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temptingmodel
06-28-2013, 07:26 PM
^^ maybe 1% of my fans know who he is
scarlettbelle
06-28-2013, 07:40 PM
Random question... what music do you guys listen to on cam? Pandora screws up everything either the video or the music delays.
I have Spotify premium (no ads, and you can download playlists) and I really like it. I have a random playlist of pop/dance/upbeat whatever that I've made, and I just keep adding to it as I find new stuff that I like. I've never had anyone on SM comment on my music, so I don't think many customers care too much about the background noise. :) I just play whatever makes me feel happy and energetic!
bigbootyjudy1
06-28-2013, 08:16 PM
OMG!! My STREAMATE ACCOUNT GOT HACKED.ILL GIVE U GUYS THE DETAILS WHEN I GET OFF WORK.
You guys dont be a dumbass like me.I ussually splitcam with SM and MFC.Anyways the guys on MFC kept begging me to let them know what other site im working.so i sent them a link to my streamate model account screename.I guess i forgot i was logged on to my SM member account so i can check my placement.So i guess when i sent the MFC guys the link to my SM profile.Somehow ,someone on MFC hacked in my SM account and was buying shows.I guess since i was logged to my member account it kept me sign on when i sent them the link.
This is where it get scary for me.I was doing a goldshow in the middle of deepthroating the dildo i see my SM member account NAME just tipped to come in my GOLD SHOW.In my mind im like how the heck did this happened .I just continued with the goldshow not really thinking about it.
so i get out the goldshow.The screen name that i use for my SM member account asked me "Judy are you still selling videos".you guys, i almost shitted on myself because the screenname i choose is so unique noone else could of had it.I went into panic mode.I automatically shut off my computer. I didnt know what to do so i went back online to see if this really happened.so i went to go check my goldshow payment and it showed my SM member account screen name tipping for my gold show.
so automatically i started telling the people in my room that someone hacked into my account and what should i do.So this guy that was watching me from MFC came to watch me on SM and he said" remember Judy you sent us a link to your SM account ".I automically called SM support to tell them that my account has been hacked.
You guys u can not believe the horrible customer service i received from SM support.They were yelling at me.I guess some way ,some how they new i was a model and they yelled at me and said dont call this number again this for members only ,not models.I told them" i know but i also have a member account".They started giving me hell.to make a long story short after being yelled by customer support they finally close down my members account on SM ,before this person went on a show buying spree with my members account.
sorry if this is wordy,hopefully u guys understand what happened.if you dont just ask me and ill try to re-word it or some else that understand what happened can explain it for me.sorry english not my first language.
The reason i was so scared that i got hacked cuz the person had all my information and i was scared they were going to hacked my models accounts also.
Kit Teaser
06-28-2013, 08:27 PM
Random question... what music do you guys listen to on cam? Pandora screws up everything either the video or the music delays. I use Pandora on my phone. =) That way my computer doesn't lag.
SophieL
06-28-2013, 08:28 PM
IT IS FUCKING DEAD TODAY..seriously...I"ll try later again but this is pathetic...Or maybe I just smell bad? IDK...
Just got on for a bit... still dead... lol must be the heat..
SarahTime
06-28-2013, 08:36 PM
You guys dont be a dumbass like me.I ussually splitcam with SM and MFC.Anyways the guys on MFC kept begging me to let them know what other site im working.so i sent them a link to my streamate model account screename.I guess i forgot i was logged on to my SM member account so i can check my placement.So i guess when i sent the MFC guys the link to my SM profile.Somehow ,someone on MFC hacked in my SM account and was buying shows.I guess since i was logged to my member account it kept me sign on when i sent them the link.
This is where it get scary for me.I was doing a goldshow in the middle of deepthroating the dildo i see my SM member account NAME just tipped to come in my GOLD SHOW.In my mind im like how the heck did this happened .I just continued with the goldshow not really thinking about it.
so i get out the goldshow.The screen name that i use for my SM member account asked me "Judy are you still selling videos".you guys, i almost shitted on myself because the screenname i choose is so unique noone else could of had it.I went into panic mode.I automatically shut off my computer. I didnt know what to do so i went back online to see if this really happened.so i went to go check my goldshow payment and it showed my SM member account screen name tipping for my gold show.
so automatically i started telling the people in my room that someone hacked into my account and what should i do.So this guy that was watching me from MFC came to watch me on SM and he said" remember Judy you sent us a link to your SM account ".I automically called SM support to tell them that my account has been hacked.
