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Flickdreams
01-07-2012, 12:01 AM
Yep, I bought you can heal your life & the gratitude book by LL Hay on my Kindle- I can take it to work easily.

Vyanka
01-12-2012, 11:49 AM
Yes! I'm on a roll this week. Banked 3 nights in a row without hustling! Tuesday making the most on the shittiest night(a shit ton of girls and barely any customers) of the week. I can't let anything get in the way of this mind set.

I <3 this thread :-D

Vyanka
01-13-2012, 01:47 AM
Thx Camille! Scratch that, its now been four nights in a row banking this week. Mind you, my club has been doing shit as of late. Wayyyyy too many girls and not enough customers.

Flickdreams
01-23-2012, 10:52 PM
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?168778-30-things-not-to-do-to-yourself-anymore

Threadjack; I think those that like this thread will appreciate this website.

_Elle_
01-23-2012, 11:25 PM
I also bought the You Can Heal Your Life book to take to work for when it isn't busy/when I get in a negative mindset. I love it so far and it really helps to keep me positive!

Prissy
01-24-2012, 12:28 AM
Yeah!! I haven't read the secret..but love THE SILVA METHOD.. = ) (I'm not sure of what is the title of the files that I have, but it has introduction by Jose Silva and his daughter does the hypnosis...I'm aware it's not the most up to date system, but this is the one I have and love!)

Oh! And the small book "The Four Agreements" is REALLY good too...

Driven
01-27-2012, 01:49 PM
I just started reading The Secret a few days ago and it is an incredible book. I visualized making 500 last night, and I actually did! Thank to everyone who has contributed to this thread. The club was empty the majority of the night but by suggestion of someone's post here I did not allow the volume of the club to decide whether or not I was making money. I just behaved as if I had already made the money and stayed positive all night. Im elated! I'm definitely avoiding the dressing room as much as possible and sticking to disappearing to reset my mood when I see girls with the negative attitudes on there faces. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU ALL!

smeca
01-29-2012, 08:33 AM
Aaaah personal best last night, and it was dead til 2! I've gone on a negativity diet, only read the first bit of you can heal your life but great so far, but success is all about confidence and knowing you will do well! Got a VIP to start, after which i got that buzz and didn't really hustle at all after that but was busy the rest of the night. Even got called over for dances which rarely happens. Now to work on having that feeling all the time!

Love this thread!

Red Luck
01-31-2012, 09:17 PM
Thank you for this. I gave it a try for the first time the other night. I set a number in my head, decided that the money was already there waiting for me-- all I had to do was take it. And it worked. What an amazing feeling at the end of the night, realizing that I met my goal. I was elated. Definitely going to continue with this!

RealHousewife
02-10-2012, 09:17 AM
Instead of imagining making more money stripping, why not imagine meeting your rich millionaire husband at a strip club, so you will always have a unlimited bank account? }:D

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RealHousewife
02-10-2012, 09:32 AM
These Chants might be of interest to you....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAo0OK3p1aE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCg8HSH2IQY

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9G_6Ykvqcnc

Vyanka
02-10-2012, 01:58 PM
I love him already ^

glitzy
02-10-2012, 04:03 PM
Zomg new hero

AngeXx
02-11-2012, 06:30 AM
I've spent so long with a negative minded attitude.....and I've had one thing after another happen. It took forever to realize it was me attracting more bad things. I've been reading, and doing the law of attraction along with other things everyday and I've seen a huge improvement. I now officially love life, and feel more in control then I have ever felt.

I can't thank you all enough for this, all I can say is that it has truly impacted my life in more ways than one. Thank you!

Money_Worshipper
02-11-2012, 12:32 PM
I'm so glad it's working for you girls!!!

