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SimoneGray
07-01-2014, 02:41 PM
Been properly practicing LOA for the last two weeks. So many good things. Even been attracting shopping discounts everywhere!
Myathemaid
07-13-2014, 10:07 AM
Hey ladies! First, I must thank whoever started this post. When I first started dancing I struggled like bad. My first day I made $11 type bad. I had just graduated from massage therapy school and didn't plan on working for at least 6 months until certification. However, my bills were still in full effect & I found myself at amatuer night lol. I'm very attractive and sensual. And I learned quick being georgeous doesn't make money flood in your wallet. Also I started in the summer and it was super slow 0_o
After about 3 months of only make $50-200 a night I figured dancing was not for me. I needed to make $$$ and make it Fast! I came across this thread and started applying the law of attraction consistently & each week I experience increase while working less hours! my numbers went from $200 nights to $350 avg then I found myself never going home with less than $500. It would be dead empty in the club and I would be one of the only girls happy having fun selling table dances that are $20 and getting $600 in tips. Going home with $900+ after tip outs! Seriously ladies, this stuff works.
I used to research ALL day long how I can make more money because I saw other girls in VIP all night and effortlessly making sales. I wanted to be that girl and that's who I became. I've become so confident selling is now second nature. What I've learned tho is everything is energy. Money is energy. And you are energy. You must have inside you the feeling that attracts money. I learned from Abraham Hicks. That feeling is gratitude. Being thankful for every dollar you have. And every dollar you don't have. Because it's out there and it's yours waiting for you to be open up to recieve it.
So I realized after researching besides hustle hut there's not many resources to help US exotic dancers and waitresses to learn how to attract money. & now I'm spreading the word. All over amazon! I wrote a book to show exactly how I did it. I want everyone to have fun and make money inside of the club and outside of the club. When I started applying the law of attraction in the club I noticed my everyday life experience was jus better. My days are happier and more fun. Then I noticed I was recieving 3x that amount I was making in the club from other people. Not sugar daddy's or clients. Simply people who would give me money for feeding their spirit. I began getting more opportunities to make money and it began to surpass my income in the club.
Thing is ladies I know you love your job now but you won't be dancing forever. You want to use the money you make in this industry to make money doing something else that is in your hearts desire. & you can do that & I know you will do that. Make as much money as possible now and retire young!! In this industry you know you control how much you make & after I seen girls cashing out for over $10k I knew for sure this is the right place to be. We can make UNLIMITED amounts of money when we tune our brains to knowing it's possible!
I titled my book specifically for US "37 Hour Money Magic! For Waitresses, Exotic Dancers & Bartenders" on amazon kindle. It's a eBible for money.
I want you to be successful. I want you to travel the world!! I want you to live your dreams!! And also I want you to have $1,000+ nights and share them on this post. It's soooo inspirational!! It's how I got started. & I am soooo thankful!
Thanks ladies for reading. You are being richly rewarded for taking control of your life. If no one else has told you lately. I am so PROUD of you ALL. You're so powerful. You are a woman who can create literally anything you want in life. I love you all. Now make some $$$!!
Flickdreams
07-18-2014, 04:49 AM
^ thankyou for contributing your positive expeience to the thread, but please keep any sales pitches in the appropriate forum. there is no direct advertising allowed in the main threads.
Myathemaid
07-18-2014, 02:49 PM
Please excuse me. This is my second post on this site. My experiences have been so profound I'm so passionate about sharing. I have no intentions of offending anyone. However, Thank you for letting me know there are sales forums.
FoxyLadyMiami
07-21-2014, 04:31 PM
Hi, I just want to say - wow! I joined this site today (not a dancer - selling fur bikinis) and have been blown away by this thread and this site in general. So positive! I'm taking notes... Haven't actually finished reading this thread yet but will do.
Thanks!
Foxy Lady Miami xxx
FoxyLadyMiami
07-21-2014, 04:32 PM
Hi, I just want to say - wow! I joined this site today (not a dancer - selling fur bikinis) and have been blown away by this thread and this site in general. So positive! I'm taking notes... Haven't actually finished reading this thread yet but will do.
Thanks!