You guys u can not believe the horrible customer service i received from SM support.They were yelling at me.I guess some way ,some how they new i was a model and they yelled at me and said dont call this number again this for members only ,not models.I told them" i know but i also have a member account".They started giving me hell.to make a long story short after being yelled by customer support they finally close down my members account on SM ,before this person went on a show buying spree with my members account.
sorry if this is wordy,hopefully u guys understand what happened.if you dont just ask me and ill try to re-word it or some else that understand what happened can explain it for me.sorry english not my first language.
The reason i was so scared that i got hacked cuz the person had all my information and i was scared they were going to hacked my models accounts also.
SOOOOO sorry that happened to you........
I think that Hayden posted a while back about this happening to her too.... where she was logged into her members account and when she sent a link to someone else it automatically logged that person into her members account as well!
It's not really that you were "hacked" but that the login "key" was part of the link and it's a glitch on SM's end. Your computer and your model account should be fine but I would change passwords just incase!
I thought they might have fixed it.... but I guess not....? Everyone be super careful if you are logged into your members account and decide to share a link with someone!
bigbootyjudy1
06-28-2013, 08:54 PM
@sarahtime,im just pissed they were spending money on my members account.But yea .its all fix now.Thank goodness.
JaneBurgess
06-28-2013, 09:06 PM
Super dead
Just got on for a bit... still dead... lol must be the heat..
Snowy0Star
06-28-2013, 09:08 PM
how much did he use tho? that goes right out of the card u have attached to ur account right?
HollyStJohn
06-28-2013, 09:39 PM
Is anyone else having issues with Streamate tonight??? It froze and then kicked me in the middle of a Gold Show and now I can't seem to log in at all on either Chrome of Firefox! Uuuuugh!! >___<
temptingmodel
06-28-2013, 09:39 PM
@BBJ Im so sorry , that has to be terrifying. :(
CS knows we have accounts an I think they link it with our IP. Sucks when we call in as members bc they dont take us seriously. I hope you dont get charged or charged back.
justanothercamgirl
06-28-2013, 09:45 PM
SORRY! but they dont care what you listen to.
My custies do. I get tipped on a regular basis just because of the music I am listening too.
justanothercamgirl
06-28-2013, 09:56 PM
You guys dont be a dumbass like me.I ussually splitcam with SM and MFC.Anyways the guys on MFC kept begging me to let them know what other site im working.so i sent them a link to my streamate model account screename.I guess i forgot i was logged on to my SM member account so i can check my placement.So i guess when i sent the MFC guys the link to my SM profile.Somehow ,someone on MFC hacked in my SM account and was buying shows.I guess since i was logged to my member account it kept me sign on when i sent them the link.
This is where it get scary for me.I was doing a goldshow in the middle of deepthroating the dildo i see my SM member account NAME just tipped to come in my GOLD SHOW.In my mind im like how the heck did this happened .I just continued with the goldshow not really thinking about it.
so i get out the goldshow.The screen name that i use for my SM member account asked me "Judy are you still selling videos".you guys, i almost shitted on myself because the screenname i choose is so unique noone else could of had it.I went into panic mode.I automatically shut off my computer. I didnt know what to do so i went back online to see if this really happened.so i went to go check my goldshow payment and it showed my SM member account screen name tipping for my gold show.
so automatically i started telling the people in my room that someone hacked into my account and what should i do.So this guy that was watching me from MFC came to watch me on SM and he said" remember Judy you sent us a link to your SM account ".I automically called SM support to tell them that my account has been hacked.
You guys u can not believe the horrible customer service i received from SM support.They were yelling at me.I guess some way ,some how they new i was a model and they yelled at me and said dont call this number again this for members only ,not models.I told them" i know but i also have a member account".They started giving me hell.to make a long story short after being yelled by customer support they finally close down my members account on SM ,before this person went on a show buying spree with my members account.
sorry if this is wordy,hopefully u guys understand what happened.if you dont just ask me and ill try to re-word it or some else that understand what happened can explain it for me.sorry english not my first language.
The reason i was so scared that i got hacked cuz the person had all my information and i was scared they were going to hacked my models accounts also.
