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Victoria_Gray
08-21-2022, 11:24 PM
I wanted to post this because I cannot stand swindlers and time wasters.
I had a caller who wanted 1.5 hrs first time with me. I accepted. He wanted extreme fetish which I did, playing 2 characters and he was annoyingly telling me how other models don't talk to him. Anyway he did not spend all his paid for time with me and left me no tip. He actually requested his unpaid time $5 back which would usually be a tip.
So, I waited for him to call back. He booked another 1.5 hours and I did not know who it was. It was him. I cut him off and said I have to refund him as his calls require tips and he is taking up time from my regular tippers. He said "Oh you cannot handle the content". I said, no I can handle the call, but you are taking uo my time when regulars want to call me and they TIP me.
So he acted mad, refunded him, blocked him. And I was happily getting ny 15 min regs with $5 tips. And I made more.
Assh*le. I just think if you ask a lot from a model you need to tip. If you do a long call you need to tip. If you want extreme sick fetish you need tip. And the audacity to ask for their unused time back ��. So I loved telling him he was cheap and not worth my time. Does not happen often. I like how these people whether on the phone or cam or stripping think you owe them your time because they pay you.
What a loser. You did the right thing.
Also appreciate your other advice. I'm so happy for you that you're killing it. Enjoy your vacation!
xxxGothBarbie
08-22-2022, 06:54 PM
I thin it is just the person. I have always been great at public speaking, I am pretty well versed in a lot of subjects due to my education (life experience is also a plus) so I can chit chat about anything. I also was a dominatrix on cam, so those fetishes that are hard to get down, I got them down years ago. Patience is key, but it is kind of an art form. Any person can perfect it. I suggest a lower end company first, to understand WHAT men want (all of my calls have been men) and understand gay men (A lot of gay men call me) and then learn about toys and listen. No starting off moaning oh baby oh baby, they don't like it. Talk to them like a friend, always smile as it shines through with your voice, say hello, thanks for calling, what are you up to? Listen to clues. If you don't know how to talk about something google memes about it LOL. I had to do that with sissies for ever. I literally just went down the meme list on google and read them out loud and put my twist on it.
I won't say you need to do taboo calls. But, if you work a line that allows taboo, you WILL make money if you take them. More money. A lot of men say "women won't talk to me about this". I always say, hey, to be here I must be an adult, to talk here you must be an adult, it's just role play. We are two adults, we can talk about anything, there is no thought police. I find most are men who were hurt and they use it as a form of therapy to flip the script in their head, to "hurt" someone the way they were. Read on it, it's a real thing people do. They will open up if you ask WHY DO YOU LIKE THIS SCENERIO??? Honestly, these men lie to me, it's a fantasy world. Maybe they are a CEO, and maybe they are in their Mom's basement. I have had necro, honestly you can really get a loyal following for castration, people will do drugs and talk, a lot like their step daughter, have a sister brother fantasy...who knows why. So this whole faction of men have limited options.
Women should only do what they feel comfy with. But the bread and butter is voice, it must be nice, doesn't matter if it's mature, don't pick a 20 year old model and say you are 25. Pick an older but in shape model and say you are 35 and a Mom. Men are into the experience you give. Your greeting needs to be short, sweet, and show off your voice. Talk a little about your interests, but keep it PG13. Always thank them, say you had a great time, and I always say, hey add me to your favorites so we can chat again it was fun! Learn to fake an orgasm. Give yourself one and how do you sound? Replicate it. I've never once had an orgasm or gotten turned on, they think I am getting off. The idea is to get THEM off, on their terms, or just chat. I only orgasm if it's more of a vanilla, hot and heavy sex talk -y call. Then i compliment them like crazy and say hey, thanks for the orgasm, hahaha. Very playful.
So yeah that is all I have as far as pointers but I totally say start with a not so high up company because at first you'll not make it with an established company as the ones with years experience will take the customers and you'll feel bad. Start with a per min hold time company, then apply elsewhere. You still may not float elsewhere. it's really a strange industry because it's all voice on lines that don't offer cam. And never say that model is you, just admit it. Say, I have kids, I'm a teacher, they understand. Say what you look like, how you compare to her. They totally get it.
Thanks so much for these pointers. I get shy on the phone sometimes and lose calls bc I freeze up. This is pure gold! ;)
What people sites are you on? (If you don't mind sharing that info).
Percy
08-27-2022, 01:18 AM
FYI, I took all the steps to join the PSO support forum but nothing. If anyone is admin on there, can you please check your new requests?