An update for me:

My working schedule has been irregular but I still make good money. There isn't a week that passes by that I don't make at least $1,000 in a night. I don't make it every night but I usually make $1,000 every Friday night. I guess it's always good for me every friday even though many girls aren't making money.

it's all about spreading love to the work and to the men you give lapdances to. never focus on socializing with other girls instead focus your mind into asking yourself:

why am i so happy?
why am i so lucky?
why am i always making so much money with so little work involved?
why do i always feel so loved and so wanted?

by asking yourself questions, it forces your subconscious mind to find answers in your reality. it changes your perception on your work habits. the most improtant thing when it comes to money is to feel good. money is energy and if you have good energy surround the topic of money, you'll make it...

The_Ecdysiast
02-11-2012, 09:20 PM
^Camille, what are some good, solid sources of info regarding awakening kundalini? I did a google search and have come across some pretty informative sites, but would like to hear sources you used specifically (if possible).

Vyanka
02-11-2012, 10:22 PM
his jewelry is BOMB.
also, if any of you have not yet tried to awaken kundalini, you MUST. it was the transforming experience i went through that changed me from a cynical asshole to the optimistic, charming asshole i am today.

It so is!

I've never heard of this Kundalini awakening. I will look into that too.

LaurenAus
02-11-2012, 10:36 PM
^ did u awaken kundalini with jewelry or with a specific meditation?

LaurenAus
02-12-2012, 11:12 AM
^I should get a mentor or something, someone who will get my butt into gear. I've meditated on and off for years and because of that really never got anywhere with it, even though I've had some really interesting experiences along the way.

I heard that if you awaken your kundalini too quickly it can cause some problems but I don't know too much about the actual process. Never tried the yoga techniques, should be interesting though. I agree youtube is a great resource for this sort of thing. But I can see how an actual mentor would be super helpful in reaching ones goals.

LaurenAus
02-12-2012, 02:42 PM
^i love this!

The_Ecdysiast
02-12-2012, 09:06 PM
For those interested...

After doing some searching, I came across www.yogatech.com w/ Guru Rattana regarding kundalini yoga. I was personally drawn to her, and will be signing up for her online class (7.95 per month or like 71.95 for a whole year w/ unlimited access). But before paying, I'm going to check out some free/intro lessons on her other sponsored site here http://www.kundaliniyoga.org/classes.html.

Afroangel
02-13-2012, 05:28 AM
Maya Fiennes (http://www.mayaspace.com/) is another great Kundalini yoga teacher.

I love her DVDs

LaurenAus
02-16-2012, 08:23 AM
be curious and cautious. ask lots of questions, get lots of different opinions, listen to your intuition. the underlying theme in all of this is upholding yourself in the highest esteem. you expect good, you treat yourself well, you educate yourself, you protect yourself psychically, you're constantly doing what is in your best interest because you are the most important thing to you, and everything else falls into place because everyone else will follow suit and treat you like gold as well.

lauren, meditation can be a lot of things. breathing techniques, asanas...they simply put your focus on something so you aren't focused on yucky things. gardening, stretching, playing with pets, a nice shower...it's all the same pulling your focus back to a happy place.


Hi Cami,
Just one more thing (sorry if this is too off topic) how did you avoid the pain associated with awakening the kundalini that I hear so much about.

Thanks

glitzy
02-18-2012, 11:37 AM
I had a kundalini awakening on accident when I was doing a LOT of bikram yoga and opening up my spine....at first I felt euphoric, fluttery, insane sex drive (NOT like me at all before)

After three months of that I had a period where a lot of old stuff came to the surface and I had to work through it. Had some intense breakdown moments. But if I look back over the last year I've come so far...it's just been very rough on a person like me who didn't used to be so open to change and if you activate your kundalini your life will change! But first it's earthquakes.

I'm still in the middle of all this but I have to say that reading Abraham hicks and making stripping a meditation practice in itself has helped keep my thoughts focused in other areas on my life...and yoga helps feed into the focus at work and it becomes a feedback loop of sorts.