What a nightmare! You have all my sympathy.
As SarahTime has already said, the reason this happened is a glitch on SM's end. SM has known about it for AT LEAST half a year now and has done nothing about it.
Talk about adding insult to injury....they yell and get angry at you for something that is 100% their fault. :/
JaneBurgess
06-28-2013, 10:09 PM
I would have reminded them they have a damn job because of you and all the cam performers that work their ass off on the site. Without us they would have to shut down. We need to start a cam performer union since cam sites don't seem to take us seriously.
You guys dont be a dumbass like me.I ussually splitcam with SM and MFC.Anyways the guys on MFC kept begging me to let them know what other site im working.so i sent them a link to my streamate model account screename.I guess i forgot i was logged on to my SM member account so i can check my placement.So i guess when i sent the MFC guys the link to my SM profile.Somehow ,someone on MFC hacked in my SM account and was buying shows.I guess since i was logged to my member account it kept me sign on when i sent them the link.
This is where it get scary for me.I was doing a goldshow in the middle of deepthroating the dildo i see my SM member account NAME just tipped to come in my GOLD SHOW.In my mind im like how the heck did this happened .I just continued with the goldshow not really thinking about it.
so i get out the goldshow.The screen name that i use for my SM member account asked me "Judy are you still selling videos".you guys, i almost shitted on myself because the screenname i choose is so unique noone else could of had it.I went into panic mode.I automatically shut off my computer. I didnt know what to do so i went back online to see if this really happened.so i went to go check my goldshow payment and it showed my SM member account screen name tipping for my gold show.
so automatically i started telling the people in my room that someone hacked into my account and what should i do.So this guy that was watching me from MFC came to watch me on SM and he said" remember Judy you sent us a link to your SM account ".I automically called SM support to tell them that my account has been hacked.
You guys u can not believe the horrible customer service i received from SM support.They were yelling at me.I guess some way ,some how they new i was a model and they yelled at me and said dont call this number again this for members only ,not models.I told them" i know but i also have a member account".They started giving me hell.to make a long story short after being yelled by customer support they finally close down my members account on SM ,before this person went on a show buying spree with my members account.
sorry if this is wordy,hopefully u guys understand what happened.if you dont just ask me and ill try to re-word it or some else that understand what happened can explain it for me.sorry english not my first language.
The reason i was so scared that i got hacked cuz the person had all my information and i was scared they were going to hacked my models accounts also.
temptingmodel
06-28-2013, 11:35 PM
My custies do. I get tipped on a regular basis just because of the music I am listening too.
I have had them request music but no , I like what I listen to. I will think about it but get really annoyed trying to find what they want.
temptingmodel
06-28-2013, 11:38 PM
I would have reminded them they have a damn job because of you and all the cam performers that work their ass off on the site. Without us they would have to shut down. We need to start a cam performer union since cam sites don't seem to take us seriously.
unfortunately we are expendable to them. There is always another girl that can replace us, fresh faces all the time. They hunt for fresh meat , so to speak.
2nd Union as indy contractors? Im sure they would def throw that in our face. "you receive a 1099"
justanothercamgirl
06-29-2013, 12:02 AM
I have had them request music but no , I like what I listen to. I will think about it but get really annoyed trying to find what they want.
Oh, I never play what THEY want. Only what I want.
I just have super odd taste in music. :)
JaneBurgess
06-29-2013, 12:07 AM
True but they are replaceable as well. Lots of cam sites out there that appreciate quality performers. The fresh meat isn't working out well for them it seems. Their top performers have cammed for years, losing them would hurt.
unfortunately we are expendable to them. There is always another girl that can replace us, fresh faces all the time. They hunt for fresh meat , so to speak.
2nd Union as indy contractors? Im sure they would def throw that in our face. "you receive a 1099"
lifetravelergirl
06-29-2013, 04:33 AM
I still haven't learned how to tell when a customer is in exclusive or private or when a customer is in a block session. :smiley_dr
~Carmen~
06-29-2013, 04:42 AM
Judy, that happened to me once too like Hayden. I don't remember exactly what happened but I do remember ending up at a performer's page with her personal info. I immediately got out of there. It was freaky! I'm really sorry that happened to you.