Foxy Lady Miami xxx
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FoxyLadyMiami
07-27-2014, 12:35 PM
Joseph Murphy in 'The Power of Your Subconscious Mind' points out that if you say affirmations and really don't believe them it can work against you big time, so he suggests saying 'wealth' and 'success' to yourself a lot, particularly before going to sleep. I suggest EFT for the stress.
Good luck! x
FoxyLadyMiami
07-27-2014, 12:39 PM
Glad to hear it helped you, I read the book and didn't find it worked for me, also she mostly seems to sell courses making other people coaches these days. So that suggests to me that what she's teaching isn't working for most people.
QuinnBella
09-02-2014, 10:09 PM
Bumpity bump bump! :)
misslovely88
09-17-2014, 07:38 PM
hi everybody.i tried to practice the law of attraction and my mind doesn't seem to buy into it properly.i tried to practice quite a few things recommended in this thread and i get excited and motivated to book shifts in my local club thinking that i'm gonna make bank,but when i'm at work i find my mind goes blank and i'm bored with customers and just want to go home.The next day i wake up and think what the hell was that,everything seems unreal…like i don't know why i didn't succeed,i feel even arrogant because i was sure i've got what it takes to have a good night.I'm not sure maybe i need to go to hypnotist to tell me what my freaking problem/obstacle is lol.I been googling these things now and found 'exotic feng shui'.there is a book called 'Feng shui for strippers' on amazon heres the link has anybody got thoughts on that? i'd buy it if i wasn't so low on money just now,i kinda need to want it a bit more,so anyone on here practiced feng shui and can recommend it? thanks
NightGoddess
09-22-2014, 11:32 AM
Amazing thread! I am always using these principles to make money. You have to be present in the moment and remember what you are there for. I am usually a top earner, at any club choose to work at. This idea has definitely sold to me the power of my own mind and how to use it to my advantage.
wednesday86
09-26-2014, 06:57 AM
LOA works!!!!!
For the past week, instead of simply focusing on money, I have been trying to manifest the kinds of customers that I want. I don't enjoy hopping from customer to customer. I don't like being grabbed and putting up with drunk assholes. To me, having a wonderful, sweet GENTLEMANLY customer is just as important as how much $ I make. They don't burn me out and I can work longer.
I started thinking about my favorite kinds of customers last Sunday...Someone who would effortlessly buy dances without a ton of "convincing", who would spend a lot on me, tip well, and just let me relax. I *did* manifest that customer Sunday, but he was on his way to the airport and only had time for 3 dances. He still tipped generously and was a pleasure to dance for.
Last night I focused again on finding my ideal customer but also making my $ goals. My goal was $300 on a slow Thursday shift. Up until 12am I had only made $1. It was dead. Then I talked to a Turkish gentleman who all the other girls were ignoring for some reason. After a little chit chat he ended up buying 16 dances and tipping me on top of them. He spent so much cash on me that his credit card company put his card on fraud alert! He had to call them to withdraw more cash and keep going. Just like my Sunday gentleman, he was completely respectful, sweet, kept his hands OFF my naughty bits and just spent the whole time telling me how beautiful I am.
You can manifest anything you want, and it is amazing. Sorry for the long post, just had to share! Awesome thread. :)
whirlerz
09-26-2014, 04:55 PM
That's GREAT Wed. thanks
Vyanka
09-27-2014, 09:21 PM
I don't mean to bring any negativity to this thread but has anybody ever had this NOT work? The reason I ask is because
I started applying the laws of attraction before I went to work and was on a role for awhile, and then I went to work at this weird lapdance only club for a few days and one day it was only me and one girl working for an entire shift. I as usual, applied the Laws of attraction before my shift and EVERY Single customer who walked through the door wanted the other girl. Literally ALL OF THEM did. This was the only night in my five years of dancing where I didn't make a single dollar.
When she was busy I tried to talk to the available customers they all said no thank you because they were waiting for her to become available. It was weird. After that I guess I lost faith in it and stopped trying, and whenever I did try I can't help but to remember that night in the back of my head so I guess that hinders it from working......
I'd like to be able to believe in it again because it did work for me for awhile but does anyone have any advice as far as pushing that one bad night out, and has anyone ever had anything like this happen? Thanks :)
Hmmm... maybe try a new club?