$tripperbabe
02-18-2012, 01:14 PM
Thanks MW for starting this thread, you really do know what you are talking about. I have always love Abraham Hicks and just started dancing again after a long hiatus of several years. I read through this thread just before going in last night and finally got a vip room last night since working this latest club for 3 days. I also made easy money on the floor! Going to keep the momentum going.

High Vibe y'all!! XOXO

$tripperbabe
02-18-2012, 01:16 PM
Thank you for this. I gave it a try for the first time the other night. I set a number in my head, decided that the money was already there waiting for me-- all I had to do was take it. And it worked. What an amazing feeling at the end of the night, realizing that I met my goal. I was elated. Definitely going to continue with this!

I think this is one of the most important things you can do!

dixiewest
02-22-2012, 02:21 PM
Just wanted to add another success story to this thread. I took a lot of the advice here, started listening to Abraham-Hicks writings, reading "Think & Grow Rich", acting and feeling like my money goal was already in my purse, and the two days I've worked, a SUNDAY and MONDAY night, I exceeded that goal. Customers I hadn't realized even remembered me came in, looking specifically for me. And I did this while my voice is almost completely gone and I am physically drained from a sinus infection and while recovering from a co-worker stepping on my toe and accidentally ripping my nail out. I'm amazed!

I was a complete and total skeptic, but, I went in figuring success or not, just thinking positive and feeling better would be awesome. And it worked! Even on my day off, I kept up that thinking, and found a misplaced envelope with $600 in it I thought was gone for good. ^_^

Thanks so much for this thread!

Vyanka
03-01-2012, 11:57 AM
In case anyone is interested in the Kundalini awkening... http://www.kundalini-gateway.org/warn.html

Never mind. I'm not interested in something that you have to take "caution" with. Just me. Sounds cool if done right, but I still wouldn't want to feel at risk.


ETA - I'm working my way on to more positive thinking(with a good book I picked up)along with my form of meditation, it has worked wonderfully for me. I'm trying to stay in a loving/happy, mood/vibe. Challenging, but it's working.

Also, stay away from negative ppl. If you know who think say negative things, quickly change the subject.

atgny
03-04-2012, 01:17 AM
Newbie here. Ladies I am super inspired by women who are fully focued on making that money and emotional well being!

$tripperbabe
03-04-2012, 12:19 PM
Newbie here. Ladies I am super inspired by women who are fully focued on making that money and emotional well being!

Welcome! Love meeting people into the Law of Attraction. Looking forward to seeing more of your posts here :-D

Money_Worshipper
03-04-2012, 12:39 PM
there is something i've been noticing. i guess you could say i'm not born a hustler nor i would want to continue stripping. i don't mind the lap dances but i'm just not into the hustling part and trying to sell dances.

anyway i've noticed that if i didn't focus, visualize and feel of making so much money during the nigh, my hustling mode is off. but if i focused for at least half an hour on feeling so good, so successful and feeling so thankful that i made a certain amount of money before going to work, i usually make my goal unless i started doubting myself.

i don't like being in a club anymore and being a stripper. but i need the money. so i just focused on the money part and let the universe do its magic for me. when i intended my goal, i go to the club and feel like i'm in an alternate reality. hustling is so easy and i get extremely lucky. i get so many men who would spend more than $300 on me for just talking in the VIP and some men i don't have to get naked for. they just wanted cuddling.

in this alternate reality, i'm so focused on reaching my goal and rejection does not seem to faze me. i'm a lot friendlier and know what exact words to say. after i reach my goal, i tend to go back the reality i don't like. i go home.

it's so easy for me now to make more than $1,000 in one night. i'm not a good hustler but good at feeling good before going to work. once you make it a habit of feeling good, things would be much easier.

it feels good in that alternate reality. Abraham HICKS call it inspired action.

atgny
03-04-2012, 12:56 PM
I freaking love it. Loa has worked for me in so many other areas of my life, friends,cars,random money, but stripping will give money and fitness, I cannot waite to get to it!