Snowy0Star
06-29-2013, 04:59 AM
I still haven't learned how to tell when a customer is in exclusive or private or when a customer is in a block session. :smiley_dr
exclusives and privates have the same ding and notification symbol to get in them u have to click a button and accept it. i read kinda slow so i can never read it all if its exclusive theyre just gonna take u but guys are normally polite and ask for blocks if its ok cuz u know u might have to leave in like 10 min or something i dunno... lol personally i dunno why they do ask or why anyone would turn down money but it helps me know what im accepting cuz like i said i cant read it fast enuf lol when i do read it i can normally see it long enuf to know if its a block or an exclusive but they can take u into exclusive block too. you have a few seconds to accept it or not and the notifications are kinda wordy .blocks have premium and exclusive too with the same rules about one on one or letting ppl walk in
justanothercamgirl
06-29-2013, 06:39 AM
I still haven't learned how to tell when a customer is in exclusive or private or when a customer is in a block session. :smiley_dr
That is why I have block sessions currently disabled. I've put in my profile that they are by appointment only because I have got stung a few times because the messages look so similar.
justanothercamgirl
06-29-2013, 06:46 AM
So, what do you all think? Is it just summer slow down happening at Streamate or are secondary factors going on as well?
Snowy0Star
06-29-2013, 06:48 AM
Does anyone know if the 4th of july falling on a Thursday this year is going to effect our payoneer loads on july 5th?
Marina Starr
06-29-2013, 06:48 AM
I honestly think its not JUST summer. I feel there are other factors as to why it's been slower than ideal lately.
So, what do you all think? Is it just summer slow down happening at Streamate or are secondary factors going on as well?
Marina Starr
06-29-2013, 06:49 AM
I think you will!
Does anyone know if the 4th of july falling on a Thursday this year is going to effect our payoneer loads on july 5th?
VictoriaChaos
06-29-2013, 06:50 AM
I am just all over these forums today.
So yesterday some guy comes in and asks if I have baby powder. (I assumed he wanted me to put the bottle in my vagina or something like that)
Being the new camgirl I am, I wasn't prepared for that nor was I thinking of doing baby powder shows anyways because it's super messy.
Being the broke ass bitch that I am, I told him I did, took five seconds left, got the bottle and returned. I showed it to him and asked what he wanted me to do with it.
He said, he wanted me to 'make powder clouds with it because it turns me on'. He said I could stayed clothes the entire time, he just wanted me to pour it onto the bed in a pile and beat my heads with it so it would form clouds. As fake as a fetish as this sounded to me, I didn't really have to do anything to bad. So I do it, he logs off satisfied I can only assume. So I have this huge mess to clean up, it's all in my laptop, all over everything. I didn't expect it so cover every surface of the room.
So my boyfriend is just pulling up when I come out of my cam room, covered in white powder. I'm black so it looks ridiculous. He starts talking to me but doesn't look up at me for a few moments. He looks up from the fridge and his face is priceless. I'm in my bra and panties, whore make-up and covered in white powder. He's just staring at me in disbelief and I quickly explain to him what I did. He now calls me powder girl...
justanothercamgirl
06-29-2013, 08:19 AM
So since it seems that this week has decided to make things as hard as possible on me when it comes to me being able to work on Streamate for some reason my encoder is not recognizing my audio even though my computer says that the mic on my c920 is working perfectly.
I have already reloaded my logitech drivers three time; reinstalled and repaired my adobe encoder and system restored my computer back to yesterday when everything was working.
The encoder is still not recogizing it and I am now at a loss. Has anyone encountered this problem with the encoder before?
laurielegs
06-29-2013, 08:31 AM
exclusives and privates have the same ding and notification symbol to get in them u have to click a button and accept it. i read kinda slow so i can never read it all if its exclusive theyre just gonna take u but guys are normally polite and ask for blocks if its ok cuz u know u might have to leave in like 10 min or something i dunno... lol personally i dunno why they do ask or why anyone would turn down money but it helps me know what im accepting cuz like i said i cant read it fast enuf lol when i do read it i can normally see it long enuf to know if its a block or an exclusive but they can take u into exclusive block too.
I do have to turn down money sometimes because I have to go to an appointment or pick up my kid or any number of things. I wish it were more obvious that it's a block because there are some times I can't accept one, especially a longer one.
