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KatyBoleyn
06-19-2017, 09:42 PM
There's an entire sub-set of your clients that will just do that on purpose. They don't want to spend money, so they work themselves up as much as possible and pay for the 1 minute to get them over the finish line. My solution back when I cammed was just not to start right into anything...make them talk to you first, tell you what they want, etc. If they start out all panting and in the middle of something, play dumb and almost offended.
I guess if you wanted to troll them you could derail them with a very un-sexy mental image or see if you can get them to laugh.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-19-2017, 10:24 PM
Hey baby what's your name?
Him: make me cum
Oh my gosh your so funny. Ur breathing is kinda hot. What was ur name again?
Him: Daddy or suck my dick
Oh wow *giggle* ur so naughty. What kind of porn are you watching? I know u are. I love porn..go on tell me.
Ask that question so you get some sort of insight into what they're into.
Him:A hot milf getting ganged banged?
Thats really hot. *giggle* That reminds me of this one time when I...
Go off into a story and go slow. You're not wasting his time with small talk running up the clock. When they're that eager change the subject and do it quickly. Start out by telling them what you look like and after each attribute go off int a different tangent.
Oh Im 5'2 and....wait how tall are you? Hopefully you like short girls?
Him: Im 6'0 and yea I love em
Cool. I also have perky tits with gumdrop nipples...wait but you havent told me where you're from?
It doesn't always work with the wankers but you can stretch out a call by being sporadic and sexy. Otherwise they'll run all over you and nut in under a min. But most importantly don't take it personally when they do. Its not your fault. That guy's a jerk.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-19-2017, 10:32 PM
The ones who are only wanting to spend the minimum will hang up. Thats not always a bad thing.
Spemily
06-19-2017, 10:44 PM
Honestly, I don't really mind them. I have a few callers that I really kind of like whose calls are only a few minutes long. Obviously, it's not a lot of money, but it's easy money and if I make them happy, they'll call back. The little calls do eventually add up. Also, I'm not completely sure that they are motivated entirely by cheapness. Some of them buy goodies in between calls.
If they are really rude about it, hanging up on me mid-sentence or talking over me, then I'll block them. But if they call, politely have a super quick wank and then thank me before hanging up, I'm happy to keep them around. They also sometimes leave glowing feedback.
PlayfulDesire
06-19-2017, 11:32 PM
Hey baby what's your name?
Him: make me cum
Oh my gosh your so funny. Ur breathing is kinda hot. What was ur name again?
Him: Daddy or suck my dick
Oh wow *giggle* ur so naughty. What kind of porn are you watching? I know u are. I love porn..go on tell me.
Ask that question so you get some sort of insight into what they're into.
Him:A hot milf getting ganged banged?
Thats really hot. *giggle* That reminds me of this one time when I...
Go off into a story and go slow. You're not wasting his time with small talk running up the clock. When they're that eager change the subject and do it quickly. Start out by telling them what you look like and after each attribute go off int a different tangent.
Oh Im 5'2 and....wait how tall are you? Hopefully you like short girls?
Him: Im 6'0 and yea I love em
Cool. I also have perky tits with gumdrop nipples...wait but you havent told me where you're from?
It doesn't always work with the wankers but you can stretch out a call by being sporadic and sexy. Otherwise they'll run all over you and nut in under a min. But most importantly don't take it personally when they do. Its not your fault. That guy's a jerk.
You should well trained ? Reminds me of the guy who helps newbies out on phonestars!
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2017, 12:03 AM
Thanks so much for the advice :) I was completely lost yesterday after the guy came within a minute so I sat there giggling & asking him questions which he stayed & answered thankfully but I got awkward & said well it's been so nice talking to you so & so please rate me 5 stars & tip me, thanks.
It's weird when I get calls & they're either really silent & want me to lead (which I hate) or they are already breathing heavily. I'll def ask about the porn thing haha I can so stretch that question into a few haha.
Teddy_Bear
06-20-2017, 12:28 AM
I keep to my 'welcome script' before I get to the naughty stuff regardless of whether they are about to bust or not. I don't entertain minute men they can keep their $5 and go find someone else for all I care.
Sam38g
06-20-2017, 01:17 AM
At this point, maybe because I am old. The heavy breathing & no talking would have me saying "Are you okay? Are you having trouble breathing? What is your address & I will contact 911 for you?" Just to fuck with them.
