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MissAdriana
01-30-2013, 08:05 PM
To the doubters. I'm also married to someone who will give a little and expect a lot, and who also will take things he gives back in a heartbeat. My decision was to marry him, I'm working on eventually freeing myself. But, this is the same guy who spends money on lotto tickets, and is asking, asking, asking and is 90% of the time NEVER happy with what he has. This same person has an extremely important job, virtually no bills, money for food, rent, car payment, insurance, the list goes on. He's always complaining and though he's watched 'the secret' he pretty much breaks one of the biggest rules on the movie (if not all). "Don't contradict yourself". You can't speak winning 300 million dollars in a lottery and then complaining about how poor you are, or what you don't have. THIS fact alone is why he is NEVER happy as well as his stinginess, and unwillingness to forgive. I'm not trying to diss my husband, but he's someone I thought I knew and on his bad days continues to turn me off with chronic complaining/unhappiness. His energy is literally destroying him and causing him to have bad luck. Notice I said "him" and not myself. I hate bad mouthing him, but I'm also an honest person. I love him, but I know his attitude is going to be the end of us. I know I'll look back in a few years and realize he hasn't changed but I'll be a much better spot in life. Sometimes we fall for the okie doke. Now, I'm speaking into the Universe that I find my camera today lol. I bet I find it! This really works!
It took me a long time to learn this. After reading practically everything regarding LOA and watching many seminars, even studying texts I know what you say *out loud* is a HUGE part of manifesting! It's not enough to just think about what you want, you have to believe it is possible for you, and is happening right now. You can never doubt it. It's not always easy work and certain topics will be harder than others depending on the person. If you can change your beliefs you can change your life - no matter what it is. I've just been 1 of those people who has a hard time changing them, as many techniques that I've tried. I'm always willing to try more - and nobody should give up on the LOA until they've manifested their dream life!! I'm 100% positive you can use LOA to turn your relationship around, if that's what you want.
summerbre
02-01-2013, 03:06 AM
Ahhh ... Yeah, OK, I'm a wee bit intoxicated (oops broke a stripper rule!) BUT... The weirdest thing happened to me tonight!!
This was the first night I really tried to "practice" the law of attraction. I'm usually very positive, but I'm never thinking at work with a certain dollar amount in my mind. I *really* needed money tonight, though, and I kicked off the day shift with a good regular so after that I kept thinking -- OK, I'm going to stay, and I will make $1000 (which I've never done at this club!) then I'll go home.
Well, I left after making close to $1,000, kind of discouraged because it took a while (I basically worked a double!), and when I counted my money I noticed I was missing a hundred dollar bill. No where to be found! Fuck me, there goes the law of attraction, right?
...Then I realized, I forgot to get my money from our VIP hostess from the private rooms. Small consolation, it wouldn't make up for the $100 I lost...
EXCEPT they accidentally put me down for a WHOLE EXTRA HOUR in VIP that I didn't do!!! I told the VIP hostess (wtf I'm way too honest) and she goes... Oops... Well here's your money anyway. I walked out with over $1,000, for the first time at this club.
THIS SHIT IS AMAZING!!!!
misspthesweetesttaboo
02-02-2013, 12:46 AM
A "loa" example related to us...
"How to get a man to do whatever you want"
Buttafly Jones
http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=tmI7M9w6zjs&feature=youtube_gdata&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DtmI7M9w6zjs%26feature%3 Dyoutube_gdata
I have started reading this tread, especially the mantra before work it really gets me in a good mood for work & I actually really enjoy being there now. I have have a good night every night since I discovered this, thank you for sharing it money worshiper,
I am so thankful for the money I am making, and thankful I am blessed with the body, looks and confidence to do this job
Thank you xx
summerbre
02-02-2013, 07:48 AM
A "loa" example related to us...
"How to get a man to do whatever you want"
Buttafly Jones
http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=tmI7M9w6zjs&feature=youtube_gdata&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DtmI7M9w6zjs%26feature%3 Dyoutube_gdata
Thank you for this! I am having lunch today with a potential SD... I've never done the whole SD/SB thing but this guy seems sweet, has visited me in the club a few times and I get really good vibes from him. So I'm giving it a try! This was perfect pre-lunch prep. You rock!!