Glamourmilf
09-27-2014, 10:27 PM
^^ I know exactly where You're coming from. it's like I would need a lobotomy or something to be able to change some beliefs I have from some experiences I've had that leave a sour taste.
wednesday86
09-28-2014, 08:21 AM
I don't mean to bring any negativity to this thread but has anybody ever had this NOT work? The reason I ask is because
I started applying the laws of attraction before I went to work and was on a role for awhile, and then I went to work at this weird lapdance only club for a few days and one day it was only me and one girl working for an entire shift. I as usual, applied the Laws of attraction before my shift and EVERY Single customer who walked through the door wanted the other girl. Literally ALL OF THEM did. This was the only night in my five years of dancing where I didn't make a single dollar.
When she was busy I tried to talk to the available customers they all said no thank you because they were waiting for her to become available. It was weird. After that I guess I lost faith in it and stopped trying, and whenever I did try I can't help but to remember that night in the back of my head so I guess that hinders it from working......
I'd like to be able to believe in it again because it did work for me for awhile but does anyone have any advice as far as pushing that one bad night out, and has anyone ever had anything like this happen? Thanks :)
I've had similar experiences in clubs that I found out later were drug infested, extras infested, horrible places to work. Maybe you were being 'pushed out' of that place for whatever reason. I've also felt myself being pushed out of the city where I currently live. Nothing has worked out and we are now living with my in laws because we couldn't afford to pay our rent. Once it clicked that we just don't belong here, and we decided to move, things have been so much easier and more peaceful. Our relationship has improved and more $ has come to us. Sometimes the universe (or whatever) can say "No. This is wrong for you."
sophiesecrets
09-29-2014, 08:28 PM
Positive Thinking has changed my life... even if things arent going right, i just pretend, i say my mantra and i swear to god things get better... something to be said for mind over matter... and where did i discover this... stripperweb... free pdf's floating all over the web... the books that have been mentioned here...
I have just stopped worrying, and i know what i need will be provided... I used to sweat every dime i made... worrying that i wouldnt make enough, or what my placement was, or if i looked ok... anxiety that would just kill my mood. I wake up happy now... ready to start my day, ive imagined it all in my mind the night before, how smoothly it will go and how easy it will be to make money... i havent been let down yet...
there really is something to this...
ps, i dont make a mint everyday or anything but i average out nicely and it seems to get bigger each month... plus im happier <3
Vyanka
09-29-2014, 11:43 PM
Wednesday 86 and Genoveve, said it better than I did. Sorry. I said it in short, but that's what I thought. Your money is else where. Hopefully. Good luck KaraLynn.
calinacain
09-30-2014, 04:41 PM
The Law of Attraction concept sounds crazy but it's SO. VERY. REAL. I was consistently the top earner in my club before I retired using LOA, plus some other behavioral things (e.g. eye contact, projecting confidence, etc). And it didn't stop there. I paid off A TON of debt, retired in 2010 to go back to school, and in May, I'll be a pharmacist, using the same type of thinking. In fact, it's worked so well that I've made an online business out of it. A community of people specifically dedicated to using their mind to bring about change.
The thing to remember is that you have to BELIEVE BEYOND DOUBT that the money is going to come to you. Sometimes, people don't realize it's a practice and has to be reinforced to work.
NightGoddess
10-01-2014, 01:39 PM
Yes, calina!! Positive thinking is a lifetyle and mind overhaul! You can't just say "I'm going to make $1000 tonight" and then start worrying about how it's going to happen and have that money come to you. You have to know - and, really, not care - that it will without any doubt.
sophiesecrets
10-01-2014, 03:59 PM
Yes, calina!! Positive thinking is a lifetyle and mind overhaul! You can't just say "I'm going to make $1000 tonight" and then start worrying about how it's going to happen and have that money come to you. You have to know - and, really, not care - that it will without any doubt.
thats it exactly... worrying about the how kills it, because it creates doubt, even on a subconscious level. It took me a while to get that part thru my thick skull. Time isnt lanier, the money to pay my bills has already been made, its already there, so i dont worry. that was the hardest part for me to wrap my brain around. The universe will provide... it sounds so silly... but, it just works...
summerhaze
10-11-2014, 03:04 PM
Although I appreciate you sharing a money making strategy with the rest of us, putting exact figures in there just comes off as boastful. It might come off less boastful and more modest if you countered your statements with I use to not make good money but ever since I started doing this I've been making #times as much money...