sunshine16
03-26-2012, 12:36 AM
Guys! This thread is AMAZING! I just started reading How to Heal your Life, and it's helped SO much already. I realized I was really sabotaging myself at work by keeping on thinking that I'd have to deal with assholes and disrespectful men. So, tonight I went in with a money goal, and kept thinking that only nice men will find me. Well, it worked! I only dealt with nice men. The problem is I still made less than half my goal amount..but at my current club, where customers are really pretty shitty, I'll take a night mostly full of easy, nice guys!

Now onto making sure the money goal gets met..I'm going to visualize more guys asking ME for dances and VIP. In fact, I kept picturing it..but unfortunately it didn't pan out tonight. Thats ok though. A mentally stress-less night is definitely needed, since I've been so burnt out.

Pink Chelle
03-26-2012, 11:14 PM
i'm thrilled this was posted. i'm sick of reading all of this "do you think $20 is a reasonable price for a blow job" type of shit on this board. i wish there was a section for "women who know their worth and demand money and don't expect to do much for it"

All too often women don't know their worth.

Pink Chelle
03-26-2012, 11:17 PM
It is best to ALWAYS let a man approach you.

sunshine16
03-27-2012, 12:48 AM
^THATS whats been hard for me. I'll sit at the bar, and look around/approachable, but it rarely happens. I had $0 profit at midnite and really started doubting how i'd even walk out with $1-200, and POOF two VIP rooms in a row. Still didn't leave with what I wanted, however I'm extremely grateful for that, and the money I did make was pretty easy. Need to work on getting the actual AMOUNT of money higher, and being approached.

Money_Worshipper
03-27-2012, 01:33 AM
well what works for me is don't think how you will make the money. visualize and feel that you are counting your money. i used to visualize men coming to ask me for dances when i was new. i realized i was doing this not becuase of money but because of ego based.

there was a blonde girl at work who totally believed that men will come to her (they do! she never hustles) and being a brunette, i was in competition with her because of my ego. i pictured and visualized with so much feeling and passion that men will come to me instead of her. my visions most of the time worked but then i realized how foolish i was.

i changed my goals. instead of focusing on men coming to ask me, my main focus is always making a $1,000 or more easily. i'd be visualizing with so much feeling and passion counting $1,000 on my bed and jumping out of joy. i try to generate so much passion, excitement and gratitude to the universe that i made my money again.

most of the nights, i'd be making that $1,000 or more easily. by easy, i mean either men will approach me for dances or i approach men. either way i get my goal. focus on what you want most and don't ask yourself how you will get there. you will only stop yourself from reaching your goal. wanting to have men approach you does not necessarily mean they will spend a lot of money. i usually get a feeling that i have to ask a certain man and then boom he spends 500 on me.

sunshine16
03-27-2012, 03:36 AM
^Thats true! I was thinking of how i'd make it, and it was getting later and later and the club was DEAD. Then poof- a bachelor party (on a monday?!) came in, and did a vip with one of the groomsmen and paid me to give dances to the bachelor, and when i was coming out of vip another guy was like hey! So..vip? And poof off we went. I still didn't make what I really wanted, however, I'm extremely grateful for what I did make, because I thought i'd be going home with 1-200 with how things were going.

I was also visualizing counting my money and being so happy that I made it. But I know changing thoughts doesnt completely happen over night. I'm doing SO much better though. Like not taking assholes personally, and really not letting them get to me.

But, it does still bother me when, like tonight, I was talking to a guy for a while, and he seemed interested- and then turned me down for a dance. Another girl walks up (and ironically, we look somewhat alike) and in 2 seconds theyre off. I wonder what I did wrong, and I know that doesnt help any.

More visualizing and happy thoughts!