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2017, 01:32 AM
At this point, maybe because I am old. The heavy breathing & no talking would have me saying "Are you okay? Are you having trouble breathing? What is your address & I will contact 911 for you?" Just to fuck with them.
hahahaha that's so funny , i'm sooo using that next time :P
kortneykay
06-20-2017, 07:50 AM
I make small talk by asking what they're into and just giving it to them. If you lead the call you can stretch it as long as you can but some guys are just ready to pop. You still get their money either way, lol.
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2017, 04:08 PM
I make small talk by asking what they're into and just giving it to them. If you lead the call you can stretch it as long as you can but some guys are just ready to pop. You still get their money either way, lol.
Very true! ;) I'm always trying to stretch out calls by talking about anything I can that will keep their attention. I also don't want a bad review if it's obvious I'm changing the subject too often to drag out a call.
ep2002
07-15-2017, 04:02 PM
You should well trained ? Reminds me of the guy who helps newbies out on phonestars!
Do you work on phonestars? Someone asked about this b/c she signed up & no one is returning her emails. And it sounds like people don't make any money. :(
At this point, maybe because I am old. The heavy breathing & no talking would have me saying "Are you okay? Are you having trouble breathing? What is your address & I will contact 911 for you?" Just to fuck with them.
You are sooo funny :)
Jassi
07-16-2017, 10:43 AM
I make small talk by asking what they're into and just giving it to them. If you lead the call you can stretch it as long as you can but some guys are just ready to pop. You still get their money either way, lol.
I've always just figured it that way too. I like long calls but I get quick wankers and they add something to the money I've made.
I try to figure out what they want, but they are just talking over me anyway LOL
xCamLovex
07-16-2017, 01:00 PM
I have this guy on talktome that literally calls me as he's cumming so before I even get a word in there's this huge scream and he just hangs up.
Lots of men can't last during sex and they are the same on the phone :)
Spemily
07-16-2017, 07:43 PM
I have this guy on talktome that literally calls me as he's cumming so before I even get a word in there's this huge scream and he just hangs up.
Lots of men can't last during sex and they are the same on the phone :)
-Reason for following sentence redacted.- I'd suggest blocking that guy unless you're making money off him some other way.
PS: The redacted sentence is still in someone else's reply, so this doesn't really solve the issue.
Girly_Girl
07-18-2017, 08:51 AM
this is a public forum , probably not a good idea to mention how long they have before they are charged? ^^^^^^
kortneykay
07-18-2017, 03:17 PM
I have this guy on talktome that literally calls me as he's cumming so before I even get a word in there's this huge scream and he just hangs up.
Lots of men can't last during sex and they are the same on the phone :)
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I'm sorry xCam but that cracked me up. Men are so freaking weird. Can you imagine a time before caller ID where these pervs would actually call random women and do that...for free? LMAO.
I think anytime you can bring a guy to orgasm (even if he's cumming when you pick up) you're doing your job. When I first started phone and worked at the cheaper companies it was a struggle to keep them on the phone. Now, it's like fast or slow, if you've made them nut- you're good as gold! If they keep calling and or orgasm, you're doing your job.
PSOcodemonkey
07-19-2017, 06:41 AM
...or see if you can get them to laugh.
I use this more than anything else. Very effective. Once you have a guy able to laugh, he is putty in your hands.
miss.a.p1600
01-08-2018, 12:12 PM
I am so used to this guy that wants me to financially dominate him that it is hard to accept the average dudes but I *might* consider it.
He wanted me to lower my current rate (basically 50% less than what it is now) but he is willing to pay me a bonus.
I am really confused if his offer is worth it? Just trying to figure out some average ranges before I accept this.
DancesWithSloths
01-08-2018, 12:22 PM
Speaking as a person with cheap to middling rates: don't do it, girl. Don't let the customer tell you what your rates should be. It's not about money, it's about power - and giving him even a sliver of power is asking for trouble along the line.
He can pay your rate, then pay you a bonus.
(My rates on various sites are calculated so that I get $0.80-$1.50 a minute after the site takes its cut, which, as I say, is cheapish to average, but suits me fine. The reason it suits me fine is that I've chosen it, not some guy.)
miss.a.p1600
01-08-2018, 12:31 PM
Thanks Dances!!!!!