Hustler Kelly
10-26-2014, 07:10 PM
Thanks for share, you do so great!
Kimmy90
10-27-2014, 12:07 PM
Although I appreciate you sharing a money making strategy with the rest of us, putting exact figures in there just comes off as boastful. It might come off less boastful and more modest if you countered your statements with I use to not make good money but ever since I started doing this I've been making #times as much money...
I disagree. The numbers are motivating for me. Thanks for everyone who shared/contributed.
I just started reading Ask & it is Given by Hicks
I was walking to work last night & felt very connected to Source, I felt positive and happy & grateful,
I asked the LOA for $1100
I made $1110! 10 bucks more than I had asked for! The LOA is so powerful & always responds if you allow, I am so thankful to the LOA and the universe & Source for providing for me. Thank You ! and I am so grateful for the book
I'm asking for $1500 tonight
I would recommend reading this book girls!
Ninelives
11-08-2014, 12:30 AM
For the girls saying that they need a lobotomy to have this work for them, try starting out with smaller amounts of money or smaller amounts of positive things happening, Things your mind will believe. For some of you that don't yet know just how much power you have in creating your life and destiny, small bits of evidence will build your confidence up.
For some of you, the more important something like money is to you, the more "resistance" you will have for allowing to flow into your life. To release resistance you have to find out what your negative beliefs are about money and then find evidence of the contrary. As you knock down these "non allowing" beliefs you will release the resistance you have towards making money. Another way to give yourself evidence of your own power is to tell yourself something completely silly, that you can care less about like "tommorrow someone will offer me a lollipop " or something else you could care less about and see what happens. This should be fun and silly, try it you will be surprised.
Flickdreams
11-08-2014, 02:45 AM
^ I'll bite. I've been having sychronicities in my life lately, I always feel a significance to them. The story Farewell to Arms popped up 2-3 times in 3 different situations. Maybe theres nothing to it but on the other hand maybe I will take something out of the story, or meet a custie who wants to talk and mentions the book.... it can be the quirkiest nudge from the universe that starts the ball rolling :)
NightGoddess
11-08-2014, 03:40 AM
For learning how to use LOA to your benefit, I start with something silly. Orange traffic cones, a kid wearing tie dye, a girl with red lipstick on. I meditate on each of those things before I go to bed, I think about them for 1 minute or so each, and then I forget about it. I like to do this for fun, too. It's cool to be reminded of how powerful your mind really is.
The more you do it, the easier it gets and you can start moving on to bigger things.
When I first started using LOA about a year ago, I had just started stripping and wasn't making shit. I had heard that there was money to be made, and I wasn't making it. I was making $50-$200 a night working 2 or 3 days a week because I didn't feel like I was good at it, so I didn't work much. Where were the $400, $500,$600+ nights that first enticed me about the job? I hated stripping so far, but other girls were doing it, why couldn't I? I'm hot, I'm sexy, I can dance... but I wasn't making any money. I realized that my problem was my attitude about the customers, and the fact that I didn't believe that I even COULD make that kind of money. That's where it all gets started, examining your beliefs about yourself, money, your work environment. It took about 3 months of constantly telling a new story about my job to finally start LOVING my job. I started making money, guys started spending $200+ on me at one time... This didn't happen over night! I had to dig deep into my beliefs about money and CHANGE them, actively! I wrote "BFT" on my hand in sharpie before going to work to remind me to think "Better Feeling Thoughts" about working. I started to really like the job. I started to really enjoy myself there. I started to enjoy the customers and appreciate them in their simplicity. I created a completely different persona. I learned how to play guys, I wasn't an expert yet, but I sure was better than when I started. Finally, I had my first $1000 night on Superbowl Sunday this year. I was exhilerated. I was in love. I was SOLD, finally, on this job. I wanted to be good at this job, and that's what I focused on. I wanted to have fun at my job, and that's what I focused on. I wanted to feel empowered doing my job, and I focused on feeling empowered.