I am torn on whether to leave block sesssions up or not. I guess one thing that bugs me about it is that this is a luxury and I feel it really devalues our services to do discounts like we were walmart or something. With that said though, its so damn slow I can completely understand why hosts would offer discounts.
laurielegs
06-29-2013, 08:34 AM
Does anyone know if the 4th of july falling on a Thursday this year is going to effect our payoneer loads on july 5th?
I've noticed with Payoneer they usually go ahead and load on time even when there are holidays.
If you get a bank deposit through them though it will be delayed of course cause the banks are closed.
DoodlebugBites
06-29-2013, 08:35 AM
So yesterday some guy comes in and asks if I have baby powder.
Victoria, I had him too! I was new-ish at the time and eager to please, LOL. Honestly, he didn't explain it to me very well so I just kept pouring powder onto a pillow I had while trying to suss out his directions.
By the time I started beating it to make the "clouds" I think the whole bottle was in there! Powder errrrywhere and I had to log out for 20 mins to clean up. It bothered my allergies for a few days, too, no matter how much I vacuumed. That made me decide that my fetish-friendliness has a limit.
My pillow still smells like baby powder to this day! o_0
laurielegs
06-29-2013, 08:39 AM
So, what do you all think? Is it just summer slow down happening at Streamate or are secondary factors going on as well?
I honestly think its not JUST summer. I feel there are other factors as to why it's been slower than ideal lately.
So do I.
Seems to me there are just too many of us having issues. I think it may be the switch to wide screen and issues related to that. It could not have come at a worse time for me either, ugh!
I'm splitcamming and running a ton of sites (thankful that I have a pretty powerful computer and a fast connection to use) but with the issues and combined with overall summertime slowdown on all sites I use it's just not enough.
I'm doing a marathon this weekend hoping I can get caught up on bills.
VictoriaChaos
06-29-2013, 08:44 AM
Victoria, I had him too! I was new-ish at the time and eager to please, LOL. Honestly, he didn't explain it to me very well so I just kept pouring powder onto a pillow I had while trying to suss out his directions.
By the time I started beating it to make the "clouds" I think the whole bottle was in there! Powder errrrywhere and I had to log out for 20 mins to clean up. It bothered my allergies for a few days, too, no matter how much I vacuumed. That made me decide that my fetish-friendliness has a limit.
My pillow still smells like baby powder to this day! o_0
SAME HERE. The whole bottle, practically empty.
And at least twenty minutes of clean up, but I took the rest of the hour off. That one blew my mind.
I was like shit, I'm glad I had him go exclusive because I just lost a lot of business.
There were guys waiting for me to return but I needed some time after that one.
Gonna have to come up with some rules regarding baby powder shows, that was just ridiculous.
I also didn't realize that stuff leaks through blankets.
I don't know why I thought it wouldn't but now that I'm thinking about it, I don't know how I could have been so dumb.
Rose_Who
06-29-2013, 09:37 AM
I feel like crying. Nothing but insults and people taking me private to only clear out my room. Jeez I've always looked mature for my age, should I just say older?
Hey, I've seen that asshole. Pulled something similar in my room, saying that since I was "too fat to be hot but not fat enough to be a bbw" I shouldn't be charging 6.99 a minute because "nobody" would pay that for me. I just quoted JAC at him, and banned his sorry ass.
my value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see my worth.
Snowy0Star
06-29-2013, 09:47 AM
SAME HERE. The whole bottle, practically empty.
And at least twenty minutes of clean up, but I took the rest of the hour off. That one blew my mind.
I was like shit, I'm glad I had him go exclusive because I just lost a lot of business.
There were guys waiting for me to return but I needed some time after that one.
Gonna have to come up with some rules regarding baby powder shows, that was just ridiculous.
I also didn't realize that stuff leaks through blankets.
I don't know why I thought it wouldn't but now that I'm thinking about it, I don't know how I could have been so dumb.
u live and learn and move on =^y^=
SoloDesire
06-29-2013, 09:51 AM
Victoria, I had him too! I was new-ish at the time and eager to please, LOL. Honestly, he didn't explain it to me very well so I just kept pouring powder onto a pillow I had while trying to suss out his directions.