You're right.
I could use the money but I don't want some dude bossing me around. We agreed to a deal where he'd pay me a bonus then at the end (after I thought our negotiation was complete) he's like "oh and can you lower your rate?" I agreed to lower it 23% but he said he'd do the deal if I lowered it 50%. My gut was telling me I shouldn't lower it but if I did I didnt want to go below my 23% discount threshold.
I think I will just ignore his offer.
Plus I feel like I'm on a roll with this financial domination - I want to be the one in control and I don't want to jinx my earnings by accepting offers from ego maniac dudes trying to get me to accept their cheapness.
Classy_Katy
01-09-2018, 10:46 PM
He says he wants to be financially dominated but he actually wants to financially dominate you...he's playing a power game before you've even started.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2018, 08:49 AM
Hahaha right! No this new dude is I'm assuming the "average" adult line caller. Well actually I think he is a creep because he keeps trying to get me to go along with his ideas saying "you'll make a lot of money" but coming with uninspiring offers.
Granted my rate is higher than majority in my category. He emailed me later saying I didn't have to lower my "High" rate (lol) but he would not pay me the bonus. He must think I'm stupid cause when I calculated the lower per min rate plus bonus is actually $30 more than my "high" rate without a bonus.
I think this dude is just haggling too much which is a turn-off and I think he is one of those snake oil salesmen types. And you're right Katy I think his ass is trying to financially dominate me. So I'll most likely be blocking his ass.
The current one I have lets me dominate him financially. He is easygoing, doesn't make demands, will just shoot the shit for several min - sometimes the whole call (one time I just ignored his ass the whole call lol), asks me to raise my rate. I prefer dudes like this. I think I just want to financially dominate them and not take calls from anyone who doesn't roll like this dude.
*Lynn*
01-11-2018, 01:45 PM
The only time I offer lower rates is if I decide, such as a sale or holiday special.
I've been at a low end of making $$ and I still refused to do a skype for $100.
When I used to dance we had a minimum to charge for VIP but could upcharge.
It was $175 for a half hour but I would charge $250. Sometimes a new guy would ask me, and I would say $250, then he would go "oh but that girl told me $175" I would very nicely tell him it is $175 for her, its $250 for me. I would then ask him if he wanted me to get the girl for him, that I could grab her if he wanted, lol
He would say its ok, thank you and I would just reply "if you need anything let me know, enjoy!"
90% of the time they would call me back and get a VIP from me, AND tip me very nicely. (50+)
As others have said here, lowering your price might just backfire. Know your worth and they'll know it also :-)
sexysusie
01-12-2018, 09:12 AM
Don't ever lower your rates. Unless he's spent 100s on you why even consider it.
CapturedDoll
01-16-2018, 09:01 AM
Edit: Thank you for moving this to the correct thread. :)
This thread/ responses have very, VERY helpful. :)
I know there are probably going to be times I just hang up or lose my cool. But in the times that can be avoided... I would prefer to avoid it if possible.
1: Would you mind sharing some of your experiences in these moments that stand out to you? What do you say as far as your comebacks? Both civil and not so civil. lol Or... what might have you said differently in restrospect. What sometimes IS the more "proper" thing to say when we are on the fence as to how to judge a situation? I mean... theres obv no real way to plan ahead because every call will be different... but... if nothing else... to at least have a few stock answers I can pull out of my hat so I feel a bit more prepared... would be really appreciated.
I guess I should also add that... the comebacks also represent our personas. I am a Switch but may just need to stay Dominant on Niteflirt. I am sensitive (currently struggling with Depression and PMDD.) and so may need my Dominant side to stay active for at least the time being. It's helped me keep control better of various situations already in chat rooms. But I have a very Bimbo (air head/ giggly ) side too... and both are very diff personalities.
So.. if maybe you could add what you do... and come from THAT stand point... that might help everyone too. :)
I'll be checking out the links posted to the other PSO threads provided.
:umbrella::thanx:
~CapturedDoll
Kristen_Krystal
01-16-2018, 09:45 AM
To be honest I find the majority of my Phone chat guys to be usually very civil and polite. If they wander onto a topic I'm not keen on then I'll just politely tell them that I'm not into that or I'll just ignore & steer the conversation in the direction I want it to go.