Do I have bad nights? You better bet I do. But you better bet my bad nights now were "good" nights back then. And I don't beat myself up about it. I appreciate every dollar that I make dancing, because a lot of people are unwilling or unable to do the job that I do, and to do it well. I became a top earner at that club, and was consistently one of the top 5 girls every night by the time I left. I'm at a new club now, and I'm becoming a high earner pretty quickly, which is really, really exciting for me. It's all about finding the feeling that you want to feel (success, empowerment, pride) BEFORE you see the evidence of it, and NEVER TAKING YOUR EMOTIONAL EYES OFF OF THE EMOTIONAL PRIZE. It takes a lot of paying attention to how you feel about what you want, and getting really nitty gritty with your emotions, but you can do it. If there is a girl making $1500 a night where you work, and you aren't, it is possible for you to make that money, and probably more if you want to. Even if no one makes that kind of money, be the first.
Flickdreams
11-08-2014, 03:52 AM
^ Heard of the Negativity diet?... http://www.healpastlives.com/future/cure/crnegatv.htm
Glamourmilf
11-19-2014, 05:53 PM
I watched 'The Secret' on Netflix for the very first time. I've put off watching it, because I've been following jerry and esther hicks and have been to their meetings for over 15 years. So I thought I already knew what they would say in the movie
WoW!! I finally, and completely 'Get it!'
I have been 'feeling' my way, instead of just making lists, doing affirmations, etc.
Everything comes easily and effortlessly to me now.
Just like it is meant to.
Sooo excited!
I'm glad to have found the speakers in the movie also. I did know Michael Beckwith. His church was one of the first ones I've been too many moons ago.39699
SimoneGray
11-21-2014, 11:04 AM
Started watching Abraham Hicks stuff before camming, and I feel really good. I have always had an innate belief that everything will be just fine and it always is, but sometimes money stresses etc just get to me and its usually a last minute mad dash to the finish line or to paying bills. Now all I am going to do is to build the money belief into my other deep seated beliefs and the rest will come. I already have a great feeling about my cam shift today.
Glamourmilf
12-02-2014, 11:26 AM
Now that I've been combining LOA with chanting, and a bit of feng shui, life is way smoother.
wednesday86
12-07-2014, 03:35 PM
Things that have really helped me make $$ lately:
-Instead of visualizing a certain number, I visualize a fat stack of cash...so heavy that it weighs down my garter. This started manifesting in a lot of $1s and $5s so I adjusted it to a fat stack of $20s...Last night I went home with $50s, a lot of $20s and only six $1 bills!
-SMELLING MONEY. Every hour or so I will take a moment to take a big whiff of that "cash scent" and say "thank you thank you" expressing gratitude for the money.
-Instead of trying to manifest a specific number, I try to manifest good customers. By "good' I mean: Easy to sell to, fun, interesting and respectful of my boundaries. I had very few instances of overly grabby custies last night which is actually rare in my "high mileage" club. Most of my customers didn't touch me at all, just kept their hands at their sides. I enjoyed the company of almost everyone I danced for.
-Setting high standards for myself even if it means turning down $. A big group of young guys came in last night and ran to my tip rail...but one of them was rude to me and I got bad vibes from them. They asked me to come to them but I trusted my instincts and stayed away. While other girls tried to win them over all night, I was in the back doing dances. I am really working on ALWAYS trusting my instincts. To stay in the vortex it's important to feel GOOD so I refuse to spend time with people who give me bad vibes.
Edit: If visualizing a certain number works for you then do that! Not trying to knock it but making "goals" just stresses me out, personally. ;)
sashafeminista
12-20-2014, 10:34 AM
Thank you for posting this thread! I'm brand new to stripping and I read this thread and listened to a bit of Abraham Hicks - I have only done eight shifts in total and my last two shifts (at a completely brand new club) I made $1500 :D And my work week hasn't even finished yet!
Definitely going to continue keeping up the positivity and mantras. I'm a pretty lazy hustler too and I always followed my instincts... Works like a charm!
Flickdreams
12-20-2014, 08:06 PM
My attitude has really shifted to noticing the negative things of late. I question whether its being a realist about the state of my club also.... I am uber sensitive to emotional currents and not particularly strong at containing my emotional boundries (I am a red head).
It may be time to re read this thread again to shift my perceptions, or it may be time to change clubs. As someone said in another thread; sometimes all the dirty stuff, shitty managers and fluctuating income are signs from the universe that you need to get out, not that you yourself aren't applying LOA. (did that make sense)
wednesday86
12-21-2014, 10:17 AM
^A while ago I was forgetting to apply LoA and my money was suffering. I tried changing clubs and got rejected (at a club I was hired at before!) For whatever reason the universe seems to want me to stay where I'm at. Once I remembered to use LoA the money started rolling in again. My club is still bad for most of the dancers. It's dead and it hasn't picked up, but the men with money keep choosing me. If you're using LoA and still having shit nights it's very possible you might not belong there. Or maybe you just need a change of scenery.