Edit: Last night was WORSE than the night before. I tried to think why..and then thought maybe because I was worried I wouldnt make any money (dead, lots of girls, getting really late) ..but HOW, at that situation, can you NOT worry? I was thinking positively..and nothing. I know it "doesnt happen at once" but..it IS getting frustrating.

Vyanka
03-29-2012, 12:43 PM
Sunshine :wave: Maybe you sat with him a little too long?

Genoveve, I do the same thing with parking spaces. lol.


When nights are a little slow, that's when you have stay away from everyone. That's when girls tend to complain about "how shitty it is". I always have girls complain to me how the shift is. Quite annoying. No one wants to hear anything negative while trying to make money.

Rhaixa
03-30-2012, 03:15 PM
Keep up the great work, ladies!! I took a three month long break from stripping, came back a little nervous but excited and refreshed after the break, and with a whole new perspective. Before, I was doing my best to use sales skills I've learned combined with positive attitude, visualizing, and trying to be everything to everyone- not "too this" or "too that." I did okay, but hated having to hustle and force myself to approach people-- especially when most customers were avoiding eye contact, texting, or chatting with their friends... bleh! But NOW... instead of thinking about $$$, per se, as I find thinking of having to make a certain dollar amount fills me with anxiety and thoughts of "I DON'T have that, I need to GET that" (scarcity mentality), I focus instead on wealth. On the feeling of wealth, how awesome it feels, the quality of it, what it means to me personally- really engaging my emotions & senses with the experience- how does wealth smell, feel, taste, etc.? And I enjoy that experience, which puts me in that all-important feeling good place. And I feel like I begin to exude this radiance in the club of, "I AM your ultimate luxury item!" with a sexy confident look on my face... I feel like a Rolls Royce cruising down the avenue just looking for someone who can afford me. And in the 3 weeks I've been back, I've done better than before I left, with NO hustling required. Men either approach me outright, or give me that "come hither" look. Good sales skills on top of that, like knowing when to suggest "having some more fun" are great for sealing the deal.

Another little trick I use, which may sound cheesy, but hey-- if it works, it works! - Is keeping a little mantra in my head of the attitude I want to project. Currently mine is "Sexy spoiled bombshell". I just repeat that in my mind a few times when I need an attitude boost....

Money_Worshipper
03-31-2012, 11:33 AM
I just had to come on and express even MORE gratefulness for the LOA and threads like this. I've been really drumming this stuff into the heads of my two best friends(strippers) and now they are convinced and constantly applying it at work--and it's working! My one friend in particular was in a major slump for a few months and now that she has been practicing the LOA at work she keeps getting these random customers at the last minute of her shift that make her day. My other friend and I have been attracting customers that give us a lot of money for stupid simple shit too.

woooow i loooove it!

kittycat724
03-31-2012, 12:06 PM
newbie here! I've been reading this thread everyday before and i've been trying to stay positive at work but i can't seem to get the LOA down. my club gets very busy and i know that it's possible to make money but i dont know why i can't make money, any advice would be greatly appreciated!

$tripperbabe
03-31-2012, 01:16 PM
Kittycat724 have you looked into Abraham Hicks, Michael Losier? www.abraham-hickslawofattraction.com/ http://www.michaellosier.com/

They have a lot of free info. Paying attention to what you are telling yourself throughout the day and acknowledge and be grateful for the positive thoughts you have. Love them. They are seeds you are planting to grow just like a garden you water. When you hear yourself speaking with self doubt those are the beliefs that would benefit you to change them. Sometimes affirmations work, just telling yourself the opposite thought in a positive way for instance you can say to yourself throughout the day or write this 10 times for instance: All the money I need is flowing to me today.

Sometimes we can't believe our affirmations, long standing beliefs are sometimes difficult to change. The magic is in ALLOWING. If i have a self doubting thought that I want to change, and the statement above just does not feel right, you can say: I am in the process of allowing all the money I need to flow to me today.