By the time I started beating it to make the "clouds" I think the whole bottle was in there! Powder errrrywhere and I had to log out for 20 mins to clean up. It bothered my allergies for a few days, too, no matter how much I vacuumed. That made me decide that my fetish-friendliness has a limit.
My pillow still smells like baby powder to this day! o_0
I've had that guy before too lol. Only I DIDN'T do it! I wasn't really willing to make that much of a mess in my bedroom lol.
Glamourmilf
06-29-2013, 09:54 AM
I had the 'Baby Powder Guy' also when I first started out.
since he didn't turn his cam on, I just fiqured he was one of many who was taping me, and using the footage for his own use, or to sell overseas.
When a custie takes me exclusive, and gets all "Scorcese" on me,~ you know," turn like this, do this, now a little to the left, up, down, say this, say that LOUDLY", etc., ... i just assume i'm being filmed, and my only recourse is to s-l-o-w-l-y read outloud what he's typed, and act like a clueless bimbo, to waste time.
i hate those exclusives. they always creep me out.
Nina_Den
06-29-2013, 11:18 AM
I feel like crying. Nothing but insults and people taking me private to only clear out my room. Jeez I've always looked mature for my age, should I just say older?
Wow. I thought the constant logging on followed by an almost instant logging off happened only to me (I mean, in free chat). It got on my nerves so much that I simply decided to disable the notification letting me know when members log on and off.
Also... I planned to raise my exclusive rate to $6.99 (rather than $5.99) starting from tomorrow, but I'm pretty sure I'm gonna chicken out. It almost feels like it's an invitation for the assholes to attack. Don't think I'd be able to go with it. :(
justanothercamgirl
06-29-2013, 11:57 AM
Also... I planned to raise my exclusive rate to $6.99 (rather than $5.99) starting from tomorrow, but I'm pretty sure I'm gonna chicken out. It almost feels like it's an invitation for the assholes to attack. Don't think I'd be able to go with it. :(
Just remember, you are the Queen of your room and you always have the power of banhammer to protect you from douchebags.
When it comes to your mental health, don't worry about money lost. Never justify yourself, silent ban, fake a smile and then move on...
Some days it will be harder then others to do but you don't have to do it 100% perfectly. You just have to pick yourself up more times then you fall down.
JaneBurgess
06-29-2013, 01:07 PM
I think there are secondary factors. I wish it was just summer.
So, what do you all think? Is it just summer slow down happening at Streamate or are secondary factors going on as well?
JaneBurgess
06-29-2013, 01:14 PM
Hun he's just a cheap asshole that needs a life. This week tons of people on there were being dicks and talking smack. I guess because they are broke bitches they think a cam site is the perfect place to play asswipe at. I know it hurts to be called names but try and remember the source. His ass isn't worth one tear or stress.
I feel like crying. Nothing but insults and people taking me private to only clear out my room. Jeez I've always looked mature for my age, should I just say older?
Marina Starr
06-29-2013, 01:23 PM
I have what JAC said as my siggy because I love it so much!
Hey, I've seen that asshole. Pulled something similar in my room, saying that since I was "too fat to be hot but not fat enough to be a bbw" I shouldn't be charging 6.99 a minute because "nobody" would pay that for me. I just quoted JAC at him, and banned his sorry ass.
nikki187
06-29-2013, 01:53 PM
I am just all over these forums today.
So yesterday some guy comes in and asks if I have baby powder. (I assumed he wanted me to put the bottle in my vagina or something like that)
Being the new camgirl I am, I wasn't prepared for that nor was I thinking of doing baby powder shows anyways because it's super messy.
Being the broke ass bitch that I am, I told him I did, took five seconds left, got the bottle and returned. I showed it to him and asked what he wanted me to do with it.
He said, he wanted me to 'make powder clouds with it because it turns me on'. He said I could stayed clothes the entire time, he just wanted me to pour it onto the bed in a pile and beat my heads with it so it would form clouds. As fake as a fetish as this sounded to me, I didn't really have to do anything to bad. So I do it, he logs off satisfied I can only assume. So I have this huge mess to clean up, it's all in my laptop, all over everything. I didn't expect it so cover every surface of the room.
So my boyfriend is just pulling up when I come out of my cam room, covered in white powder. I'm black so it looks ridiculous. He starts talking to me but doesn't look up at me for a few moments. He looks up from the fridge and his face is priceless. I'm in my bra and panties, whore make-up and covered in white powder. He's just staring at me in disbelief and I quickly explain to him what I did. He now calls me powder girl...