I usually the jerks in our industry tend to loiter in the free chat cam rooms.
I'm on AdultWork & TalkToMe.
I wouldn't dwell on what might/could go wrong because it probably won't and once you get back into it, you'll be wondering what you was worrying about :)
CapturedDoll
01-16-2018, 11:20 AM
To be honest I find the majority of my Phone chat guys to be usually very civil and polite. If they wander onto a topic I'm not keen on then I'll just politely tell them that I'm not into that or I'll just ignore & steer the conversation in the direction I want it to go.
I usually the jerks in our industry tend to loiter in the free chat cam rooms.
I'm on AdultWork & TalkToMe.
I wouldn't dwell on what might/could go wrong because it probably won't and once you get back into it, you'll be wondering what you was worrying about :)
True! I tend to overthink things. The repoire I already have with people that share my fetish... in 4 years I've only had a handful of people be rude.
DonaDiabla
01-16-2018, 11:40 AM
There is no need to become a doormat just because you are doing adult entertainment. While many phone sex guys are nice and sweet, there are many who behaved like savages beasts such as the necro guys or those into bestiality. So, my advice is to block, report if you need to, and put men in the place if you can't take the bullshit. Why do I put people in their places as an pso? Because I have been doing this 13 1/2 years, I don't play the doormat game with men, this my business, I run my life with an iron fist,and I have tons of great respectful clients.Personally,I don't dwell on losing my cool because tomorrow another day and most of my phone sex clientele are sweeties. :)
I apologize if this is in the wrong place or has already been posted. I looked and only saw one for Webcam comebacks. And since it seems "The Niteflirt Thread" is in this section... well...tada! ::) lol
Anyway, as a future PSO, I'm wondering what your go to comebacks are for the douches and jerks. And when I say that I mean... the 2 responses/ routes one could take for the comeback. One to remain civil, helpful, and understanding. (And hopefully keep the customer engaged with you.) And the other being the complete F U. Maybe there's a top 10 list around here? (I know responses are pretty much throughout peoples posts. I was just hoping to have something I can come back to and quickly.)
I know there are probably going to be times I just hang up or lose my cool. But in the times that can be avoided... I would prefer to avoid it if possible.
1: Would you mind sharing some of your experiences in these moments that stand out to you? What do you say as far as your comebacks? Both civil and not so civil. lol Or... what might have you said differently in restrospect. What sometimes IS the more "proper" thing to say when we are on the fence as to how to judge the situation? I mean... theres obv no real way to plan ahead because every call will be different... but... if nothing else... to at least have a few stock answers I can pull out of my hat so I feel a bit more prepared... would be really appreciated.
I guess I should also add that... the comebacks also represent our personas. I am a Switch but may just need to stay Dominant on Niteflirt. I am sensitive (currently struggling with Depression and PMDD.) and so may need my Dominant side to stay active for at least the time being. It's helped me keep control better of various situations already in chat rooms.
So.. if maybe you could add what you do... and come from THAT stand point... that might help even moreso.
:umbrella::thanx:
~CapturedDoll
P.s- That equals sign in the title was meant to be a smiley face. lol Ah well.
DonaDiabla
01-16-2018, 11:57 AM
Sorry but that is not how phone sex works for everyone. Phone sex varies from place to place. For example, the British market is totally different than the American phone sex market. The British market of Adultwork has a bit more gentlemanly guys compare to American sites like TTM and NF.There are tons of rude and gross customers in phone sex. They love pushing newbies buttons as well. It does not help being a Pollyanna about the matter either. For example, what shall happen when guys want tickle torture than they want to talk about bestiality? Here's my point, just be firm, don't let them press your boundaries, and you will be okay. :) Dive in and you will love it.
True! I tend to overthink things. The repoire I already have with people that share my fetish... in 4 years I've only had a handful of people be rude.
CapturedDoll
01-16-2018, 12:06 PM
Sorry but that is not how phone sex works for everyone. Phone sex varies from place to place. For example, the British market is totally different than the American phone sex market. There are tons of rude and gross customers in phone sex. It does not help being a Pollyanna about the matter either. For example, what shall happen when guys want tickle torture than they want to talk about bestiality?