SexxiSunshine
02-09-2013, 10:26 AM
I have been reading this thread & consitently making over 1g a night. I used to go into work dreading it and wondering, "how am I ever gonna make enough for x or x," now I go into work excited and grateful. As a result, my thinking has gone from, "Ugh. This sucks," to, "I'm so happy! I am making so much money, men love me, and I love men!"
I believe that small change in thinking has changed my vibes and energy, significantly. I constantly attract guys & lately so many guys come up to my stage just because I'm the "funnest" girl there. I truly enjoy my job now and plan on making over 3grand in 3 days. Tonight my goal is 2grand. Hey, it's totally possible with how good of a mood I'm in today. :-)
misspthesweetesttaboo
02-09-2013, 11:00 PM
Good luck, be careful girl
xoxoroxie
02-10-2013, 03:37 PM
You guys are motivating me so much! At first I was scared about stripping, now I've changed my thought process and focused on the positive, I'm excited and happy even if I'll see/experience some undesirable things. I tried my clothes on and feel sexy and confident.. Tomorrow I'm auditioning and I really want to start working the same night.. we'll see! I plan to use my enthusiasm (enthusiasm is ALSO a GREAT way to attract money too! it's infectious and rubs off on people.. I've worked in sales) to do a great dance + I need the money! If I start working I'm going to apply this .. I need to make only about a grand by early March to pay for a trip.. that including about $250 in the next couple weeks to book my flight I'm sure it'll be doable! $250 is nothing for stripping.. excited! :)
Also.. I'm gonna be applying this to my love life as well.. I've been having the most horrendous thoughts and its ruining things.. gonna turn a new leaf and be appreciative and thankful and not scared, just like with stripping..
zivlet
02-10-2013, 05:15 PM
Not much to say about this, other than ,IT FUCKING WORKS! :D :D
arielbriel
02-11-2013, 02:38 AM
Just got "think and grow rich" on my iphone for 99cents :)
idgaf_luvr
03-31-2013, 12:28 AM
Reality Transurfing could be helpful to anyone interested. It's about balancing your thoughts = sending out positive waves = getting back good results (or something like that).
whirlerz
03-31-2013, 12:33 AM
Reality Transurfing could be helpful to anyone interested. It's about balancing your thoughts = sending out positive waves = getting back good results (or something like that).
Sounds great, where do you get that from?
idgaf_luvr
03-31-2013, 01:06 AM
Sounds great, where do you get that from?
You can google "reality transurfing pdf" or "16 laws of transurfing pdf" I don't remember the exact location I downloaded mine. It was some months ago, and I found it while I was deleting files on my computer. I feel it has been helpful for the last week that I've been reading up on it.
MissFoxxx
04-06-2013, 03:12 PM
Money_Worshipper thanks so much for this thread! I was really feeling burnt out last night and read this before work, took a break before getting ready to sit in my backyard and think about everything in my life I am lucky to have, and how happy I am right now
I normally stress about getting to work on time, even though I work at a big club with no set schedule. Last night I said "I don't have to rush or be stressed, because whenever I get there I will make money"
I kept thinkin the mantras "How am I so lucky to make money so easy" "I am so lucky that men ask me for dances" "I am so lucky to have so much fun at work"
I barely "hustled", I just focused on talking to guys that seemed smiling or fun, trying to do what felt easy. I immediately sold a string of dances, then had guys coming up to me asking for dances all night, then I scored a long VIP at the end. I made $500 with what felt like no effort! My last shift I made $100 and felt exhausted and frustrated after hustling hard all night. I am going to continue focusing on the vortex and feeling how easy and fun my job is now!
ExoticBeauty4U
04-06-2013, 07:09 PM
Ive been doing soooooo good with this stuff saying my affirmations etc. I posted in here before about not being able to make a 1000 and up and well Ive gotten pretty close and definitely consistent with an increase in my earnings. But then Easter weekend, I had the worst day! I went home with 23 bucks and attracted assholes and just annoying fucks. Afterwards, I felt like shit and and just been in a funk, I was already burnt out (been working at SC 4 days a week and camming a few hours everyday)even though I been doing fairly well. But reading your post MissFox helped me realize I need get back in the vortex. Gonna take a week or two off from the club and just cam. This stuff definitely does work, just hard to be positive all the time:( How do you other ladies keep your spirits up all the time??