Also, I got an interview for Femmme Fatales. IDK if they will hire me but it lasted an hour and tbh, the numbers they put out are about what I make on my other site. So, do not think you can get 50 or 60 or 70 grand on there.
*sigh* also happy to block another person I HATED talking to. I am glad we have a pso thread. It can be a lonely and odd job with nobody who gets your weird nights.
Percy
08-27-2022, 01:22 AM
Thanks so much for these pointers. I get shy on the phone sometimes and lose calls bc I freeze up. This is pure gold! ;)
What people sites are you on? (If you don't mind sharing that info).
Just think, they cannot see you. Be anyone you want and let that lower your anxiety. I don't share the sites I am on because I get extreme taboo callers and it is just another layer of anon for me. Plus there seems to be far less of us than there are cam girls, so you can easily come here and figure things out.
I get insane callers I know also likely come here. Many are addicted to cam and phone sex and porn.
Growlerpussy
08-27-2022, 04:34 AM
FYI, I took all the steps to join the PSO support forum but nothing. If anyone is admin on there, can you please check your new requests?
Also, I got an interview for Femmme Fatales. IDK if they will hire me but it lasted an hour and tbh, the numbers they put out are about what I make on my other site. So, do not think you can get 50 or 60 or 70 grand on there.
*sigh* also happy to block another person I HATED talking to. I am glad we have a pso thread. It can be a lonely and odd job with nobody who gets your weird nights.
To Be Considered for PSO Employment
You must be a U.S. resident.
You must be at least 18 years of age.
You must present valid photo ID and your social security card.
You must have a quiet, private place in which to work.
You must have a college education.
You must possess excellent verbal skills and speak perfect English.
You must be well versed in BDSM, femdom, fetishes, and kinks.
COLLEGE EDUCATION? Haaaaaaaahaaaaaahaaaaahaaaaaa. Its fucking phonesex. I would like to knwo what you get per minute. a dollar? Well then ... they can fuck off
Percy
08-27-2022, 06:07 AM
To Be Considered for PSO Employment
You must be a U.S. resident.
You must be at least 18 years of age.
You must present valid photo ID and your social security card.
You must have a quiet, private place in which to work.
You must have a college education.
You must possess excellent verbal skills and speak perfect English.
You must be well versed in BDSM, femdom, fetishes, and kinks.
COLLEGE EDUCATION? Haaaaaaaahaaaaaahaaaaahaaaaaa. Its fucking phonesex. I would like to knwo what you get per minute. a dollar? Well then ... they can fuck off
Yeah they require you to be in or have a degree. I had to list all the names of whips ans crops, canes, define a cuck, how to deal with hiding keys, what did certain acronyms stand for...most importantly cbt and how I have instructed people to perform CBT. What does BDSM stand for?" was a question.
I know people complain to me that they chose a model and they were ditsy. Or just high as a kite. It is common. Maybe they try to avoid that, idk. One of the things that attract me to many callers (especially the kink role play) is that I have a degree. I have heard that they are a decent service, though. They went by hour, average was 15 ish on the lowest end to 25/30 median and 50 high end. I average my dollar per hour at theend of the week and I come up around 25 to 30 an hour. Some days it is 10 an hour, some I made 40 dollars in one hour. I say theirs seem to be on par. The only plus is that it is totally subs. And subs like to tip you.
Victoria_Gray
08-28-2022, 09:05 PM
Yeah they require you to be in or have a degree. I had to list all the names of whips ans crops, canes, define a cuck, how to deal with hiding keys, what did certain acronyms stand for...most importantly cbt and how I have instructed people to perform CBT. What does BDSM stand for?" was a question.
I know people complain to me that they chose a model and they were ditsy. Or just high as a kite. It is common. Maybe they try to avoid that, idk. One of the things that attract me to many callers (especially the kink role play) is that I have a degree. I have heard that they are a decent service, though. They went by hour, average was 15 ish on the lowest end to 25/30 median and 50 high end. I average my dollar per hour at theend of the week and I come up around 25 to 30 an hour. Some days it is 10 an hour, some I made 40 dollars in one hour. I say theirs seem to be on par. The only plus is that it is totally subs. And subs like to tip you.
The degree thing is weird. I have a degree also but think I've only had one person even remotely interested in me being edcuated. This is play time for adults, not a corporate job interview after all.
But whatever. At least I can say I use my degree XD
Percy
08-30-2022, 05:06 AM
The degree thing is weird. I have a degree also but think I've only had one person even remotely interested in me being edcuated. This is play time for adults, not a corporate job interview after all.