Vyanka
12-21-2014, 10:36 AM
Every time I say, "my money is not here yet, it'll be here soon" on slow/tough nights....I get my guy(s) who approach me. :D Def have to be patient. Can't say it feeling worried.
The stress and worry kills money. Patience and knowing/feeling that it's coming, and it comes real fkn good! Also, confidence. Telling yourself you're the hottest bitch in there too.
When I forget or feel negative, shit shift happens. I need to train myself more. Or if the night wasn't that great in general, I'll still appreciate and thing next shift will be super. Ding...and it happens too!!
Vyanka
01-14-2015, 11:55 PM
I had a good shift this week but the next day was total shit. Two things I did wrong.....
1) On my banking night before I went home, I was counting my money in the DR. This is a big no no. Someone walks by, sees what you made and you get the evil eye. Always count money at home. Me knowing this, my dumb ass did it at work. Ugh.
2)The next day in the beginning of the shift, I was talking to a co-worker who was in a rut/hating life mood. It killed my money that shift. Sort of messed up my manifestation.
At home before heading to work, do some visualizations. If you feel good about them, they work.
NightGoddess
01-15-2015, 02:03 AM
^So true.
I knew I'd make more than I needed tonight, and while it wasn't a good night by any means, I made double what I needed. I just knew it, if that makes sense, that I would not leave with less than what I needed today.
princessonyx
01-15-2015, 05:12 PM
I wanted to share my story for encouragement about LOA as well!
Its not dancing related, but I just traveled out of town on vacation and planned on a strip trip, but things fell through. My goal on the trip was to make $1000. Instead of being negative, I just put in the universe and in my psyche that I would make $1000 somehow before I left. Two days before I flew back home my lawyer called me about a court case I've been fighting for almost 2 years against my old landlord that I essentially gave up on - he said he had a $1000 check for me at his office. :)
I really can't wait to use this in the future as I return back to dancing. I only danced for a little and had a really negative mental attitude because the club I was at was so slow. I have been actively trying to use a positive mental attitude and LOA to move forward only very recently, but I am seeing results already. You kinda have to just dive into it, is what I am learning!
ExoticBeauty4U
01-15-2015, 05:25 PM
I wanted to share my story for encouragement about LOA as well!
Its not dancing related, but I just traveled out of town on vacation and planned on a strip trip, but things fell through. My goal on the trip was to make $1000. Instead of being negative, I just put in the universe and in my psyche that I would make $1000 somehow before I left. Two days before I flew back home my lawyer called me about a court case I've been fighting for almost 2 years against my old landlord that I essentially gave up on - he said he had a $1000 check for me at his office. :)
I really can't wait to use this in the future as I return back to dancing. I only danced for a little and had a really negative mental attitude because the club I was at was so slow. I have been actively trying to use a positive mental attitude and LOA to move forward only very recently, but I am seeing results already. You kinda have to just dive into it, is what I am learning!
Thank you for this post, I keep forgetting that you have to be open to all avenues, because many times the LOA brings things to us different from the way we expected.
MissJu
02-08-2015, 01:00 PM
Today i found this youtube channel. I have been watching and thinking. I love it thought, i decide to share with you girls.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mr6Iy5etNaM
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=F1xSx8oK8Gc
You can see in her channel all usefull vids.
jessicag
02-08-2015, 01:50 PM
I gave this a go last week when I was camming and I attracted some really big spenders for some really easy sessions. I find it so much easier to stay on when I'm really feeling my own good vibe. I end up loving what I do and attracting the sort of clients I want which means I stay on for longer and make more money. Really glad this thread exists. Thank you all :)
JamaicanAliesha
03-10-2015, 02:50 PM
I am finally in the headspace to apply this since I am going back to dancing. It's worked for me before, but I fell off and let myself get burnt out and give in to depression. I am going to do my best and not worry anymore.