MissFoxxx
04-07-2013, 07:54 PM
Last night was AWESOME again! I went into work visualizing walking out with $500, stayed in a good mood, and made $650! I just tried to channel good feelings and joy and have fun all night. Guys were asking ME for dances, and I got tipped $20s on stage and extra for dances all night. I made over a G this weekend in two 5 hour shifts, and that hasn't happened in a LONG time... This thread has totally turned around my stripper burnout! I was going to work thinking about how hard I have to hustle and stress to walk out with $200, and that was what kept happening, but working the tips on this thread I'm making twice as much with no stress! It takes a lot of effort to stay in a good mental zone but I am exited to keep trying.
miss1dancypants
04-08-2013, 11:52 AM
Money_Worshipper thanks so much for this thread! I was really feeling burnt out last night and read this before work, took a break before getting ready to sit in my backyard and think about everything in my life I am lucky to have, and how happy I am right now
I normally stress about getting to work on time, even though I work at a big club with no set schedule. Last night I said "I don't have to rush or be stressed, because whenever I get there I will make money"
I kept thinkin the mantras "How am I so lucky to make money so easy" "I am so lucky that men ask me for dances" "I am so lucky to have so much fun at work"
I barely "hustled", I just focused on talking to guys that seemed smiling or fun, trying to do what felt easy. I immediately sold a string of dances, then had guys coming up to me asking for dances all night, then I scored a long VIP at the end. I made $500 with what felt like no effort! My last shift I made $100 and felt exhausted and frustrated after hustling hard all night. I am going to continue focusing on the vortex and feeling how easy and fun my job is now!
not sure if someone has mentioned this yet in this thread but i wonder if this explains "beginner's luck"... when you first get to this industry, you are so excited for work and so grateful for every tip and dance you get.... for me it lasted a couple months before i started getting negative and then see my earnings flatten and go down a little.
MissFoxxx
04-08-2013, 03:31 PM
not sure if someone has mentioned this yet in this thread but i wonder if this explains "beginner's luck"... when you first get to this industry, you are so excited for work and so grateful for every tip and dance you get.... for me it lasted a couple months before i started getting negative and then see my earnings flatten and go down a little.
I totally agree with you! I remember my first shift I worked at a club with no lap dances, I made $70 in stage tips, and was so pumped! Now if I make that I want to cry! I think the gratitude makes you feel better about work, and guys can pick up on it.
not sure if someone has mentioned this yet in this thread but i wonder if this explains "beginner's luck"... when you first get to this industry, you are so excited for work and so grateful for every tip and dance you get.... for me it lasted a couple months before i started getting negative and then see my earnings flatten and go down a little.
This is so true! I appreciated money so much more when I first started than I do now. I dont even say thanks for $ they give me now, I just take and go.lol. Unless its alot of course.
ShesSoSusie
04-26-2013, 12:41 PM
Hey! I really liked your post about the law of attraction. I have watched that documentary about the secret and found it very interesting as well. I thought it was pretty cool that you can focus on how much money you really want to make and it become reality.
sorsi
04-27-2013, 09:56 AM
this thread inspired me in kind of a different way- I really want to be done with dancing, it doesn't feel right for me anymore, so I posted on here to get some advice about going back temporarily or not. Then I found this thread, and realized my attitude and mindset have been all wrong! I've been dreading going back to the club, worrying about whether or not I can find a job in my field, thinking negatively that no one would want to hire me...totally the opposite of how you're supposed to think to attract what you want!
I'm going to read the rest of the links/watch the videos you've posted in here, and I just wanted to say thank you and that what you've posted about how to align your thoughts and beliefs with LoA is helping me too. I especially like the part about how to speak affirmations even when you have a hard time believing them, i.e. "I don't know how this works but I AM attracting to me what I want". For me right now what i want is not a specific amount in the club, but the process is the same. :)
Leeshalovely
06-10-2013, 02:59 PM
Love this! Attitude is definitely important to any kind of success.
Please post more positivity money worshiper!
Love your mantra
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Flickdreams
06-11-2013, 02:57 AM
I have been following The Art of Feminine Presence since August last year, it was developed by an American woman, Rachael Jayne (http://www.theyinproject.com/Yin/).
The program helps you create abundance and promises to (with your commitment and selfbelief) " * Develop a strong, magnetic presence that attracts the
attention you want: personally and professionally.