It's not always easy to believe something that does not appear true because every time you tell yourself the affirmation and you don't believe it, your mind races to provide proof that it is not true and you end up telling yourself a lot of negative things all over again. If you say "I am in the process of..." it is one way your mind can ALLOW the possibility to arrive.

LOA teaches that we already have everything we want and need and that all we are is love. There is no such thing as lack or limitation. It's like a water hose. If you step on it you block the flow. It's our negative thoughts that block the flow of what's already here. On a spiritual level the Infinite Mind or whatever you choose to call it, is always giving we just have to allow it. So when you go into work with the mindset of I am abundant, I am a money magnet, customers naturally want to give me their money and are very generous with me. If you don't believe it you can say "I don't know how I'm so abundant but I am. I don't know how I'm such a money magnet, but I am. I don't know why customers want to give me their money but they do. I don't know why men are so generous with me, but they are. Your mind will start to accept these as truths. When you start seeing successes, and you will, write them down in a separate notebook or piece of paper. Keep that as evidence and read it to yourself when you have doubt again. The mind does not know what is real it knows what you tell it. When you believe the action is already taken place it becomes reality. This is the law of quantum physics and proven by scientists. Greg Braden has some great stuff on this. This explains everything very simply and easily. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qlYouSBma0c

kittycat724
03-31-2012, 01:30 PM
thank you so much, yes i looked up abraham hicks LOA but not the other. I'm goin to try this again tonight and see if any luck strikes. Will report back tomorrow :)

kittycat724
04-01-2012, 09:08 AM
well...i really tried last night and walked with $7!!! :(

$tripperbabe
04-01-2012, 11:50 AM
Did you look at the links? There is a lot of information there and Youtube videos on Abraham Hicks where you can listen to talks given on money that may explain it better than I am. Keep practicing the art of allowing. LOA responds to your vibration. If you made $7 and you feel grateful and celebrate by saying "Hey I just made $7! Maybe it's not a lot but it's a step in the right direction." the Universe will respond by giving you more of what you want and less of what you don't want. If you say to yourself, look I only made $7 this sucks, LOA will still agree with you by reflecting more of the same. It does not know the difference, it does not judge. It just does what you tell it to do. What you believe. Do you have any conflicting beliefs around money? If you say "I allow money to come to me in new and creative ways" but then really believe that you can't or don't deserve money than LOA/Universe will get conflicting signals. It's like driving with the brakes on. It takes practice to develop a strong intention without doubt, where you have the expectation without fear, but once you do it's so worth it.

sunshine16
04-01-2012, 12:30 PM
Sunshine :wave: Maybe you sat with him a little too long?

Genoveve, I do the same thing with parking spaces. lol.


When nights are a little slow, that's when you have stay away from everyone. That's when girls tend to complain about "how shitty it is". I always have girls complain to me how the shift is. Quite annoying. No one wants to hear anything negative while trying to make money.
HAI! :) I miss you!

Thats true with the girls bitching its a shitty night etc. I kind of LIKE hearing it though, because then I'm just all thinking to myself "its not sucking for me!"

And it WORKED friday night!! It was a solidly decent money night, and I literally did NOTHING. Got showered on stage, and the 'dances' i did were the guys massaging me, because i manifested it that way. The cr I did, the guy was SO so nice and didn't lay a finger on me, and tipped me $100 up front. Everyone was nice and giving me money and it was awesome!

So now that I saw proof, I'm going to try my damn well hardest to make that happen every night :D

$tripperbabe
04-02-2012, 02:35 PM
LOL Don't edit, it's great just as it is!

charise
04-03-2012, 09:00 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPPGDfuk8aE&feature=related not sure if this is posted but here its oprah talking about the secret :)

kittycat724
04-05-2012, 01:11 PM
new day ladies! I went to the gym and repeated over and over that I love myself. I also thought of all the good things that are in my life right now that i am truly grateful. So ready to make some money tonight!!!! :)