But whatever. At least I can say I use my degree XD
I get a lot of calls on my PSO line that like it. There is a category for "professionals" and some just want to chat. On cam, as i recall, nobody gave a shit. I have had callers say that they can't have a conversation with some models.
TashaToday
09-07-2022, 11:15 AM
After every phone call, I send a quick message asking for a review and that I hope to hear from them again soon. I figure it doesn't hurt to ask- how can I include that a tip would be appreciated? When I was dancing, I would say, 'gentlemen always tip,' and that would work 97% of the time. Since I'm chatting with men who need quickies or have a specific fetish, I feel like that statement doesn't work. Any suggestions?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-16-2022, 09:21 AM
After every phone call, I send a quick message asking for a review and that I hope to hear from them again soon. I figure it doesn't hurt to ask- how can I include that a tip would be appreciated? When I was dancing, I would say, 'gentlemen always tip,' and that would work 97% of the time. Since I'm chatting with men who need quickies or have a specific fetish, I feel like that statement doesn't work. Any suggestions?
I ask for tips during and after both phone calls and camshows. Whatecer you say make it sexy and somewhat informal. Try to avoid statements like:
Due to inflation and the nature of our session tips are appreciated.
They don't care to hear about that. Just before you think they're about to cum, say something like "Mmm this is fun and if you agree make sure you hook it up...spoil me with a tribute...tips make me wet!" etc. etc. Say something to that effect.
During the follow up email thank them for the show and repeat what you previously said. Sometimes they follow through and sometimes they don't.
ep2002
09-20-2022, 10:12 PM
After every phone call, I send a quick message asking for a review and that I hope to hear from them again soon. I figure it doesn't hurt to ask- how can I include that a tip would be appreciated? When I was dancing, I would say, 'gentlemen always tip,' and that would work 97% of the time. Since I'm chatting with men who need quickies or have a specific fetish, I feel like that statement doesn't work. Any suggestions?
I'm asking less & less for a review b/c I've lost some great guys b/c of that. SMH
I had no idea you gals ask for tips. WOW. LOL
PlayfulDesire
10-03-2022, 08:11 AM
I'm asking less & less for a review b/c I've lost some great guys b/c of that. SMH
I had no idea you gals ask for tips. WOW. LOL
I throw it in like a last minute. Usually not a tip usually just a review. But I end a call quick af because I hate those award ends . I hope you have a good day and leave a review if you liked it . and they can skip it and say okay bye and then its fresh in their mind, the call seemed not to go too long because I ended it.
Victoria_Gray
10-09-2022, 11:40 PM
I'm asking less & less for a review b/c I've lost some great guys b/c of that. SMH
I had no idea you gals ask for tips. WOW. LOL
Why do you think you lost the customers asking for a review?
LaurenAus
11-23-2022, 11:58 AM
just curious if anyone is on the site IWantPhone? Is it a decent side egg? Thank you
chocbbwdoll
11-23-2022, 02:37 PM
just curious if anyone is on the site IWantPhone? Is it a decent side egg? Thank you
yes I am on there. It's a decent side egg if you have the time to be available all day at first to build up clientele. Most of my callers find me via twitter and/or my audio clips for sale on iwantclips
SuperPookie
11-29-2022, 09:02 AM
just curious if anyone is on the site IWantPhone? Is it a decent side egg? Thank you
I have got like 3 sessions there in years and 2 of those were from the same guy for my cam listing.
avalon_rose
12-11-2022, 12:01 PM
Just saw this thread!! Wanted to pop in and say hi and find a favorite chair to camp out in. ;)
In response to the above conversation about asking for reviews and tips: I always send a message after a call thanking them, they blew my mind etc etc, and kindly ask them to leave a 5 star review. I find it to be very successful.
I don’t get a lot of tips but it’s nice to remind them that reviewing and tipping are options - cuz when they dick-in-hand there ain’t nothing else that exists in the world. ;D;D
LaurenAus
12-12-2022, 11:49 AM
I have got like 3 sessions there in years and 2 of those were from the same guy for my cam listing.
Wow that's not much at all :/
sweetcandy121
01-01-2023, 10:59 PM
Do you guys find that there are callers during the day? Right now I am essentially working three jobs, one of them being a phone line that I work on nights. During the day (PST), even though I do work, I basically have the whole day where I can take calls in between. I don't want to quit the night job because it is currently paying me way more than I ever made on my own, but might have to if the day is very slow and I won't make as much. Thanks in advance.