* More fully understand how connecting to your feminine energy
helps you attract and keep the intimate partnership you desire.
* How to be more authentic about what you are feeling and how
you want to communicate that. "
.....let alone the money I have been making every night I work (I have had one night since August last year in which I made under $700), the changes in my personal life have been staggering. PM if you want details (only SW members).
Union Jackie
06-23-2013, 03:16 PM
This is an *excellent* thread.
I have not been on SW for a very long time. I started getting into LOA last year when a friend intro'd me to 'The Secret'. I really focused on it for the first few moths and I was bursting with positivity, seeing great things manifest in my life. I then stopped and it waned as did all the good I was accruing. I have been getting back into it again. The method works!
But thank you Money Worshipper for the thread, it is so so inspiring, and it is wonderful to read of women supporting each other in trying these life-changing techniques! I start tomorrow after a long hiatus from dancing and this is just what I need to read. Thanks again!
Saoirse13
07-03-2013, 03:54 PM
Long time lurker, first time poster. Going to try this out tonight!! I have a set amount in mind and I've been thinking all sorts of positive thoughts. Ill let you guys know how it goes!!
Saoirse13
07-04-2013, 10:59 PM
I must be doing something wrong. I've been trying to stay positive the last two nights and I've actually watched my money SHRINK! What am I doing wrong??
its the 4th of july, where I am at $$ has gone down severely because of it so maybe there just is no real $$ to be made. Also, Ive noticed at some clubs I work at not all of them but some having a positive attitude doesnt get me paid. I actually have been to clubs where if i am a bitch I can bank but when I am nice I lose a ton of $$, idk y this is but it just is at some places.
Saoirse13
07-04-2013, 11:17 PM
It's 4th of July here too and goddamn if that's not making it the worst night of the year to work!! We've had about 10 customers here all night and I've only sold 3 dances. It's frustrating the hell outta me!
Maybe you're right; maybe the money is just going away. Like dancers everywhere are making worse money. That makes me sad.
Yea, thats y i didnt work tonight. I worked last night and omg there were like 10 guys who came through the door at my club and they were all dicks except one guy, without him I would made like 60$, so bad! I hear it will be a slow weekend as well but then its supposed to pick back up after that. I was just doing fine last week so I hope it really does cuz this slowness suuuucks!
Honey Ryder
07-05-2013, 09:16 AM
I am traveling tonight to dance...hopefully it is busier where I am at. I'd skip out, but to broke to not try...ugh
Honey Ryder
07-05-2013, 11:44 AM
yes i am!
^^goodluck! is it your first trip or u been lardy?
Honey Ryder
07-05-2013, 11:50 AM
I've been up there....do you know if they usually do okay for the 4th wknd? Not sure if everyone will be in the ozarks for the wknd...or what.
I really dont remember but Ive heard most places are gunna be slow for this weekend n pik bak up again after. YOur right alot of pple will be in the ozarks, most people I know from there are in the lake this weekend so i wouldnt expect it to be the best, no but it still may be ok.
Honey Ryder
07-05-2013, 12:00 PM
Probably will just make it a long night shift...thank you
Yup, could be but u know the pple left in town will all be out this weekend so it may be good, good luck! I am not expecting much on this night just cant wait for this weekend to be over and bak to the $$!lbs
Flickdreams
07-05-2013, 11:28 PM
its the 4th of july, where I am at $$ has gone down severely because of it so maybe there just is no real $$ to be made. Also, Ive noticed at some clubs I work at not all of them but some having a positive attitude doesnt get me paid. I actually have been to clubs where if i am a bitch I can bank but when I am nice I lose a ton of $$, idk y this is but it just is at some places.
Maybe, making an assumption about how you feel here- its because you authentically feel 'bitchy' which connects you with your Tantric energy (life energy and the source of abundance). Notice how when you feel bitchy your body tingles and your breathing is stronger.
I am no expert on Tantra but channeling that "take no prisoners/Bitch" energy into focussing on being in the moment (and desire for money in this case) can work wonders.
In my experience being a "bitch' doesn't translate to being mean as such, just energised, authentically present in the moment, and enforcing my boundaries.