It's funny you say that. Tickle Torture is my kink and what I will be specializing in. :)
Beastiality is definetly a hard limit. I have zero tolerance already for those interactions. I guess I just have to put that zero tolerance in place for most everything. There's no way to survive in this otherwise. Thats why I need to hear things like this. Great points. And... I didn't really consider the needs of International callers much. (I have but... not zero'd in on as of yet.) So much to learn.... it's ok. I have plenty of time. :) Your insight is very much appreciated Dona and Ladies. It's a lot to take in and process. I knew it would be.
And yeah... becoming a doormat is the LAST thing I want to be.
DonaDiabla
01-16-2018, 12:10 PM
One more tip, CapturedDoll. You don't have to do every fetish to be successful. You can pick and choose the fetishes that you are most comfortable with.It is good that you are thinking about hard limits. :)
It's funny you say that. Tickle Torture is my kink and what I will be specializing in. :)
Beastiality is definetly a hard limit. I have zero tolerance already for those interactions. I guess I just have to put that zero tolerance in place for most everything. There's no way to survive in this otherwise. Thats why I need to hear things like this. Great points. And... I didn't really consider the needs of International callers much. (I have but... not zero'd in on as of yet.) So much to learn.... it's ok. I have plenty of time. :) Your insight is very much appreciated Dona and Ladies. It's a lot to take in and process. I knew it would be.
And yeah... becoming a doormat is the LAST thing I want to be.
CapturedDoll
01-16-2018, 12:32 PM
One more tip, CapturedDoll. You don't have to do every fetish to be successful. You can pick and choose the fetishes that you are most comfortable with.It is good that you are thinking about hard limits. :)
Oh YEAH! There was no way to avoid it. The things I've read and were asked of... uh.... *stomach turns*
I ended up creating a second account, pretended to be a man for a short period of time ( over the course of 3 months...) just to see what kind of interractions were thrown my way. (Well... to a randomn man.) "locker talk"... What an eye opener.
Kandigrace
04-29-2018, 03:08 PM
Hi
I just had a semi long talk with one of my callers and he brought up the idea of starting my own PSO business on Niteflirt. I am not even sure if that is what i want to do, just came here to get some advice.
I think i want to primarily do this because i am tired. I know that PSO's are not supposed to complain about our jobs but its literally beginning to wear on me.
I keep working for these bosses who act like pimps and want my life to revolve around this business. I am sick of making 30 to 40 cents a minute. I am sick of making 20 cents a minute through TTM. I am sick of having to work 6 or 7 companies. I am so tired of being screamed at cause i forget to log out.
I worked for one company where i was making a $1 a minute and that chick was rude as hell and expected me to sit by the phone all day when the damn company was not even that busy. I would maybe get like 1 call every 4 days. I went through a major crisis and that bitch was not sympathetic at all.
I just started a company that deducts $4 if you miss a call. I can understand 50 cents or $1 but not $4. $4 screams that you want to rip off the girls while still promoting a squeaky clean image.
It seems as though i always have a problem no matter what PSO company i work at and i think that is primarily cause there are certain things that i will not deal with or do. Honestly after 3 and a half years of being a PSO, i am literally almost at my damn wits end.
I would love to be my own boss and treat my girls fairly and pay them a good amount of money and run a good clean business. I don't want to act like a pimp and treat my girls like shit while paying what is basically shit.
How would I go about starting a PSO business through Niteflirt? What would I need in order to start a PSO business through Niteflirt? If I cant start a business through Niteflirt, what companies are hiring Dispatch? What companies are training to do dispatch? I want to do more than just be a PSO.
chloemay
04-29-2018, 03:54 PM
I don't know about the business thing, but you can start as a Flirt on NF right away. Have your ID and a valid credit card ready and its easy.
fonegurl
05-10-2018, 12:35 PM
People have no idea what it takes to run a phonesex business whether it's on a platform like niteflirt or your own sites. It is almost impossible to find reliable people to work and if you think dealing with creepy callers or over bearing companies is bad, just wait until you have to deal with 10+ girls and all of their drama and reasons for not working when they should. Go on niteflirt right now and work for yourself. You really can't hire people to do it for you unless you've walked the walk and know what it's like. You'll make more money without any of the headaches. Good luck.
minniesoporno
05-10-2018, 01:23 PM
People have no idea what it takes to run a phonesex business whether it's on a platform like niteflirt or your own sites. It is almost impossible to find reliable people to work and if you think dealing with creepy callers or over bearing companies is bad, just wait until you have to deal with 10+ girls and all of their drama and reasons for not working when they should. Go on niteflirt right now and work for yourself. You really can't hire people to do it for you unless you've walked the walk and know what it's like. You'll make more money without any of the headaches. Good luck.