Bootsie
01-03-2023, 01:31 PM
Do you guys find that there are callers during the day? Right now I am essentially working three jobs, one of them being a phone line that I work on nights. During the day (PST), even though I do work, I basically have the whole day where I can take calls in between. I don't want to quit the night job because it is currently paying me way more than I ever made on my own, but might have to if the day is very slow and I won't make as much. Thanks in advance.
I do phone between Skype cam sessions, generally 10am-2pm Pacific time and do pretty well. It's almost all regulars, it took me a lot longer to get established in daytime hours than when I worked nights, and being super-consistent with being available during the day helps too.
Sweet_Sadie
01-03-2023, 08:11 PM
I do phone between Skype cam sessions, generally 10am-2pm Pacific time and do pretty well. It's almost all regulars, it took me a lot longer to get established in daytime hours than when I worked nights, and being super-consistent with being available during the day helps too.
I'm currently on PST too, so your reply helps. At least I hope so. I'm working a dispatch line. This is a great pocket of time for me to take calls before starting my vanilla gig.
Sweet_Sadie
01-03-2023, 08:13 PM
Also, I just don't like the night time guys! I like my day off from work/getting off night shift/pissing around the house type of guys. Once I serviced a Home Depot manager. Asked him if he wanted another round, he was like, "Nah, gotta go to work!"
So now we know what the Home Depot managers are up to, especially if they're in a good mood!
Percy
01-07-2023, 04:24 PM
Also, I just don't like the night time guys! I like my day off from work/getting off night shift/pissing around the house type of guys. Once I serviced a Home Depot manager. Asked him if he wanted another round, he was like, "Nah, gotta go to work!"
So now we know what the Home Depot managers are up to, especially if they're in a good mood!
I love the night time guys. Day time guys seem so rude to me. One thing I noticed is that being a cam model from 2010 until about 2016 off and on, but for about 2 years straight, and focusing on domme, made me a better PSO. Like, idk my hustle was already there, on point, I could tune into the men easily, figure out what they wanted. But we can't be rude like cam models, I used to just kick guys out of my room or tell them to "go fuck off" or idk, take my strapon and stick it up their ass and choke lol and we can't do that to idiots on the phone or we would probably lose our contract. So, that's the one thing I miss about camming is that while you are your own boss if you work dispatch, you kind of are not. Plus, I wish I could have my own line where I could party as in, several men could be on line with me a once, in party mode, but I don't use a site like that. I tried a site like that but that site sucked, imo. I like OLD men. OLDER the better, lonely ass old men will give me money and tips all day long.
I also like the drunk guys. They spend a lot too. Some guys on drugs will, like if they are doing poppers or meth. I mean, it's true. Get one on the phone that is so high they act like cornholio and are not even making sense, you can keep them on the line forever LOL.
I am a good actress just from the ex cam model stuff and PSO for years, plus IDK I was in drama class in high school, so I can act, I used to could cry on command as a kid. I would totally freak my family out by doing it and then laughing like, I'm not really sad, I can just make myself cry like crazy. So, I will switch up my "categories" go get new callers. Because I can do almost anything pretty well. Sometimes I get new callers that turn into regs, sometimes I don't seem to get any new callers. Always worth it to me when it's slow. I know my regs will call, and I have nothing to lose.
Percy
01-07-2023, 06:15 PM
I do phone between Skype cam sessions, generally 10am-2pm Pacific time and do pretty well. It's almost all regulars, it took me a lot longer to get established in daytime hours than when I worked nights, and being super-consistent with being available during the day helps too.
I switch it up to gain regs. So for a week I'll do only nights, then a week only days, then a week I'll do late late nights, then early evening into late night. I go back and forth like that just pulling in regs during all hours, over time, you can log in at ANY time, and find a stream of regs willing to keep the line ringing. Gives them time to "miss me" and replenish their wallets if they are a reg who likes to spend only on me. So a daytime guy may not have any cash for a week or two, that's ok, I'm back on my night time guys who have had time to get paid and spend on me. Sometimes I'll "surprise" log in during a weird hour and see what happens lol.
I DO spend more time on my "regular hours" which seem to be the most $$ for me. But, when it seems the regs are out of money, I start switching up, then log in an hour or two during my normal hours to let my regs know..well..hey she's still here and on and I see her.
SerenaDream
01-21-2023, 02:04 AM
Hello Everyone, is there a thread or site that offers job listings for pso?
sweetcandy121
01-21-2023, 09:27 AM
https://www.sexyjobs.com/