I had that guy too lol. I will never make the mistake of doing that again. Too much of a mess that took so long to clean up.
Rose_Who
06-29-2013, 02:37 PM
I have what JAC said as my siggy because I love it so much!
Your siggy is how I found the original text again. :)
Marina Starr
06-29-2013, 02:40 PM
http://i184.photobucket.com/albums/x311/melaniamai/tumblr_lxvcln1qdC1r48qyao1_500_zpsd84b82f1.gif (http://s184.photobucket.com/user/melaniamai/media/tumblr_lxvcln1qdC1r48qyao1_500_zpsd84b82f1.gif.htm l)
Your siggy is how I found the original text again. :)
VictoriaChaos
06-29-2013, 02:54 PM
So I just did a private with a guy who looked like my high school science teacher.
It was fucking weird. . .
Very cuute though and paid me to talk to him, can't get better than that!
Nina_Den
06-29-2013, 03:45 PM
^ It reminds me of the fact that I really, really like that first moment when doing C2C and seeing the custie's cam is actually directed at his face rather than his genitals. I honestly don't even care how they look like nor how old they are when that happens; it immediately puts a smile on my face, that they feel comfortable enough (even though many times they look very embarrassed) "exposing" themselves to me, too.
Plus, once it gets that personal, it's a great time-filler, always gets a conversation going before everything else.
Also, I don't know why, but when you mentioned the guy looked like your high school science teacher I imagined Walt from Breaking Bad. LOL.
SweetJulia
06-29-2013, 03:47 PM
Why didn't anyone tell me it's NBA finals??? Seriously.... that has to be it!
SM has been pretty normal tonight actually..... and NBA finals end tonight, been going on all week!!!
I *knew* there was a reason I decided to wait til tomorrow when I'm tan and skinny-as opposed to puffy and pale, like I am now :(
Prussia
06-29-2013, 03:50 PM
I feel like crying. Nothing but insults and people taking me private to only clear out my room. Jeez I've always looked mature for my age, should I just say older?
Fuck that asswipe! When I read this I thought to myself, "I bet he loves getting off putting people down." Then I read Rose_Who's comment. If you let him get you upset he wins. That's what he wants. These types of trolls desperately love tearing others down to make themselves feel better about their lame lives. Anything they think you will consider a "flaw" & feel vulnerable over they will try to put you down over it.
I get this about certain things about me.. Best thing you can do is turn the situation around on them; call them out on it and laugh it off, and then tell them you are more than happy to ban hammer their sorry loser ass so they are no longer subjected to your ____. If you give them the opposite reaction of what they are looking for it will drive them mental! :)
lifetravelergirl
06-29-2013, 04:03 PM
exclusives and privates have the same ding and notification symbol to get in them u have to click a button and accept it. i read kinda slow so i can never read it all if its exclusive theyre just gonna take u but guys are normally polite and ask for blocks if its ok cuz u know u might have to leave in like 10 min or something i dunno... lol personally i dunno why they do ask or why anyone would turn down money but it helps me know what im accepting cuz like i said i cant read it fast enuf lol when i do read it i can normally see it long enuf to know if its a block or an exclusive but they can take u into exclusive block too. you have a few seconds to accept it or not and the notifications are kinda wordy .blocks have premium and exclusive too with the same rules about one on one or letting ppl walk in
Thank you Snowy0Star,
I think maybe privates, you don't have to click on anything? Maybe exclusives you do have to click on something? I click as fast as I can instead of reading because I am like, "OMG, gotta click before they change their mind." It is part of what I think of as my camgirl tunnel vision. I guess maybe I just don't read the fine print because I am too busy clicking O_o ? But I know one of them, you don't have to click "ok" because there was this guy who would always take me private, or exclusive... or maybe it was a block, when I finished a gold show, because he liked to know I would be completely naked as soon as he jumped into my room. Really I don't know for certain if it was exclusive or a block or a private O_o but I know I didn't have to click anything for him to start and I had one like that last night except it wasn't right after a show, he just had me in private, or exclusive or a block (or something) without me clicking "ok". Maybe I need to refer to the SM FAQs?
I am going to pay attention to the ding and look for a notification symbol.