Phone sex is one of the income streams that is part-time for me. I wouldn't know how to handle being in a call centre for phone sex. the drama from camming and other forms of sex work already put me in the psych hospital a few times.
The best part of sites like niteflirt is majority of the hard work is already handled. and these days more people are making ebooks of how they are reaching certain income goals. so it does make it possible to see what can be achieved.
just got myself a new ebook.
DonaDiabla
05-10-2018, 01:53 PM
Yes, you are correct for the most part when it comes to becoming an pso company boss and hiring. Personally, I ran my own company for a short time during my early 20s and I felt that I could not handle more than 5 girls at a time. In addition, I do not like other people cutting into my money and have since decided against the idea of hiring other people. Now, I have my own direct-dial lines plus some platforms that I work on. I have never felt better about my decision to cut others out of my money. :)
People have no idea what it takes to run a phonesex business whether it's on a platform like niteflirt or your own sites. It is almost impossible to find reliable people to work and if you think dealing with creepy callers or over bearing companies is bad, just wait until you have to deal with 10+ girls and all of their drama and reasons for not working when they should. Go on niteflirt right now and work for yourself. You really can't hire people to do it for you unless you've walked the walk and know what it's like. You'll make more money without any of the headaches. Good luck.
DonaDiabla
05-10-2018, 02:14 PM
Kandigrace,
I will talk about dispatcher work. It has been a few years but this what I personally know.Places hiring dispatchers often are Palm Island,PSB Associates, and LDW Group. I believe that Chloe had an dispatcher program as well but I am not sure. Anyways, your dispatching duties will depend on your company's needs and can include many different things such as credit card processing. You often work 40 to 60 hours and they will often want 2 and more years of being an sold phone sex operator.
This might include a look at your dispatch and platform characters.Also, you need more than one phone, high speed internet, need to know most phone sex lingo, and personal references. You and the owner must get along because they put their trust in you. Also, they often want girls without any accents because back in the day....guys hated talking to dispatchers with more "ethnic" and "regional" accents. I had an hard time with some of those "Upper-crust" guys due to my own accent as dispatcher. Good luck :)
Hi
I just had a semi long talk with one of my callers and he brought up the idea of starting my own PSO business on Niteflirt. I am not even sure if that is what i want to do, just came here to get some advice.
I think i want to primarily do this because i am tired. I know that PSO's are not supposed to complain about our jobs but its literally beginning to wear on me.
I keep working for these bosses who act like pimps and want my life to revolve around this business. I am sick of making 30 to 40 cents a minute. I am sick of making 20 cents a minute through TTM. I am sick of having to work 6 or 7 companies. I am so tired of being screamed at cause i forget to log out.
I worked for one company where i was making a $1 a minute and that chick was rude as hell and expected me to sit by the phone all day when the damn company was not even that busy. I would maybe get like 1 call every 4 days. I went through a major crisis and that bitch was not sympathetic at all.
I just started a company that deducts $4 if you miss a call. I can understand 50 cents or $1 but not $4. $4 screams that you want to rip off the girls while still promoting a squeaky clean image.
It seems as though i always have a problem no matter what PSO company i work at and i think that is primarily cause there are certain things that i will not deal with or do. Honestly after 3 and a half years of being a PSO, i am literally almost at my damn wits end.
I would love to be my own boss and treat my girls fairly and pay them a good amount of money and run a good clean business. I don't want to act like a pimp and treat my girls like shit while paying what is basically shit.
How would I go about starting a PSO business through Niteflirt? What would I need in order to start a PSO business through Niteflirt? If I cant start a business through Niteflirt, what companies are hiring Dispatch? What companies are training to do dispatch? I want to do more than just be a PSO.
minniesoporno
05-10-2018, 02:51 PM
Hi
I think i want to primarily do this because i am tired. I know that PSO's are not supposed to complain about our jobs but its literally beginning to wear on me.
.