This is such an uplifting thread :)
buttonpop
03-14-2015, 08:25 PM
When I was young, I was taught some very negative attitudes about money. Although we were well off, my parents would scold us if we asked for simple things that we needed like a haircut or new shoes when our shoes were very worn out. This gave me the belief that spending money was bad, and that it was good to live on as little money as humanly possible. My church also taught me that money was the root of all evil. When I was older and living on my own, I was very poor. I couldn't afford anything, so my beliefs that money was bad were reinforced. I coudn't afford to go out and eat, so I would use my belief that money was bad to justify this. I would say, 'who needs to go out and spend money at a restaurant when im perfectly capable of cooking myself' (even though i was eating cheap rice for every meal). I got interested in social justice and blamed money for the ills of the world, and associated wealth with war, famine and suffering of the lower classes. I thought that I was just like "them" if I spent even a hundred dollars on clothes, so I never would. I surrounded myself with people who would judge each other for spending more than $300 on rent a month, who valued poverty as proof that you weren't "buying in" to consumerism. I believed that if you had wealth, it meant that someone else didn't get it, and that there wasn't enough to go around. I also believed that debt was bad (and still do) but I wanted to finish my degree, so I started dancing to pay for school. Now I am making more money than I need for bills and college. As much as I am outwardly thrilled at this, I am coming up against these limiting beliefs, and often feel guilty for how much money I am making. I often would downplay how much money I was making because I was afraid of being judged and I felt guilty for possessing that much money. When I look at this rationally I realize it is ridiculous. The people whom I hated for causing mass social problems and profiting off wars are all billionaires. I don't aspire to being a billionaire, even if I become a millionaire, i will still not compare to these billionaires that I see as evil, so this belief system isn't doing anything except limiting the amount of money i think i deserve to make, and therefore will make. I stopped being friends with people who judged me for buying a new pair of shoes when my only other pair got holes in them. I started examining the beliefs my parents instilled in me about money. I am working on changing these negative attitudes. I need to reprogram my mind to stop seeing money as evil. I need to stop associating money with evil capitalists, and remember that I am not personally responsible for (nor will be successful in) changing an entire economic system that I disagree with simply by being poor. I need to refocus my political beliefs away from hating the rich and start focusing on my belief that everyone deserves enough money to fulfill their needs, even me!! Money isn't evil, its political systems that I hate and I need to separate these things in my mind.
money is power to make a difference.
money gives me opportunities to improve my health, safety, and comfort.
money gives me opportunities for learning, travel, growth.
money enables me to help support my family, especially my mother.
money enables me to wear cute clothing, eat healthy and delicious food, and have fun experiences
money enables me to attend college without loans
money is good.
i deserve to possess money.
money is a useful tool.
money can improve my life.
i am very comfortable having lots of money.
its okay to spend money.
its okay to spend money on nice things.
I just ordered a book called Moneylove that is supposed to be all about these negative attitudes about money. I'll update you all with more info on my journey towards changing these false beliefs!
Dancer_maria
03-15-2015, 12:36 AM
I take the attitude that while I may not "love" every day at a club, I do LOVE the challenge. That love for the challenge do do well can make the job much easier, and men pick up on it. They can interpret it as I love my job, or Im just horny, or whatever, but it works. When you over emphasize customer service, they notice. My key words to get started are " Eye contacts make Contracts" I make em sign off on me :). Of course Instincts WILL and should drive you to the best "chemistry" customers. Men can tell if your confident or not, that is HUGE in success. :)
Money_Worshipper
04-11-2015, 12:50 AM
Law of attraction still at work for me. I just came back to stripping after months off. I made 1300 easily last night. It was very easy money. I didn't have to work hard for it.
Just a reminder that when you're using the law of attraction right, everything just seems to fall into place that you don't have to work hard for it. The money just falls into your lap.
OnlyForTonight
04-18-2015, 05:02 AM
^Worth watching...clip on materializing your thoughts into $$$ (as proposed in Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich)
The idea struck me as a little nutty at first...but its incredibly resourceful for anyone stuck in a poverty mindset (i.e., "I'm broke and there's nothing I can do about it.")
SimoneGray
04-18-2015, 03:34 PM
^^ that clip is amazing..thank you so much for sharing
MissJu
05-10-2015, 02:43 PM
I found this girl on youtube, very interesting
I wish i could have a real session with her. I. So want to know what are my blocks.
http://youtu.be/CuM678WXs0c