At these clubs even if i dont feel bitchy and actually wanna party and have fun I have to force myself to look bitchy and as if im bored as hell and its like guys see this and think "id like to make her night" lol then they do. It al`ways w`orked at one club, since then ive not found a club it works at but some clubs I can just tell the guys dont want u to be all smiley and happy its like its a turnoff and they dont feel they have to spend to make u happy. But ur right about the feeling bitchy thing, it does chanel your energy in such a way to be on a $$ makin mission. There are different bitchy definitions/characters i play, ha. depending on the guy/time but most of the time yes i am not a complete asshole or "bitch" unless they have gone too far or pissed me off and the wallet is empty.:)
Flickdreams
07-06-2013, 01:50 AM
^ We've all gone too far at times- and that can be delicious!
Honey Ryder
07-06-2013, 10:41 AM
Fairly slow night, luckily I was able to sell a suite from a custie who came up to me...yay.
xcatxbrownx
07-25-2013, 05:32 PM
***double post
xcatxbrownx
07-25-2013, 05:45 PM
You use the LOA whether or not you think you are. It is a basic law of the universe. Whether or not you use it to your advantage is up entirely to you :)
When I am in the right vibe, my money-making powers are intense. I made $156 in the first 45 minutes of work Wednesday night... then I let my vibe slip and ended up leaving around midnight with $360 after tip out... No complaints here, though :)
Odette
08-02-2013, 10:24 AM
I'm not done reading this whole thread yet but I just wanted to say thank you sooooooo much for posting this. I've been having the most horrendous summer of my life income wise, and I've worked two shifts focussing solely on being positive and being sure that I will make money and both times I got customers who spent over 2 bills on my within an hour of stepping on the floor! I've been doing well even though the club has been dead this week. This shit really does work, and all the positive thinking is making me actually *like* work more...like I am stoked to be going in tonight contrary to how I've been feeling lately. So thank you so much for turning around my summer, you're the best keep it up!
^^ I think your right, and when u say "bitch" I know what u mean. It seems not to work in certain parts of the country tho like southern states unless its with an out of towner.. idk why
ExoticBeauty4U
08-10-2013, 08:52 PM
Curious to know how LOA is working for everyone with the summer slump....
Flickdreams
08-10-2013, 11:50 PM
Its Winter slump in Australia :) You guys can at least go to the beach ;) The only thing which holds me back is my own selfbelief.
summerbre
08-27-2013, 09:06 AM
I'm not sure where to put this, so I'm putting it here, since it kind of fits in with LoA. I basically cast a spell on a regular at my club last night and I'm pretty baffled by it, LOL
He's one of the guys that's been coming in for over a decade, sits at bar, drinks, and will occasionally send the bar tender or another dancer to tip $5-10 on stage, but never spends any more than that on girls. Usually I'll go over to thank him and maybe have a drink if it's slow, since he's often one of the first customers in the door for the evening - helps me ease into stripper-mode.
Last week he was drunk and extremely rude to me, so I was anxious last night because I figured he'd be there, and I didn't want to deal with any confrontation.
So, my mom is kind of like, classic California hippie, into Deepak Chopra, Oneness movement participant, active anti-GMO crusader type of lady. A while ago, she told me about this Hawaiian thing called Ho'oponopono which wikipedia calls an "ancient practice of reconciliation." Basically you picture the person you're in conflict with and you just say in your head "I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me," and just think positively on that mantra. I actually think it's really fucking goofy... but as I was driving to work I was nervous he would be there, and suddenly I was Ho'oponoponoing to try and calm my nerves (I hate conflict).
First thing he did when he got to the club was send $10 to my stage, so I went over to say hello. Immediately he, very sincerely, said "I'm so sorry for offending you last week. I really enjoy talking to you, and I know I upset you last time - I was being an ass." I forgave him, got a drink, and before I got up to leave he gave me $200 as a "peace offering" and thanked me for sitting with him. Usually he's kind of a grump, this was SO out of character!!
I feel like a fucking voodoo witch now or something. I've never in my 9 months at this club known him to spend that kind of money on a dancer, everyone calls him a cheap ass. I just had to share that story.
whirlerz
08-27-2013, 09:19 AM
Wow, that's GREAT & inspiring - btw, what's GMO though? I was looking at mags in the grocery store, & I came across Law of Attraction magazine, really good articles in it. There's a web site too however, I'm in a hurry right now..but hey great, thanks for posting this!