You can complain about whatever you want the BIG thing is finding a solution.
queenelayliah
09-18-2018, 05:02 AM
Hi you guys so after reading the sticky about safety and taking precautions im now paranoid and freaking myself out after reading how companies sell information im scared heres the deal.
So In the past I have joined a few phone sex comaonies that required me to submit copies of my social security card and drivers license. 1) Phonestars 2) Lip service Inc. 3) a start up company that never started and 4) Club tel. I found all of this comaonies from the website sexyjobs.com
Now back in june i wasnt able to complete my weekly requirements with phonestars and they locked my account. They wont respond to me at all. Granted I have always been paid on time i just think that's highly unprofessional to not even tell the girl shes fired and dont respond to her inquires. Now im worried if its a scam company. I looked into them a little bit before applying but i didnt find much about them. But with their lack of professionalism for the last damn near 4 months im scared.
Heres my question to you guys. 1) Is it common for a phone sex company to demand and ask for a copy of your social security card? 2) Have any of you heard of these companies or anyone working for them?
Is there any other way to vet a company as legit before signing up with them and giving away your private information.
KiaraK
09-19-2018, 10:00 AM
Always do a quick search of the forums before signing up with a site. If there is no feedback and you can’t find any info start a thread about said company, before handing over info. Sometimes there is no info because a company is new. But I’ve heard of PhoneStars being shady. I signed up but did not take calls as they started spamming me constantly with messages all hours of the night. However, I never had to give a copy of my SSN or card. Even NF and TTM don’t have these requirements.
WendiStarr
09-23-2018, 11:33 AM
Be careful with sexyjobs. Just because a company is listed on there does not make them legit. Any Tom, Dick, or Harry can create a job listing on there. They don't check credentials or make sure that anyone is a legit company or employer at all. I've had countless of crusty pervs with cameras/fauxtographers contact me through sexyjobs. Not one of them have a website or anything and nothing could be found through googling. If in doubt search companies through here. If no one has heard of them on here , they could be new or could be a creep pretending to own a business. Any websites that look like they were thrown together by a kid isn't a good sign either(bad spelling and grammar, lack of punctuation, barely anything on website). You can search business names too on BBB.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-30-2018, 08:42 AM
Im bumping this thread for newbies with lots of questions. And also for the seasoned professionals who may need a recharge.
babymama
10-13-2018, 06:51 PM
I am trying to focus more on phone sex and clip sales since cam has been sooo slow for me. Currently scouring for all of the tips i can get.
NGRuby
11-24-2018, 08:57 AM
Hello ladies,
Firstly, if this is covered already especially in the last year, I really do appreciate links!
So, I am really excited to get into domme phone work, especially through Niteflirt. I think it would be fascinating, fun, totally in my interest range, etc. Problem: How do I stand out from #1000th place among all the other pro-dommes?
Where can I reach out to customers who are actually looking? Are guys posting somewhere, begging for our links, for someone to contact them directly? (I get it. It's chickenshit, it's direct, and it would take care of the problem!).
I just really want to avoid having a dead listing around for months. My life is, you know, busy, and I'd rather be somewhere with a 4:1 timewaster ratio, chatting occasionally, than get nothing at all. It's all experience.
Shannon.
01-14-2019, 02:45 PM
I just bought my first listing on niteflirt, have an attractive looking profile, and am logged in! How long did it take you to get your first call?
I don't have any goodies yet, so I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it.
grneyesnfl
01-15-2019, 01:36 AM
I just bought my first listing on niteflirt,
What do you mean you BOUGHT your first listing? It doesn't cost anything to sign up on Niteflirt or to put up listings.
Unless you start bidding, it may take you quite a while to get a call.
Shannon.
01-15-2019, 05:01 AM
Yeah, I meant I started bidding. Is there a rule of thumb as for how much I should spend per day on bidding w/o going broke? I obviously did not last long in position #6 in my section!
grneyesnfl
01-16-2019, 04:55 AM
Yeah, I meant I started bidding. Is there a rule of thumb as for how much I should spend per day on bidding w/o going broke? I obviously did not last long in position #6 in my section!
There's no rule of thumb as far as how much you should spend per day. Spend only what you feel comfortable spending. Since you're new, you're going to get clicked on a lot when you're bidding. If you don't bid, though... no one is going to find you. Just make sure to always set a budget on the bidding page or you may end up shocked with the results! The money can be gone in no time at all. Good luck.