometimes it'll take me two damn hours to get to work, when I live 30 mins away. That shit makes me so grouchy. Sometimes traffic can be no joke. Sucks energy right outta you.

DIAMONDLOVER
01-03-2012, 02:02 PM
I need to get into a flow again. What fucks up my vibe is the lack of rest. Sometimes it'll take me two damn hours to get to work, when I live 30 mins away. That shit makes me so grouchy. Sometimes traffic can be no joke. Sucks energy right outta you.
That's when you take a few minutes before you get into traffic and visualize yourself making it to work faster and finding the most peaceful route. The more you see yourself in the way you want, the faster the manifestation will happen.

Vyanka
01-03-2012, 02:06 PM
Thank You, Diamond :)

The_Ecdysiast
01-03-2012, 02:41 PM
^^^I totally feel you on that, Vyanka - and very nice suggestion, Diamond; I will now utilize that technique whenever I'm stuck in traffic and feel myself getting anxious & frustrated!


I ordered "You Can Heal Your Life" a couple of days ago; I will be so excited to receive it & start reading :D

DIAMONDLOVER
01-03-2012, 04:46 PM
Thank You, Diamond :)

You're Welcome;D